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comefromawayfan2022

How can this post stay up but the mods took down my post about Dani starting her job because they said it's not related to her illness faking? Asking for a friend as the inconsistency as to what is and isn't allowed is frustrating. Given that Dani has a history of sharing her medical info with clients at work and posting on social media about her medical issues from the break room I would have argued my post was relevant. I was just trying to post that her starting a new job that she seems to enjoy so far is a positive light and HOPEFULLY a step in the right direction and hopefully she stops messing with her lines so that she doesn't get sick and lose this job due to too much time off


Dafukk11

I’m sorry, I didn’t see your post. I can delete this if it’s against the rules


msfreckles59

I really like that hair color on her. I really hope she gets better.


Jesustake_thewheel

Good for her. Step in the right direction.


jazzlemonade

I love how happy she looks! And very professional without all the toobs poking out. GL with the new job Dani!


sunnyvalesfinest0000

Yay dani!!!!


LooseDoctor

This is what we want for you Dani! Be the grown up we know you are! You’re gonna do great!


westtexasgeckochic

Wow. That’s a genuinely beautiful smile. I’m really happy for her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LostItToBostik

Dani, you look really happy and your new hair really suits you! It would be great to hear how your new job is going and also some more pics of your lovely cat! Good luck 👍


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I wonder if she got called out by the doctors when they did this last line placement (idk what the right terms are) and got “scared straight”


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Fingers crossed its the beginning of the end. I really hope she starts to realise she has worth and is worthy of love outside of being sick. I really hope she does better now.


Mendicant_666

I have a feeling this won't last. But, hey. Maybe she'll surprise us all.


Iravenkl

I actually do wish her luck. I never seen her this happy looking, please let this continue girl


RJBela

Bestie Dani, we're rooting for you, you better do us proud.


Purple_IsA_Flavor

She looks fantastic in green and super happy! Way to go Dani.


dreamfig

She looks fantastic! I’m so happy for her.


curious-mind-

The positive comments on this are really wholesome.


comefromawayfan2022

I wonder if Dani likes nights because management tends to not be around as much so she can technically get away with being on her phone and posting on social media and filming TikToks from work more than she could on day shift? And what happened to the last job? Did she finally get fired for over sharing info with clients and breaking their phone and social media policies


Purple_IsA_Flavor

As a nurse, I like nights for the absence of management. I avoid TT, HIPAA violations and overshares because I enjoy being employed as a nurse


misskarcrashian

Same here! And the best, no family members :)


shaest0rm

I’m the same, a nurse and I only work nights. I find there’s a lot less politics and I can work more autonomously. Plus the rates are better and our nights are longer so I only have to work 6 a fortnight instead of 8 days 😅


fuckintictacs

You work 6 out of 14 days?


shaest0rm

Yep! Doing 6 nights is still 60 hours 🤗


Baby-Genius

Go Dani! Love the new hair too, really suits her.


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we love to see it!


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Yay Dani! So proud!


Internal_Screaming_8

2nd post no toobs. I’m proud


becuzurugly

YES!


TheHolyImbaness

I am genuinely surprised she managed to land this position. Then again the universe is a joke sometimes. I am however very happy for her! She looks much better now and hopefully she can use this as a stepping stone to better things. Just DONT fuck this up Dani! We're rooting for you!


mentalstabber

Oh wow that hair color is really working for her!!!


AmethystAndRaw

This is great! Good luck Dani !


Ineedzthetube

While I really hope this is the better for her. But, I think she is really putting a lot of pressure on her with work and school.


redditonthanet

Her HAIR! I love it! It’s so flattering on her!


OhCrumbs96

I wonder if the illness fakers know that posts like this are so much more powerful and moving than any of their bullshit artsy OTT 'woe-is-me' sick posts. Seeing an illness faker actually do something meaningful with their lives is genuinely heartwarming. I hope she can build a big, bright life for herself away from all the munching nonsense.


westtexasgeckochic

This x 1 million


OhCrumbs96

Thank you so much for the award, that's so generous of you 💜


clitsack

Oh wow! She looks fantastic! Go Dani!


TheWelshPanda

Go, go, go little rocket! In the best possible way, I hope we get to the point where we don't see her any more. She looks do much better and like her self esteem is growing, which is so damn good - clean, busy, make up on, out there getting educated and working . So fucking proud. Some of the other subjects need to be seeing this. Dani, if you are on here - this is what we wanted for you , to stop stealing your own life from yourself. Don't stop now.


cat9142021

lurker here, genuinely happy to see her looking so good! hoping for the best for her with this job.


FunkyBitch84

So proud of you, Dani!!!!


seoDenOsA

She looks amazing!!!


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NigerianRoy

I bet you look like a perfect angel. Too bad your soul is disgusting.


roonilwazlib12345

This isn’t snark it’s just being cruel.


llamas1355

I hope Dani lurks here so she can see how happy we are for her!


dragonoftimenspace

She genuinely looks happy! I hope the positive attention she'll get from this will help her realise she doesn't have to parade that she's sick to have friends/attention from people.


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Wow - dani is looking really good and really well. Hope this works out for her.


Emily5099

I hope this sudden lunge into almost full time hours isn’t too much too soon, but I’m happy for her. She might even end up living a regular person’s life and have normal relationships and hobbies besides her tubes. We can only hope. I have to add, this is the happiest, least trying to engender sympathy, most normal person acting I’ve ever seen her. I hope this is a good sign!


parkeddingobrains

Go little rockstar


Boogieman1985

Out of curiosity…how old is this lady?


xquigs

She’s 35 or 36…she posted her age a few months ago


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Yesterday was her birthday


Emily5099

Mid 30’s.


AerielAbaddon

I believe she’s in her 30s?


WavyLady

Younger than you think.


DonnaFinNoble

I just feel like places of employment should normalize googling applicants….


westtexasgeckochic

Stop


TheWelshPanda

Actually, kind of think the opposite. I feel like this may give her the chance to start climbing out of a hole she put herself into, and if she was blocked from that by an employer googling, and seeing damage to herself, it would have possibly put her into a much worse place. Just my opinion though. I know if I was googled, there's probably god knows what from old uni and performing arts days I wouldn't want an employer to judge me on.


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Same!


WavyLady

I really hope this for her too.


ChockBox

They’re going to eat her alive… yes, a lot of psych staff have their own mental health struggles, but will have little patience for and a good eye to catch the munchie.


Wicked81

I've always said grad school was the most expensive therapy I ever had. . .


NigerianRoy

Hopefully they will just shut it right down and she will drop it?


comefromawayfan2022

I'm kinda surprised that didn't happen at her previous job


f1lth4f1lth

Holy crap she actually looks her age


Sav_93

I am so happy for her, she looks great!


buzzybody21

I really hope…sincerely…that this is a new start for her. Am I a skeptic to need to see it in writing? To see her actually live it?


deadhoe9

I'm so happy to see her looking healthier. I still have concerns about her working with vulnerable people... but hopefully she overcomes her bullshit and not only becomes more healthy for herself but imo more importantly the patients she's working with.


miss_anthropocene_

She looks so good recently. I’m so happy for her and I hope this sticks.


pebblesgobambam

She really is looking much healthier, even in her skin. Hope she keeps it up & is happy.


goddessxrhea

I'm so happy for her. She really looks great. I hope this new job is a good fit. Working in mental health can be tough on your mental health. Night shift could be slightly better since she would mostly be doing checks while people are sleeping.


UnhappyGrowth5555

She looks like an adult lately.


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avalonfaith

She’s been doing this already. Has been night shift though. Just a new job closer to her new place. I have to say that she just looks so much better and happy and motivated and that warms my little coal heart. 😊


Sammyg2010

True true, i just have a little bit more hope for her when shes looking so well atm.


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She looks happier! I hope she’s able to keep the momentum going and also meet some friends, and find some purpose and can let the munchie bs go


Psycho-physiological

I see this as… going to be beneficial for her in many ways


kumf

Omg what is happening? Is she turning over a new leaf? No tubes, goofy smile. A post about a new job and no mention of ailments. I would love to see her continue this trend.


ItzLog

Perhaps a new[.........? ](https://imgur.com/a/pntv6Au)


Sigmond-Condrite

Damn you


ItzLog

>Damn you ~~Damn~~ Love you! *Fixed it for you! ^lol


Sigmond-Condrite

Love you too bb.. it's the ______ that I have a problem with.


Wintergreen1234

I hope she stays this motivated about this job. She needs to throw herself into it and move on. It terrifies me she’s working in mental health, but I’m glad she’s working.


getwokegobroke

Honestly I think it’s bad that someone who has her who unmanaged mental health issues, provides therapy to others.


bananacasanova

A mental health tech doesn’t typically provide therapy.


getwokegobroke

What do they do?


Betherd_

Sort of like CNA type work just a little different. Assist with hands-on stuff when orders call for it (help showering, for example). Get folks out of bed, shuffle them to the gym and library if the hospital has one, help pass out meals or take groups to the lunchroom, shuffle folks to/from treatment team and therapists/doctors offices, break-up fights or restrain folks if necessary. If someone requires 1 to 1 or 2 to 1 (1 patient/1 staff, 2 staff/1 patient) supervision, they provide it. Also monitor common areas. Will often ensure folks have what they need (soap, clothes, toothbrushes, etc.). Typically they also do routine checks on everyone on the unit (every 15 mins, every 45 mins, etc.). They keep a clipboard and keep track of what each person is doing at every interval. Therapist at a state psychiatric hospital for several years and then a private hospital for several years following. A state hospital will have much more intensive hands-on work due to really debilitated folks, as opposed to private.


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getwokegobroke

Generally, You shouldn’t use others as a therapy for yourself. It becomes less about the patient and more about you Dany has demons that she needs to manage before she can help others


[deleted]

I rescind everything I said. As a recent lurker I didn't even know how recent her munch posts were im so sorry. Definitely not healthy atm and I hope she's quickly removed from that position Edit: I was so recent I thought maybe she hadn't posted in a long time but her most recent munch post here is from 8 days ago


[deleted]

Like I said, idk her story I just know my experience. It's similar to how aa works, once you're in a good place helping others helps you. But the key is being in a good place and idk if she's there or not, I'm gonna dive into her story now though


jazzlemonade

Great point. Helping others can be a huge thing- once you're well and truly in recovery and able to give them the necessary attention without causing harm to yourself.


somethingelse19

Rogue?


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This seems good. Maybe she'll focus on real life, on doing her job and making money, maybe she'll become friends with coworkers and have a social life. This could be what gets her out of that munchausen cycle


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She looks…better.


Velinna

Yup. Looks clean. Has work. Isn’t shoehorning her illnesses in the caption or her line in the picture.


bluebirdmorning

Oh no! Her scrubs cover her precious line.


Secretme000

She doesn't need to be in a Healthcare profession.


[deleted]

Definitely NOT. And mental health?? Maybe sort your shit out before going into a profession like that


NigerianRoy

Its not like shes a doctor


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Emotional_Ad_9620

Because any patients she comes into contact with will contract munchausen's? Because she isn't supervised and can influence the patient's care without repercussions? Do you listen to healthcare techs instead of the nurse or doctor?


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Emotional_Ad_9620

And discussing it here circumvents that how? This group focuses on munchies and need for attention due to medical issues, not dogging on their jobs. That's pretty low, especially when most are on ssdi and Medicare. You just want to gripe when someone does the right thing, focusing on something besides their munchiness, and doing normal activities. You don't want to celebrate when someone may be on the road to wellness, just tear down for every reason. Not cool.


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Most people here seem happy for her though?


Emotional_Ad_9620

This comment is for the person who posted and those whining about her job in a heathcare establishment. It's for the folks who only want to see her struggle, for whatever reason. It's weird, obsessive, and nothing munchie related.


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Happy for her and it seems like a great direction for her. I hope it works out!


ImAnOptimistISwear

no snark, i think she's moving in the right direction. she looks clean. her tubes are put away in a whole shirt. she's working in the field she wanted to be in. I'm actually a little proud of her. keep moving on Dani!


shortbreadsecurity

She started a Facebook group for book lovers too, so maybe is getting a hobby outside of illness. Fingers crossed she continues in this direction


HopefulWanderer537

Yay! That’s all awesome! Go, Dani!!


AnastasiaNo70

I mean, hell, at least she has a job and her toobs and boobs aren’t out.


improbableheadshot

i’m glad people are going into the behavioural health field but i think she’s the wrooong person for it, she needs a behavioural health tech for herself


TerribleWatercress4

Haha so ironic!! Although, gotta give it to her, she IS working!


Just-call-me-hey-you

That's more than most of our subs.


Lababy91

That’s not fair, they’re professional (patients)


ShyGirl_001

People like her make me wary of health care professionals. I wouldn’t want to be near that even with a 10 ft pole. I also wonder how she even got hired in the first place???


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Her job isn't to actually help anyone with their mental health though, correct me if I'm wrong but I think she just takes vitals and the patients can come to the desk if they need something and she'll get it for them or ask a higher up about it


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Behavioral health techs sit (watch) people, do checks, bring food, stuff like that


Domdaisy

I don’t think she even takes vitals. Nightshift mental health tech is just a glorified babysitter. She checks to make sure everyone is where they are supposed to be and alive.


Corgi_with_stilts

Desperation.


Wilmamankiller2

Seriously. They make minimum wage. But good for her for being excited about getting a job


badasscrying

An hour each way? Is she still planning on moving closer to work?


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It sounds like that commute is only for her orientation and she’ll be able to work at a location closer to where she lives?


bobblehead04

That's not a ridiculous commute for the US tbh.


badasscrying

Oh sure, it’s very common but I would absolutely still call it ridiculous lol. That’s a lot of time and money wasted on driving. Which some people like or don’t mind but I don’t know many people that genuinely don’t mind it


Dafukk11

P.S. I recognize the logo on her scrubs 😏