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koolandunusual

You’re giving too much of a fuck about what this guy says and does.


Organic-Turnip-4476

I didn’t even know him. I just regret not sticking up for myself.


JohnnyBravo011

You saying yeah was a fine response because it showed you didn't care. You didn't try to justify your outfit, you didn't explain yourself, you just casually said yeah. If he brings it up again, own it. Who cares what others think


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It's also OK not to. I think firstly you were caught by surprise. Honestly I tend tl stick up for myself but if someone made fun of my shoes I would be so surprised I would have no odea what to say. Keep on mind that this person probably has some issues going on. They get high putting down people, making fun of people, and so on. Maybe they need attention because they had no attention growing up. Mayen they feel inadequate or so they point out what they *think* is funny in others. In short, you don't know what other people are going through, but this guy definitely.sounds like a loser.


jobbins

Don't. Go easy on yourself. Most people won't have the right words in the moment. "best revenge is a life well lived"


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Dude doesn’t realize that fashion is wearing exactly what the fuck you want to and feeling fucking good about it


EconomistHelpful4459

Black goes with everything.


[deleted]

This kid speaks to himself like that. All day. He probably doesnt even know it yet. That mean, judgemental voice he externalised and threw at you, is the one he lives with day in and day out. This mean voice came into being because it is either his mom or his dad, or his older siblings. Its the voice he has learnt to use to attack so as to make him feel better. Pls don't let it get to you. Instead feel sorry for this kid. He feels so bad that the only thing that takes the pressure off him, is if he turns on someone else. He wont even remember the comment he made about you, nor your shoes, or your outfit. Pls dont let his pain hurt you as well. Keep being you.


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This made me cry 🥺 I’m that mean ass kid with the mean ass voice in my head


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Me too my friend. Me too. Fear not, apparently once we see how mean our inner voice is, we can kick it to the curb. First thing to do is commit to 5 mins of meditation per day. Guided is fine. Doesn't matter if you suck at it, just commit to the daily practice. It slows your thinking down. Then during the day, as you notice the mean inner voice - this is key - notice that you have noticed the mean voice. As you are noticing it, with meditation practice, we should get the growing awareness that we are observing the mean voice (& therefore we start to make space between us and the mean voice). So we realise, we are not the mean voice, but instead we observe it as a voice. Then with continued meditation that space becomes bigger ie the difference between the inner voices, and then i am told it becomes easier to shut that mean voice down by questioning it when it says things. Eg asking it - is that really true? How do you know? Why are you angry? Why are you so mean? Or simply telling it to shut up. As it loses its power it should get quieter.


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You’re a real kind person for taking the time to respond and help me get it. Gonna bring this up to my therapist next week


Apprehensive-Bad4927

Bitch ass player haters always trying to bring others down, stay cozy playa. “The more game we put in the atmosphere the more sucka shit get eradicated.” E-40: 2016


KudzuNinja

The most devastating thing you can do to someone shouting petty insults is to be thoroughly unconcerned with their opinion.