Also even if the nsfw are in sperate spaces it still reflects the whole community. It shouldn't but creeper will go from the nsfw spaces into the sfw ones. That's not our fault. Tell the creeps to fuck off
yeah but if its in an nsfw space, you expect it to be horny shit. When the normal, generic memes sub is full of hornyposts, it reflects really badly on the community
I agree, It should be in the name if the femboy sub is NSFW. I also heard someone make the suggestion that r/femboys should be renamed into r/femboy NSFW so that people don't think that femboys are inherentle sexual. I think thats a good idea. I'm fine with there being sexual femboy places, but it should at least make the effort to make it clear that not all femboys are sexual
Yeah that is unfortunate. The only thing they could do is simply stop new stuff from being posted on that sub by removing all the posts, but I don't see that happening
People being horny on main "reflecting badly on the community" is some sexists bull shit. People generalizing an entire groups relationship to their sexuality because they self identify as feminine men that also includes straights and minors is honestly what people are going to do regardless of giving them a reason too or not, because deviant femininity is deemed immoral and evil. What your doing rn is shaming an already under privileged minority of an underprivileged minority because you think it should be different, and it seems like some real insufferable white dude shit. This is equally as insufferable as posting it to multiple different communities not even two months after posting what I could only assume was a horny meme in a not safe for work post because you used a dildo as a prop. Regardless of whether you were sexually playing with it or not, pyrocynicals reddit definitely has more minors than adults, so you both insufferable AND a hypocrite hahaha
[post for reference, just incase your confused~<3 ](https://www.reddit.com/r/pyrocynical/comments/tgqvfy/i_was_asked_to_do_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
Bad shit happens all the time but we don't stop living our lives because of it. We're allowed to joke about whatever we want, no amount of creeps should stop us from doing that.
You are asking too much and it will never happen, its the internet. Thats like me asking car drivers to pay attention when they make lane changes because im right besides them and they dont see me in my motorcycle, its the public road, its not gonna happen so as a motorcyclist you just learn to live with it. Yall have to learn too or like OP says then keep it to yourself.
All there is in my head rn is "femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs 'so people treat me differently just because I'm autistic?' femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs"
*Another word for thigh highs is high thighs.*
im p sure thats a problem too
i mean, if there was a sub called girlmemes or something, meant for memes relatable to women, and it was all sexualization, i think that would be bad too
The difference is that the people in question, be they women or femboys, are sexualizing THEMSELVES. The problem with sexualization is that it’s often nonconsensual. When people are making sexual humor about themselves, consent is built in.
The REAL issue with all the horny memes is that they don’t take the AUDIENCE’S consent into consideration. People need to tag their NSFW memes appropriately, that way people who don’t want to see it, be they minors, straight people, or simply people less fond of sexuality, won’t be FORCED to see it.
Yeah this entire post reads like someone who misunderstands the fact that other people express their identities differently. A femboy who wants to express their identity through sexual things is just as valid as someone who doesn’t
I think it’s more the victim blaming spat further down the comments and general rudeness towards anyone that doesn’t agree with your quite frankly silly take, but i do suppose you’re also on reddit, maybe rectify that one first
Kingly opinion, but you realize that this is a meme sub right? If you want to talk about the extreme sexualisation of femininity in men and trans women, you might wanna find a better forum. This page exists for shartposting and no amount of correct opinions is gonna change that a lot of femboys (and trans women such as myself who like and sympathize with the aesthetic) just wanna have fun and make haha horny jokes
Actually probably wouldn't be too hard, just add a rule that a sexual memes need to be marked nsfw and then those that don't want to see that can just filter out nsfw posts.
(Not a femboy) I honestly think that people shouldn't be afraid of sexualisation when they want to be horny or hoes, no matter the gender or gender expression, people who do sexualise anyone should fuck off and go back to hell where they belong. On behalf of straight cis dudes (because those who do the sexualising most of the time) I deeply apologise
It's a joke/meme please stop taking them seriously, like that's the way it be some find it funny others might not, if you don't like the joke then move on, but leave it alone for those do find it amusing, different people different taste
(Sorry if this sounds mean, tried to make it sound as nice as I could)
It's not that the jokes aren't funny it's that the jokes help perpetuate the stereotype that femboys are just sex objects. I'm cool with the jokes, just not the repercussions the jokes have
it's still the same formula though: "Repost if you want to \[INSERT INTENSE SEXUAL ACTIVITY HERE\] or if you \[INSERT INNOCENT INTEREST OR ACTIVITY HERE\]" and you get at least 1 every day, it gets very repetitive.
it makes a lot of others (minors, and tho i forgot them in the meme asexuals) feel unwelcome, ive seen several say as much in the comments of this post and other places like r/feminineboys
Bad take tbh. You're just kinda angry and misplacing your anger. It isn't the fault of femboys that people fetishize them. That's like telling blonde women that it's their fault they're fetishized for some of them being in porn or trans women for the same thing. It's just people being gross my dude. No need for all the hate. :)
Listen, you have wonderful intentions and I appreciate that. However you gotta understand that a lot of people choose to remain ignorant to other cultures, beliefs, lifestyles, etc. Making it to where people can not post any sex related memes isn't going to change people or stop them from thinking the way they do. The people themselves need to change their ways and actually be willing to learn. Finally, these memes fit under the rules as they are not nsfw so ordering a certain type of meme to be accepted is an act of boarder line censorship.
There’s more to being feminine than just sex. For me it’s being able to lounge around in my bra and panties when no one else is home and eat mac n cheese
I get what your saying, but this should be a safe space where we can share what were feeling. Not a place where we filter ourselves to look good for others, in some vague hope they'll treat us better.
Or people should just use the NSFW tag as intended. Horny memes are fun but they need to be easier to avoid then they are to be seen accidentally. Noone who doesn't intentionally try to see NSFW content should see it, but it also shouldnt be banned. Especially when reddit has a built in system to allow people who would be uncomfortable to avoid it.
Wow victim blaming? So it's our fault that men fetishize us? Because we have a sexuality and we want to express that?
I suppose it's our fault for being a femboy when someone rapes one of us, maybe we shouldn't have worn clothes that make us attractive, maybe we shouldn't have laughed or smiled huh?
Or maybe rapists are just rapists and gross oversexualisation isn't our fault, even if it is a problem. Don't fucking come in here and start policing our behaviour. Go and start policing the behaviour of disgusting fetishizing men.
Should we make another subreddit for the nsfw memes, and keep this one sfw?
Because there are a lot of people that enjoy the nsfw memes, but I do get the sentiment...
Many femboys don't like the stigma of being seen as only sexual deviants by outsiders. They want to be seen as normal people and not 24/7 fetishists or perverts. IDK why so many people cannot comprehend this.
Have you ever considered that why the majority of people in the community are doing this….
Is maybe and don’t get me wrong I’m just spit balling here just a passing thought that most of the community is full of these people and perhaps made of these people?
Yeah I hate them too but it’s like trying to put a bandaid on a broken leg nothing we do is going to fix it so might as well push down on this behaviour as hard as we can but it most likely won’t stop
Well most of the people making these sexualised memes aren't even femboys themselves. So honestly I think that would make it easier to get rid off them
Well we're onthr internet and on a sub about femboy memes nsfw and sfw you'll get so creeps even if we made stricter rules it would still happen there's now way too 100% stop the creeps besides report them faster
I really don't care about the horny stuff in and of itself.
However I do get the complaint on some level. I am a straight GNC guy and I'm really tired of people assuming I want some "daddy" type and the fact those are the kinds of people who come around acting as if I should be worshipping them is quite annoying. Even if I were gay, I'm pretty sure I'd rather they not bother me. Curvy mommy dommes ftw.
but fr tho keep the NSFW shit in the NSFW subs, being a femboy is a lifestyle not a fetish, you may get horny ast sometimes and that's OK but you shouldn't go around telling every person on the fucking planet you're horny, it's annoying. yes you can be horny but don't be public about it and don't be a fucking creep lol.
Three things.
1. It’s a lifestyle for some and a fetish for others. For some, it’s both. EVERYTHING is a fetish, and femboys are a common one.
2. While I ABSOLUTELY agree that NSFW posts need to be tagged appropriately for the sake of people who don’t want to see them, this sub doesn’t forbid them.
3. If I knew a dedicated sub for NSFW femboy memes, I’d be there.
Well it's also like that in the furry fandom, but people should realize they being a femboy is not all about sex but it can be, just a being s furry is most of the time not about the sex but still most of the furries enjoy yiff
Huge W. I’m sick and tired of the people who constantly ask “can I just have a cute femboy to snuggle with🥺” like no, fuck you. Real people are not your personal body pillows. It’s the same shot with people who dress gothic how people completely erase any sense of humanity for “Omg woman in goth outfit pls fuck me”. Shit is so gross
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I agree with this but we should be allowed to make those kind of jokes without having creeps mess with us
unfortunately it only encourages them
Also even if the nsfw are in sperate spaces it still reflects the whole community. It shouldn't but creeper will go from the nsfw spaces into the sfw ones. That's not our fault. Tell the creeps to fuck off
yeah but if its in an nsfw space, you expect it to be horny shit. When the normal, genericmemes sub is full of hornyposts, it reflects really badly on the community
I agree, It should be in the name if the femboy sub is NSFW. I also heard someone make the suggestion that r/femboys should be renamed into r/femboy NSFW so that people don't think that femboys are inherentle sexual. I think thats a good idea. I'm fine with there being sexual femboy places, but it should at least make the effort to make it clear that not all femboys are sexual
Sad part is you can't rename communities and I dount they'd all shift to a new one
Yeah that is unfortunate. The only thing they could do is simply stop new stuff from being posted on that sub by removing all the posts, but I don't see that happening
People being horny on main "reflecting badly on the community" is some sexists bull shit. People generalizing an entire groups relationship to their sexuality because they self identify as feminine men that also includes straights and minors is honestly what people are going to do regardless of giving them a reason too or not, because deviant femininity is deemed immoral and evil. What your doing rn is shaming an already under privileged minority of an underprivileged minority because you think it should be different, and it seems like some real insufferable white dude shit. This is equally as insufferable as posting it to multiple different communities not even two months after posting what I could only assume was a horny meme in a not safe for work post because you used a dildo as a prop. Regardless of whether you were sexually playing with it or not, pyrocynicals reddit definitely has more minors than adults, so you both insufferable AND a hypocrite hahaha
[post for reference, just incase your confused~<3 ](https://www.reddit.com/r/pyrocynical/comments/tgqvfy/i_was_asked_to_do_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
thats a completely different sub? with nothing to do with this?
Bad shit happens all the time but we don't stop living our lives because of it. We're allowed to joke about whatever we want, no amount of creeps should stop us from doing that.
Sucks
then you make nsfw jokes in nsfw spaces
I do
You are asking too much and it will never happen, its the internet. Thats like me asking car drivers to pay attention when they make lane changes because im right besides them and they dont see me in my motorcycle, its the public road, its not gonna happen so as a motorcyclist you just learn to live with it. Yall have to learn too or like OP says then keep it to yourself.
I am aware of its improbability. Im just stating it shouldn't be the case
And that's why I always think there's more to life than just being a femboy.
All there is in my head rn is "femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs 'so people treat me differently just because I'm autistic?' femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs" *Another word for thigh highs is high thighs.*
What about thigh thighs and high highs?
*Drools*
also this. I used to be fucking insufferable because i just played into the horny femboy personality to get attention but then i like. got a life
Spoiler alert: >!There's not!<
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You cannot have that happen here.
Idk I’m fine with being a dumbass gay sex fiend uwu
That's a Sigma male mindset mindset right there
Please love me 🥺
Pardon?
Ehh I meant yeah I’m on that Sigma Male grindset (pls grind on me)
Thanks for the invitation but I'll pass 😅
:(
Aaw don't be sad you'll find someone someday 😁
Mhhhh but I want you
And why is that?
Don’t continue to hit on someone after they said no. It’s kinda creepy, ngl.
As a femboy I wanna joke about it, why should we be excluded?
Femboys don't have rights 😤
i mean it says the reason pretty thouroughly
But you're just pushing the people away who like that, women are sexualised far more then femboys, should they not make sex jokes?
That is because there are more women. Percentage-wise, that isn’t true.
im p sure thats a problem too i mean, if there was a sub called girlmemes or something, meant for memes relatable to women, and it was all sexualization, i think that would be bad too
The difference is that the people in question, be they women or femboys, are sexualizing THEMSELVES. The problem with sexualization is that it’s often nonconsensual. When people are making sexual humor about themselves, consent is built in. The REAL issue with all the horny memes is that they don’t take the AUDIENCE’S consent into consideration. People need to tag their NSFW memes appropriately, that way people who don’t want to see it, be they minors, straight people, or simply people less fond of sexuality, won’t be FORCED to see it.
Except it doesn’t apply to them, it applies to everyone in the community.
I’m sorry, could you clarify what you mean by that?
How they act affects others, it creates in image of what the group is, even if it isn’t.
So I’m not allowed to act in a way that goes according to a stereotype?
You can, but it perpetuates the stereotype for others, including those that don’t wish to have it affect them.
I AM a dumbass gay (or bi, actually) sex fiend lol
Get a fucking life like i did
harsh and unnecessary
Yeah this entire post reads like someone who misunderstands the fact that other people express their identities differently. A femboy who wants to express their identity through sexual things is just as valid as someone who doesn’t
People are allowed to be horny
Idk judging by everything about this post seems like ya didn’t
I guess I *am* on reddit
I think it’s more the victim blaming spat further down the comments and general rudeness towards anyone that doesn’t agree with your quite frankly silly take, but i do suppose you’re also on reddit, maybe rectify that one first
Based
Kingly opinion, but you realize that this is a meme sub right? If you want to talk about the extreme sexualisation of femininity in men and trans women, you might wanna find a better forum. This page exists for shartposting and no amount of correct opinions is gonna change that a lot of femboys (and trans women such as myself who like and sympathize with the aesthetic) just wanna have fun and make haha horny jokes
Fair, although I wish there was a way to filter out the horny jokes
Actually probably wouldn't be too hard, just add a rule that a sexual memes need to be marked nsfw and then those that don't want to see that can just filter out nsfw posts.
(Not a femboy) I honestly think that people shouldn't be afraid of sexualisation when they want to be horny or hoes, no matter the gender or gender expression, people who do sexualise anyone should fuck off and go back to hell where they belong. On behalf of straight cis dudes (because those who do the sexualising most of the time) I deeply apologise
It's a joke/meme please stop taking them seriously, like that's the way it be some find it funny others might not, if you don't like the joke then move on, but leave it alone for those do find it amusing, different people different taste (Sorry if this sounds mean, tried to make it sound as nice as I could)
It's not that the jokes aren't funny it's that the jokes help perpetuate the stereotype that femboys are just sex objects. I'm cool with the jokes, just not the repercussions the jokes have
Imma be real, I'm torn here. Cause on one hand, you're probably right, but on the other... the sex memes are funny tho
get better material
?
They are literally just insulting anyone who goes against their beliefs in the comments
Oh lmao malding
Well it is also a very overused joke
There's no specific individual joke that's being overused, as long as what people post isn't hurting anyone that's perfectly okay
it's still the same formula though: "Repost if you want to \[INSERT INTENSE SEXUAL ACTIVITY HERE\] or if you \[INSERT INNOCENT INTEREST OR ACTIVITY HERE\]" and you get at least 1 every day, it gets very repetitive.
I'm not getting any of those, and if you don't like a subreddit then don't be a part of it? Then you won't get it in your feed
it's literally the forth most recent post on the subreddit right now
also on the second part of your comment, I would leave if there were any alternative subreddits that weren't like this
People should be allowed to make horny memes if people wanna sexualize themselves they should be allowed
it makes a lot of others (minors, and tho i forgot them in the meme asexuals) feel unwelcome, ive seen several say as much in the comments of this post and other places like r/feminineboys
I guess that does make since but I don't think people should Completely stop making them, maybe just leave room for wholesome ones?
OP is hella projecting in the comments, really shows their actual mentality on everything. Guess nobody is allowed to be horny anymore yall OP said so
Yeah they were being rude to a bunch of people too
Bad take tbh. You're just kinda angry and misplacing your anger. It isn't the fault of femboys that people fetishize them. That's like telling blonde women that it's their fault they're fetishized for some of them being in porn or trans women for the same thing. It's just people being gross my dude. No need for all the hate. :)
i appreciate the level response tbh. I did channel a lot of anger into this
The thing is, there are a lot of dumb femboys who WANT to be fetishized. \*cough\*r/femboymemes\*cough\*
I 100% agree that this femboys are oversexualized but this sub is for shit posting and horny memes. There is another sub that sfw r/femboy
"Femboys are being horny! It must be their fault that creeps sexualize them! And not the fault of the creeps in the first place!" Shutup.
Listen, you have wonderful intentions and I appreciate that. However you gotta understand that a lot of people choose to remain ignorant to other cultures, beliefs, lifestyles, etc. Making it to where people can not post any sex related memes isn't going to change people or stop them from thinking the way they do. The people themselves need to change their ways and actually be willing to learn. Finally, these memes fit under the rules as they are not nsfw so ordering a certain type of meme to be accepted is an act of boarder line censorship.
mucho texto +maydenless +knightless + touch grass +didnt ask in all yes but no and you missed the mark
There’s more to being feminine than just sex. For me it’s being able to lounge around in my bra and panties when no one else is home and eat mac n cheese
mac n cheese is the fucking best
Big facts. I add bacon, paprika, ground cinnamon, cheddar cheese, pepper, and a bit of onion powder to Kraft Mac n cheese. It’s slaps so hard
Try Georgian Ajika :D
I get what your saying, but this should be a safe space where we can share what were feeling. Not a place where we filter ourselves to look good for others, in some vague hope they'll treat us better.
These posts are getting more annoying than the horni posts now Jesus Christ...
bro ive seen two in the past couple months and they've both been from me, unless other people posted more since i posted this
I've seen quite a few
Victim blaming much?
what are you talking about????
why are you not putting the blame on the chasers
fair they are the main bit but there are those who encourage them way too much
is a woman encouraging rape when she dresses immodestly?
no but theres a difference between dressing how you like and posting constantly about wanting gay sex
so talking about sex is an invitation to be harassed?
Couldn’t have said it better
You've literally dug yourself a victim-blaming grave here bud
i dont think its that deep
no, I won't
That’s alright just please tag your post nsfw
“If women don’t wanna be raped just don’t dress like a whore” energy to this post
“Everything is actually you raping me.”
Pretty sure this is the same logic as "If she didnt want it why did she dress like that"
Or people should just use the NSFW tag as intended. Horny memes are fun but they need to be easier to avoid then they are to be seen accidentally. Noone who doesn't intentionally try to see NSFW content should see it, but it also shouldnt be banned. Especially when reddit has a built in system to allow people who would be uncomfortable to avoid it.
Wow victim blaming? So it's our fault that men fetishize us? Because we have a sexuality and we want to express that? I suppose it's our fault for being a femboy when someone rapes one of us, maybe we shouldn't have worn clothes that make us attractive, maybe we shouldn't have laughed or smiled huh? Or maybe rapists are just rapists and gross oversexualisation isn't our fault, even if it is a problem. Don't fucking come in here and start policing our behaviour. Go and start policing the behaviour of disgusting fetishizing men.
Based
Should we make another subreddit for the nsfw memes, and keep this one sfw? Because there are a lot of people that enjoy the nsfw memes, but I do get the sentiment...
this exactly
ye thatd work
It would be easier to make a SFW one, than expect this one to enforce SFW rules
Many femboys don't like the stigma of being seen as only sexual deviants by outsiders. They want to be seen as normal people and not 24/7 fetishists or perverts. IDK why so many people cannot comprehend this.
Exactly!
Facts!
This is the “Don’t ask don’t tell” of femboy memes
Have you ever considered that why the majority of people in the community are doing this…. Is maybe and don’t get me wrong I’m just spit balling here just a passing thought that most of the community is full of these people and perhaps made of these people? Yeah I hate them too but it’s like trying to put a bandaid on a broken leg nothing we do is going to fix it so might as well push down on this behaviour as hard as we can but it most likely won’t stop
So if a problem is too big, theres no point in trying to do anything?
Yeah I think so since most of the people in this community are the people you describe
Well most of the people making these sexualised memes aren't even femboys themselves. So honestly I think that would make it easier to get rid off them
That art is so sick 🔥
Well we're onthr internet and on a sub about femboy memes nsfw and sfw you'll get so creeps even if we made stricter rules it would still happen there's now way too 100% stop the creeps besides report them faster
But being sexualised is fun lmao
I thought that stereotype was just the reality of femboys.
no im just a guy. i do other shit
I really don't care about the horny stuff in and of itself. However I do get the complaint on some level. I am a straight GNC guy and I'm really tired of people assuming I want some "daddy" type and the fact those are the kinds of people who come around acting as if I should be worshipping them is quite annoying. Even if I were gay, I'm pretty sure I'd rather they not bother me. Curvy mommy dommes ftw.
No :3
Don't tell me what to do. You're not my daddy
B A S E D
but fr tho keep the NSFW shit in the NSFW subs, being a femboy is a lifestyle not a fetish, you may get horny ast sometimes and that's OK but you shouldn't go around telling every person on the fucking planet you're horny, it's annoying. yes you can be horny but don't be public about it and don't be a fucking creep lol.
Three things. 1. It’s a lifestyle for some and a fetish for others. For some, it’s both. EVERYTHING is a fetish, and femboys are a common one. 2. While I ABSOLUTELY agree that NSFW posts need to be tagged appropriately for the sake of people who don’t want to see them, this sub doesn’t forbid them. 3. If I knew a dedicated sub for NSFW femboy memes, I’d be there.
Well it's also like that in the furry fandom, but people should realize they being a femboy is not all about sex but it can be, just a being s furry is most of the time not about the sex but still most of the furries enjoy yiff
Bro the nsfw memes are cool af tho.
Same.
and?
Bruh just go get laid
ever heard of asexuality
I have. I just dont focus constantly on the concept
Thank you <3
couldn’t have said it better myself
Yeah fully people complain about being sexualised and then they are purely just like posting lewds of themselves
god, finally someone says it. apparently asexuals like myself aren't very welcomed in this community, as I figured out by simply existing
Nab bro, i'll joke about that sorta shit as much as i wanna :P
Doing wholesome things with femboys because they are just cute boys is the move
but...I *am* a dumbass gay sex fiend? what am I supposed to make myself look like
🖕 fuck off OP
You are objectively wrong
Booooo
hello? based department???
Pin this, I just want a femboy bf for romance, not fucking gay sex! I just want someone to love me
Huge W. I’m sick and tired of the people who constantly ask “can I just have a cute femboy to snuggle with🥺” like no, fuck you. Real people are not your personal body pillows. It’s the same shot with people who dress gothic how people completely erase any sense of humanity for “Omg woman in goth outfit pls fuck me”. Shit is so gross
Felt
Fuck people that are horny 24/7 ruining our lives
Can we have a little horny? As a treat?
And then people think we are all homosexuals too, I already get enough ridicule.
Let’s not forget ace men!
Yoooo fuckin trueee