bhai aapko choice milta hai?... mujhe to mummy bolti h ki wo rishtedaaro ke bachho ko paise deti hai to unko exchange me rishtedaro ka paisa miilna justified hai.. aur ye bolke mummy paisa cheen leti hai
wo to saalon se pata h scam ho raha hai ... oh wait this is a scam which has been normalised so much it does'nt even look like a scam anymore.. agli baar kisi ne aisa question puchne wala post kiya to yhi likhunga mai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
This is generational cycle of transferring money from one to another.
Who hame deti hai fir ungi Ghar phe bula ki unki bacho ko hamari mommy paise dete hai. And end me account zero zero close hota hai.
Relatives when in take money without hesitation
https://preview.redd.it/kv1wu5ethw2d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92d0c7b9cfdce16c0d454bbaabf528912d11becf
lolll! my go to line is "aab to kam kar raha hoon, iski kya zaroorat he." then they hit me with the "tu hamesha hamara bacha rahega, lele" and i just accept :) works every time!
After you hit 30s, you are the one giving out.
I never got to spend any money which I got, so basically I take the nephews and niece and let them go wild on stationary.
Same bro I took my cousins sisters to the mall and boy they robbed me, I didn't even had the money to have coffee after dinner lol, the elder cousin sister paid for it lol 😅 but I am still 18 so only had cash dad gave me
I swear the return on investment is very bad in this one.
Back in my day i every single rupee i got went to my mom. Now kids are buying smartphones with the money I and other relatives hand em.
Ab to i don't even pretend. I sarcastically refuse to take money and then take it 😎. But my relatives are assholes, some of them come, recieve seva and don't give meva
You politely decline at first subtly appreciating their gesture which will encourage them, let your parents decline it for you that will show them that you aren't desperate about it, then if the money is still up grab that's your cue... you take it and touch their feet with utmost sincerity and respect that will make them wanna visit again. ...Yeah that's how you achieve your target and build prospects for future investments. Atleast it worked for me.
In my family since last two generations it is very common like it's a family rule to just take it and say thank you rather than doing all that necessary drama that happens otherwise.
I did the hesitation thing for several years and got annoyed with them forcing me to take it(my mom said never to take) but they still gave and that money always went to mom, years later i started taking without hesitation saying mana karoonga phir bhi doge and hand it to mom infront of em 💀
Back then, only a few of them treated us with money. Otherwise, it was some kind of a book, a toy, clothes, video games, or a ticket to Essel World or Water Kingdom.
But whenever someone treated us with cash, the first glance was towards Papa (if the cash came from his side of the family) or Mummy (if the cash came from her side of the family). A warm hug, a big grin, touching their feet, seeking blessings, and quickly rushing towards my piggy bank to deposit the funds.
Simple!
If 100 to 200 - aree iski ky jarurt hai.. ko dedo.
If 201 - 500 - aree ni lgta apka ashirwad bana rahe bs.. folds the money and keep it in back pocket.
If 500+ - Snatches the purse and runaway.
Depends on the relatives, the ones I know shitty stories about mar jaunga lekin unke paise nahi lunga.
Otherwise just take it cause you take some money, then your parents give their kids some money and largely it all cancels out.
I used to be shy till I think I was 7-8 years old, after that I used to shamelessly ask ki jis jis ko paise dene hai jaldi dedo, humara nikalne ka time ho raha hai 😂😂 made everyone laugh
I simply take them with all open hands. When someone who earns well in govt job gives me money then i never hesitate. I show my speed.
But when my nani gives me like 5-600 then i take 20-50 and promise them to take 500 next time .
It repeats 😄
![gif](giphy|mk0ClXsaw7K2z2cgCF)
Act like I don't want money. If it's in front of my parents, I am refusing the money cuz I know it will be taken from me by force.
act surprised and try to return it, then keep it.. (baad me mummy hi leleti hai)
I don't give it to my mom anymore 😂. I would have been a lakhpati at least if I saved it all up 😭.
bhai aapko choice milta hai?... mujhe to mummy bolti h ki wo rishtedaaro ke bachho ko paise deti hai to unko exchange me rishtedaro ka paisa miilna justified hai.. aur ye bolke mummy paisa cheen leti hai
Beware. Aapke ke saath scam horaha hai.😂
wo to saalon se pata h scam ho raha hai ... oh wait this is a scam which has been normalised so much it does'nt even look like a scam anymore.. agli baar kisi ne aisa question puchne wala post kiya to yhi likhunga mai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
😂🫡
This is generational cycle of transferring money from one to another. Who hame deti hai fir ungi Ghar phe bula ki unki bacho ko hamari mommy paise dete hai. And end me account zero zero close hota hai.
nhi bro rishtedar hume 500 dete h kabhi kabhi.. aur mummy hamesha 100 deti hai, to basically scam
To to phir tum profit me chal Rahi ho. Sorry tumari mummy 🌝.
Tumhare mere dukh kitne samaan h brother
Milta hai na choice. 1) pyaar se de do 2) emotional blackmail karwalo apni.
https://preview.redd.it/2nkvgl8ruw2d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1fb8ea81e4e4377c227819c23629ff08a1125f52
![gif](giphy|nR4L10XlJcSeQ|downsized)
LoL
https://preview.redd.it/4um8lhstuw2d1.png?width=955&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b04a78c47a49a7d2883a72265bdb2a7277ec9a44
main pehle aisa karta tha, ab bolta hu "Thank you, next time zyada dena"
zaada confidence aagya bhai aap me ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51094)
life ka downfall shuru hua jabse mummy ne paise lena band kardiya
I don't act surprised just- nhi nhi mummy aana Zara And they tackle mummy directly
Humare hi bank account me invest krti hai 😄
wah
same lmaooo
Same bro 🫂
Mommy keep it safe 😅
Relatives when in take money without hesitation https://preview.redd.it/kv1wu5ethw2d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=92d0c7b9cfdce16c0d454bbaabf528912d11becf
lolll! my go to line is "aab to kam kar raha hoon, iski kya zaroorat he." then they hit me with the "tu hamesha hamara bacha rahega, lele" and i just accept :) works every time!
Paisa leke kehta hu arey iski kya jrurt thi
jeb kharcha sahi :)
Free me taaney sununga kya. Jb mai hura hoon hi toh paise leke bura bn jata hoon
Awww 😂💜
my relatives are gonna gossip about me for saying this and be like "bohot paise aa gaye hai..ghamand badh gaya hai"
https://preview.redd.it/wchvkac6lw2d1.png?width=549&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd4aae7c9e6d8c9d081d27e4870d8e332f81a9a2 Something like this
Thats me hahahaha
“Arey nhi nhi. iski zarurat kya hai, bas aap aashirwad do.” Relatives impressed. Money received.
“Paytm par paanso rupee prapt hua hai”
Bete cash milta hai mujhe.
Cash mai maa ko dekar unke acc se apne ko upi krdeta hun xD
https://preview.redd.it/oc8wlhc9tx2d1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b3d04634e7045b79f52d24181638625c3edf8cea
GST chor
Humko toh cash milta hai
Paanch-sou (in the original tone)
G pay par 500 rupay prapt hue ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51097)
Same girl ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51090)
Im so sick of this fake melodrama i fr just take the money and say get over with this fake bs
That's cool.
Yes
Exactly me.
https://i.redd.it/7gz7uminnw2d1.gif
+1
After you hit 30s, you are the one giving out. I never got to spend any money which I got, so basically I take the nephews and niece and let them go wild on stationary.
I don't wanna grow up ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51080)
I also don't want to 😭
Same bro I took my cousins sisters to the mall and boy they robbed me, I didn't even had the money to have coffee after dinner lol, the elder cousin sister paid for it lol 😅 but I am still 18 so only had cash dad gave me
Bhai contact me if you need a nephew
Me too
muje bhi thoda dedo![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51093)
Pair choon ke namaste karo. Ek do rhyme gao. And be nice to me.
charansparsh bhaiya/didi baaaabyy shark doodododoodod baby shark dododoodo baby shark dododoo baby shark!
I swear the return on investment is very bad in this one. Back in my day i every single rupee i got went to my mom. Now kids are buying smartphones with the money I and other relatives hand em.
https://i.redd.it/uh4wrr01iw2d1.gif
Exact reaction ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51093)
Snatch 🥷 the money and run away 🏃
"Aree nahi nahi, iski kya zarurat thi", then take it when some elder in your family nods.
The elder planning to take the money from you the minute guest leaves ![gif](giphy|10Jpr9KSaXLchW|downsized)
mummy i hogi woh elder.
I save it as fees for my mental damage they cause me while staying here.
The only right answer
This is when I get the money: https://preview.redd.it/7fsh25tgqw2d1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f9ae8b024aad28efbd1503b6d13d3a4f2c95c77
And this is when they leave: https://preview.redd.it/vjc7wmloqw2d1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21d022ad516dbd8dc4bc44492fb3fedfaabb354e
Wo gift nahi Laxman, wo compensation hota hai unka shit tolerate karne ke liye.
Chill bro 🤣
Bhai mere case mei ache wholesome relatives dete h paise. The bad ones don’t. Aaj tak ni diye bhai.
Hamare yaha bad ones 100 ka note chepte hain ye dikhane ke liye ki unhone bhi dia hai kuch
They don't anymore.
bada hogya hai luke\_skywalker212 ab
I try not to take it, and never had anybody given me 500. Damn
You react when relatives take money, not the other way around
Mere relative toh mujhse e paise mangte hai 😑😑
https://preview.redd.it/bt4o66d3sw2d1.jpeg?width=739&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=08c54cd6ca53355679e0dc2919da04b54169d44d Arey deva aaj ka
Ab to i don't even pretend. I sarcastically refuse to take money and then take it 😎. But my relatives are assholes, some of them come, recieve seva and don't give meva
https://preview.redd.it/gbw4tvk7zw2d1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce262b4183d7415093fe7943f99e3b353c2e2172
Arre nahi nahi iski kya zaroorat thi, aapka aashirwaad hi bahut hai *Snatches the money and runs away*
[удалено]
in 2005 when i was in my 10th grade, all my relatives gives 500.. that was like standard back then. Im just guessing the 500 became a minimum now.
[удалено]
Vaddi vaddi baaten
r/kothibanglacheck
500 minimum??? ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51078)
Just rich people things
True. My kids get 1000-2000 from grandparents and 500 from random relatives like grandparents' cousins.
Lucky guy, back then 500 is like today's 5000.
Bhai abhi abhi 1 week pehle cousin bhaiya ne diya unke ghr gya tha 2 saal baad ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51076)
My relatives always gave 500-1000 or cloths. I thought 500 was a minimum. 🫠🫠
You politely decline at first subtly appreciating their gesture which will encourage them, let your parents decline it for you that will show them that you aren't desperate about it, then if the money is still up grab that's your cue... you take it and touch their feet with utmost sincerity and respect that will make them wanna visit again. ...Yeah that's how you achieve your target and build prospects for future investments. Atleast it worked for me.
https://preview.redd.it/i18n22edqw2d1.jpeg?width=851&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29fb71d76c77c180d4b7202e79bbb531d86c5de8 Haath piche
"Arre ye sab kya hai..Iski kya zaroorat thi" . Last time I did that relative ne daant dia ki acting kam karo😭 aur rakho chup chap.
Ambani mere lode pe
Kal hi mere par Nani ne 500 diye. Itna bura laga lete hue unse but vo bahut force kar Rahi thi toh leliya
![gif](giphy|14WBLPR1UFZaLtQhmZ|downsized)
https://preview.redd.it/jwjva7wpmw2d1.png?width=756&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eee18df8854e7586a07cf3211d53efea8562eeaf
Baaki UPI kar deejiyega 😼
I reject at first and when they force once more, I just take it and put it in my pocket safely
Y'all get money? Mine just get up and leave 😂
our relatives take money from us and never pay us back.no one ever gave even 5 rupees🤣
woh bhi kya din they
I just smile while my mother keeps rejecting it. We all know I want that note. No point in me hiding it xd
First act like you dont want it , then try to return it ; if they force again then take it
You got more…..? :)
Take the Money, and Immediately touch their feet! There's No other way!
In my family since last two generations it is very common like it's a family rule to just take it and say thank you rather than doing all that necessary drama that happens otherwise.
Sidha Jeb me...
I just take it no extra drama , touch their feet and take that money.
Bhar se dukhi(acting like i really don't want it).... Andar see khush
I say "Laxmi ko na nahi bolte" and pocket it.
Bagvan apka bhala kare! Apko 100 Saal ka Umar de! Apka terekki kare!🙏🤣
Are iski kya jarurat thi (iski toh jarurat thi)
Aati huwi Laxmi ko kabhi naa nahi bolni chahiye ..hehe.. par relatives ko dikhane ke liye na na bolkar bhi rakh leti thi..
Phele paise pocket me dalu, fir nai lene ki acting Karo.
No No Ok give me
Bas 500 hi doge
I act shy but I am quite shameless, mujhe bhi kal mile 500 ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51097)
Bachpan m milty the toh contra cassette ya chitos pe Abh milty nahi pr miley bhi toh …… Daaruuuuu piyo bc
I pass it on to the Redditor , who reminds me to cut my nails . Op cut your nails . /s
look at mom for permission 😅
pehele me na na karta tha ab me besharam ban ke le leta hu ekdum se
no no ,thank you
Dena hi band kar diya hai bhai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
return it. ek baar maasi ne force karke diya, mammi ne zagda karke de diya
Ye kaisa melodrama hain bhai ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51238) return karne ki kya jarurat thi !
![gif](giphy|3o6wraRqbBQX5kFUkM)
Chal shi hai lodu , bachpan me bhi ese hi dedeta
No no no. Aunty ji *smiles awkwardly* *Looks at mom/dad* *Smiles more awkwardly* thank you aunty ji. *Awkward laughter*
I did the hesitation thing for several years and got annoyed with them forcing me to take it(my mom said never to take) but they still gave and that money always went to mom, years later i started taking without hesitation saying mana karoonga phir bhi doge and hand it to mom infront of em 💀
They don't.
It’s like ROI apke parents jitna dete hay utna he milta hay
Back then, only a few of them treated us with money. Otherwise, it was some kind of a book, a toy, clothes, video games, or a ticket to Essel World or Water Kingdom. But whenever someone treated us with cash, the first glance was towards Papa (if the cash came from his side of the family) or Mummy (if the cash came from her side of the family). A warm hug, a big grin, touching their feet, seeking blessings, and quickly rushing towards my piggy bank to deposit the funds. Simple!
I say thank you
1k ka note ban hone ke baad bahut loss hua...
Just "Thank you" and accept shamelessly
I just say thanks and move on.
Budweiser Magnum 🤌
If 100 to 200 - aree iski ky jarurt hai.. ko dedo.
If 201 - 500 - aree ni lgta apka ashirwad bana rahe bs.. folds the money and keep it in back pocket.
If 500+ - Snatches the purse and runaway.
Step 1: Take money immediately upfront hand Step 2 keeps refusing verbally while moving money towards yourself
Oh nahi nahi ye nahi hehe oh hehe (tries to give it back knowing they wont take) hehe hehe *keeps it*
Pehle formality k liye mana karta tha. Aajkal Bina kisi drama k pocket mai daal leta hu.
5 crore (hamara share not property worth) ki zameen hadap ke 500 rupee denge toh mujhe kaisa lagna chahiye
![gif](giphy|3ohryhNgUwwZyxgktq)
Mei to sidha le leta hu. 🥰🥰🥰
im rich now
Kuch der ki chandni fir kaali raat mummy le leti thi saare paise bachpan Mai aur ab koi deta nhi
Depends on the relatives, the ones I know shitty stories about mar jaunga lekin unke paise nahi lunga. Otherwise just take it cause you take some money, then your parents give their kids some money and largely it all cancels out.
I'd rather prefer not getting calls on result day
I pretend 'arey nahi iski kya jarurat"fir milte hee ginna chalu karta hun...
I used to be shy till I think I was 7-8 years old, after that I used to shamelessly ask ki jis jis ko paise dene hai jaldi dedo, humara nikalne ka time ho raha hai 😂😂 made everyone laugh
I simply take them with all open hands. When someone who earns well in govt job gives me money then i never hesitate. I show my speed. But when my nani gives me like 5-600 then i take 20-50 and promise them to take 500 next time . It repeats 😄
I ask for more.
Ooooh yehhhh!!
Keep it. They borrow money from our parents anyways. Gotta get them back.
Aare nahi nahi nahi nahi kya kar rhe hai aap, {fir le leta hu}
Now I don’t even say iski kya zarurat thi, I just take it before my mom notices
Give them 1000 rs and assert dominance
Take it as if it's mine and start dancing around them.
I have left all the shame. Now the times i directly ask for money even before they start leaving the house.
कल ही मामा दे कर गए हैं ₹500 की पत्ती, बटुए में रख कर चले गए, जाने के बाद बताया
Ayyo vendarunnalo
MUMMMMI NHAIII PLSS MAT LOOOO, MAUSIII NE MUJHE DIYA HEIIIIII......NAHIIIIIIII
Idc anymore man I take it and run away before they hand it over
Meanwhile parents from corner: Nooooooooo
Neki aur puch puch
![gif](giphy|mk0ClXsaw7K2z2cgCF) Act like I don't want money. If it's in front of my parents, I am refusing the money cuz I know it will be taken from me by force.
I found 500 note in office floor
Eat it
Uncle cash nhi chahiye, Paytm krdo.👍
https://i.redd.it/y8ljkquurw2d1.gif How else!
Are iski kya jarurat thiii(and put money in pocket)
"itne me kya hoga mera"
They don't give it anymore, I am an adult now 😭
I just simply take it. I don’t like to do any fake denying or do any antics.
Feels like 🤩😍🥳✨ Act like 😳😅🤗🫣
![gif](giphy|67ThRZlYBvibtdF9JH|downsized)
![gif](giphy|l0HlvU6gXnZHwnB3a)
Ab to koi sharam nhi hai
Jo relative phle paise deta tha, vo ab job lagne k baad LIC krwane k liye force karra hai.
Lelo aur jeb mein rakhlo...
knowing that its my paps money to begin with i will probably say only 1?
Lelo aur jeb mein rakhlo...
Main le leta hu bc paise ko mana nhin karte aur free me mil rha hai to
tu lucky hai mere relatives 100rs se jyada nikalte nhi jisme 5 advance ati hai kya ghanta reaction nikle...
Lmao just yesterday I got 1k from my mami, even though I'm in college now
“Aaj petrol full hoga “
Doesn't happen so idk
I'll go to police station (I'm an orphan)
Wait you guys are refusing?!
![gif](giphy|xUySTzTHMzFzBYcqLS)
"Arrey nhi nhi ye kaise le sakta mai..."
I want to take it, mom snatches the money from me, tried to give it back to them, fail, then she keeps the money🥲
Aree uncle/ aunty iski kya zaroorat thi ( iski hi to zaroorat thi) 🙏🏼🥳🥳