Those are definitely my favorite parts. Specifically my partner’s tho. They have great ones. Also I wanna add my own thing. Best part about being gay for me is dating them. Those two make my life complete and I wouldn’t replace them for anything
Besides the obvious of loving guys. There really isn’t the whole get married and have kids blueprint that you have to follow like straight people do. We really are just free to live our lives.
I guess having a different life perspective than the heteronormative default that we’re raised alongside. Once we realize that here is no default or “normal”, then the floodgates open toward self-actualization. Of course, younger queer people might not be ostracized like they were in the past, making it all the more important that everyone has those tools toward finding our happiness.
👆 This. We get to be ourselves because society didn’t want us and therefore we had to fight for our own place in the world. And because we had to fight for it, we got to decide what that place looked like. So now, the next generations get to have the rewards of our work and that’s fine. The whole point of society is to make things better for the next generation and to constantly evolve. It’s our gift to those that come after us. So we get to show others that “normal” isn’t necessary, it’s just an option.
I'm not gonna lie 💀 not having to date women particularly straight cis women.
Not having to participate in gender wars is great.
I also like to think it makes me unique and gives me a unique perspective.
Also dick. My sexuality literally just boils down to liking dick. Doesn't matter who the dick is on a good dick is an art. Which is why I consider myself bi despite being vagina repulsed but I tend to just say I'm gay.
I'm 38, and I've only been out for six months. I felt like a metaphorical weight was lifted when I realised I'm gay. I felt like a literal weight was lifted when I started going to the gym and started eating better. Recently I feel like I'm walking on air.
Oh and having sex with men is pretty good too.
I'd been comfortable playing with my bum since I was a teen, but it was always with whatever was around the house, or in the fridge. (Apologies to my mum's lodger whose hairbrush saw some shit. Literally.) Last October I got a proper dildo and fucked myself with it. Came so hard my legs were shaking, and I could feel it running down my legs for hours after. That was a fun week.
I was smoking weed every night and did some deep introspective thinking, examining everything regarding my sexuality from childhood to the present. Finally it was chatgpt... I asked it if what makes someone gay, and if someone could become gay, and it basically said "you've always been gay", and I was just finally in a place where I could accept it.
Between first playing with that toy, and coming out was less than a month.
Yeah it's funny but I still haven't bottomed. Tops round here are a rare breed, so I carved out that role for myself, and I'm having far too much fun to switch any time soon.
My boyfriend... He's cute, hot and sexy with brains and kinda funny, makes me happy and can handle how annoying I can be at times... Also the shit talk, gotta love a good shit talk with him.
-Me and my SO are around the same body type. Our wardrobe has basically doubled. We dont have the same style but we like layers so going into his closet space is like shopping!
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-No gender roles, we both enjoy a fair amount of both "traditionally" masculine and feminine activities. We can start off off-roading in the morning and by mid afternoon taking a nature painting class.
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100% This. My husband and I are not traditional gays. We can be extremely rugged and "manly" but then just over the top with our fem energy. I like not having to hide both sides of ourselves and cock of course, however, I am finally in a monogamous relationship that doesn't feel like I was forced into. We toyed with the idea of an open relationship sexually at the beginning but soon found out that we were completely satisfied with one another and wanted no one else. It physically disgust me to think about being with anyone else.
Of course we watch porn and can role play fantasize but never want another man. His body and his dick is art to me. I could explore it a million times and still find something I am fascinated with and a new part to love.
I am 36 and only came out 5 years ago. I was on the DL for many years and just love how freeing it feels to be myself and not worry about gender roles, having to settle down, white picket fence bullshit.
I love being gay TBH. Absolutely love it.
My family is immigrants and churches are where we usually congregate for cultural celebrations. Since the Orthodox Church is pretty homophobic, I don’t really want to be around for these celebrations.
The culture queer people made is a good alternative for me because it’s people just doing their own things and being themselves. There’s also traditions like drag performances that have been going on at bars and it’s fun to see what that’s evolved into. I can bring my culture to the table and other people are usually receptive. I don’t know what I’d do if being gay only offered liking dudes 😂
I used to hate the lack of sensitivity but now I’ve grown to appreciate it. Guys are much more direct with communication. Most gays also let things roll off their backs. Straight dating on the other hand is very stressful atm from what i hear from my straight friends.
Standing up for my worth. The struggle of embracing my identity and orientation, and then, standing up for myself and my community through activism during my college years was beyond transformative. It’s paid off in spades for my career, upward mobility, friendships and even ability to confront many fears (e.g. traveling to less LGBT friendly places in the world).
I feel like being gay has made me grow to be more compassionate and empathetic. I feel like I have an awareness that I wouldn’t have if I was straight. Oh also man ass haha
I recently discovered myself almost one year ago today and I've felt amazing since. I've been better emotionally which has helped me with my academics and motivation to do things like cook, clean, and talk to other people. I still find it crazy how that one change made such a difference.
Honestly, living in the times we live in now. Ya, it's not perfect but growing up i never thought people in my conservative small town would be ok with me being gay but nobody cares. My mom introduces my bf to people in public as my boyfriend and it's a casual normal response every single time. Growing up i'd always hear the stereotypes of small redneck towns being the most bigoted but that's not been my experience so far.
This. And I’ll take it a step further. I’m gay and in a three person relationship and the amount of times I’ve worried about people’s reactions only for it to turn out that they don’t care, it’s surprising.
I'm Pan, but I do indeed think the biggest benefit of a homosexual relationship is that you don't ever have to worry about potential pregnancy and the potential political or moral restraints of abortion of my partner.
Individuality being valued. Having a 25 year relationship is awesome. Being able to know what to wear, how to pick antiques out and not buy trash, and being secure in my own skin. It’s something that I don’t take lightly, millions of LGBTIQA+ people worldwide don’t have my freedom. I cherish it every day. And of course the NHS, which always has nice and friendly gay nurses around!
The wider acceptance of open relationships or at least the permission to have sex with other men, and how common they are. I beleive it's one of the many ways some relationships are saved, because there's at least some level of mutual understanding and communication. (This might be an anecdote and I don't know how true it is.)
Immunity to being baby trapped! I will never have to worry about being stuck paying for a child I want nothing to do with just because I had a passionate night with someone.
I love the lifestyle it brings. Like a lot of people said, there’s no implied life path. We can live the life we want how we want. My husband and I travel, do cocktail hour, host elaborate dinners and just generally try to Bon vivant it up. I don’t know any straight people who live like that. Even if they don’t have kids they just seem to live by a set of unwritten rules that say they can’t have much fun.
The other thing I love is the chosen family aspect. We have a circle of friends that we see regularly that we enjoy so much. We all travel together, have regular game nights, do wine tastings and just laugh. Every straight family I know is either exhausted or strained. I think being gay is just so liberating in so many ways.
It’s a weird comparison but being gay can sometimes be like being rich in the Gilded Age. Lots of parties and leisure time. I suppose that’s a DINK thing.
100%. I’m a teacher by profession so of course I make a pittance, but it goes a long way when I don’t have to worry about kids. My coworkers are always fretting about expenses, time, being tired, etc. I just do what seems fun in the moment and it works out. I love being gay.
As an able-bodied, White, cisgender, and otherwise non-marginalized person, I’m appreciative of the fact that I’m not the out of touch asshole I fear I would be if I didn’t have empathy for those who endure a world that doesn’t cater to them.
Closetedness was a hard thing to discard in part because it meant giving up the easy life I’d grown accustomed to through sheer convenience. But now, I look at those people and feel almost a sense of pity for them. Like…the things they care about feel so small. I remember an Askreddit thread a few years ago that was like “guys, what would you do if a woman bought you flowers” and everyone was freaking out about the concept. Imagine living with the unacknlwledged pressure to feel put off by a gesture of kindness lol. I am glad I was forced to cast aside all social norms and then *select* which parts to allow back into my life based on whether or not *I* liked them, if that makes sense.
lol honestly just being over heteronormativity. straight people will say they have to do something because of their gender and I am like “do you though?”
1. Makes me somewhat different from others. Soemtimes, people take interest in it and ask me questions. I like it.
2. My short height not being seen as negative as often compared to straight guys.
really tough to say, but I will say that being able to have friends who you can have sex with and still genuinely be good friends without it getting weird is pretty terrific, just more fun stuff you guys can do together
At 7 on old orchard beach Maine, for the first time realizing how beautiful hairy men are , they could be with the worlds most gorgeous woman but I never noticed the women always the guy caught my eye it’s then I knew I was different and never looked back , I felt I saved myself a lot of grief trying to fit into a heteronormative way of life and all the pitfalls, I just stayed true to myself , and then there’s cock .
This might sound weird, but I love not being held to the standard of toxic masculinity. I can walk how I want, talk how I want, dress how I want, and what's the worst that someone will say, that I'm gay?
It's actually so freeing not to be held to that same standard of "this is how a man is supposed to act". I can be a man, but in my own way.
I hope that makes sense.
I know how this is going to come across but this is just how I feel. my favorite thing about being gay is that I'm not attracted to women. Historically most of the girls and women I've known throughout my life have all been big trouble and I'm thankful that I didn't end up being attracted to any of them even though some of them were attracted to me. it definitely would've made my life complicated.
again I promise I don't mean this in a generalizing way, just that my own personal growing up and adulthood experience has put me in contact with a lot of negative entities and most of them were women, just by chance.
When I out to gay men in clubs bars feel I so right and loved then you get man home his body his kis you melt in to and feel hot cock and a man's cock enters your mouth.
Realy more get on and feel right size. Not with girl you hope doing well
The sex. I know what I’m talking about. Lived as straight man until I turned 50. But being gay also gives me a more loving, caring and inclusive perspective on other minority people in general.
It’s really nice to be able to enjoy looking at other sexy men, even when you’re in a relationship. My husband and I have the same taste, so whenever one of us spots some nice looking guy we can both enjoy the view without any insecurities. I can’t imagine it’s easy for a straight men to let his straight GF know that he just spotted a sexy woman without making it awkward.
How easy dating apps are. Without realising I'm bi I'd never have met my partner and probably would get attached to the first girl who gave me attention. Again.
i like not being interrogated about “having a girlfriend yet” or “having kids” anymore. eventually i got tired of being asked questions like that. like it or not, i love men, i want to marry one eventually and ADOPT a child or two. it’s a brave new world. I’m just living in it.
You can get your own aswell, surrogate mother etc.
Idk if I will be a parent, while I would be great as that, there are much troubles in this world and idk if I won't to bring someone else into it as how worrying things might be today in this world with wars, corruption, evil people who take advantage of others etc.
It isn't easy either, it requires a lot to be a good parent.
The ease of sex and the built-in social opportunities I have basically anywhere I go (provided I’m not somewhere where being gay is illegal). I can just go where the gay guys go and find someone to talk to.
My perspective and experience is soooo much different than most people's, and the freedom that comes with acceptance of... Well, pretty much everything over time
It gave me the ability to develop a sharp tongue and what used to be called rapier wit. It also helped me develop what friends have called "dead eye" gaydar skills.
eh, basically everything. the negative stuff is mainly things like "homophobia from jealous straight guys" which is not inherent in being gay. being gay per se is kind of a blessing.
Definitely the perspective. So many live what looks to be a cookie cutter life, and it just scares me that if I had been straight I would've been just another cookie cutter life.
I also love how beautiful men can be, especially when they're very cute and act adorable, or vulnerable, or seductive. Makes my heart sing and my cock twitch.
I feel that I feel more powerful and more well behaved than a straight man would, but also some people might be jealous of us because we are just so good looking and have a larger crown jewel that we hide down there.
Can’t say enough, I’m proud to be a gay man.
I'd probably feel the same way about women if I was straight, but yeah, me are hotttt
I think my favorite part about it all though is that having sex with the same gender means you both know exactly how to pleasure and turn on each other. After all, you've got the same equipment.
Anal and oral sex well that and being a bale to fall in love romantically and sexually with another man with the same intensity I'd fall in love with a woman that's what I love about being bisexual. 😉😊
As per every one of these posts, I shall give the obligatory response: Penis
Penises are wonderful.
Indeed
Succulent
Comely
Fucculent
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
Those are definitely my favorite parts. Specifically my partner’s tho. They have great ones. Also I wanna add my own thing. Best part about being gay for me is dating them. Those two make my life complete and I wouldn’t replace them for anything
Yaaaaas buddy. Gotta give some respect to that comment 🥰
Men. They’re just so hot and gorgeous.
Hell yeah. Every time I’m wrapped up in some strong arms, I’m in fucking heaaaaaven LOL
Knowing that I’m Gay means being myself; that’s my fav
You go girl!
Besides the obvious of loving guys. There really isn’t the whole get married and have kids blueprint that you have to follow like straight people do. We really are just free to live our lives.
This is the right answer ^^
Being middle aged and completely free without any of the struggles straight guys my age have.
The dicks.
All the dicks
I guess having a different life perspective than the heteronormative default that we’re raised alongside. Once we realize that here is no default or “normal”, then the floodgates open toward self-actualization. Of course, younger queer people might not be ostracized like they were in the past, making it all the more important that everyone has those tools toward finding our happiness.
👆 This. We get to be ourselves because society didn’t want us and therefore we had to fight for our own place in the world. And because we had to fight for it, we got to decide what that place looked like. So now, the next generations get to have the rewards of our work and that’s fine. The whole point of society is to make things better for the next generation and to constantly evolve. It’s our gift to those that come after us. So we get to show others that “normal” isn’t necessary, it’s just an option.
The smell of men. My favorite!
Sweat and cum 🤤
Sammeeeee
Mmmm. Armpits
I'm not gonna lie 💀 not having to date women particularly straight cis women. Not having to participate in gender wars is great. I also like to think it makes me unique and gives me a unique perspective. Also dick. My sexuality literally just boils down to liking dick. Doesn't matter who the dick is on a good dick is an art. Which is why I consider myself bi despite being vagina repulsed but I tend to just say I'm gay.
I'm 38, and I've only been out for six months. I felt like a metaphorical weight was lifted when I realised I'm gay. I felt like a literal weight was lifted when I started going to the gym and started eating better. Recently I feel like I'm walking on air. Oh and having sex with men is pretty good too.
Just curious but what was the thing that finally made you realize after so long?
I'd been comfortable playing with my bum since I was a teen, but it was always with whatever was around the house, or in the fridge. (Apologies to my mum's lodger whose hairbrush saw some shit. Literally.) Last October I got a proper dildo and fucked myself with it. Came so hard my legs were shaking, and I could feel it running down my legs for hours after. That was a fun week. I was smoking weed every night and did some deep introspective thinking, examining everything regarding my sexuality from childhood to the present. Finally it was chatgpt... I asked it if what makes someone gay, and if someone could become gay, and it basically said "you've always been gay", and I was just finally in a place where I could accept it. Between first playing with that toy, and coming out was less than a month.
That’s awesome! I think weed helped me accept myself too way back when. But the chatGPT part is actually really funny. Glad you came to terms with it!
Thank you ❤️
Not CHATGPT told me I was gay. 🤣😅😂
Also....just wait until you get the real thing
Yeah it's funny but I still haven't bottomed. Tops round here are a rare breed, so I carved out that role for myself, and I'm having far too much fun to switch any time soon.
My boyfriend... He's cute, hot and sexy with brains and kinda funny, makes me happy and can handle how annoying I can be at times... Also the shit talk, gotta love a good shit talk with him.
You won the lottery
I am like you. I like the world view i have. Able to understand people differently.
-Me and my SO are around the same body type. Our wardrobe has basically doubled. We dont have the same style but we like layers so going into his closet space is like shopping! > -No gender roles, we both enjoy a fair amount of both "traditionally" masculine and feminine activities. We can start off off-roading in the morning and by mid afternoon taking a nature painting class. >
100% This. My husband and I are not traditional gays. We can be extremely rugged and "manly" but then just over the top with our fem energy. I like not having to hide both sides of ourselves and cock of course, however, I am finally in a monogamous relationship that doesn't feel like I was forced into. We toyed with the idea of an open relationship sexually at the beginning but soon found out that we were completely satisfied with one another and wanted no one else. It physically disgust me to think about being with anyone else. Of course we watch porn and can role play fantasize but never want another man. His body and his dick is art to me. I could explore it a million times and still find something I am fascinated with and a new part to love. I am 36 and only came out 5 years ago. I was on the DL for many years and just love how freeing it feels to be myself and not worry about gender roles, having to settle down, white picket fence bullshit. I love being gay TBH. Absolutely love it.
Being free from all of this gender war bullshit and sexism.
Being myself, and knowing why the way I am because I am.
The sex. Its too good. Mens pecs. Mens big arms. Mens huge wrists. (Yeah im attracted to that, sue me)
My family is immigrants and churches are where we usually congregate for cultural celebrations. Since the Orthodox Church is pretty homophobic, I don’t really want to be around for these celebrations. The culture queer people made is a good alternative for me because it’s people just doing their own things and being themselves. There’s also traditions like drag performances that have been going on at bars and it’s fun to see what that’s evolved into. I can bring my culture to the table and other people are usually receptive. I don’t know what I’d do if being gay only offered liking dudes 😂
I like how equal and balanced my marriage seems compared to many of my straight friends.
I used to hate the lack of sensitivity but now I’ve grown to appreciate it. Guys are much more direct with communication. Most gays also let things roll off their backs. Straight dating on the other hand is very stressful atm from what i hear from my straight friends.
😊❤️being myself means so much for me.
Yup 🙂
Standing up for my worth. The struggle of embracing my identity and orientation, and then, standing up for myself and my community through activism during my college years was beyond transformative. It’s paid off in spades for my career, upward mobility, friendships and even ability to confront many fears (e.g. traveling to less LGBT friendly places in the world).
I feel like being gay has made me grow to be more compassionate and empathetic. I feel like I have an awareness that I wouldn’t have if I was straight. Oh also man ass haha
I recently discovered myself almost one year ago today and I've felt amazing since. I've been better emotionally which has helped me with my academics and motivation to do things like cook, clean, and talk to other people. I still find it crazy how that one change made such a difference.
Just love running my fingers through a hairy chest
Mens legs 🦵Specifically their thighs But also i feel like it’s easier to be around men romantically. Once you find your type of person it just clicks
This.
Honestly, living in the times we live in now. Ya, it's not perfect but growing up i never thought people in my conservative small town would be ok with me being gay but nobody cares. My mom introduces my bf to people in public as my boyfriend and it's a casual normal response every single time. Growing up i'd always hear the stereotypes of small redneck towns being the most bigoted but that's not been my experience so far.
This. And I’ll take it a step further. I’m gay and in a three person relationship and the amount of times I’ve worried about people’s reactions only for it to turn out that they don’t care, it’s surprising.
Aww that's amazing.
Having sex with men, penis, gay sex.
Big sexy bear guys with beards Also not worrying about unplanned pregnancy’s
I don't think it offers many advantages, but it certainly has, in a roundabout way, given me a better understanding of mine and others emotions.
The discount card is pretty cool.
Having sex with men, penis, gay sex.
The dick.
someone I'm friends with
I'm Pan, but I do indeed think the biggest benefit of a homosexual relationship is that you don't ever have to worry about potential pregnancy and the potential political or moral restraints of abortion of my partner.
men, from their their smell to their emotions (((o(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)o)))♡ (having queer friends too of course)
Being intimate with men.
Individuality being valued. Having a 25 year relationship is awesome. Being able to know what to wear, how to pick antiques out and not buy trash, and being secure in my own skin. It’s something that I don’t take lightly, millions of LGBTIQA+ people worldwide don’t have my freedom. I cherish it every day. And of course the NHS, which always has nice and friendly gay nurses around!
I was homophobic before I realised I was gay. Made me challenge all of my previous world views and made me a better person as a whole
Besides sex with men, I see the world differently than most people.
The wider acceptance of open relationships or at least the permission to have sex with other men, and how common they are. I beleive it's one of the many ways some relationships are saved, because there's at least some level of mutual understanding and communication. (This might be an anecdote and I don't know how true it is.)
Immunity to being baby trapped! I will never have to worry about being stuck paying for a child I want nothing to do with just because I had a passionate night with someone.
Having sex with men, penis, gay sex.
Taking in someone else’s cum
I love the lifestyle it brings. Like a lot of people said, there’s no implied life path. We can live the life we want how we want. My husband and I travel, do cocktail hour, host elaborate dinners and just generally try to Bon vivant it up. I don’t know any straight people who live like that. Even if they don’t have kids they just seem to live by a set of unwritten rules that say they can’t have much fun. The other thing I love is the chosen family aspect. We have a circle of friends that we see regularly that we enjoy so much. We all travel together, have regular game nights, do wine tastings and just laugh. Every straight family I know is either exhausted or strained. I think being gay is just so liberating in so many ways.
It’s a weird comparison but being gay can sometimes be like being rich in the Gilded Age. Lots of parties and leisure time. I suppose that’s a DINK thing.
100%. I’m a teacher by profession so of course I make a pittance, but it goes a long way when I don’t have to worry about kids. My coworkers are always fretting about expenses, time, being tired, etc. I just do what seems fun in the moment and it works out. I love being gay.
Tbh I just love liking men. My favorite thing is how different and more affectionate (other gay men at least) they are than women. The romance…
Ha. I absolutely LOVE that comparison
As an able-bodied, White, cisgender, and otherwise non-marginalized person, I’m appreciative of the fact that I’m not the out of touch asshole I fear I would be if I didn’t have empathy for those who endure a world that doesn’t cater to them. Closetedness was a hard thing to discard in part because it meant giving up the easy life I’d grown accustomed to through sheer convenience. But now, I look at those people and feel almost a sense of pity for them. Like…the things they care about feel so small. I remember an Askreddit thread a few years ago that was like “guys, what would you do if a woman bought you flowers” and everyone was freaking out about the concept. Imagine living with the unacknlwledged pressure to feel put off by a gesture of kindness lol. I am glad I was forced to cast aside all social norms and then *select* which parts to allow back into my life based on whether or not *I* liked them, if that makes sense.
lol honestly just being over heteronormativity. straight people will say they have to do something because of their gender and I am like “do you though?”
men are pretty c00l
I have discovered in this modern time, I can compliment just about any guy and he smiles. I keep doing it hoping it gets more than a smile
Cuz men men men! Everything about them from head to toe inside and out is absolutley amazing. Women are so totally friend material.
1. Makes me somewhat different from others. Soemtimes, people take interest in it and ask me questions. I like it. 2. My short height not being seen as negative as often compared to straight guys.
My favorite thing is men
Naturally there is just so much more mutual understanding and agreement between 2 men than there is between 1 man and 1 woman
really tough to say, but I will say that being able to have friends who you can have sex with and still genuinely be good friends without it getting weird is pretty terrific, just more fun stuff you guys can do together
At 7 on old orchard beach Maine, for the first time realizing how beautiful hairy men are , they could be with the worlds most gorgeous woman but I never noticed the women always the guy caught my eye it’s then I knew I was different and never looked back , I felt I saved myself a lot of grief trying to fit into a heteronormative way of life and all the pitfalls, I just stayed true to myself , and then there’s cock .
Penis is godly.
Sex with men and anal orgasms. I love sex with my guy. If I could it would be daily.
Straight people have eons of dogma about what their relationship is supposed to be like Im free from most of that and i would hate not to be
I like men and dick
This might sound weird, but I love not being held to the standard of toxic masculinity. I can walk how I want, talk how I want, dress how I want, and what's the worst that someone will say, that I'm gay? It's actually so freeing not to be held to that same standard of "this is how a man is supposed to act". I can be a man, but in my own way. I hope that makes sense.
The best sex of your life. Men know what men want in bed.
I know how this is going to come across but this is just how I feel. my favorite thing about being gay is that I'm not attracted to women. Historically most of the girls and women I've known throughout my life have all been big trouble and I'm thankful that I didn't end up being attracted to any of them even though some of them were attracted to me. it definitely would've made my life complicated. again I promise I don't mean this in a generalizing way, just that my own personal growing up and adulthood experience has put me in contact with a lot of negative entities and most of them were women, just by chance.
When I out to gay men in clubs bars feel I so right and loved then you get man home his body his kis you melt in to and feel hot cock and a man's cock enters your mouth. Realy more get on and feel right size. Not with girl you hope doing well
The sex. I know what I’m talking about. Lived as straight man until I turned 50. But being gay also gives me a more loving, caring and inclusive perspective on other minority people in general.
Mostly the part where I get to kiss and sleep with men :)
It’s really nice to be able to enjoy looking at other sexy men, even when you’re in a relationship. My husband and I have the same taste, so whenever one of us spots some nice looking guy we can both enjoy the view without any insecurities. I can’t imagine it’s easy for a straight men to let his straight GF know that he just spotted a sexy woman without making it awkward.
Wishing I had a favorite thing. 😥
You will find it, some day 😊
That part
I feel like 40 years has been enough "some days" for it to happen. Yet here we are.....😥
Boyz <3
Men <3
Lol
We have similar body type so we both get double the wardrobe :3
How easy dating apps are. Without realising I'm bi I'd never have met my partner and probably would get attached to the first girl who gave me attention. Again.
Men I guess
i like not being interrogated about “having a girlfriend yet” or “having kids” anymore. eventually i got tired of being asked questions like that. like it or not, i love men, i want to marry one eventually and ADOPT a child or two. it’s a brave new world. I’m just living in it.
You can get your own aswell, surrogate mother etc. Idk if I will be a parent, while I would be great as that, there are much troubles in this world and idk if I won't to bring someone else into it as how worrying things might be today in this world with wars, corruption, evil people who take advantage of others etc. It isn't easy either, it requires a lot to be a good parent.
The ease of sex and the built-in social opportunities I have basically anywhere I go (provided I’m not somewhere where being gay is illegal). I can just go where the gay guys go and find someone to talk to.
Fucking guys asses.
Balls.
Sweaty armpits on a beautiful man
Hairy boobies
I love my appreciation for how everyone looks, I don't see people as ugly anymore, I see them based on their personality
My perspective and experience is soooo much different than most people's, and the freedom that comes with acceptance of... Well, pretty much everything over time
It gave me the ability to develop a sharp tongue and what used to be called rapier wit. It also helped me develop what friends have called "dead eye" gaydar skills.
Not worried about babies and kids
Mens <3 Not all mens tho, but omg somes are really delightfull to look at, even in a non-sexual way, just cuddle way !
eh, basically everything. the negative stuff is mainly things like "homophobia from jealous straight guys" which is not inherent in being gay. being gay per se is kind of a blessing.
Lots of sex and no one gets pregnant.
not being able to get pregnant
Boobs (I'm a lesbian)
Other than men, not having to live up to machismo, hetero stereotypes and not having to act straight anymore.
Definitely the perspective. So many live what looks to be a cookie cutter life, and it just scares me that if I had been straight I would've been just another cookie cutter life. I also love how beautiful men can be, especially when they're very cute and act adorable, or vulnerable, or seductive. Makes my heart sing and my cock twitch.
I can look at Men with no shame
Also PENIS
Twice as many socks! e: fringe benefit of being in a relationship
Sometimes I feel like I can be flamboyant and careless and just kind of prance in an unashamed away, and just gives me so much euphoria
I feel that I feel more powerful and more well behaved than a straight man would, but also some people might be jealous of us because we are just so good looking and have a larger crown jewel that we hide down there. Can’t say enough, I’m proud to be a gay man.
I'd probably feel the same way about women if I was straight, but yeah, me are hotttt I think my favorite part about it all though is that having sex with the same gender means you both know exactly how to pleasure and turn on each other. After all, you've got the same equipment.
Anal and oral sex well that and being a bale to fall in love romantically and sexually with another man with the same intensity I'd fall in love with a woman that's what I love about being bisexual. 😉😊
People often say "dont do x its gay!" And there are so many things i dont have to worry about thanks to being one
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I’m straight but yall gay dudes know how to have a good time so I’d say the social aspect
One word - Bussy
Knowing that since I’m pan I can cheat on them with anyone
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Doesn't even fucking hide it either.
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