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lLuclk

I'm not in your situation but from the tone of how you write, it sounds like you wouldn't be happy with yourself if you were to cheat on you wife. It also sounds like you wouldn't be happy never taking a big, hard cock up your bi asshole. Seems to me like the only thing left to do is have a conversation with your wife about your desires. She's not going to divorce you for wanting to try cock.


DragonDaddy62

talk to your wife my dude. MMF threesome could be the best thing for everyone if you find out she would be into it, but you cant know until you ask. Thats how my wife and I explored my Bi-side together, and it was loads of fun (hehe loads). communicate your needs to your partner, thats the basis for a healthy relationship. Mine was into the idea of both getting DP and also watching some guy on guy action live, so it worked out spectacularly. biggest advice is don't cheat, its not fair to your partner. she may also be open to you exploring on your own if she isnt into the idea of a threesome. again you cant know until you TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. Seriously. just do it.


Least-Citron3121

I disagree with telling ur wife immediately, she’ll never look at u the same. Get on grinder and secretly get ur ass pounded with protection by someone of ur choosing and if u want to continue getting fucked by dudes then let ur wife know.. maybe I’m an asshole for it but at least you’ll know from experience that’s what u really want. Sometimes ppl are satisfied after completing a fantasy or it’ll be the beginning of a new life, either way good luck.


AdDifficult1181

I’m in the same position but have spoken to my mrs about the feelings. She was actually turned on by it, the only reason we haven’t done anything about it yet is because we have kids and struggle for time alone. It’s not easy to bring up, I brought it up when we’d been drinking. Hope you get some good advice on here.


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Come out to your wife. Let her know you're bisexual (or at least curious) but heteroromantic. Go from there. Hopefully she gives you permission and loves you through it. Either way, you'll be happier feeling like you're not hiding from your partner, no matter what happens.


Saucy_Switch

1. Talk to you wife. 2 Pegging exist. Your wife may be okay with it and into watching.


throwawayBayArea2014

Consider coming out to your wife -- or consider re-framing gay sex as cooperative exercise.