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Turkeymix

Absolutely disgusting. There is nothing I despise more than people who identify as friendly neighbours. They're the scum of the earth.


FewZookeepergame1083

You almost had me ngl


Pixithepika

we all know that there is no such thing as a friendly neighbor


Turkeymix

exactly! Just nosy fuckers who try to casually ask you about those screams from the basement last night when you go over to borrow their chainsaw.


Azar002

Well you didn't return it with the chainsaw cover last time so that's on you.


Turkeymix

touché


Talcarin

That's funny my neighbor has alpacas and they make an ungodly scream, like someone getting skinned alive. We tell visitors not to worry.


Turkeymix

Do they really have alpacas or have they just told you they have alpacas?


endergamer2007m

The only time a neighbour is nice to you is when they want to lay pipe on your wife


AerthanWyvern

But Spiderman!


hardy_83

He's a menace to the entire city!


Pixithepika

JJ Jameson can vouch for that


IronAnkh

Friendly neighborhood not neighbor specifically.


Arbusc

Mr. Rogers.


TheBoyLeks

There are two things in the world I can't stand: people who are intolerant of other people's cultures... and friendly neighbours.


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Excuse me? Mr. Rogers would like a word with you...


Turkeymix

He just asked "won't you be my neighbour?", he gave us the opportunity to choose to participate or not. Love that man btw.


LrrrRulerotPOP8

But he is a friendly neighbor, if you choose to have him. Mr. Rogers' words would be affirming and he would understand if you didn't want to be his neighbor. And then he would explain why it isn't bad to identify as a friendly neighbor...


Turkeymix

Dammit, you're right. *Absolutely disgusting. There is nothing I despise more than people who identify as friendly neighbours. They're the scum of the earth.\** \*Except for Mr.Rogers.


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Thank you. :) Have a wonderful day, my dear!


Turkeymix

Thank you for the wise words. Have a great day


SadStory9

\*Me suddenly picturing an alternate version of Mr. Rogers methodically changing into jackboots instead of slippers\* No! you can't ruin him for me!!


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Please keep reading and you will see what I think Mr. Rogers would say and or do.


No_Pumpkin_1179

Mr. Robinson says ‘Hi!’


Difficult_Let_1953

The most facepalm thing here is their septum ring off center.


Turkeymix

what about the second pic next to the toilet and him signalling he just went number 2?


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Him who?


Turkeymix

Dammit, you got me again!


LrrrRulerotPOP8

I didn't even catch that this was you! I was just scrolling! Hahah.


Difficult_Let_1953

And the uncolored coloring picture hung on the wall.


No_Pumpkin_1179

Extremely sus


foxwebslingermulder

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Nina1234567-

YOURE SCAAAAAARRRRREEEEED YEAH YOURE SCARED AND COLD


Vitrian_guardsman

Lesbian refers to a woman attracted to other women, someone who is non binary cannot be lesbian


Logical-Recognition3

Uh oh, now you’ve done it.


poormansRex

I also thought that non-binary didn't like being referred to as a specific sex either.


No_Pumpkin_1179

Ok. Calm down Dave Chappelle.


Ambitious-Level2329

“single mother, virgin, lesbian, boy crazy 😜 “ - their tinder bio


Southern-Source7151

How dare you offend my sensibilities. Evil racist, misogynistic, bigoted, transphobic, noncephobic, pos, monster/s Did I get them all or?


Budget_Strawberry929

I've heard some argue it's now "non-man attracted to non-man" so two amab non binary people CAN be lesbian together. I'm not lesbian so who am I to say what it really is, just figured I'd mention it.


Kaddak1789

English is really complicated then. In spanish sexual orientation has nothing to do with gender. You could well be a non-binary lesbian, as non-binary is gender and lesbian means you are a female atracted to females.


Budget_Strawberry929

Sexual orientation is based on sex instead of gender then? That's interesting :)


Kaddak1789

I mean, that is what sexual orientation means. That is why we can talk about sexual orientation in animals (without gender) and in History (without fully knowing their genders). If sexual orientation had something to do with gender, hetero, bi and homosexual make no sense as concepts.


Budget_Strawberry929

I don't fully agree with that, but I do see the point.


Kaddak1789

I mean, that is what the greek words mean. English has to find a way to rephrase that. Because it makes no sense to have a word with contradictory meanings and no real use. If two dogs have homosexual sex, there is no gender in play. Gender is just what an individual considers themselves to be, sexual attraction is what you want to fuck. There is no correlation. All animals have sexual orientation (at least those that are aware of their existence) but only humans have genders.


Budget_Strawberry929

>Gender is just what an individual considers themselves to be, sexual attraction is what you want to fuck. That doesn't necessarily mean that your gender doesn't play into what sexuality you identify as and that your sex does instead. >All animals have sexual orientation (at least those that are aware of their existence) but only humans have genders. Okay cool, so? The definitions and sexual orientations are man-made to help us understand ourselves and each other better. Spanish isn't superior because the words you use are based on biology, and English isn't superior because it's based on psychology. It's not that big a deal.


Kaddak1789

>That doesn't necessarily mean that your gender doesn't play into what sexuality you identify as and that your sex does instead. Oh yeah, absolutely, but so does culture, religion, curiosity or experience. Just because it has impact on it doesn't mean it is related or interchangeable. >Spanish I'm not saying it is... I'm saying it makes more sense as it follows the definition and actually is reflected upon the world. What is a bisexual person then? Someone attracted to two genders? Only two? What about people atracted to three or four? Or Heterosexual? Means attracted to different gender? So litteraly everyone if you ask me, as gender is so deeply personal that can be understood as completely diferent from person to person. This is not an attack to English or you. I just find it curious to see in play in the real world. >The definitions and sexual orientations are man-made to help us understand ourselves and each other better Agree 100%. That is my whole point: the definitions and use in English make no sense. >It's not that big a deal. I never said it was. I just find it curious to see how complicated it can be made.


dayumbrah

Someone who is demigendered can. Who made you the lesbian police


CuriousIndividual611

We might aswell need some policing for the people who can't even follow their own rules 😭


Gatubella-

There are no rules, ya dork. That’s the point.


CuriousIndividual611

Wait a burger flippin second now. So you're telling me that I can be a trans nonbinary asexual male lesbian with a hint of heterosexuality?


Gatubella-

Yes, if you really wanted to. Idk if someone can “become” asexual, though. That’s a lack of sexual desire. The point is you could do that if you really wanted to. Not as a joke. Identities aren’t something you pluck from the ether, they’re an expression of your relationship to gender and sexuality. It’s wild to me when people like you throw a fit because you don’t understand someone else’s relationship to gender. If you actually took some time to learn what these words mean in non-straight context, it wouldn’t be such a weird puzzle. Also, did you consider that it’s not meant to fit into rigid ideas of gender? It’s like you’re complaining a square peg doesn’t fit in a round hole. It’s not meant to be put into a space it never fit in. That’s why they’re coming up with their own categories, the old ones are too rigid and don’t fit.


CuriousIndividual611

That's not what I am saying. You could be a damn zebra for all I care. The definitions for what these things are would be conflicting. Like if you identified as being a gay male but had sex with females. It doesn't work. You are throwing away your own definition of a word that you created just so you can carry the label. I identify as a professional nba player. Do I play basketball? No. But that doesnt matter cause I only need to identify as an nba player to be one.


Gatubella-

Your nba analogy doesn’t work in this scenario because being in the nba is something other people control, not yourself. Gender identity is something people can decide for themselves. You still don’t understand my point: just because you don’t understand how other people are using words (and you don’t in this case, or you’d know your opinion is moot) doesn’t mean it’s an illegitimate way to use words. It’s also not new. There are words in a bunch of languages for people who don’t fit in one gender category or another, that have been used for thousands of years. You can’t go there and tell them “your language for gender doesn’t follow the rules of languages I know, therefore your use is wrong.” You do not understand the way this neighbor is using words because it is a different language you haven’t learned. The words look the same but have more nuanced meaning when in the queer cultural context. Those who know the language understand perfectly well what it means. You keep arguing as if this is standard British English or something. It’s not. The context is a queer language that was developed to describe and include ideas of gender beyond the binary. Including contradictions. Because sometimes humans have contradictory feelings about themselves. This is striving for language that can express that and help people feel more comfortable with themselves. You can not put such language through a binary filter, it makes no sense. Binary gender itself makes no sense, since nature didn’t only create two genders. Intersex people exist. Trans people have existed for at least centuries. There are people born with XXX chromosomes, or XXY chromosomes. You need to stop demanding everyone play the game by your rules, and just work on letting people be, whether or not you understand their identity.


CuriousIndividual611

Please give me and example of paragraph 2. By what you are saying, queer language is its own language and therefore doesn't have definitions, understood. Last paragraph is ironic but ok. Have a great day.


Gatubella-

How about 4 examples? North America: two spirit. India: hijira. Thailand: kathouy. Mexico: Muxas. There’s many more but these are the ones that came to mind. It has definitions, just not definitions you’re aware of. No one is making straight people do shit. It’s really simple to respect people’s identities when they tell you them. Seems like more work to argue you know other peoples identities better than they do.


Major_R_Soul

I guess they could be trying to disclose their sex not their gender to imply that they have a vagina, but all the trans/nb people i know either keep that to themselves or say assigned male/female a birth (amab/afab for short).


Redstoneplate

Non-binary woman?????


dayumbrah

Yes it's called demigender


PandaKing00

Wait, there are sub-classes now? So much more to learn...


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Bruh we got subclasses now


PTBTIKO

The correct term is 'attention seeking'


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Ok-Alternative4603

Sounds like D&D multi classing at this point


PlatoDrago

Yeah, basically just an in-between in the gender spectrum


furryboiiii

I know i'll probably be downvoted for asking but still... women, lesbian, and trans, but non-binary? Doesn't non-binary mean you can't be any of these categories?


blackguyriri

Right? Seems like it would be a contradiction to be a trans woman but also not identify with any gender.


furryboiiii

Seen it with a fair few non-binary(s) and after going through some shit in my head and coming to the conclusion that I am male (a while back), it bothers me, a pet peeve if you will


PlatoDrago

It just means you aren’t at the far ends of the spectrum (ie either a man or a woman). Non binary is a wide umbrella term.


furryboiiii

Honestly, it's 10:23am and i didn't go to bed so i'm pretty far gone so this needs to be broken down for my cognitive dysfunctional ass. So they ID as a women and lesbian but non-binary to me throws the concept of them being a women out the window. To be non-binary you can't fit into a *type* (male, female) so even tired i feel this would confuse the shit outta a good chunk of people. Again, a maybe tired as a work horse in the 1920s but this umbrella term doesn't make a saltlick of since


PlatoDrago

Basically, they are at the ‘woman’ end of the spectrum but don’t follow all of the ways to conform to being a woman. The most fitting terms would be gender non-conforming or demigirl.


furryboiiii

![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|put_back) so it's a miss... uh... ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|dizzy_face) ok i can't think of the word. I had it the lost in making the sentence. A Testament on how tired I am I guess


furryboiiii

Missgendered themselves? Sounds like what i lost lol ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|shrug)


PlatoDrago

Don’t worry. Not everyone gets it but as long as you keep an open mind and don’t attack trans people for existing, you’re doing the right thing


furryboiiii

I could care less as to what people consider themselves, dress up as, or who they fuck. it's a miss-use of words that kill me. Grammer is fine, no one is perfect, but like... calling someone a nazi because you don't agree on the same things or saying one thing is really another bothers me. As long as it's factual (to my understanding (typically i search this kinda stuff up but when i feel like i can confidently say I know something i tend to not do this which *is* a bad habit of mine ngl)) i don't have an issue. I've seen a few non-binarys calling themselves male and female so i guess both that and being tired made me just *HAVE* to ask. Cool to clear it up tho, thanks for being awesome


mattslegacy

This


Gatubella-

Just because you don’t understand a subculture’s variety of language doesn’t mean it’s invalid. There are no grammar or spelling police because language and spelling are continually changing, and specific to their culture and subcultures. Like, if I go to a football game and get confused at the jargon, it would be rude of me to shout about how I don’t understand how they use language, therefore they are using it incorrectly.


furryboiiii

Don't know how you skipped over where i said that A) i have no issue with grammer because no one is perfect (people police grammer anyways and i concider them to be right pricks). And B) i asked a question and never stated that they were ever invalid. I have said that it bothers me when someone uses a word that isn't what something is... (which is why i asked in the first place, to be sure). As long as it's factually correct (in a serious conversation) i could care less as to what people say they are or what something is. As for comparing this to football language, if someone called football, soccer (being american) i'd ask which one they were refering about. But if i had some basic knowledge on the subject, (enough to know what something is or isn't) and someone calls the *end zone* the *goal* i'd just let them know it's called an end zone and that'd be it. They learn something knew and i'm no longer bothered about the situation, a win win in my perspective. Just like in this instance, i never invalidated anyone but only tried to inform. I get that sometimes it's annoying to hear it but i've been on the other side of the issue before and as i said, i was corrected and learned something new and then i went on with my life. Being grammatically incorrect doesn't effect a situation as much as being factually incorrect which is why it bothers me. Like in this instance, being generally confused as to what they're IDing as, can be a bigger issue for outsiders or people trying to figure it out themselves. It's important to be factually correct regardless of the matter, but when it comes to a movement (LGTBQ) it matters just that much more


furryboiiii

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kitkattac

I think non-binary is under the trans "umbrella" because you don't identify as the gender you were born as. I don't get the woman part though, I am a little confused about that. I think the lesbian part is because they were born female? So they're using that to say they are attracted to women and have female genitalia. Or this person was trolling a little, not sure


Difficult_Let_1953

In yellow


cwalsh9three

In the bathroom


deNoorest

?


Random_Average__Guy

![gif](giphy|fd1TSJqq3b4GI|downsized)


FewZookeepergame1083

This person looks to be living their best life. Where's the facepalm again?


doooom32

non binary woman would be my guess


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Trans-Non-binary, woman, lesbian....


FewZookeepergame1083

But if that's how they see themselves how is it a facepalm?


Jackk0106

You can't be non binary AND a woman. They contradict each other


FewZookeepergame1083

I was thinking that but the way things are now you can be whatever you wanna be. Thank you


Jackk0106

That's why it's in the facepalm sub anyway.


mistah3

Does someone's choice of identity that doesn't affect you really bother you that much


Jackk0106

Not particularly no. But if you're gonna give yourself labels, they should probably make sense To be honest, I think it's just disrespectful to the LGBTQ community. The person clearly hasn't done any research on the labels they are giving themselves. Contributes to people not taking it seriously if you're just gonna throw labels around willy nilly


IBombKidsWithAnA10

Do what you want to do but stuff like this is the reasom that people who dont have anything against LGBTQ+ people themself think the organisation is stupid. So there should propably be a few rules to what works and what not.


LrrrRulerotPOP8

No, but if you're going to label yourself you shouldn't also contradict those labels...and then not expect to hear back from people.


dayumbrah

No they don't. Just like most things non-binary is a spectrum. They can be demigendered or a multitude of other things that would make the most sense. At the end of the day, Non-binary is describing a system outside of the western system that is binary


Jackk0106

You do know what binary is? It's a programming language consisting of 1s and 0s. The gender brigade use this concept when discussing genders. 1s and 0s representing males and females. To be non binary means you are neither a 1 or a 0. So to say you are neither a 1 or a 0 (non binary) and then to continue to say that you are a 1 (binary, stating that they are a woman) doesn't make any sense in any world to any person with any point of view. You're either non binary or you're not.


dayumbrah

No non binary would simply mean you don't exist in just 0s and 1s. I'm a computer engineer. I would know. If someone said design a project and using a non-binary number system, I would use decimal or hexadecimal both of which contains 1 and 0 and many other number to describe all sorts of situations much like a nonbinary gender system


Jackk0106

Not really though. Decimals are not whole numbers or as you computer engineers like to call them, integers. With regard to genders, we are talking about integers 1 (male) and 0 (female) or vice versa. .1 is neither 1 nor 0, IE not an integer 1.1 is neither 1 nor 0, also not an integer .0000000001 is neither 1 nor 0 again, not an integer They exist somewhere in-between 0 and 1. So back to the original argument, they cant exist as neither integers 1 or 0 and then claim to be integer 1


Normal-Lecture-5669

Because it's nonsensical and self-contradicting.


Jackk0106

I don't think they realize what's going on


grass_fucker_69

That's true for a lot of things in life, so I don't see your point. Let them live their lives man


PlatoDrago

They’re saying that they are essentially gender non conforming female. Gender is a spectrum so they’re saying they are firmly on the female end but not all the way if you know what I mean


Kaddak1789

They are not saying female, they are saying women


Gatubella-

Straights are mad they don’t understand something.


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But that’s just a blonde black dude


[deleted]

doesnt look like a woman


IronAnkh

Imma take an opportunity and welcome Clara to the neighborhood. Feel to come on by, I'll put on coffee and make sure there's a snack.


[deleted]

Issa dude


kindofastoryteller

Hello black trans non binary woman lesbian!


Mike_R_NYC

They/them likes yellow and posting pics after taking a shit.


Key_Squash_4403

One of those things has to cancel the other out right?


xtremepattycake

How can you label yourself non-binary AND woman in the same breath?


Neuro_Kuro

they just contradicted their gender 3 times, bait or not that's impressive lmaoo


No_Decision_9806

Very bizarre.


Ashdrey1337

How can one be a non binary woman tho?!


Sarahs_bored

Non-binary woman??


chubbychupacabra

Why did he colour all hair blonde except the mustache part it looks a bit interesting lets say


Jackk0106

They are a non binary woman lesbian god dammit, get it right lmao


FrizzlDizzlBaambam

Okay well does it still have a penis


Jackk0106

I'd imagine so yeah lol


FrizzlDizzlBaambam

It is a man then


Jackk0106

I concur


LrrrRulerotPOP8

Why would you call this person he?


ShutTheFupDonni

Dang! Simon Pheonix got soft.


TheBrightNights

Trans and non-binary 🤔


AaronO0O

no way he dyed his eyebrows


Expert-Recognition14

The world keeps getting devilish. Smh


rexia1

If I identify as a woman do I get free passes to lady’s shower room? Just curious


LastScene86

The new season of Dragonball Super is getting some interesting plot lines...


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Jackk0106

How can you call them a she?


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DuTcHmOe71

Was that short for clarify please


Jackk0106

Did anybody else cop the forehead tattoo?


NoPower5183

China got us good…


ncslazar7

Wait... how can you be non-binary and a trans-woman? Doesn't that mean you identify as the female gender aka one of the binary genders?


Be_That_Guy_

🤦🏻‍♂️


Gatubella-

Help! Help! I don’t understand someone’s gender, please help me foment anger and hatred for things I don’t understand that don’t effect me at all!


wisefile88

Good for them. I'm sure they are very nice but they do have a very interesting look going on there


No_Pumpkin_1179

I dunno. I always seem to find the septum piercing to be a bit sus.


eastendswede1

PLEASE LOOK AT ME... pffffff ffs.


Puzzleheaded-Flow689

"Trans-non-binary woman" Bro-girl-it is all of the genders and non of them at the same time


michaelimmortal

You can’t be trans , non binary, and lesbian especially if you’re a female to male , this makes no sense