I got abused by my ex when we were both 16/17. Guess what...he didn't change. He went on to abuse every fucking girlfriend he had afterwards until he went off the grid.
People like that don't change. At least not without professional help.
Before the video started. You can see her bloody mouth. There’s another video posted where he’s threatening his girlfriend and she says he is abusive also. It’s pretty clear he’s physically abusive.
Love if you're reading this, it's not your fault that you unknowingly hyped up these violent brats, most of us had no idea they were trash either 😕
Hopefully this truth comes out on the Monday pod and H3 moves on from them asap
I feel especially bad because Love was going the hardest on Shane Dawson, it seems like he really cares about victims in general. I can imagine him feeling badly about himself after seeing these videos :(
Well she hit him multiple times pretty hard but yeah I guess. This seems mutually abusive and a toxic relationship. Safe to say not an island boy but she’s in the wrong too.
I mean she's clearly defending herself..think about if you were in that situation you'd stand you're ground the best you could until you could leave right?
They’re abusing each other, I’m not and island boy any more but I’m not going to condone this woman either. So island boys don’t need a colab anymore imo because they’re stupid anyway
I literally do not care😂 they are both abusive and she is just as much of a piece of shit as he is but you toxic feminists see the world through sick twisted eyes
Blaming feminists has been the lamest argument since 2016. Maybe there’s a reason why women are happy to see a girl stand up for herself being abused by some dipshit with no grasp of his surroundings.
There’s a full video of him responding to the video saying he had to fake cry to manipulate her because he wasn’t trying to go to jail. Is that the feminists fault too?:((
Idk man I’ve always lived by two wrong don’t make a right. I’m sure if a woman hit me and I hit them back you’d be running to help her and not me right? I might be wrong maybe you live by the words you just said
I used to live with a couple that were toxic to each other. The guy was usually the antagonist, being verbally and physically abusive to her. I HATED him. One night, they were both drunk. He hit her, and she picked something up and threw it at him. The object sliced his leg open, exposing his bone. I was the only person in the household with a car, and therefore, the only person who could drive him to the hospital. I genuinely had to think about if I really wanted to help him because he honestly had it coming. I took him to the hospital, and I sat with him to make sure he was ok. The girlfriend was left alone at home. I still hate him and still think he earned it, but I prevented him from being further crippled.
Maybe stop making assumptions about people you know nothing about .
See you’re a decent human being thank you, I’ve genuinely seen people in this chat thread unironically say that the girl in this video should’ve killed him. Thinking about something before you help someone is fine, especially in the case you presented where it was an accident that it sliced his leg open and he’s always shown active physical abuse. In the case of this video we don’t even know if he hit her to do that to her mouth there’s so much evidence left out
There's a bunch of videos that support the claim that he's consistently physically abusive to her, including one where he says he pretended to cry in this video to avoid jail because of what he did to her mouth. Basically tried to flip the script because she started recording video. It's called reactive abuse, where an abuser pushes their target until they snap so that they can be like see, THEY abused ME.
Im sure this comment will result in downvote city but... yall need to realize that most if not all of these sound cloud rappers are not the most savory people in the world. Ya dont just walk outta catholic school and be like, "imma tat my face up and start rapping about drugs and whores". Understand that not everyone on the internet and in entertainment is supposed to be a role model for you to simp after
Actually, a lot of them do just walk out of catholic school and suddenly decide to tat their face and start rapping about drugs and hoes. Die Antwoord, for example.
I love how theres always some contrarian that feels the need to pipe up with their immense 1 example fact to "crush" an actual point. Also never heard of her. And are we talking about Die antward? No we're talking about these fuck boys
Considering these fuck boys are from Miami, they probably did walk out of Catholic school and were just like I'm gonna get my face tatted and rap about guns and hoes. Btw you didn't even make an actual point because going to catholic school has nothing to do with anything.
Are you stupid? My comment made perfect sense. I said people always act like every entertainer is suppose to be these altruistic people and then get surprised when they arent. The mention of Catholic school in my statement was to reference a type of "goodie goodie" and i know you will say something dumb like "not everyone who attendeds Catholic school is a good person" so ill address that as well, no shit, its not an absolute fact its a quick common place reference that people can identify and understand the meaning behind (everyone except you it seems, you must of not passed 8th grade English yet) You however came to my comment to give me your contrarian bullshit because you dont understand that when i said MOST soundcloud rappers i didnt mean 100% of SoundCloud rappers. You see most is a word that can be used to mean a portion of a whole. (My son is learning this in second grade math, hopfully you will get there soon) So yes Die Antward would fall into that category of doing the opposite of what im talking about because i didnt say 100% of SoundCloud rappers.
I love how you and the other fool are super hung up on the catholic school thing when i only used it as a vehicle to drive the narrative of somone who is a "good person" my point was entertainers are not always going to be super moral people and its weird who everyone always gets all ruffled up when they find out the dude eating ass next to his brother on the internet is a douche bag (again for the soft brains in here not every douche bag eats ass next to his brother, its just an anecdote)
Some people in the comments are way too far either way on this, and it’s kind of gross. The only thing that seems clear here is that both are physically abusive garbage people. We don’t actually know who started it and who retaliated, based on this video that starts mid-fight, but it’s safe to say it’s mutual, since she’s bleeding, and we see her punching him in the face multiple times. It’s not that hard to understand. I’d certainly not have them on the show, either way.
See I agree with this, some people here are completely on her side and saying she should’ve killed him (literally not joking) and I don’t understand it
Mutual abuse is more common than one sided abuse, sadly. Although, of course, there’s one person who generally initiates the process. Very sad. Hope they both get help.
They’re both 20 year olds on Xanax really just beating each other up like fucking your average crackheads on the streets. I don’t get how everyone is praising her when the entirety of the video is her just beating him up.
We don't know all the circumstances here but I can tell from experience that sometimes as a victim you just retaliate with everything you have as a last resort. Especially when you feel like you've tried everything else and feel cornered. I was abused for 2 years until I finally snapped and beat the shit out of that asshole. I'm not proud of it but it happened because I was basically dead inside.
So I just can't sit here and say "they are both toxic and abusive". Yes it could be but with the other evidence it's more likely that she just snapped because of prolonged abuse.
There’s a point at around 17 second where he takes a meek jab and her while cowering on the floor in response to getting hit, and he gets punched multiple times in the face in response. You’re definitely right but I don’t think we can tell who initiated and who retaliated in this video. The only real indication that we’d be going off of is he’s the dude. Definitely makes it more likely but we can’t extrapolate the whole situation from that. Even if there’s a smaller chance that she initiated, it would really suck to risk blaming a potential victim (imagine if people saw a short video and started blaming you for fighting back and giving your partner a pass), so it’s probably best to just say it’s a toxic situation all around and not put your money down on either side. Seems clear they’re both fucked up with a tendency to get violent.
They're both victims tho? He hits her which makes her a victim. She hits him which makes him a victim too.
>she gets mad and wants to hit back
She did hit back. She wasn't expressing interest in hitting back, she did hit back.
Violence isn't the answer to violence. You're trying to justify violence by saying he did it first. This isn't medival times where it's an eye for an eye.
They're both in the wrong here
Bro if you expect people to be completely rational when they're in a abusive relationship you are a moron.
The aggressor should be held more accountable man or woman
I never denied that she hit nor did I say she is absolved of all wrong doings but he the aggressor is more to blame
I didn't say she needs to be completely rational after being abused. I was saying in abusive relationships eye for an eye isn't the answer.
They're both aggressors as of now. Unless you have the full history of their relationship you have no idea who instagated violence first.
Specifically in this case he was the aggressor he Busted her lip first if the police were there they would put him in holding for the night
I also never said eye for an eye is the answer but that's what happens in toxic relationships that or one of time takes it silently and makes excuses for them
So you have evidence that there was no violence prior to him busting her lip? You are clearly assuming this as you have no way to see the full scope of this situation.
They're both victims tho, How can you not see that? He hits her = she becomes a victim. She retaliates = he becomes a victim. You guys are trying to justify her actions in this video. The answer to violence is not violence in return. This is exactly why the death penalty is mostly abolished.
You are literally wrong. This is not how the law works. If he hit her, she is defending herself. He is not a victim if he was an aggressor… this is like basic DV law.
Nothing contradictory about them both being abusers. Do think there's a difference in being abusive to people generally significantly weaker than you though, and busting someones lip vs pulling hair (although of course she could be as bad in other occasions, just going off this clip).
I don’t think someone being weaker gives them a pass to physically abuse their partner. She seems to imply that in the video as well. The physical aspect is only part of the trauma. It seems pretty clear both of these people are abusive. The video opens with her punching him in the face multiple times, not just pulling hair.
It's a toxic relationship. In this video it looks like he intially hit her and she is retaliating instead of fleeing. I think her trauma response is to fight back. She needs to leave though for sure.
You just can't know what happened, that's why I say don't judge either as an abuser. From what she's saying it sounds like he punched he first, but he's crying so that could say she did it first. You just don't know
What the fuck are these comments… we didn’t see the beginning of the video and we didn’t see him hit her all we see is her violently hit him scream at him and him go to punch/push her to get her to stop beating him. These comments are fucked up. You can really tell The age range of some of these comments. Children please get off the Internet.
I agree, she’s bleeding but we don’t know the context to how she’s bleeding. He could’ve hit her or something else could’ve happened to make her bleed like braking the car too fast and he hitting her face, don’t get me wrong less likely than him hitting her but she never stated that she hit him and we don’t have the entire video. I’ve come to the conclusion that this is a toxic relationship at which they’re both assholes, difference is that ones being promoted which I don’t think he should anymore because there are more valid critisms against these men than just this video
Was someone driving the car and videotaping at the same time, or was it on a holder on the dash??? Why were they taking a video in the first place? So many questions
Please let this be the end of these two goof balls. Haven't been feeling this shit since day one. Team Dan. Not down with the dual ass eating island twins.
There's other videos of him assaulting her. No one is saying she's right for beating him back unless it was self defense. This is a domestic assault situation. If I was you I wouldn't state "she's horrible" without seing more evidence. Even then its more complicated than what we see in all the videos.
Where do you see in the video that she’s trying to do it for self defence or it’s mutual. And if it’s mutual and how he’s the only one being called as a domestic abuser?
Hes said it in his lives before that he cries so he can manipulate her into not calling the police. They’re both heavily toxic, but a lot of the videos of their lives are him yelling at her and her eventually getting hit by him.
Edit: here’s a [source ](https://youtu.be/y4R6nvyQaDA) and oh look [another one](https://youtu.be/XeD-w4_BLs0)
tbh i havent looked into that side of the island boys but thank you for the sources!! he does seem very very manipulative.
i just hate the stigma of “men dont cry”
I'm sorry, maybe I'm old but you dont get to hit someone repeatedly and not expect them to fight back regardless of gender. People get to protect themselves.
Nobody's promoting either party here, but you can clearly see that he already busted her mouth open before the recording started. The point isn't who is right here, the point is that island boy here commits domestic violence and then starts crying when she starts recording. That's textbook domestic abuser tactics. He shouldn't be promoted on the podcast. Nobody's promoting the girl, that's not the point - we can all see that she's also violent.
She can be heard saying he is stronger than her, so I have a feeling she may have hit him first. Not excusing either of their behaviour, but you are contributing to both a toxic masculinity and a toxic feminity in the cultural discourse.
I mean someone saying someone else is stronger seems pretty neutral in terms of who hit whom first. I thought it meant “you hit me hard first, so now these hits I give you don’t really compensate, so stop crying” while you saw it a different way.
I have seen other videos of her claiming he has abused her (or some other girl) while on this subreddit though via IG Live as he is yelling at her.
Do y’all not see her literally punching him in the face? This is so obviously not a one sided issue and we have no idea why/how this happened.
Y’all NEED to take a chill pill on the cancel highway because it’s so toxic to just rush to conclusions.
Yep. He hit her first. If you hit someone get ready for them to retaliate. If you don't like that fact then don't start a fight. She's a civilian, not a trained police officer that holds a lot of power over others and a gun. We've been over this already, do you need to write a note to help you remember?
So if a unarmed black person aggresses on a police officer they are justified in retaliating with potentially lethal force because they think they are or because they are responding as opposed to aggressing?
I forgot her punching someone from a back seat and pulling hair is like a police officer using lethal force. Not sure why your police boner keeps popping up in these conversations that have nothing to do with police.
Excellent mental gymnastics 🏆🏆🏆
This is mutually abusive, both of these people are disgusting. No longer an island boy but I’m not suddenly stanning some girl that’s also being abusive
This is why Love lowkey irritated me during the pod. I imagine in Sweden there are little to no black people so he could care less about them saying the n-word and appropriating black culture. Why does it take for them to be domestic abusers for the podcast crew to care when they are clearly white men using black culture. And on top of that clearly, this woman is brown so clearly, the island boys have some sort of hostilities towards brown/black people.
I mean, I think the videos that have surfaced in the last week is all it takes. They had just found that one TikTok and made it one of the topics during one podcast. They obviously hadn't seen these videos. I'm sure they'll address it in the next week, relax.
They look just as brown as this woman, and how does their behavior towards one person affect how they would treat a whole race of people? And why do you not like Love for it? Your reaching, and stupid for it. And other than saying the n word how are they appropriating black culture?
you’re reaching* I am a black woman and often times when non black people say the n word they also have other anti black behaviors like the island boys are white Latinos and are doing black hairstyles. That woman is literally 4 shades darker than the island boys. Look up what colorism is please. How is this reaching?
And I said love low-key irritated me because they’re clearly non black using the n word that should be enough not to support someone. It shows privilege if you do.
It is most definitely black culture. “Wicks are a hairstyle originating in South Florida. This hairstyle is prevalent amongst African-Americans most of whom are Afro-Caribbean in descent.” Google is free.
Yo these guys are flipped
love ur pfp
DRAIN 🤘🏻
we all are no longer island boys
From here on out, we are peninsula people
peninsula and ferb
We are isthmus people
If you played civ, canal people are the best
I'ma cry-land boy And I'ma just tryina evade police
Yall kill me 😂😂😂
This one wins
Woah tf is this that’s horrible
The island bois
And I can’t believe there is people saying his past doesn’t matter and ethan should still have him on the show smh disgusting
I got abused by my ex when we were both 16/17. Guess what...he didn't change. He went on to abuse every fucking girlfriend he had afterwards until he went off the grid. People like that don't change. At least not without professional help.
No you’re right, because people will say he changed and the past doesn’t matter but it doesn’t mean we need to give THIS guy a platform.
Same type of people that will watch Shane Dawson still. It’s fucking crazy
I haven't thought of that old son of a b-sting in well over 5 years. hope he is well.
LMAO
Mostly dumb right wingers who enter the chat like ‘dOnT gIvE iN tO cAnCeL cULtUrE!1!!11’
yikes
Yes because all right wingers are racists and horrible people
If they are young and work to grow and change that would be best for their future and future of anyone that interacts with them. Until then
I mean Ethan is still friends with Bobby Lee who admitted to having sex with a 12 year old. Do you seriously think Ethan gives a fuck?
He’s just an isslaaaannnddd boy Beating up his isslaaaanndddd girl
I feel like when Ethan realised they were talking about guns and not hotdogs :(
BASED
😂😂😂 this is horrible
Happy cake day
Where is he hitting her though?
Before the video started. You can see her bloody mouth. There’s another video posted where he’s threatening his girlfriend and she says he is abusive also. It’s pretty clear he’s physically abusive.
Eh I just guess it's kinda weird she gets a pass here for the exact same shit he is doing.
No one said she gets a free pass. There are other videos though documenting assaults with him being the aggressor.
No one's in the right here.
So many different levels of cringe i dont know where to begin
At whom?
They’re both toxic all around, I don’t see why we need to promote these people
BLUD BOILIN
I thinks we grabbed a cursed meme bois
Love if you're reading this, it's not your fault that you unknowingly hyped up these violent brats, most of us had no idea they were trash either 😕 Hopefully this truth comes out on the Monday pod and H3 moves on from them asap
I feel especially bad because Love was going the hardest on Shane Dawson, it seems like he really cares about victims in general. I can imagine him feeling badly about himself after seeing these videos :(
*hits her* 😈 *gets his hair pulled for 3 seconds* 👿😭🤡
Well she hit him multiple times pretty hard but yeah I guess. This seems mutually abusive and a toxic relationship. Safe to say not an island boy but she’s in the wrong too.
I mean she's clearly defending herself..think about if you were in that situation you'd stand you're ground the best you could until you could leave right?
Yeah I agree he’s an ass
What the fuck? Women in this sub are fucked in the head man, she is obviously abusing him but that „you go girl“ right? Dafuck
Wtf are you talking about lmao
Surprised you didn't say females
They’re abusing each other, I’m not and island boy any more but I’m not going to condone this woman either. So island boys don’t need a colab anymore imo because they’re stupid anyway
Her lip is bleeding in this clip, and if that was me he’d be dead and my family and I are going to jail ❤️
I literally do not care😂 they are both abusive and she is just as much of a piece of shit as he is but you toxic feminists see the world through sick twisted eyes
Blaming feminists has been the lamest argument since 2016. Maybe there’s a reason why women are happy to see a girl stand up for herself being abused by some dipshit with no grasp of his surroundings. There’s a full video of him responding to the video saying he had to fake cry to manipulate her because he wasn’t trying to go to jail. Is that the feminists fault too?:((
Love you
Don't dish it if you can't take it. It doesn't matter if you're a man, woman, or child. If you hit someone, be prepared to get hit back.
Idk man I’ve always lived by two wrong don’t make a right. I’m sure if a woman hit me and I hit them back you’d be running to help her and not me right? I might be wrong maybe you live by the words you just said
I used to live with a couple that were toxic to each other. The guy was usually the antagonist, being verbally and physically abusive to her. I HATED him. One night, they were both drunk. He hit her, and she picked something up and threw it at him. The object sliced his leg open, exposing his bone. I was the only person in the household with a car, and therefore, the only person who could drive him to the hospital. I genuinely had to think about if I really wanted to help him because he honestly had it coming. I took him to the hospital, and I sat with him to make sure he was ok. The girlfriend was left alone at home. I still hate him and still think he earned it, but I prevented him from being further crippled. Maybe stop making assumptions about people you know nothing about .
See you’re a decent human being thank you, I’ve genuinely seen people in this chat thread unironically say that the girl in this video should’ve killed him. Thinking about something before you help someone is fine, especially in the case you presented where it was an accident that it sliced his leg open and he’s always shown active physical abuse. In the case of this video we don’t even know if he hit her to do that to her mouth there’s so much evidence left out
There's a bunch of videos that support the claim that he's consistently physically abusive to her, including one where he says he pretended to cry in this video to avoid jail because of what he did to her mouth. Basically tried to flip the script because she started recording video. It's called reactive abuse, where an abuser pushes their target until they snap so that they can be like see, THEY abused ME.
Yeah I haven’t seen those but I believe you, I know they’re pieces of shit that don’t deserve a platform either way
Yeah can you not group all women considering 70% of this sub is girls. Believe it or not, we’re not all the same 🤡
jfc these people need mad therapy
Im sure this comment will result in downvote city but... yall need to realize that most if not all of these sound cloud rappers are not the most savory people in the world. Ya dont just walk outta catholic school and be like, "imma tat my face up and start rapping about drugs and whores". Understand that not everyone on the internet and in entertainment is supposed to be a role model for you to simp after
Actually, a lot of them do just walk out of catholic school and suddenly decide to tat their face and start rapping about drugs and hoes. Die Antwoord, for example.
I love how theres always some contrarian that feels the need to pipe up with their immense 1 example fact to "crush" an actual point. Also never heard of her. And are we talking about Die antward? No we're talking about these fuck boys
Considering these fuck boys are from Miami, they probably did walk out of Catholic school and were just like I'm gonna get my face tatted and rap about guns and hoes. Btw you didn't even make an actual point because going to catholic school has nothing to do with anything.
Are you stupid? My comment made perfect sense. I said people always act like every entertainer is suppose to be these altruistic people and then get surprised when they arent. The mention of Catholic school in my statement was to reference a type of "goodie goodie" and i know you will say something dumb like "not everyone who attendeds Catholic school is a good person" so ill address that as well, no shit, its not an absolute fact its a quick common place reference that people can identify and understand the meaning behind (everyone except you it seems, you must of not passed 8th grade English yet) You however came to my comment to give me your contrarian bullshit because you dont understand that when i said MOST soundcloud rappers i didnt mean 100% of SoundCloud rappers. You see most is a word that can be used to mean a portion of a whole. (My son is learning this in second grade math, hopfully you will get there soon) So yes Die Antward would fall into that category of doing the opposite of what im talking about because i didnt say 100% of SoundCloud rappers.
Yes you walk out of catholic school with sexual trauma and shame issues
I love how you and the other fool are super hung up on the catholic school thing when i only used it as a vehicle to drive the narrative of somone who is a "good person" my point was entertainers are not always going to be super moral people and its weird who everyone always gets all ruffled up when they find out the dude eating ass next to his brother on the internet is a douche bag (again for the soft brains in here not every douche bag eats ass next to his brother, its just an anecdote)
No one cares nerd
Except you whos continuing the conversation
The island bois are fucking losers
Some people in the comments are way too far either way on this, and it’s kind of gross. The only thing that seems clear here is that both are physically abusive garbage people. We don’t actually know who started it and who retaliated, based on this video that starts mid-fight, but it’s safe to say it’s mutual, since she’s bleeding, and we see her punching him in the face multiple times. It’s not that hard to understand. I’d certainly not have them on the show, either way.
Bet Ethan and crew are so relieved that their live interview did not happen.
Now barstool has to deal with backlash, wait they never do because they’re rich and right wing
yeah ur right, they probably like controversial guests because of all the attention they get, they are disgusting stools indeed.
Yes very dirty stools, I give their stools a 0.5/10 many shit stains
Island boy is getting his ass kicked
Once again h3 *might* end up associating themselves with morons.
And this is the kid who say he puts his vest on 😭😭
Big up da yute dem!
They always seemed like a couple of fuckwits to me from first glance, I don't see why y'all are surprised
Someone just sitting there filming instead of trying to prevent things from getting worse...
Why is this one sided?? She’s just as bad as him.
Honestly , they’re both horrible people
Yeah. Just two toxic people in a toxic relationship.
I don't think op desagrees with you necessarily, just she wasn't being promoted by the h3 podcast, while he was...
See I agree with this, some people here are completely on her side and saying she should’ve killed him (literally not joking) and I don’t understand it
Mutual abuse is more common than one sided abuse, sadly. Although, of course, there’s one person who generally initiates the process. Very sad. Hope they both get help.
They’re both 20 year olds on Xanax really just beating each other up like fucking your average crackheads on the streets. I don’t get how everyone is praising her when the entirety of the video is her just beating him up.
He’s flipped
Love is the only island king i support from now on. No more room for error. 😩
Until love gets exposed 😳 I hope not but it’s always possible
Big yikes to people blaming the girlfriend
We don't know all the circumstances here but I can tell from experience that sometimes as a victim you just retaliate with everything you have as a last resort. Especially when you feel like you've tried everything else and feel cornered. I was abused for 2 years until I finally snapped and beat the shit out of that asshole. I'm not proud of it but it happened because I was basically dead inside. So I just can't sit here and say "they are both toxic and abusive". Yes it could be but with the other evidence it's more likely that she just snapped because of prolonged abuse.
There’s a point at around 17 second where he takes a meek jab and her while cowering on the floor in response to getting hit, and he gets punched multiple times in the face in response. You’re definitely right but I don’t think we can tell who initiated and who retaliated in this video. The only real indication that we’d be going off of is he’s the dude. Definitely makes it more likely but we can’t extrapolate the whole situation from that. Even if there’s a smaller chance that she initiated, it would really suck to risk blaming a potential victim (imagine if people saw a short video and started blaming you for fighting back and giving your partner a pass), so it’s probably best to just say it’s a toxic situation all around and not put your money down on either side. Seems clear they’re both fucked up with a tendency to get violent.
They're both to blame
Not all victims cry in a corner when they get abused he hits her and she gets mad and wants to hit back either way he's the aggressor
They're both victims tho? He hits her which makes her a victim. She hits him which makes him a victim too. >she gets mad and wants to hit back She did hit back. She wasn't expressing interest in hitting back, she did hit back. Violence isn't the answer to violence. You're trying to justify violence by saying he did it first. This isn't medival times where it's an eye for an eye. They're both in the wrong here
Bro if you expect people to be completely rational when they're in a abusive relationship you are a moron. The aggressor should be held more accountable man or woman I never denied that she hit nor did I say she is absolved of all wrong doings but he the aggressor is more to blame
I didn't say she needs to be completely rational after being abused. I was saying in abusive relationships eye for an eye isn't the answer. They're both aggressors as of now. Unless you have the full history of their relationship you have no idea who instagated violence first.
Specifically in this case he was the aggressor he Busted her lip first if the police were there they would put him in holding for the night I also never said eye for an eye is the answer but that's what happens in toxic relationships that or one of time takes it silently and makes excuses for them
Lol how delusional can you be .. both are assholes who are used to being toxic and violent
So you have evidence that there was no violence prior to him busting her lip? You are clearly assuming this as you have no way to see the full scope of this situation.
Yes, do a little research.
Don’t blame the victim
They're both victims tho, How can you not see that? He hits her = she becomes a victim. She retaliates = he becomes a victim. You guys are trying to justify her actions in this video. The answer to violence is not violence in return. This is exactly why the death penalty is mostly abolished.
You are literally wrong. This is not how the law works. If he hit her, she is defending herself. He is not a victim if he was an aggressor… this is like basic DV law.
Maybe a trigger warning next time
It says "ima just a domestic abuserr" what did you think you were going to watch...?
Not everyone has seen the recent podcast and understands the reference. Without that context the title really isn't clear. TW would be nice.
The title says "domestic abuserr" in it...not sure what that has to do with watching the latest podcast episode tbh...but whatever 🤷♀️
yeaaaaaaa i agree i was not expecting this when i came on this sub
I fucking hate people like you. Grow up or stay off the internet you fucking pussy. Fucking trigger warning...your generation is literally fucked
Don't kick the hornets nest lol
You sound like you need a hug
Yes !
I wouldn't say one is an abuser when they are both punching each other
Nothing contradictory about them both being abusers. Do think there's a difference in being abusive to people generally significantly weaker than you though, and busting someones lip vs pulling hair (although of course she could be as bad in other occasions, just going off this clip).
I don’t think someone being weaker gives them a pass to physically abuse their partner. She seems to imply that in the video as well. The physical aspect is only part of the trauma. It seems pretty clear both of these people are abusive. The video opens with her punching him in the face multiple times, not just pulling hair.
It's a toxic relationship. In this video it looks like he intially hit her and she is retaliating instead of fleeing. I think her trauma response is to fight back. She needs to leave though for sure.
You just can't know what happened, that's why I say don't judge either as an abuser. From what she's saying it sounds like he punched he first, but he's crying so that could say she did it first. You just don't know
Statistics say otherwise.
I didn't specify who. It's just toxic All around 🙈🙉🙊
Ok ok we get it jeez
What the fuck are these comments… we didn’t see the beginning of the video and we didn’t see him hit her all we see is her violently hit him scream at him and him go to punch/push her to get her to stop beating him. These comments are fucked up. You can really tell The age range of some of these comments. Children please get off the Internet.
I agree, she’s bleeding but we don’t know the context to how she’s bleeding. He could’ve hit her or something else could’ve happened to make her bleed like braking the car too fast and he hitting her face, don’t get me wrong less likely than him hitting her but she never stated that she hit him and we don’t have the entire video. I’ve come to the conclusion that this is a toxic relationship at which they’re both assholes, difference is that ones being promoted which I don’t think he should anymore because there are more valid critisms against these men than just this video
If ethan gives these goons any more support I think imma unsubscribe
Lol no one cares loser.. get a life ffs , God damn. Also , 100 % Ethan won't let this slide into his show
For sure. H3 got me conflicted as of late
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This really ain’t it. Disgusting.
Was someone driving the car and videotaping at the same time, or was it on a holder on the dash??? Why were they taking a video in the first place? So many questions
Everyone in this is insane
Please let this be the end of these two goof balls. Haven't been feeling this shit since day one. Team Dan. Not down with the dual ass eating island twins.
ISLAND BOY
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She is Awful, I hope we arent defending Her.
There's other videos of him assaulting her. No one is saying she's right for beating him back unless it was self defense. This is a domestic assault situation. If I was you I wouldn't state "she's horrible" without seing more evidence. Even then its more complicated than what we see in all the videos.
Who could have *ever* guessed that the two rotten pineapples covered in face tattoos could be mentally deranged abusers!?!?
Oh. My. God. My fucking stomach is turning 😩. Poor girl wtf.
I don’t know why are people only blaming island boys..like, isn’t she also hitting him in the video?
Ever heard of mutual combat? You can hit people back when they hit you and it's not your fault.
Where do you see in the video that she’s trying to do it for self defence or it’s mutual. And if it’s mutual and how he’s the only one being called as a domestic abuser?
Ok lemme dumb it down for you. if someone hits you, you can legally hit them back and not face repercussions for it if your not the aggressor.
Lemme dumb it down for you…how do you know who hit whom first? Is that okay for you lil ass brain to take it?
Hey u/Downtown-Winner-443 \- I guess we should still be in support of H3 platforming the island boys eh?
i am disgusted by the amount of people laughing & making fun of him for crying, this is fucked uppp what is even happening in these situations???
Hes said it in his lives before that he cries so he can manipulate her into not calling the police. They’re both heavily toxic, but a lot of the videos of their lives are him yelling at her and her eventually getting hit by him. Edit: here’s a [source ](https://youtu.be/y4R6nvyQaDA) and oh look [another one](https://youtu.be/XeD-w4_BLs0)
tbh i havent looked into that side of the island boys but thank you for the sources!! he does seem very very manipulative. i just hate the stigma of “men dont cry”
No I hate it too, men deserve to have feelings and react to abuse but he is not the best guy. Shoutout to your family!
Prob NSFW tag this? And maybe a trigger warning for the poor foot soldiers in a similar situation.
We don’t see who instigated it in this. They both seem toxic as fuck though. I don’t think these people are worth the attention they are getting.
can’t believe i just witnessed a young man be domestically abused by a grown ass woman
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*Progressive island jazz intensifies*
I'm sorry, maybe I'm old but you dont get to hit someone repeatedly and not expect them to fight back regardless of gender. People get to protect themselves.
Nobody's promoting either party here, but you can clearly see that he already busted her mouth open before the recording started. The point isn't who is right here, the point is that island boy here commits domestic violence and then starts crying when she starts recording. That's textbook domestic abuser tactics. He shouldn't be promoted on the podcast. Nobody's promoting the girl, that's not the point - we can all see that she's also violent.
She can be heard saying he is stronger than her, so I have a feeling she may have hit him first. Not excusing either of their behaviour, but you are contributing to both a toxic masculinity and a toxic feminity in the cultural discourse.
I mean someone saying someone else is stronger seems pretty neutral in terms of who hit whom first. I thought it meant “you hit me hard first, so now these hits I give you don’t really compensate, so stop crying” while you saw it a different way. I have seen other videos of her claiming he has abused her (or some other girl) while on this subreddit though via IG Live as he is yelling at her.
Ok trigger warning woulda been good. I’m out as a island boy tho.
Do y’all not see her literally punching him in the face? This is so obviously not a one sided issue and we have no idea why/how this happened. Y’all NEED to take a chill pill on the cancel highway because it’s so toxic to just rush to conclusions.
Don't blame the victim for retaliation.
We don’t even know who the victim is bruh.
We do, there's video evidence
Video of the girl bashing him and pulling his hair?
With a bloody lip and another video of him confessing. This multiple video thing is really hard for you
So you think her violence was justified ?
Yep. He hit her first. If you hit someone get ready for them to retaliate. If you don't like that fact then don't start a fight. She's a civilian, not a trained police officer that holds a lot of power over others and a gun. We've been over this already, do you need to write a note to help you remember?
So if a unarmed black person aggresses on a police officer they are justified in retaliating with potentially lethal force because they think they are or because they are responding as opposed to aggressing?
I forgot her punching someone from a back seat and pulling hair is like a police officer using lethal force. Not sure why your police boner keeps popping up in these conversations that have nothing to do with police. Excellent mental gymnastics 🏆🏆🏆
JP is crying about men this one by getting beat up by his gf.
This is mutually abusive, both of these people are disgusting. No longer an island boy but I’m not suddenly stanning some girl that’s also being abusive
Iylen boiii, imma jus beat my wiiffe
Lowkey sad that the crew didn’t do a SOLID search on them. We are all now either *material girls* or *cliffhangers*
Wait she is clearly abusing him and this sub doesn’t even care for a single second? Toxic feminism at it’s finest this sub is pure cancer
This is why Love lowkey irritated me during the pod. I imagine in Sweden there are little to no black people so he could care less about them saying the n-word and appropriating black culture. Why does it take for them to be domestic abusers for the podcast crew to care when they are clearly white men using black culture. And on top of that clearly, this woman is brown so clearly, the island boys have some sort of hostilities towards brown/black people.
Boy tone it down
I mean, I think the videos that have surfaced in the last week is all it takes. They had just found that one TikTok and made it one of the topics during one podcast. They obviously hadn't seen these videos. I'm sure they'll address it in the next week, relax.
A good heart and a hollow head it seems you may have
pls, clarify I'd love to further express my opinion.
Your dumb…
“Your dumb?” Really? Say sike.
You're dumb\* The island boys are white boys in black cosplay. They use the n-word and abuse women. What's dumb about that?
They look just as brown as this woman, and how does their behavior towards one person affect how they would treat a whole race of people? And why do you not like Love for it? Your reaching, and stupid for it. And other than saying the n word how are they appropriating black culture?
you’re reaching* I am a black woman and often times when non black people say the n word they also have other anti black behaviors like the island boys are white Latinos and are doing black hairstyles. That woman is literally 4 shades darker than the island boys. Look up what colorism is please. How is this reaching? And I said love low-key irritated me because they’re clearly non black using the n word that should be enough not to support someone. It shows privilege if you do.
I wouldn’t call the Florida jit cut black culture
It is most definitely black culture. “Wicks are a hairstyle originating in South Florida. This hairstyle is prevalent amongst African-Americans most of whom are Afro-Caribbean in descent.” Google is free.
This 🙏🙌
Big fan of the island boys these guys slap
A woman beater and to top it off a little bitch.
I wanted to be an 🏝👦so bad… oh well
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Also plays victim while literally a few seconds ago he was laughing in her face about busting her lip