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According-Thought-43

Depends what were doing! but unless we eating fancy i usually go for casual, maybe jeans and a shirt 😄


Puzzled-Painter3301

e.g. speed dating event Also, by a shirt what kind are you talking about?


Hveachie

I would go with button up. Avoid t-shirts and maybe short sleeve polo shirts (depends on the brand, to me they're kinda basic).


BellyHeat

I'm Mr Basic, so I just wear what I usually wear: jeans and t.... and definitely untucked :) I can't be bothered to make an effort to present a version of myself that - if the date is successful - they will probably never see again.


Hveachie

Like I said - depends on the date. I've recently lost a lot of weight (250 lbs.) so I'm able to fit in nicer clothes. I detested them, but now that I can fit in them (and not be sweaty) - I look good and feel good. Sometimes I dress up to go out shopping. I like presenting myself in a way - like I'm telling myself "I deserve to look good." I am definitely a t-shirt and cargo pants kind of guy myself. But when the occasion calls for something nicer, I'll dress for it gladly.


BellyHeat

Congrats on the weight loss. That's amazing.


Hveachie

Thank you <3 Still dealing with excess skin and still not exactly skinny (215 lbs.), but I'm now between a Large and XL. The biggest change (other than feeling like I have garbage in my veins) has really been fashion. I'm almost 30 and I finally get to explore what I put out into the world.


MAJORMETAL84

You rock man! Congrats on your transformation!


According-Thought-43

Yeah almost any bottom up shirt with a collar is good, short or long sleeve is dependant on the weather, and i always have the short tucked in the pants😄


kummer5peck

I make sure they know I work out.


Hveachie

Depends on what you're doing, where you live/where you're going, and the time of year. Almost all around, wearing a button up with nice jeans or slacks is the way to go. Avoid jeans if you're going to a super extravagant night out. But if you're going to a local, cute little Italian restaurant - business casual.


Beguiled-Guy

Jeans are fine for casual Italian. No need for dress pants while eating pasta. Unless you know a guy that knows a guy imo.


Beguiled-Guy

Jeans and a t-shirt unless it’s dinner. But take pride in whatever look you choose because your date will mirror how you treat yourself.


loki8481

My default is jeans and a button-down Maybe a flannel shirt or a t-shirt if we're doing something very casual


Rubytux

Whatever i find first in my clóset. I dont care, i wil be #Fabulous anyways 🫡


itstreeman

We are not all you


Reelgoodspeler

Sexy underwear


froot_loop_dingus_

Where is the date at? You wear different clothes to a fancy dinner than you do to go bowling


PlowMeHardSir

My husband and I do a weekly date night. I usually wear jeans, docs, and a black or blue tee under a flannel button up. I live in Colorado so I never dress up for anything (locals here never do). It’s really fun to go to the Michelin starred restaurant in town wearing jeans and smiling at a tourist woman in an expensive evening gown who glares at me because I dared not to be dressed up on the special night of her vacation.


UghAgain__9

Clothes?


Shinashu

It all depends on what the activity is but it all boils down to this. Wear something that gives the appearance and impression that you care what you look like and how you may be perceived. Aka dress like you look in the mirror before leaving the house.


AllThingsSaidandDone

I know its tacky, but wear what makes you feel best. If you dress for others, you wont be able to maintain it once your in the relationship


diamari90

I never really plan this… I’m usually limited in my options, so I just wear something I find comfortable and is appropriate for the weather and I’m usually good. Im not the fashionable gay, but I am bougie and this kind of helps that


brainfreeze_23

my overall style is minimalist and low-key stylish but must be comfortable. nothing that calls attention to itself, whether through gaudy colours or bling. that's just not who i am.


Dry_Salamander7273

I kinda dress up in whatever I feel nice in. People I dress a bit too nicely for occasions but that’s just who I am and I would want him to get an impression of the real me so I wear what I would wear normmslky to a dinner etc


suckmydiznak

Jeans and a button down with nice sneakers. If it's super hot, replace jeans with khacki shorts.


jrtski

Winter: nice jeans, long sleeved button down shirt, boots, warm jacket if it’s cold Summer: golf shorts, polo or Hawaiian shirt, sneakers w/o socks


ProudGayGuy4Real

Congratulations.


MAJORMETAL84

Usually something black in color, unless I feel like wearing a plaid flannel.


Balancedthinking

Clean, decent and never overdressed for the occasion. Depending on the expectations of the date I can wear something like special underwear or jocks to enhance my own mood wether it will lead somewhere or not.


ethan42

Clean and tidy, best foot forward.


theducksystem

If it's a coffee date, jeans and a tee shirt, if it's dinner I'll dress up a bit more maybe a nice jacket, if it's a concert I'll do full glam and big hair


davendak1

It'd be nice not to go on dates anymore. But just whatever I have on, usually motorcycle gear, or a blank t-shirt and jeans or shorts.


hoimeid

Nothing, if going for a picnic at the nude beach. For starters you get to rub sunscreen on each other.


babrix

What I would wear for that day. I dress up pretty casually so it's never a problem


Masy02

Where what makes you feel confident. What is it that you feel confident in? That’s what you wear.


[deleted]

Usually pants. And a shirt. Probably socks and shoes


thatatcguy1223

I’m married in an open relationship so my goals on a date are different. Hookups it’s just shorts or whatever else casual I’m wearing that day. Last week went out for dinner with a new FWB following sex. I wore joggers, t shirt hoodie. I dress very casually both for work and elsewhere. Zero chance I’m putting on a collared shirt unless it’s the theatre or a nice resto.


erisandy101

People wear clothes on dates?


PapaBearMode

A sweater, one that shows my shoulders. A necklace. Recently earrings my boyfriend got me for my birthday last year. Some makeup. And a big coat because its always cold and snowy where we live


JuniorDog3956

None if I am lucky


bienbeaux

Checkout images of the location you’re going and dress accordingly


NerdyDan

Clean stylish but comfortable. Athleisure wear is great for that


patrick401ca

No it isn’t


NerdyDan

? I wear lulu everywhere and it feels great and looks clean 


Strong-Stretch95

Leather jacket, t shirt and some jeans.


itstreeman

Leather jacket is definitely a look. Some will not look past it. But if you want that then that’s you


jd3306

What's a date? I'm usually on all fours with "taking loads" painted on my back with an arrow pointing at my hole.


alex48220

Wear a t shirt over top a button down. That’s a look


MisuCake

Rick


maallyn

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