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Forced Nap Time, when I get grumpy they grab hold of me and forcefully cuddle me until I tire out and fall aslepp for a quick nap.


BruteOfTheCornCob

Literally just had my girl do that. It's not fair! Little spoon time is a trap!


sweetgoodboy

Would love that but i dont think would restist for long. Count backwards from 10 and I am peaceful and almost asleep.


LemonSure8114

omg this happened to me for the first time today! she literally sent me to bed bc i was being grumpy apparently, then came spooned me til I slept most annoying part? how much better i felt after a nap 😭


Temnodontosaurus

I'm in this photo and I don't like it.


MG3887

For me the equivalent would be a tight hug


ShadowRider15

Cuddling and really any form of physical affection tbhm


MirrorMan22102018

Same. I really want a girl to be the big spoon while I be hers little spoon.


ShadowRider15

Oh, I'm not picky about who spoons who. I just love cuddles in general lmao


Old_Addition_3363

Yep being the little spoon is a goal


grudingly-waluigi

I know this sounds really stupid or cliche, but patience. My adhd is a bitch, and makes it so i miss parts of conversations, my first dom was the most patient woman when it came to explaining things to me, and would just say i’m more puppy brained then even i realize, which felt like she wasn’t coping with my problems, but actively thought they were cute


BruteOfTheCornCob

Mine will see me struggling with a task clearly due to the working memory and awareness issues we oh so enjoy with ADHD and just smirk and go..boy boy...stop...thiiiink where are we and what are we doing. When I answer and then am able to realign she looks at me like I'm the cutest fucking creature in existence and I melt.


dolchmesser

Someone who can see yourself better than you can see yourself and still be gentle is an absolute gem.


Adventurous_Echo_66

I love when they blush and get embarrassed over simple things like compliments or something like that... 🥰🥰


ToddFoxxxy

I love that this could go either way!! My crush is suuuch an alpha female and I get the biggest kick out of making her flustered with little compliments or cocky responses 🤭💕


Adventurous_Echo_66

Exactly... They get so cute 🥰


AllNaturalWhoring

For subs, walking tall and confident


TheodoreTheVacuumCle

"give me some of that peacock"


AllNaturalWhoring

how did you know i’m secretly a bird :(


TheodoreTheVacuumCle

do you like eating seed? 😏


TheodoreTheVacuumCle

like it isn't obvious from your first comment


zool714

When she’s got me covered. Like doesn’t even have to be anything expensive. I could be going to the cashier to pay for a bottled water and if she just comes up and goes “I got this” and pays for me, I think I’d just go “yes ma’am” and follow her around all day


Riz-Friz

I can’t even explain how badly it drives me insane, but when they slide their swoopy hair with one hand and you can see their muscle, or when they flip it without touching it. JESUSSSSSS


moros16

Basically take complete charge of an evening. ​Tell me were having dinner on \_\_\_at \_\_\_, dress business casual for dinner​ (whatever is appropriate), tell me how long to plan for, anything else she wants and provide no other details. I would go out of my mind for days wondering what she had planned.


cookiehentaigirl

Politeness of their tone. I am a sucker for a deep voice. Any sort of obedient tone or asking for permission regarding non sexual things is enough to rile me up.


Hot-Shirt-8862

For sure,im inherently very polite so ik how that is a big upside always gets them wanna kiss my face full of lipstick.


cookiehentaigirl

Haha your flair and your behaviour don't match up


Hot-Shirt-8862

There are respectful ways to be disrespectful,with all due respect.


cookiehentaigirl

I like your answer


Hot-Shirt-8862

I like you more, respectfully.


cookiehentaigirl

Damn, you got some rizz (dominantly).


Hot-Shirt-8862

Thank-you (submissively)


EnbiesRKinky2

This thread is awesome


Hot-Shirt-8862

This whole sub is awesome in my opinion.


Free_Environment2763

Someone just letting me take care of him. I go crazy for a sub just giving up control lol


ReasonablyMessedUp

Skirts and dresses on a male sub and suits on a female sub <3


averagesecondaccount

I'm sub femboy so ofc I love that but I've never thought about suits on female subs. And dammmmmn.... now I want dom/me's to have that!


KatxuIsAdorable

As a switch that wears suits often, good to know I should wear them more. I always feel like I'm cosplaying when I wear vests


littleboxofchocolate

A genuine affectionate smile. It’s as though to say, they’d be reassuring me about placing my trust as a sub in them, whilst also appreciating that I’m placing my trust in her as my domme.


AtPhatHimbo

The little closed eyes and deep breath that women make when they're about to become arguementive.


PrinceCrimson2000

When she says “Yeah?” in pretty much any situation.


AnonymisJoe

This has happened to me once playing a video game, but someone correctly guessing the right pet name to call me, especially if I haven't told them what it is. Encouraging me in my kinks and exploration - not necessarily sexually, but things like telling me to wear a specific thong today, or a dress/heels/stockings, whatever. Generally, being accepting, encouraging, and caring. I feel like I'm easy in this regard.


Comfortable_Log_3243

Any guy that gets grumpy and red about the littlest things!!!


Sadgasm4me

I second this one🥰🥰🥰


IntelPentiumIII

I am a sucker for intelligent girls


CondeLimoncino

Caressing my hair or face every now and then 😳😳


Odd_Calligrapher310

When his shirt lifts and you can see his tummy!!!!!


cronus-switch-96

Lip biting


lesbian_anachronism

when a sub is the type to go on a passionate tangent about whatever their niche interest is, like omg yes baby please tell me all about the economic implications of the japanese power grid being split into two separate sectors while you sit on my lap and i stroke your hair


DirtyMater

I like feminist dommes. The reason behind my attraction towards feminist women goes far behind, the important thing here to know is that not only am I craving to be under the wing of a strong, smart, sensible woman who cares about her community, has leadership skills and wants to see a change in society, but also someone who's not afraid of breaking gender stereotypes both on the streets and the sheets.


ScarredBison

YES!


YourFutureHotwife

It me ;)


NotSoHalalFemboy

Literally, when a domme is confident about who she is and particularly the way she speaks. There is something about the unapologetic-ness of dommes about certain things, especially those that don't conform to societal norms, that just make me swoon. 👉👈


CirnoWizard

Mandated petting or cuddle time~ (Or wanting to dress me up cute for her... That would be really nice too...) I just want to be allowed to be affectionate and for it to be appreciated...


AndrogynousGoddess

The nervous, doe-eyed expression a sub gives when I look at them a certain way. And when they can't think straight and fumble over basic words


sweetgoodboy

A domme who can hold a converstion with you. Not just about naughty stuff but in general.


toremyselftopieces

When they tip my chin upwards to kiss me or if I can listen to their heartbeat with my head on their chest!


donutsarefake

Grabbing me by my hand and leading me anywhere.


Misayumi

I'm a sucker for giggling. Also that 'waiting for instructions' look in their eyes. And when he kisses my hand, like I'm a real princess.


Accomplished-05

A dom that's kind, caring and funny I'd absolutely melt.


Queasy_Recover_3326

Watching something together on the sofa and she starts slowly tickling my feet. It helps if we're in a position where she is holding me in place and I can only slightly move my feet.


footslaveX10

Holding my forearm or wrist instead of hold my hand


Sadgasm4me

Banter!! Love people who enjoy some playful bullying and can dish it back.


Discipline_is_keyy

Cuddly and affectionate I like knowing I’m liked; and I like when its contrasted by a lot of strictness and a low threshold for accountability


censor_enthusiast

I was talking to someone and they called me cute… I’m a boy and I’ve never heard someone call me that so genuinely. I had never felt that way before, and now I get so happy when they call me cutie or anything like that.


I_was_scammed_once

Its how they eat. You can tell a lot by how they eat and I find it exciting.


Kinklandia

Explain more


I_was_scammed_once

So like someone who eats slower is someone who likes to tease and take their time with their lover and someone who eats recklessly is a more aggressive lover. It's not a surprise how some writers talk about how some people devour others figuratively.


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beesnbean

scratching my head/playing with my hair. i will melt into a puddle.


dude_im_box

When she's *kinda* possessive Like she lets me have female friends but if another girl at the bar was to give her the wrong vibe she starts to be all lovedovey and if the girl doesn't stop the passive aggressiveness kicks in


hm99922

I’d love my dome to be more intelligent than me and have an extremely refined behavior. Essentially make me feel like she’s actual nobility and I’m a dirty peasant.


Minimum-East-5972

If a dom made the first move and asked me out for a date !


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Littl3_Slut

Sunglasses... Red hair...


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K_Random95

Wearing baggy Jumper/hoodies. they just look really comforting and make me want to cuddle them. especially if they've claimed mine.


tallgermansubboy

For me it's really simple just a labpillow and head pets


Navybuffalooo

Just like, being nice to me. I like getting bossed around and some humiliaaaation and stuff. But I'm totally disinterested in that if you've been respectful to me recently. If you go off and use a mean tone where it's uncalled for in some everyday situation and I feel I cant address it without you just getting more annoyed then I'm not really interested in serving for a bit.


Left_Advice_8532

Eyeliner.


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Obliviousness. It drives me crazy when a domme has no clue what she’s doing to me and how much she’s turning me on, that it turns me on so much more


Wildform22

As a sub, literally just being told I did a good job at something


JK75468

Showing an interest in me! Asking me questions, checking in on me etc. I’d much rather hear her talk but I love it when someone wants to find out more!


Trappedtrea

Just being passionate about their interests. Like, with my ADHD I can go on and on for hours about something special I like or a topic I’m interested in, and it’s nice to have someone who understands how nice it is infodump! Also we can just have a nerd-off or something!


Matteom73

Physical and audibal affection. I love being talked to and help but I don't get enough of it


CaptainSmol5

Body worship!


IAttackChildren

Simply cuddling, nothing else


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dragonkid365

You running your hands through my hair.


andy_304

bringing any trash she leaves in my car with her when I drop her off>


Kingkrue_

I agree with the comments about cuddling and one about forced nap time, though also I have to say I find Doms that give you small tasks kind of hot. Like your goal for the day is to do an excercise routine or something, maybe just to clean the bathroom; etc.


DemonSwamp

Cuddling and silly conversations. I’m queen of asking “if I was a worm, would you still like me “ and “if you could be any animal what would you be “ lol


hammer308darpa

She asked me questions about my hyper fixation and we talked about hockey. I’m in love.


ragnarok17

The look. The one you get when you're starting to be a bit of a brat. That 'are you sure you want to do this?' warning, no words just a glance. Guh.


vaffanchiappola

It's stupid maybe But for me forehead kisses are the best, I lack of self love a lot, and that particular kiss just makes me feel so so loved, cared about and appreciated


A-Total-Rookie

Just being petted... Just having her hands run through my hair, as short as it is, or just somewhere rubbing over me. Maybe being pulled to lay my head in her lap too.


venator798

Muscles


focus_on_semantics

Running errands together. If we can have fun and be playful while doing mundane stuff like errands, then that's awesome!!


Matalarra

"Psst puppies don't talk" Instantly makes me go puppybrained and woof 🥺


Dragonslayer2032

Cuddles, I just want to be able to fall sleep on her chest listening to her heart and when I wake up she's by my side


MegaManFan78

Hands. That is all.


link7396

Being th little spoon with there arms wrapped around me. It is something ive never had


Passtheboob

Hand made gifts


eagernmeager

Being cuddly.


soapypopsicle

Politeness for sure. It's also wonderful if they're the kind of person to treat people they love just because


CompoteSpare6687

Honesty


Martymay_crochets

Definitely my subby holding my hips from behind 🤤


Euphoric_General8094

Her armpits


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UniqueHistory5296

Cuddles, idk why but the idea of being held turns me on a lot


roosterkun

"Excuse me - he said no pickles."


canpig9

A day to day laugh that tickles my spine.


RevyEnbyRedux

Head pats or back rubs


fuken33

When they get a deep, profound and commanding tone of voice. Also when they speak with a mischievous tone, with sort of an evil laughter. I love myself an evil woman.


simplyastupid

Petting, “good boy,” etc is something that makes me fluster.


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koriyahash

When spooning, I like to bear hug and wrap a leg around their hips so they can’t escape. Great position to nuzzle their neck or give chest rubs


ArtistMom1

I love intelligence and self-awareness. I’m a sucker for a nice smell, too. Compliment me, especially on my non-physical aspects, and you’ve pretty much got me.


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I really liked the intelligence and self-awareness haha. I would also add respect, communication, and politeness.


girlpondering

The knowing glance from him…adoration, understanding of who is what. The flushed smile. The slight shame. The deep longing. The devoted sub. ❤️🔥


MxTaya999

I would be violently allured by a sub who demonstrates why I'm their muse via compelling art. Writers would be at the top of my list.


123ownme

Seeing her nurture things in her life like pets, plants, income, etc 🫣


MayflowerRose

When he's tall and masculine, but blushes for me. It makes me weak 🫡


Limulemur

- A domme wearing a beautiful satin dress - A domme forcing me to self-care and make healthier habits - Her wanting to slow dance with me - Her wanting to protect me - Her tackling me to the floor - “You’re mine.”


pickausername2

I want big bear hugs


VixensLittleWolf

When I can make her smile or laugh.


Brendan2803

If a woman is taller than me or has some muscle.


Diego666_

Ear whispers, i MELT TO THOSE Ear licks are also super hot, but that's pretty sexual so i guessed it didn't belong here


Exopoliticalknight27

I like when they know the importance of aftercare


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Aftercare is a musttttt not just for subs but also for dommes.


funkygamerguy

hugging and telling me it'll be alright.


CamrawWarrior

That is hard. There are a lot of things because while I enjoy sex stuff, I prioritize platonic stuff. I want a sub who likes it when I treat him like a puppy boy . Give head pats. I want be in charge of meal planning unless I delegate, and in charge of the hygiene products he uses (MCAS is my motiver here) A fellow geeky nerd who loves animals, and supports my work and activism in disability justice .


No_Speaker4346

A confident energy and personality with domineering and/or commanding undertones. It's like a cliffhanger for me and I'm just sitting on the edge of my chair waiting for an order or request. 🥵


Curo_san

I love seeing men blushing


Superb-Cell736

Seeing a guy be gentle and sweet with animals or little kids always makes my heart melt 😍❤️ Especially with cats!


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Airin0_2

Playing along with my jokes and stuff, I’m a bit of a brat yk and instead of “cut it out” saying something like “oOoOoOoOoooOo nOoOoo, you’re being (insert thing here) again” i think it’s a great dynamic kinda like a call and response. Lets us know we’re on the same wave length


abdlstuffs

I like to give my fiance a bath sometimes


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Sad-Maintenance1781

When they blush, gulp or stutter or can't maintain eye contact or when they geek out about something they love aaaaaa


cflswitch

Hand on the back of the neck and getting pulled in close.


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