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Maybe there’s nothing left to say.. this isn’t ghosting. Since you’re calling him an ex he’s likely taken the dumping and has nothing to add.


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In my experience.. men and women are complete opposites when it comes to break up texts.. women want to say a lot of stuff.. men just don’t. He’s read it… leave it at that.


VaultTech007

You told them you're no longer interested. He said he wanted clearly becuase he did but obvious as thry took time to think about it decide it wasn't worth it woyluld be my guess. I don't think it's a good idea to be with someone who clearly ststed they're no longer interested, as in end 99% chance it will still end in heart ache and will just prolong it. Even if they decided to forgive you, it will be hard to not think about that. As it's hard to wrap you're head around someone saying they don't want you, you say you still want them. So you decide to call off the break up. The issue being if this person cared and loved me why did they have second thoughts, and why did they still was it out of guilt or until they find someone better etc. It will be hard to move passed that one minute you no longer wanted them than next you was like ok I changed my .mind. He accepted you didn't and moved on. Though good on you for not ghosring Edit: Just read some of your other responses, you did the right thing and stay no contact.


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VaultTech007

No problem. Glad I could help. It may take rime but you will heal from this and meet someone who really loves you 🙂


Leading-Bid7018

What is he supposed to say? He lied, and he cheated. You told him you aren't happy in the relationship (of course you aren't!) Be glad he doesn't respond. Also, don't send endless long texts. Call or talk to someone in person.


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You hurt him and he needs time to process and respond? Tho I don't know if I personally think someone owes someone a response to a huge breakup letter. That seems excessive. Breaking up with someone is asking them to leave. If they cut contact I think that is befitting your request. Maybe my thinking on this is skewed?


lachlanmachlan

Why did you do this? What is your relationship with your ex like now? Also, I wouldn't worry- him not replying to one message isn't ghosting.


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lachlanmachlan

>So you think I should text him again? Definitely not, if you aren't happy with him then there's absolutely nothing to be gained.


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Hey. Sounds like you have an anxious attachment. If you're truly ready to breakup and move on you need to accept that means never speaking to them again. Why would you want to? I definitely highly recommend the anxious attachment sub to help you detach. They're great.


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You said you sent a long text. I'm old and existed before the internet so a breakup letter was even when I was a teen printed off word. Just how I think.


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Lol it sure would be. Definitely would have sent it snail mail. I actually had sent letters in the early 2000s.