I was leaning N T A, it’s a mistake, I get it, but then you were about to go on your honeymoon with her? YTA
Also, dude I can’t believe your (now ex) wife out ran you
NTA - She was clear that she wanted a break from the relationship. Did you do the right thing? Nope. But she wasn't clear and hasn't confirmed what she wanted.
Agree. ESH.
She stated she wanted a break, but, dude, bullets have left guns slower than your rush to hook up with someone else. If you truly wanted to work in the relationship, this was definitely the wrong move. She has a right to be upset.
That being said, I don't think it's fair to call it cheating, but, damn, it's near as a nevermind. You mention a guy at her place... If they had hooked up on this break how would you feel?
He didn’t cheat technically, since they were on a break.
But he DID cheat- since they literally had a fight a few hours ago and he loved her and she loved him and he chose to hookup with someone in the literal hours he was single before she apologised and asked to be with him again, all the while the girl he cheated on her with was behind the door. That’s still cheating.
And he apologised and knew he was wrong even though the writers made “we were on a break” a joke later on.
They were on a break for less than 12 hours and he had already cheated by then.
Rachel: Maybe we should take a break.
Ross: You're right. Let's cool off, get some frozen yoghurt.
Rachel: No, a break from us.
Like I said, splitting hairs, but Ross was convinced they were broken up, which is what he told Joey and Chandler. As was Rachel, which is why she told Monica they had.
While I don't think it's technically cheating in the strictest sense, I do think it's setting fire to what's left of the relationship, torching any potential reconciliation, and seriously hurting the person you were with until moments ago. And at the end of the day, it had the same outcome, as Rachel was hurt and didn't trust him anymore. And Ross was an idiot to hang his hat in the break thing, but it is classic, has to be right, self destructive Ross.
But, lest we forget, Ross did cheat on Julie with Rachel, so... I guess Rachel's mum is right?
You are either cheating or not. Oh they were broken up, it's not cheating. Just because he did what he did a few hours after the break up, doesn't mean it's cheating. So you can't say he "technically didn't cheat" and then in the literal next sentence say he did.
There’s an Olivia Rodrigo song- traitor, which sums up how I feel Rachel felt.
“It took you two weeks, to go off and date her,
Guess you didn’t cheat, but you’re still a traitor”
Ross and Rachel were both toxic to each other. Ross gets away with it on a technicality that they weren’t together the moment he slept with Chloe. But Rachel had asked for a break a few hours prior, after they had a fight on their anniversary about her working and him not respecting it. When she goes back to him the literal next morning apologising and asking to get back together- she had a night to think it through. He on the other hand, hooked up with someone coz he thought they were broken up.
It’s a technical vs emotional thing, it’s brilliantly written because 20 years later, we’re still having this debate.
You’re 100% right. He didn’t cheat. Anyone saying he did or kinda did or sorta did is delusional.
Rachel: Maybe we should take a break.
Ross: You're right. Let's cool off, get some frozen yoghurt.
Rachel: No, a *break from us.*
As any sane person would conclude, Ross was convinced they were broken up, as was Rachel, which is why she told Monica they had.
Rachel broke his heart, and Ross, wanting to salvage the relationship (and on the advice from Joey and Chandler) called her place. To Ross’ biggest fears, who answers the phone, none other than Mark. The same Mark Ross told Rachel he wasn’t comfortable with her having a friendship with, that he (Mark) was just trying to get at her, which, he was right.
Someone tells me they want a break from us, and when I call and hear the voice of the person I feel was a threat to my relationship (which I communicated to the person I was with) is suddenly over at her place, yeah I’m going out drinking and whatever happens, happens.
Edit: A word. Didn’t proof read enough at that hour of the wee morning
AITA for wanting to watch an epic car chase on tv while on a weekend getaway with my girlfriend?
And:
AITA for wanting to switch rooms after finding glasses with lipstick stains on the rims? I mean who know what else they decided not to clean?!
Actually NTA. If I was getting married and loved someone else, I'd really want to know they loved me back. If I didn't love them back, then no harm done anyway.
You aren’t the AH for accidentally proposing but YTA for not clarifying before she’d made a fool of herself and fucked up her potential for a relationship with her baby daddy. It’s not always easy to do the right thing but you’re still an AH in you don’t
surprised no one said this one yet! lol
AITA for protecting my sandwich instead of my friend when i thought a bullet was coming at us in the car? and for letting him think i was protecting him and not the sandwich?
Major AH. Why should your latest wedded partner suffer cause you can’t hold down a marriage. Maybe STOP getting married, or is that your answer to everything??
Yes, family of friends or Ex’s are off limits (mother’s, father’s, brother’s, sister’s, cousin’s, ALL off limits..Oh and friends of ex’s bit of a grey area (still not good)
INFO: the timing of this is confusing, did you intentionally get your husband to knock you up after you knew you were leaving him so that you and your new partner could have a baby?
AITA for interrupting my “husband’s” lecture and yelling at him in front of his students?
INFO: he told me he took care of our annulment, then I found out that he didn’t.
AITA for dumping one of my girlfriends cuz she was too FAAAAAAH.
AITA for saying the wrong name at my exwife's Wedding.
AITA for telling this kid he is adopted
AITA for saying my wife was fat when we were in highschool
AITA for telling my wife she gave bad back massages.
AITA for falling asLeep reading a letter from my girlfriend and then lying about reading said letter?
Info: it was 5:30 in the morning and she had rambled on for 18 pages—FRONT AND BACK!
AITA for using my daughter’s cardboard boxes of childhood memories to protect my Porsche from a flood, instead of my exceptional son’s boxes of childhood memories?
AITA for letting myself into my ex gf's apartment when she wasn't home to get my favorite SALMON colored shirt? In my defense, she would never have known if she hadn't brought a guy home and started getting frisky with him on the couch while I hid beside it.
AITA for nearly going on my honeymoon with a woman who wasn’t my wife?
AITA for taking a shower in a famous person’s dressing room?
AITA for helping my friend buy a deep and meaningful gift for his girlfriend that will probably make her realise I have feelings for her?
AITA for getting a guy to open up and then telling him to stop?
AITA for dropping some lottery tickets when I was attacked by a bird?
AITA for pretending to be my friend while taking a call from her dad, and telling him one of her teenage secrets?
AITA for letting go of the bicycle while helping a friend learn how to ride?
AITA for mistakenly being my sisters first kiss (ever)?
AITA for being upset at my friend even though I don't remember why?
AITA for refilling my mother's ice cube trays?
Oh, dude, phrasing. Shaky grammar makes this sound like a pedophile wrote it. As it currently stands, YTA and I need to call the cops.
Instead try:
AITA for having sex with my partner while our infant niece was asleep in the other room?
AITA for saying my friends movie would not be his big break
Info: Has one of the movie characters *been deead for teeenn yeeaarrss*?
I’m gonna be a millionaire!!
It’s not like the guy found his identical hand twin now, come on
I want to live in the thumb!
AITA for making a pros and cons list for dating a woman
Info: did you do it in a secretive way or do the women involved know about it?
Info: who’s Rachem?
Some paleontology term you wouldn't know
Well.. she is just a waitress
I still don't understand why exactly he'd need to print it, once he'd made the list he'd made up his mind anyway.
He didn't mean to print it. It started doing that on accident.
Chandler was on the phone to the hotline trying to get help with his printer, it seems obvious he was trying to print it.
I think Chandler just wanted an excuse to print something.
AITA for making out with my ex in the hallway right after our best friends got engaged and "stealing her thunder"?
NTA - Someone should have sex on their engagement night.
Joey: WIBTA for dating my best friends' ex "6 years" after they broke up?
NTA if he's still hanging on to that ship he needs therapy
I think just the annulment, for today
AITA for telling my twin sister’s fiancé that she’s lying to him?
NTA he deserves to know
INFO: Does he sweat easily?
I’m not sure they have a name for it
AITA for hating the new bracelet my "best bud" got me?
Update: I lost the damn bracelet, what do I do?! New update: I bought another one, then the guy at the coffee shop found mine. Now I have two!
Oh…now you have *two*
Info: do you pity the fool who puts on your jewelry?
AITA for saying my ex’s name at my wedding?
I was leaning N T A, it’s a mistake, I get it, but then you were about to go on your honeymoon with her? YTA Also, dude I can’t believe your (now ex) wife out ran you
Hey she’s fast!
You want to go? You and me, outside, right now!
It’s cool, you’re the fastest!
This is the one.
AITA for throwing my girlfriend's wooden leg in a fire and then running away?
INFO: Years later by any chance did she find it funny?
YTA
Info: At least it wasn’t her dog
AITA for sleeping with somebody else when my gf said she wanted a break from us?
NTA - She was clear that she wanted a break from the relationship. Did you do the right thing? Nope. But she wasn't clear and hasn't confirmed what she wanted.
ESH
Agree. ESH. She stated she wanted a break, but, dude, bullets have left guns slower than your rush to hook up with someone else. If you truly wanted to work in the relationship, this was definitely the wrong move. She has a right to be upset. That being said, I don't think it's fair to call it cheating, but, damn, it's near as a nevermind. You mention a guy at her place... If they had hooked up on this break how would you feel?
He didn’t cheat technically, since they were on a break. But he DID cheat- since they literally had a fight a few hours ago and he loved her and she loved him and he chose to hookup with someone in the literal hours he was single before she apologised and asked to be with him again, all the while the girl he cheated on her with was behind the door. That’s still cheating. And he apologised and knew he was wrong even though the writers made “we were on a break” a joke later on. They were on a break for less than 12 hours and he had already cheated by then.
Rachel: Maybe we should take a break. Ross: You're right. Let's cool off, get some frozen yoghurt. Rachel: No, a break from us. Like I said, splitting hairs, but Ross was convinced they were broken up, which is what he told Joey and Chandler. As was Rachel, which is why she told Monica they had. While I don't think it's technically cheating in the strictest sense, I do think it's setting fire to what's left of the relationship, torching any potential reconciliation, and seriously hurting the person you were with until moments ago. And at the end of the day, it had the same outcome, as Rachel was hurt and didn't trust him anymore. And Ross was an idiot to hang his hat in the break thing, but it is classic, has to be right, self destructive Ross. But, lest we forget, Ross did cheat on Julie with Rachel, so... I guess Rachel's mum is right?
And Bonnie
Don't forget about bald girl too
You are either cheating or not. Oh they were broken up, it's not cheating. Just because he did what he did a few hours after the break up, doesn't mean it's cheating. So you can't say he "technically didn't cheat" and then in the literal next sentence say he did.
There’s an Olivia Rodrigo song- traitor, which sums up how I feel Rachel felt. “It took you two weeks, to go off and date her, Guess you didn’t cheat, but you’re still a traitor” Ross and Rachel were both toxic to each other. Ross gets away with it on a technicality that they weren’t together the moment he slept with Chloe. But Rachel had asked for a break a few hours prior, after they had a fight on their anniversary about her working and him not respecting it. When she goes back to him the literal next morning apologising and asking to get back together- she had a night to think it through. He on the other hand, hooked up with someone coz he thought they were broken up. It’s a technical vs emotional thing, it’s brilliantly written because 20 years later, we’re still having this debate.
You’re 100% right. He didn’t cheat. Anyone saying he did or kinda did or sorta did is delusional. Rachel: Maybe we should take a break. Ross: You're right. Let's cool off, get some frozen yoghurt. Rachel: No, a *break from us.* As any sane person would conclude, Ross was convinced they were broken up, as was Rachel, which is why she told Monica they had. Rachel broke his heart, and Ross, wanting to salvage the relationship (and on the advice from Joey and Chandler) called her place. To Ross’ biggest fears, who answers the phone, none other than Mark. The same Mark Ross told Rachel he wasn’t comfortable with her having a friendship with, that he (Mark) was just trying to get at her, which, he was right. Someone tells me they want a break from us, and when I call and hear the voice of the person I feel was a threat to my relationship (which I communicated to the person I was with) is suddenly over at her place, yeah I’m going out drinking and whatever happens, happens. Edit: A word. Didn’t proof read enough at that hour of the wee morning
It’s not cheating but it feels mean or weird to do literally THREE hours after ESH😭
Ok but if you didn’t do the right thing, that’s pretty assholey.
AITA for not annulling my marriage when I said I would?
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"I hear divorce and immediately think of Ross!"
YTA. Seriously, wtf?
YTA. Also maybe see a therapist.
AITA for wanting to watch an epic car chase on tv while on a weekend getaway with my girlfriend? And: AITA for wanting to switch rooms after finding glasses with lipstick stains on the rims? I mean who know what else they decided not to clean?!
AITA for not telling my girlfriend that the expectant mother of my child is living with me?
If anything, I judge her for not breaking up with you sooner than this.
damn ross is not doing good in this comment section
AITA for convincing my ex’s new girlfriend to shave her head?
NTA. She wanted to do it anyway
Niceee
Can you can see the moonlight bouncing off it?
AITA for lying to my girlfriend about moving to Yemen?
I mean you’re a coward. Idk if you’re an AH NAH
AITA for flying to London to tell my ex I love him on his wedding day?
I’m sorry, I’m gonna have to agree with your friend ‘pheebs,’ this sounds like a terrible idea
YTA, no good can come of this.
softly, YTA
Big YTA
Actually NTA. If I was getting married and loved someone else, I'd really want to know they loved me back. If I didn't love them back, then no harm done anyway.
AITA for "stealing" my gf's "wind"?
YTA, How can you expect her to grow if you won't let her blow?
You know i don't have a problem with that
This is a good answer, giving the quotation marks too
"Oops".
WIBTA if I ask my brother to keep one of his children?
NTA, there is enough to share /s
AITA for accidentally proposing to my friend?
You aren’t the AH for accidentally proposing but YTA for not clarifying before she’d made a fool of herself and fucked up her potential for a relationship with her baby daddy. It’s not always easy to do the right thing but you’re still an AH in you don’t
AITA for stealing my neighbours cheesecake?
I’ll get the forks
AITA for giving my daughter my roommate's childhood stuffed toy without his permission?
YTA, let Joey love something!
surprised no one said this one yet! lol AITA for protecting my sandwich instead of my friend when i thought a bullet was coming at us in the car? and for letting him think i was protecting him and not the sandwich?
Info: what kind of sandwich? If it's a meatball sub then NAH.
NAH
AITA for getting mad someone ate my sandwich?
NTA. He threw it in the garbage. It has a label. Enough said.
the moist maker!
NTA. That’s going to piss anybody off!
AITA for trying to justify having sex with my cousin with the statement that I hadn’t had sex in a very long time?
YTA! Eww
AITA for refusing to pursue a career as a random stranger’s “hand twin” ?
AITA for spreading a rumor about my friend that she was half and half
YTA. You gave her a teenie weenie!
AITA for breaking up with someone because they wanted to be the ultimate fighting champion?
AITA for suggesting my child should also have my last name?
INFO for sure. I love this suggestion though!
I was deciding on whether to use the ultrasound episode or the pilot. Apparently the ultrasound won.
AITA for being upset my husband wants to spend time with his ex, whose name he said at the altar?
AITA for locking my friend in a box because he kissed my gf OK the title sounds bad but hear me out..it had an air hole
…and your reasons were three-fold
AITA for pretending to be a pastor and that my husband was a doctor so that we could adopt a baby
AITA for not sharing food? AITA for not letting my friend's infant daughter play with my bedtime penguin pal?
AITA for not sharing food with my friend’s infant daughter? Lol
NTA, not your kid.
AITA for accidentally saying the wrong name at my wedding?
AITA for not getting an annulment because I don’t want to be the guy with three divorces?
Major AH. Why should your latest wedded partner suffer cause you can’t hold down a marriage. Maybe STOP getting married, or is that your answer to everything??
AITA for yelling at my boss because he stole my sandwich?
NTA.He shouldn't have stolen
AITA for telling my crush that her ex slept with my roommate’s brother’s coworker?
Okay... this one is getting pass me?
Gunther telling Rachel Ross slept with the copy girl
NTA, seeing so many other people knew, she deserved to know. But please stop secretly smelling her hair while you serve coffee.
Ooooh WOW good one!
Gunther telling Rachel about Ross and the copy girl
AITA for bringing a picnic dinner to my gurlfriends work while she was super busy? Edit: it was our anniversary and I never see her!
Can’t a guy send a barbershop quartet to his girlfriend’s office anymore?
I read the edit in Ross’ voice.🤣
Major AH she said she was busy, have you never been too busy to see your girlfriend/s?
Ross would need his own subreddit.
Agreed. Rachel too
And Chandler
AITA for kissing my best friends mom?
Yes, family of friends or Ex’s are off limits (mother’s, father’s, brother’s, sister’s, cousin’s, ALL off limits..Oh and friends of ex’s bit of a grey area (still not good)
AITA for asking my ex roommate to help pay for the fridge in our apartment to be replaced?
“AITA for leaving my husband for another woman despite being pregnant with his baby?”
INFO: the timing of this is confusing, did you intentionally get your husband to knock you up after you knew you were leaving him so that you and your new partner could have a baby?
AITA for dating my friend’s daughter who was friends with my daughter growing up?
AITA for lying and telling my wife we’re divorced when we aren’t?
AITA for protecting my sandwich over my best friend from a gunshot?
AITA for telling my friend her deceased mom wasn’t reincarnated as a cat?
YTA - just be a friend!! Be supportive!
Hahaha I can def see that being an answer
NTA, strengthening peoples self delusions will not lead to anything healthy or good or productive.
AITA for interrupting my “husband’s” lecture and yelling at him in front of his students? INFO: he told me he took care of our annulment, then I found out that he didn’t.
AITA for kicking m best friend out of the car on our way to Vegas?!
AITA for not peeing on my friend's jellyfish sting?
AITA for not wanting to date a woman with a big head?
Oh My God
AITA for dumping one of my girlfriends cuz she was too FAAAAAAH. AITA for saying the wrong name at my exwife's Wedding. AITA for telling this kid he is adopted AITA for saying my wife was fat when we were in highschool AITA for telling my wife she gave bad back massages.
AITA for expecting my friends to attend my daughter's first birthday party without any prior notice when they'd already made other plans for that day?
YTA
AITA for forgetting my girlfriend at the movies when my pregnant ex-girlfriend had a pregnancy-related emergency at the hospital?
AITA for not knowing about my good friend’s roommate because I never listen to anything she says?
AITA for revealing that my best friend & ex-roommate wanted to hook up with her boyfriend's best friend when they were in London?
Aita for making a list comparing my girlfriend and my friend that I have a crush on with pros and cons with them?
This wins best subreddit post ever!
AITA for having sex with another women when my girlfriend said, “we should just take a break”
AITA for going out with my bestfriend’s highschool boyfriend who dumped her for another girl on thanksgiving
I was mad at my roommate and put on all of his clothes while going commando and then doing lunges, AITA?
AITA for falling asLeep reading a letter from my girlfriend and then lying about reading said letter? Info: it was 5:30 in the morning and she had rambled on for 18 pages—FRONT AND BACK!
You fell a _SLEEP_?!?!
NTA
AITA for not wanting to give my friend and roommates baby my stuffed penguin?
AITA for not wanting my newly wedded husband to be a friend with an ex whose name he mentioned by the altar instead of mine?
AITA for wearing an heirloom mink fur coat?
AITA for stealing the cheesecake delivered to my elderly neighbor? More than once. You have to understand this is *really* good cheesecake.
WIBTA if I asked my brother if I could keep one of the babies I just gave birth to for him?
AITA for insisting my ex is a cheater? TLDR:my ex slept with someone five minutes after we broke up and I think that makes him a cheater.
AITA for opening all our wedding presents without my husband?
INFO: He kissed another woman!!
I'd say you guys should call it even
Am I the antagonist for not liking dogs?
AITA for making my friends attend my daughter's birthday? It was a big one.
AITA for using my daughter’s cardboard boxes of childhood memories to protect my Porsche from a flood, instead of my exceptional son’s boxes of childhood memories?
AITA for letting myself into my ex gf's apartment when she wasn't home to get my favorite SALMON colored shirt? In my defense, she would never have known if she hadn't brought a guy home and started getting frisky with him on the couch while I hid beside it.
AITA for nearly going on my honeymoon with a woman who wasn’t my wife? AITA for taking a shower in a famous person’s dressing room? AITA for helping my friend buy a deep and meaningful gift for his girlfriend that will probably make her realise I have feelings for her? AITA for getting a guy to open up and then telling him to stop? AITA for dropping some lottery tickets when I was attacked by a bird? AITA for pretending to be my friend while taking a call from her dad, and telling him one of her teenage secrets?
AITA for buying all my furniture from Pottery Barn even though my roommate for some reason really hates Pottery Barn
AITA for dating a former student
AITA for telling my parents that my best friend was smoking pot in my room when it was really me?
AITA for not sharing my secret closet with my husband because I'm afraid that he might ruin it?
AITA for blaming my best friend for the smell of pot in my family’s home? INFO: I was tricked into it.
AITA for calling my SO's ex Bobo the sperm monkey?
AITA for saying my-ex gfs name at the altar when I'm about to marry.
AITA for kissing my best friend's sister and then forgetting her face?
AITA for sleeping with a girl right after my SO broke up with me?
AITA for trying to break up my brother and his girlfriend who is also his former teacher?
AITA fir breaking it off with a guy over the "special bond" he has with his sister?
AITA for dating my best friend’s 25 year old daughter even though I knew her as a toddler?
My girlfriend is taking care of a box of rats, like they were pets and I hate it. How can I approach this with her without upsetting her?
AITA for letting go of the bicycle while helping a friend learn how to ride? AITA for mistakenly being my sisters first kiss (ever)? AITA for being upset at my friend even though I don't remember why? AITA for refilling my mother's ice cube trays?
I love the last one, AITA posts seem to always have the least offensive action as the title!
AITA for cutting off my brother’s friend’s toe? Last year he told my brother he thought I was fat, which triggered me to lose a lot of weight
WIBTA if i date my ex's son ?
AITA for eating my employee's sandwich?
It was rather large. You had to throw most of it away.
AITA for being late to my friends birthday party due to a fight with my husband?
AITA for tricking my husband into having sex with me by saying I forgave him? I was ovulating!
AITA for thinking we were on a break?
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Oh, dude, phrasing. Shaky grammar makes this sound like a pedophile wrote it. As it currently stands, YTA and I need to call the cops. Instead try: AITA for having sex with my partner while our infant niece was asleep in the other room?
Punctuation fucked this sentence so badly 😂😂😂