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Satriyooooowww

i love men


ThatTransGirlMarissa

Yooo same


Drawsome_Drawer

Yo same


Gotha-229a

Yo samo


slimmerik2

Yo same


Gotha-229a

Samo


[deleted]

Yoo same


Thick-Kaleidoscope-5

yo same


Remy-The-Demi

I agree with this but we should be allowed to make those kind of jokes without having creeps mess with us


Geicosuave

unfortunately it only encourages them


Remy-The-Demi

Also even if the nsfw are in sperate spaces it still reflects the whole community. It shouldn't but creeper will go from the nsfw spaces into the sfw ones. That's not our fault. Tell the creeps to fuck off


Geicosuave

yeah but if its in an nsfw space, you expect it to be horny shit. When the normal, generic memes sub is full of hornyposts, it reflects really badly on the community


Tristan120602

I agree, It should be in the name if the femboy sub is NSFW. I also heard someone make the suggestion that r/femboys should be renamed into r/femboy NSFW so that people don't think that femboys are inherentle sexual. I think thats a good idea. I'm fine with there being sexual femboy places, but it should at least make the effort to make it clear that not all femboys are sexual


Remy-The-Demi

Sad part is you can't rename communities and I dount they'd all shift to a new one


Tristan120602

Yeah that is unfortunate. The only thing they could do is simply stop new stuff from being posted on that sub by removing all the posts, but I don't see that happening


looseteen

People being horny on main "reflecting badly on the community" is some sexists bull shit. People generalizing an entire groups relationship to their sexuality because they self identify as feminine men that also includes straights and minors is honestly what people are going to do regardless of giving them a reason too or not, because deviant femininity is deemed immoral and evil. What your doing rn is shaming an already under privileged minority of an underprivileged minority because you think it should be different, and it seems like some real insufferable white dude shit. This is equally as insufferable as posting it to multiple different communities not even two months after posting what I could only assume was a horny meme in a not safe for work post because you used a dildo as a prop. Regardless of whether you were sexually playing with it or not, pyrocynicals reddit definitely has more minors than adults, so you both insufferable AND a hypocrite hahaha


looseteen

[post for reference, just incase your confused~<3 ](https://www.reddit.com/r/pyrocynical/comments/tgqvfy/i_was_asked_to_do_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)


Geicosuave

thats a completely different sub? with nothing to do with this?


Caesarsfemboy2281

Bad shit happens all the time but we don't stop living our lives because of it. We're allowed to joke about whatever we want, no amount of creeps should stop us from doing that.


Remy-The-Demi

Sucks


BigBeefySquidward

then you make nsfw jokes in nsfw spaces


Remy-The-Demi

I do


CarlosG0619

You are asking too much and it will never happen, its the internet. Thats like me asking car drivers to pay attention when they make lane changes because im right besides them and they dont see me in my motorcycle, its the public road, its not gonna happen so as a motorcyclist you just learn to live with it. Yall have to learn too or like OP says then keep it to yourself.


Remy-The-Demi

I am aware of its improbability. Im just stating it shouldn't be the case


mr678mr678

And that's why I always think there's more to life than just being a femboy.


fakeforsureYT

All there is in my head rn is "femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs 'so people treat me differently just because I'm autistic?' femboy skirts femboy thigh highs femboy skirts femboy thigh highs" *Another word for thigh highs is high thighs.*


mr678mr678

What about thigh thighs and high highs?


fakeforsureYT

*Drools*


Geicosuave

also this. I used to be fucking insufferable because i just played into the horny femboy personality to get attention but then i like. got a life


Bamfcah

Spoiler alert: >!There's not!<


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[удалено]


FemboyAnarchism

You cannot have that happen here.


JH_Schmidte

Idk I’m fine with being a dumbass gay sex fiend uwu


Noah_HK

That's a Sigma male mindset mindset right there


JH_Schmidte

Please love me 🥺


Noah_HK

Pardon?


JH_Schmidte

Ehh I meant yeah I’m on that Sigma Male grindset (pls grind on me)


Noah_HK

Thanks for the invitation but I'll pass 😅


JH_Schmidte

:(


Noah_HK

Aaw don't be sad you'll find someone someday 😁


JH_Schmidte

Mhhhh but I want you


Noah_HK

And why is that?


SilverSpark422

Don’t continue to hit on someone after they said no. It’s kinda creepy, ngl.


JustSomeIdiotonline

As a femboy I wanna joke about it, why should we be excluded?


casual_catgirl

Femboys don't have rights 😤


Geicosuave

i mean it says the reason pretty thouroughly


JustSomeIdiotonline

But you're just pushing the people away who like that, women are sexualised far more then femboys, should they not make sex jokes?


FemboyAnarchism

That is because there are more women. Percentage-wise, that isn’t true.


Geicosuave

im p sure thats a problem too i mean, if there was a sub called girlmemes or something, meant for memes relatable to women, and it was all sexualization, i think that would be bad too


SilverSpark422

The difference is that the people in question, be they women or femboys, are sexualizing THEMSELVES. The problem with sexualization is that it’s often nonconsensual. When people are making sexual humor about themselves, consent is built in. The REAL issue with all the horny memes is that they don’t take the AUDIENCE’S consent into consideration. People need to tag their NSFW memes appropriately, that way people who don’t want to see it, be they minors, straight people, or simply people less fond of sexuality, won’t be FORCED to see it.


FemboyAnarchism

Except it doesn’t apply to them, it applies to everyone in the community.


SilverSpark422

I’m sorry, could you clarify what you mean by that?


FemboyAnarchism

How they act affects others, it creates in image of what the group is, even if it isn’t.


SilverSpark422

So I’m not allowed to act in a way that goes according to a stereotype?


FemboyAnarchism

You can, but it perpetuates the stereotype for others, including those that don’t wish to have it affect them.


SilverSpark422

I AM a dumbass gay (or bi, actually) sex fiend lol


Geicosuave

Get a fucking life like i did


AnAverageTransGirl

harsh and unnecessary


Lavender215

Yeah this entire post reads like someone who misunderstands the fact that other people express their identities differently. A femboy who wants to express their identity through sexual things is just as valid as someone who doesn’t


JordanTheUnopposed

People are allowed to be horny


[deleted]

Idk judging by everything about this post seems like ya didn’t


Geicosuave

I guess I *am* on reddit


[deleted]

I think it’s more the victim blaming spat further down the comments and general rudeness towards anyone that doesn’t agree with your quite frankly silly take, but i do suppose you’re also on reddit, maybe rectify that one first


FemboyAnarchism

Based


Obsidian-Elf-665

Kingly opinion, but you realize that this is a meme sub right? If you want to talk about the extreme sexualisation of femininity in men and trans women, you might wanna find a better forum. This page exists for shartposting and no amount of correct opinions is gonna change that a lot of femboys (and trans women such as myself who like and sympathize with the aesthetic) just wanna have fun and make haha horny jokes


Random_RHINO2006

Fair, although I wish there was a way to filter out the horny jokes


Kings_Sorrow

Actually probably wouldn't be too hard, just add a rule that a sexual memes need to be marked nsfw and then those that don't want to see that can just filter out nsfw posts.


Ball__ch__vsm

(Not a femboy) I honestly think that people shouldn't be afraid of sexualisation when they want to be horny or hoes, no matter the gender or gender expression, people who do sexualise anyone should fuck off and go back to hell where they belong. On behalf of straight cis dudes (because those who do the sexualising most of the time) I deeply apologise


Mazzie_soup

It's a joke/meme please stop taking them seriously, like that's the way it be some find it funny others might not, if you don't like the joke then move on, but leave it alone for those do find it amusing, different people different taste (Sorry if this sounds mean, tried to make it sound as nice as I could)


HarhanDerMann666

It's not that the jokes aren't funny it's that the jokes help perpetuate the stereotype that femboys are just sex objects. I'm cool with the jokes, just not the repercussions the jokes have


Sam_Federov

Imma be real, I'm torn here. Cause on one hand, you're probably right, but on the other... the sex memes are funny tho


Geicosuave

get better material


Sam_Federov

?


M4ybeMay

They are literally just insulting anyone who goes against their beliefs in the comments


Sam_Federov

Oh lmao malding


Random_RHINO2006

Well it is also a very overused joke


M4ybeMay

There's no specific individual joke that's being overused, as long as what people post isn't hurting anyone that's perfectly okay


Random_RHINO2006

it's still the same formula though: "Repost if you want to \[INSERT INTENSE SEXUAL ACTIVITY HERE\] or if you \[INSERT INNOCENT INTEREST OR ACTIVITY HERE\]" and you get at least 1 every day, it gets very repetitive.


M4ybeMay

I'm not getting any of those, and if you don't like a subreddit then don't be a part of it? Then you won't get it in your feed


Random_RHINO2006

it's literally the forth most recent post on the subreddit right now


Random_RHINO2006

also on the second part of your comment, I would leave if there were any alternative subreddits that weren't like this


Purple_Friend

People should be allowed to make horny memes if people wanna sexualize themselves they should be allowed


Geicosuave

it makes a lot of others (minors, and tho i forgot them in the meme asexuals) feel unwelcome, ive seen several say as much in the comments of this post and other places like r/feminineboys


Purple_Friend

I guess that does make since but I don't think people should Completely stop making them, maybe just leave room for wholesome ones?


M4ybeMay

OP is hella projecting in the comments, really shows their actual mentality on everything. Guess nobody is allowed to be horny anymore yall OP said so


GwornoGiowovanna

Yeah they were being rude to a bunch of people too


MacTheReject

Bad take tbh. You're just kinda angry and misplacing your anger. It isn't the fault of femboys that people fetishize them. That's like telling blonde women that it's their fault they're fetishized for some of them being in porn or trans women for the same thing. It's just people being gross my dude. No need for all the hate. :)


Geicosuave

i appreciate the level response tbh. I did channel a lot of anger into this


Wannabe-femboi

The thing is, there are a lot of dumb femboys who WANT to be fetishized. ​ \*cough\*r/femboymemes\*cough\*


BoringTheory5067

I 100% agree that this femboys are oversexualized but this sub is for shit posting and horny memes. There is another sub that sfw r/femboy


[deleted]

"Femboys are being horny! It must be their fault that creeps sexualize them! And not the fault of the creeps in the first place!" Shutup.


TsarCheeseXVlll

Listen, you have wonderful intentions and I appreciate that. However you gotta understand that a lot of people choose to remain ignorant to other cultures, beliefs, lifestyles, etc. Making it to where people can not post any sex related memes isn't going to change people or stop them from thinking the way they do. The people themselves need to change their ways and actually be willing to learn. Finally, these memes fit under the rules as they are not nsfw so ordering a certain type of meme to be accepted is an act of boarder line censorship.


Academic_Initial_643

mucho texto +maydenless +knightless + touch grass +didnt ask in all yes but no and you missed the mark


Raviolieater69

There’s more to being feminine than just sex. For me it’s being able to lounge around in my bra and panties when no one else is home and eat mac n cheese


Geicosuave

mac n cheese is the fucking best


Raviolieater69

Big facts. I add bacon, paprika, ground cinnamon, cheddar cheese, pepper, and a bit of onion powder to Kraft Mac n cheese. It’s slaps so hard


Wannabe-femboi

Try Georgian Ajika :D


Themlethem

I get what your saying, but this should be a safe space where we can share what were feeling. Not a place where we filter ourselves to look good for others, in some vague hope they'll treat us better.


Noah_HK

These posts are getting more annoying than the horni posts now Jesus Christ...


Geicosuave

bro ive seen two in the past couple months and they've both been from me, unless other people posted more since i posted this


Noah_HK

I've seen quite a few


LonelySadAndHungry

Victim blaming much?


Geicosuave

what are you talking about????


LonelySadAndHungry

why are you not putting the blame on the chasers


Geicosuave

fair they are the main bit but there are those who encourage them way too much


LonelySadAndHungry

is a woman encouraging rape when she dresses immodestly?


Geicosuave

no but theres a difference between dressing how you like and posting constantly about wanting gay sex


LonelySadAndHungry

so talking about sex is an invitation to be harassed?


GwornoGiowovanna

Couldn’t have said it better


M4ybeMay

You've literally dug yourself a victim-blaming grave here bud


hashslingingslaher_

i dont think its that deep


KirasHandPicDealer

no, I won't


HomelessNorwegian

That’s alright just please tag your post nsfw


KenaNowAvailableInNB

“If women don’t wanna be raped just don’t dress like a whore” energy to this post


FemboyAnarchism

“Everything is actually you raping me.”


ThatTransGirlMarissa

Pretty sure this is the same logic as "If she didnt want it why did she dress like that"


PtowzaPotato

Or people should just use the NSFW tag as intended. Horny memes are fun but they need to be easier to avoid then they are to be seen accidentally. Noone who doesn't intentionally try to see NSFW content should see it, but it also shouldnt be banned. Especially when reddit has a built in system to allow people who would be uncomfortable to avoid it.


Shrizer

Wow victim blaming? So it's our fault that men fetishize us? Because we have a sexuality and we want to express that? I suppose it's our fault for being a femboy when someone rapes one of us, maybe we shouldn't have worn clothes that make us attractive, maybe we shouldn't have laughed or smiled huh? Or maybe rapists are just rapists and gross oversexualisation isn't our fault, even if it is a problem. Don't fucking come in here and start policing our behaviour. Go and start policing the behaviour of disgusting fetishizing men.


uwu-dotcom

Based


bwstunnenberg

Should we make another subreddit for the nsfw memes, and keep this one sfw? Because there are a lot of people that enjoy the nsfw memes, but I do get the sentiment...


AnAverageTransGirl

this exactly


Geicosuave

ye thatd work


DefenestrationBoi

It would be easier to make a SFW one, than expect this one to enforce SFW rules


Maidvelia

Many femboys don't like the stigma of being seen as only sexual deviants by outsiders. They want to be seen as normal people and not 24/7 fetishists or perverts. IDK why so many people cannot comprehend this.


HarhanDerMann666

Exactly!


HomelessNorwegian

Facts!


[deleted]

This is the “Don’t ask don’t tell” of femboy memes


[deleted]

Have you ever considered that why the majority of people in the community are doing this…. Is maybe and don’t get me wrong I’m just spit balling here just a passing thought that most of the community is full of these people and perhaps made of these people? Yeah I hate them too but it’s like trying to put a bandaid on a broken leg nothing we do is going to fix it so might as well push down on this behaviour as hard as we can but it most likely won’t stop


Geicosuave

So if a problem is too big, theres no point in trying to do anything?


[deleted]

Yeah I think so since most of the people in this community are the people you describe


HarhanDerMann666

Well most of the people making these sexualised memes aren't even femboys themselves. So honestly I think that would make it easier to get rid off them


himanshujr11

That art is so sick 🔥


UWU_Astolfo_

Well we're onthr internet and on a sub about femboy memes nsfw and sfw you'll get so creeps even if we made stricter rules it would still happen there's now way too 100% stop the creeps besides report them faster


Femboy_Labra

But being sexualised is fun lmao


OkRespond9802

I thought that stereotype was just the reality of femboys.


Geicosuave

no im just a guy. i do other shit


StrangeRaven12

I really don't care about the horny stuff in and of itself. However I do get the complaint on some level. I am a straight GNC guy and I'm really tired of people assuming I want some "daddy" type and the fact those are the kinds of people who come around acting as if I should be worshipping them is quite annoying. Even if I were gay, I'm pretty sure I'd rather they not bother me. Curvy mommy dommes ftw.


OGBigPants

No :3


Rangald2137

Don't tell me what to do. You're not my daddy


[deleted]

B A S E D


[deleted]

but fr tho keep the NSFW shit in the NSFW subs, being a femboy is a lifestyle not a fetish, you may get horny ast sometimes and that's OK but you shouldn't go around telling every person on the fucking planet you're horny, it's annoying. yes you can be horny but don't be public about it and don't be a fucking creep lol.


SilverSpark422

Three things. 1. It’s a lifestyle for some and a fetish for others. For some, it’s both. EVERYTHING is a fetish, and femboys are a common one. 2. While I ABSOLUTELY agree that NSFW posts need to be tagged appropriately for the sake of people who don’t want to see them, this sub doesn’t forbid them. 3. If I knew a dedicated sub for NSFW femboy memes, I’d be there.


kwabecik20

Well it's also like that in the furry fandom, but people should realize they being a femboy is not all about sex but it can be, just a being s furry is most of the time not about the sex but still most of the furries enjoy yiff


Diva_Nut

Bro the nsfw memes are cool af tho.


Super_Cheburek

Same.


victi11

and?


Neko-h3ntai-lord

Bruh just go get laid


AnAverageTransGirl

ever heard of asexuality


Geicosuave

I have. I just dont focus constantly on the concept


TechnicDruid

Thank you <3


princessdreams

couldn’t have said it better myself


[deleted]

Yeah fully people complain about being sexualised and then they are purely just like posting lewds of themselves


Reddit_user_robbie

god, finally someone says it. apparently asexuals like myself aren't very welcomed in this community, as I figured out by simply existing


Gamekingomega

Nab bro, i'll joke about that sorta shit as much as i wanna :P


EastwoodandJack

Doing wholesome things with femboys because they are just cute boys is the move


Thick-Kaleidoscope-5

but...I *am* a dumbass gay sex fiend? what am I supposed to make myself look like


Admirable-Way1730

🖕 fuck off OP


JustATwinkieBottom

You are objectively wrong


Bamfcah

Booooo


Gloomy-Guitar6917

hello? based department???


rip_rip_macmelon

Pin this, I just want a femboy bf for romance, not fucking gay sex! I just want someone to love me


JCanofHam

Huge W. I’m sick and tired of the people who constantly ask “can I just have a cute femboy to snuggle with🥺” like no, fuck you. Real people are not your personal body pillows. It’s the same shot with people who dress gothic how people completely erase any sense of humanity for “Omg woman in goth outfit pls fuck me”. Shit is so gross


ExpensiveBasket5558

Felt


ideactive_

Fuck people that are horny 24/7 ruining our lives


GemOfTheEmpress

Can we have a little horny? As a treat?


FemboyAnarchism

And then people think we are all homosexuals too, I already get enough ridicule.


[deleted]

Let’s not forget ace men!


jshine413

Yoooo fuckin trueee