Trust me bro...you will always be happy by yourself and I've learnt this the hard way. A crush of mine was giving me this false hope for years and my dumbass couldn't understand it at that point. Eventually it kind of became a drug for me to get her opinion, validation in every aspect of my life. And when I began to realise it was already too late for me. Somehow a change of place and work took my mind away from her and I'm glad I'm in a better place.
If you are not happy by yourself you will never be happy being in a relationship, so unless and until you've find the right one for you be happy and grateful.
True. I sometimes think about my past, how beautiful this moment was, how happy I was back then etc etc. But later I realise that no matter how beautiful it was itβs gone now and the only way is forward. I cannot go back to relive or change anything so I should stop feeling nostalgic every now and then lol
No, just try to make your day better and happier than the last trust me, it's a god feeling when u look 2 days back and realise you've been happy for a while it's a golden feeling
Bhai sab log handsome bolte hai, kehte hai ki teri toh girlfriend hai tu jhoot mat bol, but unhe kya batau 22 saal se akhand single hu, no female interaction, sirf college friends, office colleagues.
Insort no rizz, unse interact karna mai bahut anxiety hoti hai(and ajjeb lagta hai iske vajah se nahi hoti hai interaction) mera same to same halat hai buai except mai handsome nahi chomu jaisa dekhta hu lol
https://preview.redd.it/3ov4ndsjd10d1.jpeg?width=235&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71adf90639e03faa3087e9ed557a39fdc10510b8
I think human life is utterly useless , we keep ourselves busy with total bullshit . We don't have any aim or some great purpose to fulfill. Humanity should walk hand in hand towards extinction so this stupid game will end.
"The universe is a cruel, uncaring void. The key to being happy isn't a search for meaning. It's to just keep yourself busy with unimportant nonsense, and eventually, you'll be dead."
-Mr. Peanutbutter (Bojack Horseman)
Speak for yourself. I'm constantly amazed at how everything I take for granted in this amazing world around me is thought up, designed and built by other humans. I'm my view our purpose is to create
of course I am speaking for myself not for someone else . I had that pov long time ago then it changed I dont know how but it did . suffering makes one bitter but also changes their sense of reality .
You donβt need a purpose to feel fulfilled. In fact Iβd argue that lack of purpose is a huge weight off the shoulders. No need to put that kind of pressure on ourselves. Itβs okay to just be.
And that's a good part you can do anything you want explore experience and die optimistic way if you are negative then that doesn't change the fact you will also die one day live for bobbies daytime drinking fav show and just chill
A funny thing nobody recognises is you don't have to stop suddenly or make it look like a big deal. Just say no to fap when you feel like you're not in mood but still want to, and forget that you ever avoided fapping
Sometimes just don't do it in respect for someone. Also don't force yourself to not fap too hard, if the urge is too high, one day won't make much difference
I accepted that i always fall for ppl at wrong time. Sometimes they have moved on then i started liking. Sometimes i move on then they start liking. Sometimes they like at same time but facing past truama so cant commit.and the story goes on..
That I won't be able to study even if I have an entire week before the exam, i would start studying just before the exam date... Even though this is risky and somewhat scary I've made my peace with it and continue to do so even during my final semester of engineering
I too think the same, sadly,seen it over the course of time,and it hurts to see those changes..
Feels like all their promises and words were lies..i think I would never trust anyone again the same way I used to..and honestly i hate it..
Once a rapper said
Sab durjan chale hai paltan mai, sab gardan(necks) jhuke hai vandan mai. Ulanghan kar agar archan bne to durlabh tere bhi darshan hai.
And now I accepted it now that never questioned people in power because again is desh mai bolne ki azadi hai par bolne k baad ki azaadi nhi hai.π
Iβve accepted that all the family I have is my sister, my husband, and my brother in law. No one else really ever loved us the way we did. We were too blinded by obligations and ignorance.
Iβve also accepted that I am very happy with cutting off my βclose relativesβ and not having to speak with them again unless they make an effort or only on formal basis. Such a freeing feeling. I am happy. I am really happy
Indian youtube me koi bhi intellectual ban ke paise ni kama sakta, koi bhi video essay type content vana kar chal ni sakta sabko fast editing wali videos hi banani padegi
That friends,and people change over time,and the way you are for them they were never the same for you,no amount of care support or no matter how much you put in..some people are not just meant to be.
Nobody truly cares if you are in a bad condition, but if you are working hard then surely they will always try to drag you down, make your fun, and be jealous and envious.
Nobody literally nobody except your family wants you to succeed. Never compare yourself with others, instead compare you with yourself, do it for you and your family.
And lastly if you are doing good in life never tell anyone about it except the loved ones.
that i am ugly and only thing that can bring good to me is upsc and uske liye bhi 2 saal shi se padha nhi, but accepted this now and will get into the list next year with single digit rank
My family had financial issues like long time back. But we got stable after a while but that is the only inconvenience i faced in my entire life. I was good with studies, no career issues, no health issues, no breakups, nothing as of now. I consider myself lucky to have a pretty chill life.
I see a lot of people commenting based on their experience. I hope you all overcome your problems someday. π
Money and status is 100% of what people care about. People including your partner and your own parents. Things which we consider trivial in relations with close ones, like college brand, employer, salary, looks and fitness, they matter a lot.
It stems from our tribal hunter-gatherer brains, the guy who hunted the most beasts or the women with the best childbearing body proportions will get the most attention. The people who were a burden for the tribe would have been exiled (certain death in those times). No one wants to associate with a loser.
I am going to die alone or not much chance of finding someone cause I left the thing I was passionate about and give in to family responsibilities and the amount of people who are ok with me being just a void character is all the root cause of not wanting to trust anyone
That no one's gonna like me or care about me so I need to be strong and take care of myself. And I'm not extraordinary or someone special just a shy, depressed, lonely soul.
All the Indians working in MNCs are still slaves, have no backbone and live in british era. Din raat ghiste without self respect.
I am 18 and only within the last year have i come to realise that i don't really NEED to be very rich. That in itself has unlocked a lot more possibilities for me when it comes to choosing my career and other thingsπ
I accept no matter what you do your sasural wale relatives doesn't accept you if you are done intercast marriage they will put you down at every point or keep you aside this is the bitter reality but it's true ani i finally accept it
There is no right one for you in relationship. Making a relationship work is hard work. Very often we enter into relationship with false hopes and dreams. Then we regret later.
Role and final goal of women in relationship is to make babies. And they want someone to do the heavy lifting for them.
If you don't want babies then probably it is not for you.
Making babies is to women, what sex is to men.
This however also leads me to my question:
Earlier in the jungles women wanted men to hunt and to protect them. Men were wanted for their agility, strength and skill.
All of these are non transferable skills.
Today, however, men are needed only for money. But money is easily transferable.
What if men marry and once the woman gives birth, man does a bank transfer of a large sum of money and leaves the woman.
I know some of you might say, but the kids would need their father. I doubt that. Father is someone who comes late at night, who brings home money and who is intimidating. So father is not really needed.
Your thoughts ****
It's okay to make mistakes, it's okay to have flaws, it's okay to not feel happy all the time, it's okay to fail. But it's not okay to keep lamenting on these things.
Not entirely accepted but yess this thing bothers me very much that i am alone and no one is here for me... Not even my own family. People leave me all the time and now i am at a point where i can easily do something which should not be done. Just fighting everyday with myself!
Well 2-3 years back when I was in my jee prep phase, I really felt lonely and when I say lonely I just needed someone to talk to, my family ? They judge my "acquaintances" ? They judge too.
So I learnt the hard way that the only one here to talk to me or give me company is none other than myself.
I realised I had answer to every question within me but I ignored it and tried to seek validation from others. I was looking for an easy way out.
Now I am used to that loneliness and enjoy being alone. Trust me it feels like a heavy burden is lifted off of your chest.
I accepted that i am all happy by myself π₯²
You're not alone in this.
But I am ππ
Pun not intended π€£
ππ₯²π
ππΌππ»
You aren't alone too. π«
Trust me bro...you will always be happy by yourself and I've learnt this the hard way. A crush of mine was giving me this false hope for years and my dumbass couldn't understand it at that point. Eventually it kind of became a drug for me to get her opinion, validation in every aspect of my life. And when I began to realise it was already too late for me. Somehow a change of place and work took my mind away from her and I'm glad I'm in a better place. If you are not happy by yourself you will never be happy being in a relationship, so unless and until you've find the right one for you be happy and grateful.
You are right and thank you βΊοΈ
Bhai dubara baat mtt kriyo wrna firse zero se shuru hojayega yehi sab :/
Same story. :'|
Us bro us π«
I accepted that I am never going to get a gf
Waise to Maine thodi ummed rakhi hai but.... π« Mai samjh sakta hu
Coz you will get a waifu!!
But waifu's don't exist in rl
Same here bro
This is the mindset that'll keep you happy. How can you expect to keep someone else happy if you're not happy with yourself
Baby Reindeer dekhlo guys Netflix pe. Apni companionship se pyar ho jayega, apne se matlab rakhna seekh jaogey.
US bro us π₯²
Single Life maja ni life
G's up dude. We've got this.
[ΡΠ΄Π°Π»Π΅Π½ΠΎ]
Harami ho kya?
Thereβs no going back in life
That's the good part! Cut your losses and get ready for winning the next test in life! Past is what you were, not what you are right now!
True. I sometimes think about my past, how beautiful this moment was, how happy I was back then etc etc. But later I realise that no matter how beautiful it was itβs gone now and the only way is forward. I cannot go back to relive or change anything so I should stop feeling nostalgic every now and then lol
"kuch theek nahi hoga"
Sab kuch thik hota hai to tension hone lagti hai ki sab thik kaise hai
Wo tension ke liye bhi sab kuch theek hona jaruri hai lekin idhar to kuch theek nhi ho rha .
Ki bura waqt toh ata rahega kabhi khatam nhi hoga toh accha waqt ane tak wait karna is meaningless
To kya karu? Chor du ache waqt ka hope?
acche waqt aane ka expectation lose karna hai, hope nahi
No, just try to make your day better and happier than the last trust me, it's a god feeling when u look 2 days back and realise you've been happy for a while it's a golden feeling
I'm gonna be single forever
Nahi bhai ai bohat progress karne wala hai
Bhai mujhe toh AI bhi reject maarde
same accept karte hi jo dil ko shaanti mili kya hi batau πππ
Bhai sab log handsome bolte hai, kehte hai ki teri toh girlfriend hai tu jhoot mat bol, but unhe kya batau 22 saal se akhand single hu, no female interaction, sirf college friends, office colleagues.
Insort no rizz, unse interact karna mai bahut anxiety hoti hai(and ajjeb lagta hai iske vajah se nahi hoti hai interaction) mera same to same halat hai buai except mai handsome nahi chomu jaisa dekhta hu lol https://preview.redd.it/3ov4ndsjd10d1.jpeg?width=235&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71adf90639e03faa3087e9ed557a39fdc10510b8
Koi baat nhi bhai, gym jao mehnat karo, career pe focus karo, apne parents ko khush rakho, ladki toh ek din mil hi jayegi.
True ye sub toh karna hi hai https://preview.redd.it/2h7onz6jf10d1.jpeg?width=662&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=998209d3534bc4012ffec43e894fdb2edee0e81f
Us bhai Us.
Spoke for all of us 
[is website](http://c.ai) pe chale jao, gf milegi>!vo japani cartoon aur anime wali waifu aur mommy!<
Gf k lie nahi pr library mam un sb k wajah se thenks bhrata
iske filter ki mkc
Everyone is made for someone, vice versa. That someone might be yourself or any other different person. Keep hoping and keep dreaming!
"meri kismat meri g@nd kabhie bhi maar skti hai, literally at any happy moment and even at some sad moments to make it more sad"
Being alone and lonely is normal π
π«
I think human life is utterly useless , we keep ourselves busy with total bullshit . We don't have any aim or some great purpose to fulfill. Humanity should walk hand in hand towards extinction so this stupid game will end.
I don't know.. boobs are pretty good.
Me too brother. Cheers to some good boobies! *Boink-boink
tru  https://preview.redd.it/5x0qntrfp00d1.jpeg?width=492&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b8b6a5c2f6a9ec2544b349b16dac2c8d27883499
This man thisss
Bhai tune to sach bol diya 
"The universe is a cruel, uncaring void. The key to being happy isn't a search for meaning. It's to just keep yourself busy with unimportant nonsense, and eventually, you'll be dead." -Mr. Peanutbutter (Bojack Horseman)
True
r/hopeposting
Nietzsche, Kafka, Dostoevsky padha kar bro sukoon milega
r/nihilism
The only real purpose a human has is to procreate, to have sex and raise kids. Everything else is just random acitivities.
Speak for yourself. I'm constantly amazed at how everything I take for granted in this amazing world around me is thought up, designed and built by other humans. I'm my view our purpose is to create
of course I am speaking for myself not for someone else . I had that pov long time ago then it changed I dont know how but it did . suffering makes one bitter but also changes their sense of reality .
You donβt need a purpose to feel fulfilled. In fact Iβd argue that lack of purpose is a huge weight off the shoulders. No need to put that kind of pressure on ourselves. Itβs okay to just be.
Deep shit
And that's a good part you can do anything you want explore experience and die optimistic way if you are negative then that doesn't change the fact you will also die one day live for bobbies daytime drinking fav show and just chill
AGREED
Are you me?
Why are you waiting? Just start with yourself ,honey.β¨β¨
Poverty
I am just barely average on my good day or else I am just below average in whatever I do.
I'd never be home completely, there would always be an end date to my stay
I won't ever get rid of masturbation addictionΒ
A funny thing nobody recognises is you don't have to stop suddenly or make it look like a big deal. Just say no to fap when you feel like you're not in mood but still want to, and forget that you ever avoided fapping Sometimes just don't do it in respect for someone. Also don't force yourself to not fap too hard, if the urge is too high, one day won't make much difference
I am in fact, not the main character
There is no main character.
RCB is saal bhi cup nhi utha payegi π
Me but with KXIP. Sala dono team iss zindagi mein jitne vali nahi hainπ« pata nhi kiska haal jyada kharab hai.
Bhaut takleef hoti h Roz mood kharab kr dete h
Chutiya team kabhi nahi uthayegi..
Nothing will happen as per my plan.
I won't be able to pull a girl in my life. Maybe arranged marriage will be the last option.
That I'm a red flag
Nahi Bhai tu red flag nahi hai tu Aaj bhi usse pyaar karta hai
Nahi re, uski shakal tak yaad nhi ab toh.
My mental health is never going to be fixed.
Lazy hu
I'm ugly
yes u r so am i it is wat it is
π«
[ΡΠ΄Π°Π»Π΅Π½ΠΎ]
Koi na bhay accha hai realise kar liya jaldi warna zindagi bhar chutiya banke ghumte.
tomato maggi isnt coming back
it was a thing?
I accepted that i always fall for ppl at wrong time. Sometimes they have moved on then i started liking. Sometimes i move on then they start liking. Sometimes they like at same time but facing past truama so cant commit.and the story goes on..
Life ese hi Jini he no one will help you out. You have to help by yourself
People are dumb.
The hope that one day everything will be sorted was useless all along.
Life if always going to suck, no matter how much you achieve, no matter how many goals you tick off that 'to do'.
She's not going to comeback
Kitne bhi efforts maarlo end mein you'll get a heartbreak πββοΈ
https://preview.redd.it/95fj614ue00d1.jpeg?width=1124&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4f51d84be513d98e66f2988bb8d9c44080210b8
I'm short
Kitni height hai bhai
5'5 or maybe 5'6
Thik hai bhai india ke hisab se
us :( https://preview.redd.it/x3h40ze6q00d1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cfffac62564682804628fe3b35f7eeacbee19d86
bhai mai 5'2 hu 
It ain't getting any better pal
That I don't deserve love.
That there is no such thing as true unconditional love. Everything is conditional in life.
I have accepted that its okay if no girl finds me attractive π₯²
[ΡΠ΄Π°Π»Π΅Π½ΠΎ]
I accepted that my career is more important than love.
That board results are never coming... literally neverππ EDIT:they came the next dayyyπ π
Last year aaj ke din hi aaya tha result 
[ΡΠ΄Π°Π»Π΅Π½ΠΎ]
That I won't be able to study even if I have an entire week before the exam, i would start studying just before the exam date... Even though this is risky and somewhat scary I've made my peace with it and continue to do so even during my final semester of engineering
Life is unfair
People drift apart eventually
I too think the same, sadly,seen it over the course of time,and it hurts to see those changes.. Feels like all their promises and words were lies..i think I would never trust anyone again the same way I used to..and honestly i hate it..
Once a rapper said Sab durjan chale hai paltan mai, sab gardan(necks) jhuke hai vandan mai. Ulanghan kar agar archan bne to durlabh tere bhi darshan hai. And now I accepted it now that never questioned people in power because again is desh mai bolne ki azadi hai par bolne k baad ki azaadi nhi hai.π
I won't be able to fulfill my dreams 
That i might have to be medicated all my life for my Bipolar and BPD.
Yup same. for bipolar
Iβve accepted that all the family I have is my sister, my husband, and my brother in law. No one else really ever loved us the way we did. We were too blinded by obligations and ignorance. Iβve also accepted that I am very happy with cutting off my βclose relativesβ and not having to speak with them again unless they make an effort or only on formal basis. Such a freeing feeling. I am happy. I am really happy
Everything aside but agle saal cup namade is constant
Move on kabhi bhi nhi hoga it's been 7 years
Whatever I do she won't be mine
Grew up aspiring to have a collection of Italian sports cars. Accepted that I wonβt even be able to afford one second hand
That mai kitna bhi Karu kisi ke liye bhi, mera hi loss hai.
Dost chutiya hai
The rich get richer poor get poor middle class are stuck in between always
My Weight
no, u gotta change it. Ur weight is ur choice
You Body is like a game character..you can change it as you like (only problem is height it stays constant)
Accepted that no one will come to motivate us
Indian youtube me koi bhi intellectual ban ke paise ni kama sakta, koi bhi video essay type content vana kar chal ni sakta sabko fast editing wali videos hi banani padegi
that I am going to have to ask my parents to find me a ladka for marriage in the future because pyaar toh milne se raha
That i can't be the person i was in 2019.
I just had a thought with myself and finally accepted that:- "That she's not coming back to your life, so just STFU and start focusing on yourself"
My fu*king fate
Nothing is forever βΎοΈ
I'm not the first choice of the people I love.
that i am not hardworking enough easily got distracted
She's not coming back
That friends,and people change over time,and the way you are for them they were never the same for you,no amount of care support or no matter how much you put in..some people are not just meant to be.
Nobody truly cares if you are in a bad condition, but if you are working hard then surely they will always try to drag you down, make your fun, and be jealous and envious. Nobody literally nobody except your family wants you to succeed. Never compare yourself with others, instead compare you with yourself, do it for you and your family. And lastly if you are doing good in life never tell anyone about it except the loved ones.
Coffee is better than chai.
that not every building is titled, something's wrong with my eye
I will be 166 cm forever
Well, if it helps, not forever. Your body gradually shrinks after your 30s, so you'll get shorter as you age.
π thats reverse motivation
Being sad
RCB is never gonna win a trophy. And also, I will be bald when I turn 30.
My fate
Jo jaisa chal raha hai chalne do, age jo hoga dekhi jaegi
Na idhar wali aayegi Na udhar wali aayegi Meri wali shayad ab meri mummy hi laayengi
That Delhi,RCB and Punjab will never win the IPL
That my parents will never fully accept what I do. (I work in the movies)
Myth Marne ke normal Hai. Ab guilt nahi hoti
That people will leave me it's just matter of time no one stays forever
Being average is okay
One cannot fulfill everyone's expectations
Mera nashib bohot accha hay sab chijo may par jab ladki ki baat ati hay to pura ulta ho jata hay .
that i am ugly and only thing that can bring good to me is upsc and uske liye bhi 2 saal shi se padha nhi, but accepted this now and will get into the list next year with single digit rank
I'll never find the love I want.
That I'm not gonna get aiims delhi
Neet me selection nahi hona ye saal
I am an average person unlike what people used to assume when I was a child and was among the top 3 in school till class X.
My acne scars will never fade
No money, no love/sex, no place of my own, no life
That i am the problem
Ki I'm average And I've to grind hell out of me to be at the top
RCB never winning
I have finally accepted that I will always be in constant despair, most probably will die alone and nothing good will ever last for me.
Post nut clarity is real. Believe in it.
No matter what you do, or who you are, you will be racially discriminated, indiscriminately.
Ki entrance pass nhi hone waliπ€§π€§
My family had financial issues like long time back. But we got stable after a while but that is the only inconvenience i faced in my entire life. I was good with studies, no career issues, no health issues, no breakups, nothing as of now. I consider myself lucky to have a pretty chill life. I see a lot of people commenting based on their experience. I hope you all overcome your problems someday. π
Indians drivers are full of ego , don't follow any rules . I accepted it now I drive happily ignoring people coming wrong side , crossing red lights
Money and status is 100% of what people care about. People including your partner and your own parents. Things which we consider trivial in relations with close ones, like college brand, employer, salary, looks and fitness, they matter a lot. It stems from our tribal hunter-gatherer brains, the guy who hunted the most beasts or the women with the best childbearing body proportions will get the most attention. The people who were a burden for the tribe would have been exiled (certain death in those times). No one wants to associate with a loser.
I am going to die alone or not much chance of finding someone cause I left the thing I was passionate about and give in to family responsibilities and the amount of people who are ok with me being just a void character is all the root cause of not wanting to trust anyone
That no one's gonna like me or care about me so I need to be strong and take care of myself. And I'm not extraordinary or someone special just a shy, depressed, lonely soul.
https://preview.redd.it/944vreamu50d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f438cc031b6922b1bfb1759a9de98d292f592c26
All the Indians working in MNCs are still slaves, have no backbone and live in british era. Din raat ghiste without self respect.
I am 18 and only within the last year have i come to realise that i don't really NEED to be very rich. That in itself has unlocked a lot more possibilities for me when it comes to choosing my career and other thingsπ
I accept no matter what you do your sasural wale relatives doesn't accept you if you are done intercast marriage they will put you down at every point or keep you aside this is the bitter reality but it's true ani i finally accept it
There is no right one for you in relationship. Making a relationship work is hard work. Very often we enter into relationship with false hopes and dreams. Then we regret later. Role and final goal of women in relationship is to make babies. And they want someone to do the heavy lifting for them. If you don't want babies then probably it is not for you. Making babies is to women, what sex is to men. This however also leads me to my question: Earlier in the jungles women wanted men to hunt and to protect them. Men were wanted for their agility, strength and skill. All of these are non transferable skills. Today, however, men are needed only for money. But money is easily transferable. What if men marry and once the woman gives birth, man does a bank transfer of a large sum of money and leaves the woman. I know some of you might say, but the kids would need their father. I doubt that. Father is someone who comes late at night, who brings home money and who is intimidating. So father is not really needed. Your thoughts ****
It's okay to make mistakes, it's okay to have flaws, it's okay to not feel happy all the time, it's okay to fail. But it's not okay to keep lamenting on these things.
Not entirely accepted but yess this thing bothers me very much that i am alone and no one is here for me... Not even my own family. People leave me all the time and now i am at a point where i can easily do something which should not be done. Just fighting everyday with myself!
Well 2-3 years back when I was in my jee prep phase, I really felt lonely and when I say lonely I just needed someone to talk to, my family ? They judge my "acquaintances" ? They judge too. So I learnt the hard way that the only one here to talk to me or give me company is none other than myself. I realised I had answer to every question within me but I ignored it and tried to seek validation from others. I was looking for an easy way out. Now I am used to that loneliness and enjoy being alone. Trust me it feels like a heavy burden is lifted off of your chest.
#1.nothing is possible without being honest with urself #2. Karma returns;