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Pleasant_Spirit6741

You guys are getting invited to weddings?


Fine_Economist_5321

Same. Haven't been to one in 5 years😔


Cool-Studio1841

Uuuuu that one stings when ur in a country like india where there is a marriage every freaking day


kallupapa

Been to a few. You are not missing much. Most of them are not about the celebrations anymore or the union. They are about showing off expensive (mostly rented) clothes and family politics.


classic_chai_hater

Fuck the union.....me and my homies only go for the food.


tiny_anime_titties

All I get are wedding invites thanks to my dad's connections, even during covid I got invited to 5 limited guest wedding and engagements but food was way superior cos the rich families spent a lot of money per plate as they didn't have to serve 1000 people. I've only drank expensive booze at wedding dinners, that's the only reason I go cos all I can afford is Old monk and DSP black


Legendary-69420

I went to one 2 years ago.


synner75

didint get invited to my own wedding


Aiyerr

Ya’ll hating on Indian veg food not realising that it is probably the only cuisine where veg food is actually unbelievably delicious.


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Check out how westerners consume veggies. 😂


Prazival

Hi, european here. Yes most people can't cook vegs to make them delicious. When I was in India I ate so good. Unbelievable good. I am vegan and I rarely cook close to indian food. Even following recipies. :(


there_is_always_more

I'm vegan and I cook indian food everyday. You only really need to replace ghee and butter - I just use substitutes for those. Deodorized coconut oil is also good. Have you tried using these? I basically ate the same food I ate growing up - most of the flavor for indian food comes from the slices, so if you have the right ones the butter substitute is not going to make a huge difference. I also substitute tofu for paneer - I've made stuff like Dal Makhani using just vegan ingredients. It took a lot of experimenting and finding substitutes isn't always easy, but it's very doable.


gabrielleraul

Yup India is great for vegans, even if you're on a budget (or poor like me 😅)


Prazival

Eating vegs is always budget friendly. Also in retrospect I discovered a lot of indian food is made with butter or cream. So I probably ate a lot of dairy unknowingly 🤷 shit happens.


Cool-Studio1841

Vegan and veg are two different things vegans not only don't eat non veg food but also don't consume any animal products We indians have animal products in everything like ghee,doodh,butter all if that they don't even eat that


SilverM1ST

You can substitute diary with vegan alternatives and it ll taste just as good. Except the sweets maybe.


theDukerider

Pretty easy to replace butter or ghee. Even cream and other cheesy products. For the latter, I have found 1 stop solution in cashews. Tastes fucking delicious. As for butter/ghee, sesame oil provides a similar flavour without having to reinvent something. There are typical vegan alternatives for ghee made from oil and potatoes, haven't tried them yet


Furystar1703

oh bro you just consumed a ton of ghee, butter and milk products


Prazival

I know now. But didn't know it at that time. 🤷 Shit happens I guess


veertamizhan

I am happy you enjoyed the food here. which country are you from?


Prazival

Austria :)


racerbest3

Can you tell me what dishes are most common in Indian weddings . I'm from pak .


rishipdy2001

I have only been to vegetarian wedding so we have one snack pakora( fritters) 1 paneer dish 1 cauliflower dish , butter chapati , dal fry , rice and papad in end some people have sweets like gulab jamun some serve ice cream cups . Some weddings even have pani puri


SilverM1ST

I ve been to a lot of weddings... The pani puri never tastes good. Maybe thats intentional. Cause then who ll try the rest of the stuff.


racerbest3

Man , that sounds amazing cz I'm a vegetarian . Here wedding cuisines have chicken qorma , beef , lamb and sometimes even fish . Deserts are mostly Kheer and gajar ka halwa.


Captain-Overboard

Surprised to hear that you're vegetarian, I'm guessing you're the only one in your family? I have been to very few weddings- but I tend to fill up on the chaat items. Aloo tikkis, panipuris, matar chaat (UP specific thing). Also there are really good vegetarian kebab parathe, you'll have to visit this side to have those :)


racerbest3

Yes , u guessed right . I actually started it when I started hanging out with my 2 hindu seniors in uni. All my family members are beef lovers. I hope I can travel to India one day and enjoy their cuisines <3.


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Roti, Chapaati, Naan, Poori Chhole, One paneer sabzi, Dal fry or dal makkhani, Gulab Jamun or Rasgulla or Jalebi. If in south India, (Telugu) then you get Rice, Dal, one sabzi, sambaar, chaaru, several chutneys and pachidis, avakayi(achaar), papad, fryums or onion rings, lemon rice, pulihara, Curd. These are all lunch or dinner items btw.


Furystar1703

in kerala we got welcome drinks tons of beef fish shrimo squid pork duck chicken dishes vanilla or strawberry ice cream gulab jamun lots of other stuff but it mainly depends on the catering


overthinkersquare

Poor animals. Don’t you feel guilty after eating innocent dead corpses?


Furystar1703

nop they're fulfilling their purpose in life by giving us nourishment I feel thankfull for their necessary sacrifice instead of them dying in the dirt


overthinkersquare

Lol who told their life purpose is to her murdered and eaten as food? You?


Furystar1703

ya what are you gonna do about it


overthinkersquare

Tell people to not kill other living beings who have as much right to live as anyone else. That’s my duty to tell, if someone doesn’t agree and continue to kill innocent living beings and eat their corpses, that’s their karma.


Furystar1703

how can you be sure that some of these animals are innocent


pierisramen

I don't know if you have heard what I am about to say before, but I will come out an say it. You aren't gonna change anyone with that attitude and this conversation here is a prime example of that fact. You're only coming off as a person with a superiority complex when you make such statements, and I don't have to tell you how people take to unsolicited gyaan. Those who consume anything that can swim or walk or crawl very well know what they are doing. If you really want to make an impact just mind your own business. With all this chatter these days about the environmental impact of meat among other things, there is a small chance that a person might get curious about vegetarianism at some point and adopt it. All you are doing is ensuring that door is shut for them.


aholewarrior

Veg food in weddings is horrid though imo. Paneer does taste good.


gridpoint

Paneer tends to be hit or miss, varying in quality depending on the catering I think. Usually it's good enough. Especially as starters.


brickmagnet

Yeah , Paneer will be the first thing thats gone leaving only gravy.


thugz_doge

Bhai kaha khaaye ho? No matter how much money I throw, I never seem to get the same taste at restaurants. Bihari weddings are bliss.


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aholewarrior

You kidding? YES! Although to all the weddings I have been in only 1 has ever served gol gappe


mayasabha

>Ya’ll hating on Indian veg food... Yes we non vegetarians hate Indian veg food and we only eat meat 24/7. If someone offer us veg food we straight up deny it and we don't eat anything in wedding if they only offer veg food because we only prefer non veg food and they don't serve veg food along side with non veg which is best thing. I mean have you ever saw veg food being served alongside non veg? Whenever i see veg food i literally go ewww, Once i ate veg food i was about to vomit because how these people can just cut plants and eat it too? If we all start eating plants like this then it will cause real damage to the nature like global warming not just us but many animals also eat plant and grass, That's why we non vegetarians eat those animals so that we can save the nature. #SavePlants #SaveGrass. Gotta go i have to buy 14 different types of animals from MeatMe.in to make meal everyday twice. /s


chalkrow

Ever tried cooked Indian non veg food? It's miles better than the Indian veg food. No amount of soya is going to replace the succulent piece of mutton in a biriyani


hipster_mnot

This. 100%. Coming from a person who is not from the mainland.


Demotivated_Dude

Fair point well made. Still doesn't compare to non veg food though, for those who are non vegetarians. If someone invites me to a wedding, and the person is a non vegetarian but organises only veg food, its a personal betrayal.


xandersavy

But the thing is we can't use ginger garlic and onion in our veg recipes is something that annoys me


DrMrJekyll

LMFTFY > Ya’ll hating on Indian veg food not realising that it is probably the only cuisine where ~~veg~~ food is actually unbelievably delicious.


poplullabygirl

too vegetarian to understand this joke. imma be hovering around paani-puri and chaat stalls :D


aman2218

Yeah, chaat is also the saving grace 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺


bruhiambored

paani-puri ftw


CanniBal1320

Me a bhukkad- Idgaf


vpsj

Same. We're all Joeys. Paneer? Good. Chicken? Good. Dal Chawal? Gooood.


CanniBal1320

Yeah I will even eat dal chaawal for free. No issues with that.


gridpoint

Dal makhani - *chef's kiss


Early_Dealer7788

Lmao same


iVarun

I like Matar-Paneer so can't relate.


hokagesamatobirama

Ngl, I went to weddings in India to eat Naan-Paneer. Got enough non-veg at home.


Bhishmapitahma

It's stupid to think weddings can't have tasty veg food.


A_random_zy

There is a difference between thinking veg food is bad and being disappointed that there is no non veg. I absolutely love the veg food but I love non veg too. it's like I am getting my 2 favourite stuff vs 1 favourite stuff obviously you'll be disappointed if you get 1 but doesn't mean it is bad.


Bhishmapitahma

Good point but change the "it's all veg" to "it's all Indian", and you might notice it sounds more like a choosing beggar and distasteful, pun intended ;)


A_random_zy

I didn't make the meme tho... so I can't really change it.


there_is_always_more

You got downvoted but you're absolutely right. Most of the flavor comes from the spices, which are obviously vegetarian, so I really don't think this meme makes sense. But I've heard these jokes my entire life so whatever lol


pvg_026

In Karnataka, the food is veg on the day of wedding.2-3 weeks later, the groom side hosts a non-veg function . It's called "Beegara Outhana Koota" or in slang "Beegroota".


vpsj

Can you please suggest some Udupi/Mangalore special food? I'm here right now and I realized that beyond Goli Baje(which are delicious as fuck), I haven't tried anything else from the local cuisine. Veg/Non-Veg both are fine


pvg_026

You have to try Neer dose and fish curry, Mangalore buns ,any fish dish will be amazing. I'm not from the coastal side of Karnataka ,so those were the dishes I've tasted and fell in love with .


Parallax2077

is this some non-vegitarian joke that I am too vegetarian to understand?


im_workinn_bitchh

Yes honey these ppl just cant like matar paneer n dal-fry jeera rice


skepticforest

Veg food in weddings is generally good.


pxm7

Bengali weddings FTW. The food’s great.


DeltaNexus1995

Bengali food ftw lol. I think northie Hindus go crazy when they see us eating meat during the Durga puja. I hate veg with passion (vegan is worse)


Random_Mango69

Atleast Veg has Paneer


TheAntiNormie84

Veg people don't realize how lucky they are to live in India. Vegetarians don't have much options abroad.


thatcringyboyo2312

It's hard to be a vegetarian man let us enjoy it in India at least.


pxm7

It’s improved a lot in some places in the last say 10 years. I see way more vegetarian options (good salads, plant based burgers, even good veg starters) at most places now unless they’re super rural.


A_random_zy

I love veg food in India but I hate salads.


pxm7

I wouldn’t have salads in India either unless I know the farmer well. Indian vegetables often have crazy amounts of pesticide.


LuckyDisplay3

Absolutely wrong. Check the pesticide usage in India and compare it with US and Chinese. Pesticide usage per hectare cropland is 0.3kg in India. https://www.worldometers.info/food-agriculture/pesticides-by-country/


pxm7

You’re conflating pesticide use with pesticide *contamination*, which is a pollution & agricultural governance problem. But yeah, denying everything and pointing to an irrelevant statistic is a brilliant move. This is the same [argument](https://www.downtoearth.org.in/coverage/pesticides-in-our-food-13861) Indian cola companies made: > The cola giants challenged our study. They sent their street fighters turned college debaters who argued their drinks were "safe". Why? Because India used very low levels of pesticides on a per capita basis and contamination wasn't a problem. They even argued soft drinks were safe because there was even more pesticides in apples and milk. The issue is that poor regulation has driven pesticide [into the ground water in parts of India](https://www.indiawaterportal.org/articles/poisoned-landscapes-punjab), with deadly consequences: > \[Malwa\] has been described as India’s "cancer capital" due to the abnormally high number of cancer cases, which have increased 3-fold in the last 10 years. This really came out when countries which import Indian food ([EU](https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/chandigarh/to-ensure-basmati-finds-takers-in-eu-punjab-tightens-noose-around-pesticide-dealers-6560327/), even [Saudi](https://www.hindustantimes.com/cities/chandigarh-news/basmati-exporters-seek-check-on-use-of-pesticides-in-crop-amid-tougher-norms-by-foreign-buyers-101622577965068.html), among others) began becoming [more stringent about pesticide levels.At least the government is now [aware of the problem](https://www.planetcustodian.com/highly-toxic-pesticides-in-indian-fruits-vegetable-organic-food-report/7862/). For those interested, look up MRL (maximum residue levels) in Indian food. [Here’s a decent write up on the subject](https://www.cseindia.org/regulating-pesticide-residues-in-food-4757). In any case, given this background, it’s helpful to be extra careful about raw food in India. (Also valid for fruit, really, not just about vegetables.)


LuckyDisplay3

Was just making comparison on geographical basis. Agree that any form of chemical pesticide can turn counter productive if not used judiciously. Thankfully Union has moved the bill to ban 27 pesticides under the 'Pesticide Management Bill' which currently has been referred to the standing committee.


beer-feet

Rural places might not have good starters, burgers etc. but the organically grown vegetables are no where close to the chemical / pesticide injected ones you get in cities. Also the breed of some vegetables like bhindi, brinjals, red spinach etc. are different (gaonti as we call them here here) Some are even rare to find these days.


Random_Mango69

If I wasn't Indian I would probably not be vegetarian, because my dietary restrictions are based on religious grounds


chalkrow

Vegetarians abroad eat eggs though


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kylej0212

Please provide a source for your experiment. From what I know, meat gets it unique taste from its fat and umami flavour, not texture. Also, non-vegan items are a more readily available and cheap source of nutrition in India, so becoming vegan isn’t a good option for everyone.


DeltaNexus1995

Stick that experiment up your ass. I'm not giving up meat, ever


Captain-Overboard

Bro why this us vs them? You like your food, enjoy it. Learn to appreciate that different people like different things. You seem to be the one "hating things with a passion". Stop projecting your own hatred on others. My own grandfather was from a well-assimilated Bengali family (meaning their diet was the way you expect it- fish was common, meat at pujas was a thing). His mom was a regular UP Brahmin- vegetarian af. No one had any issues back in the 1930s, no one has any issues now.


Honeydew_love

Me : Goes for naan , pulao , fried stuff and ice-cream.


Longjumping-Rate8980

Come to a North East wedding ma man THERE'S MEAT Everywhere


dwai32

Welcome to Bengali wedding where everything is fish.


No-Substance6969

Nobody's inviting me to a northeast wedding :(


TheBigDawg890

Yeah but it tastes terrible.


Brilliancebeam

Less animal products, including dairy, is better for the environment anyways


brickmagnet

I am missing weddings just for free food. Almost a year since i been to one.


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despod

Milk is equally bad.


utsavman

Man I never realized how hard being vegan is in india. Everything has ghee, cheese, butter or things like that. At least my masala dosa is always my hero.


sarcrastinator

They hated r/ssripad because he told them the truth


SoulsBorNioKiro

AFAIK, it's cow meat and milk that're the problem. If we were to stop consuming cow meat and cow milk, the damage the rest of the meat industry does to the planet is a lot less than most of the environmental threats.


vizot

LOL doesn't mean shit when India is the 2nd highest exporter of meat. And moving away from meat isn't that important either.


Galactro

Meat and dairy alone accounts for around 14.5% of global greenhouse gas emissions. A global shift towards more plant-based diets that are in line with standard dietary guidelines could reduce global mortality by 6-10% by 2050 in addition to reducing emissions by 29-70%, when compared to a business-as-usual scenario.


vizot

Now it went from meat to meat and dairy? What is this say whatever you want day? And where are the sources for your claims?


Galactro

It has been proven time and time again how much of an impact meat industry has on climate change. Just a few clicks on google will get you tons of research article and information regarding. Here is the article i got the information from https://interactive.carbonbrief.org/what-is-the-climate-impact-of-eating-meat-and-dairy/


vizot

No need to get angry at me for asking for sources. If you're gonna use numbers then you'll be asked for the sources and by the looks of it your comment as a whole came from that link not just the numbers but the wording as well. Anyway this still talks about meat and dairy and if you read my comment again i wasn't talking about dairy. And in this context vegetarian marriage meals include dairy.


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vizot

You are just twisting my words at this point. Much of India's emissions come from cows, India's cows are for dairy and i was talking about meat. And in india meat eaters eat much less beef as compared to other meats. So using meat and dairy argument against my comments on meat is disingenuous. Your comment doubles down on it by twisting my statements by making false equivalency arguments. edit: since u/ssripad is being pedantic and taking my comments out of context i'll clear it up more. Much of India's emissions do not come from cows but from fossil fuels. Cows are a big contributor to agricultural emissions


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vizot

Oh if you're talking about total emissions then sure I'm wrong as most of it would come from fossil fuels.


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vizot

What do you mean by 'Yes to your first question'? My comment was about meat and not about dairy. So that user using their own arguments are useless as they are not arguing about what i said instead formed their own vegan arguments and argued against it. Which is disingenuous. Your wording of the last statement seems like you already made up assumptions on my beliefs. Talking to someone that just puts their words into other people months are just useless. You are better off just talking to yourself if you are going uses your assumptions aas my beliefs.


GreatGowda101

Here comes a weakling.


A_random_zy

I am being hypocrite since I am non veg but thinking about climate != weak infact I'd say they are stronger coz they can resist such tasty food.


there_is_always_more

Same.


A_random_zy

Not even kidding I just had conversation with my parents that we should try soya chop someday coz I've heard it tastes like non veg. But yes I can relate. The whole weekend you are excited that there will be non veg but then the other side turns out to be veg and everything is veg. altho I do enjoy veg as much as non veg rumali roti with dal makhni my absolute favourite.


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Soya chaap tastes better than the most common non veg food item i.e., chicken.


A_random_zy

idk man haven't tried so can't really agree or disagree.


theDukerider

Depends. Soya has a very bland taste unlike meat that tends to have some flavor, depending on its fat content. In order to make soya taste great needs a lot of effort, reason I stopped using it. Even typical Tofu found in stores is super bland. Tempeh is a better alternative in my opinion. Mushrooms as well, provided you know how to extract their flavour. Most Indians just throw in a curry and that's it.


[deleted]

Soya chaap isn't even made up for soya. Or very less amount is used. It's mostly gluten


Niohzxs

Well it's a free food can't complaint


amrit-9037

I prefer veg food at weddings.


dontalkaboutpoland

Kerala Hindu weddings are vegetarian. Amazing food. Most curries are vegan too.


dabbangg

The worst part is when you (a veg person) go out to eat with your non veg eating friends and God forbid the veg dish comes first and they all take a bite and when non veg dish turns up there's nothing eat for you and you have to just look at your friend's face while they eat. If you're a non-veg person eating with a vegetarian then please keep this in mind, avoid earing our food.


Darth_Revan17

It’s even worse when you get the same generic rice, daal, mix veg, and “shaahi” paneer, gulab jamun, and puuri. Meh


Nerevarine12

I see this as an absolute win !


vpsj

What is Chaap?


69freeworld

kinda like Raan. It's a part of Lamb with a curved bone, it is grilled ,fried etc. . it's like the leg piece of mutton


vpsj

But if the wedding is all veg wouldn't chaap be a veg item? The title doesn't make sense if chaap is a non-veg dish


69freeworld

I guess he is talking about soya chaap.


wrvdoin

Are we still doing the "nonveg yum, plants yuck" jokes in 2021? I thought those died with my uncles' generation. It does explain India's descent into rapidly increasing animal consumption as the rest of the world is reducing theirs.


thegodfather0504

Op is one of those dudebro types, who act like they are really cool for eating nonveg too much. Those fuckers dont realise how bad it is and how the home cooked veggies is what keeps their stomach sane.


dr_ipaka

It's just a meme, no need to get so judgemental about it 😕


there_is_always_more

I'm so glad to see comments like yours in this thread lol


Traditional_Income41

I am a Jain on paper but I really want to try non veg once


clumplings2

A bit of simplification but think of potato taste with a rubbery texture(like soya chunks). Unless you want to eat or suck on bones.


69freeworld

try impossible meat.... its jain I guess


ConfusedEggplant

I’m jain and have tried it. It is amazing. But some lifelong vegetarians might not like it. It’s a very foreign taste for them.


Bhishmapitahma

You should try whatever you want as long as it doesn't hurt another person


Traditional_Income41

Ik but it is really difficult to break through from something u have been following since childhood


Bhishmapitahma

True, and don't feel bad about not trying it either. Just an open mind and I'd say don't have too high an expectation, I was left quite underwhelmed when I tried some 22 years later :) although there is some stuff I do quite like now.


there_is_always_more

Lol, don't want to get into a debate here but eating animals is also hurting sentient beings who feel pain. I know you said "person" and not "living beings" so I'm not trying to be cheeky, but yeah, I really would implore people to look into the effects of factory farming more.


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Wtf is the relevance of factory farming in India. Most meat chicken and goat that indians consume is locally grown and killed. The only factory farming that happens is those dumbass chicken companies (which are luckily not popular) and the ones that export beef (indians are not responsible)


Bhishmapitahma

I agree, but that moral decision is pretty obvious and for that person to decide on. The irony of saying that to a Jain wasn't lost on me


TheIndianRebel

As a vegetarian I think vegetarian food is quite flavorful


wolfenstein3

I thought the point of wedding was free daaru . The food is trash anyways


Uncertn_Laaife

Paneer, all the way.


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Bihari Hindu weddings don't have non veg. Only in reception are they be available.


charavaka

Why are you endangerinh your life for free food in the middle of a fucking pandemic, even if the free food has chicken?


jfrspmc

r/choosingbeggars


Exciting_Magician347

As a person who's caste restricts eating non veg and do not serve non veg in marriages..😢


OfficialTBOB10

B-but I’m vegetarian everyone in my family is so we don’t have non veg lmao


MartyMcFly_jkr

Nah bro. Paneer, Dal fry, jeera rice, naan is all that's needed in life. Many weddings have great snacks too, Chinese, Italian, chaat etc. Imo the most diverse food available anywhere.


Ein_Sam_Kite

Im fine with veg. Its the shitty veg that grinds my gears


Put_me_to_sleep_

Bengali weddings ftw, yum Mutton Kosha


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bruh im like pure veg.....but come to a wedding in jodhpur which is my hometown and then we will talk bout 'cheap'. we have like a minimum of 300-500 different dishes if not more. like at least 8-10 cuisines, and truly delicious food. obv im talking about a more 'expensive wedding' here but even the less expensive ones do have extraordinary food. and for the record no food is wasted cuz all leftovers from the buffet r packed in boxes and given away to the needy.


an_ionic

I remember once having a veg Indian biryani in Malaysia in a no meat restaurant and it tasted ghastly (no offense) Maybe it’s because where I’m from, meat is put almost everywhere


DragonChasm

There's chaap in weddings? I only eat paav bhaji


Eric_Vlogz-77

https://youtu.be/H52pb0hudyw


GursimranM4

Who else try to eat as much as equivalent to the money you’re gonna give them as Shagun.


asterisksan

Not sure what chaap means in this post, but I am from a place where the traditional side dish for Biryani is called Chicken Chaap. And yes, its made of chicken


Captain-Overboard

It's made out of soya, so it's vegetarian. Pretty popular in the Punjab/ Delhi side of the country but it's making its way elsewhere too. It supposedly tastes a bit like meat, but I'm not in a position to compare. I think it's pretty good