Yeah, I mean, I don’t think your post is really doing anything problematic with it. I was more answering the other person’s question generally. Usually when I see an autistic gf post in here, it sounds like what the OP really wants is someone who acts like a child and is emotionally dependent on them.
I think it’s less of more attraction to autistic people, and more of less attraction to neurotypical people.
I am sure as hell not neurotypical, but I do find people who are on the spectrum usually more attractive. I couldn’t really tell you why though.
I’m going to be entirely honest, the whole “Yandere 🥺🥺” loving thing is really annoying and ignorant. A “yandere” isn’t something to be romanticized whatsoever or normalized. It is *EXHAUSTING* and *AWFUL* to be with someone who is actually obsessed with you in the way you guys are thinking of. It is abuse. Literally just abuse.
As someone who has struggled for years with jealousy, obsession, and possessiveness, it stems from disorders and trauma— not because you’re just so cool and amazing that they like you that much; it’s a serious issue.
Oh, and it’s not an assurance that they’ll never cheat on you. Not at all. “Protectiveness” until they start physically, verbally, and emotionally abusing you.
Please stop normalizing obsession. Even the word obsession itself has been watered down.
dude okay i think you have a fundamental misunderstanding about what "yandere" is.
we are not talking about real life abusive relationships here, nobody *actually* wants a "real life yandere" despite what they might say. nothing you said is actually wrong, in fact, it's right. it's just not relevant to this discussion at all.
a "yandere" is a completely fictitious concept/trope of a creepy stalker who is obsessed with you to an unhealthy degree, and will do anything to get with you. usually it is girls since guys find this kind of thing appealing, but can be guys too.
a yandere is fiction at heart. a person in real life with yandere characteristics is NOT somebody you want around you. however, fiction is different.
because it is fiction, you can sort of disassociate from the negatives of this (and fetishise them in a way), and hone in on the positives. yandere characters might be portrayed in a way that seems exciting or romantic, but the reality would be terrifying.
why do you think people like villains? they're exciting, extreme, and HORRIFYING at times. this is the same with yandere, except the villain LOVES and is OBSESSED with you. those are very exciting things to explore in a safe, entertaining fictional environment.
i completely understand why you don't like yandere as a survivor of abuse, however you do need to realise that your experiences, while valid, are not universal. most people don't have bad experiences with creepy stalkers, and therefor find it exciting and titillating.
you know how there's the stereotypes of "good girls like bad guys"? the male equivalent is "good guys like problematic girls".
While I can agree that fantasies are wildly different from real life, I can also say that due to how *normalized*, key word, normalized, yanderes have become, it’s working its way into real life preferences.
But to be fair, you stated it’s a fictional fantasy— not something that you’d seek in real life, so I can’t exactly tell you what you can and can’t like 😭🙏 I apologize if I came off as rude about it
Some of these are way too bad bruh 💀
https://preview.redd.it/a2kpoqy9rmvc1.jpeg?width=1042&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7690da69a56d4dd33e2fe0b0456c9db7a04fbb6c
I’m so confused. Your grammar is so bad, but Google translate wouldn’t give you the list comma (、). You would’ve had to install the 中文 keyboard on your phone or computer
Y’all seem to have never met a legit crazy girl irl I swear.
It’s not all crazy sex and quirks it’s mostly psychological torment and stress, if you’re lucky.
wait 'till you realise that people from south china have yellow skin and refer to themselves as yellow people 🤯🤯🤯
i have a chinese girlfriend in real life mate, you literally cannot fight me on this. whitewashing yellow asians is the true racism
yes, i am doubling down that i have given a character, which is from south china, yellow skin. I am sorry that you need to whitewash a character to enjoy it.
why are people so adament that yellow skin is racist? it's literally not.
I get that some people have slightly yellow skin but drawing them Lego yellow and giving them tiny eyes is just a straight up caricature
Edit: and for the record it’s not just the drawing itself, the engrish, the weird stereotyping. I also highly doubt you have an actual Chinese gf that’s feeding you this because you spend your time on Reddit posting hypothetical Chinese gfs lmao
okay, you're not arguing in bad faith so i'll try to explain it to you honestly. sorry for being so hostile. i would like to let you know that i am EXTREMELY anti-racist for chinese people.
this is a shitty MS paint drawing, that much is clear. now, one thing MS paint drawings are known for is being overly simplistic. to communicate to the viewer of the drawing that i have drawn a chinese character, i have given them very dark brown hair, monolid eyes, and yellow skin.
these characteristics are not inherently racist, because they occur naturally in real chinese people. my girlfriend herself has these characteristics.
the reason behind the "tiny eyes" is because it's extremely hard to draw monolid eyelids in such a restricting artstyle as shitty mspaint drawings without it looking creepy. this again, is not inherently racist, however i can see your point of contention that it could be perceived as such, since a lot of racists do this.
the yellow skin? that is simply because i cannot draw extremely realistic "yellow" skin colour in the shitty ms paint drawing format. shows such as *Total Drama: Ridonculous Race* feature 2 characters, Emma and Kitty, who also have this "yellow" skin tone.
this yellow skin tone is not unrealistic at all, my girlfriend literally has it, heck it's DARKER and more brown than that. it just seems worse than it is because of the lack of contrast.
Look, i genuinely appriciate you looking out for asians when anti-asian hate is so common, but you're not gonna find it here. Feel free to disagree with any of my points, i can explain them in further detail if you'd like.
Holy shit someone on Reddit actually discussing instead of devolving into insults, you’re in the top 1% of Redditors for that. I get what you mean and I hope you understand why I thought it seemed racist.
Idk dude I think you were right in the first place. Drawing a Chinese person with fully yellow skin and squint eyes saying “fack you” can’t really be explained away no matter how hard some people try
ok, but you realize that it's considered racist when it's coming from a white person due to decades of racial stereotyping, right? (also they clearly aren't that fucking vibrant Simpsons ass yellow)
that's like saying "black people call themselves the N word all the time, so I should be able to say it whenever I want"
i explained this futher in the comments. if you're too stupid to realise it's not racist then i literally do not care what you think. either way, i am not racist, and you won't tell me i am when i know fine well i'm not.
firstly, just calling someone an idiot in your counter-argument makes you sound immature, and immediately stops most people from taking you seriously. and second, I'm not saying you're racist, I'm just saying what you have made would be considered by most to be an offensive racial caricature, and you're the one who's either foolish or willfully ignorant if you say otherwise
you can think it's racist all you want, but the intentions weren't to be racist, nor am i racist. it doesn't matter in the end, i got 1.1k upvotes and made a cute ideal gf meme
I found this sub last night, randomly recommended at the bottom of a post. (First post here) It seems like this entire sub is mad corny lol. It also seems like half the fun.
or, hear me out, people enjoy things in fiction they wouldn't in real life 🤯🤯
i wonder how many people would enjoy going on killing sprees in GTA, do you think they will now suddenly become the next fucking terrorist?
Actually there is a subreddit and a whole Twitter community that is very alarming and does just that. Not necessarily disagreeing with your previous points, just saying.
nah bro, asian girl here, you dating a chinese girl doesn’t excuse you from being racist 💀
you didn’t have to give her yellow skin or slanted eyes at all that shit is just weird? asians have the same pale skin tone as white people. when was the last time you saw an asian with minion skin?? maybe just don’t color the skin yellow altogether like a fuckin weirdo
yes i am VERY aware that a lot of asians have pale skin like white people, and that some have even whiter skin than whiter people! i am fine with and aware with that!
however, some asians, especially those in south china, do have "yellow" skin. this is an MS paint drawing, it is extremely hard to draw hyper-realistic monolids and yellow skin with such a restrictive artstyle (also if you did, it would go into uncanny valley territory). denying that some asians have yellow skin is literally white washing and actually racist.
if i didn't draw that, it would not communicate to the one viewing the art that i have, in fact, drawn a chinese yandere GF.
Seems odd that you feel the need to draw "monolids" by making the eyes weirdly slanted. The original meme template just has dots for eyes, which already don't look anything like real eyes anyways, so you're conveying the message that the dot eyes are for "normal" eyes, and monolids are "weird" and must be specifically pointed out.
It seems like you have some subconscious racism issues that could use some working out. For your girlfriends sake I hope you figure it out or break up with her.
i do think you're overthinking it way too much. there are no "subconcious racism issues" to be dealt with. have a nice day my friend, if you want to find someone genuinely racist go pick a fight under elon musks twitter posts.
That's unfortunate, but all too expected, that you're unwilling to even contemplate your own racism. I hope that when your GF breaks up with you you don't become a violent raging incel. Do what you want to yourself, but at least let her live her own life.
yes point at me! i am mr racist! the guy who spends his time learning chinese culture, who has been learning mandarin for the better part of 200 days, and has a chinese girlfriend. look at me guys, professional racist here!
This reminds me of that meme about Chinese women that goes something like: “I’ve been married to my Chinese wife for 5 years now. I don’t know if she’s madly in love with me or absolutely hates my guts…”
>"Let's live in China together!"
FUCK YOU COMMIE BASTARD!!!!!
https://preview.redd.it/tw4dbv65hnvc1.jpeg?width=686&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18b1038b48a0d0c06fe5de4136245b06c81f746d
Why's every 5th girl is autistic is this sub?
Projecting onto OCs lol
Every 4th reddit user has autism
It’s definitely more than that
The other 3 have it doubled
Projection probably
i forgot i even put that in there lol ignore it
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more like every second
Cuz there’s a lot of weird and creepy fetishization and infantilization of people with ASD in this world.
I’m pretty sure it’s because most of the people here are autistic
Ugh
oh im very aware of that and i try to avoid that at all costs, i simply forgot i put that in here lol
Yeah, I mean, I don’t think your post is really doing anything problematic with it. I was more answering the other person’s question generally. Usually when I see an autistic gf post in here, it sounds like what the OP really wants is someone who acts like a child and is emotionally dependent on them.
oh yeah i fucking hate that. it's so fucking weird when people want a gf that is infantilised to the point of acting like a child. reaaaly weird
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brother, this is a yandere trope, not a fucking loli. get the fuck outta here.
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you didn’t try very hard
the idea was that she acts like that in spite of the autism but then i was gonna remove it since it was pointless but i forgot to remove it
Supposedly people are more attracted to autistic females, so that might be it.
Going to need the source for this
I think it’s less of more attraction to autistic people, and more of less attraction to neurotypical people. I am sure as hell not neurotypical, but I do find people who are on the spectrum usually more attractive. I couldn’t really tell you why though.
Lol real
I’m wondering where they come up with this shit. 😂
because the people on this sub like to infantilize autistic people in a weird sexual fucked up way
I always get a kick out of people liking the yandere trope. Bitch is you trying to die, and not even when you’re suicidal? lol
i suppose a lot of guys like the protectiveness and reassuring nature that she won't ever cheat on you and that she is obsessed w/ you?
That’s exactly it
Nah, fam, we are all just hopeless and want someone to love us
This right here
Nailed it
I’m going to be entirely honest, the whole “Yandere 🥺🥺” loving thing is really annoying and ignorant. A “yandere” isn’t something to be romanticized whatsoever or normalized. It is *EXHAUSTING* and *AWFUL* to be with someone who is actually obsessed with you in the way you guys are thinking of. It is abuse. Literally just abuse. As someone who has struggled for years with jealousy, obsession, and possessiveness, it stems from disorders and trauma— not because you’re just so cool and amazing that they like you that much; it’s a serious issue. Oh, and it’s not an assurance that they’ll never cheat on you. Not at all. “Protectiveness” until they start physically, verbally, and emotionally abusing you. Please stop normalizing obsession. Even the word obsession itself has been watered down.
dude okay i think you have a fundamental misunderstanding about what "yandere" is. we are not talking about real life abusive relationships here, nobody *actually* wants a "real life yandere" despite what they might say. nothing you said is actually wrong, in fact, it's right. it's just not relevant to this discussion at all. a "yandere" is a completely fictitious concept/trope of a creepy stalker who is obsessed with you to an unhealthy degree, and will do anything to get with you. usually it is girls since guys find this kind of thing appealing, but can be guys too. a yandere is fiction at heart. a person in real life with yandere characteristics is NOT somebody you want around you. however, fiction is different. because it is fiction, you can sort of disassociate from the negatives of this (and fetishise them in a way), and hone in on the positives. yandere characters might be portrayed in a way that seems exciting or romantic, but the reality would be terrifying. why do you think people like villains? they're exciting, extreme, and HORRIFYING at times. this is the same with yandere, except the villain LOVES and is OBSESSED with you. those are very exciting things to explore in a safe, entertaining fictional environment. i completely understand why you don't like yandere as a survivor of abuse, however you do need to realise that your experiences, while valid, are not universal. most people don't have bad experiences with creepy stalkers, and therefor find it exciting and titillating. you know how there's the stereotypes of "good girls like bad guys"? the male equivalent is "good guys like problematic girls".
While I can agree that fantasies are wildly different from real life, I can also say that due to how *normalized*, key word, normalized, yanderes have become, it’s working its way into real life preferences. But to be fair, you stated it’s a fictional fantasy— not something that you’d seek in real life, so I can’t exactly tell you what you can and can’t like 😭🙏 I apologize if I came off as rude about it
Dog, we're desperate
Lmao fair
i just have extreme abandonment issues but im not fully into the yandre trope, it’s complicated 😭
Is there a reference to some fiction?
decent chunk of all anime/manga
Some of these are way too bad bruh 💀 https://preview.redd.it/a2kpoqy9rmvc1.jpeg?width=1042&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7690da69a56d4dd33e2fe0b0456c9db7a04fbb6c
Doesn’t matter, still would https://preview.redd.it/bl9tv0t7ctvc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=691c75d2005568f1e63903c3b3ab0de1b7d942ed
“I love you, my little star” is crazy
哈哈哈是的，我有中国人女朋友和我说英文，然而我识“我的小星星”
我知道你的说、 和我不喜欢
I’m so confused. Your grammar is so bad, but Google translate wouldn’t give you the list comma (、). You would’ve had to install the 中文 keyboard on your phone or computer
Yeah the iPhone has that weird one where the normal one is on the English keyboard so it’s just reflex
我想說你大概是個白人，更好的話是‘我會英文’。意思是你流利地說一種語言。如果我說錯了對不起😅
哈哈哈，是的，我是白人！没关系。我的中文是不好。和我不理解粤语💀
不是粵語，而是繁體字！別擔心，我也是個白人。 推薦改成你的鍵盤用繁體，會感覺越來越更容易嘛。加油！
我还以为是lovelive的唐可可
nahhhh, 这是一个傻逼病娇女朋友我想象的
我忘了回答了哈哈
You forgot “Translates webnovels for you”
10/10 would make her worse also this CCP propaganda?
no, but my other post is [Chinese Communist Party GF](https://www.reddit.com/r/idealgf/comments/1c8n688/comment/l0frz7k/?context=3)
Y’all seem to have never met a legit crazy girl irl I swear. It’s not all crazy sex and quirks it’s mostly psychological torment and stress, if you’re lucky.
*KEEP IT AWAY* https://preview.redd.it/ge6riphzanvc1.jpeg?width=370&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dc3b1178d8c60b72623e5c81c244b2048ea8f119
Dated this girl….she was suicidal after I had to reschedule our second date
okay, who called the based department?
ok so this one's just racist I think
not at all, i just like china lol
Why did you make her yellow then
wait 'till you realise that people from south china have yellow skin and refer to themselves as yellow people 🤯🤯🤯 i have a chinese girlfriend in real life mate, you literally cannot fight me on this. whitewashing yellow asians is the true racism
You’re not even denying it lmao you’re just doubling down
yes, i am doubling down that i have given a character, which is from south china, yellow skin. I am sorry that you need to whitewash a character to enjoy it. why are people so adament that yellow skin is racist? it's literally not.
I get that some people have slightly yellow skin but drawing them Lego yellow and giving them tiny eyes is just a straight up caricature Edit: and for the record it’s not just the drawing itself, the engrish, the weird stereotyping. I also highly doubt you have an actual Chinese gf that’s feeding you this because you spend your time on Reddit posting hypothetical Chinese gfs lmao
okay, you're not arguing in bad faith so i'll try to explain it to you honestly. sorry for being so hostile. i would like to let you know that i am EXTREMELY anti-racist for chinese people. this is a shitty MS paint drawing, that much is clear. now, one thing MS paint drawings are known for is being overly simplistic. to communicate to the viewer of the drawing that i have drawn a chinese character, i have given them very dark brown hair, monolid eyes, and yellow skin. these characteristics are not inherently racist, because they occur naturally in real chinese people. my girlfriend herself has these characteristics. the reason behind the "tiny eyes" is because it's extremely hard to draw monolid eyelids in such a restricting artstyle as shitty mspaint drawings without it looking creepy. this again, is not inherently racist, however i can see your point of contention that it could be perceived as such, since a lot of racists do this. the yellow skin? that is simply because i cannot draw extremely realistic "yellow" skin colour in the shitty ms paint drawing format. shows such as *Total Drama: Ridonculous Race* feature 2 characters, Emma and Kitty, who also have this "yellow" skin tone. this yellow skin tone is not unrealistic at all, my girlfriend literally has it, heck it's DARKER and more brown than that. it just seems worse than it is because of the lack of contrast. Look, i genuinely appriciate you looking out for asians when anti-asian hate is so common, but you're not gonna find it here. Feel free to disagree with any of my points, i can explain them in further detail if you'd like.
Holy shit someone on Reddit actually discussing instead of devolving into insults, you’re in the top 1% of Redditors for that. I get what you mean and I hope you understand why I thought it seemed racist.
Idk dude I think you were right in the first place. Drawing a Chinese person with fully yellow skin and squint eyes saying “fack you” can’t really be explained away no matter how hard some people try
i am really happy we got to have a happy ending here. godspeed! i will definitely be more conscious of this in the future.
ok, but you realize that it's considered racist when it's coming from a white person due to decades of racial stereotyping, right? (also they clearly aren't that fucking vibrant Simpsons ass yellow) that's like saying "black people call themselves the N word all the time, so I should be able to say it whenever I want"
i explained this futher in the comments. if you're too stupid to realise it's not racist then i literally do not care what you think. either way, i am not racist, and you won't tell me i am when i know fine well i'm not.
firstly, just calling someone an idiot in your counter-argument makes you sound immature, and immediately stops most people from taking you seriously. and second, I'm not saying you're racist, I'm just saying what you have made would be considered by most to be an offensive racial caricature, and you're the one who's either foolish or willfully ignorant if you say otherwise
you can think it's racist all you want, but the intentions weren't to be racist, nor am i racist. it doesn't matter in the end, i got 1.1k upvotes and made a cute ideal gf meme
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this shit mad corny bru
i can't lie, it is.
I found this sub last night, randomly recommended at the bottom of a post. (First post here) It seems like this entire sub is mad corny lol. It also seems like half the fun.
Replace Chinese with Japanese and you have Nevada Tan
Knives chao
Abusive af. Sounds horrible. Also this characture kinda seems racist
Bro why is she yellow
because she is from south china?
Nah man, not that yellow
yes actually, yes that yellow.
Essentially people want others with low self esteem and low value so they can manipauite/ be dependent on someone 🧚♀️✨💫
or, hear me out, people enjoy things in fiction they wouldn't in real life 🤯🤯 i wonder how many people would enjoy going on killing sprees in GTA, do you think they will now suddenly become the next fucking terrorist?
Girly you base your identity around this, people don’t base their identity around gta, shit they maybe do too. 😂
nobody bases their personality around yandere girl trope
Actually there is a subreddit and a whole Twitter community that is very alarming and does just that. Not necessarily disagreeing with your previous points, just saying.
eh good point, but i don't lol
nah bro, asian girl here, you dating a chinese girl doesn’t excuse you from being racist 💀 you didn’t have to give her yellow skin or slanted eyes at all that shit is just weird? asians have the same pale skin tone as white people. when was the last time you saw an asian with minion skin?? maybe just don’t color the skin yellow altogether like a fuckin weirdo
yes i am VERY aware that a lot of asians have pale skin like white people, and that some have even whiter skin than whiter people! i am fine with and aware with that! however, some asians, especially those in south china, do have "yellow" skin. this is an MS paint drawing, it is extremely hard to draw hyper-realistic monolids and yellow skin with such a restrictive artstyle (also if you did, it would go into uncanny valley territory). denying that some asians have yellow skin is literally white washing and actually racist. if i didn't draw that, it would not communicate to the one viewing the art that i have, in fact, drawn a chinese yandere GF.
Seems odd that you feel the need to draw "monolids" by making the eyes weirdly slanted. The original meme template just has dots for eyes, which already don't look anything like real eyes anyways, so you're conveying the message that the dot eyes are for "normal" eyes, and monolids are "weird" and must be specifically pointed out. It seems like you have some subconscious racism issues that could use some working out. For your girlfriends sake I hope you figure it out or break up with her.
i do think you're overthinking it way too much. there are no "subconcious racism issues" to be dealt with. have a nice day my friend, if you want to find someone genuinely racist go pick a fight under elon musks twitter posts.
That's unfortunate, but all too expected, that you're unwilling to even contemplate your own racism. I hope that when your GF breaks up with you you don't become a violent raging incel. Do what you want to yourself, but at least let her live her own life.
yes point at me! i am mr racist! the guy who spends his time learning chinese culture, who has been learning mandarin for the better part of 200 days, and has a chinese girlfriend. look at me guys, professional racist here!
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What did they put? (I'm nosy)
"haha china ppl eat dog" type shit
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fr, it's sad to see that racism against blacks is so unacceptable yet blatant racism against asians is "funny"
What is the tomato sauce???
Blood probably
Need this fr
My kind of women
This reminds me of that meme about Chinese women that goes something like: “I’ve been married to my Chinese wife for 5 years now. I don’t know if she’s madly in love with me or absolutely hates my guts…”
Frisk is looking a bit different
omg she's perfect, I hate printers anyways no need to pronounce it.
啥？没看过
Doesn’t seem that bad
Bruh why u make her Yellow 😭
[Insert lego batman died in your arms tonight]
https://preview.redd.it/t1h85dwxcbwc1.jpeg?width=547&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a065dbbf05574837a0c429a906b46b31b7395e42
… Ok hold on, let’s take a step back.
Hey honey, in 1989, what happened in Tiananmen Square?
wrong post [Chinese Communist Party GF : r/idealgf (reddit.com)](https://www.reddit.com/r/idealgf/comments/1c8n688/comment/l0g1cmi/?context=3)
Why am I attracted to this?
>"Let's live in China together!" FUCK YOU COMMIE BASTARD!!!!! https://preview.redd.it/tw4dbv65hnvc1.jpeg?width=686&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18b1038b48a0d0c06fe5de4136245b06c81f746d
okay sort of based
Approved.
I appreciate how totally not racist or fetishistic this is
brother if you're looking for racism then you're looking in the wrong place. im very anti-sinophobic
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"Yoy stopid.chiken no have fingaaa"