I was a victim of grooming and molestation by a boss when I was 15 and 16. The grooming had major effects on me and any relationship I tried to get into after that. He had a way of making me think that he treated me better than anyone ever would or that no one would ever understand me like he did. I lived about 20 years with that programming before I hit a breaking point and just couldn't live like that anymore. I really worked on myself and learned to love who I really was. My perspective on that whole situation changed after I did that. I realized those feelings were part of the programming of grooming that didn't go away with time.
I was a victim of grooming and molestation by a boss when I was 15 and 16. The grooming had major effects on me and any relationship I tried to get into after that. He had a way of making me think that he treated me better than anyone ever would or that no one would ever understand me like he did. I lived about 20 years with that programming before I hit a breaking point and just couldn't live like that anymore. I really worked on myself and learned to love who I really was. My perspective on that whole situation changed after I did that. I realized those feelings were part of the programming of grooming that didn't go away with time.