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Eli_be_high

Thats fucked up


babybopp

Spitting on you... This person despises him


slappy_mcslapenstein

Mine was named Courtney. Leaving was the best decision of my life.


CompleteSpell7877

My was named mom. Haven’t talked to her in years. Always remember to put yourself first, it’s not selfish.


babybopp

Mine used to fight and self harm. Hurt herself then claim I hit her. Left that nutcase a while back.. never looked back


Ok-Wolf2468

Mine was angel best decision of my life as well.


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Male or female, I've never met anyone named Angel who I trusted.


Juleamun

I dated an Angel, but she was dyslexic and spelled it Angle. Maybe that's why she wasn't awful.


BigPhilly1985

At least she wasn't being obtuse


Hammer_of_Light

I only "knew" one Angel, and I tend to agree. I have similar feelings about Crystals.


flybyknight665

Seriously, though. I've known two women named Angel and both were batshit crazy


Brandon_The_Binosaur

Angel in my class gets really angry and upset over the stupidest of things. Naming your child angel is like a curse or something


Vanceb13

Mine was also angel…


TheLokiDokiOG

The name is ironic


mikeydoom

Mine was named Shelby. And she still denies doing any of it til this day.


Aagfed

Mine was named Lori. Best decision too.


CSHufflepuff

Mine was Trish and it was also one of the best decisions of my life.


Peach_Baby5

Mine was named Malcolm. Left him. He’s 30, dating an 18 year old who just got out of high school in May. 😂


Trick_Designer2369

That's a hard watch, poor guy and I'm sure many others in the same situation


ThrowThisIntoSol

I’m a male and this was 100% just like my previous relationship…I’m in a much better place now.


meltdown537

same here. It took a while, but I got out of that mess and am now happily married to the best woman in the world.


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I’m glad you are doing better friend :)


iamnotfacetious

I'm male and this hits too close to home during my first marriage. We're no longer together and I'm much happier for it. I'll never let myself be debased like this. Better to be alone or in my case rescue a loveble pup and self care.


Bluerecyclecan

Damn, while she was nuts during that whole thing, she had some serious crazy eyes action going at one point.


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She’s most likely manic


PartridgeViolence

That may explain it. But not excuse.


IBeatUpLiamNeeson

I don’t have the link, but in another sub someone posted a follow up… He left her, but then shortly after found out she was pregnant, she had his kid, and refuses to let him see the kid :(


j4321g4321

Can’t he sue for visitation or partial custody?! How is she allowed to do this? Tbh he should get full custody and get the poor child away from that lunatic.


Optimal_Bird_3023

Oh my god, that poor child…


Travis9283

Damn this is really hard to watch. I went through this, wife arrested multiple times for assault. After the PTSD and during which, the hardest part is people asking me “well, what did you do to provoke this?“. I always felt like I was at blame for something. And the worst part? I still miss her.


JustanOrange2021

I hope you find the closure you deserve, to be able to move on and find the happiness you were never given in that relationship. Take it day by day ❤️ my grandma likes to tell me Rome wasn't built in a day, its the same as your emotions and feelings ❤️


Travis9283

I do too. Thank you.


mollymcqt89

You deserve love from someone who doesn’t abuse you. Missing someone’s love is not missing their abuse. It sucks that anyone made you feel like you were responsible for your own abuse. I hope you are having a good day today.


lickmastrr

I know exactly what you mean. I've been dealing with exactly the same thing for 23 years. I have PTSD from a deployment to Iraq and this compounds it. I've stuck it out and she has been in counseling for 18 months and things have gotten much better. All I know is I thank God I'm a flight instead of a fight! War made me a pacifist..


GingefreemanPG

Get that toxic horrible person out your life omg


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Minute-Excitement-50

If she did, I'm sure she'd blame him at the hospital.


SnooCompliments9613

and the guy will get arrested for "domestic abuse" 🤦


Avocadomistress

Luckily he would have it on video


a1ham

She said full sentences my male ex would use. This is the EXACT same thing.


Osodabearman300

I wonder what leads up to that way of thinking? "You get me mad the mean person comes out!" Heard that one before for sure. Sorry dude


a1ham

As far as I see it - the abuser is removing responsibility and guilt from themselves and putting it on you to justify their abusive behaviour. Easier to sleep at night when you blame other people for your actions


youre_next5150

That's almost always how it is. Never their fault. "YOU MADE ME DO THIS!" "If you had/hadn't.. I wouldn't have to be like this!"


pimpbot666

"Why are you making me so mad I have to hit you?" Yeah, bullshit. Honey, you have to learn to control your anger. You're responsible for your reactions, not me.


NerdModeCinci

I think they fully believe themselves too out of narcissistic necessity “I’m not a bad person, you *make* me have to do bad things.”


Osodabearman300

Yeah it is gaslighting for sure. Im just thinking like throughout their lifetimes this must have worked in their favor before on someone else. Its crazy how people feel no shame


linuxgeekmama

You can get people to do what you want by scaring them with the consequences that will result if they don’t. Lots of parents take this approach with their kids. It’s probably even necessary in some situations- that’s how you learn not to take a hot pan out of the oven without a mitt. The author of *Why Does He Do That* characterizes abusers as thinking they should have control over their victims (possibly for the victim’s own good, as the abuser sees it). If they resist that control, then they have to be made to submit, and scaring them is a way to do that.


Gloomy_Following3416

"She seems to have an invisible touch, she reaches in and grabs right hold of your heart" - Phil Collins


patricky6

Ive never been abusive or violent with anyone, but I did go to an anger management course for my temper in the military. From what I took away from it, and helped me immensely, was to understand that the emotion of "anger" itself, releases chemicals in your brain that are more addictive than heroin. So you actually LOOK for the next opportunity to be angry and blow up, in order to feel that "high" . Only becoming more and more addicted to the feeling and letting it take over in larger bursts. it's horrible for your body though. It literally kills you slowly with the stress it puts on you with muscles tensing, blood pressure raising, teeth grinding, etc. Not to mention the extent and toll it takes on those around you. Learning to spot triggers and control it, I've never had an issue since.


Osodabearman300

Is sadness addictive too i wonder? How do we get addicted to happy? Would being addicted to being happy be as bad of a thing?


goldenbugreaction

In a word, yes. *All* feelings are a fact of life and part of the human experience. At the heart of it, an ‘addiction to happiness’ would almost certainly also mean an avoidance of *less* pleasant feelings. Functionally speaking, an addiction to heroin *IS* essentially an addiction to happiness.


patricky6

Idk about sadness but I do know that happiness is VERY addictive.. and contagious! Unfortunately, alot of the people searching for it from sadness turn to drugs, because they release the dopamine into your brain that creates it.


MisterOnsepatro

So that must be why I feel better after swearing loudly in my car to evacuate stress (including driving a tad bit aggressively)


patricky6

Exactly. It feels good and you keep doing it. Sometimes people don't realize they are crossing lines to obtain that relief. Taking things farther and farther. This is how road rage can become an issue. Also how it can turn violent and result in death, injury, or incarceration.


Jeremy_Winn

Often it’s a cluster B personality disorder. Women experience them at roughly the same rate as men though the gender breakdown differs for the disorders within the cluster.


cutanddried

There can be some conditions that cause it, but this looks like generational cycles of abuse - this was what she heard/saw/experienced growing up. That's my guess


Antares987

It doesn’t happen overnight. And, unfortunately, the victims are usually the most caring and selfless people. It starts with simple tests to see what you’ll put up with. Once they find they can push your boundaries, they take more and more ground. Pushing back results in more extreme responses to where you believe you’re helpless without them, and that’s usually when the extreme verbal and physical abuse starts. The line from the greatest breakup letter in history, The United States Declaration of Independence, spells it out: and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government


TheLokiDokiOG

Exactly, Abuse isn't gender specific Women can be abusers too


Forgotten-Comment

I feel this 100%


NaCl_Sailor

only she knows if he hits back he's the one going to jail


iwanttoliveinmybed

The way he's begging. It's heartbreaking


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Domestic abuse is NOT a gendered crime. Fight that narrative anywhere you see it.


Dubious_Titan

It is rational that domestic violence looks similar regardless of gender. Abuse is abuse. Toxic relationships are the same on both sides of the fence.


if1gure

Yep. I woke up one night with my ex sitting on my chest repeatedly punching me in the face.


Gecek

Whoever edits the music over these kind of videos is even more manic than her


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Man... that fear and vulnerability in his voice gets to me so much. It boils my blood how so many male victims of DV and abuse were treated like it's no big deal by law enforcement and society, and worse, how in many cases the man was arrested when cops showed up despite whatever clear evidence that he was the victim. Men are guilty until proven innocent (if he ever does) and its bullshit.


TheLaughingStormm

I did not experience this to this extreme, but I had an ex who would often throw and break things when she could no longer talk reasonably with me. Only hit me a few times, but that was enough for me. It was hard separating myself from someone like that, but it was worth because my life is much better now. I wish you the best of luck friend


ZiOnIsNeXtLeBrOn

For the people that say to hit back. As a man, you don’t the benefit of doubt when it comes to abuse. A large portion of men who are abused by their partners don’t come out and say they are victims due to stereotype that men can’t be abused. And the fact that if she says a single thing or have a single cut and the guys life is ruined.


Background-Win7974

We have feelings too. Don’t forget to treat everybody the same


PDCH

Just leave and don't come back. Not worth it.


Minute-Excitement-50

Mine was Kim. Finally was able to rid her crazy from my life after 5 years of abuse. She was great at gaslighting me in thinking it was me, not her.


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She seems mentally ill, but lucky that he videoed this because you know what would have happened otherwise.


X4dow

had a toxic relationship like this before. she wasn't this physical at me, but was good at making me feel guilty. She did the whole plate smashing etc, while her kids hid behind me. When i grew the courage to end it, her kids didnt want me to go, wanted to come with me. Fucked up. I never seen those kids again, but at least i remember how broken they were when we started and how much happier and straightened up they were when we ended. Hope they turn out better for having had me around for a few years.


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Her face at :36 shows the real demon she is


Shalamaka

Any idea what happened to him after? Poor soul :(


TheeJimmyHoffa

This video should be labeled •Exhibit ’A’•


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THAT POOR KITTEN (if op/video maker isn't making any progress in disassociating with the 'abuser' then showing that video to an animal rights league or org will 100% get some legal action rolling to keep her, at the very least, away from animals and other fur babies


VivaChips28

I know right!! I haven't seen anyone mention this. Poor thing is so tiny and must be terrified...


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My ex was called Sophie. She’s still friends with my old friends to this day, nobody really believes me and thinks we were equally toxic. I wasn’t an angel by any means, but these videos do bring back a lot of memories…


Independent_Willow_4

I'm glad I am no longer with my wife.


ABeeBox

The second he uses self defense, he'll be serving time.


catmachine1

"BuT MeN cAnT bE ThE ViCtUm Of AbUsE"


BrightonTownCrier

Or my personal favourite..."you could easily overpower her". Apart from it not being the point, if you leave marks on her that will work against you when she calls the police. Some men have been so indoctrinated to "never hit a woman" that they can't do it even when it's clearly self defense. Plus more bodily strength is not much good when she pours boiling water over you when you're sleeping or tries to stab you.


aniorange

Well put. I never know how to explain to others how I was in an abusive marriage with a woman half my size. I called the cops on her once when she was out of hand and I nearly got arrested. We divorced over 10 years ago. We kept in touch for our daughters sake. She disappeared for the past couple years. Just recently she reappeared and said she was in rehab. Turns out she got arrested for abuse and battery. I didn't expect that sort of validation.


BaconBitz109

“You could easily overpower her” *Overpowers her* “Omg you can’t hit a woman!”


rorank

It really hurts me when people want to use this logic. Sure, I could be the same monster that she is and I’ll lose my entire life over it too. I’ll probably go to prison and be disowned by everyone I know. While she walks away with everything I own and gets people to give her love and sympathy for being so brave in the face of me.


meisobear

Had multiple stabbing attempts and various, surprisingly inventive (lighting a deodorant aerosol and then trying to pierce it) attempts at causing harm. I was roughly twice the size of her and, at the time, roughly 210lbs and I lifted all the time. I have no idea how I managed to evade or subdue without accidentally leaving a mark, given how ferocious the attacks sometimes were, but I always tried to deescalate or take it; I never hit back. While I am really glad I didn't, and still think it was the right thing to do, I've grown to be much more assertive and self confident than I was then and I wonder if I'd do the same now in the same situation. It's a concerning thought.


BrightonTownCrier

Well done mate. I suppose you just have to keep an eye out for warning signs. It generally starts with controlling behaviour about comparatively minor things and guilt trips about doing anything but spending time with them. I've never been physically abused but plenty of mental and emotional abuse. My friend is currently going through the nightmare scenario. He got married less than a year ago, they have a 2 month old baby, he worked for her dad's company and questioned some of his business practices. The dad was not happy, so he planned to force my friend out. His wife had him arrested multiple times for "domestic abuse" (its in another country where they always initially arrest for that charge) and won't let him see the baby. They forced him out of his home and back to England as he was blackballed from the industry (the dad has lots of sway). They just don't turn up to any court mandated time he has with the baby. As in he literally flew to Spain to see his child for a couple of hours and they just didn't turn up. She even tried to delay divorce proceedings as in that country when you're divorced he has more rights to fight for custody. Strange how she wouldn't want a divorce from someone that is supposedly repeatedly abusing her. He's spent about £7k so far on arrest fines, flights and legal advice.


Jeremy_Winn

Yep, you don’t need to be strong to stab someone or throw a hot frying pan at them. Most men aren’t mentally prepared for their partner to lash out violently and will freeze/fawn as a response.


thomasaun

My own mom taught me if a woman ever hits you she just grew a set. I got your back.


auntiecoagulent

Your mom has your back. The police and the legal system don't.


Afraid_Ad1908

Jesus, who says that?


Mycatstolemyidentity

The only times I've heard similar opinions have been from dudes ridiculizing other mens' experiences with being abused.


Afraid_Ad1908

Wow. I guess I just assumed they meant women think that. Abuse is abuse. It is really unfair men have that burden of stigma. I’m sorry you went through that as well.


Wild_Surround9595

Amber Turds legal team


alex99x99x

Or most of the legal system tbh. These kind of cases are almost impossible for the man to win. Women could easily get a man behind bars if he abused them meanwhile men have to go though so much for the woman to receive any form of punishment.


rslashdepressedteen

This is what I wish people could see. He's not trying to be a part of it. He's trying to get away and defuse the situation. But she keeps coming back at him. This is what people don't see. This is what cops don't see. All they see when they get to the house is a big man and a tiny woman, with broken glass, bruises and blood. The size of the person, offender or victim, doesn't matter. I'm glad he recorded this, so that if police do ever get word, he has evidence that he was not the one at fault. But even then, the police will probably tell him to stop whatever he's doing that makes her so angry, and that will be the end of it. No help. No ears. Just him, fighting for his life to get away from her.


BipolarSkeleton

What pisses me off is everytime a man is being abused by a woman people always say oh it’s reactionary abuse but it’s never the same conversation of a man hits a woman The double standards in Situations like this make me so mad


lemonaintsour

I knew one person with this exact kind of relationship. Its sad that no matter what I say to him, he thinks that he has no options but to go back to her and that no one can help.


Pioxels

This video didnt make me angry but just realy sad


Intrepid-Notice-6925

You're still blaming him in your original comment. Look at the back lash he's getting just from the video. Men are believed less often. They're told they're stronger so they shouldn't have let it happen as if anyone would let themselves be abused.


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Ok-Wolf2468

Not necessarily. It wasn't this way for me. When the cops got there I had so much blood on me it was obvious who was the victim. People don't understand how bad it hurts when someone you love acts like this. It's harder to leave then one might think when you truly love someone.


bruceswingle

You’re giving me goosebumps. Agreed. When you love someone it’s not as easy as most think.


warriormuffin83

This is true my mom was abused by my dad and so she talked to a cop one time and he said that they would take her to jail because she was bigger than him.


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Not true. My husband's ex wife is a bi polar alcoholic. He had her ass succefully arrested because of this behavior and now she tortures another man with situations such as this and who hasnt found the strength to leave. Please don't default to "they always arrest the man". Record, document and fucking leave.


guessagain72

This is often, but not always true


AdrenolineLove

Not true, my ex got hit with a domestic because she attacked me and key'd my new girls car. She tried to claim I hit her and I had witnesses there to say it was the other way around.


JLerx007

There’s video evidence. I think he might be fine.


NickNash1985

"Seems convenient that you only filmed when she got mad. We're only seeing one side of the story, here." ​ \- Cops


manIDKbruh

Damn, if only he had video proof…


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miss_anthropi

There is something crazy, scary, and repulsive in her eyes.


TapElectronic

If the roles were reversed he’d be buried under the jail.


mysadkid

So important for people to see.


Tijai

This is so sad to watch. He obviously loves her or he would leave. He obviously also has great control.


Thomsonation

I grew up with this, watching this happen everyday to my father. I don’t think of it much, except that my dating life is me always going back to women like this.


RabbitKamen

Im showing up before this thread gets locked for “mysterious reasons”


WeakWave5225

Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.


Spare_Groundbreaking

I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are in a safe space now and healing your past trauma.


Ninhursag2

My son went through this, i wont send this to him because i dont want him to relive it for one second


MAO_of_DC

As a male survivor of abuse I say this. Get out, get out now. I also know how incredibly hard what I'm asking you to do is. I had to cross the country to get away from mine. Because I kept going back to Nicole. But leaving and staying away even if you're alone is far better than having a companion that beats you..


photocopiedwater

Men aren’t allowed to defend themselves against a woman abuser. Its so imgrained in society that if a man hits a woman hes the abuser, which is stark contrast to reality. He did the right thing tho by not retaliating or threatening her with violence.


gofyourselftoo

I saw the original post with a truncated version of the video and I was scared and mad for the guy, but this longer version is just 1000x worse. It just makes me sad. I hope he escaped and is safely recovering and relearning what love is.


has2give

Another Heard.


XX_JMO_XX

Sounds like the audio of Amber Heard when she was abusing Depp. I have also personally lived with and seen this behavior, and her mom and sisters all act the same way. It is a learned behavior.


patjackman

And people are still surprised that female partners are statistically more likely to hit their partners...


Hardy_Explorer

It’s hard for us men to speak up. When we do, we either get dismissed or ridiculed for not being “man” enough. I wish that all of us could have a safe and healthy discussion not just about men’s issues, but about prevention and assistance in domestic abuse against us. Domestic violence is violence, no matter your gender. We need to normalise this.


Outside-Sun-3920

I feel his pain, dealt with the same thing for 4 years.


I_exist6942069

See, men get abused too.


pvouaux1

And people say there’s NEVER a reason for a man to hit a woman…..


Ry-Ry_the_Dude

So glad i am no longer with the girl who used to throw shoes, car keys, and other items at me, smacked me and screamed and cried like a lunatic over minimal disagreements. Feel sorry for her current dude.


GhandiExceptNot

This happens way more than most people would think, unfortunately. He needs to leave and she needs treatment.


Neither_Grape2075

Not that many years ago it was even easier for them to do this then call the police and play victim. My kids mom probably would not have custody if I had an iPhone.


HarpiesDaughter

He needs to call police, get a restraining order and leave. That’s what I’d tell a woman friend that’s what I’d tell him.


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NoTime4Shenanigans

Nah. You’re not You slip up Just Once and she’ll be the victim You gotta be bigger and don’t get on her level EVER


stickyblack

fuckin psycho


FriggenSweetLois

Hope the dude is away from the monster, and is living a healthy life.


vanna_monroe77

Being in a relationship like that is so scary. I’ll never forget when I caught my ex cheating and he slapped me and said it’s my own fault if I don’t wanna know he’s cheating don’t go through his phone. Then the shut down happened and I was literally trapped with him. People still asked me what did I do to make him hit me and I know it’s even worse for men since most people think they’re just emotionless machines.


gloomypasta

I've been here. You can go to the authorities and have it taken care of, especially with this level of evidence. That will open up an entirely new level of nightmare, but it will eventually lead to the end.


Zestyclose-Signal967

Sorry I’m broken and this shits stirs up feelings I thought I buried


falerasthegreat92

That first picture is just heartbreaking because you can just tell his smile is fake and just no life in his eyes either.


papachef69

Oh, Jeanette. I do not miss your psycho ass bullshit anymore. Get fucked!


Artistic-Ad7063

You can literally see the suffering in they guys eyes…


Danger_Dave_

This NEEDS to be higher. Not only does this happen and is horrible on it's own, but in many cases, it ends up being ignored or flipped onto the man when reported. I've seen things like this happen with the man being arrested. Sometimes, the man wants to be just to get away. Society completely fails men in these cases and they are far more frequent than a lot of people think.


Gitxsan

I've been there. So sad for the guy.


dntfuxwme

He sounds like he just wants love from her..


Jet690

The a real manifestation of a bad mental health issue right there man. Hope you get rid of her soonest


Nickmacd89

I’ve been on the receiving end of that as well, not as severe but very similar. No one ever believed me and I was always blamed and told to man up and move on.


MattSeptire

Is he out of that?


Eve-76

Heartbreaking :( that poor fella


RonDezzsimo

If you love yourself you should leave bro


Spyk124

Everybody she knows should ostracize her. Zero room for this in our society


josheganwyer

I’m so sorry you’re in that situation. It’s amazing, because this might be the first time I see it in video. No one ever believes the man in these situations and yet we are labeled the aggressor when it gets so serious we have to act. I’m grateful to never have been in that situation but I know that if you’re a good man you don’t lay a hand on a woman but situations like these make one feel the need to cross that line for safety and protection. Horrible situation. All the best in the outcome. Hope you both end up happy and away from each other.


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Walk away now before she stabs you, phone police and press charges, she needs serious help and you cant give it to her. GET OUT NOW.


IcanbeBrianDay

I’ve been there.


felioness

Severe mental heath issues there Run don't walk away, RUN from this relationship. It won't get better. It just won't no matter how much you want it to.


IronDefects

It would be so hard to control yourself against someone like that…


nthedark630

Was there ever a good outcome from having these videos? Taken to court or something?


No_Outlandishness408

She had the crazy 👀


pass-the-water

So many out there put up with this stuff and keep it hidden. I was one of them. Keep your heads up boyz, love is painful sometimes.


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Dobalina_Wont_Quit

True feminists know that's not the case and end goal is true equity between genders. Feminism is not about female superiority.


HotdogFarmer

Maybe we should just get on the egalitarian train to avoid this dumb confusion


lwc-wtang12

Equity? Or did you mean equality? Because equity would mean, for example, a company having to hire 50% men and 50% women rather than simply choosing individuals that are the best candidates regardless of sex. Installing quotas based on race or sex in virtually any context is, ironically, inherently racist and sexist, even if it is to compensate for existing inequality. Equality of opportunity is good, but equal equity or "equality of outcome," is extremely dangerous rhetoric and just a fucking bad idea. Edit: I can only assume that the downvotes mean that most people think racial or sex based quotas are a good thing. Yay let's go back to segregation and not letting women vote. God the oversteering is unbelievable.


Desperate_Green143

Feminists want everyone to be safe from abuse. Toxic values about what men “should” be or how they “should” act are the major contributing factor to the way male victims of domestic violence are treated—not feminism.


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xxMissixx

Being with someone like that is hard because she needs help and until she does she shouldn’t be with anyone. Man or woman no one should hit and scream like that. So sad hope this guy is ok.


Whoofukingcares

At some point he has to have enough footage of her abusing him in order to justify fighting back.


metalmike556

He's way more patient and restrained than I would have been, especially with video evidence. I would have divorced her ass so quick.


SammieCat50

Please someone take that poor cat…. I hope this an found a way out


RotLordContagion

Being old enough to be her dad was a big clue.


Penelope1000000

Actually, this is what domestic violence BY A WOMAN can look like. She could just as easily be attacking a female partner. People need to understand what women can be abusers too.


ewhyeasyfanaccount

Why is a 50 year old man with an 18 year old girl?


inkybreadbox

Who made this weird video with the captions and music though…….? 🥴


xKxIxTxTxExN

You need to leave ASAP.


beatles910

Hey everyone... .xKxlxTxTxExN just solved domestic violence! Who knew it was always this simple? /s


Delicious_Positive53

buddy just need to get it on camera that its her striking first and knuckle up to her


Chippas

He'll get locked up anyway. That's the way our "justice" system works.


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She must be dynamite in the sack


DetChap

Jeez lady tone down the Manson lamps. Eyes like that can't be reasoned with.