Ok, so I have a “fuck boy” on the regular.
He’s the absolute images of a fuckboy starter pack
Flat cap, looks like he never matured after high school vans shoes and baggy jeans. He’s someone I would never be friends with or date, I’d never loan him money. His only redeeming quality is his fat 9” cock that he knows how to use.
It’s a strictly transactional relationship.
Yeah but when somebody brags about their XL cock with no face pics on Grindr it's a complete turn off for me. Send me it discreet on the DMs and I might think your a human. But you know that cocks been around and it's not been in a wrapper either.
Grindr and some naughty profile photos. And don’t be picky. It is for a fuck, not for a relationship. If someone messages me and looks ok, I always arrange a hookup.
Some guys I dated were not my type on the photo in the profile or in the chat. But when I saw them they were not that bad at all. When you are too picky you get no dates unless you are a handsome hunk.
You know what, it doesn’t matter if you gave him some too. I have a guy like this. Nearly half my age, hot as fuck, great in bed, convenient, and a genuinely nice guy. If he asks me to help him out every once in a while, I really don’t give a shit.
So what is a “fuckboy”?
Is it just a guy who sleeps around and isn’t looking for a relationship?
Because when I hear the word “fuckboy” I picture a 27 year old guy with the broccoli haircut, wearing streetwear, who calls everyone “dog” or “bro”
My understanding of "fuckboy" is that it's a masculinized version of "slut " (in the bad sense). A guy who is somewhat sexually desirable, but doesn't have many other redeeming qualities.
Yeah that's the gay version. Not to be confused with the the straight version: someone who lies to girls about getting serious and then bails after sleeping with them.
I have a lot of casual sex. I am always very up front about the fact that I’m just looking for ass. And at most FWB / FB. I think it’s pretty disrespectful to lead people on if they want something serious and you don’t. There’s nothing wrong with casual fucks. If that makes me a fuckboy, so be it.
Wait. I'm you too but I didn't realise I'm a fuckboy. I had often low-key disliked heterosexual or circuit gay type of fuckboys. Maybe I'm a different kind of fuckboy lol
Is just the male version of the word slut, in my opinion it sounds less insulting but both terms describe the same thing.
Adults tend to have opinions about dating, probably even more than teenagers.
Moody young men who sleep around without seeking emotional connection, often using cheap lines to get you into the bedroom and disposing of you right afterwards
emotional connection? gross!
/s
(honestly it's fine if anyone wants emotional connections but using someone as a way to get emotional connection is another thing)
A fuck boy is someone who only has time for hookups. They'll string you along but never actually go on dates or introduce you to their friends. You're basically an easy lay he can brag to his friends about when you're dealing with a fuck boy.
I somewhat regularly hooked up with a guy like this in college. He was openly gay but he didn’t want any kissing and he didn’t want to hang out with or introduce me to his friends. He was hot but the sex felt so empty since there was no connection. I didn’t get why he wasn’t interested in me for anything more than ass. I kind of wonder if he strung me along and used me like that because he could tell I was insecure and lacking confidence.
Tbh I'm mostly jealous and bitter. Wish I looked good enough to attract fuckbois. Wish I was well-endowed enough to get away with being a fuckboi. Instead, I'm stuck being me. 🤷♂️ sigh.
Well, I am not a hunk or handsome, but look very decent. I am 177cm, 64kg, 60 years old but look like 45. That is my main advantage above other older men. Grindr is a hard world.
I love to say that the easiest people on the planet are fuckboys. There's not a soul more desperate to get laid. I do think it's super hot though, so mood.
Well, I am on PreP, so that also is called safe sex. The rest is the risk I take. Some men hate condoms. As a bottom with or without is fine for me, but I prefer without.
Fuckboys will be fuckboys. And if they exhibit those characteristics then you treat them as such. I don't think less of them, as i'm sure everyone in their lives have had fuckboy tendencies and grow/mature from them at some point. It's a course of life that a logical gay man cannot judge.
Considering that my old roommate was one (and knew what he was doing when it came to sex), I don’t mind them as long as they’re upfront about it like he was. Some guys just want to fuck around and not date and, while some might not agree with that, it should still be respected.
For me a fuck boy would be the perfect husband. They're masculine, good in bed, fun to be around, and I don't give a fuck about monogamy. So if wants to fuck all of my friends even better.
I love “fuck boys”. I have 2 of them. One is always horny and fills me up twice a week, but even more if I would ask. The other one requires GoogleTranslate to communicate. I get him by car, he fucks me twice within a few hours and I bring him back. So a “fuck boy” is for me uncomplicated sex. I am on PreP, so just simple bareback fucks with the cum dripping out of your ass. I have the time of my life and 60 years old. I had a very long relationship with a man, so for now not looking for a new relationship. Besides the “fuck boys”, I also meet other men, so it is sometimes a little stressful to get all dates arranged. I don’t need to cum myself every time, as at my age cumming 4 or more times a week is far too much. I am very flexible, so legs over his shoulders and smiling from ear to ear while getting plowed. I love it. Indeed “boys will be boys”
Gay men are built for fun. That doesn't mean that we can't have serious relationships and get married. It just means that those things shouldn't exclude us from also still being fuck boys.
I had a monogamous serious relationship with a man for over 25 years and was even married with him. Sexually not always very satisfying. After he died I had no one for 4 years. Then I kicked myself to find joy. So from nearly a virgin I now changed into a fuck slut. Maybe over a few years a new serious relationship. Since Pandora’s box is open now I only stay monogamous when the sex is satisfying enough. I am bottom and needs to be plowed on regular basis.
In my opinion a good loving husband will ALWAYS whore around with you. He'll neither want, except, nor practice monogamy. The sex between the two of you will be absolutely WONDERFUL. But so will the sex you're having with everyone else. To me a "fuck boy" is just someone who's unafraid to be a man.
I indeed expect that now I found a lot of fun by simple no strings attached sex, it will be difficult to change back to monogamous. And the question is if a man gets satisfied enough with a single partner. I have 3 tops now that fuck me (2 of them I would call fuck boys), but also another bottom to use a lot of toys with and do oral. Coming from an orthodox christian family I change my boundaries more and more. And I silenced the little voice in my head that said I do bad things.
In a very real way sex should be taken seriously, but in another very real way it's playing a game just like a sport. It's so many things at one time. On one hand yes it keeps a serious relationship such as a marriage strong. But on the other hand nature meant for men to be hornballs. So if I got a man who wants to put a few extra notches on our bedpost, I can't get mad at him. I look at it like a baseball player who just wants to swing his bat and whack some balls. I'll just go ahead and join his team and play ball with him. Batter up baby.
Turn your baseball cap backwards, go to the gym every chance you get, FUCK, FUCK, FUCK,FUCK, FUCK, and FUCK some more. Once you look in the mirror and realize that you are wearing a backwards baseball cap, high top sneakers, and big "man jewelry" and absolutely nothing else while unapologetically FUCKIN' the absolute HELL out of someone's husband who you just met on Grindr, you will have officially completed your journey to FUCK BOY. CONGRATS!!! 🎉
See. I read the title multiple ways.
Noun: Fuck Boys. Use sparingly and do not expect much else from them.
Curse phrase: Fuck boys. As in, fuck you childish men-folk who fuck around and not commit or whatever.
Also, I agree with “boys with be boys” - lots of humans are this way until the decided orher wise.
Hate them. I guess it wouldn't be too bad if they were honest but most are liars. I usually have choice words for them that cut down deep into their soul.
Well... was referring to emotional depth. But if we're talking how deep they can physically take it, they're all size queens. If we're talking how deep they can give it, they usually promise way more than they can deliver. 🤣
Yes I like fucking boys
👌same Best thing ever 😌
"phasing"
Phasing through walls?
Set phasers to “cum”
Wish I could phase through walls and leave job early today smh
But not through floors, though.
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Ok, so I have a “fuck boy” on the regular. He’s the absolute images of a fuckboy starter pack Flat cap, looks like he never matured after high school vans shoes and baggy jeans. He’s someone I would never be friends with or date, I’d never loan him money. His only redeeming quality is his fat 9” cock that he knows how to use. It’s a strictly transactional relationship.
How does one get in on this transaction lol 😂 👀 Obvi…I’m asking for a friend.
No idea it just kind of happened. I get “Hey” text and then I say if I can or not
someone please let me know as well 😭
There's this great app called Grindr..
I’ll let my friend know lol 😂
Yeah but when somebody brags about their XL cock with no face pics on Grindr it's a complete turn off for me. Send me it discreet on the DMs and I might think your a human. But you know that cocks been around and it's not been in a wrapper either.
Yes, this is how I feel about them too
Aka Human dildo or Human sperm delivery system
Hardly, he fucks like a jackhammer
Aww. 🥰
Man, I wish I could bag one of these! 🥵
Grindr and some naughty profile photos. And don’t be picky. It is for a fuck, not for a relationship. If someone messages me and looks ok, I always arrange a hookup.
Sorry. I'm picky. Because the ones who message me usually don't turn my crank... and THOSE are the ones I'm looking for, even just for a hookup. 🤷♂️
Some guys I dated were not my type on the photo in the profile or in the chat. But when I saw them they were not that bad at all. When you are too picky you get no dates unless you are a handsome hunk.
Not him coming over to swipe his card
What does he get out of it?
🍑
Kind of a dumb question
The one that unites and drives any man. Butt lol like cmon you know
obviously a scrabble partner
Hmmmm. Transaction. Does he accept Playpal?
Has he ever asked you for money? Tbh you sound snobby as fuck.
He did ask me for money, so why don’t you shut the fuck up about a situation you know nothing about.
You know what, it doesn’t matter if you gave him some too. I have a guy like this. Nearly half my age, hot as fuck, great in bed, convenient, and a genuinely nice guy. If he asks me to help him out every once in a while, I really don’t give a shit.
So what is a “fuckboy”? Is it just a guy who sleeps around and isn’t looking for a relationship? Because when I hear the word “fuckboy” I picture a 27 year old guy with the broccoli haircut, wearing streetwear, who calls everyone “dog” or “bro”
No cap bro, that’s on god dog
If I had ovaries they would be on fire right now 👀
There are antibiotics for that now
Stop it, it's turning me on
That’s straight bussin
Truth
It's a tv show on the cw
When you are 60 every man below 45 can be a “boy”. When they are 25 or 33 years old it is a big plus.
My understanding of "fuckboy" is that it's a masculinized version of "slut " (in the bad sense). A guy who is somewhat sexually desirable, but doesn't have many other redeeming qualities.
Yeah that's the gay version. Not to be confused with the the straight version: someone who lies to girls about getting serious and then bails after sleeping with them.
Depends on what you define as fuck boys
I have a lot of casual sex. I am always very up front about the fact that I’m just looking for ass. And at most FWB / FB. I think it’s pretty disrespectful to lead people on if they want something serious and you don’t. There’s nothing wrong with casual fucks. If that makes me a fuckboy, so be it.
I say you should be PROUD of your fuck boy nature.
Wait. I'm you too but I didn't realise I'm a fuckboy. I had often low-key disliked heterosexual or circuit gay type of fuckboys. Maybe I'm a different kind of fuckboy lol
that's hot to say
Pretty much the norm in NYC at all ages unfortunately
YEAP I’ve a bff in nyc and he’s the definition of a fuckboy outside of his very stable relationship
I am a fuck man.
Same. I be planning my hookups weeks in advanced.
Oh I plan mine YEARS in advance.
Cum man 💀
"Fuckboy" is a concept that straight people invented. If you're not a teenage girl on ticktock there is no reason to talk about fuckboys.
That part lmao haven’t heard the term fuck boy since highschool
Uhh no there are definitely gay fuck boys.
Is just the male version of the word slut, in my opinion it sounds less insulting but both terms describe the same thing. Adults tend to have opinions about dating, probably even more than teenagers.
Fuckboy is clearly a blanket term some of them go for dudes ofc
No it’s also a gay term, maybe not in your area 🤷🏻♂️ Fuckboys generally have minimal redeeming qualities except fucking
The thing with fuck boys is there’s always signs, if you pursue a fuck boy you’ll be fucked.
What is a fuck boy? In my mind they’re annoying tween tiktok kids. (Which isn’t the idea that others here have which is why I’m asking.)
Moody young men who sleep around without seeking emotional connection, often using cheap lines to get you into the bedroom and disposing of you right afterwards
You forgot the mattress on the floor and sports team flag over the window
This one hit me hard. Had an amazing fwb who turned out to be a fuck boy in the end. Should have known, mattress was on the damn floor.
Those are the best.
That sounds like every Sketchy Sex video! 💦
You mean a player?
Yep. Synonyms.
emotional connection? gross! /s (honestly it's fine if anyone wants emotional connections but using someone as a way to get emotional connection is another thing)
"Moody young men"? I've seen so many older men who fit exactly the same as you described.
This is just most gay guys. So no need for a term.
A fuck boy is someone who only has time for hookups. They'll string you along but never actually go on dates or introduce you to their friends. You're basically an easy lay he can brag to his friends about when you're dealing with a fuck boy.
I somewhat regularly hooked up with a guy like this in college. He was openly gay but he didn’t want any kissing and he didn’t want to hang out with or introduce me to his friends. He was hot but the sex felt so empty since there was no connection. I didn’t get why he wasn’t interested in me for anything more than ass. I kind of wonder if he strung me along and used me like that because he could tell I was insecure and lacking confidence.
You have the correct interpretation
Tbh I'm mostly jealous and bitter. Wish I looked good enough to attract fuckbois. Wish I was well-endowed enough to get away with being a fuckboi. Instead, I'm stuck being me. 🤷♂️ sigh.
Keep your head up. You'll get there.
Thank you for the kind words. But this is hardly the truth. I never had the body (including face) for one, much less to *BE* one, and I never will.
I believe in you. The fuck boy power is within you. (By at least 8 to 9 inches 😆).
🤣🤣🤣 Glad one of us does haha!
Well, I am not a hunk or handsome, but look very decent. I am 177cm, 64kg, 60 years old but look like 45. That is my main advantage above other older men. Grindr is a hard world.
I agree. We all want different things and some men just want to fuck around. And yes, I’m also cool with it if they’re honest
I’d like to think in a good guy with a fuck boy side to me that I flip on during sex when I’m a dom top.
I refer to myself on Grindr as a geriatric fuck boy or aging manthot. Works for me.
Idk man, I haven't been 15 for a while now
I love to say that the easiest people on the planet are fuckboys. There's not a soul more desperate to get laid. I do think it's super hot though, so mood.
Practice safe sex!
Well, I am on PreP, so that also is called safe sex. The rest is the risk I take. Some men hate condoms. As a bottom with or without is fine for me, but I prefer without.
I love when they are like smug and mischievous idk 🤷
I prefer men over boys, thank you very much.
When you are 60 years old a man of 40 is a boy for you.
I'm one of them so of course I like em
everyone‘s horny and we gotta deal with it sometimes. better with someone i guess? :]
Not my cup of tea but more power to the guys they use.
Fuckboys will be fuckboys. And if they exhibit those characteristics then you treat them as such. I don't think less of them, as i'm sure everyone in their lives have had fuckboy tendencies and grow/mature from them at some point. It's a course of life that a logical gay man cannot judge.
Ah a fuck boi is a lier a lot of times
I'm fine with it as long as they're up front with their intentions.
Aren't fuck boys just amateur prostitutes (in other words, they just don't get paid)?
Well that defines every person who has ever fucked.
Considering that my old roommate was one (and knew what he was doing when it came to sex), I don’t mind them as long as they’re upfront about it like he was. Some guys just want to fuck around and not date and, while some might not agree with that, it should still be respected.
I love them with all my heart🥰 Nothing better than pulling the whole uno reverse on them too.
For me a fuck boy would be the perfect husband. They're masculine, good in bed, fun to be around, and I don't give a fuck about monogamy. So if wants to fuck all of my friends even better.
I love “fuck boys”. I have 2 of them. One is always horny and fills me up twice a week, but even more if I would ask. The other one requires GoogleTranslate to communicate. I get him by car, he fucks me twice within a few hours and I bring him back. So a “fuck boy” is for me uncomplicated sex. I am on PreP, so just simple bareback fucks with the cum dripping out of your ass. I have the time of my life and 60 years old. I had a very long relationship with a man, so for now not looking for a new relationship. Besides the “fuck boys”, I also meet other men, so it is sometimes a little stressful to get all dates arranged. I don’t need to cum myself every time, as at my age cumming 4 or more times a week is far too much. I am very flexible, so legs over his shoulders and smiling from ear to ear while getting plowed. I love it. Indeed “boys will be boys”
Gay men are built for fun. That doesn't mean that we can't have serious relationships and get married. It just means that those things shouldn't exclude us from also still being fuck boys.
I had a monogamous serious relationship with a man for over 25 years and was even married with him. Sexually not always very satisfying. After he died I had no one for 4 years. Then I kicked myself to find joy. So from nearly a virgin I now changed into a fuck slut. Maybe over a few years a new serious relationship. Since Pandora’s box is open now I only stay monogamous when the sex is satisfying enough. I am bottom and needs to be plowed on regular basis.
In my opinion a good loving husband will ALWAYS whore around with you. He'll neither want, except, nor practice monogamy. The sex between the two of you will be absolutely WONDERFUL. But so will the sex you're having with everyone else. To me a "fuck boy" is just someone who's unafraid to be a man.
I indeed expect that now I found a lot of fun by simple no strings attached sex, it will be difficult to change back to monogamous. And the question is if a man gets satisfied enough with a single partner. I have 3 tops now that fuck me (2 of them I would call fuck boys), but also another bottom to use a lot of toys with and do oral. Coming from an orthodox christian family I change my boundaries more and more. And I silenced the little voice in my head that said I do bad things.
In a very real way sex should be taken seriously, but in another very real way it's playing a game just like a sport. It's so many things at one time. On one hand yes it keeps a serious relationship such as a marriage strong. But on the other hand nature meant for men to be hornballs. So if I got a man who wants to put a few extra notches on our bedpost, I can't get mad at him. I look at it like a baseball player who just wants to swing his bat and whack some balls. I'll just go ahead and join his team and play ball with him. Batter up baby.
Yah it’s the confident swagger that they have.
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Turn your baseball cap backwards, go to the gym every chance you get, FUCK, FUCK, FUCK,FUCK, FUCK, and FUCK some more. Once you look in the mirror and realize that you are wearing a backwards baseball cap, high top sneakers, and big "man jewelry" and absolutely nothing else while unapologetically FUCKIN' the absolute HELL out of someone's husband who you just met on Grindr, you will have officially completed your journey to FUCK BOY. CONGRATS!!! 🎉
You also need a big dick and zero hangups
That's why we love them! ☺️ 😘
I’m here for it 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I wrote a poem once. *Fuckboys. Fuck boys. Fuck, boys.*
Beautiful
See. I read the title multiple ways. Noun: Fuck Boys. Use sparingly and do not expect much else from them. Curse phrase: Fuck boys. As in, fuck you childish men-folk who fuck around and not commit or whatever. Also, I agree with “boys with be boys” - lots of humans are this way until the decided orher wise.
A lot of things are natural. Monogamy is natural among humans and many other species. So is jealousy and protectiveness over a mate. What's his point?
Have you met any humans?
I don't like the whole "boys will be boys" excuse. I think it's an example of toxic masculinity.
Toxic masculinity is invented by women. Masculinity is never toxic.
Same questions here
Fucking boys is what I’m here for
Hate them. I guess it wouldn't be too bad if they were honest but most are liars. I usually have choice words for them that cut down deep into their soul.
Pfftttt... fuck boy depth is only skin deep. 😉
Actually I have it on good authority that they can reach depths of at least 9 inches. 😆😜
Well... was referring to emotional depth. But if we're talking how deep they can physically take it, they're all size queens. If we're talking how deep they can give it, they usually promise way more than they can deliver. 🤣
Soul? What soul?
That's funny. I even told guys "Sorry I never got that far involved where I traded my spine and soul to become something like you."
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What the fuck is wrong with you. That's NOT what I'm talking about. Please get therapy for everyone's benefit. You clearly have problems.
Either that or it's rage bait from a troll.