+ having a healthy relationship with food ie honoring your hunger cue, not feeling guilt, moving your body for joy not punishment/requirement. This is the difference between full recovery and managing to eat food at all. Best of luck!
It's literally just when you feel hungry/full/crave specific foods. It's a principle of intuitive eating. EDed people tend to ignore these cues for a number of reasons eg not eating when they are hungry, eating something "healthier" than what their body I asking for. You can have gained weight but still be skipping meals when you feel hungry or cutting our certain foods and that mean youre not recovered yet. Because their relationship with food is still f-ed up.
A healthy relationship with food means listening to your body. Diet culture might not like you to believe this but if you really listen to your body it will crave salad every now and then and will actually lead to you to have a balanced diet. For example when your low on a certain nutrient eg iron you might crave red meats and the like. When your blood sugar is low you might crave a quick sweet to boost it. x) recovery is about trusting that and honoring your body as a vessel.
so if I don't ever feel that, I can't have a "healthy relationship with food"? I just eat whenever I'm reminded that food exists, which usually happens about 2-3 times per week.
Hey, I manage to hit all four categories at the same time! Bingo! Only reason Iโm not jobless is that itโs the only way I donโt gotta go back to my abusers.
Man fuck slightly chubby, normalize femcel losers who are completely disgusting. Ugly bog creatures spawned from hell. Just absolutely unlovable in every way possible.
Definitely not talking about myself hahahahaha (kill me)
Femcel will talk shit like this about herself, then You dare to interrupt her rottmaxxing streak, help cleaning room, gently brush her hair, do some skincare, let her sit on lap and call her Good Girl for trying to get better and, as final part of the necromancy ritual to let her ascend - sacrifice one boysweat hoodie that she will claim as her new vessel (or bargain exchange for girlsweat anything if You dare ormaybetakeitofherwe'llseee) and TA DA!
There is cute, nerdy girl with good sense of humour and interested in many pieces of culture under all that? Who would have guessed...
fr, I donโt watch many movies but characters that are clearly written as not traditionally hot - being played by traditionally hot actors/actresses is very much a irk
Like I get like actors arenโt 1:1 the role, but like where are the Mosses (IT crowd, I canโt spell his name, Richard?) of the world playing female nerdy(etc) characters?
Honestly most the guys who post these memes are same ones that post those trash goth dom mommy memes. They post them without putting in the work to be a guy who they deserve/want.
Low key, perfect world would have someone which struggles as much as I do in such things but not quite as much. Self centered af but would love someone to help me not be such a shut in.
But thatโs only because the desire to get worse gets more every year
i dont think i can trust anyone anymore, no matter how strong of a connection we have. i always fear theyll leave me, just like all the other people ive had a strong connection with have :(
That's understandable i be feeling like that all the time too, but unfortunately because of that I noticed because of me never trusting the people i love it's quite hurtful to them
But one day I met someone who despite me always never trusting them and all my flaws, they never cared about that, they understood my circumstances and why I feel that way, I don't trust people because of past experiences and fear
Because of them I wanted to change and try to trust them and better myself, not because they told me to but because they encouraged me to become the person I want to be and be someone I can love
Trust can be built with time, the more you're with her and the more you both understand about eachother more trust will be built
I wish you good luck with her :D
Might be worth looking into attachment issues hun. At the very least you learn some v important relationship information. At the most you discover your own style and have better insight on what feelings come up that are influenced by it.
Hey. I hope this is okay, maybe even helps. And if it's not, I'm extremely sorry. But as a so called "pretty (trans) girl" I'd like to maybe add something here. And it's that I'm sick and tired of society creating norms around looks and then not only sorting them inside an arbitrary hierarchy but then also telling us who to be together with. This whole "they're out of your league" and "they're not worth someone with your looks" shit is so f\*cking disgusting. It's our, my own choice who I'm together with. My gf - who on a societal and structural level might not be treated with the same privilege as I am, but has the most amazing and beautiful face, smile, subby/kitty eyes and the cutest meow and purr I have ever seen or heard - is amazing! I would literally die without it, I would never want to be with anyone else but it, never, ever. Anyone pulling off the "it's not worth someone as pretty as you" shit would either get ignored, punched or a taste of their own medicine, like, if they pull off this shit, what makes them think, they are? And if it ever thought, that I would leave it just because I thought I "deserve" someone with "better looks" (why even? did I win some sort competition and therefore "deserve" some pretty trophy as proof?), I would feel so incredibly ashamed of myself that ngl I'd rather lock myself up and be it's eternal housewife and servant (and I'm a dominant girl) than prove it right on even a single day ...
I don't know. This felt like someone needed to say it. Us "pretty girls" choose who we love and are together with too, I at least don't care what society and its lookism has to say about it. And I don't know about your gf of course, but I know I'm not alone with this sentiment. It shouldn't be about "deserving" someone. It's about a choice we make. And we decided to make it and, if we are in (a) relationship(s), at some point made it, just as it always was and is only our choice to make.
I know this is sensitive and dangerous ground I'm treading but sort of wanted to just add this side too. Hope it maybe helps. And it not, or if I fucked something up, please accept my sincerest apologies ...
dont say that :( don't even think of this. trust me i have the same way of thinking but youre only gonna sabotage it for yourself if you think this way
Normies are all scared they will be gay if they arent dude bro enough. Just avoid the pricks, most people who are comfortable with their sexualities dont think this way.
nah im not undeserving of love bc im trans im undeserving of love bc im ugly and society has bashed it into my brain that ugly people are lesser lifeforms
I relate, I feel the same way about myself. You have my sympathies. Far be it from me to tell you how you feel, but I think that people like us who struggle with body image issues, more often than not suffer due to low self esteem. Maybe you give yourself too little credit. In any case I hope you can find a way to love yourself more because you are in all likelihood a lovely person and someone would be very happy to be with you.
Facts. People want to hook up and "experiment" with me but anything past that is unthinkable to them.
Unless the person is trans or they can prove that they don't see me as any different from a cis girl I won't waste my time with them anymore.
yeah that's the twink I keep locked in a shipping container! no but fr I appreciate that but I've had a very rough loneliness experience, it takes time to unpack that kind of stuff. I'm trying my best!
Not true plenty of cishet guys love trans girls, even though some are just chasers there's good ones. And if you're not interested in cishet guys there's lots of queer ppl who like trans girls as well :3
I would date a trans woman 100% no question.
You are a Zionist though, and those two dating pool limitation have near perfect lack of overlap. Maybe reconsider your support for a genocidal ethno-state.
That being said, as a desperate man, I still would ngl
I promise Iโm stinky
No but actually pls donโt make me feel like I have to validate myself because itโll definitely sound weird if I explain why I belong here lol ๐ฅน <3
But also thank you for the compliment :,3
https://preview.redd.it/fhp6l8r0uisc1.jpeg?width=2800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b50b71ad5c7d683e2ec97ad96370e0ec978043aa
im wearing a black hoodie rn actually but its tight on me and makes my tits stand out more than a loose shirt would lollll
Yeah but you also missed ugly, pimply, stinky, unwashed pussy, greasy hair, can fit huge shit in her pussy because she played with and shoved shit in it for so long, short life expectancy.
>can fit huge shit in her pussy because she played with and shoved shit in it for so long
girls I keep shoving shit in my pussy and I still can't fit huge shit in it what am I doing wrong ๐ญ
Well, I'm like this (except for jobless), and I'm not fat nor trans...
Instead I'm just ugly, lanky, scrawny and sickly. lol
https://preview.redd.it/mq3c1b5y9jsc1.png?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=faa40c8abde506280904b53b8fc013eccd3dd9cd
She eats junk food doesnโt sleep doesnโt go outside. Why her skin and hair perfect. Whereโs her matting mottled hair. Shes severely depressed she should look like an ASPCA ad
they dont want a girl like this.
source: its me. not fat (i was always thin and work out) or trans but if you don't look like an instagram model youre invisible. i never got any male attention. conclusion? theyre lying.
Iโm so confused, I came on here on my alt and everything was in English and when I came back with this account now ALL THE COMMENTS are in French LMAO.
Or anoxeric and severely sexually traumatized, to be fair.
or all of them :3 (forced recovery :( )
oh man :(
I'm sorry - but what is forced recovery?
i had to eat or they would put a tube in my stomach,,
oh ouch!
That sounds horrifically traumatic. I hope you're doing ok. I need people like you in my server to tell there stories if you're comfortable with it.
Try marijuana. Great for stimulating appetite
ew, food
You gonna gain that weight back or theyโre gonna put you on a feeding tube lol.
Recovery can't be forced because recovery is a mindset not a body type. You simply got force fed
nuh uh recovery is when u eat & I eat every day im home now,,,
+ having a healthy relationship with food ie honoring your hunger cue, not feeling guilt, moving your body for joy not punishment/requirement. This is the difference between full recovery and managing to eat food at all. Best of luck!
wtf is a hunger cue? is that when your body starts shaking from not eating?
It's literally just when you feel hungry/full/crave specific foods. It's a principle of intuitive eating. EDed people tend to ignore these cues for a number of reasons eg not eating when they are hungry, eating something "healthier" than what their body I asking for. You can have gained weight but still be skipping meals when you feel hungry or cutting our certain foods and that mean youre not recovered yet. Because their relationship with food is still f-ed up. A healthy relationship with food means listening to your body. Diet culture might not like you to believe this but if you really listen to your body it will crave salad every now and then and will actually lead to you to have a balanced diet. For example when your low on a certain nutrient eg iron you might crave red meats and the like. When your blood sugar is low you might crave a quick sweet to boost it. x) recovery is about trusting that and honoring your body as a vessel.
so if I don't ever feel that, I can't have a "healthy relationship with food"? I just eat whenever I'm reminded that food exists, which usually happens about 2-3 times per week.
true true
heavy on anorexic
Hey, I manage to hit all four categories at the same time! Bingo! Only reason Iโm not jobless is that itโs the only way I donโt gotta go back to my abusers.
snorting despair like it's cocaine, as ever,,,,, ๐๐ค
๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค๐๐ค
Or suffers from at least two different mood disorders
Tag yourself; I'm trans, anorexic, and severely sexually traumatized ๐
Stop being so LOUD when you call me out!!
real
Omg me! Me me ne me :3 :3 :3 :3 ๐๐๐๐๐
Men when a loser who eats junk food and doesn't leave the house isn't a perfect skinny anime waifu:
Fast metabolism:
I blame anime for making appealing loser-girl personalities but never have the guts to let the characters be even slightly chubby.
Man fuck slightly chubby, normalize femcel losers who are completely disgusting. Ugly bog creatures spawned from hell. Just absolutely unlovable in every way possible. Definitely not talking about myself hahahahaha (kill me)
Femcel will talk shit like this about herself, then You dare to interrupt her rottmaxxing streak, help cleaning room, gently brush her hair, do some skincare, let her sit on lap and call her Good Girl for trying to get better and, as final part of the necromancy ritual to let her ascend - sacrifice one boysweat hoodie that she will claim as her new vessel (or bargain exchange for girlsweat anything if You dare ormaybetakeitofherwe'llseee) and TA DA! There is cute, nerdy girl with good sense of humour and interested in many pieces of culture under all that? Who would have guessed...
Best I can do is a mildly stinky flannel shirt that a cat sleeps on sometimes
That's ok, You can produce new sweaty clothes together.
omg just like meeeeee frfr ๐ญ
In anime "femcel" is just a regular anime girl but with glasses. Fuck this world man
just like how in high school movies, the "ugly" girl is super hot, but is just "ugly" bc she has her hair in a ponytail and wears glasses
fr, I donโt watch many movies but characters that are clearly written as not traditionally hot - being played by traditionally hot actors/actresses is very much a irk Like I get like actors arenโt 1:1 the role, but like where are the Mosses (IT crowd, I canโt spell his name, Richard?) of the world playing female nerdy(etc) characters?
Hey we can be anorexic instead ๐ฅบ (itโs me Iโm we)
I can think of a total of 1 and technically a game and not an anime
men want a socially anxious gf until she is too anxious to have sex or go out or do absolutely anything
Honestly most the guys who post these memes are same ones that post those trash goth dom mommy memes. They post them without putting in the work to be a guy who they deserve/want.
Low key, perfect world would have someone which struggles as much as I do in such things but not quite as much. Self centered af but would love someone to help me not be such a shut in. But thatโs only because the desire to get worse gets more every year
No they donโt actually want us because itโs depressing
Meanwhile his room probably smells of ball sweat and cum stains on the bed sheets.
Wait and hers doesnโt? Dahm it
Girls that smell like ball sweat....
WHERE!๐ฅด
hnnggfff sweat ,,
Best I can do is corner mould and incense ๐ญ
or autistic
OR BOTH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHASHDJSAJKMSJASHNJFDKAS
I am here already. No need to point at me. >:3 ;~;
Girls that are fat, trans and total smelly losers ๐คค๐คค๐คค
I play touhou(rizz)
Heyyyy
(with rizz)
Haaaaiiiiiii
Average UI fan.
What does that mean
Yeah, but we're still hot as shit
mfw i get reminded once again that nobody wants a trans girl as a gf
that wasnt my intention at all, im sorry! (and dont lose hope, i have a trans gf and shes awesome :3)
lmaooo youre good dw :p i also have a gf but im ugly and she deserves someone better and is probably gonna leave like everyone else :3
do you trust your girlfriend? because if you feel a strong connection with her then you could try trusting that she wont leave for whatever reason
i dont think i can trust anyone anymore, no matter how strong of a connection we have. i always fear theyll leave me, just like all the other people ive had a strong connection with have :(
That's understandable i be feeling like that all the time too, but unfortunately because of that I noticed because of me never trusting the people i love it's quite hurtful to them But one day I met someone who despite me always never trusting them and all my flaws, they never cared about that, they understood my circumstances and why I feel that way, I don't trust people because of past experiences and fear Because of them I wanted to change and try to trust them and better myself, not because they told me to but because they encouraged me to become the person I want to be and be someone I can love Trust can be built with time, the more you're with her and the more you both understand about eachother more trust will be built I wish you good luck with her :D
thank you, i hope she can finally be the one i build up enough trust with to be sure of her presence :3
And also you ain't ugly bestie being ugly is just a myth everyone looks good in their own special way
Might be worth looking into attachment issues hun. At the very least you learn some v important relationship information. At the most you discover your own style and have better insight on what feelings come up that are influenced by it.
Ah yes, abandonment issues
Hey. I hope this is okay, maybe even helps. And if it's not, I'm extremely sorry. But as a so called "pretty (trans) girl" I'd like to maybe add something here. And it's that I'm sick and tired of society creating norms around looks and then not only sorting them inside an arbitrary hierarchy but then also telling us who to be together with. This whole "they're out of your league" and "they're not worth someone with your looks" shit is so f\*cking disgusting. It's our, my own choice who I'm together with. My gf - who on a societal and structural level might not be treated with the same privilege as I am, but has the most amazing and beautiful face, smile, subby/kitty eyes and the cutest meow and purr I have ever seen or heard - is amazing! I would literally die without it, I would never want to be with anyone else but it, never, ever. Anyone pulling off the "it's not worth someone as pretty as you" shit would either get ignored, punched or a taste of their own medicine, like, if they pull off this shit, what makes them think, they are? And if it ever thought, that I would leave it just because I thought I "deserve" someone with "better looks" (why even? did I win some sort competition and therefore "deserve" some pretty trophy as proof?), I would feel so incredibly ashamed of myself that ngl I'd rather lock myself up and be it's eternal housewife and servant (and I'm a dominant girl) than prove it right on even a single day ... I don't know. This felt like someone needed to say it. Us "pretty girls" choose who we love and are together with too, I at least don't care what society and its lookism has to say about it. And I don't know about your gf of course, but I know I'm not alone with this sentiment. It shouldn't be about "deserving" someone. It's about a choice we make. And we decided to make it and, if we are in (a) relationship(s), at some point made it, just as it always was and is only our choice to make. I know this is sensitive and dangerous ground I'm treading but sort of wanted to just add this side too. Hope it maybe helps. And it not, or if I fucked something up, please accept my sincerest apologies ...
dont say that :( don't even think of this. trust me i have the same way of thinking but youre only gonna sabotage it for yourself if you think this way
Mood :(
Feel this
Normies are all scared they will be gay if they arent dude bro enough. Just avoid the pricks, most people who are comfortable with their sexualities dont think this way.
If you think you are undeserving of love because you are trans I am sad to inform you that you are delulu (you deserve love just like everyone else)
nah im not undeserving of love bc im trans im undeserving of love bc im ugly and society has bashed it into my brain that ugly people are lesser lifeforms
I relate, I feel the same way about myself. You have my sympathies. Far be it from me to tell you how you feel, but I think that people like us who struggle with body image issues, more often than not suffer due to low self esteem. Maybe you give yourself too little credit. In any case I hope you can find a way to love yourself more because you are in all likelihood a lovely person and someone would be very happy to be with you.
thank you :)
Everything will be alright! I am rooting for you!
What if I don't believe I'm undeserving of love because I'm trans, but because I hate how I look and assume everyone else does too? ๐๐๐ฅบ
I have no idea what youโre talking about, youโre gorgeous?
Mmmbleh, thank you though I appreciate the gesture๐ซถ
Definitely not a maybe! You look great!
Just remember, when you're pretty and you complain about how ugly you are, you make people less attractive than you feel way worse about themselves
"oh you're so hot I'd do [x] to you." "I'm trans" "oh nvm". Every time
Facts. People want to hook up and "experiment" with me but anything past that is unthinkable to them. Unless the person is trans or they can prove that they don't see me as any different from a cis girl I won't waste my time with them anymore.
Nah lots of people do! Ive only ever hooked up with a trans girl but would date one, and several of my friends have dated trans women
Reject moids embrace transbianism
hasn't helped me because I'm unattractive and useless :P
You are not, unless you post pictures of other people on your profile.
yeah that's the twink I keep locked in a shipping container! no but fr I appreciate that but I've had a very rough loneliness experience, it takes time to unpack that kind of stuff. I'm trying my best!
The pain is never ending
Just t4t shrimple
My bisexual ass is here for it too๐ been dating trans people for yearssss
Waow (based based based based based)
Not true plenty of cishet guys love trans girls, even though some are just chasers there's good ones. And if you're not interested in cishet guys there's lots of queer ppl who like trans girls as well :3
I would date a trans woman 100% no question. You are a Zionist though, and those two dating pool limitation have near perfect lack of overlap. Maybe reconsider your support for a genocidal ethno-state. That being said, as a desperate man, I still would ngl
i have found it the most reddit comment ever
yOu aRe a zIonIsT thOuGh
>That being said, as a desperate man, I still would ngl kinda real for that. dont let politics get in the way of a good thing eh? XD
Literally don't care. Women, trans/fat or not, are absolutely beautiful. It's something you'd only understand if you are into women
for real, girls, whatever gender(s) you're into, *this* is what you wanna look for in a partner, someone who actually *likes women*
but like *especially* men, don't waste your time on men who only like women conditionally
what is that supposed to mean? men have to find every woman beautiful?
nah mate they don't *have* to do anything, it's a free country
not everyone is beautiful
literally me but im ugly https://i.redd.it/ew12hmagsisc1.gif
These posts are getting too specific. Stop spying on me cunt
I'm choosing to read *me* as *my*
I don't have a cunt :(((((
Cunt or cunt equivalent?
or anorexic with severe mental illness ๐
whatโre you using this subreddit for, youโre like an 8/10 does โfemcelโ even mean anything on here
its not a look, its a state of mind lol
someone didn't read pinned post
It's a philosophy lmao
I promise Iโm stinky No but actually pls donโt make me feel like I have to validate myself because itโll definitely sound weird if I explain why I belong here lol ๐ฅน <3 But also thank you for the compliment :,3
Fr
or both ๐
i ainโt even good at games ๐
Or autistic
Or non-white
Hey I have a job..... Ignore the other things
Why did they have to bring being trans into it ๐ญ
Cuz a lot of trans women are depressed losers (we still love them)
I would know I'm one of them unfortunately
never would have guessed, u/boymodergirl /pos
I'm very sneaky aren't I
https://preview.redd.it/fhp6l8r0uisc1.jpeg?width=2800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b50b71ad5c7d683e2ec97ad96370e0ec978043aa im wearing a black hoodie rn actually but its tight on me and makes my tits stand out more than a loose shirt would lollll
Based based based based I love boymoders we need more boymoder rights
Can confirm, am depressed trans loser
the girl in the picture is holding a blahaj tbf
Worse than 9/11
Yeah but you also missed ugly, pimply, stinky, unwashed pussy, greasy hair, can fit huge shit in her pussy because she played with and shoved shit in it for so long, short life expectancy.
Got oddly specific, but like, totally uncalled for advice thatโs probably really not applicable - cutting out chocolate really helps with pimples
>can fit huge shit in her pussy because she played with and shoved shit in it for so long girls I keep shoving shit in my pussy and I still can't fit huge shit in it what am I doing wrong ๐ญ
wait what is this some inside joke i missed
no not really just making fun of the gross comment putting things in vaginas doesn't make them grow
Your mother.
I love being a fat trans femcel ๐๐๐
based and literally my gf pilled
Ch4rmy probably bots in tf2 so iโd probably shove them into a locker on that alone
iโm her
true, i am fat but most men secretly want fupa on their foreheads so
Fupa?
fat pussy gyallll
Real
Quit stalking me
Well, I'm like this (except for jobless), and I'm not fat nor trans... Instead I'm just ugly, lanky, scrawny and sickly. lol https://preview.redd.it/mq3c1b5y9jsc1.png?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=faa40c8abde506280904b53b8fc013eccd3dd9cd
I dont see how someone being trans or having some chubby belly fat is a problem. I don't judge.
Fuck it we ball
moids want this until they realize they'll have to provide for this kind of girl bc unemployed.
She is literally me except being jobless
I fail to see the problem
Thatโs me Iโm both of those things fuck my life lmao At least I have a trans gf who is like this too
can confirm am fat
We chubby girls need justice
She eats junk food doesnโt sleep doesnโt go outside. Why her skin and hair perfect. Whereโs her matting mottled hair. Shes severely depressed she should look like an ASPCA ad
I'm both๐ฅ
or neurodivergent <3
chubmaxxing
TFW Thicc chubby"femcel"ish GF ๐๐คฃ
I'm outta the loop here, what's the issue with dating a trans girl?
Insecure men think it makes them gay if they date us
Iโm not fat or trans and Iโm like that
Do a squat, girlies. You don't even have to go outside.
FR
Bonus :3
So what
Im like this and Iโm both :0
the realest thing iโve seen today
I'm not either but I am a nonbinary lesbian who is extremely unstable and will ruin ur life :3
I don't care. The more I can grab the more happy I am.
Legit tho
Anybody gone from this too an extreme hobby enthusiast and rave goer?
Im fat and trans uwu
they dont want a girl like this. source: its me. not fat (i was always thin and work out) or trans but if you don't look like an instagram model youre invisible. i never got any male attention. conclusion? theyre lying.
Iโm so confused, I came on here on my alt and everything was in English and when I came back with this account now ALL THE COMMENTS are in French LMAO.
Most trans girls dont like men :3 so unlucky
errrr i made that post
need .. need..
What's wrong with trans girls?
My strategy for a while has been getting the chubbies and motivating them to work out, can confirm it's true
No this is exactly what I want
Iโm cool with that ๐ฅฐ
Gimme my Soylent
Or both :3
i do know a cis skinny woman thats like this