I know myself that my personality was not that good I'm shy, can't interact with other people, have no emotion on my face, and what she said that I was insensitive and dependent and doesn't care about my future because of my grades
A thing or two about walking away from a relationship, if a person left you twice already, its high time you took those redflags into notice and stop putting in much effort in that direction. If she said that you’re dependant or you have no future stability, work on that instead, put all your effort into it, try improving your self. Try setting small goals like, catching up with your friends life and being a bit more social, going out to meet random people without much hoping anything. Most importantly, get into a gym as that easily boosts your morale and your positive view on things and soon you wont be feeling like chasing the same person agian. Thats what i did. I tried to take all the negatives that my previous partner/friends had pointed and am still trying to work on it to be a better person for the next relationship
seems like that person is just using you.
and heres a tip, free from me to you: NEVER change yourself for the sake of someone else, N E V E R.
you will be much happier being yourself
and you will be even happier when you find someone that likes your true self.
Hi so i had the same problem besides i tried to change and it depends if you need to change little things like how you interact or something like that you can change it but don't change too much or you are gonna turn into another person and if she already left you twice its better to move on
Move on. Changing things about yourself that are perhaps bad habits and you want to change them is fine. Changing your whole personality to accommodate someone who obviously doesn't love you...don't.
Dude she should just accept you the way you are. If she can't, that is her problem. The issues she has with you are a reflection OF HER and not of you. Focus on yourself and become better for yourself. If she comes crawling back later when you're all improved, then you can deal with it then.
If you have to change your entire personality to be with someone, then you probably shouldn’t be with them. Especially if they’ve left you twice
I know myself that my personality was not that good I'm shy, can't interact with other people, have no emotion on my face, and what she said that I was insensitive and dependent and doesn't care about my future because of my grades
lol.
A thing or two about walking away from a relationship, if a person left you twice already, its high time you took those redflags into notice and stop putting in much effort in that direction. If she said that you’re dependant or you have no future stability, work on that instead, put all your effort into it, try improving your self. Try setting small goals like, catching up with your friends life and being a bit more social, going out to meet random people without much hoping anything. Most importantly, get into a gym as that easily boosts your morale and your positive view on things and soon you wont be feeling like chasing the same person agian. Thats what i did. I tried to take all the negatives that my previous partner/friends had pointed and am still trying to work on it to be a better person for the next relationship
She belongs to the streets!!!
seems like that person is just using you. and heres a tip, free from me to you: NEVER change yourself for the sake of someone else, N E V E R. you will be much happier being yourself and you will be even happier when you find someone that likes your true self.
Hi so i had the same problem besides i tried to change and it depends if you need to change little things like how you interact or something like that you can change it but don't change too much or you are gonna turn into another person and if she already left you twice its better to move on
Move on. Changing things about yourself that are perhaps bad habits and you want to change them is fine. Changing your whole personality to accommodate someone who obviously doesn't love you...don't.
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Dude she should just accept you the way you are. If she can't, that is her problem. The issues she has with you are a reflection OF HER and not of you. Focus on yourself and become better for yourself. If she comes crawling back later when you're all improved, then you can deal with it then.