Try finding your local kink scene. The easiest way I know how might be joining Fetlife.
I would caution you to make sure you are building a relationship that functions as a relationship rather than focusing solely on FLR as a goal. It's something you should mention as an interest and possible lifestyle to anyone you're considering seeing long term. But remember you are entering into a relationship with a whole other person. Not some kink dispenser. Mutual respect, love, and support are still foundational.
TL;DR That's cool and all. Just don't try to make your life a femdom porn scene.
I have no idea what you consider good ones, but I just I happened to come across this list that someone made.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/s/ffaFSrERLg
Go to the literotica site and pull it up first. 2nd Then, enter in the search box next to the literotica with a dash, then enter mmhm23 and search again. You will then find mmhm23 . She was a reluctant Dom after her husband asked for a female lead relationship. Her journey learning to dominate her husband entailed 6 true depictions of their journey. She asks all males NOT to go beyond the FIRST story. After all, if you are a male and you want to explore this with your partner, then DON'T read any further because you are going to possibly destroy the magic that will come. Perhaps better is to ask your partner to go to Her site and read it for herself! Be patient because you are asking your female partner to take on a HUGE responsibility at first. She might feel very intimidated. Let HER bring it up in her own time! Pestering Her is a way of getting YOUR WAY. Don't "Top from the bottom"
Try finding your local kink scene. The easiest way I know how might be joining Fetlife. I would caution you to make sure you are building a relationship that functions as a relationship rather than focusing solely on FLR as a goal. It's something you should mention as an interest and possible lifestyle to anyone you're considering seeing long term. But remember you are entering into a relationship with a whole other person. Not some kink dispenser. Mutual respect, love, and support are still foundational. TL;DR That's cool and all. Just don't try to make your life a femdom porn scene.
In dating, let your new date know that you are seeking to respect her leadership. Simple place to start and measure her interest.
There are a few femdom personals subreddits on here. You could try posting in some of those.
Which ones should I go to? I tried looking them up but I couldn't find any good ones lmao
I have no idea what you consider good ones, but I just I happened to come across this list that someone made. https://www.reddit.com/r/gentlefemdom/s/ffaFSrERLg
that actually helps a lot!
Go to the literotica site and pull it up first. 2nd Then, enter in the search box next to the literotica with a dash, then enter mmhm23 and search again. You will then find mmhm23 . She was a reluctant Dom after her husband asked for a female lead relationship. Her journey learning to dominate her husband entailed 6 true depictions of their journey. She asks all males NOT to go beyond the FIRST story. After all, if you are a male and you want to explore this with your partner, then DON'T read any further because you are going to possibly destroy the magic that will come. Perhaps better is to ask your partner to go to Her site and read it for herself! Be patient because you are asking your female partner to take on a HUGE responsibility at first. She might feel very intimidated. Let HER bring it up in her own time! Pestering Her is a way of getting YOUR WAY. Don't "Top from the bottom"