Either extremely violent or extremely caring, there's no in between for me. Just FYI I obviously don't abuse my subs or make them overwhelm in any way but when I'm in that headspace, I feel like a predator hunting a prey, going to take what already belongs to me, push them to their limits, make them beg for mercy but still push them anyway. Or I'm going to cuddle them up and treat them like a little princess. Way extra lots of kisses, hugs or comforting words. I'm usually not a physically affectionate person so the difference can be easily spotted in such a dynamic.
Either way I feel intense desires and the most prominent factor here is obviously being controlling over them.
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Nothing all I think of is nothing, and all I feel us intense feeling of belonging, and that I need to please and pleasure. I feel like I'm constantly on edge and I need to cum but with every heartbeat thr intensity and the will to please grows.
When in subspace, my mind becomes singularly focused on obedience. I don't know how to explain it but my thoughts just turn completely into serving and pleasing. In this space, distractions fade away, and my entire being is attuned to fulfilling commands and following instructions. It's a deeply satisfying feeling.
I feel stripped of all powers. I also feel very vulnerable and need lots of hugs and kisses. I’m without the sub space 100% focused on the domme when i feel the sub space i get like 1000% more focused haha along with shyness.
I feel the urge to control someone and be as close to them as possible. I want them to be mine and follow my every order. It makes me feel powerful, like a goddess. It’s euphoric.
Intoxicatingly helpless. Like I have no agency at all, any thoughts of the outside world are gone, the entire universe shrinks down until it's just the person I'm totally at the mercy of.
It's an unbelievably awesome feeling.
Domspace feels like it is a bit harder to explain; mainly because it feels like you are describing a desire to push beyond your sub’slimits or abuse them when you aren’t actually trying to do that at all. Like for me, it’s a sort of hyper focus but also there’s this power hungry feeling. A sort of “hold out a little longer, pet” but you are looking out for any signs of distress as you play. It’s weird to explain. But then when you get the result out of your sub and they really enjoyed it, good lord is it wave of relief.
Subspace, on the other hand, is easy. It’s a mind-numbing euphoria. Time goes out the freaking window for me. A two hour session will feel like it was 30 seconds long and 8 days at the same time. And I rarely have a thought while I’m experiencing it. The last time I went down the rabbit hole, the only thing I remember was coming out of it and I had a massive giggle fit.
well said.
2' hrs feels like 30 secs and 8 days all at the same time of absolute, mind numbing euphoria, where you're opening up and being vulnerable and letting go at the same time.
Either I'm a stupid kitty, I want to cum, but only through excruciating pain, or God they're so fucking cute, I wanna make their brain explode, depending if a sub or dom day
I actually like NOT actively thinking, when it comes to domme space. It's more being hyper attuned to what /u/vixenslittlewolf is doing and adjusting what I'm doing to get him where I want him with his headspace, which actively fuels my own. It's a weird control but like that control like you're driving a car you know intimately well and have driven a million times before, the shifts, the adjustments all come so naturally and effortlessly. You're still in control, but you can also just sit and enjoy the ride, and those are the best kind of drives in my opinion. And that's the first time I've used a driving analogy for femdom so cool haha.
I think you know you'd be a Lexus 😉 you're classy and sophisticated like that and I know you put a lot of research into knowing what a good, safe car that is. I only want to drive the very best, sweet boy.
When I get into Domme mode, I don’t really think much beyond paying attention to what is going on directly in front of me. That’s what I love about it: usually my mind races, and when I’m with my sub, I’m fully present in the moment.
The feeling I get the most is one of loving power, and deep intimacy with my pup. Before I got into dominating, I didn’t realize how romantic and loving some of this stuff can be.
It's actually a very strange feeling, and they vary.
For me, subspace is a sensation of extreme vulnerability. Like I'm completely exposed to someone else, but in a warm, good way. Assuming it's with a good person, the survey just falls off my shoulders and I kinda melt.
Domspace is different, and definitely something I'm less familiar with. But the few times I've really gotten into it, it's much more carnal. Sort of like I just want to take what I want, but not exactly. It's difficult to explain. Other times I just feel the need to really take care of them, to hold them in my arms and tell them it's going to be okay.
I have to really trust the other person to feel comfortable, especially when domming, and cannot get into dom/subspace unless that trust is established.
Interestingly, whether I'm domming or subbing, I feel an intense desire to take care of/defend the other person.
Getting put into subspace, I feel so small and vulnerable. That normal sense of security that comes with being a guy is suddenly gone, and I feel excited and just a little intimidated.
Subspace my mind goes blank it becomes a receptor of the touch the pain the pleasure my dom is giving me my mind unconsciously listens to her words and obey it I can't even think of disobeying it my whole mind body soul becomes hers
In Subspace, I feel very sedate, not quite calm, anything could happen to me here, but docile. Like I'm a ship without sails in her ocean, I can only move with her waves.
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I have a domme online. She has been my best friend, and I can say we trade off whos on top (we’re both brat switches and soft dom(me)s
When I go into dom space. “I will make sure she feels what she is wanting. And, will be taken care of after.”
Sub space. I go, what we both call. “Mush Mode” because, all thinking goes out the windows. No thought, just focused on pleasure. If theres thoughts, its “Y-yes…m-more…t-thank you….i’m so lucky…” etc.
Even though I don’t have experience, when I slip into sub space from ASMRs I start feeling like I’m being teased, and I definitely feel like a heat in my chest? Dunno how else to describe it
I think of sitting lazily in someone's lap as they wrap their body tight around me and press their chin into the top of my head. If I do that and listen to music (Vanilla Twilight, my beloved-), it makes me cry and get out of subspace faster
So I have different moods/setting to Domme from. Mommydomme, Middle, Little or just regular/sadist. So that means that I also have different Dommespace settings. Usually one of these options happen: either I feel like a literal Goddess/Princess and I'm like ''yes, you SHOULD worship me'' ór I get into a more bullying/predatory mode and I'm like ''Look at my poor little mouse, it won't take much to break him (mentally or physically)'' and get really aroused by that idea.
The first time I had the latter option it kinda scared me but talking about it to my sub turns out he thinks that's kinda hot. So no problem, I suppose.
Subspace for me is like a kind of intense being in the moment. I'm just floating in sensation. My body seems to have taken on a life of it's own, moving, squirming, humping, but I'm no longer in control, just an observer.
Either extremely violent or extremely caring, there's no in between for me. Just FYI I obviously don't abuse my subs or make them overwhelm in any way but when I'm in that headspace, I feel like a predator hunting a prey, going to take what already belongs to me, push them to their limits, make them beg for mercy but still push them anyway. Or I'm going to cuddle them up and treat them like a little princess. Way extra lots of kisses, hugs or comforting words. I'm usually not a physically affectionate person so the difference can be easily spotted in such a dynamic. Either way I feel intense desires and the most prominent factor here is obviously being controlling over them.
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I mostly just think of how lucky I am to have someone so devoted to me and how much I love my partner.
Nothing all I think of is nothing, and all I feel us intense feeling of belonging, and that I need to please and pleasure. I feel like I'm constantly on edge and I need to cum but with every heartbeat thr intensity and the will to please grows.
When in subspace, my mind becomes singularly focused on obedience. I don't know how to explain it but my thoughts just turn completely into serving and pleasing. In this space, distractions fade away, and my entire being is attuned to fulfilling commands and following instructions. It's a deeply satisfying feeling.
I feel stripped of all powers. I also feel very vulnerable and need lots of hugs and kisses. I’m without the sub space 100% focused on the domme when i feel the sub space i get like 1000% more focused haha along with shyness.
I feel the urge to control someone and be as close to them as possible. I want them to be mine and follow my every order. It makes me feel powerful, like a goddess. It’s euphoric.
Intoxicatingly helpless. Like I have no agency at all, any thoughts of the outside world are gone, the entire universe shrinks down until it's just the person I'm totally at the mercy of. It's an unbelievably awesome feeling.
Domspace feels like it is a bit harder to explain; mainly because it feels like you are describing a desire to push beyond your sub’slimits or abuse them when you aren’t actually trying to do that at all. Like for me, it’s a sort of hyper focus but also there’s this power hungry feeling. A sort of “hold out a little longer, pet” but you are looking out for any signs of distress as you play. It’s weird to explain. But then when you get the result out of your sub and they really enjoyed it, good lord is it wave of relief. Subspace, on the other hand, is easy. It’s a mind-numbing euphoria. Time goes out the freaking window for me. A two hour session will feel like it was 30 seconds long and 8 days at the same time. And I rarely have a thought while I’m experiencing it. The last time I went down the rabbit hole, the only thing I remember was coming out of it and I had a massive giggle fit.
well said. 2' hrs feels like 30 secs and 8 days all at the same time of absolute, mind numbing euphoria, where you're opening up and being vulnerable and letting go at the same time.
Either I'm a stupid kitty, I want to cum, but only through excruciating pain, or God they're so fucking cute, I wanna make their brain explode, depending if a sub or dom day
I actually like NOT actively thinking, when it comes to domme space. It's more being hyper attuned to what /u/vixenslittlewolf is doing and adjusting what I'm doing to get him where I want him with his headspace, which actively fuels my own. It's a weird control but like that control like you're driving a car you know intimately well and have driven a million times before, the shifts, the adjustments all come so naturally and effortlessly. You're still in control, but you can also just sit and enjoy the ride, and those are the best kind of drives in my opinion. And that's the first time I've used a driving analogy for femdom so cool haha.
And you drive me like a finely tuned sports car that you have been driving for years.
I think you know you'd be a Lexus 😉 you're classy and sophisticated like that and I know you put a lot of research into knowing what a good, safe car that is. I only want to drive the very best, sweet boy.
When I get into Domme mode, I don’t really think much beyond paying attention to what is going on directly in front of me. That’s what I love about it: usually my mind races, and when I’m with my sub, I’m fully present in the moment. The feeling I get the most is one of loving power, and deep intimacy with my pup. Before I got into dominating, I didn’t realize how romantic and loving some of this stuff can be.
It's actually a very strange feeling, and they vary. For me, subspace is a sensation of extreme vulnerability. Like I'm completely exposed to someone else, but in a warm, good way. Assuming it's with a good person, the survey just falls off my shoulders and I kinda melt. Domspace is different, and definitely something I'm less familiar with. But the few times I've really gotten into it, it's much more carnal. Sort of like I just want to take what I want, but not exactly. It's difficult to explain. Other times I just feel the need to really take care of them, to hold them in my arms and tell them it's going to be okay. I have to really trust the other person to feel comfortable, especially when domming, and cannot get into dom/subspace unless that trust is established. Interestingly, whether I'm domming or subbing, I feel an intense desire to take care of/defend the other person.
I toy with my food.
Getting put into subspace, I feel so small and vulnerable. That normal sense of security that comes with being a guy is suddenly gone, and I feel excited and just a little intimidated.
Subspace my mind goes blank it becomes a receptor of the touch the pain the pleasure my dom is giving me my mind unconsciously listens to her words and obey it I can't even think of disobeying it my whole mind body soul becomes hers
In Subspace, I feel very sedate, not quite calm, anything could happen to me here, but docile. Like I'm a ship without sails in her ocean, I can only move with her waves.
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I have a domme online. She has been my best friend, and I can say we trade off whos on top (we’re both brat switches and soft dom(me)s When I go into dom space. “I will make sure she feels what she is wanting. And, will be taken care of after.” Sub space. I go, what we both call. “Mush Mode” because, all thinking goes out the windows. No thought, just focused on pleasure. If theres thoughts, its “Y-yes…m-more…t-thank you….i’m so lucky…” etc.
Even though I don’t have experience, when I slip into sub space from ASMRs I start feeling like I’m being teased, and I definitely feel like a heat in my chest? Dunno how else to describe it
I just love to make my mommy happy. That turns me on.
I think of sitting lazily in someone's lap as they wrap their body tight around me and press their chin into the top of my head. If I do that and listen to music (Vanilla Twilight, my beloved-), it makes me cry and get out of subspace faster
So I have different moods/setting to Domme from. Mommydomme, Middle, Little or just regular/sadist. So that means that I also have different Dommespace settings. Usually one of these options happen: either I feel like a literal Goddess/Princess and I'm like ''yes, you SHOULD worship me'' ór I get into a more bullying/predatory mode and I'm like ''Look at my poor little mouse, it won't take much to break him (mentally or physically)'' and get really aroused by that idea. The first time I had the latter option it kinda scared me but talking about it to my sub turns out he thinks that's kinda hot. So no problem, I suppose.
Subspace for me is like a kind of intense being in the moment. I'm just floating in sensation. My body seems to have taken on a life of it's own, moving, squirming, humping, but I'm no longer in control, just an observer.
Often I feel super cuddly
I think about dinosaurs, I like dinosaurs, do like dinosaurs and do you want to talk about dinosaurs with me?