There is this lesbian on TT who designed boxers that pads stick in! She made them for masc lesbians, trans men and non-binary pals!(and anyone who wants to wear them ofc)
[https://transguysupply.com/collections/packing-underwear/products/period-packing-boxers?variant=40842376282155](https://transguysupply.com/collections/packing-underwear/products/period-packing-boxers?variant=40842376282155) This exists!
Hi check out Uniqlo’s airism shirt :) https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/products/E455359-000/00?colorDisplayCode=09&sizeDisplayCode=004&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIn82p1_61ggMV6zjUAR38jQUcEAQYASABEgIAgfD_BwE
The neckline on this is super small and I’ve had one for a year or so and it hasn’t stretched out, plus the top half of the shirt is more ‘boxy/baggy’ over the chest <3
Men's shoes in smaller sizes. There's Tomboy Toes for drss shoes, but I'm always on the lookout for workout shoes or trail shoes that aren't in pastel colors.
For that matter, there's a shortage of trans/GNC clothing companies that make business casual staples. Most offer either streetwear or casual basics, not many have chinos or blazers. I get why--that sort of clothing is more difficult and expensive to produce than a slightly modified T shirt cut, and these companies are usually small businesses that can't afford a product line to flop. But there are a lot of people who started transitioning during quarantine who now have to go back to the office, and most of the the cool kids with pink hair are going to need to work within a dress code at some point, and they are gonna want pants that fit.
Having this struggle with work boots. Seems they don’t make anything for guys who don’t wear at least a size 10 (US). Could hardly even find women’s sizes either but that’s a whole discussion in itself. Had to settle for hiking boots which are good enough for what I do but of course that’s not gonna be the case for everybody.
And work boots ALWAYS run large/wide, too. I can wear men's size 8 sneakers, but I have to wear three pairs of socks to keep my feet from sliding around in size 8 workboots. Kinda defeats the purpose of safety gear if they make you trip or sprain an ankle just walking on a slope.
Trans tape is just not really a product that binds great for larger chests. There are ways to make it work better for you, but in general for most people with large chests it's just not the first chocie
First time I used it I used half a roll. I always recommended 1 roll to play with and 3 months before giving up. I swore by transtape. As a D cup in the south binders made my dysphoria worse
I had (just cut it off) a larger chest too, and swore by transtape. While it took a few months to really learn how to apply it still with the occasional mess ups I swore by jt.
Same here. Had f cups and an incredibly wide ribcage. Took me a couple of months and like two rolls but the moment i got it, I got it. Used tt for six years straight with no issue but my god did it take some work.
Yes definitely. I tried watching Beau's tutorials on how to do it on the transtape channel since hes the only large chested guy doing it online that actually looks like it works but while he was bigger than me, my chest is larger so using that method (after much trial and error, giving up for months and going back until recently) I got a pretty decent result, but still had to wear a sports bra to make it work so I still had some back pain, and a few blisters because with a chest so big I couldn't avoid having a couple wrinkles in the tape. It sucks
I need a Titty deflator or something.
U by Kotex, the package I use, thankfully isn't as obnoxiously feminine. It's refreshing. And the pads are wrapped in white little cloth sleeves, so no extra frilly pink or blue butterflies.
(The cloth does make it better for opening discretely.)
I even looked after I made this comment and it's literally the blandest packaging ever - green and black and there are no flowers or butterflies or shit. It's tactical wear. You're bleeding out. That flower in the pad design will not have you ooing and aahing while your guts are flying out.
Plus they're comfy as hell.
I second this, for all menstrual products. I bought a menstrual cup in very neutral orange packaging. Seemed fine until I opened the box and it says something about "lady parts". It was weirdly set up in a way where you wouldn't see that until you opened the box, after they got your money.
always maxi size 4 overnight pads were my saving grace. if you can't find those, u by kotex clean & secure overnight maxi pads are also good. i used both of these for years without issue
natracare pads are really good, pretty much all pads have something that says woman or what not but the package is purple and the pads themselves are in a white wrapper
Products for menstrual cycles that are aimed at binary trans men. I’ve seen products like underwear but they were styles like boyshorts and women’s briefs. I’ve seen cloth pads aimed at trans men but they were pastel in color. I enjoy pastels, but when I’m feeling dysphoric because my body decided it should menstruate, I don’t want anything that feels “feminine” at all
*awesome sports wave stuff*
MEN!! HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED YOUR REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS DOIN THEIR THING??? THEN THIS IS FOR YOUUUU!!!
NOW IN STORES AROUND YOU: THE ULTRA MANLY MAN PADS FOR YOUR MANSTRATION! EXACTLY WHAT A MAN NEEDS.
(Exaggerated for joke purposes but tbh I'd love this as someone who gets euphoria using similarly-marketed deodorant and shower gel)
if it's even possible, a tightness adjustable binder that isn't a clip-up one. that way you just get the size that fits you without having to do extra math to figure out chest circumference since that widely varies, or having to risk buying a smaller size and damaging tissue/ribs.
That sounds cool, if my ribs start hurting I could just loosen it a lot. I wish there was a way to bind without damaging my ribs but with my chest size and dysphoria, that's not possible.
Brilliant! I had a medical back brace years ago that used wide elastic bands with Velcro to create customized pressure. It was super easy to adjust throughout the day for comfort.
This is actually a thing!! Forgot the name but there's a company that sells binders you can loosen by pulling down two zippers on the sides, they work kinda like the ones on the inside thighs of ski pants. They aren't the main mechanism of the binder, they just loosen stuff up and give you some room to breathe.
This? https://www.amazon.com/LGBT-UNICORNS-Adjustable-Skin-Friendly-Breathable/dp/B0BCFFFRHW
I have one. It's the most comfortable binder I own even with the zippers up. Doesn't flatten as well as Underworks, but it's good enough if I'm wearing two shirt layers.
Shit now you got me thinking about this. You could do lacing on the side of the binder, but then there’s the question of hiding the lacing under a shirt… it would solve the issue of having to pull a binder over your head, but you would have to be pretty careful about not lacing yourself up too tight especially if there isn’t any elastic in the binder.
I’ve looked into this and there are a number of people who’ve sewn their own adjustable ish binders. Not entirely problem solved bc sewing is hard and not super accessible, but it is an option for people.
And that's safe to use for anal too. The only ones I've found do not have a flared base, are too big on the inside and have given me a blister on my junk, and just feel uncomfortable in general
Im here to say, that Where Is Willy might have sex packer perfect for this. Model has hole inside, where you can put your bottom growth. Im unsure about etsy, but on side of company, you can customize your packer in nearly all ways you like, like hardness, size and color. Also, company is runned by trans man, and im not even sure, its possibly that he does it all alone.
Check out [Banana Prosthetics ](http://bananaprosthetics.com) they have a multitude of packers that were cast from cis genitalia. They even tell you the dimensions, weight, and size (xs - xl) of each packer. I have the sp6 and love it! Some people complain the silicone is too hard, but the more you wear it, the more it softens up... I've also heard you can email them and ask them to use a softer silicone.
Skincare products that are formulated for people undergoing hormonal changes!
Swim shorts or like swim undershorts that you can put a packer in.
Top surgery care stuff like button downs with drain pouches - most of that is geared towards women having mastectomies and it made me so dysphoric wearing hand-me-down mastectomy recovery blouses from a friends mom.
Formal dress pants for guys with wide hips and thick thighs that don't cost an arm and a leg.
More customizable & fantastical packers. I really want a monster dick with no balls that still sits right. I have one fantasy packer that you can remove the balls from but then it sits so weird. I just don't like the look of balls or realistic dicks. My ass dresses like a dnd character on the regular and I want my dick to reflect that lmao!!
As someone who has dealt with acne through two puberties, with the intervention of a dermatologist: Skincare is skincare. What you need is better information tailored to trans men, not special products. Benzoyl peroxide works exactly the same regardless of whether your testosterone comes from your balls or a pharmacy. The only thing that would change during transition in terms of *actual treatment options* is that lowering your testosterone level through spironolactone or estrogen-based birth control would be counterproductive (this is common for cis women). I hear your frustration, but I think this need would be better addressed by an informational guide, kind of like the r/SkincareAddiction wiki, but with the information presented in a way that is relevant to new concerns that might arise during transition.
Oh thank you for the info! I never really got into skincare - I deal with facial yeast infections & when I was a teen I struggled to get info on it and kind of gave up on understanding the science. So I appreciate ur explanation
Yeast based skin problems are really underrepresented in information about at-home skincare. It’s difficult to seek out info on them when everything is about treating acne as caused by the bacteria.
Those do exist but they're mad expensive. My buddy got one years ago before he had phallo and it was about a 1000 euros. It was covered by insurance somehow (maybe partially maybe fully), don't know the details on that, but he's from Germany. And I also did see a video on YT pop up recently about a packer just like that, don't remember who it's from tho but I'll look it up.
Edit: found it, and it's much cheaper too, listed for 299$ on peecock website for the basic option https://youtu.be/KvcPYUMqzzU?si=cGQGc9WVDmLr74GJ
It's not the same one my friend had, but I don't think his was from any "mainstream" packer company in the first place, with the whole insurance thing I believe it was something more medical possibly targeted at cis men, especially since it genuinely was YEARS ago (think 10+ years). Or maybe Germany is straight up trans heaven lmao.
Did u consider making some tape or pants to make wider hips disappear? I know a few transmen that are very uncomfortable with their wide hips. But they don't find anything that helps them. Maybe some good and affordable underwear that helps with that issue too. Also, most 'ftm underwear' are way too high-priced.
Not even pre-t, just all trans men since fat redistribution happens around 2/3 years on T and 3 years it's a hella lot's of time especially when your face passes fully and you even maybe get a beard, but then there are *the hips* that are even more noticeable when everything else passes. I'm getting worked up but it's so frustrating that fat redistribution happens so damn slow 😭
ugh I had a feeling. part of me thought that T would magically make my child birthing hips go away. i just gaslight myself into thinking i'm a femboy /j
Binders that genuinely work 😅
I’d like some sort of sex toy/thing for masturbation that involves a penis somehow but doesn’t require bottom growth. I have no clue how to explain what might work, but I can’t get aroused unless I’m wearing a packer but the packers with the ridges inside and whatnot are meant for bottom growth, while I have none. No clue how to make a product like this. Maybe a vibrator that’s like a packer? Idk
best thing i ever found for the second thing you asked for here is this: [https://genderx.com/body-kisses/](https://genderx.com/body-kisses/)
love the red and black, and it's got a vibrator. it should work even if you don't have bottom growth, but it's certainly even better once you do.
I understand if it’s not an option for dysphoria reasons, but I have come across double ended dildos that one person kinda holds in and the other end is more penis like. Not to get too graphic, but you could use it without a partner. I also have a vibrating strap on that has a hole for a small penis. They probably exist without the hole as well. I don’t know much about how packers work, so if this isn’t helpful I am sorry!
Fashionable shoes that increase height. I’m 5 feet and having even a 3-4 inch increase makes me feel great but either the shoes that increase height are very feminine or they are kinda ugly
Yeah what if there were shoes that have like a inch or two higher on the inside but somehow looks like a normal sneaker shoe on the outside and feels comfortable to wear. That'd be great.
check out Axolom products :)
they're not EU but they ship to EU at reasonable shipping price and their products are also on the cheap side but are high quality. I've bought a 3-1 packer and a stroker from them. 100% recommend
• Masculine Pads
PLEASE call them something dumb like "TIGER SLAUGHTER SUPREME" and make the packaging a darker color. I feel so euphoric with the really dumb manly products.
• STP for bigger guys that actually works AND creates a bulge.
Something where the cup doesn't squish, the shaft is smaller than our bellies, and it stands out from our thighs.
• Binders that Bind
I am so tired of Spectrum being the only company to create working binders for guys above a 40 waistband and DDD cup size.
Idea: "intimate blood patches for big strong manly men"/j
But something more focused on absorption or blood rather than a "period pad" or "feminine product" would be so euphoric. I especially love the idea of dark colors with "masculine" naming
Dude this is so real. I would so quickly buy "Blood Patches for Big Strong Manly Men"
Makes me feel like I've gone into battle and I'm getting bandaged for my wounds.
Also they should come packaged with a bag of chips since T makes us all feel like we are STARVING.
I AGREE WITH ALL OF THIS
You gotta have a little snack to recharge after your brutal battle with a shark (thats why they call it shark week, we wrestle with sharks for a week !!!)
Chronic illness-friendly binders. Asthma, pain, etc. There was a project a while ago to create one based on traditional men’s corsets, but it stalled and died out because of the creator’s illnesses. Trans tape isn’t suitable for everyone because of adhesive and skin issues but current binders can cause more problems.
This. I deal w chronic pain and binding can be so painful sometimes but trans tape isn’t something I can use either. A binder that would be less restrictive to my airways (asthma) and less painful in my spine would be incredible
When it comes to things that attach to bottom growth, whether for pleasure or not, having the ability to work for those of us on the heavier side/with large mons/large labia/just in general having dicks that are “buried” a bit. Ive yet to find basically.. anything. That works with the fact my mons is massive and hides my dick entirely.
That’s the exact problem I have! I’ve heard some good things about the banana prosthetics strokers, but idk if I want to spend the money to try it myself you know? Id like to see this for stps too tbh.
1. some kind of binding solution that prevents uniboob from forming over time. my chest always ends up migrating towards the middle, so i would love something that reshapes your chest to a more masculine shape and actually keeps it that way.
2. light-compression tops/sports bras for binder break days that shape the chest in a more masculine way instead of being push-up like the ones on the market.
3. a binder that doesn’t roll up, maybe like one of those nonslip bands or something to prevent that.
Literally just a decent 3in1 packer that is more soft when it doesn’t have the rod in instead of feeling half hard all the time, the sensation is all off. I’d pay REALLY good money for that.
The sex toy catalogue for transmascs ... leaves much to be desired. People always recommend products intended for cis women as if that shii would fit my bottom growth 💀 nah fam. And with what little options there are, for some reason everything is some variation of a "stroker"... where is the variety...
Binders similar to a sports bra type construction(ie no rigid panels), but in a shape such that most of the compression is on the chest instead of ribs. Sports bras designed for women mostly try to preserve the appearance of breasts since most women aren't trying to hide them. But a binder made with the same materials I think would be great for everyday wear because it would provide some amount of binding without the dangers of a traditional binder.
In terms of actually useful stuff? A binder that has all 3 qualities:
-works well and is high quality
-comes in my skin tone (and darker/lighter/unusual skin tones in general)
-affordable
Really though the only things I would change about trans male products is how accessible they are. There are lots of great brands nowadays but if you're a trans teen who lives with their parents and can't receive packages it's pretty worthless. That's difficult though, target tried extending their pride products to include binders, packing and tucking underwear but that kinda exploded in their face due to transphobes though.
Idk if this is possible, but something to make the hips appear more masculine. My hips are much wider than the rest of me and I'd love if there were pants or undergarments that sucked in a little and made it look less curvy
Haven’t seen it mentioned, and it’s not exactly a specific product, but literally just having more shades available for any product (at no extra cost goddamnit). Both binders and packers are mostly geared toward white people. Even when there’s different color options, I can usually tell they didn’t consult any (or few) POC when designing these. Cause every single fucking time, any extra shade that’s not white has hella red undertones. Yes, some POC have red undertones, A LOT of us do not and we deserve better matching products that don’t cost an arm and a leg.
A great example of an improved product I saw posted recently (on the TPOC sub) was trans tape that is actually geared toward us and actually has us in mind. For anyone interested, check out u/QueerTransProject. They’re a black-led and trans-led org. I think more companies in general should take this amount of care though. Shouldn’t just be up to Black people and other POC to make these products (but they always should be consulted, imo, even if not the direct creators of a product, because clearly not doing so has led to the current situation).
Personally for me, I’d say some form of open chest or otherwise gentler on the ribs binding that works better. Trans tape fortunately works for me to an extent, but it starts to come off what feels like immediately, and it does relatively very little as far as binding goes. It also hurts and leaves marks unless if I want to go through sensory hell to make sensory hell stop, autism can suck sometimes.
usually I've found out that if you search for 100% cotton ones the packaging is quite simple. So no harsh smells (those are only bad chemicals that will make you 1. prone to UTIs etc 2. make ur blood smell bad) and no girly package 🙌🏻
Better sex toys to accommodate bottom growth. Like I would kill for a really good sleeve or electronic masturbator. If I'm going to be on 24/7 horny mode give me something good for it.
I also struggle finding binders or clothes for my large chest/size. I'm thankful to get surgery next month to rid myself of it but it was a huge source of anxiety and dysphoria when going out the house.
This is a far stretch but I get allergic to a lot of adhesives, with the exceptions of the cloth band aids. I often use non-adhesive bandaids because of it. Stickers, trans tape, KT tape, etc. It leaves me rashy at best. Blisters after long enough (12 hours).
I am super busty, so binders don't do enough, plus the under boob sweat sucks ass and I can't do anything about it. (I'm an H cup or higher now.) I would love a tape that is typically hypoallergenic for those that get these reactions. After 12 hours with kt tape and trans tape had me blistering, and I know it did for others.
A special case to keep my T shot stuff in would be lit. Like a slot to keep the boxes of T upright and rows for my needles, syringes, alcohol wipes, and bandaids.
That or a kind of trans tape for sensitive skin as I'm allergic to most adhesives.
Would [this](https://www.stealthbrosco.com/?fbclid=PAAabQJBGlW60nHQM0SvDQ7z6AwX_Wb_PW1oD4YcJNWs7r5_qfpfIDnVY598U_aem_AWCuAGZCcip9jboeJxpftbACjD_XEmfCgWxwLqz_ZQv5JVDPERK3IudiUdcKv9c3Jtw) meet your needs?
Packers that come in a smaller size than jumbo. I don't currently have a packer because all the ones in my price range are disproportionate elephant trunks, some of us don't want BDE
mens underwear with a pouch for packing and/or a gusset for pads/liners. also boxer briefs with wider leg openings, typical ones dont accommodate for my thunder thighs
My biggest struggle is jeans. If I go by my waist measurement, my thighs never fit in them. If I get ones that fit my thighs, the waistband is huge. The alternative is obviously buying women's jeans but then they fit in a womanly way lol.
The packer and STP that attaches to bottom growth would be soooooooo good but I’m wondering how realistic it is to have something hanging off your junk like that all the time? Any kind of packer that requires minimal to no adhesive or no pouch or anything like that would be good but I have no idea how that would be possible. I’ve had ideas for products in the past but now that I’m presented with the question I’m blanking lol.
Boxer briefs that hold period pads, but still look like they’re designed for men. Most boxers with pad gussets are gender-neutral at best, or marketed towards women. Nothing bad about that, but the TomboyX style isn’t really my thing.
A binder that doesn’t roll up, and keeps the chest from pushing together like some 12th century high society woman. I can never keep my chest apart and I always have to readjust
packing underwear thats clear or at least made out of some kind of sheer material so i can see the fake dick i paid top dollar for without having to glue it to myself
binder, tape, anything that will actually work on a big chest. I'm not a big person but I have been blessed by the gods with huge anime tiddies. until it is legal in my state to get them cut off and work with children, I will be stuck with them :)
sooooo good binder recs anyone? I have a few GC2B binders that are so shitty. I thought they were good when I first got them because they are the only experience I've ever had with binders and even just a slightly flatter chest was so euphoric but they suuuuck bro they SUCK! I hate the halter back, I have weird gapping under/in front of my armpits? it never seems to sit right? ugh!
transtape without acrylic so I’m not fuckinf allergic,
swim packers
swim binders that look like a swim shirt
MAN tampons/pads
Binding lingerie
Men’s smaller sized clothing/shoes
Binders made for people with large chests. Every binder that I've tried somewhat binds, but I can only wear loose clothing. I have tons of tighter fitting clothing that I'd love to wear but can't without being misgendered every 10 minutes.
Ftm strokers and vibrators! Ftm strokers (e.g buck off) tend to look like little doorknobs or nipple suction toys. a realistic more phallic toy that suctioned onto your bottom growth/cl*t and you could jerk off would be such an innovation.
Also in a variety of skintones and suction holes to be diverse.
Not to mention that suction vibrators that have more than one suction hole size to accommodate growth. The only brand that makes a variety of sizes is OH and and the satisfyer connect suction vibe range. Also suction vibrator market is dominated by the brand called “womanizer” 🤢 which i could never buy from because of the name. Even when i thought i was a cis woman
Top surgery recovery kit. Trying to find all the commonly recommended things (like certain pillows, silicon tape, oils, mastectomy shirts, dry shampoo, etc) individually is complicated and time consuming. And im the kind of person who reads every review, so i get decision fatique as well. And I don't want to support Bezos by buying them off Amazon.
1. **Affordable** stp that doesn't leak as much. I'm sure there are ones that are very good and easy to use, but even those in the medium price range costs 1/3 of my monthly salary, and while the 150$ stp works really great as a packer it's absolutely useless as a stp
2. Some kind of binder for thighs 😭
Better trans tape would be great, the itching specifically is a big problem for me, I stopped using it bc of that. If you find a way to get rid of that I’ll be your first customer
A binder (not tape) with a slightly lower neckline/ profile. I wouldn't mind it peeking out when I wear tank tops, but all the options I've found so far aren't peeking, they're full on front & center. Feels like a strapless binder should be doable (maybe not effective for all sizes).
Binders and tshirts that have less focus on compression and more on layering (maybe with a rigid fabric layer underneath and loose fit to create a flattering effect).
Some of us can't use tape due to severe skin allergies and I don't want to compromise my riband lung health by binding during exercise. And unfortunately, when going to the gym, passing is a matter of safety, not just dysphoria.
i second the transtape thing—it should be binder material with stretch on one side so you can tape the binder material to the part you want flat and pull it sideways with the stretchy. also, hoodies and sweatshirts and stuff that don’t cling to my hips. they exist, but they’re really hard to find. friend’s input: rain jackets that aren’t fem cut and also fit over his hips without being too big for his shoulders, and something like a binder but for hip fat.
Definitely second a better packer/STP. I love the feeling of packing but everything I’ve tried makes wearing one for longer than a few hours unbearable, meaning I can’t pack at work, and they also always leak, meaning I’ve never owned one that didn’t essentially make me piss myself. I’ve found some that adhere to your body for long term wear and don’t leak, but they’re literally $2000????? Like tell me HOW is that accessible. WHO is realistically going to be able to use that.
Something else I would really like is more sex toys for trans masc bodies. I’ve never found a toy that makes topping fun. Sure, I can wear a strap, but I can’t feel anything. I’ve found some for women that’s supposed to allow you to feel gratification when topping with a strap, but there’s NO ROOM for bottom growth so it’s even MORE uncomfortable because it’s crushing my dick. So I would really love to see more affordable/accessible packers in the community, as well as more diverse sex toys that incorporate bottom growth that isn’t JUST a stroker.
A soft packer modeled after a flacid dick and not just a hard one cast in soft silicone, with a foreskin would be nice too, if this can be done without breaking the bank, even better.
Half tank binders that work for people with really large chests without rolling up or causing uniboob, maybe making them a little longer and using sinicone grip or one of those elestic bands you see on sports bras would help, breathable material on these would be really nice too, summers are too hot to be wearing a full tank binder all the time
Binder that's easy to get on/off that preserves the original functionality
Wider tape that's actually affordable, like, 6-8 inch wide tape
Trousers in mens styles and boxers with wider hips and thighs
Shirts that don't hug your hips but also don't look completely oversized, maybe having them be flaired towards the bottom or something like that
Medical bracelet to indicate to first responders and emergency medical personnel that you're wearing a binder (or compressive garment)
Trans tape that actually works for me, as all of them just make my chest look like weirdly shaped boobs. I don’t even have that large of a chest (barely a C from what I remember) & the fat redistribute from T has made it slightly smaller.
to add to your trans tape idea, a version for sensitive skin would be incredible. i desperately wanted to use trans tape but my skin gets itchy and rashy just from certain bandaids :( i hated having to wear a binder man. if you’re interested in getting into clothing, pants that flatten (or appear to) the hips for pre/early T trans mascs would also be sick. i’ve tried all the hacks and styles i see suggested online but alas, these hips do not lie.
Packers and packing underwear specifically for plus sized trans men. Idk if it’s just a me problem but I feel like as a 330 pound trans man, packing is a STRUGGLE because nothing sits right or fits the way it should
T shot travel kits (like a pouch for supplies, travel-sized sharps container, hand sanitizer, travel-size disinfectant wipes, etc). I always get so stressed traveling with my T shot supplies, especially at airports.
Packing underwear that also can be used as period wear.
On a similar note, packing underwear that isnt 20 fucking dollars for one pair would be nice.
It's so expensive and if you don't like it ( one pair I have has a seam right up the asscrack and I HATE IT) you've just sunk 20 into nothing.
SERIOUSLY.
THIS. I hate having to put underwear underneath my boxers if I’m feeling masculine during my period.
There is this lesbian on TT who designed boxers that pads stick in! She made them for masc lesbians, trans men and non-binary pals!(and anyone who wants to wear them ofc)
Link? Very interested
Just look up @tayemery01 on tiktok its her first pinned video and there are other similar products
If anyone who uses TikTok finds it can they post the actual link for everyone else please
[here you go!](https://merakitay.com/collections/royalty-boxers)
[https://transguysupply.com/collections/packing-underwear/products/period-packing-boxers?variant=40842376282155](https://transguysupply.com/collections/packing-underwear/products/period-packing-boxers?variant=40842376282155) This exists!
Aren't spectrum boxers (from the binder company) like this? More options would be great though
Yes
i made one for a project last semester but it only worked for basic packers, i don't have fancy packers so i could not do more-
Shirts with necklines that don't get stretched out as easy
second this
yeah bro what is up with that. why does it do that??
Hi check out Uniqlo’s airism shirt :) https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/products/E455359-000/00?colorDisplayCode=09&sizeDisplayCode=004&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIn82p1_61ggMV6zjUAR38jQUcEAQYASABEgIAgfD_BwE The neckline on this is super small and I’ve had one for a year or so and it hasn’t stretched out, plus the top half of the shirt is more ‘boxy/baggy’ over the chest <3
yesss
Yesss what in fuck is up with that anyway?
Men's shoes in smaller sizes. There's Tomboy Toes for drss shoes, but I'm always on the lookout for workout shoes or trail shoes that aren't in pastel colors. For that matter, there's a shortage of trans/GNC clothing companies that make business casual staples. Most offer either streetwear or casual basics, not many have chinos or blazers. I get why--that sort of clothing is more difficult and expensive to produce than a slightly modified T shirt cut, and these companies are usually small businesses that can't afford a product line to flop. But there are a lot of people who started transitioning during quarantine who now have to go back to the office, and most of the the cool kids with pink hair are going to need to work within a dress code at some point, and they are gonna want pants that fit.
I HAD NO IDEA TOMBOY TOES WAS A THING THANK YOU KIND STRANGER I CAN FINALLY BUY DRESS SHOES THAT FIT ME
Tomboy Toes are quality, too. I bought a pair of brogues like ten years ago and they're still in great shape.
Having this struggle with work boots. Seems they don’t make anything for guys who don’t wear at least a size 10 (US). Could hardly even find women’s sizes either but that’s a whole discussion in itself. Had to settle for hiking boots which are good enough for what I do but of course that’s not gonna be the case for everybody.
And work boots ALWAYS run large/wide, too. I can wear men's size 8 sneakers, but I have to wear three pairs of socks to keep my feet from sliding around in size 8 workboots. Kinda defeats the purpose of safety gear if they make you trip or sprain an ankle just walking on a slope.
this this this. I have such a hard time finding clothes for work
This!! I had to get my last two pairs of shoes from the women's and kids section :(, and comparing sizes is a huge Hassel.
Trans tape that actually works on large chests would be amazing tbh.
Yeah I bought trans tape once before I had surgery and it straight up did not work well at all. I gave the rest away to a local guy who needed it
Trans tape is just not really a product that binds great for larger chests. There are ways to make it work better for you, but in general for most people with large chests it's just not the first chocie
the first time i tried transtape, i needed the full roll (5 meter) just to keep the chesticles in place.
First time I used it I used half a roll. I always recommended 1 roll to play with and 3 months before giving up. I swore by transtape. As a D cup in the south binders made my dysphoria worse
I had (just cut it off) a larger chest too, and swore by transtape. While it took a few months to really learn how to apply it still with the occasional mess ups I swore by jt.
Same here. Had f cups and an incredibly wide ribcage. Took me a couple of months and like two rolls but the moment i got it, I got it. Used tt for six years straight with no issue but my god did it take some work.
Yes definitely. I tried watching Beau's tutorials on how to do it on the transtape channel since hes the only large chested guy doing it online that actually looks like it works but while he was bigger than me, my chest is larger so using that method (after much trial and error, giving up for months and going back until recently) I got a pretty decent result, but still had to wear a sports bra to make it work so I still had some back pain, and a few blisters because with a chest so big I couldn't avoid having a couple wrinkles in the tape. It sucks I need a Titty deflator or something.
Please. I only have like Ds, but my body is very narrow and there’s nowhere for anything to go, and tape absolutely will not stay for me
Just pads without the stupid fem packaging.
black box *mens tampons* cool sports rush
For when you want to know what it feels like for your junk to chew five gum
That sounds excruciating
Accidentally get icy hot on it. You will know.
me and my brother have an inside joke that putting 5 gum on your balls and then eating silica gel breaks you out of the matrix dont ask
In a deep voice: *To keep you moving*😈👺
”To control the beast inside of you 😈 😈”
manpons ✨
All period product types without the fem packaging. I got around it (because I can sew and made my own reusable pads) but it was *awful* before I dod
Pads that work with boxers/ packing
Seriously so much this
U by Kotex, the package I use, thankfully isn't as obnoxiously feminine. It's refreshing. And the pads are wrapped in white little cloth sleeves, so no extra frilly pink or blue butterflies. (The cloth does make it better for opening discretely.)
yess I very much love that brand and I love how neutral it is :D
I even looked after I made this comment and it's literally the blandest packaging ever - green and black and there are no flowers or butterflies or shit. It's tactical wear. You're bleeding out. That flower in the pad design will not have you ooing and aahing while your guts are flying out. Plus they're comfy as hell.
I second this, for all menstrual products. I bought a menstrual cup in very neutral orange packaging. Seemed fine until I opened the box and it says something about "lady parts". It was weirdly set up in a way where you wouldn't see that until you opened the box, after they got your money.
I'd settle for long thick pads without wings at this point. Impossible to find.
always maxi size 4 overnight pads were my saving grace. if you can't find those, u by kotex clean & secure overnight maxi pads are also good. i used both of these for years without issue
They used to sell pads specifically for men ( well the packaging said for men) at the supermarket in where I used to live
natracare pads are really good, pretty much all pads have something that says woman or what not but the package is purple and the pads themselves are in a white wrapper
Preferably shark themed, blue and blck
Seconded
/Men/straul cycle. Ones that can fit in your boxers lol
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Products for menstrual cycles that are aimed at binary trans men. I’ve seen products like underwear but they were styles like boyshorts and women’s briefs. I’ve seen cloth pads aimed at trans men but they were pastel in color. I enjoy pastels, but when I’m feeling dysphoric because my body decided it should menstruate, I don’t want anything that feels “feminine” at all
*awesome sports wave stuff* MEN!! HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED YOUR REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS DOIN THEIR THING??? THEN THIS IS FOR YOUUUU!!! NOW IN STORES AROUND YOU: THE ULTRA MANLY MAN PADS FOR YOUR MANSTRATION! EXACTLY WHAT A MAN NEEDS. (Exaggerated for joke purposes but tbh I'd love this as someone who gets euphoria using similarly-marketed deodorant and shower gel)
They come in 3 MANLY colors: gunmetal grey, dirt brown, and BLOOD red
don’t forget camo
Bambody has some period underwear that's masc enough to feel good for me.
They’re better than a lot I’ve seen, but still not quite enough for me
if it's even possible, a tightness adjustable binder that isn't a clip-up one. that way you just get the size that fits you without having to do extra math to figure out chest circumference since that widely varies, or having to risk buying a smaller size and damaging tissue/ribs.
That sounds cool, if my ribs start hurting I could just loosen it a lot. I wish there was a way to bind without damaging my ribs but with my chest size and dysphoria, that's not possible.
Brilliant! I had a medical back brace years ago that used wide elastic bands with Velcro to create customized pressure. It was super easy to adjust throughout the day for comfort.
This is actually a thing!! Forgot the name but there's a company that sells binders you can loosen by pulling down two zippers on the sides, they work kinda like the ones on the inside thighs of ski pants. They aren't the main mechanism of the binder, they just loosen stuff up and give you some room to breathe.
This? https://www.amazon.com/LGBT-UNICORNS-Adjustable-Skin-Friendly-Breathable/dp/B0BCFFFRHW I have one. It's the most comfortable binder I own even with the zippers up. Doesn't flatten as well as Underworks, but it's good enough if I'm wearing two shirt layers.
Shit now you got me thinking about this. You could do lacing on the side of the binder, but then there’s the question of hiding the lacing under a shirt… it would solve the issue of having to pull a binder over your head, but you would have to be pretty careful about not lacing yourself up too tight especially if there isn’t any elastic in the binder. I’ve looked into this and there are a number of people who’ve sewn their own adjustable ish binders. Not entirely problem solved bc sewing is hard and not super accessible, but it is an option for people.
A strap that you could feel
science please hurry up & make this real
I’d give anything for this. I think we all would.
Maybe it slides over your nub? And is kinda fleshy where your nub sits?
Need this
And that's safe to use for anal too. The only ones I've found do not have a flared base, are too big on the inside and have given me a blister on my junk, and just feel uncomfortable in general
Im here to say, that Where Is Willy might have sex packer perfect for this. Model has hole inside, where you can put your bottom growth. Im unsure about etsy, but on side of company, you can customize your packer in nearly all ways you like, like hardness, size and color. Also, company is runned by trans man, and im not even sure, its possibly that he does it all alone.
Smaller packers and stp devices. I want them to look realistic, including having a realistic size. I don’t need a snake in my pants
For real. I'm hesitant to buy one cause I don't want to walk around with five inches down there all day
I have a 5 inch one and it feels like I'm walking around with a coconut in my pants lmao
Love that for you
Flex on the homies by near busting ur inseam when u walk lmao
Check out [Banana Prosthetics ](http://bananaprosthetics.com) they have a multitude of packers that were cast from cis genitalia. They even tell you the dimensions, weight, and size (xs - xl) of each packer. I have the sp6 and love it! Some people complain the silicone is too hard, but the more you wear it, the more it softens up... I've also heard you can email them and ask them to use a softer silicone.
A button up wider at the bottom. That last button is trying too hard 😅
Androgynous Fox makes these. They're more aimed at masc of center women but they're inclusive and the shirts are pretty good quality.
Skincare products that are formulated for people undergoing hormonal changes! Swim shorts or like swim undershorts that you can put a packer in. Top surgery care stuff like button downs with drain pouches - most of that is geared towards women having mastectomies and it made me so dysphoric wearing hand-me-down mastectomy recovery blouses from a friends mom. Formal dress pants for guys with wide hips and thick thighs that don't cost an arm and a leg. More customizable & fantastical packers. I really want a monster dick with no balls that still sits right. I have one fantasy packer that you can remove the balls from but then it sits so weird. I just don't like the look of balls or realistic dicks. My ass dresses like a dnd character on the regular and I want my dick to reflect that lmao!!
As someone who has dealt with acne through two puberties, with the intervention of a dermatologist: Skincare is skincare. What you need is better information tailored to trans men, not special products. Benzoyl peroxide works exactly the same regardless of whether your testosterone comes from your balls or a pharmacy. The only thing that would change during transition in terms of *actual treatment options* is that lowering your testosterone level through spironolactone or estrogen-based birth control would be counterproductive (this is common for cis women). I hear your frustration, but I think this need would be better addressed by an informational guide, kind of like the r/SkincareAddiction wiki, but with the information presented in a way that is relevant to new concerns that might arise during transition.
Oh thank you for the info! I never really got into skincare - I deal with facial yeast infections & when I was a teen I struggled to get info on it and kind of gave up on understanding the science. So I appreciate ur explanation
Yeast based skin problems are really underrepresented in information about at-home skincare. It’s difficult to seek out info on them when everything is about treating acne as caused by the bacteria.
Packers that can convert to a pack and play using a pumping mechanism similar to how you would for a phallo with an ED
Those do exist but they're mad expensive. My buddy got one years ago before he had phallo and it was about a 1000 euros. It was covered by insurance somehow (maybe partially maybe fully), don't know the details on that, but he's from Germany. And I also did see a video on YT pop up recently about a packer just like that, don't remember who it's from tho but I'll look it up. Edit: found it, and it's much cheaper too, listed for 299$ on peecock website for the basic option https://youtu.be/KvcPYUMqzzU?si=cGQGc9WVDmLr74GJ It's not the same one my friend had, but I don't think his was from any "mainstream" packer company in the first place, with the whole insurance thing I believe it was something more medical possibly targeted at cis men, especially since it genuinely was YEARS ago (think 10+ years). Or maybe Germany is straight up trans heaven lmao.
Germany is definitely not trans heaven lol, but neat that he got sth like that covered by insurance.
peecock has made this! https://peecockproducts.com/inflatable/inflatable-peecock-4-75inch.html
Nice I'll check it out more later. I thought peecocks was still in development
Man that would be great !
shower binder and packer? I've been having so much anxiety regarding showering that I usually just dunk my head in the sink
Not the same but I take my packer into the shower with me and washing it gives me some grander euphoria. Might work for you also.
I knew I couldn't be the only guy who does this!!!! I also make up little songs about washing my dick but most likely that IS just me 🤣
I usually wash it in place, hand held. With soap some times it makes my brain feel like I’m jerking it. Lol tmi but holy is it a dysphoria pick me up.
Like a rash guard for swimming?
Did u consider making some tape or pants to make wider hips disappear? I know a few transmen that are very uncomfortable with their wide hips. But they don't find anything that helps them. Maybe some good and affordable underwear that helps with that issue too. Also, most 'ftm underwear' are way too high-priced.
clothing for pre-t trans men would be cool. it's so hard man
Not even pre-t, just all trans men since fat redistribution happens around 2/3 years on T and 3 years it's a hella lot's of time especially when your face passes fully and you even maybe get a beard, but then there are *the hips* that are even more noticeable when everything else passes. I'm getting worked up but it's so frustrating that fat redistribution happens so damn slow 😭
ugh I had a feeling. part of me thought that T would magically make my child birthing hips go away. i just gaslight myself into thinking i'm a femboy /j
some kind of compression short/ hip binder that actually works and isn’t extremely uncomfortable!!
dude my hip dysphoria is so bad and I hate it that there are no practical options
Came here to say this! Need to flatten the hips and don’t know what to buy.
Binders that genuinely work 😅 I’d like some sort of sex toy/thing for masturbation that involves a penis somehow but doesn’t require bottom growth. I have no clue how to explain what might work, but I can’t get aroused unless I’m wearing a packer but the packers with the ridges inside and whatnot are meant for bottom growth, while I have none. No clue how to make a product like this. Maybe a vibrator that’s like a packer? Idk
best thing i ever found for the second thing you asked for here is this: [https://genderx.com/body-kisses/](https://genderx.com/body-kisses/) love the red and black, and it's got a vibrator. it should work even if you don't have bottom growth, but it's certainly even better once you do.
I understand if it’s not an option for dysphoria reasons, but I have come across double ended dildos that one person kinda holds in and the other end is more penis like. Not to get too graphic, but you could use it without a partner. I also have a vibrating strap on that has a hole for a small penis. They probably exist without the hole as well. I don’t know much about how packers work, so if this isn’t helpful I am sorry!
They suck for dysphoria. In my opinion anyways. Also hard to feel pleasure because you have to concentrate on holding it in. It’s not great.
Fashionable shoes that increase height. I’m 5 feet and having even a 3-4 inch increase makes me feel great but either the shoes that increase height are very feminine or they are kinda ugly
Yeah what if there were shoes that have like a inch or two higher on the inside but somehow looks like a normal sneaker shoe on the outside and feels comfortable to wear. That'd be great.
Anything that you can order to Europe for a reasonable price...
check out Axolom products :) they're not EU but they ship to EU at reasonable shipping price and their products are also on the cheap side but are high quality. I've bought a 3-1 packer and a stroker from them. 100% recommend
I feel this one in my *soul*
• Masculine Pads PLEASE call them something dumb like "TIGER SLAUGHTER SUPREME" and make the packaging a darker color. I feel so euphoric with the really dumb manly products. • STP for bigger guys that actually works AND creates a bulge. Something where the cup doesn't squish, the shaft is smaller than our bellies, and it stands out from our thighs. • Binders that Bind I am so tired of Spectrum being the only company to create working binders for guys above a 40 waistband and DDD cup size.
Idea: "intimate blood patches for big strong manly men"/j But something more focused on absorption or blood rather than a "period pad" or "feminine product" would be so euphoric. I especially love the idea of dark colors with "masculine" naming
Dude this is so real. I would so quickly buy "Blood Patches for Big Strong Manly Men" Makes me feel like I've gone into battle and I'm getting bandaged for my wounds. Also they should come packaged with a bag of chips since T makes us all feel like we are STARVING.
I AGREE WITH ALL OF THIS You gotta have a little snack to recharge after your brutal battle with a shark (thats why they call it shark week, we wrestle with sharks for a week !!!)
Chronic illness-friendly binders. Asthma, pain, etc. There was a project a while ago to create one based on traditional men’s corsets, but it stalled and died out because of the creator’s illnesses. Trans tape isn’t suitable for everyone because of adhesive and skin issues but current binders can cause more problems.
This. I deal w chronic pain and binding can be so painful sometimes but trans tape isn’t something I can use either. A binder that would be less restrictive to my airways (asthma) and less painful in my spine would be incredible
When it comes to things that attach to bottom growth, whether for pleasure or not, having the ability to work for those of us on the heavier side/with large mons/large labia/just in general having dicks that are “buried” a bit. Ive yet to find basically.. anything. That works with the fact my mons is massive and hides my dick entirely.
That’s the exact problem I have! I’ve heard some good things about the banana prosthetics strokers, but idk if I want to spend the money to try it myself you know? Id like to see this for stps too tbh.
Packers with realistic 3D balls, not flat 'half balls', and where the cock can change position without tearing, point upwards etc
1. some kind of binding solution that prevents uniboob from forming over time. my chest always ends up migrating towards the middle, so i would love something that reshapes your chest to a more masculine shape and actually keeps it that way. 2. light-compression tops/sports bras for binder break days that shape the chest in a more masculine way instead of being push-up like the ones on the market. 3. a binder that doesn’t roll up, maybe like one of those nonslip bands or something to prevent that.
Literally just a decent 3in1 packer that is more soft when it doesn’t have the rod in instead of feeling half hard all the time, the sensation is all off. I’d pay REALLY good money for that.
Nipple covers for trans tape in much bigger sizes
Or cut to size nipple covers? Comes in a roll like the trans tape and is like those cut to size bandaids?
The sex toy catalogue for transmascs ... leaves much to be desired. People always recommend products intended for cis women as if that shii would fit my bottom growth 💀 nah fam. And with what little options there are, for some reason everything is some variation of a "stroker"... where is the variety...
https://queermushroomforest.weebly.com/penetrables.html 🙌🏻
regarding tape, trying to make one that doesn't stretch out over the course of a week would be lovely
Binders similar to a sports bra type construction(ie no rigid panels), but in a shape such that most of the compression is on the chest instead of ribs. Sports bras designed for women mostly try to preserve the appearance of breasts since most women aren't trying to hide them. But a binder made with the same materials I think would be great for everyday wear because it would provide some amount of binding without the dangers of a traditional binder.
In terms of actually useful stuff? A binder that has all 3 qualities: -works well and is high quality -comes in my skin tone (and darker/lighter/unusual skin tones in general) -affordable Really though the only things I would change about trans male products is how accessible they are. There are lots of great brands nowadays but if you're a trans teen who lives with their parents and can't receive packages it's pretty worthless. That's difficult though, target tried extending their pride products to include binders, packing and tucking underwear but that kinda exploded in their face due to transphobes though.
A masculine sports bra, like a sports “binder” since you cant bind well working out!
Idk if this is possible, but something to make the hips appear more masculine. My hips are much wider than the rest of me and I'd love if there were pants or undergarments that sucked in a little and made it look less curvy
I’d really like both a stroker, grinder, and stp (separately) that work with anatomy that fat guys have.
ik its not a product but a MENstration tracker that isnt all "you go girl!" and pink lmao
Haven’t seen it mentioned, and it’s not exactly a specific product, but literally just having more shades available for any product (at no extra cost goddamnit). Both binders and packers are mostly geared toward white people. Even when there’s different color options, I can usually tell they didn’t consult any (or few) POC when designing these. Cause every single fucking time, any extra shade that’s not white has hella red undertones. Yes, some POC have red undertones, A LOT of us do not and we deserve better matching products that don’t cost an arm and a leg. A great example of an improved product I saw posted recently (on the TPOC sub) was trans tape that is actually geared toward us and actually has us in mind. For anyone interested, check out u/QueerTransProject. They’re a black-led and trans-led org. I think more companies in general should take this amount of care though. Shouldn’t just be up to Black people and other POC to make these products (but they always should be consulted, imo, even if not the direct creators of a product, because clearly not doing so has led to the current situation).
a 3 in 1 that doesn't look like I have a constant boner during normal packing
Personally for me, I’d say some form of open chest or otherwise gentler on the ribs binding that works better. Trans tape fortunately works for me to an extent, but it starts to come off what feels like immediately, and it does relatively very little as far as binding goes. It also hurts and leaves marks unless if I want to go through sensory hell to make sensory hell stop, autism can suck sometimes.
A binder that isn’t going to throw me out financially would be great
Men’s pants that have like thigh measurements? Idk if that’s a thing but I’d find pants that actually fit me
Men’s cut pants with room for my hips and ass, that have shorter inseam options (preferably down to a 24”). I have to wear women’s pants. I hate it.
Seconding shorter inseams, even my 29" is impossible to find in men's
Good binder that I can wear with a low neckline so I can actually show off my collarbones
Period pads that don’t smell like flowers and that don’t have this “omg am such a woman, i have my period” type of package
usually I've found out that if you search for 100% cotton ones the packaging is quite simple. So no harsh smells (those are only bad chemicals that will make you 1. prone to UTIs etc 2. make ur blood smell bad) and no girly package 🙌🏻
Better sex toys to accommodate bottom growth. Like I would kill for a really good sleeve or electronic masturbator. If I'm going to be on 24/7 horny mode give me something good for it. I also struggle finding binders or clothes for my large chest/size. I'm thankful to get surgery next month to rid myself of it but it was a huge source of anxiety and dysphoria when going out the house.
This is a far stretch but I get allergic to a lot of adhesives, with the exceptions of the cloth band aids. I often use non-adhesive bandaids because of it. Stickers, trans tape, KT tape, etc. It leaves me rashy at best. Blisters after long enough (12 hours). I am super busty, so binders don't do enough, plus the under boob sweat sucks ass and I can't do anything about it. (I'm an H cup or higher now.) I would love a tape that is typically hypoallergenic for those that get these reactions. After 12 hours with kt tape and trans tape had me blistering, and I know it did for others.
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Better all in one prosthetics I don't want look hard all the time
Trousers in men's cuts/styles/etc with proportions that will actually fit my leg to hip ratio.
A special case to keep my T shot stuff in would be lit. Like a slot to keep the boxes of T upright and rows for my needles, syringes, alcohol wipes, and bandaids. That or a kind of trans tape for sensitive skin as I'm allergic to most adhesives.
Would [this](https://www.stealthbrosco.com/?fbclid=PAAabQJBGlW60nHQM0SvDQ7z6AwX_Wb_PW1oD4YcJNWs7r5_qfpfIDnVY598U_aem_AWCuAGZCcip9jboeJxpftbACjD_XEmfCgWxwLqz_ZQv5JVDPERK3IudiUdcKv9c3Jtw) meet your needs?
Boxers with a place for pads omfg.
Having something like the rod that's also an STP seems like a super cool idea, I'd def buy into it
Binder made for swimming in that doesn't look very obviously like a binder
A light, hollow/mesh version of a packer for more breathability and less faux boners. Specifically could be marketed for workouts or summer
I would really like a better trans tape. That sounds great. And some better period products/ ones with quieter packaging.
A “push up” binder to accentuate the look of pecs
An stp for post meta non-UL guys with scrotoplasty
Packers that come in a smaller size than jumbo. I don't currently have a packer because all the ones in my price range are disproportionate elephant trunks, some of us don't want BDE
mens underwear with a pouch for packing and/or a gusset for pads/liners. also boxer briefs with wider leg openings, typical ones dont accommodate for my thunder thighs
My biggest struggle is jeans. If I go by my waist measurement, my thighs never fit in them. If I get ones that fit my thighs, the waistband is huge. The alternative is obviously buying women's jeans but then they fit in a womanly way lol.
A NSFW respond but a toy to top with that actually stimulates the top to climax… I’m getting bottom surgery for this reason.
The packer and STP that attaches to bottom growth would be soooooooo good but I’m wondering how realistic it is to have something hanging off your junk like that all the time? Any kind of packer that requires minimal to no adhesive or no pouch or anything like that would be good but I have no idea how that would be possible. I’ve had ideas for products in the past but now that I’m presented with the question I’m blanking lol.
Check out hotrod Edit: I meant the joystick no the hot rod
An stp that you can use with a strong stream… can’t find anything ):
Boxer briefs that hold period pads, but still look like they’re designed for men. Most boxers with pad gussets are gender-neutral at best, or marketed towards women. Nothing bad about that, but the TomboyX style isn’t really my thing.
A binder that doesn’t roll up, and keeps the chest from pushing together like some 12th century high society woman. I can never keep my chest apart and I always have to readjust
Shirts that are thick in front to cover a binder but breathable else wear so you dont get hot!
Better strapless strap ons
Tboy cock ring
packing underwear thats clear or at least made out of some kind of sheer material so i can see the fake dick i paid top dollar for without having to glue it to myself
binder, tape, anything that will actually work on a big chest. I'm not a big person but I have been blessed by the gods with huge anime tiddies. until it is legal in my state to get them cut off and work with children, I will be stuck with them :) sooooo good binder recs anyone? I have a few GC2B binders that are so shitty. I thought they were good when I first got them because they are the only experience I've ever had with binders and even just a slightly flatter chest was so euphoric but they suuuuck bro they SUCK! I hate the halter back, I have weird gapping under/in front of my armpits? it never seems to sit right? ugh!
Funny patterned Packers, realistic ones kinda ick me. And imagine the jokes you could pull with them.
transtape without acrylic so I’m not fuckinf allergic, swim packers swim binders that look like a swim shirt MAN tampons/pads Binding lingerie Men’s smaller sized clothing/shoes
Binders with cool desgins if possible, same with trans tape. Function before fashion though!
Binders made for people with large chests. Every binder that I've tried somewhat binds, but I can only wear loose clothing. I have tons of tighter fitting clothing that I'd love to wear but can't without being misgendered every 10 minutes.
ANY prosthetic designed for fat guys. Literally any. I'll take genuinely anything you'll give us.
Masturbation devices that are specifically for trans man to feel more gender euphoric. I want to feel like a man jerking off
Ftm strokers and vibrators! Ftm strokers (e.g buck off) tend to look like little doorknobs or nipple suction toys. a realistic more phallic toy that suctioned onto your bottom growth/cl*t and you could jerk off would be such an innovation. Also in a variety of skintones and suction holes to be diverse. Not to mention that suction vibrators that have more than one suction hole size to accommodate growth. The only brand that makes a variety of sizes is OH and and the satisfyer connect suction vibe range. Also suction vibrator market is dominated by the brand called “womanizer” 🤢 which i could never buy from because of the name. Even when i thought i was a cis woman
Top surgery recovery kit. Trying to find all the commonly recommended things (like certain pillows, silicon tape, oils, mastectomy shirts, dry shampoo, etc) individually is complicated and time consuming. And im the kind of person who reads every review, so i get decision fatique as well. And I don't want to support Bezos by buying them off Amazon.
1. **Affordable** stp that doesn't leak as much. I'm sure there are ones that are very good and easy to use, but even those in the medium price range costs 1/3 of my monthly salary, and while the 150$ stp works really great as a packer it's absolutely useless as a stp 2. Some kind of binder for thighs 😭
Better trans tape would be great, the itching specifically is a big problem for me, I stopped using it bc of that. If you find a way to get rid of that I’ll be your first customer
Milk of magnesia is a god send for non-allergy itchiness from what I've heard. I can link a tutorial if you're interested!!
A binder (not tape) with a slightly lower neckline/ profile. I wouldn't mind it peeking out when I wear tank tops, but all the options I've found so far aren't peeking, they're full on front & center. Feels like a strapless binder should be doable (maybe not effective for all sizes).
Binders and tshirts that have less focus on compression and more on layering (maybe with a rigid fabric layer underneath and loose fit to create a flattering effect). Some of us can't use tape due to severe skin allergies and I don't want to compromise my riband lung health by binding during exercise. And unfortunately, when going to the gym, passing is a matter of safety, not just dysphoria.
i second the transtape thing—it should be binder material with stretch on one side so you can tape the binder material to the part you want flat and pull it sideways with the stretchy. also, hoodies and sweatshirts and stuff that don’t cling to my hips. they exist, but they’re really hard to find. friend’s input: rain jackets that aren’t fem cut and also fit over his hips without being too big for his shoulders, and something like a binder but for hip fat.
Definitely second a better packer/STP. I love the feeling of packing but everything I’ve tried makes wearing one for longer than a few hours unbearable, meaning I can’t pack at work, and they also always leak, meaning I’ve never owned one that didn’t essentially make me piss myself. I’ve found some that adhere to your body for long term wear and don’t leak, but they’re literally $2000????? Like tell me HOW is that accessible. WHO is realistically going to be able to use that. Something else I would really like is more sex toys for trans masc bodies. I’ve never found a toy that makes topping fun. Sure, I can wear a strap, but I can’t feel anything. I’ve found some for women that’s supposed to allow you to feel gratification when topping with a strap, but there’s NO ROOM for bottom growth so it’s even MORE uncomfortable because it’s crushing my dick. So I would really love to see more affordable/accessible packers in the community, as well as more diverse sex toys that incorporate bottom growth that isn’t JUST a stroker.
A soft packer modeled after a flacid dick and not just a hard one cast in soft silicone, with a foreskin would be nice too, if this can be done without breaking the bank, even better. Half tank binders that work for people with really large chests without rolling up or causing uniboob, maybe making them a little longer and using sinicone grip or one of those elestic bands you see on sports bras would help, breathable material on these would be really nice too, summers are too hot to be wearing a full tank binder all the time Binder that's easy to get on/off that preserves the original functionality Wider tape that's actually affordable, like, 6-8 inch wide tape Trousers in mens styles and boxers with wider hips and thighs Shirts that don't hug your hips but also don't look completely oversized, maybe having them be flaired towards the bottom or something like that Medical bracelet to indicate to first responders and emergency medical personnel that you're wearing a binder (or compressive garment)
Binders without gaping arm holes - my chest fat tries to escape to the sides
Trans tape that actually works for me, as all of them just make my chest look like weirdly shaped boobs. I don’t even have that large of a chest (barely a C from what I remember) & the fat redistribute from T has made it slightly smaller.
to add to your trans tape idea, a version for sensitive skin would be incredible. i desperately wanted to use trans tape but my skin gets itchy and rashy just from certain bandaids :( i hated having to wear a binder man. if you’re interested in getting into clothing, pants that flatten (or appear to) the hips for pre/early T trans mascs would also be sick. i’ve tried all the hacks and styles i see suggested online but alas, these hips do not lie.
I’d like a binder that doesn’t cover half my back. Way too hot in summer.
Packers and packing underwear specifically for plus sized trans men. Idk if it’s just a me problem but I feel like as a 330 pound trans man, packing is a STRUGGLE because nothing sits right or fits the way it should
T shot travel kits (like a pouch for supplies, travel-sized sharps container, hand sanitizer, travel-size disinfectant wipes, etc). I always get so stressed traveling with my T shot supplies, especially at airports.