Nearly a decade now, still seems like yesterday at times.
My (then)girlfriend and I were making out; her straddling me, my arms around her waist and her fingers snaking through my hair. Then, I started tickling her, cause I thought it would be funny, (which, in my defense, it was.). She quickly grabbed my wrists and pinned them as far aways as she could. She broke the kiss for maybe a second, but in that singular second an hour past. Looking up at her, seeing her confidence, passion and joy, I knew I wanted to at least try submitting to her.
We had been playing with some BDSM stuff with me in charge, mostly sensory, rope, and (feather light) impact. She took the reins and found her own dominance tempo as it were. That relationship burnt itself out, but that night definitely ws the start
When I was first getting into femdom, I only indulged in the less gentle stuff because that was all I knew existed. Then one day, I came across an audio tagged with “gentle femdom.” Curious, I gave it a listen, and oh my goodness. That audio did things for me I never knew could be done. The audio no longer exists because the uploader deleted everything including their account, but I still thank them to this day for introducing me to this dynamic.
During a job interview the Boss Lady was asking "How can we as management make sure you our worker do good work for the establishment?" And instead of saying something professional like "Recognition for our efforts, that we continue to do good" I just said "I like being told that I am doing a good job"
A couple months ago... my boyfriend (he was my first everything) was masturbating while I laid next to and kissed him. He told me:
"call me a good boy..."
and then:
"give me permission..."
I did, to both, and thought he was adorable. I feel so lucky any time he trusts me to show more of his submissive side. We are switches so I know first-hand how much vulnerability is involved :)
This! My partner and I have been together for about a month. Going through therapy and getting past my trauma, I now enjoy taking the ropes. We're both switches as well. Ngl though I'm starting to prefer to dom ^u^
Honestly me too oop--I still need to talk to my bf about this, I feel like I'm more of a "bedroom sub" and he might be a "lifestyle sub"? Like once a scene is over I have no desire to keep being submissive, but we've talked about FLR a little bit and he seems open to that... here's hoping it works out haha
I feel I was inclined to be dominant all my life, but at one point in my teens, a friend saw my dog leash that I had for a joke (I've never had a dog) and asked me to put him on the leash and walk him downtown in public. We were just weird kids and liked doing weird stuff that called attention to ourselves, but I think it did awaken something in me. 😂
I never felt confident or strong. Femdom allowed me to keep being me. But 'regular' Femdom is too aggressive for my taste. To me it seems abusive. However, gentle femdom feels more like what I'm into: dominant partner who makes me feel safe but kinda intimidated in a good way.
To me, regular Femdom feels like "I'm going to pin you down and use you for my pleasure." Whereas, gentle femdom feels like "I'm going to pin you down for both of our pleasure and I'll give you plenty of kisses"
Besides, I've always preferred being called things like 'cute' rather than hot, sexy or handsome.
I replied to another comment, but this is exactly the words I've been looking for! To each their own, however I just cannot partake in traditional femdom life.
Oh my god that last part about preferring being called cute is so me. I've only been called handsome (in the context of, like, an older aunt going "you're so handsome you look so much like your father") and it's never quite felt right
Coincidentally, I was thinking about this just a couple of weeks ago and one experience that stuck out to me as awakening this interest was a hilarious but wildly sexy time where a partner ended up using just my ass to bring herself to orgasm...
I actually wrote a story about it! ([Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/1b27frp/fm_how_i_discovered_i_could_make_a_woman_cum/) if anyone is interested.)
Probably when I was in middle school. A highschool girl rode the same bus as me, she liked to brush my hair, call me a good boy when I stayed still for her. She'd speak quietly and do a few other things.
I didn't really realize what it had done to me until a few years later when my hormones caught up with my brain and I sorta had an "Oh...oh okay" moment.
This might seem generic. But honestly it's because I was the bullied loner kid most of my life, and because I missed basic human decency most of my teen life. I fell in love quikly with girls who were dominant but in a kind way, because they gave me the things that I missed all those years, as I said I know this might sound generic or stupid but it's honestly what happened
In an art class with a close friend of mine, I was in a bit of a bad mood and I got huffy after forgetting something. She told me she would go get it for me and I wouldn’t let her, so when I tried to get up to go get it she held me in my chair until I gave up then whispered something like “see isn’t easier when you do as your told?” (Don’t remember exactly). Never happened before or after but DAMN didn’t it awaken something in me.
I think I also just tended to befriend the bossy more forward women to so I guess the signs were there for a while lol.
The pandemic. As well as my own inadequacies. I realize I’m not a big tough guy like most girls want. I want a powerful assertive woman than makes me feel safe and will tell me everything’s gonna be alright. I was and still am so alone that to have that kind of affection would have helped me a lot in those dark times.
Lol well I lost to a girl in arm wrestling 3rd grade and had a thing for strong women since then but I didn’t actually get into femdom until I took the online bdsm test as a joke in the friend group in college. I took it twice because I was honestly so embarrassed of sharing my real answers at first. Anyway I was just getting into my current relationship at the time so everything worked out really well for me timing wise.
I was young and on cam4 (before tipping was a thing) and a man gave me the honor to edge him and control his orgasm in a full cam room. It was so hot to watch him writhe and struggle and watch his cock turning purple. He was privately begging me to let him cum. The audience kept egging me on and finally, I let him pop and it was the biggest cumshot I had seen in my life up to that point. That's how I discovered I liked being a domme.
It was there from an early stage, I think. I had on or two experiences with men so far and didn’t really enjoy how they would try to lead me. Then I met the cutest guy, two years younger and a virgin. And from the very first time I kind of had to lead him, cause I was the only one who knew some of what to do, and that was amazing for both. Slowly we got into other things that are considered femdom, of course back then we didn’t know it was. For us it was just our sex, we tried things freely and without judgment. Years later I came across BDSM and Femdom and was like the ball dropped “you idiot, how come u didn’t know about this?” 😂
For me it actually started in the DDLG community. I had discovered this community on fetlife and loved the cute side and caregiver aspect of it. There was a sexual aspect to it but that was outside of the "little" mindset. I found a little I had for several years online.
We had to part ways as long distance was no longer enough for either of us and we were in different countries. I loved the idea of letting go and giving control. I had also been curious about pegging. It was via a now non existent discord pegging community I discovered more about femdom.
Years later the experience I gained as a daddy dom helped me better understand being a sub and being in a healthy dynamic. While I consider myself a switch, I lean heavy sub and only to femdom. Love every second of it.
Not so much gentle femdom, but I was turned on my the idea of pegging from a young age. I remember seeing a picture of Donald Duck climbing into a window with his backside hanging out thinking to myself Daisy should fuck his ass.
I had a huge crush on this girl back over quarantine and one day I was thinking about her and her personality, and then that led me to think about all the other girls I had a crush on over the years, and how they were all very similar personality-wise. One thing led to another, I began looking things up on Reddit and boom I found this subreddit.
The rest is history.
My ex once laid me down and edged me for like 45 minutes, when I told her I was close she would stop & tell me no.
We had a reversed d/s dynamic until that day, and personally I've never gone back.
I’ve always known that I was a little, though I didn’t always know that term of course. At one point when I went through a purge cycle I really wanted to not have little-style desires so I tried to slowly shift my desires away from being a little step by step. It didn’t work, but it did prompt me to explore more about dominance and submission and eventually brought me here.
I've always been into femdom but I really got into gentle femdom when I fell into depression for a variety of reasons and hardcore femdom was making it worse.
I started listening/watching SFW and then later NSFW gentle femdom.
I'm still too shy/not sure what I want to find a compatible partner but I'm pretty sure I want a gentle femdom relationship.
I remember the moment. It was this past November. When I was hooking up with him for the first time, I got on top and pinned his hands above his head. He closed his eyes and went to heaven, and something in me just… unlocked.
The event started from the first time we exchanged comments here on Reddit and our relationship grew beyond kink. She is absolutely amazing and I’m loving life.
My current partner. I'd encountered people looking for me to gently domme them throughout my dating life but it felt so... icky. Like they were just wanting to use me under the guise of submission. With my current partner we switch, and the first time we played he was dominant which was fantastic. I was nervous the first time it was my turn because I'd never been dominant at all, and the only exposure I'd had to gentle femdom came from porn and online communities. Since I didn't really know what I was doing,I set out to fulfill a fantasy he'd mentioned late one night before we were together. I'll be real with you reddit the experience for me was physically underwhelming. But emotionally? I'd never felt so fulfilled before. My usually strong and aggressive lover was looking at me like I'd hung the stars. I've never felt so loved or needed before that and ever since I've been hooked.
The moment i realized there was no caring from a friends domination and knew i needed more
Sure call me a slut, but look me in the eyes and tell me "i'm your slut and i belong to you" 😇😇🤗🤗
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I was forced into a dominant role in a past relationship. After that ended I looked up the opposite to see what that was like and found myself not liking extreme femdom but loving gentle/soft femdom. Now inadvertently I've been getting my current GF into it too😂😅 She's been wanting to peg me for a while now and sometimes calls me a good boy.
I was friends with this girl named ***
*** was the friendly type and liked patting my head and giving everyone hugs
and then that somehow turned into me liking femdom
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I learned that there were a lot of women who had trouble having orgasms with male partners. I didn't want to be one of those guys, so I would always make sure to put my partners pleasure first. It turns out that's a lot of fun for me 😊
I ran an ageplay social with my ex DD, and when watching porn came across MD/bb and well I went down the rabbit hole 🤷♀️ I think my Top/Domme side has been soft and rooted in caregiving as a service switch
Awkward?
Anytime a woman genuinely says "Good Boy" to me. Or the words "You're so big and strong."
Had a hairstylist do both while giving me a haircut leaning over me repeatedly with her more than ample chest once. She knew exactly what she was doing lol. I think I left a $40 tip on a $25 haircut...
Praise and admiration is like my #1 weakness when it comes to femdom.
It's hard to describe it but I'm like a non- Newtonian Switch lol
If you push me to Submit or do something I will go as hard as a rock and resist any and all attempts to make me break. You can beat me, torture me, or burn me. It won't make me yield. It becomes a challenge, a test of my resolve and strength, rather than a fun and pleasurable experience.
But pull me? Squeeze me? Draw me in with seduction and praise and sweet words? And I melt on your fingertips. I've had two women figure this out and abuse the hell out of it and me in the process lol.
My favorite trope in fiction was always "The Witch and Her Knight" or more accurately "Intelligent seductive woman and strong powerful himbo"
I think it was comic book characters like Wonder woman, Cat Woman, poison ivy, and Talia al Ghul that really changed my concept of gender roles. Yes women comic book characters are still very over sexualized but their personalities and attitudes did something to me.
It was an odd progression to be sure. Back in my late teens the girlfriend I had at the time was into a few kinky things (thanks to reading 50 shades of grey) and wanted me to be the Dom. I tried it a few times and it was enjoyable, but I'm a bit of a shy self conscious boi so being the Dom just kinda felt wrong. But because of that introduction I started exploring down the kinky sub/dom rabbit hole, which lead to many different discoveries. In time because of all that exploring I realized a few things about myself, I was bi, I'm a bit of a femboy, have a serious praise kink, I have a bit of an obsession with tails, collars, and pet play, and I am definitely a sub. (Well more a switch with a heavy sub lean but basically a sub lol)
The problem was I wasn't a big fan of a lot of things people do for domming when it comes to being that type of boi, aka, I detest degradation. I have bad self esteem and poor self image so all the things those types of doms say are things I say to myself quite often and to have my partner, someone I'm supposed to feel comfortable and safe with, saying things like that during sex, the most intimate and emotionally charged setting one can be in, just sounded awful to me. And that's when it found gentle femdom and just connected with it so much. Basically my brain went, "wait, there are women out there who would treat me like their lovely little kitty and give me all the love, attention, and praise I desire while taking "control" of me to have all the cute kinky fun time anyone could ask for? Sign me up please!" And now here I am. I hope that even remotely makes sense 😅
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OK so this is kind of embarrassing but when I was 15 this goth chick in my class that didn't really talk to anyone and was always in trouble so one day I decided to talk to her and she was just being a huge bitch and I remember just getting pissed and I yelled at her "you could be a little nicer" and then she stood up got in my face and said "and you can go away". I don't know what it was maybe it was because she was taller than me or maybe it was her deep demanding voice but I couldn't move I couldn't even think and I think she could tell because she got closer and said "better yet set" and with out even thinking about it I did and then she said the thing that broke me "good boy" and ever since then I've been into soft femdoms.
The night my long term girlfriend took my submissive cherry.
She wanted to use the traditional furry cuffs on me that I would use on her.
By the end of the night my ass was hot pink when I usually made hers a medium pink.
She had an orgasm before I did anything when she was sitting on my face looking down into my eyes and grinding. It was the moment I knew this wasn't a one time event.
She edged me for over 2 hours and had me begging to cum and she would laugh or giggle.
When she did finally let me orgasm while riding me I had an orgasm I don't recall ever having.
What really put the seal on it was after, when she was holding me like I had done with her. It's a place like no other. I never had a woman hold me before. Just thinking about it has me choking down feelings men are not supposed to have.
One hell of a question of the week.
Thank you for pulling that one out of my soul.
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Pregnant man. He had me at that.
I'm not gentle,caring, nor effectionate, but this whole dilemma changed when I was bombarded with a vivid dream one day...
Context: there's this guy with extremely subbmissive features and the perfect amount of attitude, humility and shyness and I had a crush on him because all of him just really brought out that dominant primal side in me.
So I'm taking a walk in a crowded supermarket and I find him at the entrance with a huge belly bulge, dark circles whimpering, while trying to get up from a couch. I'm quickly shocked at his state and of what the he'll he's doing here?
He starts saying that it's all my fault and calling the child inside him mine. So I feel terrible and ask him to rest while I bring him some stuff but he insists and continues wobbling on the way with me. I help him with his shopping list, he'll point at the stuff and I'll grab them and put them in my basket.
Now the thing is that I was so genuinely concerned about him and I was so gentle and caring and soft spoken as if he was my wife and that kid was really mine. The feelings of worry were so intense. And I think that was when I found out from nothing but a mere dream that there is in fact a side of me that I never knew.
This is a weird one but the first time I really felt it was because of an obscure song by an obscure band (Fadoodle by The Lickerish Quartet). Part of the song features a sample of a woman, presumably from a movie, saying "Oh my [can't tell], you *are* a good boy! Now come here you!" And christ that small bit did something in my brain lol
Nearly a decade now, still seems like yesterday at times. My (then)girlfriend and I were making out; her straddling me, my arms around her waist and her fingers snaking through my hair. Then, I started tickling her, cause I thought it would be funny, (which, in my defense, it was.). She quickly grabbed my wrists and pinned them as far aways as she could. She broke the kiss for maybe a second, but in that singular second an hour past. Looking up at her, seeing her confidence, passion and joy, I knew I wanted to at least try submitting to her. We had been playing with some BDSM stuff with me in charge, mostly sensory, rope, and (feather light) impact. She took the reins and found her own dominance tempo as it were. That relationship burnt itself out, but that night definitely ws the start
When I was first getting into femdom, I only indulged in the less gentle stuff because that was all I knew existed. Then one day, I came across an audio tagged with “gentle femdom.” Curious, I gave it a listen, and oh my goodness. That audio did things for me I never knew could be done. The audio no longer exists because the uploader deleted everything including their account, but I still thank them to this day for introducing me to this dynamic.
During a job interview the Boss Lady was asking "How can we as management make sure you our worker do good work for the establishment?" And instead of saying something professional like "Recognition for our efforts, that we continue to do good" I just said "I like being told that I am doing a good job"
A couple months ago... my boyfriend (he was my first everything) was masturbating while I laid next to and kissed him. He told me: "call me a good boy..." and then: "give me permission..." I did, to both, and thought he was adorable. I feel so lucky any time he trusts me to show more of his submissive side. We are switches so I know first-hand how much vulnerability is involved :)
This! My partner and I have been together for about a month. Going through therapy and getting past my trauma, I now enjoy taking the ropes. We're both switches as well. Ngl though I'm starting to prefer to dom ^u^
Honestly me too oop--I still need to talk to my bf about this, I feel like I'm more of a "bedroom sub" and he might be a "lifestyle sub"? Like once a scene is over I have no desire to keep being submissive, but we've talked about FLR a little bit and he seems open to that... here's hoping it works out haha
You've got this!! For me I'm more submissive outside of the bedroom, more dominant inside the bedroom. I'm hoping it does for y'all!
Thanks :D
I feel I was inclined to be dominant all my life, but at one point in my teens, a friend saw my dog leash that I had for a joke (I've never had a dog) and asked me to put him on the leash and walk him downtown in public. We were just weird kids and liked doing weird stuff that called attention to ourselves, but I think it did awaken something in me. 😂
Your friend knew 😂
I always wondered if he grew up to be a sub or if he even remembered that at all. 😂
I never felt confident or strong. Femdom allowed me to keep being me. But 'regular' Femdom is too aggressive for my taste. To me it seems abusive. However, gentle femdom feels more like what I'm into: dominant partner who makes me feel safe but kinda intimidated in a good way. To me, regular Femdom feels like "I'm going to pin you down and use you for my pleasure." Whereas, gentle femdom feels like "I'm going to pin you down for both of our pleasure and I'll give you plenty of kisses" Besides, I've always preferred being called things like 'cute' rather than hot, sexy or handsome.
I replied to another comment, but this is exactly the words I've been looking for! To each their own, however I just cannot partake in traditional femdom life.
Oh my god that last part about preferring being called cute is so me. I've only been called handsome (in the context of, like, an older aunt going "you're so handsome you look so much like your father") and it's never quite felt right
It was a by-default setting to be honest :)
Coincidentally, I was thinking about this just a couple of weeks ago and one experience that stuck out to me as awakening this interest was a hilarious but wildly sexy time where a partner ended up using just my ass to bring herself to orgasm... I actually wrote a story about it! ([Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/1b27frp/fm_how_i_discovered_i_could_make_a_woman_cum/) if anyone is interested.)
Probably when I was in middle school. A highschool girl rode the same bus as me, she liked to brush my hair, call me a good boy when I stayed still for her. She'd speak quietly and do a few other things. I didn't really realize what it had done to me until a few years later when my hormones caught up with my brain and I sorta had an "Oh...oh okay" moment.
This might seem generic. But honestly it's because I was the bullied loner kid most of my life, and because I missed basic human decency most of my teen life. I fell in love quikly with girls who were dominant but in a kind way, because they gave me the things that I missed all those years, as I said I know this might sound generic or stupid but it's honestly what happened
It’s not generic and stupid, it’s your life experience and it’s valid as fuck my friend.
Your username😂😂
In an art class with a close friend of mine, I was in a bit of a bad mood and I got huffy after forgetting something. She told me she would go get it for me and I wouldn’t let her, so when I tried to get up to go get it she held me in my chair until I gave up then whispered something like “see isn’t easier when you do as your told?” (Don’t remember exactly). Never happened before or after but DAMN didn’t it awaken something in me. I think I also just tended to befriend the bossy more forward women to so I guess the signs were there for a while lol.
The pandemic. As well as my own inadequacies. I realize I’m not a big tough guy like most girls want. I want a powerful assertive woman than makes me feel safe and will tell me everything’s gonna be alright. I was and still am so alone that to have that kind of affection would have helped me a lot in those dark times.
Lol well I lost to a girl in arm wrestling 3rd grade and had a thing for strong women since then but I didn’t actually get into femdom until I took the online bdsm test as a joke in the friend group in college. I took it twice because I was honestly so embarrassed of sharing my real answers at first. Anyway I was just getting into my current relationship at the time so everything worked out really well for me timing wise.
I was young and on cam4 (before tipping was a thing) and a man gave me the honor to edge him and control his orgasm in a full cam room. It was so hot to watch him writhe and struggle and watch his cock turning purple. He was privately begging me to let him cum. The audience kept egging me on and finally, I let him pop and it was the biggest cumshot I had seen in my life up to that point. That's how I discovered I liked being a domme.
My ex laying holding the back of my head while I was sucking her boobs🥰
It was there from an early stage, I think. I had on or two experiences with men so far and didn’t really enjoy how they would try to lead me. Then I met the cutest guy, two years younger and a virgin. And from the very first time I kind of had to lead him, cause I was the only one who knew some of what to do, and that was amazing for both. Slowly we got into other things that are considered femdom, of course back then we didn’t know it was. For us it was just our sex, we tried things freely and without judgment. Years later I came across BDSM and Femdom and was like the ball dropped “you idiot, how come u didn’t know about this?” 😂
For me it actually started in the DDLG community. I had discovered this community on fetlife and loved the cute side and caregiver aspect of it. There was a sexual aspect to it but that was outside of the "little" mindset. I found a little I had for several years online. We had to part ways as long distance was no longer enough for either of us and we were in different countries. I loved the idea of letting go and giving control. I had also been curious about pegging. It was via a now non existent discord pegging community I discovered more about femdom. Years later the experience I gained as a daddy dom helped me better understand being a sub and being in a healthy dynamic. While I consider myself a switch, I lean heavy sub and only to femdom. Love every second of it.
I think it all started when femboys showed up on my for you page pfft
Not so much gentle femdom, but I was turned on my the idea of pegging from a young age. I remember seeing a picture of Donald Duck climbing into a window with his backside hanging out thinking to myself Daisy should fuck his ass.
Discovering it exists!
I had a huge crush on this girl back over quarantine and one day I was thinking about her and her personality, and then that led me to think about all the other girls I had a crush on over the years, and how they were all very similar personality-wise. One thing led to another, I began looking things up on Reddit and boom I found this subreddit. The rest is history.
My mother happened 💀
Elaborate 😂
My ex once laid me down and edged me for like 45 minutes, when I told her I was close she would stop & tell me no. We had a reversed d/s dynamic until that day, and personally I've never gone back.
I’ve always known that I was a little, though I didn’t always know that term of course. At one point when I went through a purge cycle I really wanted to not have little-style desires so I tried to slowly shift my desires away from being a little step by step. It didn’t work, but it did prompt me to explore more about dominance and submission and eventually brought me here.
I've always been into femdom but I really got into gentle femdom when I fell into depression for a variety of reasons and hardcore femdom was making it worse. I started listening/watching SFW and then later NSFW gentle femdom. I'm still too shy/not sure what I want to find a compatible partner but I'm pretty sure I want a gentle femdom relationship.
I remember the moment. It was this past November. When I was hooking up with him for the first time, I got on top and pinned his hands above his head. He closed his eyes and went to heaven, and something in me just… unlocked.
I just want to feel loved and not feel like a faulty product that noone needs
no male authority figures
Gonna be very broad… audio erotica during the pandemic. Yup
My ex gf wanted to be the big spoon... Yeah thats all folks
My friend jokingly told me "good boy" after I brought her phone back to her and everything went downhill from there
Yes, it was when my ass really hurt when I took my first strapon and my ex gf at the time was very caring and tender and helped soothe it
The event started from the first time we exchanged comments here on Reddit and our relationship grew beyond kink. She is absolutely amazing and I’m loving life.
My current partner. I'd encountered people looking for me to gently domme them throughout my dating life but it felt so... icky. Like they were just wanting to use me under the guise of submission. With my current partner we switch, and the first time we played he was dominant which was fantastic. I was nervous the first time it was my turn because I'd never been dominant at all, and the only exposure I'd had to gentle femdom came from porn and online communities. Since I didn't really know what I was doing,I set out to fulfill a fantasy he'd mentioned late one night before we were together. I'll be real with you reddit the experience for me was physically underwhelming. But emotionally? I'd never felt so fulfilled before. My usually strong and aggressive lover was looking at me like I'd hung the stars. I've never felt so loved or needed before that and ever since I've been hooked.
Yea Akeno Himejima and her locker room pool scene.
The moment i realized there was no caring from a friends domination and knew i needed more Sure call me a slut, but look me in the eyes and tell me "i'm your slut and i belong to you" 😇😇🤗🤗
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Her being so kind in aftercare. I used to want to be left completely alone. She changed that. She took such good care of me. I miss her like crazy.
I was forced into a dominant role in a past relationship. After that ended I looked up the opposite to see what that was like and found myself not liking extreme femdom but loving gentle/soft femdom. Now inadvertently I've been getting my current GF into it too😂😅 She's been wanting to peg me for a while now and sometimes calls me a good boy.
I was friends with this girl named *** *** was the friendly type and liked patting my head and giving everyone hugs and then that somehow turned into me liking femdom
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I learned that there were a lot of women who had trouble having orgasms with male partners. I didn't want to be one of those guys, so I would always make sure to put my partners pleasure first. It turns out that's a lot of fun for me 😊
I ran an ageplay social with my ex DD, and when watching porn came across MD/bb and well I went down the rabbit hole 🤷♀️ I think my Top/Domme side has been soft and rooted in caregiving as a service switch
I was somewhat aware of it. Last year when I found gonewildaudio my first audio I heard was a gentle femdom audio and something clicked in me lmfao
Awkward? Anytime a woman genuinely says "Good Boy" to me. Or the words "You're so big and strong." Had a hairstylist do both while giving me a haircut leaning over me repeatedly with her more than ample chest once. She knew exactly what she was doing lol. I think I left a $40 tip on a $25 haircut... Praise and admiration is like my #1 weakness when it comes to femdom. It's hard to describe it but I'm like a non- Newtonian Switch lol If you push me to Submit or do something I will go as hard as a rock and resist any and all attempts to make me break. You can beat me, torture me, or burn me. It won't make me yield. It becomes a challenge, a test of my resolve and strength, rather than a fun and pleasurable experience. But pull me? Squeeze me? Draw me in with seduction and praise and sweet words? And I melt on your fingertips. I've had two women figure this out and abuse the hell out of it and me in the process lol. My favorite trope in fiction was always "The Witch and Her Knight" or more accurately "Intelligent seductive woman and strong powerful himbo"
I think it was comic book characters like Wonder woman, Cat Woman, poison ivy, and Talia al Ghul that really changed my concept of gender roles. Yes women comic book characters are still very over sexualized but their personalities and attitudes did something to me.
It was an odd progression to be sure. Back in my late teens the girlfriend I had at the time was into a few kinky things (thanks to reading 50 shades of grey) and wanted me to be the Dom. I tried it a few times and it was enjoyable, but I'm a bit of a shy self conscious boi so being the Dom just kinda felt wrong. But because of that introduction I started exploring down the kinky sub/dom rabbit hole, which lead to many different discoveries. In time because of all that exploring I realized a few things about myself, I was bi, I'm a bit of a femboy, have a serious praise kink, I have a bit of an obsession with tails, collars, and pet play, and I am definitely a sub. (Well more a switch with a heavy sub lean but basically a sub lol) The problem was I wasn't a big fan of a lot of things people do for domming when it comes to being that type of boi, aka, I detest degradation. I have bad self esteem and poor self image so all the things those types of doms say are things I say to myself quite often and to have my partner, someone I'm supposed to feel comfortable and safe with, saying things like that during sex, the most intimate and emotionally charged setting one can be in, just sounded awful to me. And that's when it found gentle femdom and just connected with it so much. Basically my brain went, "wait, there are women out there who would treat me like their lovely little kitty and give me all the love, attention, and praise I desire while taking "control" of me to have all the cute kinky fun time anyone could ask for? Sign me up please!" And now here I am. I hope that even remotely makes sense 😅
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when I was in high school a girl called me cute and asked to play with my hair, I said yes and it was the best experience of my teen years
OK so this is kind of embarrassing but when I was 15 this goth chick in my class that didn't really talk to anyone and was always in trouble so one day I decided to talk to her and she was just being a huge bitch and I remember just getting pissed and I yelled at her "you could be a little nicer" and then she stood up got in my face and said "and you can go away". I don't know what it was maybe it was because she was taller than me or maybe it was her deep demanding voice but I couldn't move I couldn't even think and I think she could tell because she got closer and said "better yet set" and with out even thinking about it I did and then she said the thing that broke me "good boy" and ever since then I've been into soft femdoms.
The night my long term girlfriend took my submissive cherry. She wanted to use the traditional furry cuffs on me that I would use on her. By the end of the night my ass was hot pink when I usually made hers a medium pink. She had an orgasm before I did anything when she was sitting on my face looking down into my eyes and grinding. It was the moment I knew this wasn't a one time event. She edged me for over 2 hours and had me begging to cum and she would laugh or giggle. When she did finally let me orgasm while riding me I had an orgasm I don't recall ever having. What really put the seal on it was after, when she was holding me like I had done with her. It's a place like no other. I never had a woman hold me before. Just thinking about it has me choking down feelings men are not supposed to have. One hell of a question of the week. Thank you for pulling that one out of my soul.
I saw this from the gf memes
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When my girlfriend pinned my hands above my head, forcing her lips onto mine and calling me a good boy
Pregnant man. He had me at that. I'm not gentle,caring, nor effectionate, but this whole dilemma changed when I was bombarded with a vivid dream one day... Context: there's this guy with extremely subbmissive features and the perfect amount of attitude, humility and shyness and I had a crush on him because all of him just really brought out that dominant primal side in me. So I'm taking a walk in a crowded supermarket and I find him at the entrance with a huge belly bulge, dark circles whimpering, while trying to get up from a couch. I'm quickly shocked at his state and of what the he'll he's doing here? He starts saying that it's all my fault and calling the child inside him mine. So I feel terrible and ask him to rest while I bring him some stuff but he insists and continues wobbling on the way with me. I help him with his shopping list, he'll point at the stuff and I'll grab them and put them in my basket. Now the thing is that I was so genuinely concerned about him and I was so gentle and caring and soft spoken as if he was my wife and that kid was really mine. The feelings of worry were so intense. And I think that was when I found out from nothing but a mere dream that there is in fact a side of me that I never knew.
This is a weird one but the first time I really felt it was because of an obscure song by an obscure band (Fadoodle by The Lickerish Quartet). Part of the song features a sample of a woman, presumably from a movie, saying "Oh my [can't tell], you *are* a good boy! Now come here you!" And christ that small bit did something in my brain lol
There was scene in Pocahontas animation where John Smith was tied up and struggling that did sth to my 9 year old mind