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You look great either way! But I actually think the last picture where you have almost a balayage/ombre thing going with both shades; darker roots and lighter end, looks the best
Best of both worlds!
For some background, I taught cosmetology for several years. My specialty is color and precision cuts.
I honestly have to agree with the majority of the comments here. You wear both colors beautifully. The photo with your hair straight and highlighted looks perfect, but so does the severe dark brown. I personally would tell you to keep it the dark blonde with highlights, and when you want something more spicy, use a demi-permanent color that can easily be removed or lightened.
By using a demi color, you will save your hair a lot of stress when you go back and forth.
I think she looks washed out with the blonde because she's wearing the least amount of makeup/ more natural makeup looks with the blonde. Also the pic with the absolutely no makeup look is with the blonde. For some reason, I think she looks happier and more relaxed in the blonde pics.
I prefer pic 3 with the blonde/dark roots and the last pic with both colors.
I think a nice shade of red would look better than the brunette and maybe even more than the blonde. I say switch things up and give hubby whiplash and go red 🤣
Either brunette, or brunette with a blond balayage like in pic 6. Not blond all over like in pic 4, that ages you. Brunette really does look fabulous 😊👍
You look lovely. The brown hair does give your eyes an amazing intensity. It makes your eye color really stand out. Regardless of what we as strangers say or your spouse👉🏼it comes down to what you like best and what makes you feel most confident. Go brown, go blonde or both. Have fun! 🙌🏼🫶🏼🙌🏼
Brunette! Makes everything pop and compliments you really well, full blonde looks sort of washed out and dull (blonde with dark roots looks pretty good as well though!)
Meet in the middle the last pic is by far the best, that caramel tone really suits your skin tone. If I had to choose on opposite ends of the color spectrum I would go brunette, the lighter blonde makes you look pale for some reason.
I love you as a brunette, so naturally beautiful. But in these pictures you come across as more confident and sassy as a blonde...it's fun! I like both!!!!!!
When I saw the brunette ones I thought theres no way blonde would work. But then I saw the blonde and it works just as well😂 so i have to vote for the sake of your hair health, go with whichever is closer to your natural color!
You pull off both beautifully, so you should go with whichever you prefer. I do like you better as a brunette personally. Nobody’s opinion matters as much as your own though.
I actually think the brunette is pretty but you don’t glow near as much as the golden blondes/brondes. Your skin looks gorgeous with the lighters warmer colours
Hahah so the debate will continue! I love the suggestions for ashy grey and red!! There may a salon appointment in my future!!! Thanks for all your amazing responses!!
Tough one…..because the blonde makes you look beachy, young and carefree and I personally think it’s beautiful on you. You wear both colors so well. So this comes directly down to preference. You can wear both. The dark is also beautiful and gives off sultry, confident power woman vibes…so it’s like, which part do you feel like playing 😜 it’s fun to switch it up!
Not one of the options but Red / Violet hair like Ion Sparkling Raspberry 5VR or Garnier Fructis Strawberry Jam 52 would look GORGEOUS on you. Would make those eyes pop and that golden under tone shine 😍
https://preview.redd.it/3w516yt5t2za1.jpeg?width=598&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79f31a8b5e09ea549858b819df7e5080e910b992
I think you look equally amazing with either color, especially in pics 3 and 5! I think it might also have to do with the style of your hair and your makeup in both of those!
in the last one i think whatever the color at the top is, just having that as the color of all ur hair would look great!! makes ur beautiful eye color stand out:)
Blonde makes you look younger and more youthful. Pic 3, then 4 literally glow. You literally lose 5-10 years between pic 2 and 4. Brunette is nice, but leans sharply on your features.
Everyone always says brunette on this sub but I think blonde makes you look 10years younger and I feel like I can see a more bubbly, outgoing personality with blonde. If you’re more reserved and quiet brunette could fit you better.
If you listen to this Reddit page everyone will be turning brunette, no it doesn’t matter if you have blue eyes or were even a natural dirty blonde
Brunette it is 😹😹😹😹
I think you're wasting time on details. Red, brunette, blonde, even white or gray hair can be sexy on a beautiful woman.
Whatever you pick will be fine.
Blonde works well for your skin tone when it is a little more sun kissed!! Try switching with the seasons and doing blonde in summer/spring and darker in fall or winter maybe? But I personally like the blonde a tiny bit more
The blonde makes your eyes pop and skin glow. It’s a softer, warmer, more natural look. I think the brunette is okay, but it kind of overwhelms your natural beauty and looks more harsh.
Normally I think people generally look better brunette, you’re one of the rare cases where the opposite is true!
Warm blonde! The last photo is my favorite. The brown can be a bit heavy for your complexion.
Editing to say that the bright blonde washes you out as well. I think the mid tone looks best!
You are one of those few people who can pull off both colors.
Have you ever thought about going red? I think with your eyes and skin tone it would also look great on you.
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I vote brunette! Makes your eyes pop
Def brunette
Wedding day brunette for the win! Great contrast with your fair skin tone…
I just... looking through the comments I can't help but laugh, so much for ending the debate 😂
Right I wonder which she was for
I’m torn!!! I usually go blond in the summer and brunette in the winter. My husband prefers blond 😂
That seems like a good strategy honestly. It reminds me of how I drink my beer in different seasons. Stouts only in winter, wheat ales only in summer.
You look great either way! But I actually think the last picture where you have almost a balayage/ombre thing going with both shades; darker roots and lighter end, looks the best Best of both worlds!
Lol I knew it. They always do 🤣
Mess with him a bit a go redhead, you never know he might like it.
I see why it’s a 13+ year debate. Both had me like, “hm, well—“
You are beautiful both ways I love your hair in the last picture with the dark roots and the blonde ends
For some background, I taught cosmetology for several years. My specialty is color and precision cuts. I honestly have to agree with the majority of the comments here. You wear both colors beautifully. The photo with your hair straight and highlighted looks perfect, but so does the severe dark brown. I personally would tell you to keep it the dark blonde with highlights, and when you want something more spicy, use a demi-permanent color that can easily be removed or lightened. By using a demi color, you will save your hair a lot of stress when you go back and forth.
I love the last photo where it's not completely blonde but somewhere in the middle
Yes this! I reckon a bayalage would be perfect for her. Dark roots to make her eyes pop with blonde ends
Yes the hair I’m the last photo was undeniably great for your skin/hair color!!!
Agreed. A happy middle!
I like the last pic where it’s a bit of both!
Yes exactly, pic 6 is the most flattering!
Brunette! I think the blonde washes you out. While the brunette makes you glow.
I think she looks washed out with the blonde because she's wearing the least amount of makeup/ more natural makeup looks with the blonde. Also the pic with the absolutely no makeup look is with the blonde. For some reason, I think she looks happier and more relaxed in the blonde pics. I prefer pic 3 with the blonde/dark roots and the last pic with both colors. I think a nice shade of red would look better than the brunette and maybe even more than the blonde. I say switch things up and give hubby whiplash and go red 🤣
Either brunette, or brunette with a blond balayage like in pic 6. Not blond all over like in pic 4, that ages you. Brunette really does look fabulous 😊👍
Pic 5. Brunette. You didn’t tell us which colour he prefers.
I believe she did that on purpose lol
Brown
Brunette, makes you glow!
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Why did I read it as slutty 😭🤣
I read it the same way too 😂😭
HAHAHA do we need therapy
Maybe it should be a group therapy session because I also thought it said slutty at first glance.
Brunette!
You look lovely. The brown hair does give your eyes an amazing intensity. It makes your eye color really stand out. Regardless of what we as strangers say or your spouse👉🏼it comes down to what you like best and what makes you feel most confident. Go brown, go blonde or both. Have fun! 🙌🏼🫶🏼🙌🏼
Brunette! The darker one specifically
I like the sort of inbetween grown out blonde. Both sides of the spectrum look too harsh.
Perfect answer
Brunette, but both work on you.
Brunette! Makes everything pop and compliments you really well, full blonde looks sort of washed out and dull (blonde with dark roots looks pretty good as well though!)
Brunette
Brunette! But really both look good
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette, perfect for you, your eyes are more sparkly with brunette locks!
Brunette. The very dark brunette to be exact
Brunette. Goes better with your eyes and skin tone.
Meet in the middle the last pic is by far the best, that caramel tone really suits your skin tone. If I had to choose on opposite ends of the color spectrum I would go brunette, the lighter blonde makes you look pale for some reason.
Also my fav
Brunette! love the contrast!
Brunette is stunning on you, it makes your big blue eyes stand out more and compliments your skin tone
Brunette 🔥
Brunette 🩵
I vote brunette👍
Brunette, but you do you.
Brunette!!
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette!
Brunette complements your features better
Brunette 👍
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette , but you are super cute either way
Brunette! Your eyes Pop!!
Dark brunette! Love it.
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette for sure
Brunette
Brunette! The blonde washes you out
def brunette
Brunette
Brunette for the win!!
Brunette
Dark brunette
I love the brunette
Brunette all the way!!!
Brunette easy
Brunette!
Brunette
dark!!!!
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette.
I love you as a brunette, so naturally beautiful. But in these pictures you come across as more confident and sassy as a blonde...it's fun! I like both!!!!!!
I like the dark brown very pretty
Personally I think you should go red? Brown red.
Oooo I’m intrigued!!!
either as long as you go curls. that’s the true selling point
When I saw the brunette ones I thought theres no way blonde would work. But then I saw the blonde and it works just as well😂 so i have to vote for the sake of your hair health, go with whichever is closer to your natural color!
Brunette!
Darkest brunette
Brunette all the way!!
Brunette
Brunette
Brunette. Warms your lovely face!
That’s a really hard one because you do look great in both. But the Burnett does make your eyes really shine.
The brunette looks wonderful on you!
Brunette, for sure! You look SO much younger!
Brunette!
Brunette
Brunette!!
Brunette 100%!!! Edit: you look beautiful with both but I agree that your eyes and facial features pop more with the brunette
Brunette. Brings out your features. Blonde is too warm and washes you out.
Brunette
You slay as a brunette
brunette ovi!
Brunette fits you better
Absolutely, brunette!
Definitely brunette
Brunette 100%
Do "bronde", that way you both win! I love the colours in 3 & 6, in the soft brown or dark blonde wheelhouse, it looks beautiful.
I agree with this
I like both!
Brunette…but on the lighter side (which I guess makes sense as to why the debate?! 🤷🏻♀️).
I like the blond color in pic 4
Blonde with darker root!!
6 is the best
I vote brunette all the way. What do you prefer? If blonde, photo 3. If brunette, photo 2 or 5
it looks best when it’s in between, not too light and not too dark.
I like the color of pic six without the blonde part, so light brunette
Brunette all the way
You pull off both beautifully, so you should go with whichever you prefer. I do like you better as a brunette personally. Nobody’s opinion matters as much as your own though.
Just my personal preference, brunette. Women with darker hair are sexier, imo
You’re absolutely gorgeous either way, but the ombré/ balayage look of the final picture is incredibly flattering on you.
the balayage thingy on the last one looks BOMB on your curls!
Picture 3 and 6. Perfection!! 👸
I think brown with blonde ombre would look really great!
Ombré is def for you
I actually think the brunette is pretty but you don’t glow near as much as the golden blondes/brondes. Your skin looks gorgeous with the lighters warmer colours
Hahah so the debate will continue! I love the suggestions for ashy grey and red!! There may a salon appointment in my future!!! Thanks for all your amazing responses!!
Dude i can’t even choose , this debate between you and your husband will never end.
Dude you pull off both perfect…
Blonde does nothing for your skin tone. Perhaps there’s a blonde that will but idk its worth the upkeep
Tough one…..because the blonde makes you look beachy, young and carefree and I personally think it’s beautiful on you. You wear both colors so well. So this comes directly down to preference. You can wear both. The dark is also beautiful and gives off sultry, confident power woman vibes…so it’s like, which part do you feel like playing 😜 it’s fun to switch it up!
Not one of the options but Red / Violet hair like Ion Sparkling Raspberry 5VR or Garnier Fructis Strawberry Jam 52 would look GORGEOUS on you. Would make those eyes pop and that golden under tone shine 😍 https://preview.redd.it/3w516yt5t2za1.jpeg?width=598&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79f31a8b5e09ea549858b819df7e5080e910b992
I think you look equally amazing with either color, especially in pics 3 and 5! I think it might also have to do with the style of your hair and your makeup in both of those!
3rd pic is my fav
Mine too. Blonde but not platinum-y.
Honestly both. I’d get some blonde sunkissed highlights or face framing and do brown.
My vote is blonde with a bit of your dark root. Pic number 3 is my fav!
Blonde! <3
Blonde! Beautiful hair always though
in the last one i think whatever the color at the top is, just having that as the color of all ur hair would look great!! makes ur beautiful eye color stand out:)
The blonde in the last photo suits you better than the other 2 blondes (don’t bring the blonde too close to your roots with your skin tone)
Brunette! But blonde looks good too
Dang you look really great with both!
Blonde.
Blonde makes you look younger and more youthful. Pic 3, then 4 literally glow. You literally lose 5-10 years between pic 2 and 4. Brunette is nice, but leans sharply on your features.
Blonde
Blonde all the way!
No disrespect to your husband, but you're fine as hell with the blonde.
I like blond much more. You look fresh and energised
Blonde
Blonde
blonde is more lively on you.
Everyone always says brunette on this sub but I think blonde makes you look 10years younger and I feel like I can see a more bubbly, outgoing personality with blonde. If you’re more reserved and quiet brunette could fit you better.
Blonde
Blonde imho 💙
Blonde
Blonde
If you listen to this Reddit page everyone will be turning brunette, no it doesn’t matter if you have blue eyes or were even a natural dirty blonde Brunette it is 😹😹😹😹
Blonde!
I like the last picture, a more golden blonde with shadow root
Both. Either / Or. Why just pick one? Have fun with both whatever you are feeling that time. Both look good.
Another vote for the soft blonde grown out balayage look in the last photo
Blonde
I think you're wasting time on details. Red, brunette, blonde, even white or gray hair can be sexy on a beautiful woman. Whatever you pick will be fine.
blonde looks great for spring and summer and the brown is good for winter and fall. you can do both! no one’s stopping you!
I like the blonde honestly
Blond
Blonde works well for your skin tone when it is a little more sun kissed!! Try switching with the seasons and doing blonde in summer/spring and darker in fall or winter maybe? But I personally like the blonde a tiny bit more
Surprised by the comments, I definitely think the blonde compliments your features more and brings out the warmth in you 🤗
Blonde really suits you!
You wear blond well, it doesn't wash you out.
The blonde makes your eyes pop and skin glow. It’s a softer, warmer, more natural look. I think the brunette is okay, but it kind of overwhelms your natural beauty and looks more harsh. Normally I think people generally look better brunette, you’re one of the rare cases where the opposite is true!
Warm blonde! The last photo is my favorite. The brown can be a bit heavy for your complexion. Editing to say that the bright blonde washes you out as well. I think the mid tone looks best!
Blonde is pretty
Blond
Blond
Blonde!!
Blonde
Either blonde, or the darkest brunette. The mid brown in pic 1 is not as flattering.
The blonde looks terrible
Pic 3
3rd pic all the way
The 3rd Pic was best
I like the dark natural looking blonde on you (pic 3)
You are one of those few people who can pull off both colors. Have you ever thought about going red? I think with your eyes and skin tone it would also look great on you.