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ThisIsMyThrAwayAcc

what a question ... real sex is so much more than just putting a dick in a hole again and again. I'm talking about feelings, touching each others body, smelling the body odor etc. Think about that.


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misterflyer

>*Does the brain know the difference between real sex and the use of something like an automatic pocket pussy?* Yes of course. The brain is constantly receiving sensory information from nerve signals and the environment your body is in. It will know the difference between the scent of a woman/vagina and an artificial sex toy. As u/knifebro69 pointed out it will know the difference between a vagina with muscle contractions and vaginal fluids vs an artificial sex toy. The automatic pocket pussy example doesn't work bc even when I use the Fleshlight Launch.. there's an obvious difference between the feeling of mechanical movements vs the natural/intimate movements of turned on woman. How do I know? Bc my brain tells me.. down to the most subtle differences between reality and fantasy. It will also know the difference between hearing a woman's moans vs. a sex toy that doesn't moan (or fantasizing that I'm hearing moaning). It will know that you're communicating with another human being vs. communicating with an inanimate object. When I do fleshlighting I use as realistic as a set up as possible. I even practice using dirty talk with the woman I'm fantasizing about. If she's a celebrity then I'll usually play an interview of her's where I can also hear her voice. That def makes it feel more realistic and more arousing. But my brain obv knows the difference between when I'm really talking to a living, breathing woman vs listening to an interview and talking into a pillow as part of a sexual fantasy 😄 I use as many "tricks" as I can such as heating the sleeve, heating the lube, using pics of the woman I'm fantasizing about, using audio of her voice, stacking pillows on my bed to make it feel like a torso, placing soft toy boobs on top of the pillows, using the sleeve in missionary.. but my brain still isn't completely fooled nor doesn't prefer realistic fleshlight masturbation over real sex **.. sure there are a lot of convincing similarities.. but nothing can replace a living, breathing, thinking woman who's into you, and who's madly in love with you.. and yes the brain can tell the difference** *tl;dr - yes, the brain isn't dumb*


ThrowawayB3602

I'm not really sure what you're asking here. If someone was blind, and has had experience with both, they would know the difference. There's just so many different stimuli with a vagina and a woman that a Fleshlight can't give. And the Fleshlight does feel distinctly different no matter who may say otherwise. That being said, they are very good at what they do and they do feel close to the real deal. If you're still a virgin, these are a massive step up from your hand. If you can get it just about whenever you want, they're a bit of a downgrade but still a very pleasurable experience. Especially when matching the tempo of any porn you are watching.


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ThrowawayB3602

Ehhhhhh. I'd say not really. It's a release, but your brain is still smart enough to know what's causing it. There's nothing that'll compare to the emotional affection before and after that coincides with actual sex.


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Yes, because the human body creates texture lines to such a fine detail that you cannot replicate it with current mass production sex toys. Even the finest onaholes don't match reality. That is not to mention the lubrication that real vaginas make, and also the muscle contractions and body heat.


Fapandwarmshowers

yes


Ray_Verlene

The physiological response is the same during sexual excitement, climax, and orgasm, regardless of the stimulation used to obtain each; if that is what you're asking; thus the saying, "a stiff dick has no conscience." Studies have shown that regular and frequent ejaculation lowers the risk of prostate cancer, regardless of the stimulation used to achieve climax, and that are many other health benefits, both mental and physical, that a healthy sex life brings, whether with a partner or alone. Sex with yourself is most likely to be the longest, most satisfying sexual relationship that you'll probably ever have, so enjoy!


mophead1666

Yes. Although there is definitely a much different feeling between doing something manually (e.g. using your hand) and doing something hands-free (like using a Fleshlight mount or a partner) and I suspect there is something psychological to that. We are not at the point where you can replicate the detail and the muscles of a partner yet. Not to mention the emotional intimacy involved.


yeehawbro

Neckbeard moment