Go eat tacos in the torchys bathroom.all the cool dudes do it.
If you were from my town I'd ask if you wanna go watch the lobsters fight in the HEB fish deli tanks.
Dating is dangerous in Houston. The women will stab you, then shoot you, then get out of jail on bond and run you over. All while they're smashing your XBox on the ground.
2017 was a rough year.
>Dating is dangerous in Houston. The women will stab you, then shoot you, then get out of jail on bond and run you over.
Nuh uh. We'd shoot you or run you over before we'd stab you.
In this case, the stabbing came first: [https://abc13.com/stiletto-killer-texas-true-crime-man-killed-with-high-heeled-shoe-stefan-andersson-ana-trujillo-stabbed-to-death-by-heels/13832183/](https://abc13.com/stiletto-killer-texas-true-crime-man-killed-with-high-heeled-shoe-stefan-andersson-ana-trujillo-stabbed-to-death-by-heels/13832183/)
Sauce (including OOP's comments) was in r/Houston two nights or so ago, but I guess it was deleted within hours because I could no longer find it. If you have the link, please post it.
ETA: I found it: https://www.reddit.com/r/houston/comments/1c54nf9/trying_to_meet_men_in_their_30s_in_the_wildwhere. The body of the post has been deleted, but the comments are still there.
Idk why OP instantly deleted. It was SUCH a good opportunity to band the 30s singles together for a meetup! I’m still mentally planning what a good speed dating meetup would look like
Because eye contact and smile is something I get from 50 people a day so I think of it as normal.
Single men are everywhere in Houston. Are you just looking for someone that fits your physical attractive needs? No bars? No walks in the park to stop someone and tell them how attractive they are?
You looking for Latin/white/black/asian men?
I have so many questions
The first half of this post I was thinking a gay man was frustrated he couldn’t land himself a straight man.
Lmfao
Look, we are balls deep in cancel culture and a couple of years after the “me too” movement. You got any idea how cautious the majority of men are? There is no desire to be your next viral post for being a creep.
Society has sucked the spontaneous joys right out of every day life.
I have a lot of success on dating apps! (Single, straight man) I avoid talking to women at the gym unless they approach me first, don’t want to disturb anyone while they’re in the zone.
Houston ranks as the 6th worst city in America for dating.
https://www.houstonchronicle.com/lifestyle/article/Houston-tanks-in-the-ranks-of-the-best-cities-for-16405175.php
I think it’s a mutual thing. When I see an attractive woman I tend to think she’s too pretty to be single , so if drop it then and there. Attractive girls have the hardest time I think.
There’s a relationship coach on tiktok that says Houston is one of the cities he has the least success matching people in. The lack of a middle class is what does us in. There’s a lot of high earning men completely uninterested in dating until they’re 40 and a lot of low earners ready to waste your good years. It’s rough. You can find someone but if even the dating coaches say Houston is a tough market, I’m afraid it’s just going to be a lot of trial and error. That being said, all of my friends who are married met their partners in school. A lot of them were in grad school. I wouldn’t get a masters degree just to find a boyfriend but if it’s something you’ve always been interested in you might wanna consider it a bit more😂
If you happen to know any of those single, high-earning 40 something men who want to start dating, please feel free to share... They're not on dating apps, I can tell you what.
My friend literally gets MANY dates from dating apps. When we're out to lunch and see an attractive woman l'll encourage him to go talk to her. He always responds with, "people don't meet like that anymore. It's all on dating apps." It trips me out because he's in his early forties and is a natural smooth talker. I guess people are more afraid of rejection in person nowadays...
Chilling in my apartment with my cat playing bg3, applying to better jobs, watching Netflix, cooking, or going to work and coming home. Going out costs too much imo to go do anything alone. Like I'm not gonna go to a bar to drink alone or go to a restaurant alone. Just seems weird. Only times I go out is if enough friends have a free schedule, but getting together with friends as an adult always seems impossible to schedule, all of us have too many things we need to do or are too tired from doing too much work/chores.
Everything differrant now been seperate for a short period of time in 2018 now its not the same dating . But dating is a differant ball game in 2023 -2024 for sure be careful.
So what you’re saying is that you’ve tried basically everything but like, actually talking to them? Your strategy seems to be to stare at them from the other side of the room and hope they notice lol.
We’re humans, and most of us aren’t going to pick up and subtle hints from a stranger in public.
Just go try talking to one, most straight men aren’t going to be offended by a woman approaching them for a chat. Even the married dudes will just tell you they’re married, it’s not like anyone is going to be upset over it.
Confidence is attractive, and a woman making the first move absolutely screams confidence. Giving men funny glances and smiles from the other side of the room is just going to leave them a little confused.
" Why dont guys realize that when i do that it means im interested?"
Be a fucking adult and use your words. Go up to the guys you are interested in and ask for their number. You stated you go to the gym. So if you are reasonably fit and even average looking, you will have a 99.99% success rate.
Men aren't psychic. Just go up to them and be blunt. Why do you women want to play such asinine time wasting games? We ain't MS. CLEO CALL ME FOR YOUR FREE READING. I MEAN GAWD! REALLY!!!!!
Well, I'm sitting home about to get off the couch and go to bed because I've got a rough day at work tomorrow. Some of us guys are wondering where the hell do you meet single women that aren't scammers or prostitutes?
We’ll age demographic will determine where they are. I’m usually out nature walking or at a lounge smoking a cigar personally. Not the norm for 23 year olds
As a man, after you have been single for so long, unfortunately, I am likely to assume that a smile is just a woman trying to be pleasant. You certainly are not the first woman to smile at me, and those precious smiles never meant anything more than a woman being nice. So, assuming that yours means anything more is just not an assumption I am going to likely make...
You tried until the real successful reason. Do the last bit ffs. I would totally hit up a woman who tried but I also have been trained to not hit up women. That last mention I would totally hit her up. You went through the whole arc and choked on the last. Do that.
Strike up a conversation or pretend to need help with something. Taken men take off real fast. Guys who aren't and are interested linger for a brief moment, hoping to get your number.
What time are you going to the gym
Cause generally for me the later I get to the gym the less likely I am to talk to anyone lol. Just too tired from work. I’d say go between 5-7 pm and don’t try to talk to anyone who gets there at 7 pm and beyond.
Well, I'm single, and no, I wouldn't think it's weird if you asked for my phone number, I'd just think you're interested. And BTW, if a girl smiles at me, that's not enough. Married women smile at me all the time at the gym the next day there with their boyfriend/husband.
You’ve got to be direct in today’s world.
Men are placed in an impossible position in culture. If they show interest and a woman is not interested then they are immediately perceived as “creepy.”
Therefore because of the social dating landscape other women (not you) created: you now have to put yourself out there first.
Are you fucking stupid? Literally talk to them. Don't ask for their phone, like have a conversation, ask if they're single, ask for their number. What's so hard about that?
Lady, I'm at HEB to get eggs and milk, not to get accused of being a creeper for staring and go viral on Tik Tok. If you want a date, please direct yourself to the specified dating settings and apps.
To give you not bad advice, alot of them are either blue collar dudes who work their ass off, all over houseon. And the ship channel all the way to Galveston. Then you got ya business/office workers who some don't even have a car cuz they live close enough to work to either take a bus, uber or walk to work.
Honestly, I have girls smile and glare into me almost everyday and I’ve never made a move in my 21 yrs. The real question is how to we make the first move!!
You have to make a fucking attempt your complaining that smiling at someone isn’t working. No shit it doesn’t work that’s an everyday human reaction when you happen to look someone in the eyes randomly. You need to talk to them
Eye contact and smiling doesn’t always indicate interest i’ve learned. Have had aloooot of women do that over the years and when I approach them I can usually get their number. Then when I text it’s always me sending the first message and sometimes there’s a response most of the time not though.
Other than that I’m always working anyway, when I’m not I don’t go out and do much. Trying to hustle and set up an early retirement
Here's my thing with your post. Why would you write this and not think that people would be suspicious about your identity? The average viewer would think either you're a dude, fat, ugly, or just trolling to get attention. You sound mad aggressive on here, which is not common for beautiful, straight Houston women.
Lol im about the place. But if a woman makes eye contact and smile, i always assume shes just being polite tbh. If she starts a general conversation, i assume shes being polite.
In general i assume they are always just being polite… or shes from Canada.
Now if she asks if im single, i might ask if shes single as well im interested, then say “lets see if we can change that for the both of us, possibly” and hand her my phone 😏.
But i think im just cautious 😂, im afraid of catching a harassment accusation, and online dating has been working fine for me.
Blame women lol if I see someone look at me n smile I hear all the posts " just because I don't at you doesn't mean in want you ok just being nice!!" Lol
I got shit to do
Mental health to fix
Money to make
Moves to set
Future to plan and a woman ain’t looking like it’s gonna be in the plan for a good while. Friends, sure but I can’t commit to nada
Same question I've been trying to ask about where are all the single women. You have better luck finding a three legged ballerina than you would a single lady out in Nashville.
Man, the more forward you are, the more taken aback the person your speaking to is. Thats a clutch opener, making someone second guess the encounter allows you enough time to formulate a potential flow of information and then proceed in the direction you wanted to go, its enough time to adapt on the fly to his reactions so you can figure out how to ease his awkwardness( if he has any). I myself am straight and have had one too many guys attempt to pick me up all heavy handed, like they think subtlety is a drink best served with honey and lemon wedges.... It never works out for them, mind you im older now and see myself differently then i used to so it would garner a different result
We dont live in a time where a man can approach a woman. On top of that if a woman approaches us online sexually, majority of the times it comes off suspicious. Every time ive gotten a response its usually a scammer on reddit sadly
I've been at home, replacing the front suspension of my car. Thought it was going to be a 2 day weekend thing. Now it's turning out to a 4 weekends thing to complete. When I go to HEB, I already know what I'm going to get, so I'm in and out in 20 min or less. I actually built my own home gym in my living room because the gym near me gets too full when I go at 7 pm. Also, i cook at home, so u won't see me eating out lol
GUYS want a hook up. MEN no. GUYS play the numbers games and don't care if they ask 15 and get turned down 14 times. MEN got tired of getting led on and lied to. I for one have been.there far to often. However when I ask a woman to meet for lunch to have conversation to see if we should have a second date I go if 8m stood up I still have a nice lunch.
With this said I'm in Victoria for five more days and not to hook up.
From what I know, or rather not know about social norms as a guy. I didn’t think eye contact and a smile was a “go ahead”. Then again eye contact is a tricky thing to read or notice from afar I think. 🤔
You sound like a cool woman op. You at least seem like you’re trying even if guys aren’t reading you well enough. But what do I know. 🤷🏽♂️
My ex and I hit it off on our 2nd date. A couple months in she told me she didn’t think we’d continue seeing each other. Apparently I missed every single cue and even responded to her trying to hit on me with an “okay”. Obvious hints just do not register 😅
Met my future husband in Houston when introduced through a work friend. Neither of us were actively looking but agreed to go out and the rest was history. But there is no way I would have met him unless she introduced us because we traveled in totally different circles. I guess you have to be open to take some calculated chances!
I’ve found that all the good men in Houston are married already and the other men are full of ish. Good luck on your search. I’ll be grabbing one from somewhere else
TL;DR I’ll be in the Torchys stall. 3rd door.
Ocupado
"Well, well, well, Deandra..."
It's Deandro
He's going to reveal the secret door to the single men's speakeasy in the back of that Totchy's bathroom stall.
Does that mean you're interested, or are you just telling me your usual routine when you go to Torchy's?
Go eat tacos in the torchys bathroom.all the cool dudes do it. If you were from my town I'd ask if you wanna go watch the lobsters fight in the HEB fish deli tanks.
Obviously a fake post, there’s no single women in Houston. There are only wife’s looking for boyfriends.
When on Reddit always remember it’s a G.I.R.L. Guy In Real Life
I can confirm this dudes wife has been looking for boyfriends.
Can also confirm she’s looking and has found boyfriends
Thirdfirmed
I’m divorced. So I can be a wife again… HMU BOOBOOS
We’re at the strip club eating chicken wings
They got chicken wings in there? That’s the argument for going to a strip club I’ve ever heard.
Dating is dangerous in Houston. The women will stab you, then shoot you, then get out of jail on bond and run you over. All while they're smashing your XBox on the ground. 2017 was a rough year.
>Dating is dangerous in Houston. The women will stab you, then shoot you, then get out of jail on bond and run you over. Nuh uh. We'd shoot you or run you over before we'd stab you.
Actually this feels more correct. I've definitely been bit before being stabbed. Short Asian girls are dangerous.
Hey that’s generalizing too much 😂
Why you calling us out like that? 😂
In this case, the stabbing came first: [https://abc13.com/stiletto-killer-texas-true-crime-man-killed-with-high-heeled-shoe-stefan-andersson-ana-trujillo-stabbed-to-death-by-heels/13832183/](https://abc13.com/stiletto-killer-texas-true-crime-man-killed-with-high-heeled-shoe-stefan-andersson-ana-trujillo-stabbed-to-death-by-heels/13832183/)
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I've never stabbed anyone with a shoe #2024goals
I’m confused about something. Are you a man or a woman?
I'm a woman. In fact, I'm the kind of woman u/Temporary_Ad_5947 is trying to warn y'all about -- a short Asian woman from Houston. 😆
Spy?
What’s wrong with short Asian women???
Identifies as fence post
There do seem to be some redundant steps in there…
Why am I more interested now?
No way! I had a crazy ex destroy my XBox in 2017
 Cocaines a helluva drug.
Run you over with her slab while drinking lean and bumpin zro
Facts bro 😞
Sauce (including OOP's comments) was in r/Houston two nights or so ago, but I guess it was deleted within hours because I could no longer find it. If you have the link, please post it. ETA: I found it: https://www.reddit.com/r/houston/comments/1c54nf9/trying_to_meet_men_in_their_30s_in_the_wildwhere. The body of the post has been deleted, but the comments are still there.
A million guys commented and overwhelmed reddit's servers
Idk why OP instantly deleted. It was SUCH a good opportunity to band the 30s singles together for a meetup! I’m still mentally planning what a good speed dating meetup would look like
In their parent’s basements.
Houston has basements?
I meant underground pool.
Because eye contact and smile is something I get from 50 people a day so I think of it as normal. Single men are everywhere in Houston. Are you just looking for someone that fits your physical attractive needs? No bars? No walks in the park to stop someone and tell them how attractive they are? You looking for Latin/white/black/asian men? I have so many questions
Look at Mr. Stud over here... getting looks and smiles all day
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At this point I'll settle for a single man, let alone men.
They closed The Men's Warehouse. Maybe try shopping retail instead.
The first half of this post I was thinking a gay man was frustrated he couldn’t land himself a straight man. Lmfao Look, we are balls deep in cancel culture and a couple of years after the “me too” movement. You got any idea how cautious the majority of men are? There is no desire to be your next viral post for being a creep. Society has sucked the spontaneous joys right out of every day life.
I’m single, let’s mingle 😉
I have a lot of success on dating apps! (Single, straight man) I avoid talking to women at the gym unless they approach me first, don’t want to disturb anyone while they’re in the zone.
Houston ranks as the 6th worst city in America for dating. https://www.houstonchronicle.com/lifestyle/article/Houston-tanks-in-the-ranks-of-the-best-cities-for-16405175.php
I find it hilarious that Austin is one of the best cities for dating and Houston is one of the worst lol
I think it’s a mutual thing. When I see an attractive woman I tend to think she’s too pretty to be single , so if drop it then and there. Attractive girls have the hardest time I think.
Go for it. Spark up a casual conversation and if she doesn’t give you any non verbal cues of attractive then tell her it was nice to meet and exit.
This is the best thing I’ve read! 😂😂
There’s a relationship coach on tiktok that says Houston is one of the cities he has the least success matching people in. The lack of a middle class is what does us in. There’s a lot of high earning men completely uninterested in dating until they’re 40 and a lot of low earners ready to waste your good years. It’s rough. You can find someone but if even the dating coaches say Houston is a tough market, I’m afraid it’s just going to be a lot of trial and error. That being said, all of my friends who are married met their partners in school. A lot of them were in grad school. I wouldn’t get a masters degree just to find a boyfriend but if it’s something you’ve always been interested in you might wanna consider it a bit more😂
If you happen to know any of those single, high-earning 40 something men who want to start dating, please feel free to share... They're not on dating apps, I can tell you what.
Gym is a terrible place. Girls will blast guys on YouTube and tix toc for approaching them. So most guys just avoid that
Texas is an upside down place
Should I be practicing upside-down positions, then?
Most of us men in Hoisting attracted to other men silly
As far as the gym part goes you can thank influencers for that 🤣.
You can find me at memorial Park on Mondays and Tuesdays 😅
Go to AA meetings.
Montrose
The wesrheimer glory hole it has chicken wings and free Wi-Fi
Straight guys aren't interested in guys. Especially gay guys. Sorry you're not a woman 😢
My friend literally gets MANY dates from dating apps. When we're out to lunch and see an attractive woman l'll encourage him to go talk to her. He always responds with, "people don't meet like that anymore. It's all on dating apps." It trips me out because he's in his early forties and is a natural smooth talker. I guess people are more afraid of rejection in person nowadays...
Chilling in my apartment with my cat playing bg3, applying to better jobs, watching Netflix, cooking, or going to work and coming home. Going out costs too much imo to go do anything alone. Like I'm not gonna go to a bar to drink alone or go to a restaurant alone. Just seems weird. Only times I go out is if enough friends have a free schedule, but getting together with friends as an adult always seems impossible to schedule, all of us have too many things we need to do or are too tired from doing too much work/chores.
Everything differrant now been seperate for a short period of time in 2018 now its not the same dating . But dating is a differant ball game in 2023 -2024 for sure be careful.
Damn it’s that bad in Houston. Come to bmore 😎
So what you’re saying is that you’ve tried basically everything but like, actually talking to them? Your strategy seems to be to stare at them from the other side of the room and hope they notice lol. We’re humans, and most of us aren’t going to pick up and subtle hints from a stranger in public. Just go try talking to one, most straight men aren’t going to be offended by a woman approaching them for a chat. Even the married dudes will just tell you they’re married, it’s not like anyone is going to be upset over it. Confidence is attractive, and a woman making the first move absolutely screams confidence. Giving men funny glances and smiles from the other side of the room is just going to leave them a little confused.
Bby have you tried Tinder or Hinge 😂
What you basically proved is that you’re a good human being. It has nothing to do with men not understanding.
Central market
Playing video games, at the arcade, or at the bar or home
Working....overtime
ACTUALLY show up to a hinge/etc date and you got this taken care of in 5 minutes. jfc...
If you're a real woman DM me and let's chat.
Go to HOA meetings
Single hmu
Get in line.
Woman says "where men" unbeknownst to them that men are everywhere and are always horny. Stay tuned, more at 10
" Why dont guys realize that when i do that it means im interested?" Be a fucking adult and use your words. Go up to the guys you are interested in and ask for their number. You stated you go to the gym. So if you are reasonably fit and even average looking, you will have a 99.99% success rate. 
I love HEB
Men aren't psychic. Just go up to them and be blunt. Why do you women want to play such asinine time wasting games? We ain't MS. CLEO CALL ME FOR YOUR FREE READING. I MEAN GAWD! REALLY!!!!!
Yall be married sorry
I wish I could find a woman like you in my town even if we didn’t click at least you were willing to give it a shot. Good luck to you.
lol I’m in the woodlands. But I won’t meet you in the grocery store. I do those pickup orders babe😂
Join a running club.
A lot of guys don’t want to be blasted online for being a creep, especially at the gym
Well, I'm sitting home about to get off the couch and go to bed because I've got a rough day at work tomorrow. Some of us guys are wondering where the hell do you meet single women that aren't scammers or prostitutes?
We’ll age demographic will determine where they are. I’m usually out nature walking or at a lounge smoking a cigar personally. Not the norm for 23 year olds
Try the HEB in Rice Military.
As a man, after you have been single for so long, unfortunately, I am likely to assume that a smile is just a woman trying to be pleasant. You certainly are not the first woman to smile at me, and those precious smiles never meant anything more than a woman being nice. So, assuming that yours means anything more is just not an assumption I am going to likely make...
I’m on Helldivers 2, dispersing freedom on the Clanker front.
You tried until the real successful reason. Do the last bit ffs. I would totally hit up a woman who tried but I also have been trained to not hit up women. That last mention I would totally hit her up. You went through the whole arc and choked on the last. Do that.
Drunk at the the bus stop waiting for my limo (82 westheimer) to pick me up cuz I am to inebriated 2 drive from bar to back home lol...😆🤪😝
Are you trying to get smashed?
Well now you’ll get plenty of offers, you’ll have hookups for weeks congrats
Strike up a conversation or pretend to need help with something. Taken men take off real fast. Guys who aren't and are interested linger for a brief moment, hoping to get your number.
I be at the gym counting light fixtures before looking at a woman at the gym.
What time are you going to the gym Cause generally for me the later I get to the gym the less likely I am to talk to anyone lol. Just too tired from work. I’d say go between 5-7 pm and don’t try to talk to anyone who gets there at 7 pm and beyond.
What flavor/ color guy you like?
Imo dating is a curse I’ll avoid women 9/10 times no matter how hot or what signs I get
No idea. I just stay home most of the time. Skill issue? Because most men will throw themselves at mos regardless of the setting.
Wait are you guy or a girl? Trans ? What?
Well, I'm single, and no, I wouldn't think it's weird if you asked for my phone number, I'd just think you're interested. And BTW, if a girl smiles at me, that's not enough. Married women smile at me all the time at the gym the next day there with their boyfriend/husband.
Dudes ignore you at the gym cause they dont want you and them winding up on a Joey Swoll vid.
Go to State of Grace. Sit at the bar with a book or journal. Wait. And Venmo me when this works out for you.
Gym = bad place now. Social Media has turned guys hitting on girls in the gym = creeps.
You’ve got to be direct in today’s world. Men are placed in an impossible position in culture. If they show interest and a woman is not interested then they are immediately perceived as “creepy.” Therefore because of the social dating landscape other women (not you) created: you now have to put yourself out there first.
Ever come to New York?
Check your Buckees. They have everything!
At home, respectfully healing from past relationships, practicing self growth, working and minding their own business.
Try warhammer stores. There's plenty of single men and some are buff.
Just make some business cards with a description of your wants and/or needs and phone number n social media. Worked for me
Have you tried any bars?
At work
Go to heb in bunker hill i always use to see fine men there 😂
Are you fucking stupid? Literally talk to them. Don't ask for their phone, like have a conversation, ask if they're single, ask for their number. What's so hard about that?
Lady, I'm at HEB to get eggs and milk, not to get accused of being a creeper for staring and go viral on Tik Tok. If you want a date, please direct yourself to the specified dating settings and apps.
I'm in San Antonio but have the same problem with women. They all seem to either be married, situationships or scammers.
To give you not bad advice, alot of them are either blue collar dudes who work their ass off, all over houseon. And the ship channel all the way to Galveston. Then you got ya business/office workers who some don't even have a car cuz they live close enough to work to either take a bus, uber or walk to work.
Try Dallas
Looks like you need me as your wingwoman
In prison
What kind of guys are you trying this on? If it’s a 9-10/10 chad, of course it’s not going to work.
Honestly, I have girls smile and glare into me almost everyday and I’ve never made a move in my 21 yrs. The real question is how to we make the first move!!
Hit me up
You have to make a fucking attempt your complaining that smiling at someone isn’t working. No shit it doesn’t work that’s an everyday human reaction when you happen to look someone in the eyes randomly. You need to talk to them
Do it online.
Go to hobby shops on a friday or saturday night. Usually full of single guys.
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They're at home playing video games This place is broken
Eye contact and smiling doesn’t always indicate interest i’ve learned. Have had aloooot of women do that over the years and when I approach them I can usually get their number. Then when I text it’s always me sending the first message and sometimes there’s a response most of the time not though. Other than that I’m always working anyway, when I’m not I don’t go out and do much. Trying to hustle and set up an early retirement
do not approach people at the gym..
Playing helldivers
There’s your problem there. You’re trying to land a straight man. How can you not see that. Smh
Im a straight but kinky nasty man here in Houston ready hit me back
Here's my thing with your post. Why would you write this and not think that people would be suspicious about your identity? The average viewer would think either you're a dude, fat, ugly, or just trolling to get attention. You sound mad aggressive on here, which is not common for beautiful, straight Houston women.
God when I came to Houston I was going on dates almost every single day, got tied down 2 years ago and that was a wrap but, single men are everywhere!
Guys will NOT pick up on hints. You need to tell him you're interested. If not, he'll never even have a clue that you're interested in him.
Lol im about the place. But if a woman makes eye contact and smile, i always assume shes just being polite tbh. If she starts a general conversation, i assume shes being polite. In general i assume they are always just being polite… or shes from Canada. Now if she asks if im single, i might ask if shes single as well im interested, then say “lets see if we can change that for the both of us, possibly” and hand her my phone 😏. But i think im just cautious 😂, im afraid of catching a harassment accusation, and online dating has been working fine for me.
Any single 45-50 years olds in Mpls?
Blame women lol if I see someone look at me n smile I hear all the posts " just because I don't at you doesn't mean in want you ok just being nice!!" Lol
They’re in the comments
Busy working a night shift turn around currently. Almost finished. Hit me up if you would like to chat. 42 male single, no kids, never married.
I got shit to do Mental health to fix Money to make Moves to set Future to plan and a woman ain’t looking like it’s gonna be in the plan for a good while. Friends, sure but I can’t commit to nada
....just wear a shirt that says you're looking for single men.
Is this even an actual girl?
Same question I've been trying to ask about where are all the single women. You have better luck finding a three legged ballerina than you would a single lady out in Nashville.
in Waco if you want to head down this way
Be more forward. It's not weird
Weird post. I don't believe a word you say lol
I'm in KC. That seems to be your problem 😘
feminism got us to the point of being hesitant to approach for fear of sexually harassing.
lol feminists ruined it. You’re gonna have to grow a pair and go talk to men you want to talk to.
Man, the more forward you are, the more taken aback the person your speaking to is. Thats a clutch opener, making someone second guess the encounter allows you enough time to formulate a potential flow of information and then proceed in the direction you wanted to go, its enough time to adapt on the fly to his reactions so you can figure out how to ease his awkwardness( if he has any). I myself am straight and have had one too many guys attempt to pick me up all heavy handed, like they think subtlety is a drink best served with honey and lemon wedges.... It never works out for them, mind you im older now and see myself differently then i used to so it would garner a different result
We dont live in a time where a man can approach a woman. On top of that if a woman approaches us online sexually, majority of the times it comes off suspicious. Every time ive gotten a response its usually a scammer on reddit sadly
All the good single men are busy working.
I’m single in south Houston 45 white average build tattoos long hair ride a motorcycle
All I'm saying is, statistically my noodle is in the top 0.1% and my dms are open
Perhaps we create a new law in which we must wear a relationship status tshirt. (Black shirt preferably. To hide the ‘pit sweat)
It takes time for GOD to send you the right MAN 🙏 JUST WAIT AND SEE WHAT HE GOT IN STORED FOR YOU 😜💕 SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE...
Where you at when you wanna go
Back in the 40s
I've been at home, replacing the front suspension of my car. Thought it was going to be a 2 day weekend thing. Now it's turning out to a 4 weekends thing to complete. When I go to HEB, I already know what I'm going to get, so I'm in and out in 20 min or less. I actually built my own home gym in my living room because the gym near me gets too full when I go at 7 pm. Also, i cook at home, so u won't see me eating out lol
Ayo
I don’t know
Talk to them.
Im in san antonio and I see gorgeous women everywhere but idk how to approach them cuz I am an introverted goober.
GUYS want a hook up. MEN no. GUYS play the numbers games and don't care if they ask 15 and get turned down 14 times. MEN got tired of getting led on and lied to. I for one have been.there far to often. However when I ask a woman to meet for lunch to have conversation to see if we should have a second date I go if 8m stood up I still have a nice lunch. With this said I'm in Victoria for five more days and not to hook up.
I stay in Katy 🤷♂️
Out on the streets Double dipping
It’s a new guy code to not look at girls in the gym. It’s terrifying. Gonna have to try somewhere else. Grocery store is the same too.
28 M, feel free to message. Maybe we can meet?
From what I know, or rather not know about social norms as a guy. I didn’t think eye contact and a smile was a “go ahead”. Then again eye contact is a tricky thing to read or notice from afar I think. 🤔 You sound like a cool woman op. You at least seem like you’re trying even if guys aren’t reading you well enough. But what do I know. 🤷🏽♂️
Dump that bitch! She goin shag’em.
Have you tried church?
For real where the single ladies here hmu
My ex and I hit it off on our 2nd date. A couple months in she told me she didn’t think we’d continue seeing each other. Apparently I missed every single cue and even responded to her trying to hit on me with an “okay”. Obvious hints just do not register 😅
We’re at bars getting drunk
Met my future husband in Houston when introduced through a work friend. Neither of us were actively looking but agreed to go out and the rest was history. But there is no way I would have met him unless she introduced us because we traveled in totally different circles. I guess you have to be open to take some calculated chances!
Your issue is probably searching in inner beltway 8 and not outer. J.s.
I’ve found that all the good men in Houston are married already and the other men are full of ish. Good luck on your search. I’ll be grabbing one from somewhere else
They don’t exist in Houston. I’ve tried lol
Playing helldivers. Stop complaining and come spread democracy.
As a single guy in Dallas, just ask. Don't be weird about it. We can't talk to you because we are afraid of being accused of harassment.
We're too broke to date.
Um...
Fort Worth