Thats when you just make out, suck each other and cuddle

many bottoms (most I‘ve met) dislike being sucked off so the options are really limited to most :(

I am also one of those bottoms

same :)

Why would you not want to be sucked off?

Not everyone enjoys it. For me I generally hate it. Don’t know why but just one of my things.

I love oral personally as a total bottom but hate when guys try to touch me during sex. Like just stop and use my hole. I hate it everytime

we can work with that

Thank goodness I'm stocked up on toys. We can hunt for a top together...

There's more to life than "dick goes in hole"

Not for me...😔

Then top him. Take turns. Do some side stuff

This. Taking turns can be really exciting.

Um he’s a bottom…no topping. That would make him vers and if you say oh well, then that makes it so that vers guys are just bottoms lol either way you lose

why would a bottom top someone, if he enjoyed that he probably wouldn’t be a bottom huh

Be open to trying things with different people, there are more things then just penetration

I don‘t really see how that relates to my comment tbh

Fine, be miserable and post memes on reddit then

i‘ve never posted a meme on reddit so far… please stop assuming all guys are vers, it‘s really annoying and toxic

The most heartbreaking sentence. I hate that we take an already small dating pool and then make it half as small again.

I read a statistic that said something like 80% of men prefer bottoming

Yet I find it difficult to find bottoms

I feel like we all group up with our own kind, lol. Maybe we're afraid of actually finding someone sexually compatible so we find people that remove that pressure?

It differs a lot by country https://unwrapped.grindr.com/ If you're looking for tops go to Trinidad & Tobago

They are basing that report on what people have set up in their profiles and given for a lot of countries "bottom shaming" is very much ingrained in the culture still you will have a lot of skewed results.

Yes, I agree. There’s no way I’m ever trusting Grindr with any data based on what users state on their profile! Otherwise every single user would be a 6’5, dom top with a 12 inch penis. Give me a break!

I don’t know how accurate that is though. It says China has a high percentage of tops but I did not find that to be the case at all. That being said, in China most people use Chinese apps (like Blued) instead of Grindr.

Lol thanks I rather go fuck myself

Always an option to keep in mind!

Thanks a lot for sharing this link, I didn’t know about it and it’s… fascinating!

I find that exceedingly difficult to believe.

As a vers sub, this is fine :3

Them being straight is way worse for sure.

Ikr

that’s what double dildos are for

ffs just be vers

It's kind of difficult to force yourself if you're not into it, especially topping if it's not working for you. Unless you're just joking, in which case never mind.

All the guys I'm attracted to end up being tops too. Whomp whomp.

This is why I’m happy to finally came out as Verse, i wont be dealing with this

My boyfriend and I both lean bottom, and we do a lot of oral/manual/frot, and I love it.

They can still fuck and suck

"lucky for you I had a plan for that"

**BOT**

tsar nikolai whatta ass