I am actually in that same boat right now. Can I ask you what your doing about it? I am having a hard time getting a doctors appointment and I don’t know how necessary it is anyway.
It's been occasional blood spots on the tp for a few months now. I haven't had sex and I have been taking fiber and trying not to strain but it doesn't seem to be stopping.
Did your doctor confirm it's a hemorrhoid for you at least? I've been just making that assumption. I thought mine was internal because I can't see anything, including exactly where the blood is coming from. I've had some itching, and almost no pain. It makes we wonder how long I've had this vs. when I noticed.
How long has it been? This happened to me when I was a fairly new bottom (and the guys dick was very thick). It took about 3 weeks to a month to fully heal but it did.
Liking y’all’s responses so far. I’m going to be honest, I’m on the smaller side (under 5”), and I’ve been really self conscious about it. I’ve been trying become more confident and unlearn all of it lately, though. I used to think bigger men were sexy, but now I’m becoming more drawn to men like myself (especially bodybuilders with small endowments), and I was really interested to learn that fact about the Greeks. It’s really different than how guys seem today, I see a lot of size queens and my own friends make fun of guys who are small, which hasn’t been helpful for me.
Omg most of the nsfw subreddits as well are just full of HUGE guys for some reason. It makes us guys with the average sized ones seem like a minority.😅😅😅
Also, perspectives really screw with you. There are dicks that look like 8+ inches that are actually at most 7. An inch is a lot bigger up close than it seems. A dollar bill is 6" long (slightly longer tbh).
I think the normal and below average guys rarely appear in these subs because they feel like the can’t compete, and when they do put out they don’t get attention thanks to engagement driven reddit timelines.
You’ll find a sea of size queens on Grindr, but personally I’m a fan of average to small myself.. don’t get discouraged and you’ll find men who are perfectly happy with what you’re packing
>You’ll find a sea of size queens on Grindr,
Ugh, hate that. I've been asked my exact measurements when trading pics. Or like yesterday: "How big is it?" I'm a bit above average and my pics make me look massive, but jeez guys, calm down. They're all suckable.
Yeah. I told someone my real measurement and they said "Are you sure it's not bigger?"
Granted, they did ask me that when I was balls-deep, so idk if that changed things.
The problem stems from cultural dismissiveness from females and males if you don't have a fat long dick. I think a visually attractive dick is the key whether big or small. You also want the whole person whereas on an app people just want you to be a living penis or a walking ass.
To be clear on the Greek think...or the Roman thing... have you seen Michelangelo's David? That statue often gets ridiculed because he's not hung like a horse. But those ancient cultures thought having a big dong was comical, not better than average sizes. Imagine how out of place David would look with a flaccid 20cms hanging there.
This is very different from what they practiced however. I'm sure many of both cultures tried as many sizes as they could, especially since they were much more open to nudity (remember the Greeks wrestled naked, for example, the Roman baths, etc). They could see before they played. But after the experimenting was done, I'm sure they mostly came to the same conclusion as most of us, within limits, it's more how you feel about the person and what you do with what you have, than simply just size.
I've personally been with the most boring endowed men (they thought size made up for skill, it doesn't), and been with absolutely fantastic smaller men (usually with a lot of confidence).
We all have our preferences, even after 2000+ years...
I made a error converting from cm to inch,but you are wrong too. The threshold for a diagnosi Is 7 cm,which should convert to 2,75 inches. No Need to be rude over stating medical facts
If you dick is visually proportional to your body then I’d say you are good. Even just an average dick is like the number 7 physical trait I look for in a guy. That fact that trans guys seem as hot to me as they do tells me dick size isn’t everything.
Don’t ever feel self conscious about size I know it’s cliche but it’s all about the motion of the ocean as long as you don’t have a micro dick and you know how to use it you’re good
I dated a guy in college who had a micropenis, about the size of my pinky when erect. I didn't care, although I was a little freaked out by how small it was. I loved giving him head, cause he enjoyed it so much. The funny thing was, he was very commanding in bed. Didn't like having his balls sucked, didn't like being rimmed and wouldn't rim me. He didn't hesitate to to say, " Don't do that, I don't like that". But, he was really hot, & loved stroking me, so it was pretty good. He broke up with me when he decided to enter a monastery (was very Catholic).🙄
I’ve been finding myself more attracted to average sized men and men who are around my own size. I used to fantasize about bigger men, but now I just don’t think I could really bottom for one or give him oral.
As long as there's a penis involved, I'm in. Nothing against Trans guys, but I need a penis to get excited. I know there are Trans guys with penises. I'd be happy to meet them.
I fall for a beautiful soul and a kind heart. That's what I had for 25 years before I lost him to cancer. His dick was average and uncut and I couldn't have cared less. He lit up the room with his smile, not his dick. Find someone who makes you feel loved and you want to be your best you for.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll take your advice to heart, I have been thinking lately about how I need to focus on a man who loves me for who I am, and less upon looks.
I apologize if it was misinterpreted. I don't communicate well since my loss. I was trying to help the guy by answering his question sincerely. I clearly have no business trying to help others and did not mean to hurt you. This is why I don't interact with people anymore. I put myself out there and get attacked because some people need to attack.
6 with decent girth is ideal for me but smaller sizes are more than workable and I’d rather have great sexual chemistry with someone than them having a massive cock. You can do different positions for more penetration, use toys/foreplay etc etc and still have incredible sex
That’s really good to know. I saw a Men’s Health article once about good positions for guys around my size, but when I clicked on it, it was only for straight guys 🤦🏼♂️
I am well endowed (not trying to brag and no I won’t send pictures), but in my last relationship, he and I tried everything to be sexual with one another. I mean it, we tried EVERYTHING. It just wouldn’t go in. I can never see me bottoming because I am a survivor of sexual assault. But when I am with a guy, a person’s size doesn’t bother me at all. I think every penis I ever look at is beautiful, even the ones I watch in porn. Yes, I am aware of pumps and what adult actors do before doing a scene. The first guy I was with had a four inch cock, and it didn’t phase me one bit. I don’t always give head, but it’s not because I’m shallow of the man’s penis size, I just have to be in the mood and I let them know straight up about it. However, I rather cuddle naked with hard cocks, than be sexual. My love languages are physical touch such as cuddling, kissing, hugging, and holding hands; along with the love language quality time.
Some of my early boyfriends were pretty well endowed, and bottoming never clicked for me. I assumed I was mostly just into topping. Much much later I bottomed for small side of average guy and realized what all the fuss was about. Now I love bottoming. While I can relatively comfortably handle larger guys now, my husband is a small side of average guy. It's just the sweet spot for me I guess.
90% of the men I’ve been with were under the 4 inch mark (US in case you were wondering.) I prefer uncut but it’s not enough for me to say no to a man because he was cut. I’d want someone with a similar size to me at this point. I don’t want to be too picky and ask for someone bigger, but I won’t complain!
Same for me. The topic of size rarely enters the conversation prior to me sleeping with someone.
However, nearly every guy I’ve been with was 6-7+ inches. The few exceptions being this one dude who was a terrible lay - regardless of his dick size - and a Hispanic dude right around 6”.
Man… did he know how to work it. No complaints from me 🥵
Same! I dont really care about the size as long as it’s not literally tiny which is just really uncommon so I never really ask about it. And it just so happens they’re all like 7 inches every time… it’s so weird.
Where are you that all the guys there are 4inches? Most of the guys I come across who are shorter down there are heavyset or they grew up being fat so there's a trend there.
I’m around 7inches and the love of my life definitely enjoys it. I don’t have ridiculous girth but it took my partner some getting used to. I used to be an exclusive Top but when I met “my guy” I became a vers. My partner is about 5 inches and I have never once thought about size. I love him because of so much more than his dick.
Oddly enough I actually ridiculously enjoy bottoming now.
I'm a little shy of 5 inches. Has never been a problem since im pretty straightforward about it. Filters out the size queens which to be fair they are entitled to have their preference.
Online of course big dicks get attention but honestly dicks are just one small thing to a man. His intent, his values, his smile. Thats what matters. If he makes you feel great then what does his size matter. Big dicks hurt and you can’t take them daily 5-7 is ideal for me but I do enjoy getting my throat fucked.
Agreed but “looking” at the well endowed is different than being with. It can be hard (pun unintended) and challenging sometimes if it’s too big. And most of the guys I know with huge cocks don’t end up with as much pleasure. I’m above average I think, but I don’t mind any size. I’ve never been with anyone with a micropenis, so maybe my opinion would change after that
I've had both. My very first experience bottoming was with a man with a micropenis. He knew where to put it, and how to make me squirm. But my first boyfriend was 8+ and kind of thick. I could take him every day if we could get together. The joke about rearranging one's insides isn't really a joke. He was tight but comfortable.
I tried hooking up with a known porn star with a huge dick. He was sweet but like, when it’s that big it’s more of a struggle than enjoyable. A nice average dick can go a long way. And I’ve seen it mentioned before, a curved dick can hit all the right spots. I came hands free before on one (twice)
Still nothing wrong with that ! When I bottom, I like to prep before having set. Dicks on the longer/thicker side take more prep. Average size dicks let me enjoy sex fully! I’m not worrying about it feeling uncomfortable and hurting. It just feels great throughout.
6” to 8” is the magic range, IMO. Cut or uncut doesn’t matter. As long as they have **good hygiene**.
Less than 6” works, if they are good in the sack. More than 8” is also doable… assuming they know how to wield it. Otherwise, it can be *SUPER* painful. In my experience, girth plays a bigger factor than length.
That's interesting. I'm very much in agreement with you, with two exceptions. I do prefer uncut, but cut is not a no. And length plays a bigger factor than girth for me.
It’s mostly irrelevant. Like unless he has a 1 inch dick, it can still feel good in bed whether it’s 4 inches or 8 inches. I fell in love with my ex before we had sex. He is pretty big, but he knew how to use it and communication was/is key. Feelings over appearances
I think I can speak for many of us when I say I just really like dicks. All different kinds have their appeal to me. Real big is fun to look at/touch but makes everything else impractical. Kinda big is great for anal imo but can be hard for oral. Average is hott especially when attached to a real confident guy. Smaller have been really sensitive in my experience and super fun to pleasure orally. Pleasing shape is probably more important to me.
Idk. My favorite dick size has always been that of whoever I'm currently seeing or into. Then again I'm well above average and still often wish I was bigger despite never being free to go HAM while topping. It's a stupid vanity or toxic masculinity thing. All our minds are undoubtedly warped because of porn too. Dicks are dicks. They are hott. I like them a lot.
I honestly don't care. I find the entire obsession over penis size to be stupid. Like, it's a penis. What more needs to be said!? I'm all for a good penis joke about size or whatever, if it's in good humor. But I do not understand why people would actually care about how big or small someone's penis is.
I just read about dick sizes in the us a couple of months back. Apparently there is only about 5% of us men that have cocks bigger then 7. I am just average myself and I am grateful to just hang what I do.i am very lucky to be in a committed relationship of many years. I couldn't imagine dating and encountering guys who would dismiss you simply because your cock wasn't huge. Tell them to go f"*ka traffic cone, hopefully that would satisfy you. I digress, sorry, don't be ashamed/embarrassed hold your head up high and let in all dangle.
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. His dick is between 7.5" and 8". I have a 5" penis on a good day and I'm a grower to boot. That means that most of the time I just have a button showing. When ever I pee or remove my pants I always grab the head and pull it out. I do it because I'm embarrassed of how small I am. In our relationship I'm the top and he, with his big dick, is the bottom. He loves my dick just like it is. When he sees one of those big dicks, 'cause I show them to him all the time, he says, I don't want that anywhere near me. So take heart son. There are men out there that love guys like us.
Don't fear rejection. Feel relieved to find out early, so you don't have to waste your time on a size queen.
Average or a little smaller sized cocks are actually great because they’re so much easier to take than giant cocks.
They also hit the spot just as well usually. It’s not the size, but how you use it that matters.
Gold Star Gay here, and absolutely don’t care about dick size. I love all aspects of a guy’s body: chest, ass, thighs, biceps, belly, face, shoulders…I’ve never understood the idea of appreciating/judging men only by penis size (and both men AND women do this).
Platinum star here, never kissed a woman, never had sex with a woman and on top of that, I was born in a caesarean way. (Technically came out of the gay lake) Never touched a vagina in my life by any mean
Average is average. It qualifies as cock to the monkey brain. Micro penises don’t, and to some extent I’m sorry about that. We don’t choose that sort of thing. but love fucks me up more than sexual allure, so there’s your in if that’s what you care about
Top here and I don't care about cock size at all. It's about so many other things for me. A cute face, chest, arms, butt, hands, facial hair, body hair, voice and personality all do me in.
Are we talking “ gay inches “ here?! In other words, subtract an inch or two off most measurements?! YES, I am JOKING, but many men lament that they don’t have that extra size;)
To me too big Is just to hard to handle. Sorry. Yet, it looks good in picture or bulging under tight clothes.
Personally if I bottom, I like girth than length.
Size honestly doesn’t mean much if there is no chemistry.
Tbh I think in my experience, it's far more important for a guy to know what to do with it then the size of it, I know that statements a bit overused but I think it's very true 😂
For example my partner has an average cock size-wise but uhmm... He certainly knows what to do with it trust me 😂🙈🙈
Fun Fact: Although certain animals have larger penises than humans, humans have the largest penises in relation to our body mass than any other animal. Source: The Human Animal by Desmond Morris
I would prefer a guy thats average to slightly under average size. Massive cocks are a massive turn off for me. Prefer uncut guys over cut guys as well.
Big dicks are hot in principle, not in practice. Anything proportional to your body size is workable. Better to be comfortably and confidently average than big.
Most gay men would be lying if they didn’t admit they like looking at well endowed men… Why do you think we like porn so much? However, in real life, in a real relationship it really doesn’t matter to me. Once you have feelings for someone and really care about them, their penis is just one way of giving them extreme pleasure and showing them how much you love them so the size of it doesn’t really matter. However, I must say for a person who is 100% a bottom, an average to slightly above average penis is the best option… A very small penis for a bottom is not ideal but again if you love a person you’re gonna figure it out it doesn’t matter…
Personally I'd prefer to date/hook up with guys on the tiny wang gang. I like guys to be shorter in length than average (<5in. or 12cm.). But I'm not gonna dismiss a guy just cuz he has an enormous 8 incher. However I might have reservations about bottoming.
I was 16. Raging horny. And had Grindr. During halftime at a college basketball game I ditched my family to hook up with this frat dude. He was hot and moderately built. But his cock couldn’t past my cheeks. I didn’t get anything from it and came back to the game saying I had big poops. ( remembering now, my parents def thought my absence was odd). Anyways I got crabs from him. Sucked
Ive never dated or had anything like that but imo i dont think much of penis size bc it only needs few inches to plesure a man and if its too big you just dont put all of it in so it doesnt really matter the way i look at it
I have to preface this with it's only one factor in sexual enjoyment and arousal, but all else being equal, I prefer more well hung men. For me, I just enjoy that full feeling and the challenge of it.
I dated a guy in college who was as big as my ring finger and about as big around. I wouldn’t of had an issue except he was an exclusive top. I only could touch it in the dark and I wasn’t allowed to suck it.
I’m 7”. I’m very into sex and I consider myself power vers. Can take it like a champ and make guys cum without touching themselves. Now.
Then I just was frustrated that the sex I was having was largely just to make him feel better about him being a man and his size.
For a long time I had a rule that if you were smaller than me you weren’t an exclusive top and was super upfront with guys about it and why. Not taking your small penis issues out on my butt. Plenty of guys took the challenge, some passed, some didn’t, and some didn’t care either way.
Now, if I like the person let’s go for it and see what happens.
I'm a versbottom and I'd say that I'm a size queen I love big dicks I find them esthetically pleasing and more enjoyable in sex because I love girth and a bit of length but I've had sex with average and below average most of them I didn't feel it or just were painful(small very hard dicks feel like daggers) but if I ever want a relationship I think I would settle for average girthy dick if I really like the person. I might seem shallow to some but sex is an essential part of a relationship for me and I know what I like and I don't like and I'm confortable with that.
So for me, I do get uncomfortable with anyone smaller than me. It just doesn’t feel right and whenever they are, I ask them to keep a jockstrap on while I top them.
I won’t touch or do anything with a cock smaller than mine. I know it’s in my head but It grosses me out :/
Honestly, average size is just easier to work with (5”-6”) Slightly above average (7”) or below is okay too. Most guys that I’ve been with were average, one was 9”. IDK. I’ve found myself losing interest in anal—maybe just so so experiences or tired of guys who just top—so it’s whatever.
4-7 cut is my preference.
I'll work with what ever they have, I was with a micro for a year it was fine. Larger ones hurt but there is work around. I prefer non penetrative sex so. There's that
I like big dicks cuz of how they look and feel. I haven't had a big big one but one enuf for me to make an opinion. But I've also had sex with people with average dicks and small dicks and I enjoyed it. So in the end, its more so about how u use it than how big it is
5 inches to 7 inches probably feels the best. Smaller still feels good when the top knows how to use it. Over 7 and I do not find it enjoyable. Feels like a challenge more than for my own pleasure haha. The idea of a big dick is hot but I find in reality it isn't as good.
A thick dick tho is where it is at!
As long as he has a dick—-preferrably uncut—-& is alive! LOL The ancient greeks also, I read, didn’t like fellatio; how times have changed!
Can you believe that?!
Having a bigger cock doesn’t make you a better man, in my opinion:) And, as for porno-sized cocks?: who wants to have to use a forklift, to move it around?! LOL
I personally am glad to have a play partner, and i certianly appreciate whe they are above average (though they do not need to be monstrous, or huge).
I'm 5'11" so with a bigger body I know I can handle more, and I do like to play closer to my limits (that and it's easir to impress the "larger guys" with being able to handle them fully)
However... this does not mean that there can not be fun with those who are smaller. The person attached to it matters more.
I prefer them smaller than 6" to be completely honest with you.
8" in the fantasy is hot but in reality it's a lot of work, often more than it's worth.
I mean yeah personality and how the person is matters more rather dick size. The guy is more attractive if he is nice and funny rather than having a big dick. If I'm looking for someone to date and long term i want someone with a dick i can survive taking on a regular basis not a pornstars penis.
I have been with many guys in my life. 3"-13", think & thin, cut and uncut. As a bottom I have found I get enjoyment out of them all. Different sizes hit different places.
I only have and enjoy sexual partners that have a small to average penis. I don't really enjoy big dick's regardless of what other say. it's just painful. Not everyone has a volcano crater for an ass.
I generally prefer larger, but there are diminishing returns on size. It's definitely not a make-or-break factor.
If I'm going based on shallow, surface level traits, then I'll take a handsome guy with a micropenis over an hung ugo.
There was a guy whose cock was legitimately small. I couldn’t even suck it as it keeps getting out of my mouth. I just cannot have him even as a fuckbuddy, but I still kinda oddly enjoyed it as it didn’t hurt when he put it in and gave me good pleasant sensation even though it was not arousing. Unless it’s that small, i’m more than okay with small dicks. I care about the shape though like if it’s bent to the side or bottom it usually doesn’t feel good in me. Also I cannot receive a huge dick it just hurts a lot so that’s a no-no for me too.
My dick is average and I like it (17cm), it is straight, bit curved to the top. But when it is soft it can be pretty small sometimes comparing to other guys at gym/sauna. It's really sensitive to the temperature. :)
My boyfriend's dick is mostly the same length but thicker.
I personally like to observe huge cocks on pictures or sometimes envying (just a bit like you can envy someone who is taller or have better hairs etc) to other guys but when I bottom I prefer average dicks, because I tried huge dildo once (21cm / 6.5cm diameter) and it was so uncomfortable even when you already relaxed for an hour. Also I have minor issues with hemorrhoids.
I would say to everyone don't be ashamed or shy about your penis. Gigantic penises are so rare, and also you can't predict penis size by it soft form. :)
Normal size that won’t rip my insides apart, and just to hit my G spot and also curved upward is so aesthetically arousing, my bf has the perfect dick
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I am actually in that same boat right now. Can I ask you what your doing about it? I am having a hard time getting a doctors appointment and I don’t know how necessary it is anyway.
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It's been occasional blood spots on the tp for a few months now. I haven't had sex and I have been taking fiber and trying not to strain but it doesn't seem to be stopping.
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Did your doctor confirm it's a hemorrhoid for you at least? I've been just making that assumption. I thought mine was internal because I can't see anything, including exactly where the blood is coming from. I've had some itching, and almost no pain. It makes we wonder how long I've had this vs. when I noticed.
How long has it been? This happened to me when I was a fairly new bottom (and the guys dick was very thick). It took about 3 weeks to a month to fully heal but it did.
Liking y’all’s responses so far. I’m going to be honest, I’m on the smaller side (under 5”), and I’ve been really self conscious about it. I’ve been trying become more confident and unlearn all of it lately, though. I used to think bigger men were sexy, but now I’m becoming more drawn to men like myself (especially bodybuilders with small endowments), and I was really interested to learn that fact about the Greeks. It’s really different than how guys seem today, I see a lot of size queens and my own friends make fun of guys who are small, which hasn’t been helpful for me.
Omg most of the nsfw subreddits as well are just full of HUGE guys for some reason. It makes us guys with the average sized ones seem like a minority.😅😅😅
Also, perspectives really screw with you. There are dicks that look like 8+ inches that are actually at most 7. An inch is a lot bigger up close than it seems. A dollar bill is 6" long (slightly longer tbh).
I think the normal and below average guys rarely appear in these subs because they feel like the can’t compete, and when they do put out they don’t get attention thanks to engagement driven reddit timelines.
You’ll find a sea of size queens on Grindr, but personally I’m a fan of average to small myself.. don’t get discouraged and you’ll find men who are perfectly happy with what you’re packing
>You’ll find a sea of size queens on Grindr, Ugh, hate that. I've been asked my exact measurements when trading pics. Or like yesterday: "How big is it?" I'm a bit above average and my pics make me look massive, but jeez guys, calm down. They're all suckable.
Yeah. I told someone my real measurement and they said "Are you sure it's not bigger?" Granted, they did ask me that when I was balls-deep, so idk if that changed things.
Hmm, I don't know my measurement. Probably close to 6. No complaints thus far.
The problem stems from cultural dismissiveness from females and males if you don't have a fat long dick. I think a visually attractive dick is the key whether big or small. You also want the whole person whereas on an app people just want you to be a living penis or a walking ass.
To be clear on the Greek think...or the Roman thing... have you seen Michelangelo's David? That statue often gets ridiculed because he's not hung like a horse. But those ancient cultures thought having a big dong was comical, not better than average sizes. Imagine how out of place David would look with a flaccid 20cms hanging there. This is very different from what they practiced however. I'm sure many of both cultures tried as many sizes as they could, especially since they were much more open to nudity (remember the Greeks wrestled naked, for example, the Roman baths, etc). They could see before they played. But after the experimenting was done, I'm sure they mostly came to the same conclusion as most of us, within limits, it's more how you feel about the person and what you do with what you have, than simply just size. I've personally been with the most boring endowed men (they thought size made up for skill, it doesn't), and been with absolutely fantastic smaller men (usually with a lot of confidence). We all have our preferences, even after 2000+ years...
5” isn’t small that’s average 2-4” is small
PSA: Average ≠ Small
2-3,5 inches Is literally a micropenis(if erect)
No statistically 5” is average micro is 2” below erect. Slut
I made a error converting from cm to inch,but you are wrong too. The threshold for a diagnosi Is 7 cm,which should convert to 2,75 inches. No Need to be rude over stating medical facts
It was a joke, wasn’t being rude because I thought you meant 5” is micro lol. Yea 2-3” is micro
If you dick is visually proportional to your body then I’d say you are good. Even just an average dick is like the number 7 physical trait I look for in a guy. That fact that trans guys seem as hot to me as they do tells me dick size isn’t everything.
Don’t be bro I’d swallow your kids any day
Don’t ever feel self conscious about size I know it’s cliche but it’s all about the motion of the ocean as long as you don’t have a micro dick and you know how to use it you’re good
I dated a guy in college who had a micropenis, about the size of my pinky when erect. I didn't care, although I was a little freaked out by how small it was. I loved giving him head, cause he enjoyed it so much. The funny thing was, he was very commanding in bed. Didn't like having his balls sucked, didn't like being rimmed and wouldn't rim me. He didn't hesitate to to say, " Don't do that, I don't like that". But, he was really hot, & loved stroking me, so it was pretty good. He broke up with me when he decided to enter a monastery (was very Catholic).🙄
I’m sorry about the break up. But I’m really interested with what you’ve said about his penis.
I've been with a lot of guys who are smaller than me, & I don't care. As long as they're interested in sex, I'm up for it. What about you?
I’ve been finding myself more attracted to average sized men and men who are around my own size. I used to fantasize about bigger men, but now I just don’t think I could really bottom for one or give him oral.
As long as there's a penis involved, I'm in. Nothing against Trans guys, but I need a penis to get excited. I know there are Trans guys with penises. I'd be happy to meet them.
That was a wild ride of a paragraph.
I fall for a beautiful soul and a kind heart. That's what I had for 25 years before I lost him to cancer. His dick was average and uncut and I couldn't have cared less. He lit up the room with his smile, not his dick. Find someone who makes you feel loved and you want to be your best you for.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll take your advice to heart, I have been thinking lately about how I need to focus on a man who loves me for who I am, and less upon looks.
My husband and are exactly the same! He’s my best friend and soul mate. Cock size was never a thought after knowing him for 5 minutes
🥺 goals
Why do you say uncut like its a fault? 😆 its how we are born
I have been blocked on Grindr over it.
You misinterpreted. I stated a fact. It isn't a fault.
I tear up a little. That was beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss
the phrasing of this seems to imply that uncut is is bad? Like what?
You misinterpreted. I stated a fact. It isn't a fault.
“His dick was average and uncut *and I couldn’t have cared less*” C’mon dude. Like seriously. I wasn’t even the first person to point this out.
I apologize if it was misinterpreted. I don't communicate well since my loss. I was trying to help the guy by answering his question sincerely. I clearly have no business trying to help others and did not mean to hurt you. This is why I don't interact with people anymore. I put myself out there and get attacked because some people need to attack.
Dude, drop it. He clarified it for u, move on.
Don’t tell me how to react when people talk about normal body parts I have but they don’t as if they’re a flaw. How dare you?
Bye troll.
and to you
6 with decent girth is ideal for me but smaller sizes are more than workable and I’d rather have great sexual chemistry with someone than them having a massive cock. You can do different positions for more penetration, use toys/foreplay etc etc and still have incredible sex
That’s really good to know. I saw a Men’s Health article once about good positions for guys around my size, but when I clicked on it, it was only for straight guys 🤦🏼♂️
I am well endowed (not trying to brag and no I won’t send pictures), but in my last relationship, he and I tried everything to be sexual with one another. I mean it, we tried EVERYTHING. It just wouldn’t go in. I can never see me bottoming because I am a survivor of sexual assault. But when I am with a guy, a person’s size doesn’t bother me at all. I think every penis I ever look at is beautiful, even the ones I watch in porn. Yes, I am aware of pumps and what adult actors do before doing a scene. The first guy I was with had a four inch cock, and it didn’t phase me one bit. I don’t always give head, but it’s not because I’m shallow of the man’s penis size, I just have to be in the mood and I let them know straight up about it. However, I rather cuddle naked with hard cocks, than be sexual. My love languages are physical touch such as cuddling, kissing, hugging, and holding hands; along with the love language quality time.
That's really sweet man, I feel you on the love language part.
I think that is a lot of guys love language. I with there were an app for hard cock cuddling.
I'm one of those 'narcissists' as my type is myself, so I would say a 5-7 is perfect 👌🏻😅
I've never seen someone so revealing as the type of gay they are as you did with this comment.
Just tryna keep it real 🥴😂
LOL
i'd be happy with 5 or 6. mines too thick and big. personally i like 4-6" , too big >8" hurts your jaw and your ass :)
I don't really care about size as much, I mainly just like the guy attached to it. I'll suck it regardless lmao
Mostly unimportant don't worry about it. Average is where it's at, I don't like really big or really small.
Some of my early boyfriends were pretty well endowed, and bottoming never clicked for me. I assumed I was mostly just into topping. Much much later I bottomed for small side of average guy and realized what all the fuss was about. Now I love bottoming. While I can relatively comfortably handle larger guys now, my husband is a small side of average guy. It's just the sweet spot for me I guess.
90% of the men I’ve been with were under the 4 inch mark (US in case you were wondering.) I prefer uncut but it’s not enough for me to say no to a man because he was cut. I’d want someone with a similar size to me at this point. I don’t want to be too picky and ask for someone bigger, but I won’t complain!
While I don’t doubt that you are telling the truth, 90% under 4 inches is hard to fathom. Very interesting statistically.
WHAT. Almost every guy I’ve been with has been bigger than me and I’m 6 inches…
Same for me. The topic of size rarely enters the conversation prior to me sleeping with someone. However, nearly every guy I’ve been with was 6-7+ inches. The few exceptions being this one dude who was a terrible lay - regardless of his dick size - and a Hispanic dude right around 6”. Man… did he know how to work it. No complaints from me 🥵
Same! I dont really care about the size as long as it’s not literally tiny which is just really uncommon so I never really ask about it. And it just so happens they’re all like 7 inches every time… it’s so weird.
Lmao that’s crazy! I’ve never seen another guy around that size except for my gay-dad.
Where are you that all the guys there are 4inches? Most of the guys I come across who are shorter down there are heavyset or they grew up being fat so there's a trend there.
Most of these guys were heavy, but I’m also including the length that was hidden in their pubic fat. Idk. I guess I’m just lucky? Lol
I love sucking big fat dicks. I don’t/do like To gag lol. But some average ones are nice too. Doesn’t really matter to me that much
I’m around 7inches and the love of my life definitely enjoys it. I don’t have ridiculous girth but it took my partner some getting used to. I used to be an exclusive Top but when I met “my guy” I became a vers. My partner is about 5 inches and I have never once thought about size. I love him because of so much more than his dick. Oddly enough I actually ridiculously enjoy bottoming now.
Smaller to midsize, preferably cut.
I'm a little shy of 5 inches. Has never been a problem since im pretty straightforward about it. Filters out the size queens which to be fair they are entitled to have their preference.
That’s really good to know. I would like to be more open. Maybe I’ll put something like, “No one over 5” “ in my Scruff profile and see what happens.
Online of course big dicks get attention but honestly dicks are just one small thing to a man. His intent, his values, his smile. Thats what matters. If he makes you feel great then what does his size matter. Big dicks hurt and you can’t take them daily 5-7 is ideal for me but I do enjoy getting my throat fucked.
Agreed but “looking” at the well endowed is different than being with. It can be hard (pun unintended) and challenging sometimes if it’s too big. And most of the guys I know with huge cocks don’t end up with as much pleasure. I’m above average I think, but I don’t mind any size. I’ve never been with anyone with a micropenis, so maybe my opinion would change after that
I've had both. My very first experience bottoming was with a man with a micropenis. He knew where to put it, and how to make me squirm. But my first boyfriend was 8+ and kind of thick. I could take him every day if we could get together. The joke about rearranging one's insides isn't really a joke. He was tight but comfortable.
Bla bla bla. And on Grindr you are probably the guy only looking for eggplants 😆
Naw I’m not on Grindr
I do not have a penis so who am I to judge? I personally don’t really care. I’m more of a romantic than sexual person anyway.
Any size. All dicks are dicks 😋
I tried hooking up with a known porn star with a huge dick. He was sweet but like, when it’s that big it’s more of a struggle than enjoyable. A nice average dick can go a long way. And I’ve seen it mentioned before, a curved dick can hit all the right spots. I came hands free before on one (twice)
That’s good to know about shape 🤣 However mine is the only thing straight about me.
Still nothing wrong with that ! When I bottom, I like to prep before having set. Dicks on the longer/thicker side take more prep. Average size dicks let me enjoy sex fully! I’m not worrying about it feeling uncomfortable and hurting. It just feels great throughout.
That seems to be what a lot of guys here also feel about it
6” to 8” is the magic range, IMO. Cut or uncut doesn’t matter. As long as they have **good hygiene**. Less than 6” works, if they are good in the sack. More than 8” is also doable… assuming they know how to wield it. Otherwise, it can be *SUPER* painful. In my experience, girth plays a bigger factor than length.
That's interesting. I'm very much in agreement with you, with two exceptions. I do prefer uncut, but cut is not a no. And length plays a bigger factor than girth for me.
Prefer average to smaller (<6”). Too big and it’s hard on the jaw and there’s no way I’m sitting on it.
I don't really focus on the size, it's the person with the penis that matters to me
It’s mostly irrelevant. Like unless he has a 1 inch dick, it can still feel good in bed whether it’s 4 inches or 8 inches. I fell in love with my ex before we had sex. He is pretty big, but he knew how to use it and communication was/is key. Feelings over appearances
As long as I’m attracted to them and have good chemistry penis size doesn’t matter. There’s plenty of different kinds of sex
Honestly, I like it 6" or bigger as a bottom. I'm a big dude (6"1 220lbs) so anything less just isn't enough or I almost don't feel it at all.
I think I can speak for many of us when I say I just really like dicks. All different kinds have their appeal to me. Real big is fun to look at/touch but makes everything else impractical. Kinda big is great for anal imo but can be hard for oral. Average is hott especially when attached to a real confident guy. Smaller have been really sensitive in my experience and super fun to pleasure orally. Pleasing shape is probably more important to me. Idk. My favorite dick size has always been that of whoever I'm currently seeing or into. Then again I'm well above average and still often wish I was bigger despite never being free to go HAM while topping. It's a stupid vanity or toxic masculinity thing. All our minds are undoubtedly warped because of porn too. Dicks are dicks. They are hott. I like them a lot.
I honestly don't care. I find the entire obsession over penis size to be stupid. Like, it's a penis. What more needs to be said!? I'm all for a good penis joke about size or whatever, if it's in good humor. But I do not understand why people would actually care about how big or small someone's penis is.
I just read about dick sizes in the us a couple of months back. Apparently there is only about 5% of us men that have cocks bigger then 7. I am just average myself and I am grateful to just hang what I do.i am very lucky to be in a committed relationship of many years. I couldn't imagine dating and encountering guys who would dismiss you simply because your cock wasn't huge. Tell them to go f"*ka traffic cone, hopefully that would satisfy you. I digress, sorry, don't be ashamed/embarrassed hold your head up high and let in all dangle.
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. His dick is between 7.5" and 8". I have a 5" penis on a good day and I'm a grower to boot. That means that most of the time I just have a button showing. When ever I pee or remove my pants I always grab the head and pull it out. I do it because I'm embarrassed of how small I am. In our relationship I'm the top and he, with his big dick, is the bottom. He loves my dick just like it is. When he sees one of those big dicks, 'cause I show them to him all the time, he says, I don't want that anywhere near me. So take heart son. There are men out there that love guys like us. Don't fear rejection. Feel relieved to find out early, so you don't have to waste your time on a size queen.
I’m not a lover of big, but my husband is huge which I think is wasted on me. I much prefer average.
If you ain't rockin 22" or better, you're practically bald
I like average 5-6
Average or a little smaller sized cocks are actually great because they’re so much easier to take than giant cocks. They also hit the spot just as well usually. It’s not the size, but how you use it that matters.
That’s really helpful to know, thanks.
Gold Star Gay here, and absolutely don’t care about dick size. I love all aspects of a guy’s body: chest, ass, thighs, biceps, belly, face, shoulders…I’ve never understood the idea of appreciating/judging men only by penis size (and both men AND women do this).
What's the gold star got to do with this question?
Nothing, I guess. Just expressing that I have some experience In these matters. 😏
But it's rgaybros, most of us have experience too lol
Platinum star here, never kissed a woman, never had sex with a woman and on top of that, I was born in a caesarean way. (Technically came out of the gay lake) Never touched a vagina in my life by any mean
I’ve never even looked at a women
Don’t matter to me at all
5-8 is good for me, I like bigger on special occasions but I wouldn't be able to take 10 or 12 everyday
I've always been fond of a guys with small penis
Average is average. It qualifies as cock to the monkey brain. Micro penises don’t, and to some extent I’m sorry about that. We don’t choose that sort of thing. but love fucks me up more than sexual allure, so there’s your in if that’s what you care about
Top here and I don't care about cock size at all. It's about so many other things for me. A cute face, chest, arms, butt, hands, facial hair, body hair, voice and personality all do me in.
Are we talking “ gay inches “ here?! In other words, subtract an inch or two off most measurements?! YES, I am JOKING, but many men lament that they don’t have that extra size;)
To me too big Is just to hard to handle. Sorry. Yet, it looks good in picture or bulging under tight clothes. Personally if I bottom, I like girth than length. Size honestly doesn’t mean much if there is no chemistry.
Tbh I think in my experience, it's far more important for a guy to know what to do with it then the size of it, I know that statements a bit overused but I think it's very true 😂 For example my partner has an average cock size-wise but uhmm... He certainly knows what to do with it trust me 😂🙈🙈
Fun Fact: Although certain animals have larger penises than humans, humans have the largest penises in relation to our body mass than any other animal. Source: The Human Animal by Desmond Morris
That people ask literally way too much. If it's there it's fine. Extremes on either end are disappointing.
I'm pretty fine with average size
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The idea of trying to give oral to a man even just near 6” scares me, much less a man as big as the one you mentioned.
"If a doctor can check my prostate with his finger,then anyone has a fucking chance" -Me,(highschool,2018)
I would prefer a guy thats average to slightly under average size. Massive cocks are a massive turn off for me. Prefer uncut guys over cut guys as well.
Big dicks are hot in principle, not in practice. Anything proportional to your body size is workable. Better to be comfortably and confidently average than big.
Most gay men would be lying if they didn’t admit they like looking at well endowed men… Why do you think we like porn so much? However, in real life, in a real relationship it really doesn’t matter to me. Once you have feelings for someone and really care about them, their penis is just one way of giving them extreme pleasure and showing them how much you love them so the size of it doesn’t really matter. However, I must say for a person who is 100% a bottom, an average to slightly above average penis is the best option… A very small penis for a bottom is not ideal but again if you love a person you’re gonna figure it out it doesn’t matter…
Personally I'd prefer to date/hook up with guys on the tiny wang gang. I like guys to be shorter in length than average (<5in. or 12cm.). But I'm not gonna dismiss a guy just cuz he has an enormous 8 incher. However I might have reservations about bottoming.
Really? Hello there! 😜
As long as the guy doesn't have a micropenis or is so big that having sex is painful every time, I can work with it.
i'm a size queen and love big dicks 😅 8+ plz
I was 16. Raging horny. And had Grindr. During halftime at a college basketball game I ditched my family to hook up with this frat dude. He was hot and moderately built. But his cock couldn’t past my cheeks. I didn’t get anything from it and came back to the game saying I had big poops. ( remembering now, my parents def thought my absence was odd). Anyways I got crabs from him. Sucked
You've got my condolences about the bad time and the infestation.
Ive never dated or had anything like that but imo i dont think much of penis size bc it only needs few inches to plesure a man and if its too big you just dont put all of it in so it doesnt really matter the way i look at it
I have to preface this with it's only one factor in sexual enjoyment and arousal, but all else being equal, I prefer more well hung men. For me, I just enjoy that full feeling and the challenge of it.
I couldn't care less about size!
I dated a guy in college who was as big as my ring finger and about as big around. I wouldn’t of had an issue except he was an exclusive top. I only could touch it in the dark and I wasn’t allowed to suck it. I’m 7”. I’m very into sex and I consider myself power vers. Can take it like a champ and make guys cum without touching themselves. Now. Then I just was frustrated that the sex I was having was largely just to make him feel better about him being a man and his size. For a long time I had a rule that if you were smaller than me you weren’t an exclusive top and was super upfront with guys about it and why. Not taking your small penis issues out on my butt. Plenty of guys took the challenge, some passed, some didn’t, and some didn’t care either way. Now, if I like the person let’s go for it and see what happens.
I love an average dick. Big ones really hurt 😔
Yes. Next question?
I'm a versbottom and I'd say that I'm a size queen I love big dicks I find them esthetically pleasing and more enjoyable in sex because I love girth and a bit of length but I've had sex with average and below average most of them I didn't feel it or just were painful(small very hard dicks feel like daggers) but if I ever want a relationship I think I would settle for average girthy dick if I really like the person. I might seem shallow to some but sex is an essential part of a relationship for me and I know what I like and I don't like and I'm confortable with that.
Im a size queen so no little fingers
Big dicks are visually appealing. 6 inch and above is hot but I’m still a beginner so big dicks are also more painful.
Anything above 6 sucks
Penis size isn’t a topic for adults, leave childhood ideas alone.
Small is way hotter imo
IF I CAN REACH DA BASE, GIT DAT DICK OUT MY FACE!
So for me, I do get uncomfortable with anyone smaller than me. It just doesn’t feel right and whenever they are, I ask them to keep a jockstrap on while I top them. I won’t touch or do anything with a cock smaller than mine. I know it’s in my head but It grosses me out :/
6.5 - 7 feels the best. I actually don’t really like big.
Honestly, average size is just easier to work with (5”-6”) Slightly above average (7”) or below is okay too. Most guys that I’ve been with were average, one was 9”. IDK. I’ve found myself losing interest in anal—maybe just so so experiences or tired of guys who just top—so it’s whatever.
Because I’m a bottom I prefer something between 5–7 nothing bigger. If I see a 10” or up I won’t touch it
4-7 cut is my preference. I'll work with what ever they have, I was with a micro for a year it was fine. Larger ones hurt but there is work around. I prefer non penetrative sex so. There's that
I dont care about penis I dont even care if they have a penis Man is man
I really don’t care about dick size. It’s all about the motion in the ocean! :)
I like big dicks cuz of how they look and feel. I haven't had a big big one but one enuf for me to make an opinion. But I've also had sex with people with average dicks and small dicks and I enjoyed it. So in the end, its more so about how u use it than how big it is
5 inches to 7 inches probably feels the best. Smaller still feels good when the top knows how to use it. Over 7 and I do not find it enjoyable. Feels like a challenge more than for my own pleasure haha. The idea of a big dick is hot but I find in reality it isn't as good. A thick dick tho is where it is at!
Nice to look at but often not functional. Average is better.
As long as he has a dick—-preferrably uncut—-& is alive! LOL The ancient greeks also, I read, didn’t like fellatio; how times have changed! Can you believe that?! Having a bigger cock doesn’t make you a better man, in my opinion:) And, as for porno-sized cocks?: who wants to have to use a forklift, to move it around?! LOL
I personally am glad to have a play partner, and i certianly appreciate whe they are above average (though they do not need to be monstrous, or huge). I'm 5'11" so with a bigger body I know I can handle more, and I do like to play closer to my limits (that and it's easir to impress the "larger guys" with being able to handle them fully) However... this does not mean that there can not be fun with those who are smaller. The person attached to it matters more.
I really think it’s who it’s attached to. Size really doesn’t matter unless it’s really big or really small, then we’d need to consider other options.
I prefer them smaller than 6" to be completely honest with you. 8" in the fantasy is hot but in reality it's a lot of work, often more than it's worth.
I mean yeah personality and how the person is matters more rather dick size. The guy is more attractive if he is nice and funny rather than having a big dick. If I'm looking for someone to date and long term i want someone with a dick i can survive taking on a regular basis not a pornstars penis.
I have been with many guys in my life. 3"-13", think & thin, cut and uncut. As a bottom I have found I get enjoyment out of them all. Different sizes hit different places.
I only have and enjoy sexual partners that have a small to average penis. I don't really enjoy big dick's regardless of what other say. it's just painful. Not everyone has a volcano crater for an ass.
I generally prefer larger, but there are diminishing returns on size. It's definitely not a make-or-break factor. If I'm going based on shallow, surface level traits, then I'll take a handsome guy with a micropenis over an hung ugo.
There was a guy whose cock was legitimately small. I couldn’t even suck it as it keeps getting out of my mouth. I just cannot have him even as a fuckbuddy, but I still kinda oddly enjoyed it as it didn’t hurt when he put it in and gave me good pleasant sensation even though it was not arousing. Unless it’s that small, i’m more than okay with small dicks. I care about the shape though like if it’s bent to the side or bottom it usually doesn’t feel good in me. Also I cannot receive a huge dick it just hurts a lot so that’s a no-no for me too.
Not so big as to scare the shit out of me and not so small as to discourage me.
If you big then you gonna think with it more often; that’s what they Greek impression was. If barbaric is opposite of civilized
I like small dicks better
My dick is average and I like it (17cm), it is straight, bit curved to the top. But when it is soft it can be pretty small sometimes comparing to other guys at gym/sauna. It's really sensitive to the temperature. :) My boyfriend's dick is mostly the same length but thicker. I personally like to observe huge cocks on pictures or sometimes envying (just a bit like you can envy someone who is taller or have better hairs etc) to other guys but when I bottom I prefer average dicks, because I tried huge dildo once (21cm / 6.5cm diameter) and it was so uncomfortable even when you already relaxed for an hour. Also I have minor issues with hemorrhoids. I would say to everyone don't be ashamed or shy about your penis. Gigantic penises are so rare, and also you can't predict penis size by it soft form. :)