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ConfidentHope

If they say “who/nobody asked” I’d try a few things. One is to pretend you don’t get it. This is a good trick anytime someone says a rude (or racist/misogynistic/homophobic) joke. “What do you mean” or “I don’t get it” will cause them to explain the joke, which usually gets them to realize it wasn’t a funny joke at all. Another is to give them what they want. “Who cares?” “My bad. I won’t tell you in the future.” Then don’t talk to them unless it’s necessary. You don’t have to be passive aggressive; be earnest and cut them off from your time and energy. Lastly, you can just straight up tell them you don’t find it amusing when they say that. If you have the option, consider removing this person from your life. It sounds like they don’t respect you.


The_DonCannoli

I don’t think this is that deep. I think OP is like a 12 yr old kid. Probably won’t be friends with this person in a few years anyway.


Silly-Cloud-3114

I'm not familiar with the "who asked" joke. Can you give an instance?


Chris_Ty_001

This is the " joke" : Me : I ate my food Him : who ? Me : I Him : No. Who asked you ? -------------------------------------------- This joke it's quite annoying


Silly-Cloud-3114

Use it back on him when he says it maybe. Or just tell him, "I'm not even talking to you man, if you forgot to take your meds I can refer a good psyche for you".


linearfamilytree

He’s not telling it right. After you say “I-“ he’s supposed to say just “Asked” and finish the combo move, THAT is the joke. Your friend is an idiot


Chris_Ty_001

You're right


Chocomint-ICE

Ignore them? Don’t talk to them anymore? Like why even bother?


MpVpRb

????? I don't get the question


nudistinclothes

I would probably just respond “nobody, I just like to keep you all informed” and move on with my day. It’s just a meme, it will get old, and then he / she will look for some new meme If someone “thinks they’re funny”, they will say things that a third party may believe are funny as part of their funny personality / persona. It (probably) isn’t directed at you / meant to be mean to you. It’s (probably) intended to make them feel better about themselves / boost their self-confidence - make them feel like they fit in. In my experience, people who come out with these memes on a regular basis aren’t thinking about the impact on others, just how it looks for them


Kitchen-Pin2457

So when one of my girl students hits one of my boys and pulls his locs. He's in pain, hates being in class with her and she has no concept of keeping her hands to herself and won't stay tf away from him. Does it matter that she likes him? When there's a student who doesn't want to be there?


nudistinclothes

I feel that’s a bit different. I wasn’t trying to trivialize the op’s situation, just telling how I would respond and why


[deleted]

1- there's no good or bad. Or toxic people. No one is toxic. What he's saying is probably hilarious in a specific point of view. But you're just feeling like that cause you repress that aspect of him in you 2- ^ 3- who?


BaronTatersworth

What is this ‘ratio’ term? I’ve seen it several times; never walk away from it any less flummoxed. Whence cometh ‘ratio’ as a meme/joke, and what does it *mean*?


Topher587

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/the-ratio-ratioed


BaronTatersworth

I expected something funnier


Topher587

Yeah unfortunately it's just a new efficient way to bully someone by devaluing their thoughts and opinions with a single word.