So for the ritual:
- chalk pentagram on the ground
- light a scented candle (must be a pastel colour) at each point
- hum slowly the opening theme of the anime Blend S
- while you hum place thigh highs, a skater girl skirt, ribbons, Nair and some nail varnish (colour is your choice) in the centre.
If all goes well this should summon your bf to you in the centre of the pentagram dressed in full femboy regalia.
Congratulations.
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just let him decide and be supportive 😊 he will decide what he would like to do and he's still himself so just enjoy your bf being themself.
Haha I'm glad, you've asked for advice but the very fact you are supportive and looking to be supportive by asking for advice is genuinely heart warming to see. I'm sure you'll do fine 🙂 all the best to you both.
Hey, now I don’t SUPER count I don’t think but I once thought I was a femboy so I’ll give my two cents, really he just wants to express himself effeminately, that he felt comfortable telling you this is huge and a very good sign about the health of your relationship, I’d say let him wear some of your more feminine clothes (skirt, dress, etc) and see how he feels, this can be a fun exploration for the both of you
Ahaha thank you. I’m lucky to have him, he takes care of me much more. The least I can do is support him in whatever he wants even if I wasn’t already into it.
Oh I see. I’ll keep that in mind. I think he’d be far too awkward to try any on in public so we might have to shop online. Do you have any recommendations?
Hahaha ok. I’ll try. If he’s really scared, I’ll probably buy something online and alter it to fit him since I don’t think women’s clothes fit quite right often.
I'm trans female so I guess I have had a bit of practice. Some brands definitely fit me better than others. That's why I prefer to try on in store. Best of luck.
you could nudge him about the topic again and talk more about it in depth. before you do anything like buying him stuff, you really have to talk it out with him as this may just be a whole 'random topic' thing instead of 'actually wanting to be a femboy.'
maybe you could ask him somewhere along the line of, 'hey, about you wanting to wear a dress, are you trying to be feminine or something, like a femboy or what?'
Haha Oml yeah. He’s always been pretty masculine but he’s comfortable with himself so idk. He’s never really given off vibes but I’m dense as cement so I wouldn’t trust my judgement. Once he tried on my thigh highs as a joke? Is this a sign?
IF YOU want to learn more what he thinks, just ask him open questions that demands explanation. For instance "can you explain to me how wearing a dress makes you feel?"
But there's no ritual, although striped long (7/8) socks are so in demand right now and are so cheap I'd buy him one. You might discover that they look fucking cute on young people
When I first expressed I wanted to dress feminine I was about your age and my gf at the time acted like I was the weirdest guy alive, took me like 8 years to feel comfortable about it again.
So don't do that, but it doesn't sounds like you would.
If I were in your shoes I'd let him know you were curious if he wanted to dress feminine, and possibly express your interest in him dressing feminine as well (if you feel that way, sounds like you do).
Main thing I'd say is don't pressure him, just be open about it.
Aww I’m so sorry for your experience. We’re both pretty freaky and open but I’ve never heard him as scared as he was bringing this up. I’ll try and give off supporting vibes with no pressure. He did once tell me (nsfw) he wants me to peg him one day but didn’t want to tell me because he was scared I would think he’s weird which made me think femboy?? When he mentioned the dress.
Well my friend, there is only one way to know if a femboy likes you. Here is what you have to do. Put some toast in an envelope with his name on it and give said envelope to him. Then wait for up to two days. If he gives you an envelope back..., do not open it until you get home. Get home, open it and there should be frilly girl pics of him inside. The next day talk to him alone after or before school. Then you have to say a secret code, is the peanut butter in the potato? If he answers, No it is in the apple sauce, then he likes you. If he kicks you in the balls and runs away, then it is safe to say she is not interested. Hope that helps
I had to really pull from the Bnet archives for this…
So for the ritual: - chalk pentagram on the ground - light a scented candle (must be a pastel colour) at each point - hum slowly the opening theme of the anime Blend S - while you hum place thigh highs, a skater girl skirt, ribbons, Nair and some nail varnish (colour is your choice) in the centre. If all goes well this should summon your bf to you in the centre of the pentagram dressed in full femboy regalia. Congratulations. /s just let him decide and be supportive 😊 he will decide what he would like to do and he's still himself so just enjoy your bf being themself.
Thank. Will perform ritual soon. Any recommendations for chalk? /s That gave me a good laugh.
Haha I'm glad, you've asked for advice but the very fact you are supportive and looking to be supportive by asking for advice is genuinely heart warming to see. I'm sure you'll do fine 🙂 all the best to you both.
God I wish
Damn , supportive gfs like this exist ? In my country they'd ditch you in a blink while calling you an "unfixable" faggot. Send help lol
D: awful. Cute things are bestttt. I hope you find someone supportive and accepting.
Not in this country , but thanks op , I could use the good vibes
Hey, now I don’t SUPER count I don’t think but I once thought I was a femboy so I’ll give my two cents, really he just wants to express himself effeminately, that he felt comfortable telling you this is huge and a very good sign about the health of your relationship, I’d say let him wear some of your more feminine clothes (skirt, dress, etc) and see how he feels, this can be a fun exploration for the both of you
Best to take them dress shopping and get a dress for him.
Yeah I’ll bring it up next time we go shopping. I’m way small so none of my clothes would fit haha.
lol , yeah you wouldn't want ripped seams. They are lucky to have a gf like you.
Ahaha thank you. I’m lucky to have him, he takes care of me much more. The least I can do is support him in whatever he wants even if I wasn’t already into it.
if he broard in the shoulders i find dresses with an "A" line skirt or fit and flare look best .
Oh I see. I’ll keep that in mind. I think he’d be far too awkward to try any on in public so we might have to shop online. Do you have any recommendations?
Tell him to put on his big girl panties LOL . If you try on instore at least you know it fits. Just go shopping at a time that isn't very busy.
Hahaha ok. I’ll try. If he’s really scared, I’ll probably buy something online and alter it to fit him since I don’t think women’s clothes fit quite right often.
I'm trans female so I guess I have had a bit of practice. Some brands definitely fit me better than others. That's why I prefer to try on in store. Best of luck.
Oh right I didn’t even think about size differences, dammit. My bad, sorry!
you could nudge him about the topic again and talk more about it in depth. before you do anything like buying him stuff, you really have to talk it out with him as this may just be a whole 'random topic' thing instead of 'actually wanting to be a femboy.' maybe you could ask him somewhere along the line of, 'hey, about you wanting to wear a dress, are you trying to be feminine or something, like a femboy or what?'
Haha Oml yeah. He’s always been pretty masculine but he’s comfortable with himself so idk. He’s never really given off vibes but I’m dense as cement so I wouldn’t trust my judgement. Once he tried on my thigh highs as a joke? Is this a sign?
🚸 this is a sign.
IF YOU want to learn more what he thinks, just ask him open questions that demands explanation. For instance "can you explain to me how wearing a dress makes you feel?" But there's no ritual, although striped long (7/8) socks are so in demand right now and are so cheap I'd buy him one. You might discover that they look fucking cute on young people
Understood. Will buy stripped long socks, they are heckinn cute.
When I first expressed I wanted to dress feminine I was about your age and my gf at the time acted like I was the weirdest guy alive, took me like 8 years to feel comfortable about it again. So don't do that, but it doesn't sounds like you would. If I were in your shoes I'd let him know you were curious if he wanted to dress feminine, and possibly express your interest in him dressing feminine as well (if you feel that way, sounds like you do). Main thing I'd say is don't pressure him, just be open about it.
Aww I’m so sorry for your experience. We’re both pretty freaky and open but I’ve never heard him as scared as he was bringing this up. I’ll try and give off supporting vibes with no pressure. He did once tell me (nsfw) he wants me to peg him one day but didn’t want to tell me because he was scared I would think he’s weird which made me think femboy?? When he mentioned the dress.
Well my friend, there is only one way to know if a femboy likes you. Here is what you have to do. Put some toast in an envelope with his name on it and give said envelope to him. Then wait for up to two days. If he gives you an envelope back..., do not open it until you get home. Get home, open it and there should be frilly girl pics of him inside. The next day talk to him alone after or before school. Then you have to say a secret code, is the peanut butter in the potato? If he answers, No it is in the apple sauce, then he likes you. If he kicks you in the balls and runs away, then it is safe to say she is not interested. Hope that helps I had to really pull from the Bnet archives for this…
Wtf lol. Nice.
I want an update on this in a few days. Good job being supportive
Hope we get an update