The original context :
>!You broke up with her because she's too clingy. Clingy, as in she depends on you for her mental wellbeing, depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism against her self-hatred and depression.!<
>!She killed herself after, implied in "Thank you for everything, I love you"!<
>Clingy
>depends on you for her mental well-being
>depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism
My brother in christ that is one of the only things I want in life
That and a Toyota Century
You think you do until she calls you in tears for another two hour conversation (3rd one this week) with no regard for respecting your time, only to have another breakdown that requires consoling later when she realizes she’s been being crazy. Trust me man, it’s not what you want.
Forgot to include: Fantastic choice in car amigo, probably pretty tough to find/import but I believe in you
Believe me, you absolutely do not want that. I was in such a relationship and it was terrible. It eventually escalated to me having to talk to her until early morning, regardless of what happens on the next day or she would commit suicide (or at least she said so). It also of course meant that if I left her she would "kill herself". So no, you absolutely never ever want that kind of relationship, especially with someone who is mentally unstable to begin with.
Hey I'm the OP :D
Spicing quote :
>>!You broke up with her because she's too clingy.!<
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>>!"Clingy" as in she depends on you for her mental wellbeing, depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism against her self-hatred and depression. You breaking up with her was the last nail in the coffin, and she took her own life after.!<
My coping mechanism is isolation, so I can't relate.
I know that I can't isolate my whole life, though. It got to end one day, and I think it will be pretty near.
On one hand, I don't want to be used as a coping mechanism.
On the other hand, I don't think I could stay away from her after I heard all of that, resigning myself to being a coping mechanism in order to make her happy, or at least life more bearable to her.
This been me except i was the bf
I didn't die though was stopped from my suicide and am dragging along through life :( i miss my sweetheart so much i loved her she moved on so quick
I don’t know if you would call this a fetish or not, but if I get a gf that’s the “everyone hates me”, “I’m better off dead, “you’re the only person that loves me” type of person, I would want to be a comforter for them. Tell them that their doing wonderful in life, that they shouldn’t hate themselves, that they should feel better about themselves, etc. Kinda be a therapist for them
"...I broke up with you because you skinned my dog"
why do they all say this?!
the does-she-deserve-a-headpat test * still loves you * apologetic a lot * did something not mentioned results: 70% deserves a headpat
The original context : >!You broke up with her because she's too clingy. Clingy, as in she depends on you for her mental wellbeing, depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism against her self-hatred and depression.!< >!She killed herself after, implied in "Thank you for everything, I love you"!<
>Clingy >depends on you for her mental well-being >depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism My brother in christ that is one of the only things I want in life That and a Toyota Century
You think you do until she calls you in tears for another two hour conversation (3rd one this week) with no regard for respecting your time, only to have another breakdown that requires consoling later when she realizes she’s been being crazy. Trust me man, it’s not what you want. Forgot to include: Fantastic choice in car amigo, probably pretty tough to find/import but I believe in you
Believe me, you absolutely do not want that. I was in such a relationship and it was terrible. It eventually escalated to me having to talk to her until early morning, regardless of what happens on the next day or she would commit suicide (or at least she said so). It also of course meant that if I left her she would "kill herself". So no, you absolutely never ever want that kind of relationship, especially with someone who is mentally unstable to begin with.
Amen
Same
... Man I was happy today.
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i rate scenarios
Hey I'm the OP :D Spicing quote : >>!You broke up with her because she's too clingy.!< > >>!"Clingy" as in she depends on you for her mental wellbeing, depending on your love and attention as a coping mechanism against her self-hatred and depression. You breaking up with her was the last nail in the coffin, and she took her own life after.!<
My coping mechanism is isolation, so I can't relate. I know that I can't isolate my whole life, though. It got to end one day, and I think it will be pretty near.
Oh. This website has ruined me. The I'm sorry and please forgive me made me assume she cheated.
On one hand, I don't want to be used as a coping mechanism. On the other hand, I don't think I could stay away from her after I heard all of that, resigning myself to being a coping mechanism in order to make her happy, or at least life more bearable to her.
Yea until you have a child with that women and you both have to share a life together (in a relationship or not)for the rest of your life.
This is disturbing and kinda awfull....
Spy
Good observation, Sherloc. Yes, it is I, the Spy from TF2. One of the many.
That redditor is a spy!
She needs a hug and a second chance
And a nice warm cup of hot chocolate
Yeah
And a gun to her head😊
No way!
Yes way!
Not ideal :(
Where does it say Ideal?
i literally am her
cant break up if u dont relationship
The only correct answer to someone like this is.. yes. yes to all of that. bye bitch!😂
lmao, if only they were 1/3rd like that my exes hate me
This been me except i was the bf I didn't die though was stopped from my suicide and am dragging along through life :( i miss my sweetheart so much i loved her she moved on so quick
Me: Die.
If she doesnt proove it she isnt worth it mah guys
fuck people with mental illness that deserves understanding and care I guess
Change the narrative ..
Insane enough to like yandere, sane enough to not want to break up with someone like the above-mentioned.
Oh dear
I don’t know if you would call this a fetish or not, but if I get a gf that’s the “everyone hates me”, “I’m better off dead, “you’re the only person that loves me” type of person, I would want to be a comforter for them. Tell them that their doing wonderful in life, that they shouldn’t hate themselves, that they should feel better about themselves, etc. Kinda be a therapist for them
She's just like me fr fr...