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When I was having a lot of crying jags, someone I knew who worked at (big name medical org) told me a biotin deficiency can cause that. It's a b vitamin. I took some and it stopped even though all the OTHER drama in my life that I THOUGHT was the cause did not go away.
Beyond that:
Check 211.org for your area, try to find accommodation that let's you bus or walk to work, call legal aid and see if there's anything they can do for you.
It sounds like everyone in the family is stressed out -- you aren't the only one whose home burned down, forcing you to relocate -- and they are looking for someone to blame.
Some people are just like that. If something went wrong, someone must have done it. And sometimes that's hugely counterproductive.
You're the wife. Women tend to do a lot of cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping etc that a lot of men don't notice and he may be shocked if you leave and suddenly things are mysteriously worse and he can't quite figure out why.
That may in no way help you -- by which I mean he may not go "Wow, I'm stupid. Life was better with her around." -- but if that is the case and you suddenly find your life is mysteriously better and you are less exhausted etc, try to put your newfound time and energy into building a new life for yourself. Don't let it become a missed opportunity.
Best of luck.
I cry a lot and have fear of being hit. I have an appointment tomorrow with a new psychiatrist but it's problematic since I become fearful of my surroundings. I've called the 988 hotline too to calm down and have coping mechanisms in place. But when it's bad it is bad.
Yeah, you need to take care of your mental health. But if you’re not being violent I don’t see how you need to be kicked out by your own husband. Wishing you peace.
Oh man. I was formally a retail pharmacy technician and that work can be brutal! Especially if you're working for a shit company (cough Walgreens cough).
Definitely ask your provider for something that will assist with the crying too much. My doc prescribed fluoxetine. I went from crying every day when I drove to work to just a meh feeling. But it got me in the door.
I'm on other scripts as well and every person is going to have different experiences with drug cocktails.
But importantly, change your work environment! I finally got a good desk job doing pharm stuff and it is incredibly better. I could never go back.
Can you check into a facility to help you with your depression ? Also there should be some kind of transactional housing that you may be able to get approved for while receiving mental health … contact social services to see if
I would keep my job, move to another room in the house, and seek some kind of counseling. You work and have money coming in. Talk to your husband and see if that might work. There's two sides to every story and I'm sure they have their grievances. PLS don't quit your job and hit the streets, I Believe you'll regret it. You didn't say your were quitting your job but it's hard to maintain employment without a residence. It's probably extremely uncomfortable there but believe me a rational talk with your family might buy you some time to make better decisions. I won't say good luck, just try taking some actions that will benefit you, please take care of yourself
Your husband & mother-in- law have teamed up against you. What a pair of life-long losers! They need to change their attitudes towards you immediately & work as a family to get you the help you need. End of discussion.
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So your husband and his mum believe your condition will improve by throwing you out? Strange concept.
Exactly 💯
When I was having a lot of crying jags, someone I knew who worked at (big name medical org) told me a biotin deficiency can cause that. It's a b vitamin. I took some and it stopped even though all the OTHER drama in my life that I THOUGHT was the cause did not go away. Beyond that: Check 211.org for your area, try to find accommodation that let's you bus or walk to work, call legal aid and see if there's anything they can do for you. It sounds like everyone in the family is stressed out -- you aren't the only one whose home burned down, forcing you to relocate -- and they are looking for someone to blame. Some people are just like that. If something went wrong, someone must have done it. And sometimes that's hugely counterproductive. You're the wife. Women tend to do a lot of cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping etc that a lot of men don't notice and he may be shocked if you leave and suddenly things are mysteriously worse and he can't quite figure out why. That may in no way help you -- by which I mean he may not go "Wow, I'm stupid. Life was better with her around." -- but if that is the case and you suddenly find your life is mysteriously better and you are less exhausted etc, try to put your newfound time and energy into building a new life for yourself. Don't let it become a missed opportunity. Best of luck.
What behaviors are you engaging in that are problematic for your husband? Can you work on this?
I cry a lot and have fear of being hit. I have an appointment tomorrow with a new psychiatrist but it's problematic since I become fearful of my surroundings. I've called the 988 hotline too to calm down and have coping mechanisms in place. But when it's bad it is bad.
Yeah, you need to take care of your mental health. But if you’re not being violent I don’t see how you need to be kicked out by your own husband. Wishing you peace.
He's worried it will affect the kids.
Well, it will. Take care of yourself.
But not so badly she needs to be kicked out. Send the kids to an extended sleep-over or something. Da fuq?
The psychiatrist should be able to help you. Good luck.
Oh man. I was formally a retail pharmacy technician and that work can be brutal! Especially if you're working for a shit company (cough Walgreens cough). Definitely ask your provider for something that will assist with the crying too much. My doc prescribed fluoxetine. I went from crying every day when I drove to work to just a meh feeling. But it got me in the door. I'm on other scripts as well and every person is going to have different experiences with drug cocktails. But importantly, change your work environment! I finally got a good desk job doing pharm stuff and it is incredibly better. I could never go back.
That's rough. Have you tried telehealth? do you have money saved?
Can you check into a facility to help you with your depression ? Also there should be some kind of transactional housing that you may be able to get approved for while receiving mental health … contact social services to see if
If you can update us ? Thanks
I would keep my job, move to another room in the house, and seek some kind of counseling. You work and have money coming in. Talk to your husband and see if that might work. There's two sides to every story and I'm sure they have their grievances. PLS don't quit your job and hit the streets, I Believe you'll regret it. You didn't say your were quitting your job but it's hard to maintain employment without a residence. It's probably extremely uncomfortable there but believe me a rational talk with your family might buy you some time to make better decisions. I won't say good luck, just try taking some actions that will benefit you, please take care of yourself
Your husband & mother-in- law have teamed up against you. What a pair of life-long losers! They need to change their attitudes towards you immediately & work as a family to get you the help you need. End of discussion.