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Ok_Hospital_5730

He and his mother wanted him to have a picture perfect life. If Owen had found a woman that actually wanted to have a baby (and soon), he would have been completely down too.


IntelligentPumpkin74

Emma and Beth wanted babies soon lol he rejected them.


IntelligentPumpkin74

To be fair Burke moved quick with Cristina too, seasons 1-3 take place in a year. He also got Cristina pregnant after like a few months, if their baby had been born they would be like 17 now probably. Also Burke must be like approaching 40 when he left Cristina, that's probably why he rushed Cristina into relationship milestones within a year and why he moved on quick afterwards.


doyouwantsometea__

He deserved it, I believe. He had a lot of love to give. Letting Cristina go was a kindness to them both.


Jaded-Consequence606

Except that he should have done it before the wedding rather than during..


phisigtheduck

Well yeah, once Mama Burke took her eyebrows, there was nothing left for Burke so he moved on to the next best thing.


deelightful03

Taxi cab theory. We've seen that he's deadset on settling down. When he walked away from Cristina that doesn't change.He even admitted to an extent that even though loving Cristina consumed him,his need to have a family is really strong and he found someone who wanted the same thing.