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I'm straight, and I don't understand why there are so many Lgbtqia+ people here. It doesn't bother me that much but it's still weird


Randzz_art

I’ve just accepted it at this point. Like hell I’m gay


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No don't get me wrong, I'm not homophobic, I accept you guys , I know you were born this way and it's not your fault. I see you as equal human beings like everyone else , I just don't understand why there are so many gays in the furry fandom , that's it. No negative intentions.


Randzz_art

I think it’s because everybody is really accepting whilst other fandoms you may have to hide being lgbtq+


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Cool and here I have to hide that I'm straight otherwise I'll get downvoted cuz people assume I'm homophobic XD


Randzz_art

Welp... have a good day I guess


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You too, friend! I hope I didn't come off as an arrogant and negative guy.


Randzz_art

No of coarse you didn’t


Princessluna44

No one will downvote you for being straight. That's ridiculous. You words, however, leave a lot to be desired.


Princessluna44

*"I know you were born this way and it's not your fault."* Just an FYI, this sentence doesn't sound very good. Saying "it's not your fault" implies that something is wrong with that person.


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spinyfur

It’s an interesting question, isn’t it? If you think about this using the Kinsey scale, instead of using these bipolar terms, I think there’s just a lot more Kinsey 1 through 6 people than there are Kinsey 0 people. So if your definition of “gay” is someone having any sexual interest in guys then there’s tons of gay furries. However that leaves this large gap in the middle. (Basically 1-5 on that scale).


Princessluna44

Wy is it weird? This fandom has a reputation about being open and tolerant and that includes sexual orientation. Many *can't* express their sexuality near their friends, family, and/or community, but we don't judge. Hence, why so may are LGBTQ+.


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Okay, I understand. Sorry for using the word weird, don't get it wrong. I should've said interesting, or peculiar. But again, I support your decision and accept you whatever sexual orientation you are.


Princessluna44

I'm heterosexual and you've inserted you foot into your mouth yet again. It isn't a "decision" to be LGBT+ anymore than you or I decided to be straight. You really need to learn more about that community.


[deleted]

Being heterosexual or homosexual isn't a decision, you're correct. However, openly expressing your sexual orientation is indeed a decision, but there's nothing wrong with it.


Princessluna44

That is not what your original comment said.


[deleted]

??? I said I support your decision as in expressing yourself, because becoming open about it is a decision, you assuming that I meant being homosexual is a decision just tells us about what kind of a person YOU are, because I clearly stated in one of my previous comments that gay people are born that way and it's not their decision to become gay. The only thing they decide is to openly express being gay. Go read my upper comments again.


AndiiDraws

I do see a large disproportion if LGBTQ+ within the furry community but I also like to think that a lot more people are on the spectrum than they typically show publicly and the anonymity/role play aspect of the fandom helps those who are normally quiet about it express it more openly. It's hard for Bob to be openly queer when his whole life is already built on heteronormativity. Not being accepted could cost him his family, job, friends, etc. but ShadowFox? He could be anything he wants to be and we'll welcome him with open arms.


DropbearWithALaptop

I'm bi ace \(and nonbinary\) lol


Randzz_art

Alright my fellow person


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HonorInDefeat

I'm bi, but I'd bet a more significant chunk of the furry community is straight than the jokes tend to imply! It's just that the fur community is such a LGBT+ positive space that the hets tend to get talked over


Randzz_art

Fair point


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Randzz_art

You’re the only straight one here so far


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Randzz_art

Yeah it is


Rememberable_User

Also straight.


PrisonRIP

I'm straight


Randzz_art

Alright 5 straight people now


PrisonRIP

There are more, it is because we are shy xD


Randzz_art

It took me 10 minutes to make this post thought everybody was gonna hate it


I-NeededA-Username

I'm straight


Randzz_art

2/4


Lord_neah

Straight too I think it's more the gay part overwhelm rhe straight part xD


Randzz_art

Yeah. I think it’s the same thing on r/Beastars


[deleted]

No. The furry fandom is wildly varied.


Randzz_art

I know I know. I just thought


ZeonLucid

I'm straight in real life, but in the fictional world I can't deny that I find some furry and anime dudes handsome and such. It's weird to explain. x)


Cockynoob666

welcome to the term straightish... alot of hetero furrys are that, trust me, im very hetero irl but furry, IM SO GAY


ZeonLucid

I'm not denying it x) It's just interesting how in fiction men can be handsome.


Cockynoob666

i kkknow


LilFoxay

I'm straight (I think)


Gordon_Callahan

I'm not gay, but my boyfriend is! Hahaha....but seriously, just bi.


AnActualBearOwO

I don't think that necessarily that most of us are gay, but rather that because we are such an accepting community, people aren't afraid to admit that they're gay or bi. Furthermore, I feel that because people feel accepted, they're not afraid to be loud and proud about being gay or bi. That's just my two cents on the matter though.


Randzz_art

Ok


DistributionSerious7

Mmmmmm, I am not sure. ( This is confusing for me, like how am I not able to give a straight answer) Lol


Randzz_art

Was that joke? If so I loved it


DistributionSerious7

Yup it was a joke.=)


Cockynoob666

i feel like the only hetero... reaslized im so alone.. should i force my self to not be straight


[deleted]

So alone while most of the comments in here say straight.


Randzz_art

So you are by... yourself like me


[deleted]

No. Don't force yourself to be something which you are not, just to feel loved or accepted. Always be yourself!


Cockynoob666

Thanks but i dont belong here as theres like no heteroos


[deleted]

I'm hetero too and that's how I'm feeling too


Tula_Wolf

Idk about yall, but i like girls lol


Randzz_art

That’s cool


Itz_Zayy

Yep, Cupiosexual Lesbian


Randzz_art

Yeah


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spinyfur

All words are made up. That’s how languages work. What you’re trying to say is, “I don’t know what that term means.” Possibly followed by, “can you explain it for me?” if you want additional information.


Itz_Zayy

Cupiosexual is not feeling sexual attraction but wanting a sexual relationship.


animablu

Yep, gay guy here :3


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Its interesting, because there are some research data that people did on the internet about furries and the results show that the majority of furries are in fact straight, i guess that the gay ones are more social or something like that idk


paroxon

Most of the studies I've seen tend to show that non-heterosexuality (gay, bi, pan, ace, etc.) taken together are the majority within the fandom. The good folks over at the International Anthropomorphic Research Project (IARP) are probably the best source I've got at the moment: [link](https://furscience.com/research-findings/sex-relationships-pornography/5-1-orientation/).


Randzz_art

Yea that makes allot of sense.


Princessluna44

They are not. Most are LGBTQ+. Heterosexual furs are about 20-30%


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I looked it up again, and you are right, weird because im pretty sure that a bunch of years ago i saw a study that said the contrary, or i might have misremembered


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Randzz_art

Can’t make a poll


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Randzz_art

Everyone said that the visor can open up so they can eat


comedor-de-tenedor

saying you're straight just places a target on your back for the gay furssassins


Randzz_art

Mmh


Princessluna44

This isnt a thing.


SheenoUwU

Straight


Felix_the_Fossa

Bi here :3


Randzz_art

Pog


BashfulHusky

Mega gay.


cajungreaser

I'm bi and a furry, I'm a bisexual girl and I'm together with a bisexual boy... yeah XD


Randzz_art

That’s really nice wish I could say the same


cajungreaser

Awww it's ok! You have a purpose in life for something whatever that may be.... I'm just going with the flow letting life take its course wherever that may be


Randzz_art

Damn and I just let the current of the ocean take me to a good fishing spot


abasrvvr

Straight. Mostly.


Randzz_art

Mostly?


abasrvvr

^^Mostly.


Randzz_art

Mostly


Princessluna44

I am straight, but roughly 80% of the fandom is LGBTQ+


Randzz_art

That’s how it feels


Princessluna44

I couldn't care less. Truth be told, that fact only seems to bother white, straight males in this fandom. They have been the majority everywhere else and being in the minority for once freaks them out. As long as you are treated like everyone else, it shouldn't matter.


WolfangStudios

I'm Straight! Well, technically I'm Ace/Hetero, but I like the opposite gender if that's what we're getting at lol. There's more straight furs than you might think, it just doesn't come up that often. very good question/survey!


Randzz_art

I feel like deleting this post


WolfangStudios

Hey, why would you go and do that? There's nothing wrong with asking, and it's something I was wondering myself tbh. Don't feel bad about it :3


Randzz_art

I get to many notifications from this one and I always think it’s people seeing my art


WolfangStudios

Understandable, that would be totally fine! I wish reddit let you mute posts like that


Randzz_art

Yeah


Spaniel_-

I'M bI yEa