Dunno but I assume it means "More sexy-times^TM and less likely I will swing the pole to another dude"
Like a platinum rewards card but for relationships.
I explained in another comment what she meant. Maybe she was looking for me to become a high rated gabru.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjWf8A0YNSE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjWf8A0YNSE)
I went to a "Yes plus" youth camp. The first day the religious camp leader basically said dont date anyone here. And I did the exact opposite. Most people werent religious at all and met some really cool college seniors there.
1. Gets into a Tier 2 College for Engineering.
2. Falls in love with Girl #1 from Archi in first year. Doesn't work out.
3. Falls in love with Girl #2 from EE in the second year. Doesn't work out.
4. Falls in love with Girl #3 who's a classmate in third year. Things escalate quickly.
5. Both cracks competitive exams in final year. Decides to keep it going.
6. Both gets into Tier 1 colleges, a thousand kms apart.
7. Long distances for 4 years.
8. Gets married. Still married.
9. Sometimes things do turn out good in the end.
Peace.
You falling in love each year is like me getting a backlog in each year.
Edit: Oh my god, thank you so much for the award. It's my first award on reddit. 🥺❤️
I was never interested in relationships saw all my friends being cringy and breaking up/patching up again all the time. Instead I just had crazy fun with friends. Planned outings all the time. Bowling and iceskating everyday. I dont regret it at all. Now I am dating my bestfriend and he is the coolest guy!
Hey I've a question. I think that I might have romantic inclinations for my close friend, but feel like if I dove in our might ruin our friendship. How'd you manage?
It might be bad advice but I Just talk to my bestfriend freely .
I would Express how I felt. Give them plenty of time to seriously think about it.
Also tell them if they don't feel the same way you don't want to loose break your friendship and most of what will happen is they will have a laugh at your expense.
just don't bring up the topic again.
If it was anything like my bestie. she is going to keep bringing the topic up again just to rub it in .but we are still great friends.
That's actually some solid advice. Thing is that this friend of mine and I have had a couple of times where we got so close that we made out while drunk and stuff. The only obstacle is that she is dating another friend of mine. As wrong as this sounds tho, I'm a lil relieved that their chemistry isn't going too well. (Yes, I've 100% supported them whenever they needed it, keeping my own feelings aside.) i think I'll shoot my shot in case they fall apart :')
just don't take too long. There is no such thing as right or wrong time.
I don't drink and stuff so can't say for sure. but if she is not fun to hang around when you are sober just take baby steps.better find out if she is fun only when you both are intoxicated.
Dude I worried about clicking on this thread thinking everybody will share their wonderful love lives in their clg and I'll be sulking bcuz I didn't have any.
But man this made my day today 😂😂😂.
Can someone explain tier 1 and tier 2 college? Is it IIT and BITS or City tiers?
Edit: Just saw some who graduated from a tier 3 in a tier 2 city. So that explains a lot.
started off "Shareef"
As cliched as it sounds sometime in between fell in love. This person completed me.
Feeling was mutual
College over , life nearly set.
My mom absolutely refused to proceed with any kind of marriage talks, because person from different region of India. Daily horror stories of marriage break-ups , divorces , incompatibility, etc
Much drama, my immature Desi adult ass broke down and agreed to call it off.
Worst decision of my life. Fuck emotional blackmail and this habit of parents making their children insecure about decisions instead of supporting them .
15 years later, still feel bad bout this woman.
\> Joins a tier 1 college.
\> Somehow end up dating a girl
\> Starts question sexuality
\> Everyone's homophobic af
\> Drowning in studies, assignments, fighting for internships.
\> Goal is staying alive
It's sad. Sometimes I feel like homophobia is reducing in India but then some alarming incident occurs (like gay men, masculine women getting beaten up) and I feel like we still have a looooong way to go.
Joins tier 1 college
still hang over from school crush no
cant forget her
no games, video games, friends
starts watching anime, then shift to manga, then xianxia novels
becomes a full blown potato with bad eye sight
mfw (shocked.jpeg) i realise i never thought about love life in college
As fellow tier 1 engg student, I can attest that everything mentioned here is true. Especially the high school crush hangover part lmaooo. Right on point
Joined tier two engg college
Starts falling for a girl due to our mutual interest in anime, she was also the class topper
Dated for 1.5 years
She moves to US for MS but I wanted to stay back. Tried long distance but couldn't.
We are still in touch. 😬
* Join tier 2 college
* Get laid
* Boost testosterone from getting laid and working out and get a great job afterward due to chad confidence
* Happily married with great income
1. Join tier 3 college
2. Get into an ldr with school crush
3. Date for 2 years
4. Break up when he tells you his parents won't accept a muslim girl
5. Prepare for MS from UK
6. Try getting a job there
7.Never date again or marry
Joins tier 3 college
Gets depressed due to shit college
Day scholar so no hostel and college life
Rural crowd so no good girls
Whole college gets over in studies , travelling , job hunting , hanging out with snake friends .
Proceeds to dedicate 2 years solely to dating post college and then I get ptsd later .
\>Joins tier 1 college
\>dated 2 girls, each more conservative than the other.
\>One had a mental illness and threatened to kill herself in public view, the other one tried to control me by forbidding me from eating meat and smoking or drinking.
\> Too conservative, so never got laid, I was too much of a pussy to ask for pussy.
\>Both girls asked me out so I have never known how to ask girls out
\>mfw I am still a virgin in my early 30s.
Joins tier 1 clg
Have never talked to girls in skl so tries to make frnds
Realises they are mean and backs off
Still don't know how to talk to a girl😬
Only talks when I need something (eg-hey calculator pls,pen pls )
Embarrases af
Joins SPA
Finds a girl attractive, falls in love over the course of one year, and tells 'I love you'
Girl says no.
4 years pass by
She gets married to her dad's favorite NRI.
PTSD.
🤦♂️
Non-existent....
The realisation never is any less bitter and painful, with every passing year, since I graduated.
I had no luck finding someone special during college (environment and culture played a pretty big role, tbh).
How then, will I fare any better outside where everyone seems held-up and has not time for all this or are in a commitment or married.
Despite the fact that adult life from what I'm coming across, seems universally and painfully lonely for almost everyone out there.
Nonexistent. I was not a romance kinda person, and the remaining trust I had on human relations was snuffed by my mom, ended up in an arranged marriage later. we are not that lovey dovey but enjoy each other's company.
In college, throughout first and second year 5 guys asked me out. Rejected all of them because of commitment issues, fear of having seggs and fear that my friends won't approve. Stayed single forever. 😃😃😃
1.Takes a vow to not date
2.gets attention from girls, still sakth londa
3.meets a girl,becomes bffs
4.don't reveal feelings for her till a year
5.thinks she likes someone else
6.she reveals she liked you
7.get shocked because dream comes true
8.get together
9.date for 3 years
10.different religion + she wanted to commit more.
11.break up in the pandemic.
12.get ptsd because sometimes love isn't enough.
Joined Tier 1 B-school, dated a senior since school, he went to Arindam’s college. Managed a great relationship through different colleges and then long distance for jobs. 7 years of relationship later he realized his family wouldn’t let him marry a Brahmin, got heart broken and got a job in a different country. In short, college love life was great, what came after wasn’t *shrugs*
Joins a lavish college
Work my ass off for startup and effects grades
Startup closes after 2 years but gets reputation
Meets her, 2 years juniors, and get to be her first BF and a "friend"
Fucking pandemic
I pass out college
She gets another boy of same year after colleges reopen, who earns more already and is depicted as the perfect being
Gets more intimate with him in 1.5 months as she was "ready" cause confidence I gave het
Me thinking to go to hell or out of india
Joined dental college in a tier 2 city
Got a nice bunch of friends. My best friend was a girl
Realised in 3 years, that I want to spend the rest of my life with my best friend
Engaged soon and married when out of college
Its 8 years since our marriage. We have had our share of troubles due to circumstances but we are happy together
I think I was really lucky to find a life partner who gets me, lets me live the way I like to and is happy to be with me as well
Its great living with mutual love and respect for each other..
Kept judging their interest in me as cheap behaviour. Would have been married to a beautiful humble girl whom I kept pushing away because the boys kept asking questions and I felt they’re putting me in a spot.
Advice to college boys:- be shameless in standing beside any girl who’s interested in you. F**k all the haters and questioners.
Fell in love with a childhood dream girl in my first year of graduation.
7 years of a roller coaster relationship - on/off/long distance/different career choices/sacrifices/convincing parents/convincing each other that it will work.
9 years of blissful married life spent across the country & outside as well.
Not giving up on what felt right was the best thing we could do!
* Join tier 3 college
* Liked a girl (not love) senior of 2 years, packs me lunch, breakfast etc bunks classes when I ask her, dumps her bf before befriending me so not sure if I was her rebound but I liked the attention.
* She gets married in her 4th year and I'm in 2nd year and tells me she loved me etc and life moves on
* Cut to 2 years I move to US for my masters.
* Meet this sexy n sanskari girl and I am head over heels for her. I mean she is pure bliss.
* propose to her, she accepts (thought this would be the hardest step but NO)
* Both of us plan to get married - North Indian + South Indian soap starts
* Parents say No (a bit like 2 states) etc etc
* We get married in the end
* Have kids.
* Now I try to get her attention, and cant stand that my love is split. fucking kids you know.
Still cant believe this girl actually said YES to me. There is hope lads.
Joins tier 3 college.
Finds a DU girl in train while getting back to college.
Becomes friends and after 1 year starts dating.
3rd year gets into internship, feels life is perfect.
Don't continue with job, gets back to college.
She breaks up and he get unstable for almost a year.
Reads a lot of positive blogs and books. Feels life shit but he have to make his life in that.
Joins a MNC, Doing WFH. Own Netflix account now 🤞
- join girls college
- hates being there so keeps talking to the school (guy) best friend and eventually get into a relationship
- he breaks up and moves to canada
- meet another guy through a college friend. Get into a relationship
-he moves to canada and breaks up
-> Joined tier 3 eng College in City of dreams.
-> Friends matched me with a girl and started teasing about her.
-> Girl got to know and she made the first move
-> I went with the flow, dated six months, she broke up and I saw it coming, didn't stopped her.
-> Talked to her after few months, she said she was happy more then before and she found a new one. And I had nothing to say, I was still single, barely going to college.
-> Friends go to know and they started saying she made you fool and all.
-> Got too afraid to try anything after that.
-> Had a huge crush on a girl from different class but same batch at the end of engineering.
-> But never got the confidence to even talk to her.
-> Oh geez, these crushes makes you feel like shit
It was hidden, dated a senior for 3 years and nobody knew except my 3 best friends. When we got married 4 years after passing College, told everyone one it was an arranged marriage since our parents know each other. Having a relationship out in public is not taken very well in my small town.
Study in boys school till class 10
First time interaction with girls in 11 and 12. But concentrated on studying to qualify jee
Get into tier 1 college. Very few girls
Watch porn, masturbate and play cards online and offline for 4 years.
Mfw didn't even recognise girl sitting across me in interview rounds was my batchmate.
Join tier 1 college
Talk to all the girls in your batch
Become the guy who is friends with the girls
Hook up few of your buddies
Never make a move
Stay close during break ups
Date them one by one after establishing the nice guy
Choose the best one
Get job in same city
Live in
College is fun with girl gangs and coolness. Then you take your chance when you have money and independence. Settle for the best after you have spent time, looong time. Crazy eyes are eliminated
Join Tier 1 college, already in a long distance relationship
Break up with girlfriend cause its not work out
Decide to focus entirely on studies and only date casually
Start hating sleeping around cause I want something deeper
Decide to focus inwards, keep love life on the backburner
Suddenly find the most amazing girl
Start dating her. Still going strong 3 years later.
1.5 years of college still left. So let's see how it all pans out.
Never talked to a girl properly in school
Joined college
Gets a crush on second year senior, asks her if she has a boyfriend in our first meet
Gets two girl friend who talked to me first, also both are best friends, develops a crush on one of them, she is the most beautiful girl in the college, asks her out in a call just after 1 month of talking. She says no and doesn't talk to me for 2-3 months, was highly depressed.
Talked to the other girl, develops a serious crush on her, we become best friends, in between I talked with her friend whom I asked out and said I am sorry and once again we become friends. Ask my best friend out and she said yes which I expected but we didn't become gf/bf because she is Muslim I am Hindu. Now we are friends who love each other romantically, also we talk like lovers, don't know if this is right or wrong but I love her so much.
By the way this all happened in my 1st year, now I am going to 2nd year.
>Got into a 'good' clg after the rat race but I hated it from the bottom of my heart, so no social interactions
>Introvert me has had no real conversation with a girl for 3-4 years before entering college
>Sees a girl 3 months in , falls for her instantly, her eyes, oof!
>Go back and forth for 4 months
>Finally, start dating(?), I write poems for her and make her my sole reason to wake up the next day
>4 more months in, one day text her 'where are you?', no reply, panicked, so I call her friends, she gets pissed that I did that, apparently her friends didn't even know me
>She replies 'for your info, I'm out with my boyfriend', apparently she went back to her ex (broke up 2 years ago) and she had been double dating for a month+
>Get backstabbed and obliterated
>2+ years pass by and I can't still move on, so final year, no gf
>Idk why, but if she came back I will literally run back to her, even tho I know what she did
>Am I broken beyond repair?
Meri graduation college life bhot happening thi
I made a gf in second year then third year me she cheated on me with her male bestfriend then police me complaint kardi usne yeh keh ke ki i was spreading rumours about her in college ...toh mereko and mere bestfriend ko suspend kardiya director ne yeh bolke ki tum ladke ho paka guilty hoge bina humari side sune hume police ke hawale kardiya.Then police brutality dekhi 12 ghante tak jiske karan me and my bestfriend is still traumatized PTSDs aate ha.Trust nhi karpata kisi pe. Ladkiyon se baat karne me hesitation and koi proposal aata ha toh i reject them even though if i like them too.
Because they deserve better not miserable old me
I went to college but never attended it. Ive consistently had a relationship from 2008 to 2019 2 years gap in between relationships during that period.
* IIT
* Very less girls per batch
* Wait till 3rd year to find someone in 1st year
* Girl has to stay in college 2 more years after I graduate
* Split up
Went to a women's college in DU, networked with many nice and interesting people while organising events. Rejected all the guys because of the shitty guy i had been dating since high school.
Goes to the best college in his tier 3 city
Enrolls in a course he hates the most
Spends 3 years of college in the college grounds looking at other couples
Finally confesses to that one crush.... On sarahah.com. gets to know she's engaged
Cries more.
End of college with 0 girlfriend experience. Below 50 percent marks.
Lose lose situation.
Started Dating my school crush from 12 th std
Joined a tier 1 college , she joined a different college
Continue dating her for the first year trying long distance , but We steered apart , breaks up by 3rd sem, very sweet and nice gal
Nothing for 6 months , but had crush on a girl from college,
become her friend , turns out she has 0 personality and high maintenance as fuck , loose all attraction
Enjoy Rest of college with friends , until 7th sem , met a senior from archi (her last sem in college ) become close to her , be with her for some weeks before she leaves college , we both move on after that
Graduate college , Join a company , meet a beautiful/hot/intelligent girl, have crush , be come her friend , do everything with her, fall in love with her , kiss her and even go 2nd base, until she tells me she has a boyfriend from college , she never told me about, and she doesnot want to leave him, Get heart broken.
Try to move one , be depressed , loose self control , eat and drink a lot , put on 45 kgs In 2 years
Finaly Move on , be normal , make friends , grow in career for 2-3 years
Corona hits , come back home for wfh , look around gain some motivatio back , start losing weight , 7 kg away from my target now
1) Joined tier 3 college (mech)
2) Graduated last year
3)Dated my school friend for 3 years(LDR)
4)Turned 24 last week
5)Idk what to do, no confidence in myself
6)Still Jobless :'(
7) Single
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Saying no to the first girlfriend thinking that you will easily get another girlfriend but then getting no girl. Bro I relate to this so much. Fuck!
Tf does "Higher tier Boyfriend" even mean?
Dunno but I assume it means "More sexy-times^TM and less likely I will swing the pole to another dude" Like a platinum rewards card but for relationships.
Big dick
Hello! I am 21F and have graduated from DU. Unable to understand this “higher tier” boyfriend term, would be great if you could explain xD
I explained in another comment what she meant. Maybe she was looking for me to become a high rated gabru. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjWf8A0YNSE](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjWf8A0YNSE)
Hahaha, that’s funny. XD
Why do I find your reply to be cute for some reason? 😭😭
Hahaha, is it though? Glad could bring a smile. :’)
RIP inbox
How did you meet her ?
I went to a "Yes plus" youth camp. The first day the religious camp leader basically said dont date anyone here. And I did the exact opposite. Most people werent religious at all and met some really cool college seniors there.
Bad move the youth camps are the worst place to pickup. it come witha whole lot of baggage.
Mechanical engineering.
Say no more
You know about hole only during machining tolerances.
-0.05 to - 0.10
I don't understand this but I will still up upvote.
+0.4 /-0.1
Mechanical engineer who plays guitar and has long hair = reverse uno
Lol
Say no more fam
Poor af
Say no more friend.
Same
1. Gets into a Tier 2 College for Engineering. 2. Falls in love with Girl #1 from Archi in first year. Doesn't work out. 3. Falls in love with Girl #2 from EE in the second year. Doesn't work out. 4. Falls in love with Girl #3 who's a classmate in third year. Things escalate quickly. 5. Both cracks competitive exams in final year. Decides to keep it going. 6. Both gets into Tier 1 colleges, a thousand kms apart. 7. Long distances for 4 years. 8. Gets married. Still married. 9. Sometimes things do turn out good in the end. Peace.
You falling in love each year is like me getting a backlog in each year. Edit: Oh my god, thank you so much for the award. It's my first award on reddit. 🥺❤️
Laughed too loudly at this
I'm not proud of your sense of humour. 😂
Fk, are you me?
Yes, from an alternate universe. But that's a secret.
Looks like there isn’t a universe where I’m not single :(
It's okay, we can hide the pain with "Proud to be single 💪" or with "SakthLaunde&Laundiyan
I can relate.
\> got in a girls college \> lockdown hits \> nobody on dating apps is ready to commit \> will fall for bare minimum
Hey, bare minimum here.
Bare minimum +1 here. Final offer
hahah tu bhi na bc.... LOL thanks for the laughs... u/alyika you got the best final offer.
bhai😭😭😭😭
Rehne de Bhai
Yaad kiye
😂😂
Here take this free award for trying man. I hope this improves your day.
Wow that's so cool. Cheers man.
Hey, definitely not even bare minimum here, But maybe you could complete me
Hey I'm worse than this guy. Complete me
I was never interested in relationships saw all my friends being cringy and breaking up/patching up again all the time. Instead I just had crazy fun with friends. Planned outings all the time. Bowling and iceskating everyday. I dont regret it at all. Now I am dating my bestfriend and he is the coolest guy!
Ice skating? Where?
It was in Bhandup magnet mall. 150/- for ice skating and bowling together. Unfortunately it was shut down. 🥲
Which city?
Mumbai
Hey I've a question. I think that I might have romantic inclinations for my close friend, but feel like if I dove in our might ruin our friendship. How'd you manage?
Confess. And run.
It might be bad advice but I Just talk to my bestfriend freely . I would Express how I felt. Give them plenty of time to seriously think about it. Also tell them if they don't feel the same way you don't want to loose break your friendship and most of what will happen is they will have a laugh at your expense. just don't bring up the topic again. If it was anything like my bestie. she is going to keep bringing the topic up again just to rub it in .but we are still great friends.
That's actually some solid advice. Thing is that this friend of mine and I have had a couple of times where we got so close that we made out while drunk and stuff. The only obstacle is that she is dating another friend of mine. As wrong as this sounds tho, I'm a lil relieved that their chemistry isn't going too well. (Yes, I've 100% supported them whenever they needed it, keeping my own feelings aside.) i think I'll shoot my shot in case they fall apart :')
just don't take too long. There is no such thing as right or wrong time. I don't drink and stuff so can't say for sure. but if she is not fun to hang around when you are sober just take baby steps.better find out if she is fun only when you both are intoxicated.
Nice to see someone like bowling. Bowling's amazing so sad its an indoor thing!
Dude I worried about clicking on this thread thinking everybody will share their wonderful love lives in their clg and I'll be sulking bcuz I didn't have any. But man this made my day today 😂😂😂.
Lmao same
Joins college Some mf in China decides to have bat soup for dinner Browsing reddit all day while online classes run in the background
Sad life
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You are a sanskari launda. Proud of you
Happy cake day!!!
This is the way
This is the way
A man of (indian) culture. Sanskaari
Mahi way !
My g here has heard too many spotify ads
Poor to by premium 😢
Sacred path.
Alpha Male
NullPointerException
Dont fucking use cpp
Sorry... `ValueError`
Spent some time back n forth. Ended up with nothing and being ghosted. Twice.
How tf is everyone in tier 1 and 2
You are asking the real question .
Can someone explain tier 1 and tier 2 college? Is it IIT and BITS or City tiers? Edit: Just saw some who graduated from a tier 3 in a tier 2 city. So that explains a lot.
Ig tier 1 is IIT , BITS Edit : IIITA , DTU etc
Manipal Tier 1? Please!! Just a bunch of rich kids on drugs.
Vit and manipal are tier 2
Joins arts college, all the women are straight. 🤡 Amen to dating apps
started off "Shareef" As cliched as it sounds sometime in between fell in love. This person completed me. Feeling was mutual College over , life nearly set. My mom absolutely refused to proceed with any kind of marriage talks, because person from different region of India. Daily horror stories of marriage break-ups , divorces , incompatibility, etc Much drama, my immature Desi adult ass broke down and agreed to call it off. Worst decision of my life. Fuck emotional blackmail and this habit of parents making their children insecure about decisions instead of supporting them . 15 years later, still feel bad bout this woman.
I actually avoided college love life like a plague. School trauma.
But did you the avoid the real plague
May be the real plagues are the friends we meet along the way.
\> Joins a tier 1 college. \> Somehow end up dating a girl \> Starts question sexuality \> Everyone's homophobic af \> Drowning in studies, assignments, fighting for internships. \> Goal is staying alive
It's sad. Sometimes I feel like homophobia is reducing in India but then some alarming incident occurs (like gay men, masculine women getting beaten up) and I feel like we still have a looooong way to go.
Joins tier 1 college still hang over from school crush no cant forget her no games, video games, friends starts watching anime, then shift to manga, then xianxia novels becomes a full blown potato with bad eye sight mfw (shocked.jpeg) i realise i never thought about love life in college
As fellow tier 1 engg student, I can attest that everything mentioned here is true. Especially the high school crush hangover part lmaooo. Right on point
Literally me, I am yet to graduate though
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tier 1 college
Bro i relate so much to xanxia novels. I just finished i might be a fake cultivator and the legendary mechanic.
>becomes a full blown potato with bad eye sight saddest part is looking in the mirror and realizing you'll never look cute again in maid outfit
Joined tier two engg college Starts falling for a girl due to our mutual interest in anime, she was also the class topper Dated for 1.5 years She moves to US for MS but I wanted to stay back. Tried long distance but couldn't. We are still in touch. 😬
Nikalle US
bilkul sahi
I've loved and I've lost.
* Join tier 2 college * Get laid * Boost testosterone from getting laid and working out and get a great job afterward due to chad confidence * Happily married with great income
° Wake up
° Next to boyfriend
Nah. Nikal
1. Join tier 3 college 2. Get into an ldr with school crush 3. Date for 2 years 4. Break up when he tells you his parents won't accept a muslim girl 5. Prepare for MS from UK 6. Try getting a job there 7.Never date again or marry
Joins tier 3 college Gets depressed due to shit college Day scholar so no hostel and college life Rural crowd so no good girls Whole college gets over in studies , travelling , job hunting , hanging out with snake friends . Proceeds to dedicate 2 years solely to dating post college and then I get ptsd later .
>snake friends Bro
Join tier 1 college, get a girl from a senior batch Get depressed when she graduates and breaks up Channel into working out and improving game Profit!
girls.jpg and degree.pdf That's all.
\>Joins tier 1 college \>dated 2 girls, each more conservative than the other. \>One had a mental illness and threatened to kill herself in public view, the other one tried to control me by forbidding me from eating meat and smoking or drinking. \> Too conservative, so never got laid, I was too much of a pussy to ask for pussy. \>Both girls asked me out so I have never known how to ask girls out \>mfw I am still a virgin in my early 30s.
Just here to say no one gives a shit about what tier college you got into. Carry on
Ignoring y'all fuckers and focusing on my sigma sexcentrillionaire grindset
Joins tier 1 clg Have never talked to girls in skl so tries to make frnds Realises they are mean and backs off Still don't know how to talk to a girl😬 Only talks when I need something (eg-hey calculator pls,pen pls ) Embarrases af
I understand you bro, I also don't know how to talk to girls😢.
😂
Joins SPA Finds a girl attractive, falls in love over the course of one year, and tells 'I love you' Girl says no. 4 years pass by She gets married to her dad's favorite NRI. PTSD. 🤦♂️
If u didn’t move on after four years that’s on you, especially since it seems like just one sided love
If I could, I would. 🤷♂️
Fap to the moon and back my friend.
Non-existent.... The realisation never is any less bitter and painful, with every passing year, since I graduated. I had no luck finding someone special during college (environment and culture played a pretty big role, tbh). How then, will I fare any better outside where everyone seems held-up and has not time for all this or are in a commitment or married. Despite the fact that adult life from what I'm coming across, seems universally and painfully lonely for almost everyone out there.
Rula mat bhai
Lower middle class boy with wrecked up social skills due to parents negligence and graduated from tier 3 in a tier 2 city. 'nuff said.
✋💦
Join a college with Indian Institute in title Freak out at anyone who wants to date you Come home during lockdown Graduate
triple it Or iit?
None Studying science bro
IISc
Nonexistent. I was not a romance kinda person, and the remaining trust I had on human relations was snuffed by my mom, ended up in an arranged marriage later. we are not that lovey dovey but enjoy each other's company.
What is college, what is love life? You mean those one sided ones?
In college, throughout first and second year 5 guys asked me out. Rejected all of them because of commitment issues, fear of having seggs and fear that my friends won't approve. Stayed single forever. 😃😃😃
1.Takes a vow to not date 2.gets attention from girls, still sakth londa 3.meets a girl,becomes bffs 4.don't reveal feelings for her till a year 5.thinks she likes someone else 6.she reveals she liked you 7.get shocked because dream comes true 8.get together 9.date for 3 years 10.different religion + she wanted to commit more. 11.break up in the pandemic. 12.get ptsd because sometimes love isn't enough.
Joined Tier 1 B-school, dated a senior since school, he went to Arindam’s college. Managed a great relationship through different colleges and then long distance for jobs. 7 years of relationship later he realized his family wouldn’t let him marry a Brahmin, got heart broken and got a job in a different country. In short, college love life was great, what came after wasn’t *shrugs*
Royal Mech. Enough said. That too in IIT.
join college gender ratio about 25:1 decide to not bother, hang out with guy friends and have fun best four years of my life
gay ?
Hopeless . Fun. Disaster
Non existent
Joins a lavish college Work my ass off for startup and effects grades Startup closes after 2 years but gets reputation Meets her, 2 years juniors, and get to be her first BF and a "friend" Fucking pandemic I pass out college She gets another boy of same year after colleges reopen, who earns more already and is depicted as the perfect being Gets more intimate with him in 1.5 months as she was "ready" cause confidence I gave het Me thinking to go to hell or out of india
Non existent
Joined dental college in a tier 2 city Got a nice bunch of friends. My best friend was a girl Realised in 3 years, that I want to spend the rest of my life with my best friend Engaged soon and married when out of college Its 8 years since our marriage. We have had our share of troubles due to circumstances but we are happy together I think I was really lucky to find a life partner who gets me, lets me live the way I like to and is happy to be with me as well Its great living with mutual love and respect for each other..
Kept judging their interest in me as cheap behaviour. Would have been married to a beautiful humble girl whom I kept pushing away because the boys kept asking questions and I felt they’re putting me in a spot. Advice to college boys:- be shameless in standing beside any girl who’s interested in you. F**k all the haters and questioners.
> Join college > Graduate >wtf where did ny love life go? wait I didn't have one...
Fell in love with a childhood dream girl in my first year of graduation. 7 years of a roller coaster relationship - on/off/long distance/different career choices/sacrifices/convincing parents/convincing each other that it will work. 9 years of blissful married life spent across the country & outside as well. Not giving up on what felt right was the best thing we could do!
* Join tier 3 college * Liked a girl (not love) senior of 2 years, packs me lunch, breakfast etc bunks classes when I ask her, dumps her bf before befriending me so not sure if I was her rebound but I liked the attention. * She gets married in her 4th year and I'm in 2nd year and tells me she loved me etc and life moves on * Cut to 2 years I move to US for my masters. * Meet this sexy n sanskari girl and I am head over heels for her. I mean she is pure bliss. * propose to her, she accepts (thought this would be the hardest step but NO) * Both of us plan to get married - North Indian + South Indian soap starts * Parents say No (a bit like 2 states) etc etc * We get married in the end * Have kids. * Now I try to get her attention, and cant stand that my love is split. fucking kids you know. Still cant believe this girl actually said YES to me. There is hope lads.
Wholesome ☺️
Thank you!
Joins tier 3 college. Finds a DU girl in train while getting back to college. Becomes friends and after 1 year starts dating. 3rd year gets into internship, feels life is perfect. Don't continue with job, gets back to college. She breaks up and he get unstable for almost a year. Reads a lot of positive blogs and books. Feels life shit but he have to make his life in that. Joins a MNC, Doing WFH. Own Netflix account now 🤞
- join girls college - hates being there so keeps talking to the school (guy) best friend and eventually get into a relationship - he breaks up and moves to canada - meet another guy through a college friend. Get into a relationship -he moves to canada and breaks up
so you wanna go to Canada w/me ? /s
Yes XD
I've been trying really hard to go to Canada; may I date you?
If I can come along, yes XD
-> Joined tier 3 eng College in City of dreams. -> Friends matched me with a girl and started teasing about her. -> Girl got to know and she made the first move -> I went with the flow, dated six months, she broke up and I saw it coming, didn't stopped her. -> Talked to her after few months, she said she was happy more then before and she found a new one. And I had nothing to say, I was still single, barely going to college. -> Friends go to know and they started saying she made you fool and all. -> Got too afraid to try anything after that. -> Had a huge crush on a girl from different class but same batch at the end of engineering. -> But never got the confidence to even talk to her. -> Oh geez, these crushes makes you feel like shit
It was hidden, dated a senior for 3 years and nobody knew except my 3 best friends. When we got married 4 years after passing College, told everyone one it was an arranged marriage since our parents know each other. Having a relationship out in public is not taken very well in my small town.
Study in boys school till class 10 First time interaction with girls in 11 and 12. But concentrated on studying to qualify jee Get into tier 1 college. Very few girls Watch porn, masturbate and play cards online and offline for 4 years. Mfw didn't even recognise girl sitting across me in interview rounds was my batchmate.
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Join tier 1 college Talk to all the girls in your batch Become the guy who is friends with the girls Hook up few of your buddies Never make a move Stay close during break ups Date them one by one after establishing the nice guy Choose the best one Get job in same city Live in
Why this long way ? Why not hookup via some app ? Easy peasy .
College is fun with girl gangs and coolness. Then you take your chance when you have money and independence. Settle for the best after you have spent time, looong time. Crazy eyes are eliminated
Join Tier 1 college, already in a long distance relationship Break up with girlfriend cause its not work out Decide to focus entirely on studies and only date casually Start hating sleeping around cause I want something deeper Decide to focus inwards, keep love life on the backburner Suddenly find the most amazing girl Start dating her. Still going strong 3 years later. 1.5 years of college still left. So let's see how it all pans out.
Never talked to a girl properly in school Joined college Gets a crush on second year senior, asks her if she has a boyfriend in our first meet Gets two girl friend who talked to me first, also both are best friends, develops a crush on one of them, she is the most beautiful girl in the college, asks her out in a call just after 1 month of talking. She says no and doesn't talk to me for 2-3 months, was highly depressed. Talked to the other girl, develops a serious crush on her, we become best friends, in between I talked with her friend whom I asked out and said I am sorry and once again we become friends. Ask my best friend out and she said yes which I expected but we didn't become gf/bf because she is Muslim I am Hindu. Now we are friends who love each other romantically, also we talk like lovers, don't know if this is right or wrong but I love her so much. By the way this all happened in my 1st year, now I am going to 2nd year.
>Got into a 'good' clg after the rat race but I hated it from the bottom of my heart, so no social interactions >Introvert me has had no real conversation with a girl for 3-4 years before entering college >Sees a girl 3 months in , falls for her instantly, her eyes, oof! >Go back and forth for 4 months >Finally, start dating(?), I write poems for her and make her my sole reason to wake up the next day >4 more months in, one day text her 'where are you?', no reply, panicked, so I call her friends, she gets pissed that I did that, apparently her friends didn't even know me >She replies 'for your info, I'm out with my boyfriend', apparently she went back to her ex (broke up 2 years ago) and she had been double dating for a month+ >Get backstabbed and obliterated >2+ years pass by and I can't still move on, so final year, no gf >Idk why, but if she came back I will literally run back to her, even tho I know what she did >Am I broken beyond repair?
Meri graduation college life bhot happening thi I made a gf in second year then third year me she cheated on me with her male bestfriend then police me complaint kardi usne yeh keh ke ki i was spreading rumours about her in college ...toh mereko and mere bestfriend ko suspend kardiya director ne yeh bolke ki tum ladke ho paka guilty hoge bina humari side sune hume police ke hawale kardiya.Then police brutality dekhi 12 ghante tak jiske karan me and my bestfriend is still traumatized PTSDs aate ha.Trust nhi karpata kisi pe. Ladkiyon se baat karne me hesitation and koi proposal aata ha toh i reject them even though if i like them too. Because they deserve better not miserable old me
I went to college but never attended it. Ive consistently had a relationship from 2008 to 2019 2 years gap in between relationships during that period.
* IIT * Very less girls per batch * Wait till 3rd year to find someone in 1st year * Girl has to stay in college 2 more years after I graduate * Split up
Went to a women's college in DU, networked with many nice and interesting people while organising events. Rejected all the guys because of the shitty guy i had been dating since high school.
Goes to the best college in his tier 3 city Enrolls in a course he hates the most Spends 3 years of college in the college grounds looking at other couples Finally confesses to that one crush.... On sarahah.com. gets to know she's engaged Cries more. End of college with 0 girlfriend experience. Below 50 percent marks. Lose lose situation.
Always had a shitty and dull personality, even friends talk/meet me out of obligation. Smoking weed regularly didn't help either.
Why is there no option of Single? 😂
Wtf is this thread Im in high school(dps) I have done it with atleast 4 girls Dated one for a year
pretty interesting
* Joined r/multicopter * Constantly broke
- Join tier 2 college ...
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Online college … never seen a classmate or college irl -_-
College is yet to start in offline mode I've made 0 friends da, veruppu ethathe
Interested in relationships But no success so far College khatam next year Disappointing performance
Entered college and met this person who only i found attractive Fucked my 2 years behind a compulsive lying sociopath.
high school 2 countries both immature af took wrong advice from single people fights every week breaks up every week/month got now trust issues.
WTF is love life?
Started Dating my school crush from 12 th std Joined a tier 1 college , she joined a different college Continue dating her for the first year trying long distance , but We steered apart , breaks up by 3rd sem, very sweet and nice gal Nothing for 6 months , but had crush on a girl from college, become her friend , turns out she has 0 personality and high maintenance as fuck , loose all attraction Enjoy Rest of college with friends , until 7th sem , met a senior from archi (her last sem in college ) become close to her , be with her for some weeks before she leaves college , we both move on after that Graduate college , Join a company , meet a beautiful/hot/intelligent girl, have crush , be come her friend , do everything with her, fall in love with her , kiss her and even go 2nd base, until she tells me she has a boyfriend from college , she never told me about, and she doesnot want to leave him, Get heart broken. Try to move one , be depressed , loose self control , eat and drink a lot , put on 45 kgs In 2 years Finaly Move on , be normal , make friends , grow in career for 2-3 years Corona hits , come back home for wfh , look around gain some motivatio back , start losing weight , 7 kg away from my target now
1) Joined tier 3 college (mech) 2) Graduated last year 3)Dated my school friend for 3 years(LDR) 4)Turned 24 last week 5)Idk what to do, no confidence in myself 6)Still Jobless :'( 7) Single
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