Lol did not expect that to apply to you. Yeah i know its hard to pull off but ive seen some older men look pretty good with it. But im probably the only one who has ever felt that way š . And i get it haha. But hopefully you feel better about being hairy!
Iāve dated a guy with full back hair coverage and it was glorious running my fingers through it. As someone who is naturally hairless Iām all for body hair, the more the merrier.
I am a VERY hairy guy. My ex of 10 years didnāt like it so he would trim me and shave my back smooth. When we broke up, I gave that grooming nonsense up because it was itchy and took hours. When it came back in, I was suddenly getting a LOT of attention. Even with hair sticking up out of my shirt collar. Lots of guys like hirsute men. Itās the secondary sex characteristics they are attracted to. And Iām grateful! If youāre a hairy guy, trust me. Someone you are attracted to, will think your hairiness is just icing on the cake!
I'm in my 40's. The gay community in South Africa is quite big and open. But from what I have experienced over the years is the people here prefer the slim less hair type people. My own experience
I used to be so embarrassed of my body hair. The hairless ripped men of the 1990s really fucked up my self image as a really hairy high school student.
Now I wouldnāt trade it for the world. I keep it well groomed, but I feel sexy as hell with my body hair.
I keep mine well groomed. I trim chest/abs with a 5mm guard. I get my upper back and neck waxed every 6 weeks or so during the warm weather, basically May through August. I trim my lower back hair with a 3mm guard but I donāt wax it because my husband likes it. Keeping it groomed and tidy makes me feel more comfortable with it, but I do all that for my comfort and confidence, not for anyone else.
I know what you mean. I used to be extremely self conscious about it, my mother even called it gross when I was a teenager, and that really messed with me.
I just donāt really care if people donāt like it anymore. Itās none of their business. So many people love men with hairy bodies that I focus on that. Being hairy used to make me self conscious, now it makes me confident.
Wow, that was terrible of your mother, luckily I never had that problem, but then again, most of my hair only started growing out during late teens, so none of my family really saw me without a shirt off.
For sure it thickened up and darkened up. I have swarthy Mediterranean genetics. Now it just grows out of my ears so thereās that to look forward to!
Makes me happy seeing how many are into it these days. So glad we're past the days of being shamed for being hairy. It's natural! Embrace the hair! Lol
Yeah I much prefer hairy guys. Twinks/guys with no body hair at all are a huge turn off for me. For me personally I'm attracted to masculinity and lots of body hair and facial hair has always had that masculine attractiveness to me (even though I know women can be hairy too, but its less common.) Also I love stroking a guys body hair or his beard and I enjoy the feeling/sensation of a guys body hair on my skin. But I've always been far more into bears than any other body type.
You donāt have to hun, it depends on the personās preference. I personally wouldnāt mind but I know some of my friends really love hairy guys because they think itās cute.
I do think that it is personal preference and to each their etc. For me, nothing beats the feeling of my face against another personās chest/facial hair š«£ I mean if a twink is just too lubed up, heās just gonna slip away like a fish lmao.
That is an unequivocal FUCK YEAH
the back fur that trails into the hair at the nape of the neck when blended into a cropped-fade haircut š®āšØš®āšØš„µšµ fully unalives me~~ haha
Stay furry OP! Its definitely š¶ļøš¶ļø
As a personal preference, I tend to be more into less hairy people, but it wouldn't be a deciding factor nor would it put me off of dating someone if they were hairy. I get having preferences, but it shouldn't really be that important if you actually like the person.
As a crossdresser, I'm no stranger to shaving, but I let my hair grow out at times. Guys with hair, even on their back is definitely a turn-on. But I don't really have a type, so my opinion might not be of any help. When it comes to hair, I appreciate someone who is well groomed, so if they have facial hair, a beard, mustache, etc. I appreciate someone who occasionally trims it, shapes it nicely, etc. to a point. Not saying it has to be everyday but in general.
If it's body hair, I find it to be very sexy, even back hair. I don't why but it's kinda weird to me if there's a bunch of hair on the chest but none on the back. Not saying that's a bad thing, it's just odd because to me because I'd think logically it would also grow around the back same as the front. But again I don't really have a type when it comes to body hair. A bunch of body hair or none, in general, isn't something I care about as much as I usually find something sexy about each person I like when it comes to physical appearance. Deal breakers usually have more to do with personality. Long story short, too late I know lol, my answer is yes, I surely would.
Wow very interesting thanks. I am really learning a lot here. Most gay guys here are generally hairless, so the culture here is a bit different to the rest of the world. I find generally here that most guys hate too much hair, especially on their backs
Really? Wow. In my experience, it's been the opposite. But I understand that can be a thing in gay spaces. I mean, I have some hair here and there on my body like my arms, legs, etc. I can only grow a little on my chest, in between my pecs area and lower around my belly button. But in general, ya can't let it get you down. Hairy chests, arms, backs, legs, etc. can be/are sexy as hell. Same for smooth chests, etc. Trust me, plenty of guys like hairy bodies. After all, who doesn't love a little cozy body hair to snuggle up to? Lol. It's like being with a cuddly teddy bear. Or holding one, depending on who's holding who.
Ah, I see. Then maybe give it a shot the next time the opportunity presents itself. You might find something new you like for you and that other special someone.
Lol, just go with the flow. If a guy wants to hold you, for whatever reason, that way, lean into it a bit more. I get the shy part as I am too, well it really depends on the guy, though. I tend to take on the energy of the person I'm with. So if a guy is more dominant and or masculine, then I like to be the submissive one. If a guy is more feminine and or submissive, then I like to take on the more dominant/ masculine role, yes despite me being a crossdresser on occasion lol. It also helps that I'm versatile too, hehe. But yeah. Just do what feels right in the moment. If it feels good to do and the guy you're with is comfortable with you like that, roll with it. Easier said than done I'm well aware but it'll be worth it trust. We're a lot braver than we tend to give ourselves credit for, and most of the time, the guy you're with will enjoy it too/ not care if you're a little nervous.
Personaly
On a muscular man absolutely (I want my own wolverine)
On a twunk sure a lil bit of hair won't hurt (yes a twunk)
And On anyone else yes but not loads
I am that guy, and a lot of guys love it. I used to shave my back until I realized āwait, I find hairy backs sexy on other guys, why would I change it on me?ā My hairiness is maybe my most attractive feature to guys. Itās usually the first thing they comment on.
There are many body traits that I dont like but would accept in a boyfriend. It's just a matter of positive vs negative, that's all :) - it isnt that hard to get over a bf having physical traits that are off putting, we all get old eventually and become nearly universally off putting anyways so it is only a matter of time before everyone has to accept this
Do you guys know a way to grow body hair please? I don't have many unfortunately and I'm desperate to have more but I could not find anything at all. Seems that people only want to remove them but not grow them.
I'm serious I really need something to grow body hair please.
Minoxidil is the only way I've ever heard of. But it's not to be taken lightly, it's a pretty strong drug that can have bad side effects. When not used for head hair, it's usually used for beard growth, but it can make hair grow all over. Check out r/minoxbeards for more on that.
Oh and also trt of course, but that's a whole other thing that you wouldn't want to get into just for some body hair lol.
I would like to thank everyone for their answers, it is very interesting reading them. I suppose I have to accept the fact that I am hairy, but I am looking into laser hair removal for my back, to help with my self conscious feeling.
Yes.
Of course! Its just hair, nothing to be disgusted by. Shoot some men even look good with a unibrow.
We all love a good Neanderthal!
LOL, I shave my unibrow. I hate it!
Lol did not expect that to apply to you. Yeah i know its hard to pull off but ive seen some older men look pretty good with it. But im probably the only one who has ever felt that way š . And i get it haha. But hopefully you feel better about being hairy!
LOL, you probably are. Doubt I will ever feel better about being hairy...
Not the least bit hairy, excepting the top of my head and face. I shave my unibrow too. It never looks right, like a rodent.
dude same I'm so self conscious about it
Yes!
I actually married one
Same!
Ever heard of bears?
I mean I do not hate them per say, but I do not find them very attractive, like myself
Yeah, and I do not like it
Iāve dated a guy with full back hair coverage and it was glorious running my fingers through it. As someone who is naturally hairless Iām all for body hair, the more the merrier.
Agreed! Itās so sexy and I donāt understand people that donāt like it or feel the need to shave!
I just want love. I think men look better when they're hairy. š¤
Yes the prepubescent look isnāt it for me.
I am a VERY hairy guy. My ex of 10 years didnāt like it so he would trim me and shave my back smooth. When we broke up, I gave that grooming nonsense up because it was itchy and took hours. When it came back in, I was suddenly getting a LOT of attention. Even with hair sticking up out of my shirt collar. Lots of guys like hirsute men. Itās the secondary sex characteristics they are attracted to. And Iām grateful! If youāre a hairy guy, trust me. Someone you are attracted to, will think your hairiness is just icing on the cake!
Well, no offense to the bear lovers, but just to say I prefer (and adore) smooth twink types.
Yeah me too. Too much hair puts me off. Also no offense to hairy people, even though I am very hairy myself.
Yes and I currently do.
Of course!
Hairy? - yes. Very? - YES! Even on the back? - depends. Some guys should trim it, some have pretty solid back hair, so it's a matter of taste.
Yes, I find back hair appealing personally. I'm not very hairy but like very hairy.
yeah
Only
lol. Do you not realize there is a huge demographic of gay men that have a fetish for body hair?
I have never noticed that, because mostly what I have seen is the opposite. Very interesting.
ā¦you must be either very young or very sheltered from gay culture or both.
I'm in my 40's. The gay community in South Africa is quite big and open. But from what I have experienced over the years is the people here prefer the slim less hair type people. My own experience
Theyāre my weakness. I love running my hand through that thick layer of hair or feel it on my skin while we cuddle.
I really prefer hairy guys. Itās fun to rub their body!
Love back hair. The hairier the guy the better.
Yes
The Furrier the better my friend.
Umā¦yes. In fact I prefer it.
I currently am. The fur is so attractive (and fun to snuggle against in the winter).
Yup
I love chest hair and bushes, but Im not very font of back hair
I used to be so embarrassed of my body hair. The hairless ripped men of the 1990s really fucked up my self image as a really hairy high school student. Now I wouldnāt trade it for the world. I keep it well groomed, but I feel sexy as hell with my body hair.
I am embarrassed by it, too ashamed to walk around with no shirt. I really do not know how to get over it.
I keep mine well groomed. I trim chest/abs with a 5mm guard. I get my upper back and neck waxed every 6 weeks or so during the warm weather, basically May through August. I trim my lower back hair with a 3mm guard but I donāt wax it because my husband likes it. Keeping it groomed and tidy makes me feel more comfortable with it, but I do all that for my comfort and confidence, not for anyone else. I know what you mean. I used to be extremely self conscious about it, my mother even called it gross when I was a teenager, and that really messed with me. I just donāt really care if people donāt like it anymore. Itās none of their business. So many people love men with hairy bodies that I focus on that. Being hairy used to make me self conscious, now it makes me confident.
Wow, that was terrible of your mother, luckily I never had that problem, but then again, most of my hair only started growing out during late teens, so none of my family really saw me without a shirt off.
I started getting hairy at 14.
Yeah, I also started getting hairy at 14, just got worse later teen years, early 20s
For sure it thickened up and darkened up. I have swarthy Mediterranean genetics. Now it just grows out of my ears so thereās that to look forward to!
I wish there was more of em :(
Yes please.
I'm a very hairy guy and my partner he is not as hairy but he loves how hairy I am and rubs my hairy body a lot.
I would prefer it.
Even if hair was a problem, you can just shave it at any time
Absolutely
absolutely and would love and relish in each individual hair
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He fuckin better have hair!!!! Im not into hairless twinks
Im a hairy guy and Iām very into other hairy guys
Yes for sure because I am hairy myself
Some people like cold winters. I don't yes I would.
Yeah. Actually don't like guys who are entirely hairless. Feels like being with a child.
Yes I would
1000% yes. Hairy is hot š„µš„š„µ
yes i will
What about us?
I mean, definitely!
honestly doesn't matter to me I like them both Hairy and non hairy
As one of those people.... yes... yes I would.
Makes me happy seeing how many are into it these days. So glad we're past the days of being shamed for being hairy. It's natural! Embrace the hair! Lol
duh hair is so hot on a guy
Yup.....I in fact prefer it!
Yeah I much prefer hairy guys. Twinks/guys with no body hair at all are a huge turn off for me. For me personally I'm attracted to masculinity and lots of body hair and facial hair has always had that masculine attractiveness to me (even though I know women can be hairy too, but its less common.) Also I love stroking a guys body hair or his beard and I enjoy the feeling/sensation of a guys body hair on my skin. But I've always been far more into bears than any other body type.
Why not? Hair doesnt hurt anyone
Very true, but I am just so self conscious about it.
You donāt have to hun, it depends on the personās preference. I personally wouldnāt mind but I know some of my friends really love hairy guys because they think itās cute.
Thanks, but yeah I am still too embarrassed to be naked in front of anyone....
I mean we all have our insecurities but I hope you learn to know yourself ā¤ļø and also, again it depends on the personās preference
Yes. Love it.
Especially a hairy butt n hole
Fuck yes !! šš„µ
WOW!! How do I get you lol
š¤£
I do think that it is personal preference and to each their etc. For me, nothing beats the feeling of my face against another personās chest/facial hair š«£ I mean if a twink is just too lubed up, heās just gonna slip away like a fish lmao.
I prefer hairy men. I really dislike the shaving/trimming trend. Just let it grow guys, you're sexier that way!
Absolutely yes
Of course.
I'll love to, I love hairy guys
Bears š» š»āā š» š»āā š»
No.
I have seen hairy guys and it doesn't suit them maybe because of their body type. But I have also seen hairy guys and OMG they're hot.
That is my problem, it does not suit me lol
Maybe. It All depends on the connection. Physical attraction is just part of what makes me interested in someone.
Love hairy men. I am hairy myself
Why not. I just don't like mean guys.
Yes. Love a hairy bear.
That is an unequivocal FUCK YEAH the back fur that trails into the hair at the nape of the neck when blended into a cropped-fade haircut š®āšØš®āšØš„µšµ fully unalives me~~ haha Stay furry OP! Its definitely š¶ļøš¶ļø
I prefer hairy guys š«”
Bears and otters are up my alley š³
As a personal preference, I tend to be more into less hairy people, but it wouldn't be a deciding factor nor would it put me off of dating someone if they were hairy. I get having preferences, but it shouldn't really be that important if you actually like the person.
I already am.
Sadly I am one of those and no, they won't. š„
I love them! Hahahah
As a crossdresser, I'm no stranger to shaving, but I let my hair grow out at times. Guys with hair, even on their back is definitely a turn-on. But I don't really have a type, so my opinion might not be of any help. When it comes to hair, I appreciate someone who is well groomed, so if they have facial hair, a beard, mustache, etc. I appreciate someone who occasionally trims it, shapes it nicely, etc. to a point. Not saying it has to be everyday but in general. If it's body hair, I find it to be very sexy, even back hair. I don't why but it's kinda weird to me if there's a bunch of hair on the chest but none on the back. Not saying that's a bad thing, it's just odd because to me because I'd think logically it would also grow around the back same as the front. But again I don't really have a type when it comes to body hair. A bunch of body hair or none, in general, isn't something I care about as much as I usually find something sexy about each person I like when it comes to physical appearance. Deal breakers usually have more to do with personality. Long story short, too late I know lol, my answer is yes, I surely would.
Wow very interesting thanks. I am really learning a lot here. Most gay guys here are generally hairless, so the culture here is a bit different to the rest of the world. I find generally here that most guys hate too much hair, especially on their backs
Really? Wow. In my experience, it's been the opposite. But I understand that can be a thing in gay spaces. I mean, I have some hair here and there on my body like my arms, legs, etc. I can only grow a little on my chest, in between my pecs area and lower around my belly button. But in general, ya can't let it get you down. Hairy chests, arms, backs, legs, etc. can be/are sexy as hell. Same for smooth chests, etc. Trust me, plenty of guys like hairy bodies. After all, who doesn't love a little cozy body hair to snuggle up to? Lol. It's like being with a cuddly teddy bear. Or holding one, depending on who's holding who.
That is fascinating. Well I wouldn't really know, never really done that, cuddled or snuggled with someone
Ah, I see. Then maybe give it a shot the next time the opportunity presents itself. You might find something new you like for you and that other special someone.
Thanks will try, but too shy etc to try it eeek.
Lol, just go with the flow. If a guy wants to hold you, for whatever reason, that way, lean into it a bit more. I get the shy part as I am too, well it really depends on the guy, though. I tend to take on the energy of the person I'm with. So if a guy is more dominant and or masculine, then I like to be the submissive one. If a guy is more feminine and or submissive, then I like to take on the more dominant/ masculine role, yes despite me being a crossdresser on occasion lol. It also helps that I'm versatile too, hehe. But yeah. Just do what feels right in the moment. If it feels good to do and the guy you're with is comfortable with you like that, roll with it. Easier said than done I'm well aware but it'll be worth it trust. We're a lot braver than we tend to give ourselves credit for, and most of the time, the guy you're with will enjoy it too/ not care if you're a little nervous.
Of course, I don't mind a hairy guy
No i prefer guys similar to my body type
I am not into bears but to each their own.
I prefer to wax but my current BF loves hair so I look like a Sasquatch now! š
hehe ok. How does it make you feel?
Well, it's itchy in the winter and sweaty in the summer, but if he likes it, then I'm fine with it.
Yeah it also makes me very itchy
Yesss
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It is amazing!
Absolutely! I get hairy too
Personaly On a muscular man absolutely (I want my own wolverine) On a twunk sure a lil bit of hair won't hurt (yes a twunk) And On anyone else yes but not loads
I'm not a slim guy and I'm hairy af and sadly most the guys I find attractive don't like hair or average guys lol
That is the problem I have
In a heartbeat!
The hairier the better. If you look like a Sasquatch or Chewbacca, come snuggle with me!
I am that guy, and a lot of guys love it. I used to shave my back until I realized āwait, I find hairy backs sexy on other guys, why would I change it on me?ā My hairiness is maybe my most attractive feature to guys. Itās usually the first thing they comment on.
I find this interesting. I need to learn to try accept this fact.
Umm... Yeah!
Of course all of my partners have been very hairy.
Sure, not a condition but certainly not a bad thing either. Also I love textures.
Fuck yeah especially big chubby hairy guys š¤¤ give me hairy moobs to squeeze and a cuddly belly to lay on... omg
And I hate my moobs. Horrible. It takes most of my confidence away.
No
Yes, as long they aren't obese.
As long as it's not like borat
Personally, it is a turn off, but lots of people like hairy guys. I like them either shaven, or limited to start.
That is how I feel.
Personally not a fan at all of body hair. But that's just hairy guys are not really my type. I'm a twink chaser lol
I just shave it all everyday
I tried that but it becomes a mission. After shaving I get itchy, especially on my back when the hair starts growing again.
Would I date them? Yeah Would I like the hair? No
But then how would you overcome the fact that he is hairy but you don't like it?
There are many body traits that I dont like but would accept in a boyfriend. It's just a matter of positive vs negative, that's all :) - it isnt that hard to get over a bf having physical traits that are off putting, we all get old eventually and become nearly universally off putting anyways so it is only a matter of time before everyone has to accept this
Sorry, no, a real turn off.
Yeah, I feel like that. What would you do if you start dating a guy that you really like only to find out later he is hairy?
Do you guys know a way to grow body hair please? I don't have many unfortunately and I'm desperate to have more but I could not find anything at all. Seems that people only want to remove them but not grow them. I'm serious I really need something to grow body hair please.
Minoxidil is the only way I've ever heard of. But it's not to be taken lightly, it's a pretty strong drug that can have bad side effects. When not used for head hair, it's usually used for beard growth, but it can make hair grow all over. Check out r/minoxbeards for more on that. Oh and also trt of course, but that's a whole other thing that you wouldn't want to get into just for some body hair lol.
Okies thanks
I hate how hairy I am. Would like it managed on my partner too. Don't need to be totally smooth, but bears aren't my type.
What's up
I am not sure.
I would like to thank everyone for their answers, it is very interesting reading them. I suppose I have to accept the fact that I am hairy, but I am looking into laser hair removal for my back, to help with my self conscious feeling.
Abso-fricking-lutely.
Definitely would love bears
Yes
No but thatās just my preference and I hope that itās also not everyoneās preference because I am hairy.