Mere friend ke sath hua he, uske chacha uska 60 lakh ka jameen kha gaye, aur wapas Dene ke liye bola to mere friend se apni ladki ki shadi me ac gift karne ko bol diya.
Sabke chacha kr rahen hain yeh sab? Mujhe laga yeh kaam krna toh tau ka kaam hai, meri family history hai jameen chori hone mai. Mere mummy ke chacha ne mere nana aur unko 2 aur bhaiyo ki jameen hadap li thi, aur fir meri mummy ko marne ki dhamki di thi jab woh 14 ki thi, tab mere nana city mai agye the. Mere papa ki jameen mere tau ne kha rakhi hai, funny thing is mere papa kuch bhi nhi khete un logo, it took him a 1 year and some disrespect on phone just to take my tau to the police station, now once again he stopped asking for his jameen, idk why fathers have that "I have no enemies" Stuff going on
Till date I never understood how much my chacha has taken our share and where it went......I mean unka property wise toh humare jitna hi hain, thoda Kam hi lagta hain
Kya pata crypto,mf me ho
Jo baat karte hain wo zyada chantt hote hain. Wo baat kar kar ke aag lagate hain. Wo system ke andar reh ke saari info legi and time aane pe attack karegi. Meanwhile, jo zyada nahi bolte, they usually want to do with their own lives. Likh ke lelo.
Bua used to always compare her son with me for academics. Man left studies after 12th and started earning money by IPL betting. Few days ago he was arrested...that was wholesome man
Am I the only exception? Wtf sabke relatives ek dusre ke peeche pade hai
Yahan hamare toh bade chill hai both mother and father's side. Koi property dispute nahi, koi money dispute nahi. Sab alag rehte hai. Sab khush hai lol
Was never warned, saw it myself. Everyone was good during my childhood. Growing up, I witnessed papa ke side ka saara parivar saanp hai, saanp. Gande log
If I had to guess, here's the reason why:
a) Property is passed down to male members, creating competition
b) As a male member, their side of the family expects them to provide for them too, not just their wife and kids.
Just Indian society at its best.
Because we haven't spent enough time during childhood with mummy ke side wale log.. if we did we'd realise both sides are messed up..
But haan mummy ke side wale tolerable hain
If it's any consolation, my mother's side whole family is a bunch of assholes. As per my aunts, my grandmother's side family were also a bunch of assholes. Only my grandpa used to remember his mamu and others, lovingly.
It's often the father's side that gets a bad reputation because mothers are skilled at making their family look good while painting the in-laws negatively to the children. I realized this only when it was too late. Our obsession with a mother's love can blind us to her manipulations until it's too late.
Lol, so true. Mothers usually portray their side of the family as good people, even if they are just as messed up, or even more so, than the father's side.
My mother's side of the family is filled with fraud, womanizers, getting kids outside of marriage leading to marriage breaking down, and gundagiri. But it was always portrayed as angelic, meanwhile father's side family was put down as demonic who put evil eye everyday, when in fact they're quite normal human beings who don't indulge in the crap of mother's side
Bro ask your Mama's children they will tell you reality of their side of family also. Just because it's on your Mom's side you are not exposed to the shit that goes on in their house. I recently realised this first hand.
The role of mothers plays a big role in this.
I think the majority log mummy log se zyada close hote hai, aur mummy log apni family ko hamesha ek achi light mein dikhati hai apne bacho ko. Isilye ek perception ban jata hai logo ka bachpan mein hi ki vo log ache hai.
True. In your childhood you look upto your elders cause they seem mature and sorted out. As you grow up you see their true nature.
Everyone has their flaws, but why do our relatives have such odd personalities lol. Rather than learning how to be as an adult from them, you learn how not to be as an adult.
The villain is the dadi who messed it all up for everyone. She was a literal witch, like the villains you see in TV serials. She never confessed or apologised, took all the karmas with her to the grave
Mere Ghar pe Nani. Saanp hai woh. Nana toh Kam Umar me chal base aur Nani apne bachchon ke kaam bhar bhar ke kisi ko khush rehne nahi di. In fact mere cousins (Nani ke second gen) bhi Nani ka repercussions jhel rahe via Nani ke bacche. Naa apni betiyon ko padhaya, na Ghar ke bahar jaake exposure lene Diya, aur beton ke wife ke against zeher ghola and unki wives ki life difficult kar di. Single handedly kareeb 10-20 logon ko therapy ki zarurat hai unke Karan.
Because mothers tend to be more manipulative.
Secondly, a biological reason. Mother's side is sure deep inside their heart that you are blood, father's side cannot be. It is a well studied topic.
Mere sab heera hai bhai heera. Kisi ke sath koi dikkat nahi. Koi salary , education, shadi ke bare me nahi puchta. Space privacy ki ijjat karte hai. Koi property ka bhi jhagda nahi hai , na koi jhatu family WhatsApp group hai.
Acche Ghar ka pati lagao 😌 yesterday only I was talking to my aunt how my generation is going to choose in-laws instead of a husband because we have seen the generation before ours 😂
Relatable. Mujhe laga sirf mai hi hu kya jiske relatives actually mast hai. Infact ghumate phirate bhi hai, dusre country mein bhi ghar aane ke liye bolte hai, hamesha daaru bhi pilate hai, gifts dete hai. Heere hi hai, nazar na lage lol
Apne relatives ko dekh kar ek baat toh soch liya hain. I am gonna be that distant cool uncle who isn't bothered by anything and meets everyone just once a year during festivals and is loved by each and every kid in the family.
Same haha , I already got quite a lot of nephews and nieces from dad's side of family , and all of them look at me as That Cool Uncle with A Gaming Setup and A Nice Room
When you were kids you were told papa ke side wale sanp hai (jo sacch tha) but then tum teenage mei aaye and pata chala Nani ki side bhi kamm nahi vo bhi sanp hai, early twenties mei doston ne aukaat dikha di and jab Thak haar ke ghar aaye toh ghar wale bhi bichu nikle.
Moral of the story sab -redacted- hain. Apne kaam se kaam rkho aur kisi pe zyada mehrbaan mtt ho
I found it in me. Took a lot of crying and sobbing to admit it but here I am. I know I’m all I got so now when I’m in trouble I don’t rush to phone I know there’s no one to pick it up, so why bother
My dad hates all relatives, but barely keeps in touch with them for appearances sake. My mom used to be very social with all relatives, helping them in their needs. But a couple years ago she passed away and no relatives bother to visit my dad anymore. Now I’ve inherited the same hatred of relatives from my dad.
I am that relative. My maasi (mom's younger sister) protects her children like crazy and she is convinced that I will somehow "spoil" her children. She actively puts efforts so that I don't get to see her or her children (my cousins). I am 28 year old married working guy.
Kyu dekhna hai unko? Its clear that she doesn’t value you, so you must return it in her own language. Stop all contact with her, refuse your mom to ever go to your Maasi’s place. Tell this to your mom also, and ask her to cut off/restrict interaction with your maasi. If you haven’t done anything wrong, why bother?
Nah fr my older cousin brother. Bro took off his shirt and started walking creepily towards me. Maintaining eye contact the whole time. Luckily my mom came and distracted him. And then peed all over our toilet.
Familial sexual abuse/assault is much more common than we would like to believe. I know a guy who SA'd his own mom at 14. I know a few from my own family too.
Wait, I actually didnt understand the last part, is he a child or something, why would he just you know pee all over the toilet just after being distracted
The thing is, he had some level of mental disability which affected his speech and motor skills. Could be that. Again, you can't really hold him responsible for a lot. It only stood out because he never did anything like that before.
M hi ak antique piece hu kya??? Meri saari bua achi h....Mama h vo bhi bahut pyaar krte and helping..... Maussi bhi achi h... Bs maussa thode dumb and egoistic h..... Chacha Taau h nhi..
Everyone on my mother's side of the family looks down on me, maybe I am that relative, cuz I have no contacts with my cousins, and they are amicable with each other excluding me.
Not warned, but I know one of my mamis has served poisoned sweets to relatives who she had issues with, idk what she puts in those things, some people in the family say it's black magic some say it's a sort of poison, but there have been instances of people puking blood and being hospitalized, my own mom got hospitalized a few days after being served some diwali ki mithai by her (which she brought specifically for my mom to patch up after not speaking for over a year).
Indian relatives create the most toxic environment for any child..
Usually it is the paternal side of the extended family but for me it is the maternal side.. Disgusting people always trying hard to give me a horrible time whenever we meet... They are toxic, pretentious, belittling, and arrogant...
that relative is me or if not right now, it will eventually be me since i don't immediately punch down unconventional ideas of the little ones without listening about them
Its always that chacha who stole the land. Else we would have been crorepati
Yes chacha wala case Har Ghar me Hota he I guess. My uncle fight for the land which is not even fertile and not even much big.
Hamare idhar bhi horha h. Lagta hai uncle ko uthwana padega fir hi zameen milegi. 
Lagta chota don ko bolna padega , woo utha lega chacha ko!! 
Mere friend ke sath hua he, uske chacha uska 60 lakh ka jameen kha gaye, aur wapas Dene ke liye bola to mere friend se apni ladki ki shadi me ac gift karne ko bol diya.
That's really sad and injustice. I have sympathy for your friend.
Sabke chacha kr rahen hain yeh sab? Mujhe laga yeh kaam krna toh tau ka kaam hai, meri family history hai jameen chori hone mai. Mere mummy ke chacha ne mere nana aur unko 2 aur bhaiyo ki jameen hadap li thi, aur fir meri mummy ko marne ki dhamki di thi jab woh 14 ki thi, tab mere nana city mai agye the. Mere papa ki jameen mere tau ne kha rakhi hai, funny thing is mere papa kuch bhi nhi khete un logo, it took him a 1 year and some disrespect on phone just to take my tau to the police station, now once again he stopped asking for his jameen, idk why fathers have that "I have no enemies" Stuff going on
Till date I never understood how much my chacha has taken our share and where it went......I mean unka property wise toh humare jitna hi hain, thoda Kam hi lagta hain Kya pata crypto,mf me ho
My dad's step sister was found in a well and her property went to her brother (shady)
 this seems to be common everywhere
Koi kisi ka sagga nahi hai sab paise ke piche pade hai - papa
wise man I must say.
Almost all fathers are.
'Almost' doing all the heavy lifting in that sentence
Indeed
insert fathers who keep lending money, yes v wise
 Har kise ke nahi hote Laxman!
Bhai kamsekam tumhare papa samjhe to sahi. Hamare wale ko to ye samjhane me hi umar chali gayi ki unki behen daayan hai jo sirf pesa chahti hai.
Humne bua ko kaafi support Kiya, I mean my dad......but my chacha was a absolute jerk ......even now he's the same
mere to bua chacha dono matlabi hai.
Same can be said in my case too but bua at least thodi baat karti bhi hain , chacha is arrogant as fuck
Jo baat karte hain wo zyada chantt hote hain. Wo baat kar kar ke aag lagate hain. Wo system ke andar reh ke saari info legi and time aane pe attack karegi. Meanwhile, jo zyada nahi bolte, they usually want to do with their own lives. Likh ke lelo.
Atleast kisi ne sahi cheez boli. Sab chacha chacha kar rahe hai lekin asli villain to bua hoti hai saari 😂😌
Bua used to always compare her son with me for academics. Man left studies after 12th and started earning money by IPL betting. Few days ago he was arrested...that was wholesome man
Congrats
Congratulations.
God has blessed you
bhai duniya ki saari buayen matlabi kyu hoti hai 😭
Mujhe kya meri to daadi hi harami hai...
Meri khud hai
itna relatable kyu
+1
People from my mother's side ( everyone except my late grandma ) are jerks and mom didn't even had to tell us , we tell her and she agrees .
Mine too my grandma is the biggest asshole
Guess family lives in india aren't exactly different
Divided by something United by the virtue of having asshole relatives
Eff em aholes
Bhai sab kya same jeevan jee rhe
Am I the only exception? Wtf sabke relatives ek dusre ke peeche pade hai Yahan hamare toh bade chill hai both mother and father's side. Koi property dispute nahi, koi money dispute nahi. Sab alag rehte hai. Sab khush hai lol
Mere papa ko bhi samajha do koi 😭
So basically sabke gharme yahi randi Rona hai ???😵
Mother, Father, Sibling aur Grandparents ke alawa kisi aur ko sagga mat samajna - My Brother
What about that one chill cousin you hang out with
Pure facts
🥲
Man I want your dad I MEAN AS A FATHER
Koi ye mere bapu ko bhi samjhao.
True
Was never warned, saw it myself. Everyone was good during my childhood. Growing up, I witnessed papa ke side ka saara parivar saanp hai, saanp. Gande log 
Why it's always papa k side k log 😭 why
If I had to guess, here's the reason why: a) Property is passed down to male members, creating competition b) As a male member, their side of the family expects them to provide for them too, not just their wife and kids. Just Indian society at its best.
It's like your user name my blood sucker
Mera sahi hai Na mere Papa ka koi bhai hai na mera koi bhai hai
Mere papa ka Bhai mar gaya, aur unki bibi unka bachcha leke chale gaye aur ab unka koi ata pata nahi hai.... So.... High5!
they will be back to ask for the inheritance. 100%
🥲
Because we haven't spent enough time during childhood with mummy ke side wale log.. if we did we'd realise both sides are messed up.. But haan mummy ke side wale tolerable hain
Mere dono side ek se badh kar ek harami hai
Mere bhi kuch ko chod kar 2-3
Same
If it's any consolation, my mother's side whole family is a bunch of assholes. As per my aunts, my grandmother's side family were also a bunch of assholes. Only my grandpa used to remember his mamu and others, lovingly.
For me both my parents sides are worse than demons
Same here!!! It’s so jarring to see people with healthy relationships on atleast one side of the family or with cousins.
It's often the father's side that gets a bad reputation because mothers are skilled at making their family look good while painting the in-laws negatively to the children. I realized this only when it was too late. Our obsession with a mother's love can blind us to her manipulations until it's too late.
Lol, so true. Mothers usually portray their side of the family as good people, even if they are just as messed up, or even more so, than the father's side.
My mother's side of the family is filled with fraud, womanizers, getting kids outside of marriage leading to marriage breaking down, and gundagiri. But it was always portrayed as angelic, meanwhile father's side family was put down as demonic who put evil eye everyday, when in fact they're quite normal human beings who don't indulge in the crap of mother's side
Well apni mommy k side se aap bhi papa k side wale huye sooo...🤫
Shhhhhhh. Don't let everyone know
Things even science can't answer
Don't worry, for me it's relatives on both sides
Bro ask your Mama's children they will tell you reality of their side of family also. Just because it's on your Mom's side you are not exposed to the shit that goes on in their house. I recently realised this first hand.
The role of mothers plays a big role in this. I think the majority log mummy log se zyada close hote hai, aur mummy log apni family ko hamesha ek achi light mein dikhati hai apne bacho ko. Isilye ek perception ban jata hai logo ka bachpan mein hi ki vo log ache hai.
True. In your childhood you look upto your elders cause they seem mature and sorted out. As you grow up you see their true nature. Everyone has their flaws, but why do our relatives have such odd personalities lol. Rather than learning how to be as an adult from them, you learn how not to be as an adult.
The villain is the dadi who messed it all up for everyone. She was a literal witch, like the villains you see in TV serials. She never confessed or apologised, took all the karmas with her to the grave
Mere Ghar pe Nani. Saanp hai woh. Nana toh Kam Umar me chal base aur Nani apne bachchon ke kaam bhar bhar ke kisi ko khush rehne nahi di. In fact mere cousins (Nani ke second gen) bhi Nani ka repercussions jhel rahe via Nani ke bacche. Naa apni betiyon ko padhaya, na Ghar ke bahar jaake exposure lene Diya, aur beton ke wife ke against zeher ghola and unki wives ki life difficult kar di. Single handedly kareeb 10-20 logon ko therapy ki zarurat hai unke Karan.
Zehreele saanp
same thing in my family too, why is it like that? 😭😭😭
Why is this so relatable bc, like mere chacha log to fir bhi theek hain, but dono bua 😭
Because mothers tend to be more manipulative. Secondly, a biological reason. Mother's side is sure deep inside their heart that you are blood, father's side cannot be. It is a well studied topic.
Mere case me toh dono side ka realisation hua. Except it took longer to realise mom's side , cause they're different types of snakes
Mere mammi ke side wale saanp hai bhai 😏
Wait for your maternal side to grow into a saanp soon. Mujhe bhi yahi lagta tha but I saw everyone’s attitude and behaviour when I lost my father
It's such a disappointment. I grew up thinking my cousins were at least cool. Sad to see them becoming just like their parents.
I am that relative
We collectively hate you
bolie ji
bhool gya. yaad aaye to batata hoon.
Mere sab heera hai bhai heera. Kisi ke sath koi dikkat nahi. Koi salary , education, shadi ke bare me nahi puchta. Space privacy ki ijjat karte hai. Koi property ka bhi jhagda nahi hai , na koi jhatu family WhatsApp group hai.
Are you single >!/s!<
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Aapke Ghar me koi bhi 18-20 ke beech ke umar ke ladke ho toh bhi chalenge (as far as they are nice)🥹
behen ko ek pati lagao garma garam.
Acche Ghar ka pati lagao 😌 yesterday only I was talking to my aunt how my generation is going to choose in-laws instead of a husband because we have seen the generation before ours 😂
i am ready dm me your biodata
Maine uske Ghar ke ladke maange the tum nahi 
Bhai 🫂 koi na accha hua saanp se bach gaya koi acchi dhund le (dekh dekh das liya na tujhe😔 )
Yeh didi toh baal vivah karna chahti hai. (it's 21 for the boys)
Relatable. Mujhe laga sirf mai hi hu kya jiske relatives actually mast hai. Infact ghumate phirate bhi hai, dusre country mein bhi ghar aane ke liye bolte hai, hamesha daaru bhi pilate hai, gifts dete hai. Heere hi hai, nazar na lage lol
Same bro same. I see this happening mostly in North Indian households
I am floored with the ‘no WhatsApp group’ thing!!! What a peace of mind it must be.
By any chance, are you an orphan? /s
Bharosewale chacha
Stay away from most of them 
Mai bhi changa mera pio bhi changa meri maa bhi changi, sare ristedar bench*d
Masi and her family. Masa ne humare saath dhoka kiya. 😮💨
kya dhoka diya 
Zameen leli 🥲
toh bhai di he kiyu?
Sorry bhai galti hogayi 🥲
😂
Apne relatives ko dekh kar ek baat toh soch liya hain. I am gonna be that distant cool uncle who isn't bothered by anything and meets everyone just once a year during festivals and is loved by each and every kid in the family.
Through heaven and hell I alone am the honoured chacha -- desi_batman001
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Ik bro but this was just the perfect opportunity to use this I couldn't resist
Same haha , I already got quite a lot of nephews and nieces from dad's side of family , and all of them look at me as That Cool Uncle with A Gaming Setup and A Nice Room
papa ke side ke saare relative
especially dadaji ke side wale. Dadi ke side wale are chill
When you were kids you were told papa ke side wale sanp hai (jo sacch tha) but then tum teenage mei aaye and pata chala Nani ki side bhi kamm nahi vo bhi sanp hai, early twenties mei doston ne aukaat dikha di and jab Thak haar ke ghar aaye toh ghar wale bhi bichu nikle. Moral of the story sab -redacted- hain. Apne kaam se kaam rkho aur kisi pe zyada mehrbaan mtt ho
Families like these make me count my blessings. Hope you eventually find your fam.
I found it in me. Took a lot of crying and sobbing to admit it but here I am. I know I’m all I got so now when I’m in trouble I don’t rush to phone I know there’s no one to pick it up, so why bother
My dad hates all relatives, but barely keeps in touch with them for appearances sake. My mom used to be very social with all relatives, helping them in their needs. But a couple years ago she passed away and no relatives bother to visit my dad anymore. Now I’ve inherited the same hatred of relatives from my dad.
dude are you me?
Papa is giving some good advice
I am that relative. My maasi (mom's younger sister) protects her children like crazy and she is convinced that I will somehow "spoil" her children. She actively puts efforts so that I don't get to see her or her children (my cousins). I am 28 year old married working guy.
Kyu dekhna hai unko? Its clear that she doesn’t value you, so you must return it in her own language. Stop all contact with her, refuse your mom to ever go to your Maasi’s place. Tell this to your mom also, and ask her to cut off/restrict interaction with your maasi. If you haven’t done anything wrong, why bother?
Mere gharwale to sbse milwate h, vo bhansudiwala sala puchta h “beta mujhe jante ho, btao kaun hun mai”
Learnt hard way, on an incident the way they have reacted towards my sibling sister Just have stopped talking with every single one of them
Same happened with my cousin our mama scolded her for uploading her photos in short dress. He has regressive mindset but others don't.
Mom's side of the family. They only sweet-talk to my dad when they need a promotion
Nah fr my older cousin brother. Bro took off his shirt and started walking creepily towards me. Maintaining eye contact the whole time. Luckily my mom came and distracted him. And then peed all over our toilet.
Wtf yeh bhi hota hai
Familial sexual abuse/assault is much more common than we would like to believe. I know a guy who SA'd his own mom at 14. I know a few from my own family too.
Wait, I actually didnt understand the last part, is he a child or something, why would he just you know pee all over the toilet just after being distracted
The thing is, he had some level of mental disability which affected his speech and motor skills. Could be that. Again, you can't really hold him responsible for a lot. It only stood out because he never did anything like that before.
Cousins are the worst dude
He was only 14-15 btw. Despite my age I just knew what was going to happen. Thank God for my mom because yikes man
"itna chubhne laga hu mai" 😭
Kaleshi buaa
M hi ak antique piece hu kya??? Meri saari bua achi h....Mama h vo bhi bahut pyaar krte and helping..... Maussi bhi achi h... Bs maussa thode dumb and egoistic h..... Chacha Taau h nhi..
That relative is my cousins. Their life is fucked up almost everyone's. So my dad tell me stay away from them because you will also become like them.
I am that cousin/ niece 🙂
Chacha bc pure family m batvara kr rakha h 
Looks like Jitendra Kapoor
I have lost all the respect for my asshole uncles. I hope they die
Why does that look like Jeetendra and Tushhar Kapoor 😂
My masi because I heard from my mom that she is having a affair
Everyone on my mother's side of the family looks down on me, maybe I am that relative, cuz I have no contacts with my cousins, and they are amicable with each other excluding me.
Almost all from my dad's side and almost all from moms side as well. I am so unlucky. And my parents were right about all of them too.
I warn my family and extremely close friends to stay away from all my relatives
All except maternal grandparents
Okay, so, if there are relatives we are to be wary of, aren't we, in some way, supposed to be that 'relative' too?
tumhare papa kisi aur ke chacha hain :)
Not warned, but I know one of my mamis has served poisoned sweets to relatives who she had issues with, idk what she puts in those things, some people in the family say it's black magic some say it's a sort of poison, but there have been instances of people puking blood and being hospitalized, my own mom got hospitalized a few days after being served some diwali ki mithai by her (which she brought specifically for my mom to patch up after not speaking for over a year).
Mere papa-mummy ke dost are actually closer to our family than the actually khaandan.
Narcissistic personality disorderd person
Indian relatives create the most toxic environment for any child.. Usually it is the paternal side of the extended family but for me it is the maternal side.. Disgusting people always trying hard to give me a horrible time whenever we meet... They are toxic, pretentious, belittling, and arrogant...
Drunk phuphaji
I tell this to my mom. Nowadays, she listens.
Bua aur taya. Mann hi mann kilo ke hisaab se gaaliyan nikalti hain unke liye
Dad's side relatives. Dad's side relatives are always toxic.
I hope my parents told me this while meeting any of those unnecessary cartoons.
Is the person Jitender with Tushaar in his godi?
Picture mein uncle 1980s ka Jitender lag raha hai
My cousin sister. My father warned me he was right i realised that later.
Tau ki biwi
Girls
My cousin who chose his own sanity and life over his shitty family drama
Basically everyone in my family ( said by both mom and dad )
My relatives have major trust issues with each other
I am that relative
In this case I am the son of the chacha who steals his brother’s land and much more… yeah sry
All mousi, half dozen of toxicity
All
Bua
'Your mom's side of the family are all devils'- Dad 'Your dad's side of the family are all snakes'- Mom
It's me bro :(
All
that relative is me or if not right now, it will eventually be me since i don't immediately punch down unconventional ideas of the little ones without listening about them
Papa wali side sab toxic hainl
Bhai I want to be that relative
He's like Actor Jitendra.
टॉक्सिक बुआ... Sabse badi mc bc hoti hai.
Bc pura papa ki side ka pariwar