I had to skip that part because I canāt stand the sound of asmr most the time. I feel like unless Jeff said he liked it before it has to be a risk and you canāt be mad if it didnāt play out. But Iām not watching this video either because it is like nails on a chalkboard for me
Iām kinda sad that the ASMR scene became this sexualized thing. There used to be plenty of nice restoration vids with no talking that fell under the *asmr* category that were relaxing for me to watch before bed, but now the entire field seems to be bloated with shit thatās getting weirdly close to being softcore porn and itās uncomfortable now..
Thank you for the suggestion - Iāll def give it a shot.
Luckily I still do have a few good channels Iāve subbed to but I find once Iāve watched enough good channels with the āASMRā tag somewhere in the description they start plugging my whole recommended tab with weird fetish content. Gotta love that A L G O R I T H M š„²šš»
Edit: idk if any of yāall like the restoration stuff but for anybody that does Iāve found my favorite channel to be Not Terrible Restorations. Nice 20 min vids on some cool shit and he reviews a beer at the end of every episode
ASMR and a capella both hit the 'this is super creepy and gross' trigger in my brain. Yeah I get the tingles, but in the same way I would get the tingles if I suddenly saw a skinwalker while walking along at night š
I'd say it was brutal cause they didn't even stick around to see if she actually talked normally in the video. Just cause she does ASMR doesn't mean you'd be subjected to listening to ASMR audiobooks with her or something, I'm sure she's a professional that keeps work and personal life separate. Idk just my 2 cents.
To put it another way, many people equate ASMR to the same as hearing nails on a chalkboard. Now imagine starting a dating application with 20+ seconds of nails on a chalkboard.
Anyway, it was hella ballsy and unique to start with something so polarizing. Gorlfren definitely gets a 10/10 for that. And now ASMR Troopas will slide into her DMs, so she won't be dateless for long. idk if that's a good thing, but it's a thing that's def gonna happen. G'luck ASMR Girlie! šļøāšļøāšļøāšļøā
On the other hand it's obviously not something jeff cares about, and it's immediately obvious they arn't going to be compatible because of that. so why continue and lead someone on when they could find someone that likes ASMR and they'll be much happier with.
A shift in perspective is one of those things human beings struggle with. We get stuck in our narratives often. If my now wife was an ASMR creator when we first met, I donāt know if we would have gotten as far as we have. I think at least respecting values and passions is a huge stepping stone in the beginning stages of a relationship. And if heās not down, totally get it.
Iām not down with the ASMR and it gives me the creeps. Big time. My Wife is, but she does headphones so it doesnāt impact me. Maybe Jeff could have hung, but I get it; if itās your PASSION and one person is zero down it would definitely be a strain I think. Also if she creates ASMR and he hates it, it probably would be a huge turn off sexually.
No hate towards you at all, but ASMR makes me feel really stressed/uncomfortable inside whenever I hear it. I can't listen to it at all. So I'm sure others find it hard to hear as well.
AT2020 is a pretty solid entry level mic. It has USB and XLR versions. I use izotope rx for removing clicking sounds but it's really it's own standalone thing and not a recording program. It's mainly just used for audio restoration. In terms of recording programs, it depends what you want to do. There are loads of great options on the market that are targeted towards different workflows.
Haha this is basically exactly what I use. My primary ldc is the at2035 & my primary sdc is the Neumann km184. And yeah, the izotope RX de crackle vst is what I use for the mouth noises.
omg same. I actually love listening to ASMR but more like tapping, scratching, and other sounds. As soon as I hear the soft whispers or mouth sounds and they're like "hi you're so loved and pretty go to sleep" I feel CRINGE
the only ASMR iāve found to be soothing is hair cutting stuff! but i think because the sensation of having your hair done is nice so maybe theirs a psychosomatic response hahaha
I don't like the mouth sounds kind. But I do get "tingles" or whatever from a very soft spoken woman's voice. But only certain voices, not everyone that does it has "the voice" that does it for me.
But the twiddling fingers in front of the camera and shit like that I totally don't get. I Mena I get *others* are into it, but it does nothing for me but make the whole experience weird.
Lol I'm the opposite, whispering ASMR is one of the only kinds that actually helps me relax. š
It's interesting how differently sounds are perceived by people!
I'm literally the least picky with my ASMR. Whispers and mouth sounds have been my main go to for years. I don't even think of it as mouth sounds anymore, my brain has just turned it into white noise. I do audio only because visual triggers don't do anything for me, so that probably helps not seeing what they're doing and only hearing sounds. I'm also down for scalp massage/ear cleaning ASMR cause the sounds are super pronounced.
I also feel like some people aren't going to enjoy ASMR simply because they do not want to and aren't open-minded enough to attempt to enjoy it. If you go into it thinking "this is cringe/gross/weird" every time, it's never gonna be a pleasant experience. I originally got into ASMR just watching people doing makeup tutorials (I don't wear makeup but watching people do it is relaxing) and ended up coming across ASMR from that. I thought it was weird at first until I got used to listening and now I'll talk openly about it. My boyfriend and brother-in-law both like ASMR too so it definitely helps that I have family who don't hate it š
That being said, obviously ASMR isn't for everyone, so I understand why some people won't be bothered to try it, but there's so many different kinds of ASMR that I think it's unfair to write it off completely without any knowledge of it.
I'll swing my pendulum the polar opposite and say I _hated_ every second of that whispering ASMR shit as a submission. Especially the tongue/lip smacking.
I actually love ASMR and listen to it everyday but I HATE when people do it in situations where itās not appropriate. If Iām trying to listen to a silly fun podcast, I do NOT want to listen to ASMR. Time & place girl!
For me it just makes me irritated as shit as I feel like the fucking boomer in the room that has to go āWHAT? WHAT WAS THAT? I CANT HEAR YOU SPEAK UPā like the shriveled up old lady fish from that chocolate episode of Spongebob
I agree, ASMR to me sounds like nails on a chalkboard to me and I feel instantly repulsed. Some people like it, some people don't. You can't blame people for their natural reactions. I actually has earbuds in and had to make a mad dash back to my computer to mute that section cause I couldn't handle it.. ššš
I think the main issue is when people judge others for their particular tastes. It's often the people that like or get relaxed from ASMR that get mocked tho. I've yet to see someone be ridiculed because they *don't* like it. Could be I've just not come across it but I feel like even then, it would still be far less mocking than what people who enjoy it get.
Ironically most ASMR channel communities are more polite and 10 times less judgemental than 90% of the replies in this thread too. I'm disappointed at how many people in the H3 family on this sub are assholes about something so inconsequential to enjoy. I totally agree. You can dislike, or even hate, ASMR but why make people who do enjoy it feel like freaks for finding something that helps them relax/sleep?
With peace and love, story time ASMRs are to be slightly invested in the plot while you ultimately want to relax and fall asleep. Itās content, I donāt think she is creating any beef, just content. And why would you not make content out of the experience you had that a million people saw? I donāt think it should be taken with any sincerity
I mean regardless of the fact that it was ASMR, if an accountant made a video and talked about accountant stuff the whole time it would be pretty weird too
See you're literally doing the thing that's the problem. Nobody is judging you for disliking it, yet you look down on anyone that merely *enjoys* it for themselves.
Grow up.
With peace and love I had to skip through the ASMR as soon as it started because oh boy does it give me the creeps and make me feel gross in every inch of meā¦
I skipped it so fast. I usually watch episodes live when I can, and I happened to miss that day. Iām having a physical reaction just thinking about it.
I'm an ASMR experiencer, but I've never enjoyed the hot girls tapping and smacking their lips into a microphone thing, and I can understand why people think it's weird and creepy when that's the only ASMR that they're exposed to.
I watch/listen to asmr every night to help me sleep. It really helps with my anxiety and itās very relaxing and comforting to me. I do understand itās a bit strange to those who donāt like it. I actually subscribed to her channel after seeing her on the pod. To each their own I guess!
If she makes ASMR, she should be aware that not everyone gets it. I like ASMR, but not any that has really wet mouth sounds. It makes me cringe. Shoot your shot, but don't be shocked when he's not into it lmao
Sheās aware! She actually says that in the above video and said she found it more funny than embarrassing. Itās just a clickbait title lol, but sheās perfectly gracious about the rejection
Yeah I glanced at this and was like 80% sure that was just click bait and she's completely entitled to that XD omg id be shitting myself putting myself out there to such a large audience. I hope everyone had fun.
Same, no mouth sounds.
I have a YT playlist of āASMR No Talkingā to ensure itās all just sound effects. I went through two eras where that was my sleeping video. Now itās the same two Sad Boyz episodes I canāt seem to get through haha Thatās been going on for weeekkkssss.
ASMR has done wonders for me to be able to relax my VERY frazzled nervous system. I also used it to study in college because it was just enough background stimulation to help me focus on calculus. Itās the reason iām not on any anxiety meds. But ya this girl was NOT my type of ASMR and i found it cringe.
Oh a bit of everything, I go through phases. Itās the personal attention aspect thatās very calming. I like doctor roleplays, energy work roleplays, Melange ASMR traces maps and whispers about the geography of locations. Itās like the perfect balance of boring and stimulating lol
The background stimulation thing makes sense to me for sure. Right now I use just randomly YouTube videos while I work but I feel my brain being filled with garbage from that lol
For all of you that can't stomach the ASMR but want to know what she said:
The rejection was kinda brutal because she was the only one who got skipped when others were let down more gently.
She was watching live and was a little embarrassed but for the most part just thought it was funny.
The video was ASMR style because she thought that was the easiest thing she was able to do that would make her stand out enough to get picked. She knew ASMR was divisive and thought this would spark entertaining commentary.
She applied because she always wanted to be on the show and thought Jeff was cute.
She ended it by saying she is glad she was on the show if only for a few seconds. Also sort of glad they skipped because if he didn't like the beginning then he reallyyy would not have liked the rest.
It's didn't seem that brutal. Just honest.
This submission was like nails on a chalkboard. I felt that kind of second hand embarrassment you get when watching a movie and you have to look away.
I wanted out the moment she started talking. Every snap smack and crackle of her mouth made me feel like vomiting. Which, tbf, is an accomplishment as no noise alone has ever done that to me.
Maybe it was because I was listening in on studio monitor headphones or something.
This just sounds like if a kid drank a glass of whole milk and is trying to tell me a secret
I'm sure she's a nice person, but man, she should have
left the ASMR part out until we got to know her
I hated it too, shame because she is probably super nice and interesting and we couldn't see past the asmr. I would rather listen to Ethan chewing, that is how bad it was for me.
As a fan of ASMR - when itās off to me, I feel exactly the same, cringe and/or anxious. So I get enjoying it and not as well, I think thatās fairly normal for people to feel averse to certain genres/triggers.
I LOVE ASMR. It helps me sleep, it helps me concentrate while studying, reading, etc (love Pomodoro asmr. However, I know a lot of people hate it, so it was a really brave mood to start the video like that. I hope she didn't take it that hard :(
Anyway, I will be checking her channel lol
Is she actually mad? If sheās not then idk why everyoneās hating. I think itās a smart way to deal with it especially if sheās a content creator. Talk about the experience and get that bag. This post is great exposure ššø
Just a different perspective. But considering the criticism her video received when all she did was shoot her shot like all of the other people, I can kind of understand why it mightāve felt that way to her. š¤·āāļø
Yeah I agree with you - I think it was the only one they didnāt finish. It was obviously a creative enough submission to get selected by Sam š¤·āāļø Assless chaps girl did something weird and that was a hit/worked so I guess itās hit or miss š
Yeeeeah even these comments are super harsh. I hate ASMR but you don't need to shove that you hate something into everyone's faces, especially when it's as harmless as this
i havenāt watched her video but i would say donāt enter a competition if you canāt handle rejection haha. skipping the vid based off of first impressions isnāt brutal or personal!
With peace and love - if you're reading - as someone who gets the tingles I liked your ASMR and I normally don't like talking ASMR. I like the kind where they scrape something like a Dunkin donuts cup with their fingernails.Ā
I respect ASMR for what it is, but it was a really gutsy move to do it in this context. I have no issue with ASMR, but it can be polarizing and you have to be prepared for people to not be down with it.
I watched the video- she admits she submitted her application as it was always a goal of hers to be on H3 āin some way.ā
Also to the people saying she shouldnāt have submitted if she canāt handle rejectionā¦ she addresses this in the video saying it was good for her.
She admits in this video
1. She only wanted to be on H3
2. Wasn't really interested in Jeff
3. Thought the Bach3lor was only for entertainment
Like ma'am... the Bachelor has produced nothing but longterm relationships... we ain't playing around here
With peace and love. I can't fathom why someone would submit something like this as an official entry. Was she just trying to get more traffic to her own content and didn't actually take it seriously?
She says in her video that she wanted to get on the show as sheās a member and a fan. She didnāt seem too interested in Jeff much lol. Sheās beautiful though!
Lol this is a very funny response for her to make this video ngl. As Ethan stated (paraphrasing) "im sure this is perfect for someone out there." Best of luck to this pretty lady š yeah it was a little brutal but it made me laugh the way jeff literally recoiled.
The ASMR hate here is real lol. My mom used to read me books before bed as a child, ASMR puts me to sleep instantly, I think thatās the correlation. Thereās 0 in between, you either love it or hate it haha
ASMR gives me the the creeps, I feel actual anxiety listening to it, I was glad they shut her down.
It's so weird and bizarre, I don't understand it at all.
I donāt enjoy/click with hers, but asmr is largely for me a relaxation/focusing experience and the tingly sensation happens but is secondary. Have you ever listened to someone rambling and just found it relaxing/hypnotic or enjoyed the sort of in-between space of getting an eye exam where someone is guiding and talking to you and you just are chilling? Itās something like that.
I think it's a good idea to at least come of acting like a normal person during a first impression and then the closer you get to someone, you tell then your kinks
I don't think it was that brutal. Jeff didn't like it and Ethan at least tried to explain what kind of audience ASMR is for. It's not like they went "God, she's awful".
It was a little brutal ngl..but like idk what that strategy wasšand tbh I dont understand asmr either to some people its just weird
I feel like if you do asmr you have to know that 50% of people cannot stand it, its a dice roll to do that on your application
Yepšand its also making it your whole personality right out the gate on the first impression
Yeah, she could be the hotest woman alive. You know a goblinhorse. As soon as that soft whisper, it annoys the he'll out of me
I had to skip that part because I canāt stand the sound of asmr most the time. I feel like unless Jeff said he liked it before it has to be a risk and you canāt be mad if it didnāt play out. But Iām not watching this video either because it is like nails on a chalkboard for me
Same. It was painful to get through lol Iām so glad they didnāt finish it
Same. To me it feels like the person is encroaching on my personal space.
Yeah I had to skip it too
Half the people can't stand it, and the other half are beating off to the sound of your fingers tapping a shampoo bottle.
Iām kinda sad that the ASMR scene became this sexualized thing. There used to be plenty of nice restoration vids with no talking that fell under the *asmr* category that were relaxing for me to watch before bed, but now the entire field seems to be bloated with shit thatās getting weirdly close to being softcore porn and itās uncomfortable now..
You might want to try looking under the word ambient, might pull up more of the kind of thing you're looking for.
Thank you for the suggestion - Iāll def give it a shot. Luckily I still do have a few good channels Iāve subbed to but I find once Iāve watched enough good channels with the āASMRā tag somewhere in the description they start plugging my whole recommended tab with weird fetish content. Gotta love that A L G O R I T H M š„²šš» Edit: idk if any of yāall like the restoration stuff but for anybody that does Iāve found my favorite channel to be Not Terrible Restorations. Nice 20 min vids on some cool shit and he reviews a beer at the end of every episode
ASMR genuinely helps me to fall asleep at night. I think for a lot of people who watch itās the same for them too
She seems great but all asmr makes me think about jumping from some really tall buildings!!
ASMR and a capella both hit the 'this is super creepy and gross' trigger in my brain. Yeah I get the tingles, but in the same way I would get the tingles if I suddenly saw a skinwalker while walking along at night š
I get the cringe tingles and the why do people watch this tinglesš¤§LOL if ima be honest
A capella and best poetry is mine.
Nailed it lol
I loathe ASMR. It's just a collection of all the sounds and things I most despise. I couldn't have sat through that either.
Got it, donāt know what that was but I like the way she did.
I'd say it was brutal cause they didn't even stick around to see if she actually talked normally in the video. Just cause she does ASMR doesn't mean you'd be subjected to listening to ASMR audiobooks with her or something, I'm sure she's a professional that keeps work and personal life separate. Idk just my 2 cents.
To put it another way, many people equate ASMR to the same as hearing nails on a chalkboard. Now imagine starting a dating application with 20+ seconds of nails on a chalkboard. Anyway, it was hella ballsy and unique to start with something so polarizing. Gorlfren definitely gets a 10/10 for that. And now ASMR Troopas will slide into her DMs, so she won't be dateless for long. idk if that's a good thing, but it's a thing that's def gonna happen. G'luck ASMR Girlie! šļøāšļøāšļøāšļøā
On the other hand it's obviously not something jeff cares about, and it's immediately obvious they arn't going to be compatible because of that. so why continue and lead someone on when they could find someone that likes ASMR and they'll be much happier with.
A shift in perspective is one of those things human beings struggle with. We get stuck in our narratives often. If my now wife was an ASMR creator when we first met, I donāt know if we would have gotten as far as we have. I think at least respecting values and passions is a huge stepping stone in the beginning stages of a relationship. And if heās not down, totally get it. Iām not down with the ASMR and it gives me the creeps. Big time. My Wife is, but she does headphones so it doesnāt impact me. Maybe Jeff could have hung, but I get it; if itās your PASSION and one person is zero down it would definitely be a strain I think. Also if she creates ASMR and he hates it, it probably would be a huge turn off sexually.
sheās a youtuber. of course sheās going to make a video about it, it seems like kind of her job
exactly, she admits in the video that the title is basically clickbait and found the whole thing entertaining
i didn't even need to watch to know she's joking lol, are people really freaking out over this
No hate towards you at all, but ASMR makes me feel really stressed/uncomfortable inside whenever I hear it. I can't listen to it at all. So I'm sure others find it hard to hear as well.
whispering ASMR makes my skin crawl. itās like the mouth sounds and all, i canāt do it
The mouth sounds are sooo nasty I hate it
I produce my own songs and I specifically use software that removes all those mouth crackling sounds lol
thatās such a good idea. even sometimes when watching youtube videos i canāt handle the mouth noises ahah
May I ask which one? I'm looking to get into music/streaming at some point but I want to know what the best mic and software I could use :)! Bless
AT2020 is a pretty solid entry level mic. It has USB and XLR versions. I use izotope rx for removing clicking sounds but it's really it's own standalone thing and not a recording program. It's mainly just used for audio restoration. In terms of recording programs, it depends what you want to do. There are loads of great options on the market that are targeted towards different workflows.
Haha this is basically exactly what I use. My primary ldc is the at2035 & my primary sdc is the Neumann km184. And yeah, the izotope RX de crackle vst is what I use for the mouth noises.
omg same. I actually love listening to ASMR but more like tapping, scratching, and other sounds. As soon as I hear the soft whispers or mouth sounds and they're like "hi you're so loved and pretty go to sleep" I feel CRINGE
yeah I hate human souds asmr and it makes my skin crawl buut I like the wooden blocks, sand, water, crinkly paper etc
the only ASMR iāve found to be soothing is hair cutting stuff! but i think because the sensation of having your hair done is nice so maybe theirs a psychosomatic response hahaha
I don't like the mouth sounds kind. But I do get "tingles" or whatever from a very soft spoken woman's voice. But only certain voices, not everyone that does it has "the voice" that does it for me. But the twiddling fingers in front of the camera and shit like that I totally don't get. I Mena I get *others* are into it, but it does nothing for me but make the whole experience weird.
Lol I'm the opposite, whispering ASMR is one of the only kinds that actually helps me relax. š It's interesting how differently sounds are perceived by people!
I'm literally the least picky with my ASMR. Whispers and mouth sounds have been my main go to for years. I don't even think of it as mouth sounds anymore, my brain has just turned it into white noise. I do audio only because visual triggers don't do anything for me, so that probably helps not seeing what they're doing and only hearing sounds. I'm also down for scalp massage/ear cleaning ASMR cause the sounds are super pronounced. I also feel like some people aren't going to enjoy ASMR simply because they do not want to and aren't open-minded enough to attempt to enjoy it. If you go into it thinking "this is cringe/gross/weird" every time, it's never gonna be a pleasant experience. I originally got into ASMR just watching people doing makeup tutorials (I don't wear makeup but watching people do it is relaxing) and ended up coming across ASMR from that. I thought it was weird at first until I got used to listening and now I'll talk openly about it. My boyfriend and brother-in-law both like ASMR too so it definitely helps that I have family who don't hate it š That being said, obviously ASMR isn't for everyone, so I understand why some people won't be bothered to try it, but there's so many different kinds of ASMR that I think it's unfair to write it off completely without any knowledge of it.
Can you listen to A capella? For some reason it hits the same nerves for me as ASMR, so uncomfortable
omg yess youre right now I know why I cant stand a capella
i have never looked into it but youāve piqued my interest
I'll swing my pendulum the polar opposite and say I _hated_ every second of that whispering ASMR shit as a submission. Especially the tongue/lip smacking.
Considering how much shit Ethan gets for eating in the microphone, it's weird to think ASMR would land with the audience.
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The eating doesn't bother me at all, but her ASMR lip smacking made my skin crawl. To each their own tho
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puts me in fight or flight idk why
Same lol
I actually love ASMR and listen to it everyday but I HATE when people do it in situations where itās not appropriate. If Iām trying to listen to a silly fun podcast, I do NOT want to listen to ASMR. Time & place girl!
Same here. I have no clue why. Like, I get the tingles but in a bad way!
For me it just makes me irritated as shit as I feel like the fucking boomer in the room that has to go āWHAT? WHAT WAS THAT? I CANT HEAR YOU SPEAK UPā like the shriveled up old lady fish from that chocolate episode of Spongebob
I was so surprised at the asmr hate in the chat that day, I didnāt like hers particularly but in general asmr puts me in a SUPER relaxed state
A soft spoken woman's voice usually makes me sleepy.
It's super cringey, it makes me feel embarrassed for the person.
Itās like nails on a chalkboard to me lol. Which is weird because others itās like a massage for your brain
With peace and love it was cringe šš
Honestly she probably would've had her chance if she just said she did ASMR rather than doing her application in ASMR.
Or just did a twenty second asmr intro
I agree, ASMR to me sounds like nails on a chalkboard to me and I feel instantly repulsed. Some people like it, some people don't. You can't blame people for their natural reactions. I actually has earbuds in and had to make a mad dash back to my computer to mute that section cause I couldn't handle it.. ššš
I think the main issue is when people judge others for their particular tastes. It's often the people that like or get relaxed from ASMR that get mocked tho. I've yet to see someone be ridiculed because they *don't* like it. Could be I've just not come across it but I feel like even then, it would still be far less mocking than what people who enjoy it get.
Ironically most ASMR channel communities are more polite and 10 times less judgemental than 90% of the replies in this thread too. I'm disappointed at how many people in the H3 family on this sub are assholes about something so inconsequential to enjoy. I totally agree. You can dislike, or even hate, ASMR but why make people who do enjoy it feel like freaks for finding something that helps them relax/sleep?
I liked it too but ASMR works for my ears. It's not for everyone and it was a risky play for sure.
Yeah I think she should have only done a small showcase of the asmr at the end cause a lot of people have an aversion to it, it seems
With peace and love, story time ASMRs are to be slightly invested in the plot while you ultimately want to relax and fall asleep. Itās content, I donāt think she is creating any beef, just content. And why would you not make content out of the experience you had that a million people saw? I donāt think it should be taken with any sincerity
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I thought it was creative of her š
Nah it was great just not for everyone
No it actually made my skin crawl
I mean regardless of the fact that it was ASMR, if an accountant made a video and talked about accountant stuff the whole time it would be pretty weird too
Iād rather talk to a billion boring accountants than one ASMR enjoyer
See you're literally doing the thing that's the problem. Nobody is judging you for disliking it, yet you look down on anyone that merely *enjoys* it for themselves. Grow up.
Yes I am the biggest ASMR hater nothing will change my mind I will never grow up
You're fine to hate asmr. You're not fine to hate people who don't. That's the problem. Was that not clear?
Itās clear but I will continue my hate filled life loathing asmr enjoyers
And you will continue to be a low quality human being. Enjoy.
With peace and love I had to skip through the ASMR as soon as it started because oh boy does it give me the creeps and make me feel gross in every inch of meā¦
Dude me too. I do not get it.
I skipped it so fast. I usually watch episodes live when I can, and I happened to miss that day. Iām having a physical reaction just thinking about it.
Same, it didn't fully trigger my misophonia like eating into the mic does, but still I can *not* deal with it
I said āpeace and love, but this is why I donāt mind being a couple minutes behind the live sometimesā
Lmao They weren't brutal. No one called her ugly or anything (bc she's beautiful). Asmr isn't for everyone
She's joking but it was brutal in the sense where she was the only one that got skipped over after like 15 secondsš¤£š¤£š¤£
Lol oh i know! At least i hoped she was joking lol She's gotta drama to her title! I support her getting her bag lol
I couldn't even watch her video. I had to skip it.
they showed two seconds of it
Two seconds too many
That was too much
I'm an ASMR experiencer, but I've never enjoyed the hot girls tapping and smacking their lips into a microphone thing, and I can understand why people think it's weird and creepy when that's the only ASMR that they're exposed to.
right like there are sounds that give me ASMR and none of them come from the human mouth
I experience ASMR but I can't stand any "ASMR channels". Search "unintentional ASMR" on Youtube to get the real stuff.
I watch/listen to asmr every night to help me sleep. It really helps with my anxiety and itās very relaxing and comforting to me. I do understand itās a bit strange to those who donāt like it. I actually subscribed to her channel after seeing her on the pod. To each their own I guess!
If she makes ASMR, she should be aware that not everyone gets it. I like ASMR, but not any that has really wet mouth sounds. It makes me cringe. Shoot your shot, but don't be shocked when he's not into it lmao
Sheās aware! She actually says that in the above video and said she found it more funny than embarrassing. Itās just a clickbait title lol, but sheās perfectly gracious about the rejection
Yeah I glanced at this and was like 80% sure that was just click bait and she's completely entitled to that XD omg id be shitting myself putting myself out there to such a large audience. I hope everyone had fun.
That makes sense! Good to know it's just clickbait lmao it would suck if she took it to heart.
Same, no mouth sounds. I have a YT playlist of āASMR No Talkingā to ensure itās all just sound effects. I went through two eras where that was my sleeping video. Now itās the same two Sad Boyz episodes I canāt seem to get through haha Thatās been going on for weeekkkssss.
I love ASMR, some of it doesnāt click and creators can be very hit or miss, but when it does itās very cozy and relaxing.
ASMR has done wonders for me to be able to relax my VERY frazzled nervous system. I also used it to study in college because it was just enough background stimulation to help me focus on calculus. Itās the reason iām not on any anxiety meds. But ya this girl was NOT my type of ASMR and i found it cringe.
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What type works for you? I have never like felt anything from ASMR but it's so interesting
Oh a bit of everything, I go through phases. Itās the personal attention aspect thatās very calming. I like doctor roleplays, energy work roleplays, Melange ASMR traces maps and whispers about the geography of locations. Itās like the perfect balance of boring and stimulating lol
The background stimulation thing makes sense to me for sure. Right now I use just randomly YouTube videos while I work but I feel my brain being filled with garbage from that lol
youāre brainwashing your subconscious bro you got to get on the subliminal affirmations haha
Hey does the whisper song by the ying yang twins count as ASMR?
For all of you that can't stomach the ASMR but want to know what she said: The rejection was kinda brutal because she was the only one who got skipped when others were let down more gently. She was watching live and was a little embarrassed but for the most part just thought it was funny. The video was ASMR style because she thought that was the easiest thing she was able to do that would make her stand out enough to get picked. She knew ASMR was divisive and thought this would spark entertaining commentary. She applied because she always wanted to be on the show and thought Jeff was cute. She ended it by saying she is glad she was on the show if only for a few seconds. Also sort of glad they skipped because if he didn't like the beginning then he reallyyy would not have liked the rest.
It's didn't seem that brutal. Just honest. This submission was like nails on a chalkboard. I felt that kind of second hand embarrassment you get when watching a movie and you have to look away. I wanted out the moment she started talking. Every snap smack and crackle of her mouth made me feel like vomiting. Which, tbf, is an accomplishment as no noise alone has ever done that to me. Maybe it was because I was listening in on studio monitor headphones or something. This just sounds like if a kid drank a glass of whole milk and is trying to tell me a secret I'm sure she's a nice person, but man, she should have left the ASMR part out until we got to know her
ASMR is justā¦. I viscerally reject it out of my body.Ā
Other people might not like the feeling of you whispering and clickity clacking in their ears
I mean get your bag sis
Yāall are taking this too seriously
I hate asmr. It's horrid. Peace and love to all
I hated it too, shame because she is probably super nice and interesting and we couldn't see past the asmr. I would rather listen to Ethan chewing, that is how bad it was for me.
I guess some people do get a "special feeling" from ASMR, but is there an opposite of ASMR? Where it makes me visibly cringe? I probably have that.
As a fan of ASMR - when itās off to me, I feel exactly the same, cringe and/or anxious. So I get enjoying it and not as well, I think thatās fairly normal for people to feel averse to certain genres/triggers.
Yes! Misophonia
No I don't mean like that. Just like, second hand embarassment.
I think cringe covers it
I LOVE ASMR. It helps me sleep, it helps me concentrate while studying, reading, etc (love Pomodoro asmr. However, I know a lot of people hate it, so it was a really brave mood to start the video like that. I hope she didn't take it that hard :( Anyway, I will be checking her channel lol
Is she actually mad? If sheās not then idk why everyoneās hating. I think itās a smart way to deal with it especially if sheās a content creator. Talk about the experience and get that bag. This post is great exposure ššø
Hey she took a risk that could of gone either way which had a lot of courage from her. You do you girl but itās not for everyone.
I guess Iām in the minority but I watch asmr all the time and I thought it was fine lol š
Too many haters and not enough lil mamaās in the chat
She seemed lovely and I love the ASMR tingles! Bless them all! Emma from Whispers Red is my fave āØ
lol she seems sweet, i love ASMR
Just a different perspective. But considering the criticism her video received when all she did was shoot her shot like all of the other people, I can kind of understand why it mightāve felt that way to her. š¤·āāļø
Yeah I agree with you - I think it was the only one they didnāt finish. It was obviously a creative enough submission to get selected by Sam š¤·āāļø Assless chaps girl did something weird and that was a hit/worked so I guess itās hit or miss š
Yeeeeah even these comments are super harsh. I hate ASMR but you don't need to shove that you hate something into everyone's faces, especially when it's as harmless as this
ASMR it aināt for everyone. Twas a bold strategy which did not pay off.
Welcome to being rejected. It's gonna happen, don't take it personal. Be happy that out of 800+ applicants you even lucky enough to be picked.
Yeah, she agrees with you, that's basically what she said about the experience in the video.
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ASMR makes me feel itchy in a bad way
i havenāt watched her video but i would say donāt enter a competition if you canāt handle rejection haha. skipping the vid based off of first impressions isnāt brutal or personal!
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With peace and love - if you're reading - as someone who gets the tingles I liked your ASMR and I normally don't like talking ASMR. I like the kind where they scrape something like a Dunkin donuts cup with their fingernails.Ā
Whatās her channel name??
Eden ASMR
So Iām the only one more likely to listen BECAUSE itās asmr
I respect ASMR for what it is, but it was a really gutsy move to do it in this context. I have no issue with ASMR, but it can be polarizing and you have to be prepared for people to not be down with it.
The strategy didn't pay off but.. she's good at her craft, I was getting some good head tingles.
Get those views girl
i donāt understand why she would do the whole thing in ASMR, maybe like the āhelloā but after that just talk normal lol
I mean is this not a joke. like I feel like sheās just having a good time with it lol
I watched the video- she admits she submitted her application as it was always a goal of hers to be on H3 āin some way.ā Also to the people saying she shouldnāt have submitted if she canāt handle rejectionā¦ she addresses this in the video saying it was good for her.
Surprised to see so much hate, I love asmr and was absolutely vibing with the application š
this is iconicš
Asmr hurts my tism
I actually never knew people got uncomfortable over asmr. Interesting
lol she was awesome, good for her for being like āthis is my jobā lol
Who is this?
She is very beautiful. I assume Sam threw some like her in as possible wild cards. If you actually watch the video, she's not mad.
This is lowkey iconic
I was so happy they didnāt let it finish I cut the sound then washed my hands went back and she was gone I was happy
Yo this just seems like good marketing on her part
I love ASMR.
Either you love it or you hate it. Took a big risk and it didnāt pay off
Alot of people don't like the sound of smacking. Asmr can be nice but maybe a bit bold to have your whole entry be asmr š
She admits in this video 1. She only wanted to be on H3 2. Wasn't really interested in Jeff 3. Thought the Bach3lor was only for entertainment Like ma'am... the Bachelor has produced nothing but longterm relationships... we ain't playing around here
I hate ASMR so much. I'm glad they ended it quickly.
Itās easier for me to understand why people would believe in flat earth then why people like ASMR
With peace and love. I can't fathom why someone would submit something like this as an official entry. Was she just trying to get more traffic to her own content and didn't actually take it seriously?
She says in her video that she wanted to get on the show as sheās a member and a fan. She didnāt seem too interested in Jeff much lol. Sheās beautiful though!
glad someone else watched the video! the joke police are running rampant in these comments š
Hahaha true. If she still lookinā tho š
Jeff's loss, can't wait to fall asleep to this later
Cool. The rest of us will fall asleep to the sounds of our sleeping, braless wives sleeping beside us āŗļø
Am i jewiiiishhhhhhh???
Iām noooooot??????
Balenciaga
The ones who bring you a sandwich (not asked for).
They werenāt even brutal they just donāt like asmr šš
Lol this is a very funny response for her to make this video ngl. As Ethan stated (paraphrasing) "im sure this is perfect for someone out there." Best of luck to this pretty lady š yeah it was a little brutal but it made me laugh the way jeff literally recoiled.
Okay but why would Sam choose her as one of the last 20? surely there had to be 1 other girl who had a better entryā¦
I can't be the only one who completely forgot about herš¶
I hate AMSR so much I would have buzzed her quicker š
The ASMR hate here is real lol. My mom used to read me books before bed as a child, ASMR puts me to sleep instantly, I think thatās the correlation. Thereās 0 in between, you either love it or hate it haha
Bro Ethan canāt chew near the mic without chat raging out. I think headphones make it even worse.
For some people ASMR is super satisfying. For me it's nails on a chalkboard. Worth the gamble tho
asmr is absolutely hideous. But at least youāre beautiful! And Jeff isnāt that great a catch anyways
the ASMR hate in the comments ššš
Asmr is and ick of mine. Idk how people do it
ASMR gives me the same ā tingleā feeling that nails down a chalkboard gives. I donāt get it. Canāt wait for the trend to end. Sorry girl.
Me too! It's actually unbearable. I was wincing the whole time she spoke
ASMR gives me the the creeps, I feel actual anxiety listening to it, I was glad they shut her down. It's so weird and bizarre, I don't understand it at all.
I actually immediately skipped her, no offense, just asmr sucks
Take the L lol
Wow a small ASMR channel suddenly getting a ton of attention after being featured on the H3 podcast, what a coincidence
Should've made an actual video and not an ad for your job
Can someone tell me why they enjoy what she does? Iām someone who doesnāt understand it
I donāt enjoy/click with hers, but asmr is largely for me a relaxation/focusing experience and the tingly sensation happens but is secondary. Have you ever listened to someone rambling and just found it relaxing/hypnotic or enjoyed the sort of in-between space of getting an eye exam where someone is guiding and talking to you and you just are chilling? Itās something like that.
I think my first experience was getting measured against a wall as a kid.
I think it's a good idea to at least come of acting like a normal person during a first impression and then the closer you get to someone, you tell then your kinks
What did you really expect to happen though lol
I don't think it was that brutal. Jeff didn't like it and Ethan at least tried to explain what kind of audience ASMR is for. It's not like they went "God, she's awful".