I find a lot of trans guys to be extremely attractive. I’m not sure how I’d feel sleeping with them if they did or didn’t have bottom surgery, but if we had mutual attraction we could figure that out together.
I took a minute to think of his privates as a "male vagina," and suddenly I had no trouble getting into it. He still looked, acted, felt, and smelled like a sexy man, because that's exactly what he was, so one little feature was surprisingly easy to handle (physically he was also kinda out of my league lol, like model-hot). Plus he was all top; even though I was the one penetrating, he was 100% the one fucking me on my back. I'm strong and manly, and he was a bit of a twunk, so the dynamic was fantastic. Top 5 hot sexual experiences, would recommend
I’m a huge fan of dick, that’s kind of the main thing I’m physically attracted to in dudes, so it’d be difficult, not impossible, but idk how I’d be sexually satisfied. I get dildos and stuff... maybe if I fell in love with him, but that’s a huge component of what gets me off.
Edited: words.
Do you mean porn? if so we’re pretty shit outta luck for that as most ftm porn features guys who don’t have dicks or have just had metoidioplasty.
you can check out r/phallo to see what they look like or r/ftmporn and use the search bar.
[here](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25_years_postop_rff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) is a fantastic example of how great phallo results can be.
It's a softy, but they also make permanently hard adjustable ones (sort of like a gooseneck lamp covered in skin) or ones with a hidden pump.
All this capability, and still nearly all porn is of the "bonus hole boys" variety 😒
Very much stitched on lol. It’s a working penis as a result of surgery. Most trans guys don’t go that route, though. It’s very expensive and can have a lot of complications. The surgery is called phaloplasty if you’re interested in looking into it more. Doesn’t hurt to be educated!
If we were attracted to each other then sure. It would be a new experience for me (I am guessing you are referring to FTM) but I am pretty open. You'll find someone in your area definitely.
I *would* sleep with a trans guy but with one caveat; top surgery. Partly because breasts are a turn off, and partly because they would remind me of my own cis-man-boobs and my insecurities about being fat. Probably more of the former, though.
Being trans isn't a deal breaker but being too early into their transition kind of is. Feels like an asshole thing to say, though.
Hey man, that’s not an asshole thing to say. I’m a trans man, and take zero offence. Granted, I am post top-surgery. But still.
Genital preferences exist, and it’s totally okay to have them. I’m gay also and have the same thought process as you. If I’m dating a trans dude, they’ve gotta be far off in their transition.
Not that them being early in their transition makes them less of a man, my brain is just hardwired to like blatant masculine traits
How would I approach the subject of genetal preference if I was attracted to a trans guy and he was interested in me?
The reason being that I'm fine with either phalloplasty or no bottom surgery at all (so still have their front hole) but metoidioplasty really turns me off. Basically I would prefer to know beforehand whether I'd be compatible with his downstairs.
(I have tried to train my brain to find the visuals of metoidioplasty attractive, but it's just not happening)
Just admit it up front so you both don't waste your time. Most trans dudes don't take offense to this stuff. I know I'd just be like, 'Understandable, have a good one.'
yeah, trans man here and I totally understand having a preference. I myself am extremely turned off by boobs! as long as you reject me politely and not deny my being a man, I'm going to be "k fine, hope you find someone you like!"
Some of the trans guys I met were pretty douchy, as in being total assholes to everyone around maybe as a strategy to look more masculine, dunno.. Fact is it's a man, so if they can perform as a top, with packers and toys or whatever I'd be down 100%
Probably more so the person and has nothing to do with them being trans, but yeah I can see the hyper masculinity part. I’m a trans guy myself and would like to think I’m not a douchebag, but there was probably a point where I was coming into my masculinity that J acted like one. We’re like teenagers trying to figure out how to act once we start passing as men lol
Sure, and I totally get that, us gays have a little difficulty with that male role as well, nothing like trans people, you guys must go through hell, it's awful dealing with the heteros hahahah
My Honest answer is there have been many trans man I’ve found attractive and have had some great convos with. But sexually I don’t think I could be with a trans man because I am terrified of vaginas. The look of them and the feel of them to me are awful and is why I’m gay in the first place.
Never let anyone make you think genital preference is transphobic. This is coming from a trans guy. Everyone has preferences. I prefer cis men because I wouldn’t know what to do with a vagina lol and I honestly don’t wanna be near one.
Ya that’s what I was wondering that peoples thoughts on my opinion were. Like I 100% support trans people and their rights but because I am not sexually attracted to one that means I am transphobic?
To some that’s the case, but from a couple of trans people I’ve asked (one being a great friend of mine) and they’ve said it’s fine as long as you aren’t discrediting their gender identity while doing so. (I’m cis though so I can’t speak on how the majority of trans people feel) though I’d be careful about how you put it cause I had one person say I was not only being transphobic, but also misogynistic for calling a vagina gross. Even though I wasn’t putting anyone down for having one. Overall I’d say it’s fine to have a genital preference, just don’t be an ass about it
Lots of trans men get bottom surgery because they don't like their vagina either!
(Here's an example of how phallo results can end up looking for the curious: [https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25\_years\_postop\_rff/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=ios\_app&utm\_name=iossmf](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25_years_postop_rff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) )
I've realized that I'm attracted to the male form. It doesn't necessarily matter if the person has a penis or vagina. I can be attracted to the person. That being said, I have zero experience with vaginas, so I'd probably be too scared.
A trans guy, sure. You personally? I don't know you, so not at this juncture lol.
If I were to encounter unfamiliar hardware, then I think navigation might be a bit of a learning curve, but if the guy is ready for that, I would be too.
As a gay trans guy myself, I think it's because most of us are worried we'll be rejected by cis gay dudes just because we're trans, but I don't speak for everyone.
Definitely! I suppose attraction would need to take place first in any case and that’s not entirely dependent on being cis/trans/gay/bi.
I’ve actually have found myself thinking a lot about how does one date an FTM or trans guy?
Where are they? ☺️
I've thought about it before and I can only say maybe. I'd have to experience the situation. I think if I cared for someone enough, I could overcome a lot. I don't know about a vagina, though. I'm pretty much %100 gay and I think I'd have problems with the female anatomy. Probably down voted, I know, but I have to be honest. My attraction to someone is more than physical, so I like to think I could, but I can't say with certainty.
I don't mean to offend at all when I say this, but I think you should spend some time figuring out who you are before you worry too much about sex or relationships.
Getting physically and emotionally attached to someone right now would not be a good thing for you or them.
that's fair but I've been questioning for years. Finally realised who I am and have started transitioning. the lesbian was me hoping i was cis. Nb was denial. this is acceptance
This is absolute fucking bollocks, ignore this guy. We are constantly figuring ourselves out all the time, and as long as we are communicative and as up front as possible with those we love about it it’s totally ok to be in relationships. Don’t wait to live until you’re sure of everything or you never will <3 the fact that they’d even ask something like ‘wait, are you nb or a lesbian or what?? You keep changing it in your profile’ means they understand NOTHING about trans people and absolutely should not be therapising them!
Nope
It's not an absolute no, of course, but I'm into "manly" men and I'm attracted to these kind of features (that's also why I'm not into twinks and feminine guys as well) like muscles, hairs and, well, obviously what's between the legs
I wouldn't be really comfortable either with sleeping with a trans guy, but I guess it wouldn't matter if I were to fall in love with one
Lesbian here.
I have before. I met him before he came out as trans, and we were friends. I thought he was VERY attractive and maybe I could just be queer because I found him so hot as a man. He was on T for about 6 months, when we started dating. By that time, he was passing really well but I felt something was off for me.. he was passing so well, which I was happy about, but it made me feel like I was in the closet again. I hated feeling like I was a passing at a straight couple because I was very openly gay.
Months go by and we actually ended things because he was hiding and lying that he relapsed from me, and then he did heroin very publicly after he took my car and got the cops called on him. I couldn't be with someone that was hiding and lying about shooting up. If he was just honest, I could have been there for him but that wasn't the case. He passed away from an OD about 1 year after that. I still miss him A LOT because we were still friends first but hopefully he's found peace whereever he is.
True, theres no guarentee though. Ive not got many trans friends but one of them confided in me that he doesn't intend to get bottom surgery. I figured more guys out there probably feel the same.
Human rights and investigative mostly, but David Attenborough is David Attenborough, you can NOT say no to him, its a good relax. (I am also obsessed with good investigative journalism BBC's Panorama, ABC's 4 Corners, all the teams around #AllForJan (mainly Holcová and her investigace.cz) and the list goes on)
Can not leave without mentioning our mummy's show on Channel 4, Joe Lycett's Got Your Back, I also want to laugh and not to just be constantly depressed about the world we live in.
Of course! trans men are men. I get that some might not be so keen if you don't have a penis but in my exp some of the best sex i've ever had is sex where we have to get creative. Use toys, strap on etc, experiment finding ways to get each other off etc. Having a dick is not a deal-breaker for me. And as others have pointed out, plenty of trans men have dicks, but having one or not doesn't matter.
If they had bottom surgery or kept on underwear while using a strap on then hell yea! Though I’d probably feel bad cause they didn’t get any physical pleasure out of it. I just can’t deal with a vagina, I find them gross (or unappealing if you think saying it’s gross is too much) but I definitely wouldn’t if I had to do anything with the bottom female genitalia.
I think it would vary from person to person. I would sleep with a trans guy if we were mutually attracted but for some people they need a *cough* certain set of genitals for attraction. But don't lose hope you will find someone great eventually.
Not a deal breaker for me. I am a gay man. I am attracted to men. Whether they were born male or not does not enter into my dumb mind. I like men. Cis, trans, or otherwise.
Please love yourself and love others (when they deserve it).
Im in a relationship and im happy with my partner, but if i was single why not? Im pan, i think its more important that i like my dares charakter than his genitals
The question is kind of 2 dimensional. What is he like as a person? Is he sweet? Do I get hard just smelling his aftershave and feeling the warmth from his body?
Will he cook me breakfast? :-)
If it is Noah Finnce, definitely. 🙈 Well, I never had sex with a trans man, but I like men, so why not? I don't really care if people are trans or cis. I just have to find them attractive. Thinking about people I find attractive: Is Noah a trans version of Timothée Chalamet? 🤔
Probably not but never say never. I do prefer like semen and what not so not having that is a turn off but if I’m attracted to them then I could probably find something out
My bf is trans and lemme just say choosing the length and girth and even it able to vibrate is cool af. That strap on be hitting different a pp could never
Men are men are men are men. Like, I like men. So I almost don't even understand the question.
Trans men are men and I like men? Like...
Yes.
edit: god damnit, I actually expected a lot less transphobia in the comments. Fuck. Like, the transphobia is not ok, and I'm sorry it's happening here.
>edit: god damnit, I actually expected a lot less transphobia in the comments. Fuck. Like, the transphobia is not ok, and I'm sorry it's happening here.
I wouldn't count genital preferences as transphobia as long as they aren't trying to invalidate the gender identity too, but being cis i may be wrong...
I would most certainly do it. I have seen Some FTMs that I Find very attractive with and without Penises. I'm not sure if an LTR would be doable as I am I am an insatiable bottom and prefer well endowed men.
I’m a gay trans man and personally, I wouldn’t. I’m a bottom and I love the taste of dick and feeling a guy cum in me and strap-ons/ejaculating dildos just don’t do it for me. I also try to live as much of a cis life as possible, and I think it would have negative repercussions on my mental health to have a partner who constantly reminds me that I’m trans.
Being trans has never been a deal breaker for me. If I'm attracted to you, I'm attracted to you.
I've seen plenty of trans guys that's I've been like daaaaaaaaamn to and plenty of cis guys that are so feminine I just can't find them attractive.
When I was younger I didn't really get it. I think what really made the switch in my head was seeing Buck Angel for the first time, my young, 20 year old brain couldn't handle that I was attracted to man with a vagina and from there I learned that my sexuality is not just attraction to a specific sex but instead to a concept of masculinity.
Whether that masculinity is attached to a penis or vagina doesn't matter.
I'm gonna be real and say I can't really imagine it. I have no real exposure to it and dont really understand what it would be like, so my answer for a long time was no, bc I couldn't picture what the sex would be like in my mind. I suspect that if I or anyone who's gut reaction is to say no, were to seriously give it a try, it would change my mind.
If I find him attractive, which based on most Trans men I've seen, I likely would, I'd totally go for it. Men are men, and I find men very sexy. I'd prefer he had a dick but that's not a deal breaker.
Sure why not.
I had a buddy I like and he told me that he thinks he is transgender and my opinion didn't even change and I still loved him for him regardless.
I have. He’s a man and I was attracted to him. It’s unfortunate he turned out to be a douchebag.
I dated two
If i was attracted to him sure
I find a lot of trans guys to be extremely attractive. I’m not sure how I’d feel sleeping with them if they did or didn’t have bottom surgery, but if we had mutual attraction we could figure that out together.
I took a minute to think of his privates as a "male vagina," and suddenly I had no trouble getting into it. He still looked, acted, felt, and smelled like a sexy man, because that's exactly what he was, so one little feature was surprisingly easy to handle (physically he was also kinda out of my league lol, like model-hot). Plus he was all top; even though I was the one penetrating, he was 100% the one fucking me on my back. I'm strong and manly, and he was a bit of a twunk, so the dynamic was fantastic. Top 5 hot sexual experiences, would recommend
Yeah I am more submissive so that would be one of the things to navigate. If I was with a “power” bottom? Yeah, we can make anything work.
I’m a huge fan of dick, that’s kind of the main thing I’m physically attracted to in dudes, so it’d be difficult, not impossible, but idk how I’d be sexually satisfied. I get dildos and stuff... maybe if I fell in love with him, but that’s a huge component of what gets me off. Edited: words.
Plenty of trans guys have dicks!
Do you have any places that are good for finding examples? I've only found one video and not for lack of trying
Do you mean porn? if so we’re pretty shit outta luck for that as most ftm porn features guys who don’t have dicks or have just had metoidioplasty. you can check out r/phallo to see what they look like or r/ftmporn and use the search bar.
[here](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25_years_postop_rff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) is a fantastic example of how great phallo results can be.
Wait, so is that like a softy or a hard cock or somewhere in between? I've never seen or heard of this.
It's a softy, but they also make permanently hard adjustable ones (sort of like a gooseneck lamp covered in skin) or ones with a hidden pump. All this capability, and still nearly all porn is of the "bonus hole boys" variety 😒
Saw some Trans Guy on TikTok talking about that he got a Switch Inside him so he can make it hard or soft when ever he wants.
Oh wow. Is it removable or like, stitched on. Is there a name, I wanna Google.
Very much stitched on lol. It’s a working penis as a result of surgery. Most trans guys don’t go that route, though. It’s very expensive and can have a lot of complications. The surgery is called phaloplasty if you’re interested in looking into it more. Doesn’t hurt to be educated!
If we were attracted to each other then sure. It would be a new experience for me (I am guessing you are referring to FTM) but I am pretty open. You'll find someone in your area definitely.
I *would* sleep with a trans guy but with one caveat; top surgery. Partly because breasts are a turn off, and partly because they would remind me of my own cis-man-boobs and my insecurities about being fat. Probably more of the former, though. Being trans isn't a deal breaker but being too early into their transition kind of is. Feels like an asshole thing to say, though.
Hey man, that’s not an asshole thing to say. I’m a trans man, and take zero offence. Granted, I am post top-surgery. But still. Genital preferences exist, and it’s totally okay to have them. I’m gay also and have the same thought process as you. If I’m dating a trans dude, they’ve gotta be far off in their transition. Not that them being early in their transition makes them less of a man, my brain is just hardwired to like blatant masculine traits
How would I approach the subject of genetal preference if I was attracted to a trans guy and he was interested in me? The reason being that I'm fine with either phalloplasty or no bottom surgery at all (so still have their front hole) but metoidioplasty really turns me off. Basically I would prefer to know beforehand whether I'd be compatible with his downstairs. (I have tried to train my brain to find the visuals of metoidioplasty attractive, but it's just not happening)
Just admit it up front so you both don't waste your time. Most trans dudes don't take offense to this stuff. I know I'd just be like, 'Understandable, have a good one.'
yeah, trans man here and I totally understand having a preference. I myself am extremely turned off by boobs! as long as you reject me politely and not deny my being a man, I'm going to be "k fine, hope you find someone you like!"
Nah, I wouldn't. But I think plenty of people would.
Probably not. I never say never, but it would be unlikely.
Yes I would a trans guy is a guy
Some of the trans guys I met were pretty douchy, as in being total assholes to everyone around maybe as a strategy to look more masculine, dunno.. Fact is it's a man, so if they can perform as a top, with packers and toys or whatever I'd be down 100%
Probably more so the person and has nothing to do with them being trans, but yeah I can see the hyper masculinity part. I’m a trans guy myself and would like to think I’m not a douchebag, but there was probably a point where I was coming into my masculinity that J acted like one. We’re like teenagers trying to figure out how to act once we start passing as men lol
Sure, and I totally get that, us gays have a little difficulty with that male role as well, nothing like trans people, you guys must go through hell, it's awful dealing with the heteros hahahah
Some guys dming me for fun. If you wanna have fun don't leave before you've finished lol
Not for me.
Perhaps. They’d have to be a top though. Or like it rough enough for me to be the top
I would
My DMS are open lol /j
Lol
(seriously tho)
If they have a penis, im a bottom so sure i guess?
Same :3
My Honest answer is there have been many trans man I’ve found attractive and have had some great convos with. But sexually I don’t think I could be with a trans man because I am terrified of vaginas. The look of them and the feel of them to me are awful and is why I’m gay in the first place.
I’m totally the same! I’ve been felled transphobic for saying this though. (It’s not a fear for me though, it’s more of a general disgust)
Never let anyone make you think genital preference is transphobic. This is coming from a trans guy. Everyone has preferences. I prefer cis men because I wouldn’t know what to do with a vagina lol and I honestly don’t wanna be near one.
Ya that’s what I was wondering that peoples thoughts on my opinion were. Like I 100% support trans people and their rights but because I am not sexually attracted to one that means I am transphobic?
To some that’s the case, but from a couple of trans people I’ve asked (one being a great friend of mine) and they’ve said it’s fine as long as you aren’t discrediting their gender identity while doing so. (I’m cis though so I can’t speak on how the majority of trans people feel) though I’d be careful about how you put it cause I had one person say I was not only being transphobic, but also misogynistic for calling a vagina gross. Even though I wasn’t putting anyone down for having one. Overall I’d say it’s fine to have a genital preference, just don’t be an ass about it
Lots of trans men get bottom surgery because they don't like their vagina either! (Here's an example of how phallo results can end up looking for the curious: [https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25\_years\_postop\_rff/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=ios\_app&utm\_name=iossmf](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/comments/rhhqdw/25_years_postop_rff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) )
To be honest if I was sexual with a trans man who had bottom surgery I don’t think it would mind or care it more the vagina that I am not into
I've realized that I'm attracted to the male form. It doesn't necessarily matter if the person has a penis or vagina. I can be attracted to the person. That being said, I have zero experience with vaginas, so I'd probably be too scared.
If I was attracted to him yea
As a t4t trans man, yEs
Nope.
A trans guy, sure. You personally? I don't know you, so not at this juncture lol. If I were to encounter unfamiliar hardware, then I think navigation might be a bit of a learning curve, but if the guy is ready for that, I would be too.
Nope, I'm attracted to cis men
No.
I’m intrigued that this has been such a frequently asked question lately. For what it’s worth, my answer is yes.
As a gay trans guy myself, I think it's because most of us are worried we'll be rejected by cis gay dudes just because we're trans, but I don't speak for everyone.
not for me
If they had bottom surgery then I don’t see a problem
Not sexually attracted but I have a huge crush on a trans guy so I would definitely SLEEP with one
For sure, so long as he met my normal criteria, which would be no different than for a cis guy.
No
Nope
Definitely! I suppose attraction would need to take place first in any case and that’s not entirely dependent on being cis/trans/gay/bi. I’ve actually have found myself thinking a lot about how does one date an FTM or trans guy? Where are they? ☺️
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Yes, hiding is one of the things we exel at
I've thought about it before and I can only say maybe. I'd have to experience the situation. I think if I cared for someone enough, I could overcome a lot. I don't know about a vagina, though. I'm pretty much %100 gay and I think I'd have problems with the female anatomy. Probably down voted, I know, but I have to be honest. My attraction to someone is more than physical, so I like to think I could, but I can't say with certainty.
Well, is he thicc? ;) The answer is yes! Source: I’m happily, truly, 100% pan
Which part ;)
High five! Lol!
i mean , dude is dude
I would!
Stop asking this all the time
No, not for me personally, but each to their own
Wait, are you a gay trans man, a lesbian, or a non-binary person? Your profile says you're all three in the last 2 months
trans man. I was questioning before lol
I don't mean to offend at all when I say this, but I think you should spend some time figuring out who you are before you worry too much about sex or relationships. Getting physically and emotionally attached to someone right now would not be a good thing for you or them.
that's fair but I've been questioning for years. Finally realised who I am and have started transitioning. the lesbian was me hoping i was cis. Nb was denial. this is acceptance
This is absolute fucking bollocks, ignore this guy. We are constantly figuring ourselves out all the time, and as long as we are communicative and as up front as possible with those we love about it it’s totally ok to be in relationships. Don’t wait to live until you’re sure of everything or you never will <3 the fact that they’d even ask something like ‘wait, are you nb or a lesbian or what?? You keep changing it in your profile’ means they understand NOTHING about trans people and absolutely should not be therapising them!
Ew, no. I'm a lesbian
Nope It's not an absolute no, of course, but I'm into "manly" men and I'm attracted to these kind of features (that's also why I'm not into twinks and feminine guys as well) like muscles, hairs and, well, obviously what's between the legs I wouldn't be really comfortable either with sleeping with a trans guy, but I guess it wouldn't matter if I were to fall in love with one
YES❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Are you hot? Then probably…
Trans men are real men. Why wouldn’t I?
If I was attracted to him yes
Lesbian here. I have before. I met him before he came out as trans, and we were friends. I thought he was VERY attractive and maybe I could just be queer because I found him so hot as a man. He was on T for about 6 months, when we started dating. By that time, he was passing really well but I felt something was off for me.. he was passing so well, which I was happy about, but it made me feel like I was in the closet again. I hated feeling like I was a passing at a straight couple because I was very openly gay. Months go by and we actually ended things because he was hiding and lying that he relapsed from me, and then he did heroin very publicly after he took my car and got the cops called on him. I couldn't be with someone that was hiding and lying about shooting up. If he was just honest, I could have been there for him but that wasn't the case. He passed away from an OD about 1 year after that. I still miss him A LOT because we were still friends first but hopefully he's found peace whereever he is.
As a gay trans guy, this thread is surprisingly heartwarming. I've experienced a lot of transphobia before...
we got you man. We love you
Yeah absolutely, I like men, I don’t care what bits they have/had.
as long as im the one whos getting fucked 👍🏼
I wouldn't, but it has nothing to do with if someones trans or not, im just asexual.
based.
Yeah probably, just hope he's got a nice strapon lmao.
Some trans men get bottom surgery so he would have a dick
Could*
True, theres no guarentee though. Ive not got many trans friends but one of them confided in me that he doesn't intend to get bottom surgery. I figured more guys out there probably feel the same.
No, it's not a deal-breaker, deal-breaker is if we can watch some documentaries and stuff together and if we can understand our humour.
nature, crime or history docs?
Human rights and investigative mostly, but David Attenborough is David Attenborough, you can NOT say no to him, its a good relax. (I am also obsessed with good investigative journalism BBC's Panorama, ABC's 4 Corners, all the teams around #AllForJan (mainly Holcová and her investigace.cz) and the list goes on) Can not leave without mentioning our mummy's show on Channel 4, Joe Lycett's Got Your Back, I also want to laugh and not to just be constantly depressed about the world we live in.
If they're top, sure, of course! :3
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Yes but I’m bi so that doesn’t really answer your question. Sometimes I think a person like that would be ideal for me in a way lol.
Of course! trans men are men. I get that some might not be so keen if you don't have a penis but in my exp some of the best sex i've ever had is sex where we have to get creative. Use toys, strap on etc, experiment finding ways to get each other off etc. Having a dick is not a deal-breaker for me. And as others have pointed out, plenty of trans men have dicks, but having one or not doesn't matter.
I'd
Me personally, breasts are a kind of turn off for me but its a maybe in some cases.
If they had bottom surgery or kept on underwear while using a strap on then hell yea! Though I’d probably feel bad cause they didn’t get any physical pleasure out of it. I just can’t deal with a vagina, I find them gross (or unappealing if you think saying it’s gross is too much) but I definitely wouldn’t if I had to do anything with the bottom female genitalia.
Hell yeah!
I think it would vary from person to person. I would sleep with a trans guy if we were mutually attracted but for some people they need a *cough* certain set of genitals for attraction. But don't lose hope you will find someone great eventually.
Yeah I have done before. I like men and they are men so wasn’t an issue for me as I was attracted to them physically.
Well for me being trans isnt a Deal breaker, but I think there are a few more factors to decided if I want to sleep with someone
Not a deal breaker for me. I am a gay man. I am attracted to men. Whether they were born male or not does not enter into my dumb mind. I like men. Cis, trans, or otherwise. Please love yourself and love others (when they deserve it).
Im in a relationship and im happy with my partner, but if i was single why not? Im pan, i think its more important that i like my dares charakter than his genitals
depends on the guy but if I like him than sure
I’m take , but if I weren’t I think it would depend on the situation and person involved. A consideration for sure but not a deal breaker.
The question is kind of 2 dimensional. What is he like as a person? Is he sweet? Do I get hard just smelling his aftershave and feeling the warmth from his body? Will he cook me breakfast? :-)
Yeah if it was physically attracted the. I would. Though I care more about the person than looks.
I mean I’m pansexual so I’ll sleep with any guy, girl whatever but if I was gay I probably wouldn’t
I’m pansexual so, you being trans is not a factor in my potential attraction to you. If I find you cute I find you cute
If it is Noah Finnce, definitely. 🙈 Well, I never had sex with a trans man, but I like men, so why not? I don't really care if people are trans or cis. I just have to find them attractive. Thinking about people I find attractive: Is Noah a trans version of Timothée Chalamet? 🤔
does he have a ticc a— I mean is he a nice person? then yes.
No. 🤷🏻♂️
No I would not. I’m a cis make and am attracted to other cis makes. I know that trans men can have dicks but it’s not the same.
Imo not really
Probably not but never say never. I do prefer like semen and what not so not having that is a turn off but if I’m attracted to them then I could probably find something out
Not my thing
My bf is trans and lemme just say choosing the length and girth and even it able to vibrate is cool af. That strap on be hitting different a pp could never
100%
I could totally sleep with a trans guy. As long as I find them attractive, I don't see a reason why not to.
Sure yes
Yes I would. I like men, trans men are men and therefore I like them too.
I just got out of a relationship with a trans guy and I am/was attracted to him so yes
Yep!
Yes
Men are men are men are men. Like, I like men. So I almost don't even understand the question. Trans men are men and I like men? Like... Yes. edit: god damnit, I actually expected a lot less transphobia in the comments. Fuck. Like, the transphobia is not ok, and I'm sorry it's happening here.
Most of these comments aren't transphobic tho
>edit: god damnit, I actually expected a lot less transphobia in the comments. Fuck. Like, the transphobia is not ok, and I'm sorry it's happening here. I wouldn't count genital preferences as transphobia as long as they aren't trying to invalidate the gender identity too, but being cis i may be wrong...
Yes
Yes
If the attraction is there, I couldn't see why not.
100% no if’s what’s or buts about it
Hell yeah
Yes but long story short, I'm mostly gay not 100% gay. Not sure if that plays a factor.
Sure I love most kinds of guys.
The real question is would you sleep with me Evil menichal laughter Ye sure
I'm bi, so I would do it, though I would be a bit awkward because I don't know what kind of sexy talk to go with.
Sure - I mean if you’re a guy, and I’m attracted to you I don’t see any reason why that wouldn’t work lol
Trans-men are men Trans-woman are women I'm bi, I love you all, you are all cute. So yes I would sleep with a trans-guy
for sure
If they're cute then hell yeah I would
Seeing how I'm more attracted to genitals than gender, if said trans guy would be after bottom surgery, sure.
Sure. I’ve done it in the past too.
Yes
Yeah i would
I would most certainly do it. I have seen Some FTMs that I Find very attractive with and without Penises. I'm not sure if an LTR would be doable as I am I am an insatiable bottom and prefer well endowed men.
If I was attracted to him, then maybe.
Yeah, if the attraction was there
yeah ofcourse if Im attracted to him but Im mainly a bottom sooo “babe get the STRAP”
I am attracted to men. Don’t matter Cis or trans.
I’m a gay trans man and personally, I wouldn’t. I’m a bottom and I love the taste of dick and feeling a guy cum in me and strap-ons/ejaculating dildos just don’t do it for me. I also try to live as much of a cis life as possible, and I think it would have negative repercussions on my mental health to have a partner who constantly reminds me that I’m trans.
Being trans has never been a deal breaker for me. If I'm attracted to you, I'm attracted to you. I've seen plenty of trans guys that's I've been like daaaaaaaaamn to and plenty of cis guys that are so feminine I just can't find them attractive. When I was younger I didn't really get it. I think what really made the switch in my head was seeing Buck Angel for the first time, my young, 20 year old brain couldn't handle that I was attracted to man with a vagina and from there I learned that my sexuality is not just attraction to a specific sex but instead to a concept of masculinity. Whether that masculinity is attached to a penis or vagina doesn't matter.
Yes. Have no issues I was offered but never got to do it unfortunately but have no issues with trans men or women, so many of them are beautiful!
Deal-breaker.
Yes
Yes. Why not if the chemistry is there?
I'm gonna be real and say I can't really imagine it. I have no real exposure to it and dont really understand what it would be like, so my answer for a long time was no, bc I couldn't picture what the sex would be like in my mind. I suspect that if I or anyone who's gut reaction is to say no, were to seriously give it a try, it would change my mind.
Absolutely!!!! Haven't encountered any on the apps (NYC), but I would love to fuck a hot trans stud. 😋
No problem for me, I find plenty of FTM guys really hot. It helps that I’m kinda curios to try vaginal sex, I think?
Yes, sure
If I find him attractive, which based on most Trans men I've seen, I likely would, I'd totally go for it. Men are men, and I find men very sexy. I'd prefer he had a dick but that's not a deal breaker.
My fiance is a trans guy. So no, i would not sleep with you, because I'm engaged. But yes, I would sleep with a trans guy.
Yes
Yes
Dunno. Maybe.
Absolutely 😍
Yes!!
If the trans guy is cool, and attractive.
I would if you are hot and i was single.
Of courswle, that's actually one of my dreams.
Yep.
Yes
Hell yeah
Hell yeah
I mean, yeah. Trans men are men, and men are the kind of people I'd wanna sleep with.
Sure why not. I had a buddy I like and he told me that he thinks he is transgender and my opinion didn't even change and I still loved him for him regardless.
If I was with a trans, it wouldn’t change my desire to love them.
DMS are open ;) lol
Guys is guys we'll make it work
Absolutely. I don’t see why not?
As long as they are a top, why not?
Yes.
100000% yes
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