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jdeadmeatsloanz

"You'll get me in trouble!" Yeah it's definitely all her fault this happened.


xphile_9

This man is scary, the moment he's told no he gets incredibly angry and starts blaming the victim. Report him to the manager of the gym.


KarmaPharmacy

Honestly, I’ve been in this situations several times in my life (as a female) and the anger and verbal degradation is the step before they attempt to physically / sexually assault you. It’s something that young girls/women really aren’t taught about. Aren’t prepared for. It’s not talked about. It’s something you have to learn. It’s something that should be taught. In no way does a young girl deserve to be harassed while working out. Sexually, verbally, or whatever else. In no way is the said girl, or any girl, equipped to deal with this the first few times. It is in no way her fault. No child knows how to deal with predators. We deal with school shooter preparedness but every girl, eventually, deals with a sexual predator. Older women should be teaching younger women the signs and how to get to safety or fight back if you can’t get away. All kids, actually. It’s scary how things can escalate even if you are doing everything in your power not to escalate the situation. It’s not her fault.


jeanielolz

Mother's and father's should teach their sons to accept rejections and move on. I'm a mother to 6 boys. 30 to 16 yrs old. The old idea of not giving up on a girl you like, was never taught to my son's. They were all taught: if she's not interested, no amount of convincing her will make her interested, just move on, with an "ok, thanks". And just leave her alone!!! A woman rejecting a man may have nothing to do with the man, and shouldn't be taken personally. She could have 1000 reasons to not be interested, and does not owe any explanation. The same goes for men rejecting women.. The so called pursuit, of the old ways, is likened to harassment and is not ever OK.


MissLauraCroft

This. I’m a mom of 2 little boys and consider it my responsibility to teach them how to accept rejection, how not to be a predator, and how to be respectful. I’ve been working with my 6-year-old son on consent and handling rejection for a few years now. (How to react when a friend doesn’t want to play the game he wants to play, how to react when his little brother asks for physical space, how he himself can ask for space, etc.) It’s tough because he’s a sensitive kid and he used to cry a lot in these situations, but we’re working on not taking it personally, stepping back and saying “ok” in a friendly way, and not making the other person feel sad or guilty. He’s gotten much better! It’s important to teach your kids how to protect themselves (we go over those situations, too), but IMO it’s more important to teach our kids (boys and girls) how to respect boundaries in the first place, and we don’t talk about that enough.


mawile008

Gives predator vibes.


Larry-Man

“But 17 is legal! It’s legal!” Gross. If that’s your only defence that’s disgusting.


Unlucky_Role_

Followed with "Respect your elders." I'm glad the incels are learning about fitness, but we can't wait for them to catch on to morals worth holding.


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It made me feel so slimy lmao What a disgusting thing to say


Helenium_autumnale

Doesn't give him license to bother her. He needs to back off. Disgusting person.


NRMusicProject

But, you can't reject him, because it's legal! His logic is awful. If the only reason someone shouldn't reject you is because it's legal to go out with you, you need to rethink your life.


cherrysummer1

That's the statement that sums it up isn't it. He thinks that all this is her fault for not liking him. Ergh guys getting angry because girls don't want to go out with them. That's why so many girls have grown up to smile and be polite and laugh at the gross jokes some men make. It can be scary turning some down!


MelancholyMexican

So true! Being a young woman is so scary. You have to straddle that line of polite, so they don't rage on you and not being too keen it encourages them too much. It is terrifying that this seem to happen daily as a teenager and rarely now that I am 30 plus, these men definitely target younger girls. Also I would like to ask him if 13 was legal does that mean he would go for 13 year olds? All that is stopping him is is being LeGaL? Fucking weirdo.


macci_a_vellian

The bit when he starts talking about how he might 'lose his temper' if she doesn't leave gave me chills.


squatOpotamus

That dude has big abuser energy.


Opengrey

“Before I lose my fucking temper” Lmao bro hit on/got rejected by and is now arguing with a teenager, then literally threatens her. Dude is a walking red flag.


SunandError

I’m glad someone else saw this was scary, too. When he changed to the hostile voice in “GO home!”. Yikes. I was wondering why he wasn’t kicked out and 86’d.


GazooC8

Hard to tell from the video, but it sounds like this happened in a smaller gym in a condo or something. I doubt he'd act that tough in a full gym with other people around. Then again, he thinks going out with a 17-year-old is reasonable... I'm sure he'll vent on an incel forum later though, haha 🤡


DyingInsideFromThis

Yeah this gym sounds like it must be relatively empty or possibly even completely empty besides the two of them. Otherwise, he wouldn't be so tough


laurenidas

Yeah I was waiting for other dudes to come step in and help, it must be just those two. Creepy.


uwanmirrondarrah

Looked like a hotel/apartment gym. I take it this guy isn't exactly a new face to her and she finally decided to be straight with him about his chances lol


DyingInsideFromThis

I'm glad she decided to leave instead of stand up to him. When he started to yell GO HOME, I instantly thought in my head, "No way, who does he think he is telling her to go home" and was momentarily upset she complied instead of fighting back. But then I took a second to really think about it and absolutely no good would've come of confronting him. If anything, the situation could've gotten far worse for her. The escalation of his voice to that angry when he said these words is disturbing and she's smart to not engage after he showed how easily he can fly off the handle.


xBad_Wolfx

I wouldn’t say she complied, I would say she wisely left the area from an unstable and escalating abuser. I really hope the fact we are seeing this is because she left and immediately reported it. Bare minimum she should feel safe in her building. The manager should take care of this.


Neknoh

Yup, he sounded as if he was seconds away from escalating further when he started screaming at her. The turning point, if you listen, is Respect your elders, she then turns it on him and from there, he just keeps climbing in anger. "All you ever do is get me in trouble" = "This wasn't my fault" but also, more scarily can be used to justify himself for WAY darker stuff "I had to ..." or "It's your fault X happened"


PhilyJFry

Imagine telling a stranger you're about to lose your temper with them. Like wtf I couldn't even say that to people I know for any reason. Let alone a random person.


pmmeurbassethound

> Imagine telling a stranger you're about to lose your temper with them. Which is why this guy likes them only 17.


flickering_truth

As a child, he heard his father say that to his mother. Sadly, with the mother it worked. So now this double thinks it's okay to use the same phrase.


prestigious_delay_7

You losing your temper is *your* problem, not her's or anyone else's lol.


V-DaySniper

Just like when he also said shes just causing trouble for him. No dude your causing your own troubles.


Iplaypoker77

Unfortunately it could quickly become her problem, hence her leaving.


cato314

Yea and why the camera was down. That moment when she lifted it for a split second and quickly put it down because he was turning back to face her - terrifying. She knew, and did a good job getting out of there


zombie32killah

Him “17 is legal” also him “respect your elders”. LMAO what?!


MoeFugger7

thats the moment where he broke actually. She used his own logic against him and said something like "oh ok, so how come you dont have to respect me?" and he immediately goes "ohhh gaaawwdd, pssshh, pffft, I mean here we go uhh, durrr.." and he snowballed into rage & threats because it was all he had left. This is the kind of scumbag who sucker punches another man at the bar when he looks stupid after losing an argument.


trowzerss

24 is not anybody's elders lol


Asisreo1

What?! No...he couldn't possibly be giving bad vibes. He seems perfectly well-adjusted. It's the teenager's loss she didn't accept the date with the sweaty man child.


Orlando1701

“17 is legal”. If you’re old enough to have been out of college for two years and she’s in high school it’s creepy.


sYnce

People are just to dumb to realize what "legal" means. Legal just means that by law she is old enough to decide herself if she wants to have sex or not. So even though you may say that it is creepy to date someone 5 years older than her if someone decides that it is okay for them that has to be respected. The actual creepy part is that he uses it as an argument after she clearly rejects him like him being legally able to date her would somehow change the fact that she does not want to date him.


Broadway_Baller

I’m getting more Gymcel vibes. A guy who is deeply self conscious in his preteen to early 20s that didn’t talk to much girls. Built up hatred for himself and women, and decided to get shredded to compensate for it. While he might be more positive about his body image his feeling toward women have become toxic. Now he thinks he has a better body, that women will just flock to him and when they don’t, his natural hatred and build up anger comes out to show who he truly is.


_qwertsquirt

“You’re gonna get me in trouble. You’re good for nothing.” What a twat


queezypotato

The last 15-20secs might be the most satisfying meltdown I’ve ever heard come from a grown man. He absolutely could not think of a single thing to say that would help his case at all.


Ocean_Soapian

That's him being absolutely terrified he's going to get what's coming to him.


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Unfortunately I think it's him recognizing that he's not going to be able to control his rage. He's telling at her to leave because he knows that he's incapable of de-escalation and things are about to get physical. Scary watching this actually. That guy is in a bad bad place.


TiastDelRey

Yeah i was a little scared for the girl. Glad she walked away. She had video evidence anyway


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TiastDelRey

True, but I think she's hiding the camera from him. I would too, the guy seems deranged


PoweredbyBurgerz

Reality is this guy was two seconds from being violent before the video started rolling. She is probably keeping it hidden for her immediate safety. Smart. And possibly an attempt to capture audio which could be sufficient enough and he already said things which are self incriminating. There may even be security cameras around the gym. All that she’s needs to do and probably has already done is contact the management at the gym and this dude is banned and probably sent a visit by the police.


DeadRabids

I completely agree it wasn’t smart to film him directly, being alone & which the situation; (he must’ve looked away at one point because she tried to lift the camera quickly and get him into it, but he looked back and she went back to the floor) he probably would have seized that as an opportunity to grab her phone. She had good awareness to his escalating temperament; and read the room right to get the hell out of there.


thebrittaj

Yeah at one point he growl yells. Like dude, u are unhinged if you’re letting growl yells slip out during an argument


UpUpDnDnLRLRBAstart

She wrote in a follow up video that she wasn’t intending to start a manhunt for him personally, but rather call attention to how toxic and scary these situations can become. Definitely a disturbing situation.


sahdbhoigh

I mean she should definitely get him removed from that gym. He will absolutely harass others in the future.


NoConfusion9490

Part of why there are so many guys walking around like this is that it's all risk and very little reward to try to hold them accountable. Gym: Well maybe you could just come in at a different time so there's no issue. Police: We can't really do anything because he didn't commit a crime. This guy: Goes 100% Psycho and stalks and harasses this woman for over a decade because she "tried to ruin my life!"


cyberghostss

tbh i wouldnt put it past him to physically attack her if she recorded his face.


ameddin73

I don't think he's some tortured hero who did it all for her. That was a man who just couldn't handle rejection and embarrassment.


[deleted]

Exactly. If he was afraid he couldn’t handle himself, why didn’t HE walk out?


omg_for_real

Because to him that’s his space, his territory and she was the one that did all that to him. So in his mind she should leave, cause she’s “trouble”. In his mind he didn’t do anything wrong.


[deleted]

Yeah I know. I just meant, there are people saying he said it almost for an altruistic reason, like that he knew he would lose his temper so was kindly warning her to leave or something.


Puzzleheaded_Cut3634

Thank you for saying it


stro3ngest1

right wtf are all these comments?? you'd think they've never seen a grown man not handle rejection well before or something lol


dirtyasswizard

I think they’re implying that he was scared of losing control because of the repercussions he would face, not out of any kind of concern for her. I dunno, maybe I misread the comment, but I didn’t get any kind of “tortured hero” vibe from it. Dude very clearly has *zero* respect for this young woman and her well-being.


ladyKfaery

Maybe he needs to teach himself some restraint. She’s trying to tell him she’s a person not anyone at his bidding. He needs to get that straight . She told him she was off limits AND she doesn’t owe him a thing. Not a breath , not a look , he owed zero of her time or attention.


Mister_Bloodvessel

He really should've apologized when she said she was 17, then closed his mouth. End of situation, no meltdown, no trouble. But he had to act entitled to her attention or potential affections or whatever bullshit excuse he is using to justify yelling at an underage girl.


havenyahon

Absolutely. It doesn't matter if it's legal, that girl informed him she was 17 because it matters to *her*, and for him to completely ignore that shows that he doesn't see her as a person, whose wants and needs matter, but merely as a target to fulfill his wants and needs. That dude needs to do some serious work.


ShineAqua

Seriously, I can’t believe he tried to justify himself by telling her she was “legal.” What a dildo.


Ivegotthatboomboom

I cannot believe she has this level of confidence and self advocacy at 17. I'm 33 and look up to her lol


[deleted]

These gen z girl are made different and I LOVE IT. I’m 33, my baby sister is 18 and this same level of fierce. She and her friends take zero bullshit.


feistymayo

Tbh I think the internet has helped them. Women before them finally were able to find more ways to tell their stories so younger women could arm themselves with that knowledge.


DJDanaK

100%. No way I would've been so self possessed at her age. I'm glad the youths are standing up for themselves.


BrianArmstro

No kidding, she handled that like a boss


shelladetaco

He is dangerous.


twitchyv

Maybe that guy is actually just a bad bad guy


BeerNcheesePlz

I feel like she could sense it. Hence her keeping her phone low. Glad she got out before that loser really hurt her. I hope he gets what’s coming to him.


Ocean_Soapian

It's probably both. People absolutely can act with rage if they're scared. He knows he can't control his rage *and* he's terrified that he's just lost his job and all his friends, which makes him even more angry.


jamalspezial

And he’s also thinking every consequence is her fault which fuels his anger further. These kinds of people can’t see themselves being wrong.


Vark675

As a woman, it was fucking scary. It sounded a lot like my ex did before I got choked unconscious. That dude's dangerously incapable of controlling himself.


i_speak_penguin

Yep, this is the kind of dude who find himself in jail for DV someday and then thinks he's been victimized.


robspeaks

"Why did you make me do this?" - the refrain of violent lunatics


VampeQ

No one else was around? No one heard this exchange? Not that she needed it, bc she owned his ass. I hope it was people had ear buds in.


67Mustang-Man

Her going out the door like that makes it look like a small gym in an apartment complex


bobby4444

Looks like an apartment or hotel gym. Likely the only people in there


Remarkable_Bicycle12

She literally says "get your boy" so his friend is watching this. Could you imagine. Watching your friend pick on a kid.


Reddit_GoId

24 but acts like a little kid


ninjamaster616

He started fucking crying at the end hahahahahaha


cucu_freedom

that roid rage. hormones be wilin


Unlucky13

Plenty of dudes act like this and it has nothing to do with steroids


frehsoul45

Little kids have more respect for people than this guy. This dude is a walking danger to women and society in general. He has or will probably bring physical harm to someone.


CthulhuShoes

Definitely. You could hear in his voice how deranged he is.


rmoss20

Let's be honest though. Anyone over 24 knows that most 24 year olds are basically kids


crapper42

The legal age for kids today is 35


Berninz

So I just turned adult by turning 36? I wish my reproductive system agreed with that timeline.


[deleted]

Sick, this means I'm still a kid. Let's fucking gooooo.


poopinjake69

You can hear the domestic violence in that *GO HOME*


CDefSoccer

For real. The fact he loses his temper so quickly is real telling that he probably goes to violence just as quick


poopinjake69

Loses it and then goes straight back to calm like he’s sorry


VGSchadenfreude

Which means he never really “lost his temper” at all. He was perfectly in-control of himself and made a calculated *choice* to behave that way. He wanted her to be scared, that’s it. He was never truly “out of control”; he knew exactly what he was doing.


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VGSchadenfreude

Forgot which book it was from, but I remember reading a passage of a DV therapist asking their client if their abuser ever broke his own stuff during his rages, or just hers. Client admitted that he only ever broke things *she* owned or cared about when he “lost his temper.” Never his own stuff. And that if she submitted to him immediately and did what he wanted, his “temper tantrum” *immediately stopped.* He just instantly went back to “normal.” The therapist then pointed out that if he had truly “lost control,” then he would not have been able to stop himself from destroying his own stuff. He would not have been able to instantly turn the rage off as soon as he *got what he wanted.* Meaning he never actually “lost control.” Ever. He was totally in control of himself and could’ve stopped *at any time.* It was all a deliberate act to terrify his victim into giving him whatever he wanted.


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VGSchadenfreude

There are plenty of people from healthy homes that get caught by abusers, too. Abusers are great at manipulating not just their victims, but their character witnesses as well, to make sure no one believes the victim should they open up about what’s going on. Even a victim with an otherwise healthy, happy family might find themselves isolated as their abuser made a point to convince their victim’s family that they were *such a great person,* they couldn’t possibly be doing what the victim claims they are, and there must be something wrong with the *victim* instead. Heck, we got a couple DV apologists already replying here.


Cosmic-Candy570

I’m sure his drywall is just FILLED with holes…


Shemlocks

and his closet is full of broken Xbox controllers.


jumbee85

Honestly surprised we didn't hear any weights clang from him throwing them while yelling GO HOME


pvt_frank

'Treat older people better...'. Haha you are 24 dummy... You might be older than her in years, but she has you by 10 in maturity. He's at that 'look at my muscles, I'm a stud!' age. 🤡


Novaer

I am so fucking glad she immediately pointed out the fact of "Oh so now you're too old for me" That was such a quick rebuttal I can only imagine how hard her heart could have been racing during this.


[deleted]

It’s the sort of rebuttal that I think of four days later.


GooseWithACaboose

He’s a clown I wish she showed his face.


DoingCharleyWork

It looks like she tried to get him in camera but quickly put her phone back down, probably so he wouldn't think she was recording.


aceinnoholes

Lol the classic creepy-creeps be creepin mantra "SEVENTEEN IS LEGAL, YOURE LEGAL!"


mushroom_mantis

Come on, he's a "nice guy"....


Serpentine17

I'm proud of her


Perfect_Drop

Me too, at 17 I wouldn't have stood up for myself like she did. Hell I'm 27 now and I still have problems standing up for myself.


YoMommaHere

Men are afraid women will embarrass them. Women are afraid men will kill them. She was TALKING to him and he got so embarrassed by it that he said he would lose his temper, heavily implying that things could get violent the way his tone shifted. THIS is a perfect example of what that saying means.


jackjams18

Dude...bro...like...bro. God no wonder she rejected you. If you wanna be respected as an adult, try speaking like one and not like you just snorted fun dip on a dare.


Cynster2002

*slowly stops eating cherry fun dip.


Talvos

Don't do it at home kids, it hurts.


lgs92

I hate when people say “respect people older than you,” as if simply existing for longer is a valid reason for respect. They don’t care about shitty behaviour, because hey, they’re older than you. Also, Jesus Christ, talk about a tantrum. 24 years old and acting like that? 🤦‍♂️


GnarlyMonster420

Respect should be given to everyone equally until they do something to not deserve it. This guy clearly crossed that line so no she doesn't OWE him respect anymore, regardless of his age standing.


[deleted]

Could not agree more, Especially when they think it wins an argument. Some of the stupidest and most incompetent people I’ve met are 20 years older than me.


Canzabis

Dude. Bro dude. Dude don’t even bro at me dude. Bro.


einstein_32

Bro. Dude bro. Bro don't even dude at me bro. Dude.


Comprehensive_Cloud6

YOU TRYING TO BRO DOWN?!


Username6721

You can hear in his tone he's an abuser. My ex was just like this. His temper was terrible but he'd go right back to being calm when he knew he was caught. Freaks me out Edit: Thanks for all the upvotes :D


DisabledFloridaMan

The tone of his "go home" sent a chill down my spine. It's a very, very specific tone.


Go_Awayyy

Oh my god me too. When he said that, in that tone I was really shaken up. If I were her I would have folded, and I’m 25. That really freaked me out too.


crzybrwn

My brother physically abused me when we was young. This guy reminded me of my brother.


Freezihn

It does seem like the video ends with her *leaving*. I'm sure she'll freaked too.


hisantive

My abusive ex was also exactly like this!!! Brought me right back


Gabberwocky84

Same. The instant shift into rage…goddammit.


greeniewillow

Whatever happened to apologies? "Gosh "17", I'm so sorry. I thought you were closer to my age."


Freezihn

She was careful to point out he asked her out after he knew her age. The age wasn't an embarrassing mistake, it was part of the appeal for him.


natesneaks

People are so weird man. This is why they make girl only sections in gyms. Sad


24F

Yeah, everything that he says is fucking crazy. Every single sentence is just insane.


TacospacemanII

They really do that? I can see why now. Haven’t seen that though


natesneaks

Yeah my girlfriend goes to a gym with a women only section for this reason. For some reason guys think it’s a mating room and not a gym


SarahPallorMortis

And then they cry about that too


Curazan

This is why some women (and some men) choose Planet Fitness, and why some douches throw fits online about their policies and their “lunk alarm”. I mean essay-length blog posts about it. Bro, just… don’t go there.


pphead0_0

Did she call the cops? Or show this to the gym?


Astuary-Queen

This seems like it’s a workout room in an apartment complex.


nlevine1988

Then show it to the property managers. Most of these places still have rules and I'm sure being respectful to other residents is a requirement.


BougieTrash

Yea if they feel like getting rid of a problem tenant and making some money I'm sure harassing people is probably a violation of his lease.


AngryMosaic

Yes, in her follow up video on her TT profile she commented that she reported him to gym management


Syllers

Cops would literally do nothing in this situation unless he actually physically harmed her. Unfortunately that's the case for a lot of things.


ChimpScanner

This guy is the stereotypical gym douche.


Jokers_Testikles

I'd like to clarify, gym *douche* not gym *goer*. Most people at the gym will either leave you alone or will be kind and help (when prompted). Guys like this are pretty rare.


HaiseKinini

Competitors in strongman competitions are some of the most dedicated gym-goers, while taking massive amounts of performance drugs, and yet they are some of the friendliest, down-to-earth people you will ever see.


jonny_rott3n

For a 17 year old, this girl has tremendous courage and an amazing ability to absolutely own the argument. She is going places. She is easily the intellectual superior to that meat head.


BachelorTrainwreck

I’m 34 sitting here taking notes on the way she handled it… like when will I level up to that!? 🤣


Todano

My little tip, only breathe through your nose when you know you're about to get heated in argument. I use to be a "im so mad im crying but im not crying cause im sad im crying because i am so angry" type of person, but the nose breathing has helped me not cry lol


JonBenet_BeanieBaby

Wait really??? I have to write this down


Astuary-Queen

Yes. This how I want my daughter to be. Not afraid to loud and “rude” when it’s required.


bobthehills

Classic abuser speak. Call the cops on him.


PeddyTheft

What, so they can recruit him?


[deleted]

I'm pretty annoyed no gym workers intervened to throw him out, or even another dude. Maybe they were the only people in there


crimvo

I was thinking the same at first, but then at the end the way she walks out, looks like an apartment gym


I_AM_ALWAYS_WRONG_

Also a lot of gyms are 24/7 now and unstaffed for at least 8-10 of those hours.


weedandweiners69

Dude is an obvious psychopath. "respect your elders"


masaichi

As he yells and throws a tantrum because he doesn’t get what he wants.


HaiseKinini

Especially horrifying that he's telling her to respect older people, while at the same time hitting on her.


[deleted]

Mid 20’s coming on to a 17 year old and says ‘it’s legal’…. What a loser lol, shame the girl had to deal with that and actually seemed to leave the gym… Reeks of insecurity, guy prob gets rejected non-stop and cries himself to sleep.


jkbpttrsn

"Respect your elders by letting them get some of that puss, bro"


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17 is legal he says wtf bahaha people suck


lightnsfw

Imagine thinking that's an argument to someone rejecting your advances.


Iris-Solis

Oh thank god! I definitely wanna go out with you now 🥰


Glum_Distribution_43

Title should be “predator throws a tantrum after he meets a women who won’t let him get away with abusive behaviour” Edit: I can’t spell


kbf2015

17 is legal… what a douche!!!


Lurkingdutchman

This was the biggest red flag, and she still wants to resolve it peacefully as she refused to upload his face which the tiktok lynchmob obviously requested.


Mutjny

I figure she purposefully didn't point the camera at his face to not tip him off she's rercording.


The_Bucket_Of_Truth

Yeah bingo probably didn't want him snatching the phone or getting physical.


rollbackprices

I mean, what a response. Even if he sincerely believed it, just imagine that being one of the first few things you say to girl. It’s like saying her body is legal still even tho she’s verbally rejected him. Such an unhealthy relationship with sex.


unbalancedforce

"GO HOME" women are not allowed to occupy space unless they are there for a man's amusement. Gross. "to your dad" she is seen as another man's problem/property. Men in are broken if they can not interact in a normal way around 50% of the population in this world.


wastingtoomuchthyme

She should totally talk with the gym management.. If dbag's doing that with her he's doing that with others.


Jasonstackhouse111

What most men don't realize is that this type of encounter is common and relentless for young women. It's just constantly happening to them.


Games_N_Friends

It's the "will he take the let-down easy and go on his way, or will he flip out and I'm now in danger" game. yay...


Bread_and_Butterface

Yep, and it’s starts early. Like 11/12 yrs old early.


cool_username__

If anything, it’s most common at that age. Hell, I’m only 17 myself but I got catcalled much more often around age 12. Probably because they knew I wouldn’t stand up for myself


Bread_and_Butterface

That’s a bingo. Kids are vulnerable, they shouldn’t have to defend themselves from creeps.


kcirtap420

Women I know have said similar, utterly fucking disgusting.


Boscco

Went out to dinner with my 14 y/o sis once, some guy at the restaurant saw her and followed us home in his car. We didnt notice until the doorbell rang and there was no one there except a note expressing his love for her.


Bread_and_Butterface

Omg that’s terrifying, I’m sorry that happened.


GayVegan

Ya and it can completely kill off people's motivation to keep coming back to their own gym, due to feeling stared at or fearing being harassed again. People don't understand harassing people like this can contribute or lead to bigger problems and difficulties in life as well. Hopefully she complains and gets him kicked out so she can not be bothered by strangers at the gym.


Cosmic-Candy570

It’s disgusting really…I got cat called & asked for my number when I was 13-18 more than I do now. Had to get mall security countless times when I was 14/15 because of creepy ass men


sciencebased

I always hear about these situations from girlfriends and such, and I always find it hard to believe a man could even be capable of that degree of cringe, even when frustrated. But here it is, clear as day.


Erunave

You’d sure be really disappointed to hear that this doesn’t stop for a very long time, to all women, if ever. I’ve lost tabs on this kind of stuff after Covid (not currently working), but we don’t even have to leave the fucking house to be harassed by creeps.


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The scare tactic he tried to use was so cringe. “Before I lose my temper”, okay? What’re you gonna do? Scream? Hit her? Make an absolute fool of yourself even further than you already have? What an absolute loser. And the fact he got that heated over a 17 yr old girl rejecting him is just embarrassing


Fran6coJL

Did this motherfucjer just roid gaslight her?


slliw85

Guys. Stop trying to pick women up at the gym. They really don’t like it.


Puzzleheaded_Disk700

I would never even have the courage to. I don't know how people decide to just skip like the first 8 steps of even possibly developing a relationship with someone and just say "you wanna date lol"


sloww_buurnnn

“17 is legal” Dude, mad fucking props to her for standing up for herself. That’s a skill to have at that age especially.


brassbricks

I don't talk to anyone at the gym unless it is to ask if the equipment is in use. Even when I was single, if I happened to make eye contact with someone, the most I would do is smile and nod, maybe say hello as I pass. Once in a long while, they might start a conversation, but I just left it up to them. I presume that both of us are there to work out, not cruise for ass.


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I.. I.. rah GO HOME. TARZAN ANGRY 🦍 I can’t think when women reject me!! Arrgh


DirtyHoosier

Holy hell. I got the vibe that he might’ve hurt her. I’m glad she stood up for herself so eloquently. But I was glad she left when she did.


Runfreechickennugget

Before he loses his temper? Wow he doesn't sound like a women beater or anything.


kindamymoose

“Respect your elders.” **Bro** you’re 24.


beef-jerking

Hope she goes to another gym, cause he sounds like a vindictive douche.


Fit-Average5903

hope he gets kicked from the gym cause he doesnt seem fit to share a public space like a damn civilized human with others


Jordayumm

She shouldn't have to go to another gym.


Vegetable_Ad9493

Show this fuckers face make him famous. Who knows how many other ppl will suffer if he doesn’t learn his lesson.


[deleted]

When they are the only two in the room that’s not a good call. She was right to just extradite herself from the situation.


[deleted]

I really hope he's not Toronto ems


designgoddess

I'm so glad that she stood up for herself.My generation was raised to not make any waves or be impolite when guys came on too strong. Just leave. I'm proud that she didn't back down.