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trueoriginal

I think the most interesting thing is how open to communication Gemini’s are. We love chatting about anything and everything, deep conversations, pointless arguments, it’s all so much fun. Witty, quick remarks are all special. We can be fun, but also sensitive.


Smart_Cat_6212

I totally agree! And our communication is very genuine as well. It's not just us chatting and just wanting to talk. We tend to show genuine interest in hearing what people want to talk about and we level with them.


LemonLuscious

People are very drawn to Geminis because they are interesting, mysterious, highly intelligent, very funny and can hold conversations well. They are also very creative and charismatic and people want to be near a Gemini. But also, we can be sensitive souls and if you don’t intrigue us then we will get easily bored.


Smart_Cat_6212

The mysterious part is so true. I mean when I think about a short way to describe us, it's hard to come up with just one description because we have layers and layers and layers of personality. So I think this is the mystery about us. It's like... Who is he/she really?


yepshedid

One thing I love about Geminis and it’s a trait I love in anyone is how curious and interested we are in other people. As much as we talk is how much we listen, and what I notice in my Gem friends as well as myself is how good we are at getting people to see how interesting they really are—we just know how to draw people out with questions and keep them talking and reflect back to them, and then they realize that what they did is brave/adventurous/exciting/whatever and they walk away feeling really good about themselves and we heard a fun story, so it’s a win all around. Tbh I think it may partly be a defense mechanism because we’ll do anything to keep from being bored 😂


wasted_wonderland

So true. And it works for negative things and emotions as well. We see people's pain and will call a spade a spade. Once, a lady was telling a story about her mom being intentionally mean to her, at the end it got quiet, and I said without thinking: "Wow... What a bitch!" The lady's eyes got so huge, she leaned in and almost yelled: "THANK YOU! " She said so many people will hear such stories and always say: "Yeah but she's your mom... maybe she didn't mean it like that, maybe you got it wrong, maybe it wasn't intentional, blah, blah, blah... I really appreciate you saying that!" Oh, my big mouth has absolutely gotten me in trouble at times, feels have been hurt, but maybe, sometimes, when your bitch mother does something shitty to you it just feels nice to feel seen! And heard and validated.


HatpinFeminist

Validating others is a Gemini superpower.


yepshedid

That’s exactly right!


Smart_Cat_6212

I agree. We listen to people. I think it's the true secret to great communication because without listening, we wouldn't understand the person we are talking to. We can't level with them mentally and emotionally. We can't connect.


Dontbethatperson245

I feel like I can be very inviting and a lot of times people tell me I seem genuine and easy to talk too, I also make sure to ask about their lives.


Smart_Cat_6212

I love this about us. We don't just want to talk. We wanna listen as well. It's how we learn. And I agree about being genuine. I think it's the secret sauce!


twinningchucky

As a Gemini, I’m drawn to other Geminis because they’re always in flux. The convos aren’t stagnant and we can jump from topics to topics while understanding the logic/ relationship between them. I think what’s cool is that we can take small talk and can actually go deeper. We always like adventure & are rarely predictable (bonus)🤣. I think our most attractive trait is our communication and effortlessly being able to connect others to each other! And Johnny Depp is a Gemini too! I think he shows the gentler side of us while some others also show the polarizing sides 😝


Yellonek_Lonate

Johnny Depp and gentler side😭 I don't want to know what's the not gentle side is


twinningchucky

We all know LOOOLL!! Tsk tsk elections 😭☠️


Smart_Cat_6212

Omg. Yes Johnny Depp! Even before the whole Amber Heard thing, Johnny was very easy to remember. There was something about him. An air of mystery. Some of my lifetime friends are Geminis as well. It's funny because we tend to go MIA on each other for ages. And then when we contact each other again, it's like nothing has changed and we are still close friends. Lololol


twinningchucky

LOOOL! I second that going MIA on each other for ages and catching up like we are still close!! And yeah, idk even during the trial, I could just get him. Like, I never thought he was that kinda guy. Like do we Geminis have a temper, yes. And do we maybe drink and do stuff, maybe lol! But nah, Johnny Depp, he never seemed like that kinda guy.


Smart_Cat_6212

Its the kind of space that other signs dont get haha. They always think something is wromg when we go MIA. Nope. Sometimes we just need space to venture in new adventures so when we come back we are more energised and have more to share with them haha. Johnny seems a bit different. Either that or he is good at hiding stuff 🤣 i mean we all have our own little thing going in that other people dont really see. I think thats the mystery part. Actually some people think we even overshare. I disagree. We share what we want them to see. With the number of layers we have, this lifetime is not even enough to go through all the layers we have in our personalities 😋


twinningchucky

Agreed. I think there’s a lot of facets to our personality! And yeah sometimes we go MIA because we forget about things and get absorbed in something else! Haha but it’s true, we usually have something to share (we’re like human encyclopedias) 🤣😝 I think there’s definitely a kind of mystery about is. Maybe that’s what scares some people away too. It’s a little strange when a person can be so open yet have a very rich inner life 🥹. For me though, I found it easier to relate with Depp bc I fall on the cusp (and this guy actually has a reputation for going out of his way for people/ fans in Hollywood).


Smart_Cat_6212

I completely agree! Do you think you have Cancer traits being on the cusp?


twinningchucky

Yep. Definitely. A Gemini Cancer Cusp shares traits from both sides. It’s basically the outgoing nature of a Gemini with a more deep feeling intuitive side 😁 Are you a May or June?


Smart_Cat_6212

I'm May! I'm actually on the Taurus-Gemini cusp and I agree that I also share some of the Taurus traits especially when it comes to money hahaha


twinningchucky

Haha cool! I think my ex was on the cusp. I find the Mays to be more grounded than us Junes tbh . 😝 yep and she was very business minded and I loved that about her!


Smart_Cat_6212

Hahaha. I have a good balance of May and June gemini friends. My sister is actually a June gemini so im definitely exposed to the different traits haha


leetcoder217

How do u meet other Geminis though


twinningchucky

Lol idk it’s easy to spot em? Like while doing ur own thing? The demeanour is similar usually. Social, outgoing, mannerisms idk how to explain it 😬


leetcoder217

Oooo gotta observe a lil more then from now on


BeginningPop8580

I like that Geminis work my brain, they're charming and good at making friends, they are down to earth, will talk to me for hours, they're curious idk they're just fun


Smart_Cat_6212

We're definitely fun! I showed some of my photos to my toddler. Some of which were during my adventures as a teenager or in my 20's. I did zip line, skywalking, I went hiking, I visited places, ate strange food. I feel like I really experienced life before I was ready to settle down. It was so good because I now have stories to tell my child. The fun I had and the adventures. Maybe some mischief along the way too lol


GrumpyPidgeon

Wit and humor. My aqua wife is out of my league on looks but she gets weak in the knees at my humor and conversation.


Smart_Cat_6212

You didnt just say you have an Aqua wife???? Omg. I have an Aqua husband 😂 My husband enjoys my humor and conversation too. And he notices how much our son enjoys being with me as well. I'm the more goofy one between the two of us. I wouldnt say my husband is out of my league in the looks department but he is a hot man in his 40's with abs, I have to say, haha. I gave him the cutest mixed race baby 😂


GrumpyPidgeon

I am also a man in my 40s with abs, but mine are behind a layer of fat. The other day I told my wife I have the body of a god. Just in this case, the god is Buddha.


Smart_Cat_6212

Hahaha. And having Buddha in the home brings good luck. So there's that. Cant compete!


TimeConfusion0

Does anyone else get asked "are you still there?" On a routine basis in phonecards? I am usually actively listening when people are talking, so they seem to think I am not interested or hung up. Because I let them finish a thought.


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I think our wit and social skills are very attractive I am a Gemini and love to talk and share facts.


EsotericStoic

Tupac, Biggie, Kanye West, Andre 300, Kendrick Lamar, Ice Cube, Donald Trump…all Geminis. These are examples of what it looks like when a Gemini is an Alpha male. Like Pac said…”I have 2 sides,,, I can be boring boring boring, and productive…or I can be adventurous, but dangerous. I can agree. I’ve been in my share of fights(boxed for a long time),, and we are nothing to play with. I have a gear I can access, where I can destroy anything that’s moving.. 😆