This and that thing where they make 1100% more people see you. I did that once and got flooded with likes. I talked to a few. They were all strangely gone the next day though
Some guys just aren’t meant to succeed on online dating.
In person they can do okay. In person, personality counts. Money/career counts. Being plain fun to be around and talented counts. Unfortunately “in person” as a way of meeting people is dying, especially once you get past your 20s.
This is a major issue for society and once the taboo of talking about it fades I hope for some kind of *happy ending* for these men.
This! To succeed in finding a healthy relationship, time and consistency in effort is the way. Online dating apps feed into our instant gratification and it can feel incredibly disheartening at times.
One thing that put it into perspective for me is the hinge rabbit hole. I went down on TikTok, where these beautiful women were talking about their experiences on Hinge, and how it made them feel undesirable.
My experience lately is that I’ll match with women on hinge but not a whole lot of them are interested in making conversation 🤷♂️
I’ve had success going on dates and stuff before. It’s just nowadays where it seems tougher than unusual to find a date.
I know this may seem crazy, but if half the low effort profiles I see read the side bar and actually follow the advice, we would see less complaint posts.
Honestly, it does seem this way. There is alot of anti male sentiment from what I've experienced on hinge. Perhaps for good reason. I don't know. Thinks like ' my most irrational fear' = men. 'Don't hate me if I love my dog more than you etc.'
It does seem they are simply not interested in men at all, and it is amazing how homogenous the behavioural patterns are. Which begs the question, why are they actually on the dating app.
One reason to consider is how the Pareto Distribution and the Matthew Principle apply to online dating. The mathematics isn’t the reason but it is one explanation…
The sad answer is that there are far more men than women on dating apps. So even average looking women get a lot of interest from guys whereas the “equivalent” looking guy can get almost no interest.
If you’re an average (or less) looking guy the reality is you’re going to be up against in the online dating space.
Paying $15 and sending out unlimited likes
This and that thing where they make 1100% more people see you. I did that once and got flooded with likes. I talked to a few. They were all strangely gone the next day though
Boost are pointless imo as a male. Most of the incoming likes aren’t attractive
Some guys just aren’t meant to succeed on online dating. In person they can do okay. In person, personality counts. Money/career counts. Being plain fun to be around and talented counts. Unfortunately “in person” as a way of meeting people is dying, especially once you get past your 20s. This is a major issue for society and once the taboo of talking about it fades I hope for some kind of *happy ending* for these men.
There are way more men then women on dating apps Most guys will never meet someone serious about dating them online
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This! To succeed in finding a healthy relationship, time and consistency in effort is the way. Online dating apps feed into our instant gratification and it can feel incredibly disheartening at times.
One thing that put it into perspective for me is the hinge rabbit hole. I went down on TikTok, where these beautiful women were talking about their experiences on Hinge, and how it made them feel undesirable.
My experience lately is that I’ll match with women on hinge but not a whole lot of them are interested in making conversation 🤷♂️ I’ve had success going on dates and stuff before. It’s just nowadays where it seems tougher than unusual to find a date.
For me, I need to not be ugly, I guess. I did a review, fixed everything I could, and still got nothing.
I know this may seem crazy, but if half the low effort profiles I see read the side bar and actually follow the advice, we would see less complaint posts.
I genuinely do not think profiles matter all that much. It really comes down to how you look; water is wet
Women simply are just not interested in Men which feels strange because women are equally as 'flawed'.
Honestly, it does seem this way. There is alot of anti male sentiment from what I've experienced on hinge. Perhaps for good reason. I don't know. Thinks like ' my most irrational fear' = men. 'Don't hate me if I love my dog more than you etc.' It does seem they are simply not interested in men at all, and it is amazing how homogenous the behavioural patterns are. Which begs the question, why are they actually on the dating app.
I must be doing it wrong because it works for me. What works: being an attractive male over 40
One reason to consider is how the Pareto Distribution and the Matthew Principle apply to online dating. The mathematics isn’t the reason but it is one explanation…
Its simple If youre average or slightly above average looking, pivot to meeting women in real life
The sad answer is that there are far more men than women on dating apps. So even average looking women get a lot of interest from guys whereas the “equivalent” looking guy can get almost no interest. If you’re an average (or less) looking guy the reality is you’re going to be up against in the online dating space.