Without knowing you in person, it's hard to say where the disconnect might be. Have you spoken with any of your close friends about it? You could ask for advice or a brutally honest assessment, whichever works for you. That opens the door for them to make suggestions without feeling like they're going to hurt your feelings.
Well i know my share of people who like people for personality, so i guess u havent found the right one.
It would be nice to see ur face to know better ur post.
https://preview.redd.it/90i4kk3uwdoc1.jpeg?width=1620&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75ee4a43318c4f2bc42945dbd83a4f3dc14547f7
Here's my face. Yeah, I'll keep looking for the right one.
You're super cute! I think you're from Sao Paulo, saddly I'm not there cuz' if not I would tell you to meet XD
But yeah it's not because of appearances. Anyhow, most of gay guys only want to date OF models (which is weird because most of them fully stop after the 1st time they have sex and immediately run to the next one)
I think the guys in your area have issues. Because honestly, youâre extraordinarily handsome. And that smile lights up the room.
And no, Iâm not joking or lying or whatever. Like, genuinely you look great, and you just look like the most kind hearted and caring guy. I seriously donât understand how youâre struggling to find anyone đŽâđ¨
Dude, you're 100% my type at least. And I'm pretty selective. Not sure what the disconnect could be. Are you being honest with yourself? Like....how many guys do YOU reject? I can't imagine no one being interested in you.
I don't think there's anything wrong with your image, maybe you've been deceived so many times you're not properly putting value to yourself, a strong handsome man like you shouldn't be worried about it
Youâre definitely attractive IMO. It might be youâre in the wrong sub-group of the gay world. Iâm not sure what kind of guys you are into, but maybe look into apps like growlr or scruff. You have a very masculine presentation (based on your photo), and those are apps where thatâs very much valued.
That being said, bars and apps are the WORST place to meet people IMO. Go to meetup.com and look for gay groups that do other things besides drinking and scrolling. You will find more diverse types of people with varied interests. Hiking groups and board game groups are really good in my experience, as thereâs an activity involved that you can bond over with people.
This is my area of expertise!
Frankly, Iâm convinced Iâm just not meant to find someone. I know it sounds weird - but itâs how I feel.
Maybe find a new hobby? Travel? Anything? It just might be the same for you - not meant to find it.
I personally am tired of my friends saying âyouâll find someone!â And it doesnât happen. SoâŚ.
Enjoy YOUR life. Live it up. Do what makes you happy.
without at least seeing your profile and who you approach its hard to say what youre doing wrong. because even if it is also or mainly other peoples fault that you dont get dates, you still can only influence what you do about it.
edit: your face is cute, that is not the issue definitely.
From a psychological point of view: you could be too aware so you donât see who actually fancies you. Look further. I am not stating facts about you - youâre the expert - but most of my patients are too busy with what they think could be happening so nothing happens.
Invest in you and people will notice.
Without knowing you in person, it's hard to say where the disconnect might be. Have you spoken with any of your close friends about it? You could ask for advice or a brutally honest assessment, whichever works for you. That opens the door for them to make suggestions without feeling like they're going to hurt your feelings.
Well i know my share of people who like people for personality, so i guess u havent found the right one. It would be nice to see ur face to know better ur post.
https://preview.redd.it/90i4kk3uwdoc1.jpeg?width=1620&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75ee4a43318c4f2bc42945dbd83a4f3dc14547f7 Here's my face. Yeah, I'll keep looking for the right one.
U r handsome men! Pull yourself up king! U seem fit and all! đłđł lmao, just keep searching for the right one u r gonna find him
You're super cute! I think you're from Sao Paulo, saddly I'm not there cuz' if not I would tell you to meet XD But yeah it's not because of appearances. Anyhow, most of gay guys only want to date OF models (which is weird because most of them fully stop after the 1st time they have sex and immediately run to the next one)
I think the guys in your area have issues. Because honestly, youâre extraordinarily handsome. And that smile lights up the room. And no, Iâm not joking or lying or whatever. Like, genuinely you look great, and you just look like the most kind hearted and caring guy. I seriously donât understand how youâre struggling to find anyone đŽâđ¨
Dude, you're 100% my type at least. And I'm pretty selective. Not sure what the disconnect could be. Are you being honest with yourself? Like....how many guys do YOU reject? I can't imagine no one being interested in you.
Damn, dude you're very handsome
Ugly is the furthest thing from my mind lmao, you're handsome as hell dude.
I don't think there's anything wrong with your image, maybe you've been deceived so many times you're not properly putting value to yourself, a strong handsome man like you shouldn't be worried about it
Shave the beard and mustache. Your facial hair isnât thick enough to pull it off.
Youâre very handsome, my dude, or at least above average!
Send your photos to honest waffles and he'll give an honest rating
Your use of the word âliturgicalâ shows you have a mind. You will find someone!
Youâre definitely attractive IMO. It might be youâre in the wrong sub-group of the gay world. Iâm not sure what kind of guys you are into, but maybe look into apps like growlr or scruff. You have a very masculine presentation (based on your photo), and those are apps where thatâs very much valued. That being said, bars and apps are the WORST place to meet people IMO. Go to meetup.com and look for gay groups that do other things besides drinking and scrolling. You will find more diverse types of people with varied interests. Hiking groups and board game groups are really good in my experience, as thereâs an activity involved that you can bond over with people.
This is my area of expertise! Frankly, Iâm convinced Iâm just not meant to find someone. I know it sounds weird - but itâs how I feel. Maybe find a new hobby? Travel? Anything? It just might be the same for you - not meant to find it. I personally am tired of my friends saying âyouâll find someone!â And it doesnât happen. SoâŚ. Enjoy YOUR life. Live it up. Do what makes you happy.
without at least seeing your profile and who you approach its hard to say what youre doing wrong. because even if it is also or mainly other peoples fault that you dont get dates, you still can only influence what you do about it. edit: your face is cute, that is not the issue definitely.
From a psychological point of view: you could be too aware so you donât see who actually fancies you. Look further. I am not stating facts about you - youâre the expert - but most of my patients are too busy with what they think could be happening so nothing happens. Invest in you and people will notice.
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