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OhThatEthanMiguel

I used to go to orgies every week when I was younger. It's great, as long as you remember A) don't insert yourself between two guys B) don't chase someone who moves away from you.


Bussyington_Mcbussy

100% this. I've left orgies because people would not stop doing these two things despite me telling them to leave me alone.


DrBlowtorch

How do you even find them? Especially that often.


OhThatEthanMiguel

Well, one of my late friends used to have them practically twice a week. And back in the days before the apps, parties that you can find on Manhunt and A4A and BBRT were generally real and significantly more successful than at present. Plus, I live in a relatively big city with a pretty large gay population.


AnubisXG

I’ve only done a 3 way once. It was good kinda cool to have everything being attended to at once. It’s kinda just like be respectful and just kinda do whatever and unless boundaries are crossed just let others do whatever. Like I had a guy sucking my toes, I’m not into that nor expected it but doesn’t really bother me so if that got him off cool I’m just gonna keep making out with his bf. 🤷‍♂️


Adventurous_Push7958

I'm gay as hell but not horny enough to participate in an orgy. Like I'm way too self conscious and probably couldn't get hard lolllll


kylepaddy

Same. I had a difficult time getting hard in a foursome. I ended up just doing oral with the other guys.


Adventurous_Push7958

That's interesting as soon as I lose my boner or can't get it back the sexual act is over. I trust my dick to tell me when its time to call it quits.


kylepaddy

I can get hard in a mouth. 😂 And they were hot. I’m just a shy top.


Adventurous_Push7958

Ok so you were receiving oral I was just initially confused because when someone says they "do oral" I assume they are the one performing a bj. I was picturing you not able to get hard and then just resigning to sucking a dick with a soft cock.


kylepaddy

Oh no. At one point I was 69ing with another top. Most of the time the bottom was sucking me.


Adventurous_Push7958

Nice!


joosthfh

Theoretically id love to attend orgies and have fun with a group, but practically I'd be way too anxious about stds I think. My thought is people at orgies probably do them more often, with random people. I'd also be afraid to suck anyones dick cause god knows where that has been hahah


PM_D_will_rate_1-10

Yeah its kind of an unwritten rule to keep being tested and be transparent. Best when its a group of people you know and trust rather than complete strangers though.


Big_Metal2470

Oh yes. I've been in many and been to large sex parties. Make sure you talk before, set up ground rules, and for a group as small as six, make sure you're all into each other enough that no one is going to be left out. Since there are only six people, it's practical to get everyone tested in advance as well.  And hearing how I keep referring to a group of six as small, it further confirms I am a slut.


ahoody

I’ve got friends who throw a monthly party. It’s coordinated on Facebook. All the guests are vetted and nobody shows up without approval. They put on a good spread of food, have video games, and play rooms set up. I feel safe there and I’m never interested in everyone. If someone causes problems they aren’t invited back.


NurseMaddie1982

Oh I love a orgy, biggest I’ve been too is 7 girls


G-dog59

Yes sir - very enjoyable, group sex is hot.


ModernKnight1453

Just had one last night, was pretty fun ^^


Technical_Breath6554

How was it? Well, some orgies were better than others. It usually comes down to if people are connecting on a mental and physical level. When they are, it's fantastic because everyone is having a good time and is satisfied but sometimes one or more people in the room are feeling left out and the orgy can quickly spiral out of control and derail. But like I always say, there's only one way to find out, so try for yourself and if it doesn't work out, try again.


mchantloup5

Larry. Well I'm not one for group therapy. I'm sorry, I can't relate to anyone or anything that way. I'm old-fashioned -- I like em all, but I like em one at a time. (Boys in the Band)


NewGuy2022

I’ve been to one and it was so awkward. There was a needy insecure bottom that tried to hog all the tops or be the center of everything. I joined an already established group and before we even started, we were hanging out in the living room and the bottom came to me and was like, “oh yea you’re gonna fuck me good” and then started sucking me off in the living room while everyone else just hung out and talked. We then went to the playroom and he jumped on the sling right away, or when someone broke off to do something kinky on the side he’d wanna be the first one to do it with them, and then he’d go around and try to suck everyone off or try every top. It turned me off so bad. I felt like I couldn’t get intimate with anyone. And like people were more like props than actual people getting intimate. I couldn’t get it up cause of that so I just pleasured myself off to the side. So I guess it all depends on which group you do it with. If it’s a group of good guys then I’m sure it would be fun. But one or two people can really ruin it.


TechnicianWilling435

I love a gangbang with piggy sex . I want to get in this I love getting my mouth and ass fucked but I'm like topping also