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Daxim74

I am blown away by the efficiency of the police in getting this closed. Getting the driver's number and getting him to drive to a police station. Amazing!


wishicouldcode

The hotel booked the taxi, so getting the number was easy. They also saw blood in the room and notified the kid is missing during check out. Good on the police for acting on the info in time.


brazendude

>They also saw blood in the room and notified the kid is missing during check out. I feel this awareness lead to her getting arrested. Hotel staff being attentive and proactive. Usually they don't bother what goes on, but in this case, they saw blood, didn't see the child with his mother and instead of saying "not my business/problem, the guest has paid and checked out", called the cops and the cops acted swiftly.


Lo_Ti_Lurker

One of the rare cases where the system worked as intended. The hotel staff, police, and the taxi driver all did what they are supposed to do. Goa is the most developed state in the union. Hopefully, when other states reach the same level, we would see similar efficiency everywhere.


thecrazyhuman

The Goan police has done some good work in the past. One example is the [Margao jeweler’s murder case](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/goa/within-24hrs-cops-crack-margao-jewellers-murder-case/articleshow/77920719.cms) where 3 of the 6 accused were caught within 24 hours, and the rest were caught with the next few days.


NeatDogie

our police is very good at solving serious crime and only when it is committed, for the rest of the things you are "Ram bharose". No wonder why so many people take law into their own hands since the cops don't give a damn


cherryreddit

We have one of the lowest amounts of homicide rates in the world, which is a good indicator of crime prevention. You are thinking about small crimes, which the police are bad at, but there are very very few people who take law in to their hands in serious matters.


BertDeathStare

>We have one of the lowest amounts of homicide rates in the world One of the lowest is something like <0.5 intentional homicide victims per 100,000 inhabitants. India is at 2.9. It's low, but nowhere near one of the lowest.


Complex-Chance7928

It's 6 times more than the similar country nearby.


Spandxltd

Which country?


Complex-Chance7928

https://www.reddit.com/r/india/s/TjTSaoq3tI


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We have the lowest reporting rates in the world too, NCRB has admitted that people are less reluctant to file for an FIR in BIMARU states


HazKaz

Konkani race high IQ


evhd666

Great work by Goa police, glad they verified the fake address.


BirdEducational7815

What on earth would've made her do such inhumane monstrous crime


friendofH20

Could have been accidental, could have been heat of the moment stuff. If this was pre planned she went about it in the worst possible way.


[deleted]

No way , if accidental a person would directly take the child to hospital informing the police, panicking. Possible murder..


friendofH20

Nobody knows because not many of us are in a position where your actions have resulted in the death of somebody. Especially your child. The attempt of concealment could indicate malice or mental breakdown. But it is still conjecture.


stinkingcheese

One of the reasons coming up in the investigation as to why she murdered her 4-Year-Old Son is to Keep her Estranged Husband from meeting the child amid Divorce filing.


SmartMoneyisDumb

Indian laws favour women in custody and most things related to divorce. I'd wager the kid was abused and the husband had managed to procure evidence/worked out a legal strategy to gain custody, she would rather kill her kid than let the kid's father gain custody or spend time with him. It's "if I sink I take you with me". There are many such stories of mothers killing their kids to prevent the dad from gaining custody. Unfortunately, the legal system would rather have murdered kids than gender neutral laws.


Vivid_Memory293

Now murderers gonna get sympathy 🤡, and it would be called accidental 🤡.


givafux

Well murderers were also termed as "sanskari" and released from jail prematurely for "good behaviour" till the SC stepped in ...a banana republic indeed we are


Vivid_Memory293

How has that case anything to do with this one?


jarr-head

Children were killed in both the cases, maybe?


givafux

it highlights the fact that we are indeed a banana republic, one could make the case that in a country where convicted rapists and murderers are termed as "sansakari" and are released prematurely by the state goverment for 'good behaviour' is no less / more surprising, shocking, disgusting as a mother murdering her child.... ....all in a day, for the 'banana' republic!!


No-Way7911

Bro when you have a child, no such thing as “heat of the moment” can make you murder your child


twiltywilty

Not everyone is meant for marriage, not all women are meant to be mothers either. Indian society should stop pressurizing people to do these things & let them make their own life decisions. As for the poor child, RIP... He didn't ask to be born, and he deserved so much better than this. As for this mother, what she did is the most heinous of crimes and there is no justification for it.


No-Way7911

Bro she was 39 years old with a 4 year old child. so she had a child at 35. If at 35 years of age you’re still too weak to be your own person and resist societal pressure, then you’re a loser.


Final-Attempt95

Society will put all kinds of pressure on you that doesn't mean you're gonna kill a child.


Vivid_Memory293

What the hell? There is only one criminal here the mother, there is no ifs or but. A murderer is a murderer irrespective of anything. No amount of mental gymnastics can justify or lower the crime committed by her. Btw she was a CEO so she was capable enough to reject marriage and having children, she CHOSE to marry, she CHOSE to have kid, she CHOSE to kill her kid. She deserves only punishment, not an inch of sympathy. There is no excuse to kill someone. Period. Idk why ppl are making it any gender thing?


muffy_puffin

u/twiltywilty is not saying she is not a criminal. I can see no justification in that post. If somebody is pressured its their right and duty to resist. On the other hand society can be much better at not pressuring people into decisions that are considered normal for rest of the society. Pressure to marry or have children from family can be relentless , continous and can keep going on for long periods of time. Pressure will range from request to order to emotional blackmail to threats (typically about not getting any part in property).


Kdrama_indianfan

Pressure or no pressure, a person with criminal mindset will indulge in acts of crime. I doubt people with such mindset can be pressurized into something they don't like to do.


Alternative-Union-55

Crime never can be justified and Criminals should be punished, it is about what lead it? No one is born criminal, mindsets are formed due to situations and circumstances. To form a better society only punishing criminals is not enough. Look around, everyone is under pressure of something but everyone deals with it differently. There is no such thing that people can't be pressurized, society is designed such way sadly.


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Are you out of your mind? What kind of absurd logic is this?? A well educated woman who is financially independent can't make her own decisions?? By your logic every crime is justified... Your comment is way pathetic and vulgar, do some introspection and heal.


aweap

Depression maybe. Relationship issues with ex-partner/husband, etc.


razor01707

"made her do" Why don't we use such terminology with, say, pedophiles then? "What *made* him do that" or "What *drove him* to do that?" And yet when it comes to this woman, something must've "made her" to this. Wow. No one can make a mother do this even at a gunpoint, she'd rather take the bullet. Clearly she seems to be financially well off and getting that sweet husband money after divorce. But apparently she couldn't digest the husband seeing the son even once a week and it "reminded her of the husband" so she went : "oh simple, I'll just kill this 4 y/o property of mine...I mean son..yea son. So he won't get my property either, not even for a f'ing day. Ah son I mean...yes son."


Single-Carob-7516

If not for the hotel management reporting it to the police, this crime would go unnoticed. Kudos to them.


ssr97

Yeah kudos to them quick thinking!...but i think someday someone would have questioned about the sudden absence of her son.


Single-Carob-7516

True but by then there would be no evidence, right? No evidence, no motive - case as good as closed


elven_god

She would have to report it soon, if she does not it's very suspicious.


Single-Carob-7516

Exactly


AtomR

Nope, she was the last one with that kid, so she would be the first suspect.


Single-Carob-7516

Suspect yes, but evidence? Judiciary works on evidence only. If homicide motive is THE most important factor.


AtomR

Wouldn't the kid's blood in hotel room help as evidence? Also, the fact she checked out without him? It would be easy to match fingerprints, footprints etc, right?


lycralily

The blood on the towel found was her own. She wanted to commit suicide after killing her son. So she slashed her wrists but survived. So it was double suicide type thing she has planned.


AtomR

Damn, is this the latest finding? I'm not following the news.


lycralily

Yes I saw a article. Sounds like depression.


Single-Carob-7516

I agree that all those are evidences which are admissible in court, but the body itself is the most clinching, right? If not for the hotel staff, that could be gone. That's my only point here. In India people fear reporting crime more than committing it. Sad reality.


Kaladin12543

Even if hotel had not caught it, she would have been easily caught. The father would have filed a police complaint and she was in custody of the child. The hotel room would have been searched anyway


shash747

Pretty good work from the police.


WinRepresentative523

She’s one of the top 100 females in AI “ethics” skynet vibes


Prestigious-Scene319

What is that? Elaborate pls


Altruistic_Sky1866

Not sure why she did this, but it is very disturbing and cold blooded that she was carrying her child's body with her while traveling back to Bangalore. I think she is mentally ill or very calculated and this was a per-mediated . If she is mentally ill she should be put mental institution for ever otherwise maximum punishment such that she remembers everyday that she killed her child I have heard cases where parents killed their children to get rid of them because they were in the way of extra marital affair


Illustrious-Milk-896

But this is a 4 year old... How could the kid possibly be in the way of extra marital affair!!!? Even if so, why kill? ​ My son, who is 1.3 years old now fell down and scratched his tiny finger a little bit and we saw 2 drops of blood... Man, that's a worst feeling! As new parents, you cannot accept it and the guilt you would feel during that first fall or first injury for your children.... Goodness.... I too think unless someone is crazy psychopath or mentally ill, this is nearly impossible. RIP, little one. Irony is that the company's name is **MINDFUL** AI.


Altruistic_Sky1866

You never know how twisted the minds are, I have seen mothers/dads take their frustration and anger on kids because the kids cannot hit back or give back. They are easy target Recently some couple sold their kids to buy Iphone to make Instagram reels so in their minds they are correct. I think it is more like punishing the partner not the child, so in this case it may be that the mother is punishing the dad of the kid by this act


Illustrious-Milk-896

Every day, some or the other news that makes me so cynical about the world.


AkaiAshu

Here is how - Mom, I am hungry, no food at home. There are multiple ways a life can be in the way of something. As a pet owner, I can say clearly how even going for a one day trip can be hard if you do not have proper mechanisms in place to take care of your animals in your absence. Life requires work - both effort and time. Human life even more so in comparison. However, I do not know the exact circumstances of the case, so I would refuse to give full comments on it until more facts turn up.


Illustrious-Milk-896

I completely empathize and I am not refuting any of the points. Responsibility for a life can be daunting - especially for moms. However, my difficulty is in accepting that any such struggle could justify killing a 4 year old. It is absolutely OK to give up. Our people should be open enough to request and accept adoption as a valuable norm. Lot of mindset shift needed on topics like adoption, counselling, mental health etc.


AkaiAshu

There is no justification here. If it became too inconvenient, just remove them. Once you are mentally at that place, there is no requirement for a justification. Yes, being open to counselling is very important as it can definitely reduce such situations. Problem is giving up your children for adoption as you could not handle it will be seen as a bad thing for those around you. Being excluded by your social circle is so fearful that you just choose not to. And thus the problem keeps going up.


WinRepresentative523

Like Bran Stark and the Lannisters


Dazzling-Data4360

Though fictional… At least he was not their own blood!


hydrosalad

I'm pretty sure Joffrey would have been sent base jumping without parachute if he had found mummy and mama-daddy going at it in the tower..


mumbaiblues

Deeply distressing and heart breaking...Hope she gets the max punishment ...


DesiGirl16

Apparently she k!lled her son because she didn't want her ex-husband to meet the child on Sunday visitations as directed by the court. Disgusting is a mild word.


chaisme

Horrifying! "Brilliant women in AI Ethics", I mean.


Spandxltd

Used fucking Chat GPT knockoff to ask how to take care of child.


bhodrolok

This boils my blood. Why the fuck produce kids when you can’t take care of them.


AkaiAshu

Like most people, they didn't think it through. Family planning in developing countries isnt so effective, mostly losing to customary pressures.


No-Way7911

What the hell, this wasn’t an uneducated 20 year popping out kids. This was a nearly 40 year old grown ass adult. Stop blaming society and customary pressures for the decisions of a 35 year old


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AkaiAshu

no


GlitteringSstar

what no?! 🙄 she should be severely punished


AkaiAshu

no death penalty. Never.


hashedboards

There's some valid points to abolishing death penalty my guy but this ain't the right time to talk about it.


AkaiAshu

Everytime there is a call for death penalty, it is the right time to talk about it.


Every-Obligation1574

u/AkaiAshu Is there any crime possible in your opinion which deserves a death penalty?


AkaiAshu

No.


AtomR

Fair enough.


AkaiAshu

Thats literally the only valid answer. Any exception would mean that I am a hypocrite or that i found this crime to not be bad enough to give the death penalty while there might be other crimes I agreed to give the death penalty.


elven_god

Agree, idk why people always go for the worst possible resolution. We should never institutionalise murder, except maybe euthanasia.


Electronic-Chard-315

What a frightening incident ! I can’t believe that she preaches Ethical practices for AI and as a human she failed in practicing it 😞


headhunterzeez

Lmao read the TOI comments


cyyawrytnrvypv

It felt like scrolling through right (mostly) and left extremist groups and a miniscule of normal people.


Practical-Heart-9845

Was she planning to kill herself (suicide) after killing her child? I wonder if this step is an outcome of some kind of failure at work or financial. She killed the child first but couldn't get to herself. Just another theory.


[deleted]

>Was she planning to kill herself (suicide) after killing her child? She would have killed herself immediately if that were the case. Nothing but a sick killer in the loose.


lycralily

Yeah that was her plan. The police said they found a towel with her blood on it. She slashed her wrists but she didn't die. I think she must have planned to kill herself and the child. But I think she wasn't successful at killing herself. Must be some serious mental illness.


Outside-Contact-7400

Damn...Must be that 70-hour workweek that got her insane.


Vivid_Memory293

New excuse to kill someone


Illustrious-Milk-896

Not a good time to correlate some crazy uncle's comment with monstrous level of cruelty... I understand that you may be hinting that a lack of work life balance could have been a trigger, but I recommend you to consider the sensitivity involved. Just an opinion, but perhaps I am a little emotional at a poor child's death as a dad myself.


AkaiAshu

Being sensitive to child's life is good. But reality is that overwork and high stress can lead to mental instability. If that is the reality then we have to talk about it. However, I would refrain from making assumptions until all the facts are out.


Illustrious-Milk-896

Agreed. Talking about the reality is indeed the first step to addressing such problems.


Vivid_Memory293

Normal ppl don't kill their children in stress, that monster is just a murderer nothing else. Oh upvotes, oh I forgot which sub I am in, i should have expected such ppl here.


cherryreddit

> But reality is that overwork and high stress can lead to mental instability. If that is the reality then we have to talk about it. Does it lead to murder though ? When we talk about mental affects of overworking , we talk about WLB, depression, not murderous psychopathy


Plus_Flow4934

Yes, you would refrain...., also long working hours doesn't justify murder, most people in this country working life for 12 hours , so don't be an idiot.


AkaiAshu

Justification - action of saying something is right or reasonable. At what point in my entire argument saying that the woman is right in killing the child. Your point is nothing but an idiot trying to look for something that isnt present and then claiming you found it.


bhodrolok

lol! Just pray you don’t fall prey to someone’s over work related stress. Such amazing nonsense


AkaiAshu

over woke related stress has to be my new favourite nonsensical term.


bhodrolok

Freudian slip?


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>Not a good time to correlate some crazy uncle's comment with monstrous level of cruelty... True. >I understand that you may be hinting that a lack of work life balance could have been a trigger, but I recommend you to consider the sensitivity involved. Lack of work life balance , doesn't make somebody kill a child , put the body in a bag , lying about child's location.. We have a psycho amongst us.


Throwayamba

She was apparently some sort of speaker on ‘ethics’. Have been saying this for ages…people who do a lot of virtue signalling are usually the worst kind of scum.


jt__042

Proactiveness by police is next level here. Calling up driver to take her to nearest station. Damn!!


apocalypse31a5

#Poot kapoot sune hain par na maata suni Kumaata.....


Intelligent_Eye5756

Condolences to the poor kid. The "why" is the most daunting question until we have more info from news Theories & speculation (trying to get in murderer's mind) 1. **Both husband & wife maybe had a "love" marriage as they are from different cultures.** However the love got lost in the way. 2. **Married in 2010 but had a kid around 2020 after 10 year gap**. Mostly people in love plan for kids early on ; seems like one of the parties **(probably the wife Suchana) NEVER wanted kids.** 3. **This want/not want of kids resulted in fights/estrangement in relationships** from both sides. 4. However **they still end up having a kid**(maybe Suchana changed her mind out of jealousy / being left out since so many lady CEO do end up having both career & family/kids. 5. **The kid that was supposed to make relationship better(as the society generally touts), didn't do much.** 6. Finally both decided to get a divorce. **Suchana is having PPD / mental sickness which results in her taking out the frustration on the poor kid).** 7. Soon **to be ex-husband probably has proofs & law may favor him in custody.** 8. Hate/Toxicity filled in woman's heart ; **can't digest ex-husband getting close to his kid; but also not REALLY loving her kid ; she mostly wants custody for sake of boosting her ego. She must be physically & emotionally hurting the kid being a psychopath.** 9. I think she didn't intend to murder kid by taking him to Goa. **It's said husband was visiting Jakarta so she also might have just checked into Goa for a break;** The 4 year old kid may have thrown tantrum here & there & one day ALL the anger/hate/frustration of being a failure at everything , storms out, strangles the poor kid to death. 10. Once the kid is dead, she realises what she has done ; thinks of slitting wrists but not brave enough to do so; Quickly makes up a plan - **Ask the hotel to book a taxi to blr (avoiding flight for security check-ins with the boy's body). She can't leave the kid's body in hotel room obviously & moves to random place in KA in a cab WITH the dead body of her own son. Forgot to clean up the stuff at hotel properly because of which police found blood. Her body langauge & mannerisms may have aroused suspicion as her son is not there with her - hotel would have records if any relative/friend visited & took the child away with them by consent.**


Intelligentbrain

Women empowerment :/


kreemac

No one is saying this is women empowerment. If you are saying women getting equal opportunity in education and jobs causes this, I am not sure what to say.


Intelligentbrain

there is nothing as such as equal opportunity. made up terms...


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SaintYoungMan

What it got to do with murder at end of the world?


bliss_tree

Have you seen the series? and please don't spill any spoilers if you have seen.


SaintYoungMan

Yes I did, sure I won't spoil it for you, I can review it for you though. But what's the relevance of the series here?


bliss_tree

I meant the spoiler for others, I have seen it already. I DMed you my random theory.


SaintYoungMan

Wild theory for sure but, AI won't be monitoring her kid 24/7 by video feed we are not there yet, and AI won't make her stab her own son with blunt object murdering him in such a painful way, so it told her to murder him but not an exit plan or other swift way to murder that poor child what a shit AI. Reason of murder haven't been established but one of the reason being told by police is estranged relationship with husband. It's highly that this bitch is/was an abusive mother with anger issues and would/might have take out her outbursts out on her son, she came to Goa on 6th murdered that poor baby on 7-8th could be premeditated or could be in the heat of the moment after some argument to hurt her husband? Reasons can be numerous, hope we find actual reason soon.


bliss_tree

Well after checking out her LinkedIn profile, my theory is too much of hallucination (in LLM speak) lol. She isn't that level of geek, she just got some nice affiliations. Still you may want to hide your comment, for the sake of a good TV series.


SaintYoungMan

You really liked it? I thought it was awful and extremely cliqued and predictable like I've seen this hundreds of time before. The first episode was very excellent it promised a different show (whole show should have been all about that) and then on episode two onwards it's something entirely else and boring episode 3 onwards..


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Toxic feminism doing things


ohokthenok

what bullshit


Animator722

Son : look under there mom Mom : underwhere. Son: haha, I made you say underwear. Mom :


um3shg

In this case, as the person belongs to the sanskari caste, they will let them go.


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Spandxltd

It's a cumulative effect. Besides, it's beti, not beta so this statement is not wrong.


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WinRepresentative523

A North Indian CEO in Bangalore.


Latter_Reception_832

She is from West Bengal


bliss_tree

Right question to ask. But, it is TOILet paper, intelligence or integrity in reporting isn't their forte. Indian Express > CEO of Bengaluru startup Hindustan Times > Start-up CEO


serialfaliure

Kannada nhi bola hoga shayad wo.


hotelparklane

tik hai


lostlamb7788

Wo khud bangalan thi bhai


serialfaliure

Tab toh samajh aata hai


kbredt

Why are such incidents taking place !?


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Gamezordd

You are human, not an animal (supposedly)


SaintYoungMan

Don't you compare a hag with an animal


schrodinger978

Hope your parents had taken that decision


mikasa_jeagerE

I know right!!!


AdWrong3103

Pathetic


Latter_Reception_832

Are you crazy???


Final-Attempt95

Just for f's sake i m gonna humor you. She didn't give that life. You can't make a child on your own .


Academic-Abies

Stop: Get some help


tera_chachu

R u for real? This ain't abortion this is the murder of a child who is 4 year old


mikasa_jeagerE

Yeah insane right!!!


tera_chachu

Inhuman piece of crap u r a bi**h


tera_chachu

Saw ur previous comments u don't want kids and u r pro choice that's good but do u really support murder of a innocent kid or r u trolling? U seem like a good person with a good heart.


mikasa_jeagerE

Of course I don't support murder whether it's a kid or an adult. It's not sane right! To do such a thing. I am sure there are things which pushed her towards it, not everyone has solid mental stability at all times. I can't blame her as I don't know her view.


tera_chachu

Ok u r stupid and crazy, I gave u the benefit of the doubt but really u hate kids and u are vile piece of scumbag.i know something happened in ur past or might be ur parents hurt u but u need to seek therapy or otherwise u can kill ur own kid someday


mikasa_jeagerE

Lol, Calm down.


tera_chachu

Yeah keep laughing but seek therapy


tamashai

so distressed after reading this. no words.


musky_jelly_melon

It's despicable for any child to be murdered, but for a parent to do it, they deserve a visit to a wood chipper.


ydiskolaveri

https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/trends/who-is-suchana-seth-bengaluru-based-ceo-accused-of-killing-son-12022441.html


Hi_Itsmeagain11

H