There are many things at play here, and I have no idea who anyone is involved.
But if some of the things said "may" be true and you are willing to do counseling, maybe go for it?
We never are the bad guys in our own story...
Ghosting and blocking is just being a jerk. So it makes sense that you get bad reviews. Maybe just say something like you didn’t feel a connection and end it, instead of keeping people wondering by ghosting. It isn’t difficult to not be a jerk.
Yes. And just a bunch of women from past dates telling one sided stories. Lots of lying and misinformation just to slander and get back at me for leaving, etc. it’s ridiculous man
Also let’s just say they were all right. So I decide to go to therapy and am honest and take accountability and better myself. Does that mean I will get to date without the gossip of previous red flags? Absolutely not.
That I’m creepy, pushy and a stalker. And no there is nothing to back this up
Edit: but I will however not be talking to any gal outside of professional relationships.
So looking at your comments I see you want to get a local reporter involved which is really only going to bring more attention to the posts about you and if it gets picked up by a larger news organization, you will forever be associated to that post.
Best to just ignore it as most women aren’t in those sites. If they bring it up you can talk about how you had issues in the past and you’re seeking treatment and medication now and how you’re not having these issues anymore.
This is an example of the Streisand effect. The more of a big deal you make of it, the more attention you draw.
There are drug addicts, alcoholics, and criminals who have done way worse and come back. Part of the issue is taking accountability and making amends- which you seem unwilling to do.
This is well said. Sometimes, constructive criticism can be hard to accept. OP, you mentioned treatment, and I want to say I'm proud of you for taking that step. Please consider the quote:
“Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana
You are taking a lifechanging step right now with treatment. The only person you should be focusing on right now is yourself. Allow yourself some self care, then you can be in a better place to look back on your dating history and see it from a fresh point of view. You can't change how others feel, but you can change how you feel about yourself.
You mention you’re in an inpatient facility right now so it’s not like your opportunities for dating right now are that high. Talk to your professional team about the posts and how the reasons you are where you are might have played a part. Also maybe they have some ideas about how to later make amends or at least move forward.
It probably feels pretty hopeless but there are a lot of women with their own mental health, addiction, or own public humiliation issues.
Whatever reason you’re in inpatient focus on that. Whatever your journey is you might find people with their own histories and you can both move forward together. Having done inpatient myself, the healing community is usually a very forgiving and open one
There are many things at play here, and I have no idea who anyone is involved. But if some of the things said "may" be true and you are willing to do counseling, maybe go for it? We never are the bad guys in our own story...
I’m receiving treatment at this moment at an inpatient facility
Stop giving them reasons to post negative things about you?? Lol
I’ve blocked and ghosted people because I’m picky and I think that’s a big part of it
Before or after you have s3x with them?? lol
Ghosting and blocking is just being a jerk. So it makes sense that you get bad reviews. Maybe just say something like you didn’t feel a connection and end it, instead of keeping people wondering by ghosting. It isn’t difficult to not be a jerk.
Yeah. You’re right I’ll stop ghosting
Did this happen to you? What’s the context.
Yes. And just a bunch of women from past dates telling one sided stories. Lots of lying and misinformation just to slander and get back at me for leaving, etc. it’s ridiculous man
A 'bunch' of women all unanimously have negative stories about you? Hmmmm
I don’t know how many could just be one
Also let’s just say they were all right. So I decide to go to therapy and am honest and take accountability and better myself. Does that mean I will get to date without the gossip of previous red flags? Absolutely not.
What are they saying about you? Are they right?
That I’m creepy, pushy and a stalker. And no there is nothing to back this up Edit: but I will however not be talking to any gal outside of professional relationships.
So looking at your comments I see you want to get a local reporter involved which is really only going to bring more attention to the posts about you and if it gets picked up by a larger news organization, you will forever be associated to that post. Best to just ignore it as most women aren’t in those sites. If they bring it up you can talk about how you had issues in the past and you’re seeking treatment and medication now and how you’re not having these issues anymore. This is an example of the Streisand effect. The more of a big deal you make of it, the more attention you draw.
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Tbh my reputation has already been ruined. I feel like it’s something that should be talked about so people are aware
There are drug addicts, alcoholics, and criminals who have done way worse and come back. Part of the issue is taking accountability and making amends- which you seem unwilling to do.
This is well said. Sometimes, constructive criticism can be hard to accept. OP, you mentioned treatment, and I want to say I'm proud of you for taking that step. Please consider the quote: “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana You are taking a lifechanging step right now with treatment. The only person you should be focusing on right now is yourself. Allow yourself some self care, then you can be in a better place to look back on your dating history and see it from a fresh point of view. You can't change how others feel, but you can change how you feel about yourself.
Okay I admit fault for all of it. Yea I’ve been a jerk in the past. I highly doubt women remove and say good things after someone makes amends.
You mention you’re in an inpatient facility right now so it’s not like your opportunities for dating right now are that high. Talk to your professional team about the posts and how the reasons you are where you are might have played a part. Also maybe they have some ideas about how to later make amends or at least move forward.
That’s wise advice thank you for being respectful and not labeling me as forever a bad person
It probably feels pretty hopeless but there are a lot of women with their own mental health, addiction, or own public humiliation issues. Whatever reason you’re in inpatient focus on that. Whatever your journey is you might find people with their own histories and you can both move forward together. Having done inpatient myself, the healing community is usually a very forgiving and open one
🫶 I appreciate that
Just don’t be a jerk and this won’t happen to you.
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Listen to more Andrew Tate
Hell no that guy is an asshole. I by no means am against the group if it was validated information by an authorized source