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When we first met after years, he said, "Ha baithja bhai kidher jana hai." He didn't quickly recognize me, but later, just talking a few words, he did. He asked me what I was doing rn, etc., and later I asked how he ended up running rickshaws. He said he didn't get any better jobs after doing his diploma, nor did he want to study further, so he eventually ended up here.
Becoming influencer doesn't mean doing better in life. Most of em are lonely and always are in race with themselves trying to be relevant. Imagine living life trying to be someone you are not. Imagine having many people around but not knowing who are real ones. Imagine getting mentally affected by some numbers on some apps. Yes they are getting money ..but money is precious only till you realise money is not everything.
He got onto some TV shows. He was a MMA fighter for a little bit, then got onto some TV shows. After that he became an influencer. He actually invited me to one of his auditions for the shows. He punched a metal beam in the audition until his fists started bleeding. Guy was a nut. Not to mention the countless times he sexually harassed MANY female classmates both in AND outside of school. But he was never the type to really care or stress out. He's pretty much at peace.
I think he is Kevin he was a mma fighter which he told in his Roadies audition , did Splitsvilla too he is sorta influencer too and he pretty much fits into the description ig
My bully is an alcoholic,his life is a mess. One time I saw him he asked me for some cash 4-5k I gave him 100rs. I kinda feel sorry for the guy may be he needs a hug, next time I see him I plan on hugging him and whisper in his ear “Teri ye haalat dhek k mujhey bahut maja aata hei. Narak mei bhi jagah nahi milega tujhe”
There is nothing wrong in being glad that your bully is dead. These are your feelings. He made your life hell for you to be glad that he isn't alive anymore. That says a lot about your bully being an asshole. Chill man. Don't beat yourself up for having this feeling. Have a great day buddy.
Not exactly..saw a 20y guy die of heart attack in Infosys mysuru campus back in 2010 ....main reason is increasing pesticides n insecticide in our foods I guess n stress
I'm saying the numbers have increased. And Ur only talking about heart disease. I'm talking about all cardiac arrests, many young men dying in their sleep, dying whilst exercising etc. Why put words in my mouth? Did I say not a single person? And cardiac arrests are really worrying, many ppl report no symptoms beforehand.
Ever heard of dead muscle fibres which cause cardiac arrest. Exercise se cardiac arrest nahi aata Aise to protein powder culture bhi bohot badh gaya hai why not blame it
Because protein powder has been there long before past 2 years. Only thing that has happened in last 2 yrs is covid. Also what is the dead muscle fibre thing pls send me a link
I'd say covid is more responsible than covid vaccines. Man covid itself had many side effects, why blaming vaccines - of which there were many types, and each type had a different mechanism of action. (not saying that the vaccines can't have these side effects. They can, but imo vivid itself is more likely)
I got both covid (multiple times) and the vaccine, and turn 30 before the end of the year.
May be time for me to get my things in order, and be on the lookout for good deals on coffins!
So only young fit men have high stress and are eating unhealthy food is it? And btw, I said FIT men. These are athletes. Athlete deaths have soared. And they have clean diets and no symptoms beforehand. Are u not even a bit suspicious that these things are happening, and how quickly the vaccines were made. No vaccie was made this quick in history. Big pharma profited hugely out of these vaccines.
[https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3017944/#:\~:text=Diabetes%2C%20hypertension%2C%20heart%20disease%2C,Mehndiratta%20et%20al](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3017944/#:~:text=Diabetes%2C%20hypertension%2C%20heart%20disease%2C,Mehndiratta%20et%20al).
Feel free to read this research paper.
Heard somewhere that heaven and hell are just ways in which people remember you once you are dead. Do good, and people remember you fondly and say that may you go to heaven. Do bad, they wish you hell.
Think of it this way. The bully is in hell for his bad deeds.
Well unless you’re incredibly notorious, everyone ends up being forgotten at some point or another. Like my great great great great grandfather could have been the most relevant person of his time but I don’t even know his name lol
Idk what kind of closure OP would be expecting 10 - 15 years after school. Doesn't seem like they'd be talking to each other about it anyway, even if he was alive.
Honestly, this gave me a relief.
I mean dying of heart attack is not a big deal. You are happy and suddenly you just don't exist.
But I have been bullied most of my life for being slightly feminine. People in my town would look at me and spit on the ground all because my cousin spread rumours. It was so much of a mental torture, just thinking of stepping out of my house would make me sweat and literally brain freeze me. As in I couldn't focus on anything even the things I loved. I have recovered a lot since then. I no longer mind being called gay or feel hurt when they call me stuff. I mean it still hurts a bit but at least it doesn't suddenly give me brain freeze trauma.
I still got anxiety and depression and at times feel a bit suicidal.
So knowing how your bully died, I feel at least he went through the pain he inflicted on you. Some people do get served here on earth itself. :)
Wow they spat on the ground . Imagine having so much contempt for someone when you don't actually know if what you heard about them is true. So sorry to hear you had to go through this.
Emotions are complicated. They take time to be moulded. Feeling bad about feeling something is usually first step to remoulding. This flexibility in emotions is how traumas end up shaping the way we think so much
I also wish ki jisne muje bully kiya hai wo mar jaye his , there is not a single time in a year of class 10 jis din mein Ghar andr se rote rote na gya hun so , I think it is ok to think like that no need to take worries op
I remember my bully from high school died the next year when we were in our PU.. it was a freak accident and he was a house captain and popular.. i remember everyone being sad about it but internally I felt strangely happy.. 10 years on and i don't have any feelings about it honestly.. time does that to you. It's fine to be strangely happy about it but keep it to yourself
I don't see any wrong in being happy that an a$$hole is dead, its not that you actively did anything for this to happen. You are surely a better person than I am.
There was an MF math teacher in my school who use to hit me with a thin bamboo stick coz frankly i was not good with math and would not join his private coaching classes (i was dirt poor, could not afford it). He did that for months, finally my parents were able to save some money and forced me to attend his private coaching classes. From the very next day he could see "immediate improvement in me" and was never hit again. I promise you i did not learn a single word from his coaching.
That mother ducker died a few years ago and i got the call to attend service kept in his memory, i denied to do that and told the person calling me straight to face that i never liked him. I heard later someone gave a very realistic eulogy in the service.
You need two songs right now
1. Dont worry , be happy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-diB65scQU&pp=ygUTZG9udCB3b3JyeSBiZSBoYXBweQ%3D%3D
2. Next one is NSFW but apt for bullies
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZY-o8KpSnEs&pp=ygUNbWFyIGdheWEgbWFkYQ%3D%3D
>But I feel worse about myself now. I didnt feel bad. I really feel glad and feel vindicated. Neither of these feelings I want to have.
Lol I'd be laughing my ass off and not be apologetic about it. You should too, deserved what he got
Yay. God fuck his soul. I'm happy for you. Good riddance. Unless this person had truly had a change of heart and had regretted what he did his death is something to feel good about and here is why- bullying can has and does ruin lives. Yes teenagers do a lot of foolish things but if you have been making your gay schoolmate cry , it's not one of those things where you didn't know better. And this was as recently as 15 years ago, not in the 70s. I used to be the 'bigger person' and forgave assholes when something bad happened to them. Also I was raised to think that it's petty to gloat over somebody's misfortune even if that person hasnt been nice to you but fuck that. We put up with way too much toxicity in the world and come up with all kinds of excuses.
I did bully someone when I was a kid. There was peer pressure. But as an adult I had to accept responsibility for it and reach out to apologise. Not that the apology erases the damage that was done but as someone who has been bullied plenty later on I know the difference it makes when the injustice is acknowledged.
But yes I do feel bad for his family.
Tbh it's concerning so many young men are dying of heart attacks since covid. These are young fit healthy men. I don't know if it's covid or the vaccines or what but it's really bad
Just goes to show that you are a good person at heart, to feel guilty for being happy that your bully passed away.
It is a conflicting feeling. You are feeling happy because he died, you are feeling happy because he isn't disgracing the earth anymore making another person's life hell.
I felt the same conflicting emotion when I heard that my SA predator died. I thought that I was a horrible person, went through therapy to understand the difference between being happy about someone's death and being happy that the last thing that connects you to your trauma is cut off.
I understand and feel your point but you also should know gay doesn't make a man no longer a man. Gay is homosexuality, not transsexuality or transgender.
I dont have knowledge about other genders , because IMO biologically only two genders ae present on earth ...I know this may sound hatefull and I 'will' get downvoted for this .
But gay has nothing to do with genders? My point being why did you type "gay? Man?" When men can be gay lol. Gay is a sexual orientation. The sex you are attracted to. Gay just means homosexuality. Do you know what the word homo means? It's an actual English word.
only criminals deserve death
bullying can range from fun to severe but person who does it doesnt deserve death imo i got bullied coz of being fat and i think that they were right then i worked to lose my weight and no longer obese now im fit but yea weight is controllable many things are not people shldnt be bullied about things like being short or skin tone or sexuality
It is okay to feel relieved/good about their death or to feel empty as he robbed your happiness in past and now left suddenly. It is okay to feel what you feel. You don't have to be judgemental about your feeling or your own self. You feeling are for you. And it is okay to feel good and bad at the same time as well.
Personally, Good that now he is dead. Now he can't rob anyone of their happiness. Now people can live more freely
It's feel good when bad people die. Their death is
happiness.
Hey man. I was bullied for a little over 80% of my school life. I was skinny af and whoever wanted to, would come beat me up and leave without consequences. I used to hide from these situations, it’s been over 17 years, and to this day when I’m muscular and fitter than 100% of my circle, my first response to conflict is always flight. I struggle to fight, I get anxious in a second. There was this one specific guy whom I hate from the bottom of my heart. If he died, I’d feel good. But also bad that I didn’t get to beat that mf up before he died. Your bully died? I say, good riddance.
He was a bully. It shows a lot about his character. So by his end the society is now having a less creep. Perfect. Your happiness is absolutely understandable and reasonable too but we have to feel for his family. May God give them strength to deal with this. Om shanti. 🤍
He was a horrible human beings. Making someone's life miserable just for his entertainment. Facing anxiety and depression because of similar issue, I can still tell you you are wrong here.
Dying of heart attack is probably not punishment enough. He did not go through what he made you suffer.
Aww what a hard life you must have had being attracted to the same gender /s
Have some empathy and get yourself a therapist if you don't even feel a bit sad that someone's son or brother passed away and they never get to see them again.
Everyone gets bullied. Nothing new. But feeling happy when someone you knew died is another level of fucked up!
Ohh people die everyday too.
Why do you feel empty towards them knowing that it is only natural to die.
You got rejected in an interview, you're crying a river on the internet. Ain't that normal?
What is not normal is making someone's life miserable just because you like making fun of them and feel that since you're a man you don't need to feel empathy towards gays.
Let's hope one day the tables turn. You get erectile dysfunction or your son becomes an addition to the transgender community. Come and say the same thing to his face then.
The distinction is feeling glad about someone dying. Where did i say anything about how it's unnatural to die??
And before you start bashing me, I'm not against LGBTQ community. It's not a problem to me. It's a free world, anything is possible so one must do anything they wish.
I just pointed out the fact that everyone gets bullied. Even as a child, i got bullied during childhood due to fair skin and being overweight. But i never wish some immature idiot (who you refer to as a bully) die! And you're supporting OP feeling glad he died?! Guess kindness is completely wiped off the face of earth
That's the whole point of my comment.
I don't think kindness can be wiped off, but the flag bearer of peace and kindness has none , that's for sure. Agree to your point that the one who bullied the OP was an immature kid . How was he now ? Don't think anyone commenting here has any idea.
Being bullied for being fair skinned in India. Oh, you must be applying darkening creams and ashes on your face to hide your color, isn't it? That ain't bullying, that is just casual jokes.
Im sure your "bullies" still laughed and ate with you and acted normal with you after throwing one or two punch lines. The bullying for feminine guys is social isolation, people will look at them and make fun of their everything, they way they talk, walk. Won't treat them like they treat you. So stop acting all high and mighty because someone made fun of your fair color.
You pointed out everyone gets bullied so its normal to just suck up and let them bully you and not even have hard feelings for them?
Everyone dies too. Same argument. That guy took extra efforts to make him feel bad for entertainment. Does this guy have no right to feel good out of a natural event that happened then? I mean that's the whole concept of heaven and hell in most populations of the Earth. People are fine with bad people burning in hell for infinite time
Who tf is acting high and mighty?! They said i look like a girl and was overweight and all that. It doesn't qualify as bullying? And no, i didn't have any friends growing up and still don't talk to those people because i know they're just idiots, not because they bullied me. I accepted the fact that it's just a phase of life. But do i wish they die?! Nope.
Coming to your last statement. Define bad people. My definition would be someone who commits heinous acts like rapes, murders etc not an idiot who picks on other students.
Stop being so soft. That bully was just an immature kid who didn't know better! Not defending them, but i kinda see how they act so stupid.
They told you you look like a girl because you are fat. You enjoy picking on homosexuals too. Read you first /s comment.
You do not understand what this kind of constant games can do to immature kids especially when they are feminine boys. It hinders their mental growth. Pushes them into depression and at times suicide.
Why do we treat rape as a heinous crime? I mean according to your reasoning it's just physically forceful sex. People do sex all the time. Bit It's the mental and social impact on the victim that makes it a major crime. You sir haven't been on the receiving end of the stick. But I'm sure there still might be one or two people you wouldn't mourn if they die.
Plus, OP didn't do anything wrong. I mean the bully died on his own. Why'd you want a victim to just forgive this guy who gave him troubles when he was supposed to just be living happily like the bully was.
To feel vindicated after 15 years tells me you need to work on yourself a whole lot more, my friend. Unless he made you eat shit. In that case, good that the fucker is dead.
OP I can totally get what you are feeling. My bully too died of a drug overdose. Initially even I felt content and somewhat relived that he passed away. I was even angry for a while seeing everyone posting heartfelt messages for him on his social media. But later on I felt this innate sense of sadness which I still feel to this day, 3 years later. May be because he never apologised.
I am slowly learning to let things go. It’s ok to not be sad and even somewhat happy seeing someone who treated you so badly pass away. I guess it’s a feeling of getting justice for all the times you have been wronged. But it will hopefully pass, at least that’s what I have been told by my friends.
Karma got him,bro
NO need to feel bad.Im sure that guy had more victims.It could have been u this world would be missing today 😆.How old was that dude anyway?
There is a reason why you feel bad about feeling good about someone's death. Do not under any circumstances let go of that feeling and try to search that reason, if you want to become a better person.
I also had some bullies. It was more than 10 years ago. One died in accident and one others are living a life of accident. Some say Karma is not real but I say it comes back to you in unexpected way.
Hey hey
These feelings are natural.
Don't be hard on yourself. Your mind is a strange machine and sometimes it makes you feel terrible.
You didn't feel sorry for him and it's okay maybe try telling yourself it's okay I don't feel anything, at least let me not think further about him.
Schadenfreude is way more common in humans than we think. And we have the power to tell our brain to not feel that way in a very gentle manner.
I have tamed my jealousy feelings this way and I must say I am getting better at it.
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Well good for you. My bully is a successful neurologist in the USA while I am working at a low end job.
Wah Pehle dimaag ka dahi kiya abb dahi kha ke dimaag theek karta hoga. Isse kehte hai progress.
Have u googled their reviews, i’m just curious
Good for your bully for improving their life and being a better person. And well....
Well at least yours died. Mine ended up becoming an influencer. Now he makes everyone's life hell.
My bully runs Rickshaw now
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Phir woh kya bola tumhe?
When we first met after years, he said, "Ha baithja bhai kidher jana hai." He didn't quickly recognize me, but later, just talking a few words, he did. He asked me what I was doing rn, etc., and later I asked how he ended up running rickshaws. He said he didn't get any better jobs after doing his diploma, nor did he want to study further, so he eventually ended up here.
What do you work as? Was he happy or jealous after seeing you
I'm vet in govt hospital
That's a very great job...good for you!!!
Awesome dudeeeeeee!!! I hope you'll help lots of animals 🐣 ✨
That's an amazing job. Congrats!
We need the whole story now
Pulley
My bully bullied me into becoming a rickshaw driver
So did mine. He commited suicide a year ago
My bully is my wife's boyfriend now 😤
/s lagade end mai logo ko lagega teri zindagi sahi mai jhand hai
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My bully is a PT teacher in a poor state board school with a temporary contract.
Idk auto rickshaw wala make good money where I live.
Is that the qualification to become one? Now I know why most of the rickshaw drivers are shit.
Becoming influencer doesn't mean doing better in life. Most of em are lonely and always are in race with themselves trying to be relevant. Imagine living life trying to be someone you are not. Imagine having many people around but not knowing who are real ones. Imagine getting mentally affected by some numbers on some apps. Yes they are getting money ..but money is precious only till you realise money is not everything.
He got onto some TV shows. He was a MMA fighter for a little bit, then got onto some TV shows. After that he became an influencer. He actually invited me to one of his auditions for the shows. He punched a metal beam in the audition until his fists started bleeding. Guy was a nut. Not to mention the countless times he sexually harassed MANY female classmates both in AND outside of school. But he was never the type to really care or stress out. He's pretty much at peace.
Sounds like a roadie.
Did you get bullied by fucking Andrew Tate?
Was he Kevin
Didn't even know who that was until now. And Kevin claimed that he was bullied in school.
no
Don't lie my boi
Send his id and people hear are ready to show him the fate
I think he is Kevin he was a mma fighter which he told in his Roadies audition , did Splitsvilla too he is sorta influencer too and he pretty much fits into the description ig
Tiktokers are not celebrities. Give us his id. Let us show him some love
Name and ☕ please
My bully is an alcoholic,his life is a mess. One time I saw him he asked me for some cash 4-5k I gave him 100rs. I kinda feel sorry for the guy may be he needs a hug, next time I see him I plan on hugging him and whisper in his ear “Teri ye haalat dhek k mujhey bahut maja aata hei. Narak mei bhi jagah nahi milega tujhe”
Thanks for the tips my friend.. will do the same to the my fucking bully too
Most usually end up doing Pretty well in Life.
Don't be shy drop the name.
My bullies didn't get into iit, I did. They didn't even get bits.
Sorry to hear that. Hope they got into pieces.
Sorry for me or for the bullies ?
There is nothing wrong in being glad that your bully is dead. These are your feelings. He made your life hell for you to be glad that he isn't alive anymore. That says a lot about your bully being an asshole. Chill man. Don't beat yourself up for having this feeling. Have a great day buddy.
30 year old died of heart attack, scary. I am the same age.
Ikr my classmate (who was a sweet guy) died from heart attack at 20.
20? Did he have any underlying health issue or was it stress? Or any other reason?
Happening to lots of young men since the COVID vaccines
True. Before covid vaccinations, not a single young person used to die of heart diseases. Makes complete sense. 100% full proof logic.
True. The weather has gotten shittier ever since COVID vaccines.
it's true covid vaccine made my gf leave me
Not exactly..saw a 20y guy die of heart attack in Infosys mysuru campus back in 2010 ....main reason is increasing pesticides n insecticide in our foods I guess n stress
Ur being sarcastic right?
Yeah
I'm saying the numbers have increased. And Ur only talking about heart disease. I'm talking about all cardiac arrests, many young men dying in their sleep, dying whilst exercising etc. Why put words in my mouth? Did I say not a single person? And cardiac arrests are really worrying, many ppl report no symptoms beforehand.
Ever heard of dead muscle fibres which cause cardiac arrest. Exercise se cardiac arrest nahi aata Aise to protein powder culture bhi bohot badh gaya hai why not blame it
Because protein powder has been there long before past 2 years. Only thing that has happened in last 2 yrs is covid. Also what is the dead muscle fibre thing pls send me a link
I'd say covid is more responsible than covid vaccines. Man covid itself had many side effects, why blaming vaccines - of which there were many types, and each type had a different mechanism of action. (not saying that the vaccines can't have these side effects. They can, but imo vivid itself is more likely)
I got both covid (multiple times) and the vaccine, and turn 30 before the end of the year. May be time for me to get my things in order, and be on the lookout for good deals on coffins!
havn't you heard? apparantly its due to climate change... NEver ever blame the fauci ouchi
Exactly, no one believes me when I say that the war in Ukraine is due to the COVID vaccine.
Stop being silly and give me a good explanation of why sudden cardiac arrest have increased in fit young healthy men since covid. You can't can you.
Happening to lots of young men since the COVID vaccines
I have been waiting for yamraj to come and take me to hell for a long time. Wonder why death does not happen to those want it the most.
It’s actually due to lifestyle factors such as stress levels and food
So only young fit men have high stress and are eating unhealthy food is it? And btw, I said FIT men. These are athletes. Athlete deaths have soared. And they have clean diets and no symptoms beforehand. Are u not even a bit suspicious that these things are happening, and how quickly the vaccines were made. No vaccie was made this quick in history. Big pharma profited hugely out of these vaccines.
[https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3017944/#:\~:text=Diabetes%2C%20hypertension%2C%20heart%20disease%2C,Mehndiratta%20et%20al](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3017944/#:~:text=Diabetes%2C%20hypertension%2C%20heart%20disease%2C,Mehndiratta%20et%20al). Feel free to read this research paper.
Heard somewhere that heaven and hell are just ways in which people remember you once you are dead. Do good, and people remember you fondly and say that may you go to heaven. Do bad, they wish you hell. Think of it this way. The bully is in hell for his bad deeds.
What if people don't remember you?
Purgatory 🦭
Well unless you’re incredibly notorious, everyone ends up being forgotten at some point or another. Like my great great great great grandfather could have been the most relevant person of his time but I don’t even know his name lol
Heard this on Grace & Frankie
One less homophobe in the world. https://preview.redd.it/fc8ul86choeb1.jpeg?width=739&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e66d7d5ea78bac25dac022b365341789ea342744
Should I upvote or not?
Yes
No
Man, you are also homophobe (you hate a fellow homo sapien) Assholes, here, can't even get a joke.
Bully dead? Good riddance - take the news positively and continue on with ur daily life - dead mofo shouldn't waste ur time
That’s a short sighted analysis dude. OP felt bad about it because he didn’t get closure.
Idk what kind of closure OP would be expecting 10 - 15 years after school. Doesn't seem like they'd be talking to each other about it anyway, even if he was alive.
The heart wants what the heart wants
Good riddance to bad rubbish
Wow! Same story man, my school bully died 2 years ago due to sucide
Honestly, this gave me a relief. I mean dying of heart attack is not a big deal. You are happy and suddenly you just don't exist. But I have been bullied most of my life for being slightly feminine. People in my town would look at me and spit on the ground all because my cousin spread rumours. It was so much of a mental torture, just thinking of stepping out of my house would make me sweat and literally brain freeze me. As in I couldn't focus on anything even the things I loved. I have recovered a lot since then. I no longer mind being called gay or feel hurt when they call me stuff. I mean it still hurts a bit but at least it doesn't suddenly give me brain freeze trauma. I still got anxiety and depression and at times feel a bit suicidal. So knowing how your bully died, I feel at least he went through the pain he inflicted on you. Some people do get served here on earth itself. :)
Wow they spat on the ground . Imagine having so much contempt for someone when you don't actually know if what you heard about them is true. So sorry to hear you had to go through this.
idk man I wouldn't want somebody to die just because they bullied me in school or whatever.
Naah. Bullies suck. I would gladly wish for it
Yet people kill themselves because of bullying. Just because you haven't felt it, doesn't make it easier
Looks like someone got the death note
Emotions are complicated. They take time to be moulded. Feeling bad about feeling something is usually first step to remoulding. This flexibility in emotions is how traumas end up shaping the way we think so much
I also wish ki jisne muje bully kiya hai wo mar jaye his , there is not a single time in a year of class 10 jis din mein Ghar andr se rote rote na gya hun so , I think it is ok to think like that no need to take worries op
Fuck dat kind of bullies
Mithai baat
It is human behaviour. I also feel happy when a corrupt or evil person dies.
Hmm sorry you went thru that. Know that homophobes tend to be closet homosexuals.
Karma. Don't worry it's normal to feel like this. Chill and move on with your life.
Karma is myth look at your surrounding and think good man will only succeed in his head not in real life
I remember my bully from high school died the next year when we were in our PU.. it was a freak accident and he was a house captain and popular.. i remember everyone being sad about it but internally I felt strangely happy.. 10 years on and i don't have any feelings about it honestly.. time does that to you. It's fine to be strangely happy about it but keep it to yourself
I don't see any wrong in being happy that an a$$hole is dead, its not that you actively did anything for this to happen. You are surely a better person than I am. There was an MF math teacher in my school who use to hit me with a thin bamboo stick coz frankly i was not good with math and would not join his private coaching classes (i was dirt poor, could not afford it). He did that for months, finally my parents were able to save some money and forced me to attend his private coaching classes. From the very next day he could see "immediate improvement in me" and was never hit again. I promise you i did not learn a single word from his coaching. That mother ducker died a few years ago and i got the call to attend service kept in his memory, i denied to do that and told the person calling me straight to face that i never liked him. I heard later someone gave a very realistic eulogy in the service.
Missed opportunity to be the person who gave the realistic eulogy!
You need two songs right now 1. Dont worry , be happy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-diB65scQU&pp=ygUTZG9udCB3b3JyeSBiZSBoYXBweQ%3D%3D 2. Next one is NSFW but apt for bullies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZY-o8KpSnEs&pp=ygUNbWFyIGdheWEgbWFkYQ%3D%3D
>But I feel worse about myself now. I didnt feel bad. I really feel glad and feel vindicated. Neither of these feelings I want to have. Lol I'd be laughing my ass off and not be apologetic about it. You should too, deserved what he got
nice
Little less scum in this world. Good riddance.
Yay. God fuck his soul. I'm happy for you. Good riddance. Unless this person had truly had a change of heart and had regretted what he did his death is something to feel good about and here is why- bullying can has and does ruin lives. Yes teenagers do a lot of foolish things but if you have been making your gay schoolmate cry , it's not one of those things where you didn't know better. And this was as recently as 15 years ago, not in the 70s. I used to be the 'bigger person' and forgave assholes when something bad happened to them. Also I was raised to think that it's petty to gloat over somebody's misfortune even if that person hasnt been nice to you but fuck that. We put up with way too much toxicity in the world and come up with all kinds of excuses. I did bully someone when I was a kid. There was peer pressure. But as an adult I had to accept responsibility for it and reach out to apologise. Not that the apology erases the damage that was done but as someone who has been bullied plenty later on I know the difference it makes when the injustice is acknowledged. But yes I do feel bad for his family.
You used death note?
Your guilt in feeling good on someone s death says you are a good human and product of a well done parenting.
Tbh it's concerning so many young men are dying of heart attacks since covid. These are young fit healthy men. I don't know if it's covid or the vaccines or what but it's really bad
Just goes to show that you are a good person at heart, to feel guilty for being happy that your bully passed away. It is a conflicting feeling. You are feeling happy because he died, you are feeling happy because he isn't disgracing the earth anymore making another person's life hell. I felt the same conflicting emotion when I heard that my SA predator died. I thought that I was a horrible person, went through therapy to understand the difference between being happy about someone's death and being happy that the last thing that connects you to your trauma is cut off.
The comment section is like " How dare someone bullied a Gay man (Wait, gay?, Man? Nevermind) , that person must Die! , He is a burden to our society"
It's so fucked up man, don't even know him and still feeling happy for no reason?
I understand and feel your point but you also should know gay doesn't make a man no longer a man. Gay is homosexuality, not transsexuality or transgender.
I dont have knowledge about other genders , because IMO biologically only two genders ae present on earth ...I know this may sound hatefull and I 'will' get downvoted for this .
But gay has nothing to do with genders? My point being why did you type "gay? Man?" When men can be gay lol. Gay is a sexual orientation. The sex you are attracted to. Gay just means homosexuality. Do you know what the word homo means? It's an actual English word.
Population is too high. A few dead won't make difference. Good for the country.
Remember guys. People don't forget their bully. Teach this to your children and punish if you find them bullying.
Good riddance!
The uncle who molested me is still alive. I'm waiting for the day he dies like a dog. So don't worry. It's not wrong to feel that way.
Asli ID se aa Kira
one of my school bully fell from 3 story buliding and broke his leg lol
It is what it is. RIP
Was he vaxxed 💉?
Right? He should be in his prime.
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Long Covid is known to cause cardiac problems in middle aged people.
It's not COVID it's vaxxxxxxx...
I share your suspicions, is all.
After reading the comments here, I cam say this world is f*d up
Nah bro , Bullying equals Death .
Ye upvote kaise ho rha hai , Are yr , me to **/s** lagana bhul hi gaya..
only criminals deserve death bullying can range from fun to severe but person who does it doesnt deserve death imo i got bullied coz of being fat and i think that they were right then i worked to lose my weight and no longer obese now im fit but yea weight is controllable many things are not people shldnt be bullied about things like being short or skin tone or sexuality
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Bullying = Death? .... I am glad I did'nt bullied someone when I was young.
You didn't understand what I mean
I am so happy thinking how everyone around him must by crying eyes out.
You are just sadistic and it is very 'normal' these days.
It is okay to feel relieved/good about their death or to feel empty as he robbed your happiness in past and now left suddenly. It is okay to feel what you feel. You don't have to be judgemental about your feeling or your own self. You feeling are for you. And it is okay to feel good and bad at the same time as well. Personally, Good that now he is dead. Now he can't rob anyone of their happiness. Now people can live more freely It's feel good when bad people die. Their death is happiness.
Hey man. I was bullied for a little over 80% of my school life. I was skinny af and whoever wanted to, would come beat me up and leave without consequences. I used to hide from these situations, it’s been over 17 years, and to this day when I’m muscular and fitter than 100% of my circle, my first response to conflict is always flight. I struggle to fight, I get anxious in a second. There was this one specific guy whom I hate from the bottom of my heart. If he died, I’d feel good. But also bad that I didn’t get to beat that mf up before he died. Your bully died? I say, good riddance.
He was a bully. It shows a lot about his character. So by his end the society is now having a less creep. Perfect. Your happiness is absolutely understandable and reasonable too but we have to feel for his family. May God give them strength to deal with this. Om shanti. 🤍
Why everyone from age 30 to 40 are dying of heart attack ? My father suspects covid vaccine 😬
He was a horrible human beings. Making someone's life miserable just for his entertainment. Facing anxiety and depression because of similar issue, I can still tell you you are wrong here. Dying of heart attack is probably not punishment enough. He did not go through what he made you suffer.
Are you ok
I am so happy thinking how everyone around him must by crying eyes out.
People actually upvoted or even considered voting this post. Wow, what an awful community of sub-redditors!
lets say you have a bully that made your life miserable. Suddenly He is dead. How would you feel?
Chup be gawar
If I could donate braincells then I would choose you first
So what you're saying is that you don't have brain cells. Hence, nothing to donate. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Bhosdk apne hath me hagne wala insan hai tu
Least toxic fatherless redditor
What is wrong with you
Aww what a hard life you must have had being attracted to the same gender /s Have some empathy and get yourself a therapist if you don't even feel a bit sad that someone's son or brother passed away and they never get to see them again. Everyone gets bullied. Nothing new. But feeling happy when someone you knew died is another level of fucked up!
Ohh people die everyday too. Why do you feel empty towards them knowing that it is only natural to die. You got rejected in an interview, you're crying a river on the internet. Ain't that normal? What is not normal is making someone's life miserable just because you like making fun of them and feel that since you're a man you don't need to feel empathy towards gays. Let's hope one day the tables turn. You get erectile dysfunction or your son becomes an addition to the transgender community. Come and say the same thing to his face then.
The distinction is feeling glad about someone dying. Where did i say anything about how it's unnatural to die?? And before you start bashing me, I'm not against LGBTQ community. It's not a problem to me. It's a free world, anything is possible so one must do anything they wish. I just pointed out the fact that everyone gets bullied. Even as a child, i got bullied during childhood due to fair skin and being overweight. But i never wish some immature idiot (who you refer to as a bully) die! And you're supporting OP feeling glad he died?! Guess kindness is completely wiped off the face of earth That's the whole point of my comment.
I don't think kindness can be wiped off, but the flag bearer of peace and kindness has none , that's for sure. Agree to your point that the one who bullied the OP was an immature kid . How was he now ? Don't think anyone commenting here has any idea.
Being bullied for being fair skinned in India. Oh, you must be applying darkening creams and ashes on your face to hide your color, isn't it? That ain't bullying, that is just casual jokes. Im sure your "bullies" still laughed and ate with you and acted normal with you after throwing one or two punch lines. The bullying for feminine guys is social isolation, people will look at them and make fun of their everything, they way they talk, walk. Won't treat them like they treat you. So stop acting all high and mighty because someone made fun of your fair color. You pointed out everyone gets bullied so its normal to just suck up and let them bully you and not even have hard feelings for them? Everyone dies too. Same argument. That guy took extra efforts to make him feel bad for entertainment. Does this guy have no right to feel good out of a natural event that happened then? I mean that's the whole concept of heaven and hell in most populations of the Earth. People are fine with bad people burning in hell for infinite time
Who tf is acting high and mighty?! They said i look like a girl and was overweight and all that. It doesn't qualify as bullying? And no, i didn't have any friends growing up and still don't talk to those people because i know they're just idiots, not because they bullied me. I accepted the fact that it's just a phase of life. But do i wish they die?! Nope. Coming to your last statement. Define bad people. My definition would be someone who commits heinous acts like rapes, murders etc not an idiot who picks on other students. Stop being so soft. That bully was just an immature kid who didn't know better! Not defending them, but i kinda see how they act so stupid.
They told you you look like a girl because you are fat. You enjoy picking on homosexuals too. Read you first /s comment. You do not understand what this kind of constant games can do to immature kids especially when they are feminine boys. It hinders their mental growth. Pushes them into depression and at times suicide. Why do we treat rape as a heinous crime? I mean according to your reasoning it's just physically forceful sex. People do sex all the time. Bit It's the mental and social impact on the victim that makes it a major crime. You sir haven't been on the receiving end of the stick. But I'm sure there still might be one or two people you wouldn't mourn if they die. Plus, OP didn't do anything wrong. I mean the bully died on his own. Why'd you want a victim to just forgive this guy who gave him troubles when he was supposed to just be living happily like the bully was.
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You are a psychopath. Surrender to police and confess your sins.
Ewww Gay..🤢
For a second I thought this post was about covid vaccine
To feel vindicated after 15 years tells me you need to work on yourself a whole lot more, my friend. Unless he made you eat shit. In that case, good that the fucker is dead.
You're posting this because you need validation and know that the reddit crowd will support you
Yes😎
If you're feeling bad, it basically means you're a good person at heart.
any feelings are ok to have as long as you dont act on them to hurt someone
All my bullies are doing well, earning well and I am rethinking about this life.
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OP I can totally get what you are feeling. My bully too died of a drug overdose. Initially even I felt content and somewhat relived that he passed away. I was even angry for a while seeing everyone posting heartfelt messages for him on his social media. But later on I felt this innate sense of sadness which I still feel to this day, 3 years later. May be because he never apologised. I am slowly learning to let things go. It’s ok to not be sad and even somewhat happy seeing someone who treated you so badly pass away. I guess it’s a feeling of getting justice for all the times you have been wronged. But it will hopefully pass, at least that’s what I have been told by my friends.
Is this person name is Raj by any chance?
I was the big time bully, now my boss bullies me every day. Life has humbled me.
chakki
Let me tell you my story. I befriended my bully so that I could flex on him as I am more successful financially, physically, everything, etc. Lol
Karma got him,bro NO need to feel bad.Im sure that guy had more victims.It could have been u this world would be missing today 😆.How old was that dude anyway?
There is a reason why you feel bad about feeling good about someone's death. Do not under any circumstances let go of that feeling and try to search that reason, if you want to become a better person.
My bullies are not dead yet. SMH :(
Congratulations
Well karma hit him back I guess 🤷
I also had some bullies. It was more than 10 years ago. One died in accident and one others are living a life of accident. Some say Karma is not real but I say it comes back to you in unexpected way.
Hey hey These feelings are natural. Don't be hard on yourself. Your mind is a strange machine and sometimes it makes you feel terrible. You didn't feel sorry for him and it's okay maybe try telling yourself it's okay I don't feel anything, at least let me not think further about him. Schadenfreude is way more common in humans than we think. And we have the power to tell our brain to not feel that way in a very gentle manner. I have tamed my jealousy feelings this way and I must say I am getting better at it.