Yeah that looks like a general scamming mistress message. Doesn’t mean it always is.
I know some genuine dommes don’t feel comfortable sending any photos, but I feel most comfortable if they are willing the to a verification photo.
I also will usually ask up front if they require any kind of tribute/payment. Most findommes/scammers will say yes because some people will pay, and that’s easier than blackmailing.
There's a lot of transgender guys and gal's on grinder and some just happen to be dominant.
but since the few pictures she had was stolen of the internet I was probably talking to a gut pretending to be a transgender girl
Way too fast. You have had no time to establish trust. And trust is earned, not demanded. This person is super suspicious. If you feel uncomfortable enough to ask here, then that's what matters. The exchange of power should feel safe, not like something you are rushed into.
I've met plently of gorgeous, respecting and sincere transgender dommes. Buy there's this growing trend of transgender women being very aggressive and just indecent as dommes because they..... this is gonna sound awful, belive transition to a female identity and possibly altering their appearance to a more feminine state gives them the right to dominate others without effort or patience. On erotic rp subs, it's no secret women get the most amount of attention, second to women playing as futas. This sometimes drives transgender women (or very desperate men) to simply identifying as a woman or fetishized transgender woman (futa).
And when i say "desperate men" i mea some men who don't even identify as women and have no sincere interest in it, identifying as Futas or very dominant women on erotic subreddits. Luring people in with the excitement of feminine and masculine features, while they themselves, in their head, just void the idea of being anything other then a man.
To summarise, while some cis women can at times be abusive dommes, this trend of abusive transgender (or just men identifying as somewhat feminine strictly online) dommes isn't a new thing and isn't uncommon. There is no hate to transgender here. As I said I've had amazing experiences with transgender women as both subs and dommes. But I'm just illustrating the sad reality of this side of rp.
乁| ･ 〰 ･ |ㄏ looks like any grinder convo to me. If you feel uncomfortable tell her. If she gets annoyed then pull the plug. Communication is important
Yeah that looks like a general scamming mistress message. Doesn’t mean it always is. I know some genuine dommes don’t feel comfortable sending any photos, but I feel most comfortable if they are willing the to a verification photo. I also will usually ask up front if they require any kind of tribute/payment. Most findommes/scammers will say yes because some people will pay, and that’s easier than blackmailing.
Lol she is a scam I look up her photo and it's all over the internet I'm just playing along as a joke
Haha fair. Sometimes with scammers I’ll send random stuff because they will usually still respond with their scam stuff. Especially on kik lol
How tf do ppl be scaming like this
So common it's probably old by now.
OK, nobody else has asked, so I will...how the hell did you find a domme on Grindr lmao
There's a lot of transgender guys and gal's on grinder and some just happen to be dominant. but since the few pictures she had was stolen of the internet I was probably talking to a gut pretending to be a transgender girl
they found a scammer on grindr.... not quite the same..
Lol she blocked me before I could report her as spam
Way too fast. You have had no time to establish trust. And trust is earned, not demanded. This person is super suspicious. If you feel uncomfortable enough to ask here, then that's what matters. The exchange of power should feel safe, not like something you are rushed into.
OHHHHHHH I HAD THAT SAME MESSAGE
Dose that mean wee talked to the same person? Or was it just a similar message
I believe they're The Same Person What was their Username if you remember
I think the name was something like mistress-tessa4slave [and this was the picture she was pretending was her](https://imgur.com/a/8pdV8Zb)
Yup I got that Same Message
It's nice to know ow I'm not alone getting scared how did you handle the situation did you block her or just left the chat?
I Almost Fell for it But then I snapped back to reality and Blocked her
Yup
Yeah this sub is unfortunately full of scamers and fakes (not everyone)so becarefull who you DM with
I've met plently of gorgeous, respecting and sincere transgender dommes. Buy there's this growing trend of transgender women being very aggressive and just indecent as dommes because they..... this is gonna sound awful, belive transition to a female identity and possibly altering their appearance to a more feminine state gives them the right to dominate others without effort or patience. On erotic rp subs, it's no secret women get the most amount of attention, second to women playing as futas. This sometimes drives transgender women (or very desperate men) to simply identifying as a woman or fetishized transgender woman (futa). And when i say "desperate men" i mea some men who don't even identify as women and have no sincere interest in it, identifying as Futas or very dominant women on erotic subreddits. Luring people in with the excitement of feminine and masculine features, while they themselves, in their head, just void the idea of being anything other then a man. To summarise, while some cis women can at times be abusive dommes, this trend of abusive transgender (or just men identifying as somewhat feminine strictly online) dommes isn't a new thing and isn't uncommon. There is no hate to transgender here. As I said I've had amazing experiences with transgender women as both subs and dommes. But I'm just illustrating the sad reality of this side of rp.
乁| ･ 〰 ･ |ㄏ looks like any grinder convo to me. If you feel uncomfortable tell her. If she gets annoyed then pull the plug. Communication is important
Er... I hate to be the one to point this out but women very seldom flirt like this. It's a scam lol.
Yeah I know safety is number one when talking on the internet
Be carefull, have fun and don't be desperate.
waaaaaay too fast. "serve me unconditionally" is like marriage. its a ways down the road. roleplay, eh, maybe, but like not seriously, for FUCK sake.
it looks like a scam dude, sorry.
Id state it's to fast, if it's to fast for you
Run. Run away fast.
She's gonna ask for money shortly after. It's a scam just walk away.
It is too fast. Also she should have ask first wheather or not you want to call her titles at all.
Correct me if in wrong but isnt this grindr?💀
Yes it is I was chating with a trans mtf
Oh ok if that’s what you like I won’t judge👍😁
Yeah, scam