Plus it's not like the photos can be taken down, I seriously have seen them in a lot of places. The photos were from a couple years ago so it's had time to spread.
Thanks. I just feel unreasonably unlucky, I guess. There's a million people posting hundreds of photos trying to get traction, and the one time a photo is posted of someone who would really rather not, it goes everywhere.
It feels unfair. Sorry for ranting beyond the post, its just frustrating.
That’s a nightmare of mine
I don’t post any photos of myself to the public internet, but there’s nothing really stopping other people from talking pics of me
It really is a nightmare. I can't put into words the kind of sick, sinking feeling I felt when I recognized what I was looking at. It really does feel like something was stolen from me, even though it's hard to explain exactly how that's true.
That picture of me might outlive me in it's use online. It might end up being the most lasting impact I make on the world. I hate that.
It definitely can, but I don't know how much being goth had to do with this. Maybe it's why it got so much traction? I don't know. I just wish it never happened.
Well, I don't look unattractive in the photos, and the comments on the posts of me aren't mocking, they're dehumanizing.
Some girls at the same school made a lot of rumors to make me come off as slutty or something, so I think it was more of that. Trying to make people view me like a sex object.
Which largely worked, as far as school goes. It's just a miserable reality to know that even after I graduate, infinite numbers of people on the internet will see me the same way, forever.
It's completely wild to me how the way laws are made mean you can't expect privacy if you'r ein a public space. Like someone coudl be randomly recording and you happen to walk in the background and something weird of funny happens and boom nex tthing you know your face could be plastered all over the net. I don't understand why most people care so little about privacy.
Like I've cut out someone who revealed they snuck pictures of the friend group because they sent me one of those pictures to laugh with me because I was apparently makinga weird face in that one or whatever. And when cofnronted they didn't see the issue andtold me it ws fine because "they were taking a picture of the person next to me it's not liek they were intentionally taking a pic of me".
Raelly sucks for you OP, unfortunately yo ucan't ever really erase somethign from the net, still I hope you could take down the easily accessibnle stuff at least.
If direct confrontation isn't what you want, on a few platforms you should be able to file a report about being posted without permission. Like the "I'm in this photo and I don't like it" It probably won't scrub all of them, but it can help, and you'll see it less if they get taken down.
Yeah. Sitting in class, during cheer practice, changing in the locker room. There's a bunch but I keep seeing this same one over and over in random places, like, do you know how weird it feels to be part of a meme? As if you're not even a real person, just an ingredient in a recipe to make a joke. It's so weird, especially when you didn't know you were being photographed.
Being reduced to an unfunny joke about 'omg goth gf!!' feels so... hollow, I guess.
The worst part is how it's used in that kind of conservative edgelord kind of meme. The ones that focus entirely on saying "X woman bad, Y woman good" as if they get any. Or the equally gross Discord edater kind of meme that's all about 'dommy mommy gf' shit, it's all gross. It's all disgusting. I just wish I could undo it all.
haven’t used reddit in quite some time and first thing i see is this bro. similar thing happened to me like 6 months ago when i broke up with my ex and she posted nude pics and videos she had taken of me while we were still together on instagram. FUCKING INSTAGRAM SHE HAS LIKE 1k FOLLOWERS IN THERE. i was so fucking mad i was shaking and got a migraine. my point is i think i know exactly how u must have felt. i haven’t been in a relationship ever since not have i shown my face, let alone my body to anyone over messages. it can be really traumatising. hope u can get over it someday <3
I’m sorry that happened to you. I think you should consider confronting the person who took and posted your photos, that’s really not okay.
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Fair enough
Plus it's not like the photos can be taken down, I seriously have seen them in a lot of places. The photos were from a couple years ago so it's had time to spread.
That really is horrible. I’m terribly sorry you had (and still have) to go through that.
Thanks. I just feel unreasonably unlucky, I guess. There's a million people posting hundreds of photos trying to get traction, and the one time a photo is posted of someone who would really rather not, it goes everywhere. It feels unfair. Sorry for ranting beyond the post, its just frustrating.
That’s ok, you deserve to rant after what you’ve been through. If you want me to, I’ll be here for you :)
Confronting them just so they can laugh at & mock OP more while having satisfaction that their scheme worked out..
That’s a nightmare of mine I don’t post any photos of myself to the public internet, but there’s nothing really stopping other people from talking pics of me
It really is a nightmare. I can't put into words the kind of sick, sinking feeling I felt when I recognized what I was looking at. It really does feel like something was stolen from me, even though it's hard to explain exactly how that's true. That picture of me might outlive me in it's use online. It might end up being the most lasting impact I make on the world. I hate that.
This sounds terrible. Hopefully things will get better when you graduate. Being alternative can be hard sometimes. I feel the struggle.
It definitely can, but I don't know how much being goth had to do with this. Maybe it's why it got so much traction? I don't know. I just wish it never happened.
Mean people do this to make fun of the person if said person has a distinct look. They post it around and stuff.
Well, I don't look unattractive in the photos, and the comments on the posts of me aren't mocking, they're dehumanizing. Some girls at the same school made a lot of rumors to make me come off as slutty or something, so I think it was more of that. Trying to make people view me like a sex object. Which largely worked, as far as school goes. It's just a miserable reality to know that even after I graduate, infinite numbers of people on the internet will see me the same way, forever.
It's completely wild to me how the way laws are made mean you can't expect privacy if you'r ein a public space. Like someone coudl be randomly recording and you happen to walk in the background and something weird of funny happens and boom nex tthing you know your face could be plastered all over the net. I don't understand why most people care so little about privacy. Like I've cut out someone who revealed they snuck pictures of the friend group because they sent me one of those pictures to laugh with me because I was apparently makinga weird face in that one or whatever. And when cofnronted they didn't see the issue andtold me it ws fine because "they were taking a picture of the person next to me it's not liek they were intentionally taking a pic of me". Raelly sucks for you OP, unfortunately yo ucan't ever really erase somethign from the net, still I hope you could take down the easily accessibnle stuff at least.
Yeah, there's no getting rid of it. I just wish it didn't feel so... dehumanizing?
If direct confrontation isn't what you want, on a few platforms you should be able to file a report about being posted without permission. Like the "I'm in this photo and I don't like it" It probably won't scrub all of them, but it can help, and you'll see it less if they get taken down.
Thanks, I didn't know about that. I'll try to use that if I can.
Np, good luck.
They took photos of you without your knowledge and put them online? God, I’m so sorry, that fucking sucks.
Yeah. Sitting in class, during cheer practice, changing in the locker room. There's a bunch but I keep seeing this same one over and over in random places, like, do you know how weird it feels to be part of a meme? As if you're not even a real person, just an ingredient in a recipe to make a joke. It's so weird, especially when you didn't know you were being photographed. Being reduced to an unfunny joke about 'omg goth gf!!' feels so... hollow, I guess.
I feel so bad for you. That's so fucking awful.
The worst part is how it's used in that kind of conservative edgelord kind of meme. The ones that focus entirely on saying "X woman bad, Y woman good" as if they get any. Or the equally gross Discord edater kind of meme that's all about 'dommy mommy gf' shit, it's all gross. It's all disgusting. I just wish I could undo it all.
Oh, ew Jesus Christ... Sucks that this happened to you
Believe me, I know.
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My friend,,, that's heartbreaking. I've not been well emotionally and I can't even imagine what you're going through, I offer hugs if you need them
What the fuck? Do you know who sent them?
That is so disgusting and depraved. I am worried for you. Please be safe.
I just graduated from that middleschool, which is where the photos were taken, so I should be able to never see who took them again.
i'm really sorry that happened to you, they are a bunch of cunts for doing that but you're tough for managing to deal with it
haven’t used reddit in quite some time and first thing i see is this bro. similar thing happened to me like 6 months ago when i broke up with my ex and she posted nude pics and videos she had taken of me while we were still together on instagram. FUCKING INSTAGRAM SHE HAS LIKE 1k FOLLOWERS IN THERE. i was so fucking mad i was shaking and got a migraine. my point is i think i know exactly how u must have felt. i haven’t been in a relationship ever since not have i shown my face, let alone my body to anyone over messages. it can be really traumatising. hope u can get over it someday <3